"You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not want to keep me?" Fucked me up

@suvihong2598

7 жыл бұрын

Sylvia Mendoza Facts

@traceynatalli3376

7 жыл бұрын

Sylvia Mendoza honestly

@kuyaboyred

7 жыл бұрын

Sylvia Mendoza how about my video? I'm going through some shit exactly how this video is too. Everything got me fucked up

@xWabbli

7 жыл бұрын

Sylvia Mendoza Omg that made me cry

@Daniel-ld7xs

7 жыл бұрын

:(

"You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not wanna keep me?" THE FEEEELS

@chrisleegitfilms

7 жыл бұрын

ahhh same

@Izzy-ov2bp

7 жыл бұрын

yes! this made me cry!!!

@amandajdo

7 жыл бұрын

THAT LINE WAS EVERYTHING.

@safalyashrestha

7 жыл бұрын

that line made my heart skip a beat. :'(

@AnimationAirlines

7 жыл бұрын

asphalt 8

This hits too close to home. My fear every time a guy shows an interest. Every time I give in and fall in, he falls right out.

@rochelle1199

7 жыл бұрын

So relatable

@Apezz19

7 жыл бұрын

well in my opinion, maybe u played hard to get for too long, the guy lost their energy chasing u rather embracing u..even if when they got u, make it interesting for them..guys love challenges, just say it mess with their ego..they got u, after some time, make them chase again n reward them..i say this because thats how i feel a girl should be when with a guy..if not, eventually the guy just fades off..i was in a relationship for 6-7 years, she made it interesting for me, then she stop doing it, i slowly stop loving her..its in the human needs, certainty and uncertainty

@BillYang74

7 жыл бұрын

sadly most guys who have the skills and charm to penetrate that protective wall of yours are ones who are really good at it. And one does not become good at anything without lots of practice.

@mattb7450

7 жыл бұрын

HEY YO you're not doing it right ...

@supriyaverma3364

7 жыл бұрын

We are all in the same boat girl!!!

Is everybody gonna ignore the fact that she didn't label the x or y-axis, or even gave the graph a title?

@jayj.manalo2271

6 жыл бұрын

It's all about the basics.

@ArtsySinger

6 жыл бұрын

That was bothering me too, and I don’t even like math.

@VenusAD

6 жыл бұрын

ngl, I needed this silly comment after the end of this video.

@PedroBelloMaldonado

6 жыл бұрын

You, I like you!

@ladyB6

5 жыл бұрын

Yoh that's a love graph you don't need axis that mush

only wong fu would be able to romanticize graphs

@sophial7261

5 жыл бұрын

xDD

@LLLadySSS

5 жыл бұрын

Seriously

@SunSunSunn

5 жыл бұрын

Or you know, the entire field of social psychology also does that.

@blackcat-mp7kh

5 жыл бұрын

Most of them are asain 😂

Good choice of pen. Makes the right amount of scratchy noises while giving a solid ink distribution.

@Supitsjonnyboy2580

7 жыл бұрын

Kevin V Respect.

@AusyJo

7 жыл бұрын

Kevin V the sounds were likely added in editing though, right?

@mazamerid8207

7 жыл бұрын

Kevin V i'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed.

@user-si3dm2ux7w

7 жыл бұрын

yes MUJI pens man are the best

@sawsan7K

7 жыл бұрын

good observation

"Why did i let myself fall. Why did i let my walls down." "So i build walls higher. To protect myself from ppl wanted to make me believe again." im cryin

@sophial7261

5 жыл бұрын

Too cliche for me to cry

@TheNamesDitto

5 жыл бұрын

trump be watching this

The "honeymoon phase" of every relationship ends sooner or later, and THAT'S when you get into the REAL stuff. Relationships don't stay new and exciting forever.

@littlebubbles2751

6 жыл бұрын

VeganMachine things will get better. *Experience speaks*

@pictorific2331

5 жыл бұрын

VeganMachine I wish they could!

@sarahhamdan5470

4 жыл бұрын

And that is when you see truly how much you care about that person and vice versa, if you continue putting in effort, that is true love that is more valuable than the "honey moon phase"!

@MichaelMariscal

3 жыл бұрын

I have a common practice that has always kind of worked and is one of the reasons I believe my relationship has been successful. Everyone grows and changes through out the years. So I try to make it a priority to get to learn my partner all over again. You have to date and get to know this new person your person is growing into, and the reverse. If you keep that in mind it tends to make the entire thing exciting and new. Learn about new interests , old interests. Have them teach you their hobbies etc. seems obvious but we all tend to get caught up with the whirlwind of life we tend to lose sight of it all.

