I'm always intrigued when people talk about the pandemic being the biggest challenge in our modern history etc, like if we're really going to talk about turning negatives into positives why don't we talk about how we were able to overcome the challenges of the pandemic through all these wonderful advancements in technology?

@janetsplace1953

Жыл бұрын

I agree Alan, we focus on the bad all the time.

@Adrian_Ciupe

Жыл бұрын

This is very interesting, indeed.

@mirkosavic9912

Жыл бұрын

So true Alan. Well said

@estebanreyes5043

Жыл бұрын

what you say is totally true. we are used to seeing the glass half empty and we must learn to see it half full. we must learn to highlight the good

@estebanreyes5043

Жыл бұрын

You have to start highlighting the positive more. we are used to the opposite. to always highlight the negative

As someone with chronic anxiety I really appreciate the advice Bobbie is giving here - especially the parts about developing a growth mindset.

@lyndsayramster

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I think it will be so helpful to have this kind of mindset too

Bobbie is brilliant! And to do what she does and have this POV is just brilliant! She should be helping our youth with perspective!

Her story about the conversation with her husband really resonated with me. It can be so hard to maintain that awareness, especially in situations with people who have become part of your every day life.

@thisisarchiegraves

2 жыл бұрын

Love this insight, it got me thinking

@earlyeaston

2 жыл бұрын

Yup, I need a reminder of this often

I think this speaks more about internal strength than muscles, it is a very good talk during these dark times.

@geraldemery1417

4 жыл бұрын

It is no question.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Paddy, you are right. All successful endurance athletes know that readiness is "an inside game".

I am always amazed at the ordinary people who do great things on Ted.

@umadelecois

3 жыл бұрын

I love TEDs.

@guntherhofer

3 жыл бұрын

Inspirational Plus!

@billyzwilliams

3 жыл бұрын

people watch reality to TV and this is much more real.

@amberdenkins

3 жыл бұрын

@@billyzwilliams haha, how true.

What a strong woman and a great thinker. Pure example of drive and overcoming obstacles.

We need a mindset like hers right now as we face the greatest challenge of our lives.

@georgecox2933

4 жыл бұрын

yes and no Sid, these are different times.

@kirstenviesitle

4 жыл бұрын

@@georgecox2933 No George, its more important than ever to be like this!!

@sandraburthill

3 жыл бұрын

mindset yes!

@slowmodern

3 жыл бұрын

Spot on there. More now than ever we need to LISTEN more.

I get out of breath walking up the steps to my apartment, this woman is doing it!

@lostnlonely669

4 жыл бұрын

haha, I know that is struggle, I run out of breath going to the fridge to get food.

@diggerreese

4 жыл бұрын

lol you 2 need to take some action.

@tyeziika

4 жыл бұрын

I am right behind you, struggling too

@jodikennedy8886

4 жыл бұрын

I know, so do I!

@timmymckinley

4 жыл бұрын

😂 🤣 😃😂 🤣 😃😂 🤣 😃

This woman is a prime example of how we all need to just carry on. Life was never meant to be easy, we were never meant to be comfortable, we just have to figure out how to best cope! Kudos to this lady, she's got it!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Sumin, life may not be easy but we do have the capability to reduce the amount of suffering we bring on to ourselves and others by seeing what is possible; all the best to you!

@andrea-harrison

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah there's definitely no shortage of inspiration coming from her

Now, this woman is tough!!💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

@themostofall4250

3 жыл бұрын

She is fantastic!

A clear and easy talk with such a profound message. Thank you, Bobbie.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Calvin. I hope it was helpful.

Having no control can really take its toll on you, leaving you so exhausted.

@thesebrokendreams

3 жыл бұрын

And that's why this talk is so good!

Well, after a few weeks locked in, this appeared at the right time today for me ... thank you Bobbie!!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Josef, glad it was a helpful perspective. We are all dealing with an extra "weight" now thru the pandemic and seeing what is possible in this time is definitely an important life skill!

@dariasotnykova

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I had seen this one like a year ago!

@alexBBmichaels

Жыл бұрын

ha, still locked down, now in recession.

Couldn't agree more about how important it is to develop a support network. Having people in your life who can offer guidance and encouragement is amazing and I'll never understand those people who just refuse to ask for help.

okay but what if your husband loves to talk just for the sake of it and you're so used to glazing over you can't even tell when he's talking about something important? 😅 Asking for a friend.....

@riciphariss107

Жыл бұрын

The way Bobbie tied in mindfulness and self-reflection into handling uncertainty was brilliant.

@diywithderby6069

Жыл бұрын

This talk was a much-needed reminder that we can find balance even in uncertainty.

@Benjamin-yh9mr

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate the focus on self-reflection, it's a critical aspect of personal growth.

