Darakaraka (DK) is your Spouse in Astrology
This Video is the second part to the Jupiter is your Man and Venus is your Woman videos and I recommend that you watch those videos first. In this video I talk about how to examine the DK planet, which is a planet that represents your spouse or partner. This is a precise and complete instructional video that will allow you to make interpretations on your horoscope about your spouse or partner.
If you've already studied the critical planet that represents your spouse, which, if you're a woman, Jupiter is going to represent your man and if you're a man, Venus is going to represent your wife or woman. And that's the same for everybody - every man has Venus as a wife and every woman has Jupiter as a husband or man in her life. It's a gender-dependent thing because we have gender, but also, as people, we're all very individual.
So one person hopes for and seeks for and falls in love with a different quality in another person. Sure, all women fall in love with the quality of Jupiter in their husbands and all men fall in love with the quality of Venus that they search for in a wife. But there's an individual thing that each person wants that's not gender-dependent; it depends on what they're seeking in a spouse and what experience their soul wants to experience with them.
In this video, we'll explore the concept of darakaraka - the planet that represents the husband or wife (or producer) in your chart. We'll delve into how darakaraka complements Venus/Jupiter based on gender roles while considering individual preferences when it comes to finding qualities within our partners. Join us as we uncover fascinating insights about astrology and relationships!
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Did you use my chart calculator? YOu need to do that and see all the exact aspects in the rasi chart as I mention in the video. Do not look for these aspects in the D9, and don't forget to check your Mercury's sign in the D7 as well.
Please check the link above the chart calculator for explanation. I will also be posting youtubes on that as well.
I use tropical signs with sidereal nakshatras as per indications in the pre 600AD texts from India. TO learn more about that, visit the link above the chart calculator. I will be doing a series of youtube vids soon to explain all those things.
if i am a woman with jupiter in pisces w ketu (not too close but still same sign) and my DK (virgo sun) exactly conjunct rahu, is this signifying an extremely fated partner outside of my control?
@hi-nq5mm
3 жыл бұрын
maren 😍
If you follow the link above the chart calculator you can listen to a free class that explains all that. USE my chart calculator if you want to see this accurately. I will be explaining all that in future youtube videos as well.
Great video Ernst. I can see how this applies to every are of life indicated by the karakas and not just relationship.
I arrived 7 years late here but I dont care...Im so happy!
Hearing someone speak about biology and gender dependent being is sooooo refreshing. Thank you 🤲🏾.
Aspects and conjunctions are completely different things. Saturn will help the friends he aspects, but not those he joins, so Saturn aspecting venus helps venus, but Saturn conjunct venus hurts him.
@akbarlakhani6624
3 жыл бұрын
hey Ernst lets say if moon darakaraka is conjunct with sun but moon is also a vargottama darakaraka , its in the same sign in both d1 and d9 chart which is moon in cancer . Now vargottama darakaraka is known for being powerful enough to cancel out any negetive effects , so will sun's ngetive effect be cancelled through a position like this.
Great advise to overcome bad influences, reminding us we always have choice, even if they are hard choices, we always have choices.
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
Please follow the principles in the video and check the placement of the sun in D7 and D9 and then check the aspects in the rasi and use my chart calculator.
Hi again, the number in the middle of the small charts is the varga, so number 7 is the D7 saptamsa, number 9 is the D9 Navamsa. Welcome to the world of Vedic and I hope you have time to get through that compatibility course.
@aditi5562
10 ай бұрын
Jupiter is +124 and my darakaraka is -11 after calculating everything. My darakaraka is in mercury. Is friendship part not gonna be good? How to fix that? @ErnstWilhelm
I did not expect to be so affected by the negative numbers I got from these calculations. My darakaraka is Jupiter, who is in a comatose state. While before I did the calculations, I thought that having a spiritual life is a good solution to the problem, now that I have done the calculations, I am not so encouraged that the spiritual life is a solution I can trust. Spiritual life is not always in our hands because even prayer is a gift from god or the gods. This experience has allowed me to understand why people would trust amulets.
We could never "fall asleep" on you. Never! Please keep posting your highly knowledgable videos. Thank you
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
Жыл бұрын
Comment is deserving of a reward 🥇
@graciegracie9187
Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 we wouldn't fall asleep. 😂
No, ignore joining planets in the D9 and D7, but consider the joining planets in D1.