@beepboop7748

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunate but u're right

EXCUSE ME DID YOU JUST CUT TO CREDITS BEFORE HE COULD DRAW THE DAMN LINE

@brandontiev7663

7 жыл бұрын

Charis Kuok I literally freaked. what kind of human would leave such a cliff hanger

@alfombraful

7 жыл бұрын

Charis Kuok only WFP can leave such a beautiful cliffhanger

@CreatorzOwn

7 жыл бұрын

They included him tilting the pen just before they cut to black to let you know what he chose. You can tell that he was going to follow the upward line by the way he pivoted his wrist clockwise for more leverage drawing in that direction. At first, I was confused, because I had thought that they flipped the view to be from his angle because of how short the line on the right side of the frame was, but the pen is pointed toward the camera. I could be wrong, obviously, but because of that, I strongly believe we got a happy ending. =)

@MrJimmyG12

7 жыл бұрын

XD SAME

@nemirlasworld

7 жыл бұрын

YES THEY DID !!! ARGGGG

Should have just got her that Ice Cream...

@marcovibal_

7 жыл бұрын

bensonq +1 ikr

@PrismaticVagabond77

7 жыл бұрын

I strongly believe in the love language of Ice cream.

@moniquevergara3437

7 жыл бұрын

bensonq yea you're right. #icecreamsavesrelationships

@kristiantoade8104

7 жыл бұрын

Hahaha true ..

@kennychen324

7 жыл бұрын

Damn Wong Fu, why you gotta be tugging at my heartstrings like that? Bittersweet videos like this made me feel some type of way. Nevertheless, amazing job!

a year later and WE STILL DON'T KNOW WHERE THE LINE GOES

@melanienaivalunikalou4752

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 true mahn

@dudulim8358

4 жыл бұрын

mine's two.

@Chelicoxib

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO

Sometimes in every relationship there comes a time that your partner loses his/her attention for you. But always remember your happiness doesn't depend on that person you need to love yourself more.

@jenalyntalkchat6383

7 жыл бұрын

Such a nice comment !

@ronnaloulosacker5075

7 жыл бұрын

yeah! love yourself more than you love him..

@christabellelysander4392

5 жыл бұрын

That's deep.

How it happened in real life: "Which way are you going?" "Honestly babe, I tuned out as soon as you said, 'I want to tell you a story'"

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

lol, savage.

@versatile3373

7 жыл бұрын

What a save!

@bharathbhat

7 жыл бұрын

muzzammil9 😂😂😂😂😂

@dragonxtcz

7 жыл бұрын

Made me fkn LOL

@airpls2822

6 жыл бұрын

" I lost it at 'graphs"

ok but all i can think about is how she didn't write the labels on the graph arggg

@MGblank

7 жыл бұрын

Sophia Wright same xD

@chococrazd

7 жыл бұрын

Sophia Wright the units....where are the units?! And THE TITLE 😱

@procrasTINAtionpanda

7 жыл бұрын

Sophia Wright I wanted some color in there

@strawberreli

7 жыл бұрын

Sophia Wright OMG same

@aintthisright

7 жыл бұрын

I wanted her to use a really thick marker.

man this channel is way underappreciated, their work is honestly the besy on the platform.

@SiaarZH

5 жыл бұрын

I think this channel is at "just the right place and time". The more mainstream they go, the more their content will suffer. Once you're forced to push content on a schedule, the harder it is to stay deeply creative and emotionally relevant. There are so many channels I un-subbed from because they would start including webcasts, live-streams, and just unedited real-life content where they simply eat pizza or go to the mall.

@neetapatel8993

3 жыл бұрын

1000%

*draws line directly down* "im out"

y = mx + feels

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

this comment wins. bravo. Like any perfect equation.. simple, but complete. bravo.

@jagathv5384

7 жыл бұрын

Wong Fu Productions pin it! 😅

@jrod908

7 жыл бұрын

Its also called an intersection btw :D

@christophert5271

7 жыл бұрын

-------Actually it would be y = feelsx + startingfeels because the feels controls the slope and the starting feels defines what the graph started at-------- but don't mind me, I'm a cow.

@Najiki

7 жыл бұрын

U da best

The cliffhanger I can't

@mimioang3890

7 жыл бұрын

Joyce Lian I need to know

@dylanzlyang

7 жыл бұрын

Well obviously we gotta hope for the happy ever after. But realistically, who breaks up with someone by drawing a line down? Like after that, they would just awkwardly sit there.

@emilysanchez387

7 жыл бұрын

Joyce Lian OMG I need to know please Wong Fu have another video about them in the future

@avrillovevk2695

7 жыл бұрын

Dylan Yang I'm pretty sure right before they cut the scene I saw the pen move slightly down.