@kenoxfps8598

Жыл бұрын

It's true that the world we live in is constantly changing, and this can make us feel uncertain and lacking in control.

@TRIGO_ALLINE

Жыл бұрын

The concept of balance is often talked about, but it can be difficult to achieve in a world where everything is in flux.

You can tell Bobbie is a force. No toxic positivity here, just straight forward and direct WISDOM.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Phyliss. Hope it helps!

That is so amazing, I know because I train, not as serious as her, so this woman is serious and knows.

@nicopetey

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking similar, enough to prep just to do one, but to do a few - wow!!

@robertahvieira

4 жыл бұрын

I train too, but I can't do a TRI.

@Notthefootykevinrooney

3 жыл бұрын

shes amazing, I train also not like that though.

@therealblackdynasty

3 жыл бұрын

I work out most every day, I couldnt do that.

@jonathanvallers

3 жыл бұрын

Um, time for me to train?

Easy doesn't come in to play when I am stressed and overwhelmed. Very good talk and topic.

@phillambrick

3 жыл бұрын

true, but it is mind over matter!

Life explained, spot on with uncertainty.

I feel like I spent the first 30 years of my life on auto pilot! It's so easy to just stick to the path that's laid out for us and never really stop to question if we're getting everything we want out of life.

Can't see into the future but can ensure we are prepared and mindful in all that we do! What an incredibly strong and talented woman!!

I love her way of thinking! Especially the part about turning disappointments into opportunities.

oh i needed this! i don't even have the words to properly articulate how much i needed this. but i'm inspired for the first time all year! brilliant!

@archiefast

3 жыл бұрын

i feel this on so many levels!!

@annmerrychristmas

3 жыл бұрын

Got me moving for sure.

@mariannemortimer7724

2 жыл бұрын

wow good for me too!

Love how real this woman is and a must listen to on limiting your own choices along with many other things.... Such a fabulous and enlightening watch!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Phil, it's really all about the choices we create for ourselves.....not that we always make the right choice, but having a starting point where we at least have more options is the goal!

@busbydean

2 жыл бұрын

yes, 100%

@geemaleishere

Жыл бұрын

tough as nails...

I've always maintained that the only thing we can be sure of or have control over is ourselves. This talk really speaks to that and I'm here for it 🙌🙌

I put so much energy into not interrupting people and actually listening

Very empowering talk at a very important time in history of humans.

@babssinnerd

4 жыл бұрын

yep agree.

@daveallanthedave

4 жыл бұрын

No kidding, serious time now.

@lorissolfa

4 жыл бұрын

you know it Aslan

@kexinan

4 жыл бұрын

Yes agreed 1000%

The best example of leadership and curveballs. I think I'm still picking myself up from the ones of years gone by.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Robert, no question....curveballs can have a lasting effect on us. Dealing with them head-on from this point forward and from a position of opportunity is a good effort

Loved this Bobbie. What an inspiration you are.

This completely moved me, I feel I can get control of my life better now. Thank you for making a difference in my life with your video.

@sophiachandler4662

3 жыл бұрын

It seriously is one of the best tedx's i have seen, it's practical and so helpful

She would make the best possible mindset coach ever.

There is so much to be said about insight through pushing the body to it’s limits

I got SO MUCH from hearing Bobbie out, she is the definition of resilience! What a great example

@theclassicraphaelsanchez

3 жыл бұрын

Rara... So appreciated that you would send this to me rn.

Totally blown away by Bobbie's casual reference to being an ironman. 112km bike ride followed by a full marathon, unbelievable.

Thank you Bobbie for giving me the "possibility mindset" to add to my tool kit.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Excellent - I hope it makes a difference for you

One of humankinds greatest qualities is our ability to adapt! I think maybe people have forgoten that.

She is a role model, for men and women!

Heck yes! I am so tired of my solutions being quick fix to just get me by. I tell myself when I have the capacity I'll sort it out but I THANK YOU BOBBIE for helping me realise that pushing myself despite what i feel i am lacking will help me overcome the overwhelm!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Hi Clara, it is challenge for all of us. Taking the time to invest in building your own capacity will pay off for you. Best to you!

imagine children were taught things like this from early on, i feel like we would evolve to have brains wired so that we didn't get so caught up and confused and were instead able to process exactly like this lady has, which is so excellent btw!

@ashmillen

3 жыл бұрын

it seriously would help so much

Saving this one! How many times throughout this one I had an "aha" moment, definitely need to share and rewatch.

@chezravvy

2 жыл бұрын

very cool, me too!

Navigating uncertainty, hello 2020 - and 2021 seems to have the same feel. But! IF you haven't figured out how to manage, this talk is full of how to get on with it! So good!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Sadzi; it certainly looks like we will be dealing with uncertainty for awhile!

