I'm so proud of Alfie and his growing speech ❤❤❤❤

Do whatever is best for you and your kids and don’t worry about what anybody else thinks. Your kids are so cute and adorable.

@immaseahorse24

27 күн бұрын

Sure, being complacent and enabling poor behaviour that is shown on every social media platform , is super healthy for the children and the family. 🤦‍♀️

@clairehawkes1112

27 күн бұрын

@@immaseahorse24 and being cute and adorable is of corse what matters most in life 😂

In regards to the iPad. I never thought I’d be a screen kid, parent. But my son listens to music on his iPad to regulate himself, so his therapist said for him it’s a tool for his autism, so let him have it. So we do and sometimes he’s on it the whole time we’re out and sometimes it’s just sitting beside him and he’s taking in all the sights and sounds. To each his own I say! And to hell with what other parents have to say because they do not know your situation or your child. ❤️

@elinchristensen4854

28 күн бұрын

Brilliant 😊

@xxxxOS

27 күн бұрын

Just make sure they never get access to porn. A 6 yo was caught downloading violent porn onto a family tablet recently. Young boys and girls are becoming addicted to porn. It's across all social media apps and juat every app even kids apps. Silicon Valley makes a lot of money getting kids addicted to porn and it completely messes them up for life. Especially boys. Minor boys have now become the leading perpetrators of child sexual abuse and they believe it correlates with being groomed by porn online. It's not an accident. Imo kids shouldn't be online until they are 18+ even if you think your kid can't access porn, they can. Porn today is genuinely disturbing and leads to boys having the most messed up sexual preferences to the point they can't find girlfriends or keep them. There's a whole host of issues your kids will have from prolonged use on the iPad but I dont blame parents for doing it. You just have to be so careful our kiddos don't access bad stuff and the Internet is full of bad stuff and criminal activity

Stephen may not want to hang out with the bf thats cool but one day there will be a time when the kids will have a special day (birthday, sport day, dance, award whatever) and BOTH will want to show up for the kids (which is AMAZING) so they will need to zip it, put on a smile and be soooo grateful that their kids are just so lucky to be so loved by so many people! My son had plays, birthday parties so far and I do feel very lucky thay my husband and my sons father never skipped a beat when it came to our boy. I met my husband 5 years ago and from the start, when it came to my sons birthday, he showed up, set up the party helped with games, packed down and did it all with my sons dad. They arent besties, but they get along well and I know if I need them to organise anything to do our boy, they can do it without me being the messenger. I pray that Laura and Stephen can get to that place where she can feel that peace, trust and confidence 🥰 I love that my boy has the best dad snd stepdad and both men respect and value each other.

Your family isn't how you planned it, but that doesn't make it any less beautiful❤ So glad you had a great mother's day and your nails look sick!

Co parenting is HARD. Laura is amazing and she's got this! They are trying to raise these beautiful children in a positive environment. Please don't be so hard on them.

@beckyrichardson7663

27 күн бұрын

Your comment is everything. Totally agree. Astonishes me how harsh and judgmental people are. All I see is Laura doing her best. X

I needed to hear this the last bit. I want so bad to get put of my negativity. Always was such a positive person. But after lot of painful stuff happening I changed. Your such a good mother happy for you coparenting goes (mostly) well ❤

I also am a mother of a little boy with autism. Use whatever tools you have available to you, iPad, food, praise, bribery, whatever works to keep your child safe/happy/calm in public. This tricky stage will pass, but it might get more intense before it does (think running onto roads, running away, walking off with strangers). My son was particularly tricky at 5 years of age, the iPad was extremely useful in places where he might get bored or overstimulated. ❤

@We.do.not.scissor

16 күн бұрын

The running away is scary. My autistic daughter went to school with an autistic boy. I actually observed at the school and met the boy. He was so nice and showed me his werewolf drawing. Anyways, I guess he began running away when he was mad. The school ended up building a fence to keep him safe at recess.