@kurimmy1188

7 жыл бұрын

Joyce Lian me too

What we learned from this film: The one, who falls in love quickly, you can compare that to crushes, will get over you easier. Crushes don’t last long and so isn’t their love. You will fall quickly, but when you get down, you’re either get on together, or your life’s will part. The one who fell quicker than you, who had their walls down from the beginning, probably hadn’t much to loose but their lives will continue so. They will get used to you, take you for granted, until someone new sparks their eye and the cycle begins again. The other one, who needs time falling in love, will also need more time letting someone go. They had their walls up, when meeting someone, they had their walls up on the first date. But as they get to know each other, they slowly put their wall down, brick by brick. But during that time, the other one (who crushed on you) slowly distant themselves from you, even unconscious. And when you put it all down, ready to jump into the cold water and do everything that people in a relationship do, the other one already experienced that and you’re left alone. You’ll build your wall up again, higher, and the whole cycle will begin again.

@salvadorian_1640

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I needed to hear Well see/read

I come back here again and again. It’s 2023, and I cry every time.

Plot twist: he's cosine and she's sine. His emotional investment will continue to decrease, but only temporarily, and she'll always be following the same pattern as him, just pi/2 love cycles behind.

@josephndabu957

7 жыл бұрын

charm9392 thank god I took trig this year so ik what that means lol

@kaidishi9422

7 жыл бұрын

Why cos is always falling?

@SuHAibLOL

7 жыл бұрын

cosine isn't always falling. The derivative of cosine is negative sine. Sine alternates from negative to positive. This would mean that cosine will sometimes be rising, and sometimes be falling.

@mattb7450

7 жыл бұрын

That was deep

@BurtonBao

7 жыл бұрын

LIKE x2030

"You got me, is that all you wanted?"

@DerWonMusics

6 жыл бұрын

Emily Anderson sad facts

Literally me in my last relationship, but in this short I'm the girl. From the point where we crossed, I went up and she went down and we ended things. No cheating, no abuse, just her love phased out as I was still invested. She became too busy for me and could no longer make time. I was going to propose to her June of 2018. It's been 7 weeks since the breakup, but I guess everything happens for a reason...

@DatKidRobert

6 жыл бұрын

dontalks hey bro i hope you’re doing better it’s been a couple months and i hope you’re happy playing overwatch and fortnite

@RPAY100

6 жыл бұрын

The reason is you haven't met the suitable one

@sophial7261

5 жыл бұрын

Well if you guys broke up just because she was too busy for you, it was probably not a very stable relationship anyways.

@tanchristhoper3832

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you bro... i had a 10 years relationship. I also going to propose her early next year. My chart was like a lake. High low and high again. Her chart was like mountain. Low high and low again. In the end she cut our 10 years of relationship. Its painful, but i also believe everything happened for a reason.

@anonymous-404

5 жыл бұрын

Christhoper Cristian 10 years 😳 !! Sorry for you bro !

2/10 graph - no title - no labeled axis - no scale - no R^2 value

@cactusspark1724

4 жыл бұрын

And unit

Oh my goodness! Dia's voice and dialogue gave me the feels so good!

@guapatea601

6 жыл бұрын

Guava Juice aha

@lildino8346

6 жыл бұрын

Guava Juice ikr and omg guava juice

@tantranthanh2938

6 жыл бұрын

-q

@debbiefullard8977

5 жыл бұрын

I MISS U

@sanjithkotaru4463

5 жыл бұрын

*Hi Roi!*

Just because the sparks are gone doesn't mean you're not in love, eventually all relationships pass those first exciting stages. Love is more than a feeling, it's a bond, and it doesn't mean that passion is gone forever, it just means that your relationship will go through phases, and mold itself over time. You can't expect to feel those butterflies forever because you'll only disappoint yourself.

@advut27

7 жыл бұрын

but you can't indifferent to the things you were interested in before? was those just an effort to win someone over? my friend if that's what love is we all are doing it wrong. it don't have to have butterflies but effort matters. Even if the sparks long gone. Effort makes the hard road easy when two people want to work it out.

@LemonadeSugar

7 жыл бұрын

Molly Katherine I agree completely. After many years of dating someone you get comfortable and sparks might not always be there when you see each other. But putting effort and willingness to continue to do things together is very important. You gotta make sure you show affection and love to one another no matter how long the relationship is. Which means to give quality time to one another even when you have a busy schedule.

@molly2846

7 жыл бұрын

LemonadeSugar That's fair, but it seemed for a minute she was gonna break up with him or something and I was confused as to why. It seemed drastic

@mmmmmMuffinz

7 жыл бұрын

wow, couldn't have said it better myself!

@Momoko458

7 жыл бұрын

Molly Katherine I don't think what she cared about was the sparks and the beginning phase of the relationship specifically, but more of the investment and interest in each other. If your partner dismisses you or doesn't show affection or interest anymore, you'll feel discouraged and like things are going downhill, and might replicate the same behavior. I don't think it's the same as losing spark

Muji Pens are the best

@NormalGadgetLab

6 жыл бұрын

I didn't notice but yes!!!