@jasptasankert

3 жыл бұрын

We all got thrown a curveball. Very timely talk here

Bobbie clearly knows what she's talking about, this is exactly the kind of advice we all need to be adhering to!

"Possibility, not loss" that sums it all up right now.

@aslanaslanzade3684

4 жыл бұрын

man she speaks the truth.

@sidharper

4 жыл бұрын

yes it does.

@babssinnerd

4 жыл бұрын

yep.

@geenaremsby

4 жыл бұрын

I liked that part too.

@konglum

4 жыл бұрын

You are right MaT I heard that too and I keep thinking how we must look at the possibilities right now during the middle of this crisis

What a rad human! So very rarely do you come across a talk like this that actually offers tangible tools. Such a good one, definitely sharing!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Archie, appreciate your note and glad the tips in the talk were helpful

So spot on!! Definitely some food for thought in these very uncertain times. It would be amazing if we could try and adopt such things moving forward...

@Favekillertunes

2 жыл бұрын

yes agreed Eric.

@sammyllee

2 жыл бұрын

agree

To prepare for this you have to be a superhuman. She only discovered the pain and suffering when she began and then she just kept going. Wonderful story.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Ann, thank you for your note. Definitely not superhuman...a work in progress and learning what I am capable of like everyone else; take care

@lucastheqtanner

Жыл бұрын

I think you're a little confused about the narrative here, Ann.

This is one of the great ones... I think we all get to a point in our lives where we begin to unravel, whether it's because of work, family or just life.... I know I was there a few years ago and if I had watched this talk back then I feel like I would have been a lot more on top of things in terms of keeping myself together when I felt like it was all falling apart. Kudos to this woman, fantastic.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Now you know you hav personal resources you can draw on when times get tough again!

@charlievantas

3 жыл бұрын

She's a legend!!

@mehdidouinine

3 жыл бұрын

loved this comment

Break a toe offers a whole new meaning to perseverance.

@jessedurham5312

3 жыл бұрын

haha true!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I had a great story about breaking my toe..but I just walked into a piece of furniture instead of tripping over my dog :(

@therealjuanschmidt

3 жыл бұрын

@@bobbielaporteandassociates haha perfect then

@jessedurham5312

3 жыл бұрын

@@bobbielaporteandassociates haha, love honesty

What a brilliant way to explain how to move through obstacles in life with understanding and patience. Great stuff here.

Phoaw! What an incredible human! Perseverance at its finest!

This is great advice Bobbie, the balance between staying focused on the current moment while still being adaptable sounds trickier than it actually is.

Always good to come across these little reminders to truly be present IN the moment

I didn't quite expect this talk to be what it is. The play by play of responding rather than reacting. Good insights.

What an inspiring talk. Bobbie your power to absorb pain and keep doing is mind blowing, thanks for sharing.

And here I was watching random videos like I always do on the weekend - on autopilot - thanks for the shake up Bobbie!

This is a really positive and powerful attitude to carry throughout all parts of our life - not just the bits that are uncertain

I'm looking forward to embracing Bobbies philosophies and looking at uncertainty as a chance to expand my knowledge and capabilities.

Watching this has made me realize just how attached I am to my plans and routine... or rather how jarring it is for me when things don't go according to plan.

When most people have been conditioned to fear change, to have an "us vs them" mentality - it's difficult to rewire the brain and re-educate, but clearly it can be done! Such a good talk Bobbie!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the note, Jack. The more we work on rewiring our response, the easier it becomes. Keep at it!

I wouldn't say I face a lot of risk or uncertainties in my life but I'm still glad to have found this talk and built a little confidence around how to navigate it when it does come up!

It's incredible how different an outcome can be when you approach the difficulty with awareness and positivity! Thank you for this reminder Bobbie.

I have a habit of getting lost in the rabbit hole of ted talks - but this is where I'm finishing for the day because Bobbie be laying down the best advice EVER

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Hey Andrew, so nice of you. I appreciate it, take care.

Thoughtful and deliberate. Enjoyed this.

It is normal to be thrown off and discouraged when things change course- I needed to hear this. It is about stepping outside of autopilot and consider your own capabilities.

@earlyeaston

2 жыл бұрын

It is a real shock to the system though

I needed this more than I realised! What a healthy approach to dealing with all that life throws at us. Loved it!

This is true belief in ones self.

Brilliant way to put this line of thinking. So much easier to understand what it means to be mindful and the benefits that come with it

I needed this! Oh I needed this. What a fabulous talk! Loved it!!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Peter, I hope you will find yourself looking for what is possible in everyday situations

@petermitchell3475

3 жыл бұрын

@@bobbielaporteandassociates you are an inspiration, thank you.

I've never thought about how many of the conversation I'm having might be done while in auto-pilot... very glad to have been made aware of this.

Awesome talk Bobbie, loving all of your advice.