@anapantovic6859
2 жыл бұрын
So I transfer the horrible double conj of Sun AND Merc to my poor, poor Jup onto it even when it eventually shifts from Aqua in D1 and D7 to a bad-turn-worse Libra in D9? It's -90, -90, -180??? 😫🤯💣💥🤬🙃
@fmrshortstm7025
Ай бұрын
Mutual exchange of moon and Saturn also applies?
I'm looking at my boyfriend's D9 chart and Venus is debilitated in Virgo but receiving an aspect from Mercury in Pisces (14.34 degrees) and Mercury is his DK which makes it a mutual aspect. Does that give balance to the marriage in some way?
@ErnstWilhelm
9 жыл бұрын
Look at aspects and conjunctions only in D1 as per the aspect table in my chart calculator at www.vaultoftheheavens.com then mercury in the first 15 degrees of pisces is sleeping so it will not be able to help. But make sure you use my chart calculator or else it will be different.
@TemajTarot
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I will also order a report.
HI, just go to the link on the chart calculator page that explains why I calculate tropical rasis with sidereal nakshatras.
Sir i found this video just know, its 9 years later omg hahaha But i do love how you describe this darakaraka, especially the opening one, it gives me more insight! Thank you! Also i have mercury as my darakaraka and you are so soooo right!!! I always attract to someone who is very communicative, and have the same interest with me, sharing through communucation, we are explore things what makes us curious and anything. And yeah, friendship!! Thats what i want if i have a spouse. Mercury is in my 1st house and actually its only conjunct with jupiter 1st house. Eventho venus have the same degree with jupiter in the 1st house. Not only mercury jupiter and venus in the first house, but sun moon also. But sun moon is very far away from mercury. Its 20ish degree apart. I hope with this, sun moon are not affecting mercury.
In your experience, Can 7th house also represent a life partner without marriage? I ask because my current boyfriend fits both descriptions of my 7th house lord and DK - Every thing from how we met to his parents/family and his chart fits me and my family's description as well. However, He is not interested in marriage (I have Aquarius 7th house) Not only that but I ordered your compatibility report and it was horrible (for us as a couple) - however, my D1 & D9 indicates a difficult marriage. So again I'm asking if the 7th house has to be a legal bond with papers or not? Thanks.
@ErnstWilhelm
9 жыл бұрын
7th house is any partner, marriage or not. 7th house has nothing to do with the legal bond, that is the 9th house. 7th house the marriage that takes place upon intercourse, so even getting raped is indicated by a troubled 7th house and the planets active at the time will describe the rapist.
@TemajTarot
9 жыл бұрын
Ernst Wilhelm Thank you for your reply, but I'm confused because I thought the 7th house represented your spouse, the one you actually marry. I thought navamsa showed more description of the spouse and the condition of the marriage. So does the D9 chart describe any live in or long term relationship, married or not? Thanks again - I've learned so much from you!
@ErnstWilhelm
9 жыл бұрын
mshighconcept 7th house is anyone a person has sex with. D9 is the institute of marriage and 7th there will indicate the spouse in conjunction with the regular 7th.
@TemajTarot
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks for clearing that up, Ernst!
Your analogy with Saturn and the environment is truly fantastic. I feel the need to protect mother nature and preserve the environment and it clearly shows in my rasi chart with the powerful saturn.
@graciegracie9187
Ай бұрын
Ditto for me.
Thanks for the videos Ernst. I love when you cuss and drop things - a little comic relief
@ErnstWilhelm
8 жыл бұрын
Somewhere there is a video where I knock the board off the wall, its a really good one...
@fjs1571
8 жыл бұрын
+Ernst Wilhelm .Hi Ernst it voice is clear n steady. My astrologer father never tells anything about my future. My DK is Saturn. Aquarius D7. n geminy in D9 n Sagittarius in D1. I have v less interest in marriage. wat will happen to me?
@fjs1571
8 жыл бұрын
+Ernst Wilhelm n its 2nd yr of Saturn Sasha. who is in 10th house in Sagittarius retrograde.(D1) with 36 points in Astakavarga.. Jupiter in 2nd. (D1).