@user-df2jw7ke3g

4 жыл бұрын

SQa zda

I think I am in love with *PHIL'S MIND* cough cough (and the rest of him)

@delperez2565

7 жыл бұрын

Whoever he ends up with is one lucky person.

@mannelshah

7 жыл бұрын

same here!!

@username-fo2ov

7 жыл бұрын

samantha jones May we all PHEEL Phil's PHILosophy.

"You got me, but did you want to keep me?" My heaaart OMG 😭😭💔

I freaking loved how it captured the emotions so beautifully, the chase he made, the aloof facade she gave. How her experience has brought her to the point of not diving head-first into something new, as tempting as it might be. How the show portrayed the fact that she was clearly into him but she suppressed her emotions-and finally, when it happened, that defining moment. Coupled with such a good soundtrack and cinematography, I was entranced with the story. And, realistically, I love how this showed such a real life situation and such a real life answer to it. If your relationship is facing issues, talk about it, no passive-aggressive or subtweets or subtly throwing shade. Be real. What got me was when she said, "You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not wanna keep me?" as it perfectly shows how interest gets lost the moment "The Chase" is over; that and at the end when I realised she's basically saying, "this is how we started, this was how we were, and this is what's happening now, so make your choice". Using the graph just made it so much more interesting and easy to understand. That cliffhanger ending was such a good way to end it, as frustrating as it was. Kudos Wongfu, I am in tears :')

@EdYouTs

6 жыл бұрын

I love your response to this beautiful short movie. I wish I could write one like this. My grammar sucks :(

well, if this isn't exactly how my relationship just ended. thumbs up for capturing things so accurately.

A beautifully crafted short film; good acting by Dia Frampton. And the ending...I get the "point." After a while we lose sight of ourselves and start taking each other for granted. The lesson: value your love and value your partner. Another excellent video.

I actually liked the ending -because whether he went up or down doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things - had he gone up, it would make some people swoon, while getting some criticism from others, down and then many would comment saying that it was a sad ending, or maybe a truthful one. It is just a story, while brilliantly written, it is only a story - what we make of it is ours, and the ending is also ours, with all the ups and downs, disagreements, connections made and lost. But it makes us think, or discuss, and that is a value in itself. And I do know there are people who would say it is true, it is life, because they went through something similar and yet completely different because of their personal experiences, and they would want certainty, but there is rarely any, or at least not always.

@pwangs

7 жыл бұрын

bravo Thank you!

@rabiaash1647

7 жыл бұрын

EveryOtherIsInUse This is so true. 😘👏👏

@MeredithMao

7 жыл бұрын

this is so wonderfully written!

@byMarriGrace

7 жыл бұрын

EveryOtherIsInUse this is the comment id bet my whole bank account to.

@jeevanhops

7 жыл бұрын

i thght it the same way first. But, what if he had drawn a line parallel to x axis ?? :P :P

"I don't really know how to explain it" Talks for an entire 7 minutes explaining how she feels. WongFu Productions you've made another masterpiece that's truly resonated with how my relationship might be going right now. Thank you for opening up my mind and letting me see this from a perspective that wasn't my own.

I remember seeing this video when I needed it the most during my high school puppy love. I’m in college now and it never fails to be there for me when I need it. This video holds a special place in my heart, forever and always. I’m glad I’m not alone with this experience

I feel like this is my relationship And i hate the feeling of losing her But i dont know how long i can keep going on like this Not feeling loved by the one i love

@sophial7261

5 жыл бұрын

You want to know how long you can keep going like this? if you're that dependent on other people to be happy, nvm

@victoralvarado5767

4 жыл бұрын

Well you’re screwed

this could be a commercial for muji...i love those pens!

@asthakaul

7 жыл бұрын

Haha was just gonna comment that, I'm glad someone else is as obsessed with muji as me!

The guy's a really good listener. #justsaying

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

well with Dia's voice, it's easy to listen, hehe

@PakBaluch

7 жыл бұрын

The content of her speech is extraordinarily articulate and compelling as well. I wish every single person in a relationship was as effective a communicator. This is the kind of short movie that stays with you forever and you think back upon it during relevant times in your own life. Thank you for filming this incredibly amazing short movie with great actors.

@mattb7450

7 жыл бұрын

He's not the only good listener ;)

When 10 minute KZread videos are better love stories than Twilight..........

@roye6961

5 жыл бұрын

twilight isnt a love story

Relationships is handwork...everyday. Married 15 yrs here with the same girl. I see her every day the way I saw her the first day...

@kassey9475

4 жыл бұрын

Wow...