Mindfulness is crucial to responding instead of reacting! I wish more people understood this, when you remove those instant reactions it opens up such a huge space to really connect with the person you're talking to.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Ruby, yes it does! It takes practice but can have a huge payoff.

Brilliant, need this motivation today!

Some of the most amazing stuff happens when you're outside your comfort zone! Especially if you have this kind of mindset.

@whatmotivatesyou6449

2 жыл бұрын

yep sure does

Someone shared this in a group I'm in and I have to say thank you SO much Bobbie.

@bobbielaporteandassociates

2 жыл бұрын

:) appreciate the comment!

I have found when I don't steady and ready myself for hiccups, that is when I get sent into a spiral! Thoroughly enjoyed Bobbie's advice!!

Love the title, Navigating Uncertainty - well isn't that about it right now.

@lauralegault

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it sure is, I wish we could just skip 2020.

@rosemerle540

4 жыл бұрын

It sure is.

@pamcampbell3920

4 жыл бұрын

exactly... doesnt that fit now.

@rosemerle540

4 жыл бұрын

@@pamcampbell3920 it does....

@bobbielaporteandassociates

4 жыл бұрын

It is definitely an uncertain time; and we need to realize that Covid-19 is not just an event, but a recurring disruption to which we will all need to adjust

This is definitely a good talk for these times!

This is a really helpful talk Bobbie! Thank you.

This is so very inspiring! Not just from a personal and mindset level, but also a health and wellness level!

Need more talks like this!

I instantly felt some defensiveness when Bobbie opened up with how this is the most challenging time in modern history and that we wake up each day where there's no certainty, no control... But I feel like every day I am reminded of how lucky I am to have the struggles that I do and to have access to help. We make a choice each and every day of how we respond to the world around us and we have absolute control of that response. .. And Now that I've finished her talk I realise that's what she was getting at. Marvelous!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Benjamin, cool - thank you for your note. Making conscious choices is what it's all about. I applaud your commitment!

So many take aways thank you.

"you could look at it from a possibilities mindset and think how can i make this turn of events something that would be really appreciated" i love your perspective!!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Babs, appreciate your note; hope you can put this into practice the next time you are hit with an unexpected situation

She opened my eyes today. Now I understand what disrupts me all the time and prevents me from making a conscious choice.

I have been struggling with something for quite some time and following along on Bobbie's journey and well... I am a perfectionist at heart and I always get so thrown out of whack when something doesn't go to plan. It keeps me from doing a lot of things I think and for the first time ever I feel this sense of release? Like... It doesn't matter if it isn't how I expected, it's what I get out of it in the end that matters.

This woman is such a weapon! On ya Bobbie you're an inspiration

Thank you for this Bobbie, there were a lot of valuable insights in this talk.

When everything came to a halt last year, I had no idea how to cope. It's been such a struggle going from a non-stop busy life to absolutely nothing. And I know how important it is to take stock in these sorts of situations .... I just didn't know how! I wish I had seen this ages ago. Really so so good.

@suminkim346

3 жыл бұрын

We've all had to make some compromises and learn.

@sophiachandler4662

3 жыл бұрын

Better late then never! It's been such a whirl wind but I think we are better for it

We can achieve, when we decide we will!

@thehammygnow

2 жыл бұрын

It is literally a choice, hey? Just gotta keep at it.

I come back to this talk a lot Bobbie. It's a really helpful reminder when I am feeling bogged down by unexpected obstacles. Desperately trying to rewire so my automatic is to be comfortable off autopilot

@bobbielaporteandassociates

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Carl, good for you. It is a process...all behavior change is hard but you will see progress. Take care.

She's just awesome!

This is the power of perseverance,

This in a way is a surprize, well done Bobbie!

This is also why it's so important to seek interactions and stimulation from lots of different people! You never know when someone will share something with you that completely changes your perspective and brings you back to the present.

This talk is great Bobbie I've seen some of your other content and the way you come across is so real and authentic. Not putting on a face or trying to convince people you're something you're not. Very refreshing, especially in these TED talks

@bobbielaporteandassociates

Жыл бұрын

Hi Gavin, I appreciate your note and feedback.

So she's going to be a Life Coach next, yeah? Such valuable advice and an amazing perspective. And the way she speaks! Love this talk!

What she says around the 12:30 mark is so true and important! Especially when you're in a leadership role, it can be easy to forget just how much your attitude can affect your team.

Wow Bobbie! You are such a powerhouse and I really enjoyed hearing your methods!

This was such a joy to watch! And so many helpful hints at finding balance again. This talk couldn't be more apt for everyone at the moment. We're all going through such uncertainty. Thank you Bobbie!

@bobbielaporteandassociates

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Alice, I appreciate your comment; I hope it is helpful during this ongoing time of uncertainty