Hello. Thank you for the instruction. If a person has a Sun DK in Libra in the 2nd house ( which seems like a double whammy), how does one improve their chance of finding a good spouse? I've read the location of the Sun is where one shines and can find it's purpose. Should I focus 100% on financial stability first, and THEN on finding love? I don't know why one has to be completely sacraficed for the other.
It is parivartana, but does not matter in this case. What does matter is that mars is sleeping and mars sleeps in a friends house, so while he cannot do anything by his own power, he can do things based on the power of his friend the Moon, who is not sleeping. Those subtleties that sometimes come up I did not cover in the class as it is beyond most people's desire to learn, but you can learn that at my astrology-videos website.
Sir I am very new to astrology. What does it mean if my Darakaraka Saturn is sitting in 10th house of Capricorn in Navamsa?
Your amazing!! More videos, please. I love your organized mind.
You take the proportion of where it is in the sign. SO a navamsa is 3:20 long, if a planet is in the middle of that part, then in the navamsa it falls at 15 degrees in its sign in the navamsa.
Hi Ernst, what would you look for to judge the second husband?
Hello Ernst I have a question for you- your chart is represented int he Vedic Form which follows the Sidereal Planetry positions not the Western Planetry positions (which is based on seasons) right? If that is the case then according to the sidereal planetry positions my Vedic Chart is different from the one I bought from your website. The one I bought from your website is based on the Western (seasonal) adjustments. Could you please let me know if the sidereal astrology (where each sign is NOT equal in size) that is more accurate or your Western planetry positions? I am truly confused. Thank you. PS I ask you because I trust your direction and respect your wisdom. Also if you are L or G what is the planet that represents your partner.
Wow. God! Now am understanding what it is to navigate life through and meaning of relationships is all about in it. Your wisdom and guidance really enlightened my soul. Thank you. Peace, love and light to you good soul.
Saturn in Sg, Sg and Ta as my darakaraka with light aspects from Mo, Mars and Jupiter in D-1. It's just 'ok'. Is this the best I can get? I want more then 'ok'.
Hello! Thank you for explaining. I have doubts with the info.... my DK is in my sun (Capricorn).... is that a prediction? That my future husband will have certain characteristics? Or are you telling what my self ideal needs in terms of an spouse? Thank you!
Hi Ernst, I am a female and have venus as my darakarka, what sort of general qualities will my spouse have if this is my dk ?
That' s so true about DK Saturn people! I have strong ideas of what I want and I know immediatly if it' s going to work for me or not. That' s great way of geting rid of wrong ones. Now I finally get it that it is ok because I always thought What's wrong with me?! Why don' t I give a chance to that guy? But now everything is clear- it' s my DK Saturn and it's actually very good. 😉
It can be fine, depends on the full conditions of Saturn and the influences to the 7th. But 7th lord in 6th will always cause some delay or obstacle to marriage. House position never makes or breaks a planet, it only makes it easier or harder to bring to fruition, what makes or breaks a planet is its condition.
Sir My Dk is Saturn in 12 house and rasi is Pisces and also Saturn with moon 12 house and Lord of Pisces guru is showing and also Mars is showing and last thing is Saturn is Retrograde and 12 House lord guru is retrograde Which results??
Hi Ernst is Parivartan yoga applicable on your charts and is it applicable while calculating strengths of darkarka or Venus and jupiter
Great video and very informative. Thanks Ernst for sharing this knowledge
So DK is only from D1 or Navamsa as well? Can there be different darakaraka in D1 and D9?
Hallo Ernst, very good video,everything is logically. I have a question.If the Jupiter is debilitated in Gemini in the Rasi chart, the Mars is darakarara in Leo(Mars is in Aries in D9 and in Leo in D7. How to evaluate them together - the bad situated Jupiter or better Mars?
I have Saturn DK squared by moon, does that mean I have to give up a love relationship for a traditional stable relationship, Saturn in Capricorn and moon in Pisces ? My Jupiter is snoring in both d7 and d9 😢
Nice video Ernst! What if dk moon at 4 degrees is conjunct ketu in scorpio in d7? Even in the d9 moon is conjunct venus in the fifth in capricorn whereas in d1 its exalted. So it's getting kind of confusing. Would be nice if you could shed some light on it? Thanks
Moon is my Darakarka at zero degrees in D1/D7/D9. I surely know what I’m looking for in a hubby.😬🙈
You just take the proportion it is in. So a navamsa is 3:20 degrees long, if a planet is in the middle of that 3:20 part, then in the navamsa chart it will be at 15 degrees in its sign.