Wongfu back at it again with the feels 😭

One of the best things I love about Wong Fu is the minute details - the shots of their hands, eyes, feet. Lingering, falling, the hesitation - these are all things through which our bodies communicate what is going on within us. The second thing, is the natural acting and the extremely natural state of the actors in terms of make up, speaking etc. I feel like I am literally watching a friend of mine's life story here. It is really nice to see because not everyone looks like friggin contoured or a model 24/7. People are people, and we fall in love with them.

@cactusspark1724

4 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah

Can't hold all these feels.

The script is soooo good and relatable. It made me feel as though I’m watching my own failed relationship 😭 It transported me back in time.

As someone who's been watching Wong Fu since I was little, they've had such a huge effect on my life growing up, especially as an Asian American without many Asian influences on KZread and the media. They deserve so many more subscribers than they have! This was such an inspirational video so thank you, Wong Fu, for making my day again x

@thewadeeffect

7 жыл бұрын

Fianna Ton Truth.

@Slumpio

7 жыл бұрын

Fianna Ton true

After watching this video, I took a step back and reflected how much Wong Fu has influenced my behaviour and how I treat my missus. Wong Fu's serious and comedic videos on relationship really hit home to me. I realised how romantic/corny I can be towards my missus and I feel like watching all of Wong Fu videos after all these years has shaped me in a way. This video reminds me not to drop the line on my girl. Not take her love for granted and always appreciate her. Thanks Phil and Wes. Thank you for all your stories and videos you put out here on the internet. You guys have made some impact on my life. Making me tear up(sometimes!), making me reflect on my life, etc. I really appreciate your work. Keep it up!

@Lily.valkyrie

7 жыл бұрын

+

@JuanBanda23

7 жыл бұрын

InitialDei same!

@katherinedays

7 жыл бұрын

+++++++

@Whoisthiseee2

7 жыл бұрын

I was actually thinking the same thing the other day! I dont have a Gf but how i treat girls, i feel as Wongfu has influenced me in such ways. I love it :)

@iceinvein

7 жыл бұрын

Thank Phil for all those feels XD

Damn, it hit me. Can't help my tears. :'( I could really relate to the girl so much because I've been in that situation too. And unfortunately even until now, I still don't find the answers to that questions.

I don't know how but Wong Fu has always managed to release a short with the exact things I'm feeling in the exact moment I need it. They have this power to say things that I can't or don't know how to say and have such a soft and calm way of saying things. I honestly can't watch a short without tearing up because their work touched my heart so much. Thank you, Wong Fu.

Man that overhead shot though.

@doTHEuncleSAM

7 жыл бұрын

bensonq man, you though ;)

@NikhilKanamarla

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@khhthuiting

6 жыл бұрын

bensonq did you take a shot to take that shot😂?

"doesn't matter to me." "I want it to matter to you."

Been watching WongFu videos since they were being uploaded on some other site before KZread existed. It's been almost a decade I think. And still I find myself putting these videos in my watch later for weeks or months at a time. They hit so hard and ring so true they feel like those inevitable conversations in a relationship you avoid even though you know everything will be better if you just bite the bullet and talk it out. I always feel more enlightened after watching these videos and yet still find myself scared to watch them immediately because of the impact it will have on my life. Thank you for constantly creating top quality content that withstands the test of time. Thank you for creating a dialogue.

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sticking with us for so long. Sorry we create such anxiety in your life! haha. Hopefully the comedy sketches even things out. Hope to have you for another decade!

I always rewatch these few short films and fall in love with love all over again.

I really like her. She's a great actress.

plot twist: he stabs her with the pen

@yueqing666

7 жыл бұрын

Monica Ellis I love these two comments

@WorldoftheNebulous

7 жыл бұрын

Hahaha! I was just eating during that scene and said to myself as he picked up the pen "and then he stabs her with it." Oops.

@kkkevv224

7 жыл бұрын

a pineapple pen?

@Cody425

7 жыл бұрын

Kevin Vu pineapple

@iamtekkengod4644

7 жыл бұрын

Monica Ellis lmao!!

That was the greatest hook ive ever seen in my life. No words, just a pen, a graph, and expectations that were never met because the screen turn black. I have fallen in love with Wong Fu and its screenwriters for the sake of drawing a quite literal picture of every relatable aspect of life.

It’s been about two years since this video came out. It’s one of the videos I haven’t watched and the first time I’m watching it is after one of my first hard breakups. This hits home so badly rn because I’m the girl in this situation. Props to Wong Fu for all they do!

Came for feels, left with cliffhanger. Feelsbadman

@thisismyname8621

7 жыл бұрын

Looks to me like he went down

@iSkates21

7 жыл бұрын

Adrian Vo the line went up, the first scene is present day and the entire story is a flashback

@MeDaK2ZAKON

7 жыл бұрын

No,the first scene is one month into their relationship.. The entire story is told after several months,or even years..