Our stories I believe are quite similar I have two children with my ex of 15 years and co parenting and holidays are so different now your videos are so amazingly truthful about how it really is and I appreciate seeing it and knowing I'm not alone but we're on the right path and showing kids love as well as self love tysm seriously your amazing deserve the entire world and we are a pam fam 😂 we love the Pamela pumpkin videos 😂❤🎉

Your British accent is literally the best, Laura 😆🙌🫶

Hope you had the Best Mothers day Laura! you deserve it& yay for self care! Esp YOGA & massage🧘🏼‍♀️😊🫶🏼Love seeing you & Stephen co parenting, its so healthy for all of you, wish only good things for your family✨💫✨

Babe , if it works,it works, it's not about how everyone does it, its about how you do it with steven for the kids ❤ A beautiful mother's day filled with joy and chaos in harmony and love. I've been around for a long time, you have come a long way, I'm proud of you, and I just love your videos ❤ Courage girl ❤😘❤ Happy Mother's day 🌺

@immaseahorse24

27 күн бұрын

It’s not working, last week she said she was scared anxious and terrified over telling him to back into his own home. That’s not ‘it’s working great’

Alfie has grown so much his looking so much like steven happy mothers day laura

Note to Stephen, there are many videos of an ex giving gifts on mothers day. It sets a good example for the children. Also on holidays. Its great the time you,all spend together, great for kids mental health

As there stevens kids i think its reasonable he did more 😅

@clairehawkes1112

28 күн бұрын

I was thinking the same to be fair. When he said what do you do? I was thinking it’s Mother’s Day you get Laura gifts from your kids. Although my ex hasn’t in 15 years. My kids were sad so I gave the eldest money and stood outside the shop. Yes, he’s an idiot

I literally ask myself why do people still feel the need the comment at stephens every move. Atleast damn, thats how i feel. How about lets all be grateful that he actually wants to be their for his kids and to wanna be an active participant in the situation instead of being absent. Hes their and the kids are perfectt perfect. Yall are awesome. Ignore the negative consistent coments that people are posting because they cant help themselves.lol

@witteney3334

27 күн бұрын

I agree no matter how you fell about Steven let’s be positive for their kids.

@wynonagreen8288

25 күн бұрын

Go to Della dream she talks about him getting high and driving the kids and how he’s messed up so many girls in the last year

Completely agree with the THREENAGER comments… as a Mama myself & a full-time Nanny, the 3yr old game is rough… but silver lining, 4yr olds are my very favorite phase in the history of ever. It’s always darkest before the dawn & all that. Hang in there Mommies! 💛

@janebaker4912

22 күн бұрын

Oh heck yeah 4 is cute....but im now finding 5 is great.

Yes, 3s are wild!!! WILD haha!! The "terrible two" is a damn lie.

Love your nails, they're so pretty. Love the co-parenting as well. Happy Mothers Day to you.

Daddy buys the Mommy a gift still. Maybe as the kids get older, they can choose the gift or gifts for Mommy. ❤

Kids are changing all the time! Rapidly and each one so differently!!!

Steven seems very happy. Happy for him and you!!

Personally I think it's great the way you can do things together and that he still makes sure to get you a gift.

This was nice. You seemed so calm and grateful at the end.

Your nails are so colorful and unique, love them! 🥰

Love your relationship and I see you guys made better best friends instead, idk he is just so respectful ❤and I love it ❤

@biancapereira8529

28 күн бұрын

RESPECTFUL?! STEVEN?! Is that a joke?

@angieo2245

28 күн бұрын

​@@biancapereira8529 They have a fantastic co-parenting relationship. I love it ❤

@biancapereira8529

28 күн бұрын

​@@angieo2245that's not what the comment was about.

@angieo2245

28 күн бұрын

@@biancapereira8529 Ooops I was responding to the original poster.

The kids are getting so big, and are so adorable! I know it’s the hardest thing to coparent, but my mother and father never ever spoke after the divorce! We had an account at the bank that we were supposed to use at the start at every school year for clothes and school supplies. They were supposed to have to go to the bank and both sign for the money to be withdrawn! It never happened, the money just sat there and my mom was so broke we never got anything! The money sat there until we were 18 years old! The child support was suppose to be $60 every two weeks or a month and we never received a penny! My mom hated my dad so bad when he was supposed to pick us up she would put us out on the curb like a rash can. He wouldn’t come and we would have to sit out there for over an hour and then bang on the door to get back inside. Then she would take it out on us when we came back inside. It was horrible! I know you have been through a lot, but I thank you for doing your best with putting up with his crap so your kids can have a life, and not be blamed for the situation. I am 58 and have never spoken to my father since I was 8 years old! It has been very painful. He is a lonely old man and I am just waiting to hear he is gone one day! He left my mom with no car, electricity was turned off and water was turned off! So, I really appreciate you saving your children from this and sacrificing your mental health for them. God bless you and happy Mother’s Day to you! God bless❤

Happy Mother's day! I am SO GLAD you had a happy one!!!