More coming, if you are a serious student of astrology please check out my astrology-videos site where I have over 300 hours of videos. What was that Morrissey song...
What about multiple partners or marriage? Then how is darakarak justified ? Every time he/she looks for similar person ? How is attraction caused between the two?
hi again, also was wandering in conjunction, from what degree a conjunction produces 60 points and if higher then 5 degree is the score reduces or there is no score at all? if there is a score above 5 degrees what to conceder as the score
hi Ernst went to your chart calculator and with my DOB details it would not work? I tested it with my son's and it worked? I did email you last week for a reading but you were very busy. Don't understand why my DOB it does not work, I seem to have same issue with Lada site who recommends you as does KRS channel
@ErnstWilhelm
8 жыл бұрын
Can you email your birth data to Ernst@vedic-astrology.net
Well, my Venus is exalted in the varga of knowledge - so it is wide awake...glad to hear that it is affecting you ladies.
@abhijitokyy5903
4 жыл бұрын
@@blancheb988 my venus is exalted too
@ErnstWilhelm
3 жыл бұрын
@Nene M study the planets influencing the 7th house and lord. Saturn is older, mars is younger, other planets are about the same age.
@PaoCuenca
3 жыл бұрын
hahah I used to have a boyfriend that was borned on first or march 71 and u look quite him ! even the hair....amazing !
@anapantovic6859
2 жыл бұрын
Brag!
It shows that friendship and mutual interests or perhaps business will be a focal of the relationship IF mercury is in good condition.
Does anyone know.. what if you aren’t currently married to someone who represents your dara karaka? Does this just mean you’re drawn to someone like this or you’ll eventually marry someone who does represent?
what does it mean when moon is your darakaraka but its conjunct ketu?
Question about which is my darakaraka: My Venus is 11:09 of its sign. My Mars is 11:02 of its sign. Technically Mars is my Darakaraka, but it almost seemed like a toss up.
with the vault of heaven calculator my dk is saturn :( but with other vedic sites it's mars, which one should i follow
Mercury is my DK, I have Ketu conjunct mercury in the D9 chart in Cn but it is not represented by any houses and in my rasi i have mercury conjunct sun in 6th house. What does Ketu relationship with mercury mean?
Sun 6:36 Moon 9:19 Mars 13:25 Mercury 15:45 Saturn 18:50
@MsThe90
6 жыл бұрын
venus??
@angeladunbar9997
5 жыл бұрын
Jupiter...
@sarikaFauzi
5 жыл бұрын
you have to watch Jupiter is your man...the current video is about the extra information concerning your spouse (darakaraka). They add extra spice to either Jupiter Or Venus.
@sarikaFauzi
5 жыл бұрын
18:01
@angeladunbar9997
5 жыл бұрын
There we go, 18:01, thank you Sarika Fauzi. Jupiter is it
@Ernst Wilhem: What about planets that are ruled by two signs? I have darakaraka in mercury (in gemini) with no enemies. Would it mean that the spouse has either a significant gemini or virgo placement in his chart?
@ErnstWilhelm
7 жыл бұрын
Possibly, or some other strong mercury theme.
According to vault of heavens, I have DK mars in Cancer in D7 and moon in Scorpio in D7.. So my DK mars is not anymore in sleeping stage right ? Due to Parivarthana between Mars and Moon in D7. Is my DK mars Awake in D7 ?
sir my DK (sun) is in 6th house(aquarius) sun + rahu + aspect of saturn from fourth. how is it going to affect my life.
Thank you for the video! Which ayanamsa do you use usually for Jaimini karakas? Also check them in tropical?
I have one general question...hope you would clarify me regarding my query. What if the Darakaraka and Seventh lord exchange signs in D1 AND D9 Chart. For example in a particular chart with Virgo Lagna/ASC , 7th lord is Jupiter and he is placed in sign Aquarius. Darakaraka Venus is in Taurus (9th house). In Navamsa/D9 Chart 7th lord Jupiter is in Taurus and DK Venus is in Aquarius. I mean in D1 they are in each others Navamsa (D9) Sign and in D9 , they are in each others D1 Sign. What impact it would be in a person's married and romantic/intimate life and what else it signifies about love partner or spouse?