Phil writes most of the romanitic shorts and yet he's single, I'm sensing something.

@missjennpark

7 жыл бұрын

Ahhh I don't think he's single... sad ;(

@khawlchingngaihte9744

7 жыл бұрын

missjennpark really? tell me more

@anotherdanielle2918

7 жыл бұрын

tbh i feel like Phil has been in a relationship but he just doesn't let on... lol

@missjennpark

7 жыл бұрын

anotherDanielle I confess I did some intense IG stalking....only to confirm Phil isn't single lol

@khawlchingngaihte9744

7 жыл бұрын

missjennpark oh myy

I lost it and started crying at 7:40 WFP really knows how to bring out every emotion in me. Beautifully done as always.

I watch this like 20 time already, and still watching, it was so well done.

That ending though 😭😆

I really enjoyed that cliff hanger, it was good because it took the story away from the characters showing that they weren't the important part, but the moral was.

I remember coming across WongFu years ago when I was dating my first love on and off for 3 years. A lot of their shorts hit home on what I felt, or what I feared would happen, and I would try to get him to watch it to understand how I felt. Naturally we parted ways, and it has been years now, but these shorts, whether they're newly made or from a few years ago, bring back memories of when we both were together, and I wanted so badly for him to not drift away.

@DerWonMusics

6 жыл бұрын

E S It's sad but true. You can't force it tho. Sucks and now more relatable as ever 😩

@lea9977

6 жыл бұрын

DerWonMusics It is no hard feelings. Learned many great lessons and now am married with our first child.

I truly love Wong Fu stories, they are simply amazing and the ending on this had me think of so many things, how it should end and even relating to it so much

Wong Fu......this is so good!!!! It depicts a common theme in relationships. Although it is common, you presented it in a unique and new way, through a different perspective that takes the situation deeper and more meaningful. Professionals at there best, keep up the good work Wong Fu.

If you are in a relationship and the "interest" diminishes, then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. "There is a difference between interest and commitment. When you are interested in something, you do it only when it's convenient. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results." *Kenneth H. Blanchard*

@TheRaphaPower

7 жыл бұрын

no the infatuation will eventually diminish. People take that as love. But it's easy to be infatuated. True love comes in when you invest each and every day into your significant other. Even when you don't feel like it and even when it's hard. True love is being there for them despite anything and that happens when you invest your time into them. Just because the infatuation diminished doesn't mean something amazing can't grow. It's a choice we all have to make.

i think you guys have absolutely nailed the whole crossing point concept. my friends and i were recently talking about this whole "crossing point" concept but i think none of us articulated it as succinctly as you guys did. this is the kind of quality shorts that i love wongfu for! keep up the great work guys :)

Of all the open ended films I watched, yours tore my heart the most. It was so abrupt I did not have time to accept it 'til later. 😭 Great work, guys!!!

The best part about this video, relationship wise, is it shows communication. I know she waited a while to express her crossing paths feelings and regardless of if he went up or down at the end, they communicated their real feelings. A lot of relationships turn away or avoid these types of talks but any healthy relationship is built around trust, honesty and communication. Anyways, this was another amazing video!

Legit drew that graph to my ex before. Most relatable video I've ever watched.

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

seriously? wow, did it look similar??

@joshmdmd

7 жыл бұрын

If you drew the lines, you're admitting you never had as much invested in the other person. The other person's been waiting for you to commit 0-100 but you never got there. Don't be so guarded.

@SuperUngidGaming

7 жыл бұрын

Well, they did say ex. You could say that it crossed a looong time ago.

@favoritenumber4

7 жыл бұрын

Some people take time :) But I agree, had I been able to open up faster maybe it would've worked, or maybe if he'd been more understanding to my situation. Either way, it ended well!

This is one of the best short from WongFu. The way it makes you feel...

Definitely one of the best of all the productions (talking more about the storyline, not the acting). I think it's the girl's voice and the poetic words she say.

how did she freehand those lines so straight?? 😆

@wongfupro

7 жыл бұрын

*cough* Jenn Le *cough*

@lamia5586

7 жыл бұрын

omg they replied^^^

@californiaklassable

7 жыл бұрын

knew it!!!