You guys are so fun to watch! Also my 3 year old was an absolute nightmare. It gets better with lots of patience ❤

I haven't watched in over a year. However I want to comment that I love to see you all covalent the way you are. If it works for you and shows love and positivity to your kids it's a win for all. Your boyfriend/girlfriends accept this or told from the start that your still a family in a different way then people shouldn't say anything negative. They are only seeing a small window of your life.

I'm so happy you had a great Mother's Day!!! ❤❤❤

Having been divorced for many years, I can honestly say life is so much easier when the divorced parents can get along. It's especially easier on the children.

I have a 7 year old son pretty high on the autism spectrum and he changes constantly. It’s like living with a bipolar lion cub with multiple personalities. I say that with the utmost love. 😂

u guys are awesome .. definitely alfie is gng to say that soon. i love watching u guys together coparent so beautifully❤

We are that iPad family with an autistic 4 year old. I don’t know how to do it without it.

My son is low functioning Autistic. He is 15 now, but he used to have terrible melt downs age 2-10 & he would clear tables or hit anyone or anything close to him. There were some very uncomfortable situations but all you can really do is apologize, get your child to a quiet safe place and keep encouraging him to use his words. Do you carry sensory items or noise cancelling headphones with you? My son really responded well to chewy tubes and the headphones, as well as arriving places before a crowd if we could. example: baseball games or school events. Best wishes and Happy Mothers Day

I love Yin Yoga too! So good!

I love how ya'll Co parent Good work ya'll💜

Thanks for your videos

Being someone who is coparenting and still currently living with my ex husband- he too still surprised me with a present he and my daughter made and something he got me. Threenager for sure! It’s tough! But … perhaps she’s mid- leap of growth.

I believe with certain children that they actually need them to separate themselves from all the new people and the restaurant can be overwhelming. ❤😊 Don't get embarrassed and don't think you EVER have to leave early momma bear!❤😊

💐 Dear Laura ~ I'm so glad you had such a perfect Mother's Day this year; it was just what YOU needed re brunch, manicure, massage & hot yoga ... 💐

Happy late mother's day Laura!!

Yes, 3 and 13 are hell 😂 take it from me with a mom of each currently.

@stephaniesanders5159

28 күн бұрын

Oh, bless you!!!! I couldn't do a teen and a toddler at once no, Ma'am hahaha!!

I’m so happy you enjoyed your Mother’s Day! 🙏🏼 My anxiety gets the best of me so I don’t join a yoga class 😔 Do you have any suggestions for beginners yoga on KZread? 🙏🏼

We don’t own iPads, but we let them watch shows on our phone sometimes at restaurants. I also usually bring coloring books and markers…sometimes playdo, etc…and try those first.

I take coloring supplies: sketch pad, markers, and crayons. We play a game, I draw something than kiddo draws something to see what we create/story is imagined. However, if you want to be involved in the conversation with your party or group you’re with-iPad may be better. I’m pretty involved in that world of coloring with my kid, and it’s a great way to not talk to the people I am with (if that’s what I desire-which happens) this way too, my kid gets an opportunity to feel like he’s hear, involved, or paid attention to.

Happy Mother’s Day!!! ❤

I always called it the Thunderous Threes, not terrible two's. 2 they were great for me :)

Yes! 3 was very hard for 2 of my 4 kids.

God bless you family ❤

The rest of us in the restaurant just kindly ask the sound off or the kid has headphones

I do love all of you together.

I just read Idiot and I can't wait to read Idiots and I really really really hope she writes another book cuz it's literally been years since I was actually able to get myself to read a book and I always loved reading. I want endless books about Laura's life. 😭

I just hope one day Laura will realise that life is better with Steven, I love you guys as a couple!❤

@slmdnkasr62

27 күн бұрын

but... clearly it's not... have you ever listened to a word she's said? that's what you want to believe

It sounds like your Mother's day was wonderful! Stephen has always been a wonderful father. That's important for your beautiful babies! Take the IPAD! Don't worry about what others think! When my three babies were little, I took them out to eat at a Bob Evans. They were healthy when we left the house m but at the restaurant, my youngest vomited which caused the other two to vomit!! It was a vomit fest all over the table! 🤮 😂🤣 The waitress brought me one napkin when I asked for rags! Lol? I wasn't leaving them the mess! I never went there again! 😂🤣😂🤣💞💞💞💞

You are such a good mama

1000% with my 3 year old too! I say 3 going on 16 lol the roll coaster of emotions haha

Laura, I think you’re doing a really good job with the coparenting. It’s kind of a new concept. This wasn’t happening when my parents got divorced and good for you to trying to keep the family together. I think Stevens is doing a good job too even though he’s a little wacky.