Wow. Your vid is very informative, every single word informs.
Hi Ernst, thank you for thé knowledge you spread, it's a great gift! But, î've made the calculations because my marital life (2 divorces) was just as you described with problematic Jupiter . At my surprise, my Jupiter score is +50 and darakaraka Sun +108... Is it possible to have explaination to this? A consultation? Thanks by advance. Györgyi Lipcsei
What about sun in Sagittarius? It’s also a fire sign so does he get 60 degrees positive as well?
A beginner's question: in the D-9 chart, there are some numbers in the houses, what do they stand for? For example, in the 4th house, there are Saturn with the number 4 next to it and Jupiter with the number 12 next to it, while the house remains in Capricorn, the same as in the main chart. Does this mean that both of the planets are in the same Capricorn house, but in different signs (Cancer, Pisces)? Some planets don't have any numbers next to them, do they keep the sign of the house?
What is the point scale of what's a good spouse? -100 to +100 I have a Dk of 119 and a Jupiter of 54.
Aha! I was divorced, decades ago. I finally found someone whom I trust. She, a widow, is afraid of being hurt again. 💙💛🇦🇱🦇🧙♂️ Love is strange. 🧙♀️ ™️
Hi, someone asked but I could not find the answer, what if you're gay? How does Jupiter/Venus thing happen?
that was awesome !!! especially psychology behind it
what happens when a woman has moon conj rahu in 29 capricorn moon 56 and rahu at 3 deg aquarius in MC?
Then they are simply look for those Jupiter or venus qualities in their partner.
Or...i will not be physically satisfied with my spouce or i will make extra physical affairs?? Plzz answer
Hello! I have moon in scorpio in D9 but I dont know the degrees how can I know this? Or I just use the same degrees as in rasi?
In the D9 I have Jupiter in Gemini and Mars in Cancer. Mars is in the 10th house and Jupiter has no number, neighboring what might be 9th house and 1st house. I guess the houses aren’t in order like they are in Rasi chart? Both Mars & Jupiter are at 1:43 degrees, does anyone know how that works?
Sir,Thank you for sharing your knowledge.My DK is saturn. In D7 saturn is in Sagittarius with retro mars in 9th house but there is parivartana with Jupiter which is in Capricorn in 10th house.In D9 Saturn and Jupiter are conjunct in Aries in 5th house but Mars is in Scorpio.Should that be considered as neechabhanga ? How the analysis should be done?
@ShikharVatsSV
8 жыл бұрын
+Anjana Prahallad Rao : The way u explained is little confusing but if I get it right than ur saturn is in Saggi in 9th house and ur Jupiter is in 10th house in capri that is not a neech bhanga but if moon is exalted or sitting opposite to jup than it is also even if saturn or mars is exalted which is not in ur case so no neech bhang . and in d9 saturn is in aries so that is also debilitated but even after this that will help u in ur married life!!!!!
Dear enrsnt, does ashtakavarga works in analyze DK?
Where i find it ?? Is it in the normal birth chart or the vedic one am confused
I am a woman and I have dk a Venus what does that means really??
@QueenoftheUniverse222
5 жыл бұрын
Watch the video.
In the case of a woman, what if the Darakara is in opposition to Jupiter?
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If moon in scorpio but above 3 degrees do you give 30 points or none?
I'm female and have a Venus DK. I watched this entire video and it seemed to skip over how this would impact a women. I went back to watch Venus as a spouse to calculate the DK but, still unclear how a Venus DK affects a women since the other video is for men? Can you please elaborate?
@Caesar88888
2 жыл бұрын
it means good looking, artistic husband. he may be musician, actor artist or some fashion designer.
Ok what about if Sun is in virgo in d1 with merc, ju, sat...with venus in 4th cap in d9 but sun is in pisces alone in d7 6th house?
Hi Ernst! Thank you! I have a few questions for you: 1) What do conjunctions in the saptamsa and navamsa mean? Do they matter for this topic? 2) What do we do with solar and lunar yogas, where the Sun or Moon is one rasi over from another planet? For example, in my rasi chart (using your calculations), the Moon is my DK at 3:49 Sag, and Saturn is at 27:17 Scorpio. (In the saptamsa, they're still one rasi away from each other, but by a much larger amount - about 30 degrees). But I'm very much interested in the general principle, not just my example.