@lorrahoxoxo77

7 жыл бұрын

when u were thinking the same thing

@TycoGamingHD

7 жыл бұрын

You have to take the Engineering 1C03 course

I normally *never* comment on youtube videos, but this particular video struck an emotion that resonated strongly with me and perhaps others. My goodness. Never have I felt that this feeling that I've felt before could be articulated as clearly as this short has depicted; of gradual change in emotional capacity between two people. Sad to say, I've done what the girl has done before, but never really noticed. I slowly kept building walls that were taller and taller, after each failed relationship, to prevent myself from falling. There came a person who was just like the boyfriend in this video. Charming, intelligent, and genuine. This person even pointed out that he felt as if I had a wall up during the first few months of dating. I didn't feel like I did, but repeated conditioning of experiencing regret through failed relationships causes one to automatically have walls up by default. So to me, having walls up 24/7 was as automatic as breathing, so I never noticed. I let my walls fall for this person. He was the first person in a while to make me feel a certain way I haven't felt before. Then as the girlfriend pointed out, the emotional investment from the other decreased as my trajectory increased. This is what I explicitly remember feeling and felt as though we were at a point where things would deteriorate. Things continued to fall, and we tried working things out, but it just wasn't ever the same. We did end up breaking up though, which put me through some shitty days, but hey, that's reality sometimes.

@TI2OY

7 жыл бұрын

You should watch Strangers, Again if you haven't already!

@Cristbw

7 жыл бұрын

??????????????

@Mohamed-ev8ij

7 жыл бұрын

A. C. Dayuuuum for u being the "I don't want to comment" person that u are, ur comments are soooo fuuucking looooong

@milkychan1

7 жыл бұрын

@ Troy Never knew Wong Fu was ahead of their time even back in 2011. The tolerating phase hit me the hardest. Great video though. Thanks for the suggestion :). @ HAMOOD It was just compelling :). I did try to condense my thoughts, but in the end, it still came out rather long, hah.

@FrankBell

7 жыл бұрын

hahahahahahaha

Phenomenal premise and great acting . This happens quite often a lot of relationships and have never seen it explained and the idea to show it with a chart and just the lines of the script and what was said and how it was explained very well was great❤😊

Great seeing Dia! Her performance of Heartless on the 1st season of the Voice is still the most creative act that show has ever had.

I expected that ending but was still shocked. I GOT TO KNOW!!

so i guess this does happen to a lot of relationships not just me... maybe i was immature but when i got together with my first boyfriend it was exactly like this and i just couldn't cope with the fact that his emotional investment was so high in the beginning and just dropped somewhere along the way... i felt neglected and unfair that he showed me so much love and affection and i put down my defensive walls and doubts and made me love him but then his interest just seemed to fade... he said he loved me the same or even more and maybe that was true but i just felt the opposite... it's difficult to balance out each other's investment but if a relationship is meant to last i'm sure it's just another obstacle you will overcome

@DerWonMusics

6 жыл бұрын

AyanamiRei5kyu Just broke up yesterday and this feels so real. Just the other way around. It is how it is right

The music and story for this one are so gripping. My new favorite from you guys

This is literally the most beautiful short film I have ever seen.

Tears after tears. My heart aches for all of those experiencing this kind of heartache.

Honestly, it's ridiculous to expect romantic emotions to last. That bubbly lovey feeling you have for each other WILL eventually fade: it's just human nature. Stop idolizing that feeling. Romance, relationships, and marriage are more than just fleeting emotions. Those emotions are meant to draw a couple together but not to keep them together. Of course, that's not to say that your affection and attraction toward your partner should dwindle as time goes on; in fact, it should grow stronger as the relationship changes and matures. But love is a daily choice of dedication and sacrifice, not a just a fleeting feeling of how interested you are in a person. Love eventually matures to become commitment, not mere interest. With interest, you can always opt out when you don't feel like it; with commitment, you're all in whether you like it or not. The key is to thrive in the mundane of life and to make a choice to commit to your partner every single day. Basically, love isn't all rainbows and butterflies, so stop thinking love is over when the rainbow fades and the butterflies leave your stomach.

@musicsoulhaysgrl

7 жыл бұрын

P I absolutely love that line about thriving in the mundane of life. Beautiful post.

@buffybuenviaje16

7 жыл бұрын

nice deep thought..totally agree with that. are you a guy or lady? most women doesn't think that way when it comes to relationship.

@jasminerose3004

7 жыл бұрын

i wholly agree. I've always tried to tell this to people when they tell me things like "it doesn't feel the same anymore". Love is a choice, a commitment. Not a mere fleeting emotion.

@monsterpda

7 жыл бұрын

What would you say about a relationship where the bubbly butterfly love never happened but the ability to work as a couple is there? As in, communication is great, the physical stuff is well in order too, but the bubbly rainbow phase was... skipped?

@mehjs2

7 жыл бұрын

wow deep I concur well said

I grew up with Wongfu and I used to only watch the comedy sketches because I didn't really understand the more deep and meaningful messages with videos such as these. But as I have grown and experienced relationships I find myself wanting to watch these more because I actually understand and can relate to these pains. I love the videos that you guys produce!!!!! Pls keep being amazing :DD

That was the best ending. Its so intriguing how you guys not only understand how relationships end up but also how to capture it and portray that exact message. Pure talent.👌

Idk why, but i'm expecting the comedy version of this from David So

@kieren024

7 жыл бұрын

Hai Pham YES PLEASE! (how to tag David So?)