@ashervijayyampolsky7759
9 жыл бұрын
Oh, I'm just seeing in your "More on Jupiter, Venus..." video to ignore conjunctions in the vargas! Great!
and in navamsha and saptamsha - it is in "Scorpio" at "6:54" and 17:27" is it considered average or debilitated?
Ernest, I am a women my DK is in Mars in cancer I heard that's not good my jupiter 19degree is in leo in 10 house with venus 13 degrees mercury 10 degrees as well as sun 17 degrees this is very bad... Can you please answer
Ernst, but when you see the conjoining planets in D9 or D7, we ignore conjoining planets in D1 but only consider conjoining planets in respctive varga charts D9 or D7 ? Right ? Pls confirm. Thx.
Great video: followed on from your recent upload. I have good Jupiter in Scorpio with Jupiter as the DK too... it falls in 3 houses, 10th, 11th and 12th. Do you have a video explaining the house placement of the Jupiter or DK? Many Thanks
Very ausome Ernst I really like it when you talk about spritial things. It really makes me think.
I heard about you from Lada Duncheva. Very nice Ernst! I am an Aqu asce with Jup in 1st house. I have Su( 7L)+Me (5L)+Ve (4L+9L) in 12th House in sign of Capricorn. Does that I will have a foreign spouse or partner from different culture or religion. In D-9 Venus is in 7th house in sign of Virgo and Jup in 11th house in Libra. It has Sagg asc. Can you please suggest
Thanks brave soul for saying the truth..! We need to see
Great video Ernst! How would you consider Rahu/ketu aspects on the DK planet?
what if DK is moon with rahu in 10 house sagittarius ? my dasha this time is Sun-moon ( to 5June 2018 ) and next is Sun - Rahu ( rahu finish to 29 april 2019 ) .. i guess i gonna meet sinigican person around Sun -Rạhu ? but what happend if rahu in same house with DK?
Hi sir.....loved your video on dharakaraka but i have a question Degree of mars is 1 Degree of sun is 24 Degree of mercury is 3 All 3 are in one house...(conjunction) Will i get a good husband like the one i desire? (A matured and a successful guy) Kindly answer Thanks
Ernst please answer this question I am female my DK is mars in cancer what kind of problems will I have with spouse it is in both rasi chart as well as d9 chart 9house mars in cancer my Jupiter is in 10 house with leo I also have mercury venus sun 4 planets in 10 house
I've listened to three or four times, and I finally understand it. It was so informative. I just had to learn the Sankrit, get familiar with the terms, and the basics of astrology. I have to study this further as well, but i understand it. Interestingly, my Saturn is the Darakaraka, I'm a Cap rising too but had no idea that it represented my ex-husband. It explains so much! Saturn in 3H ♓️ has no aspects in my natal chart. I just have to check the other charts and get insight. Would Saturn apply to all the partners that I would be attracted to? I believe you said yes.
What if your Darakaraka planet is debilitated in your spouse chart?
Yes, Venus is done on its own, just check all my vids, its called Venus is your Woman.
What if two planets are the same degrees? Venus and Saturn are both the lowest degrees
Thanks. Taking this, the Jupiter vid, even the Venus vid etc etc, I think I'll just go become a nun. At the very least, now I can blame my own chart and not have to wonder so deeply about why the guys I seem to attract are 'asleep and unfulfilling' 😒. Edit: Mars is my DK and it's conjunct my Sun and Mercury R. The part about choosing things confuses me. I don't mind an independent spouse, and with the Sun there I'd have to make a sacrifice anyway, but my delimma is that I'm even at a negative I'm the Jupiter calculations (-13) and the Mars DK is at like (-120) just from sitting with Me and the Su. It's a tad disheartening. Edit2: I think I'll just keep focusing on doing my own thing I guess. If I focus on my work and my own sense of spiritual growth, then that can be nice. If I attract someone who won't 'sleep' on me along the way, then cool I guess 😒.
What if your moon is the guys Venus? Like my moon is in Aries, his Venus is in Aries