@nutellalatte7522

7 жыл бұрын

Hai Pham tweet him and dm David this idea, omg😂😂😂

Wow, this was so well-written, acted out and filmed. Wong Fu acing it again :)

Just saw this video and am really proud of Wong Fu's progress over the years. The cinematography is beautiful along with the writing, and it honestly made me cry thinking of my own personal experiences. I hope to see more videos like this in the future!!

Damn that cliffhanger though. Wong Fu shorts always make me so emotionally invested into them and I love it.

loved the cliffhanger! as much as I wanted him to draw the line up, sometimes you just have to be honest and leave the relationship now before you hurt the other person even more... 😞

@ablinkan8818

7 жыл бұрын

and why did you assume he draw down.

@yamadaHSJ

7 жыл бұрын

I'm not assuming. I didn't mean to make it sound that way, either way we have to accept it is all i'm trying to say. :/

I look forward to the day I meet a woman who can express herself this eloquently and with such self-respect. Someone who can fight for our relationship by reminding me of what we've invested, what we mean to each other, without coming off as argumentative or confrontational. I have yet to meet her but when I do, I hope our lines do cross...but stay parallel from that moment onward.

@cassiebanks

7 жыл бұрын

The only place you're going to find that is through someone that watches Wong Fu videos. LOL! I don't think it's as easy as "staying" invested in a relationship. A relationship is where you go to balance out all the hard work you put into your career/job. If your first inclination isn't to spend time with your significant other to enjoy some chill time or to celebrate your accomplishments, what you need to make the long haul isn't there. Just my opinion.

@kaessey

7 жыл бұрын

I think that's why @0onarcissisto0 want their lines cross but STAY :)

@charlieshin9868

7 жыл бұрын

0onarcissisto0 get in line

@0onarcissisto0

7 жыл бұрын

Carrie Zhang I get your point but I value balance more than anything. It could be the opposite where she starts out more invested in me. In the end, I'd rather have things pretty equal. But that's just my opinion.

@cassiebanks

7 жыл бұрын

+Name - I don't deny that yes, sometimes you just need a few hours by yourself or a night out with the girls, but I was reacting more to the visual of the video. In this relationship, the guy has pretty much fallen into his tech and the purpose of the graph she's drawing is showing him the increase in the instances he's choosing tech over human interaction. A lot of couples were brought up to think dating is the place where you sell your wares instead of really getting to know whether someone can meet your needs. I know really needy people who need social interaction all the time and I know people like me who are more home/family types who value just spending time together. The message of the video to me was to be bold enough to realize that even though you've put a year into a relationship, actions speak louder than words. It's like watching body language to tell if someone is lying. They may think they are being honest, but intent speaks volumes that lip service could never cover. You can tell if someone cherishes you or if you're just there because they can't stand being alone.

Thank you so much for the wake up call, it’s amazing how your videos hit home so hard. You guys are a blessing. I know what I have to do

1:18 Him-"Whatever you want. Doesn't matter to me" Her-"I want it to matter to you" GURL no. When he says that it means that he doesn't want his preference to influence what you want (in case they conflict). That's why he says "Whatever you want" before saying "It doesn't matter to me". It doesn't mean that he doesn't care about the party or you in general. In fact it means that he cares about you and your mental wellbeing, that's why he's being considerate. Besides that, this is an amazing film really. This demonstrates a real problem that really happens in relationships. What a gem.

@efrainsaucedo3134

6 жыл бұрын

S that could be the case, the manner in which he said it was quite cold though.

DID YOU GUYS SEE THE END, IT LOOKED LIKE THE GUY WENT DOWN!!

@RatioVII

7 жыл бұрын

it looks to me like he going straight forward together

@toniamark

7 жыл бұрын

I saw that too. I hope it would go straight but I saw *that* motion

@minilme

7 жыл бұрын

You're right!! It went down!!

@lizziechin2162

7 жыл бұрын

Ultimate cliff hang

@JqiOng

7 жыл бұрын

the line went up! cuz in the beginning the guy clearly was still with her 1 month AFTER her birthday!

That pen works really well

@acertainlustforlife

7 жыл бұрын

sweetishbts It's from Muji!!!!

"You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not want to keep me?"

Probably the 10th time watching this and it still got me.. each and every time.. "did you not want to keep me?"

In a way I feel like the feelings that start at the top are always bound to fall.

This video was a banger, great portrayal of different perspectives! I bet a lot will relate to this.

There videos are so powerful no matter how many times I watch them tears always end up falling down my face.

This is such a tangible way of explaining the situation I've/ we've almost all been in. Your videos are amazing, can't wait to see more😢💔