I've always said it's not terrible 2s, it's those 3s!!!

My son is autistic, 4 years old, and having a tablet helps us so much sometimes. Especially long car rides!

Yes. Age 3 is when big feelings come! No worries! Just snuggle her and know you’re there! Practice using words to communicate! 🥰

Yes a great idea especially Alfie needs

You deleted your Mother’s Day video that you posted yesterday!!??? I loved it! I watched it like 8 times and sent it to mom. Then I went to watch it again today and it’s gone! 😱 I thought it was hilarious. . I loved it. ! I needed it. ❤ wish it was still there to watch

@MissLadyBelle

27 күн бұрын

Never mind I found it 😅

@LauraMarieClery

27 күн бұрын

It’s an old video! So just type in Mother’s Day parody Laura Clery :)))

Poppy could be emotional because the poor child is getting beyond confused

3 year olds are rough. I remember a month or so before my son turned three I felt the same way. Just where did my sweet boy go? Also the iPad is a good tool to have. Like we don't go for it immediately but our son has ADHD and cannot hold still and be quiet without it sometimes. So if we need it we use it.

Yes!!! 3 was NUTS!!! I didn’t have terrible 2’s.

Aww, isn't that adorable? Stephen gave you red flags for Mother's Day!!💜

Three was the worst year of my parenting life. (My daughter is 30). And then she woke up on her fourth birthday and there was my little sweetheart again. Give me a two year old any day of the week!

I'm sorry but I love Steven I think he's funny and you two together are hilarious

I wish we had iPads when our boys were little. We literally could not take them out to eat until they were like ages 5 and 7. Unless there was an area where they could run around lol.

Yes. 3 is worse than 2 and don't let others judgement bother you. They are still learning how to be in public.

The iPad is helpful 😆 don’t be hard on yourself or worry about judgement.

Yes. "THREENAGER". Sassy and salty. She'll be sweet again in 2 years.

My son just turned 3 and omg couldn’t agree more 😅 About to wean off the dummy/pacifier and I’m scared 😂

My daughter is 5 soon to be 6...get ready! Lol the sas and argumentativness is only starting hahaha its literally like fussing with yourself in small form 😂 but theres nothing better because it makes the loving so much more meaningful 😂❤

Yep, we bring devices and if things start going sideways, we'll let them be used with no volume until the food comes... Feels like a good compromise with teaching boundaries but also being reasonable about their developmental stages to me!

Who is to say what "conventional" is, I've found convention to be whatever works best for my family...

He is speaking great. It almost sounded like he said he has to go pee

Oh my gosh yes 3 was a big change with my little girl!

Yes take the ipad! Honesty 80% my son is fine without it but sometimes theyre just wild and the tablet helps!

Girl my daughter and son are austic and iPad is so helpful

5 15 and 25 are the worst ages for my 4 boys but any odd number ages are a struggle

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My daughter did not go through the trouble twos and I remember bragging about it because all my friends kids had the trouble twos then 3 hit and man terrible 3s for sure lol

This is going to be a learning process for you both, but as a child of an incredibly toxic divorce, this is beautiful to see for the littles.

It’s sad that this is unconventional. My ex and I coparented very well. We always did holidays together, even vacations, all their sporting events, and hung out so the kids could spend time with both of us. My husband and him became friends so it worked out great. On vacations my husband and I could go out and spend time together away from the kids and I knew they were safe with their dad, while still being there not missing anything. Whatever is best for the kids is what matters. As long as you both keep the kids first, that’s what’s best for them. I know not all couples can do this but for the ones that can it’s great. No matter of the kids were at my house or his , they had the same environment bc we stayed on the same page.

@temperancesibyl6110

28 күн бұрын

That's amazing. Wish all parents could work together like this.

I do not care how other people judge my parenting. If the iPad helps your kiddos stay regulated and grounded in an overwhelming place, then iPad it is. Zero fucks given to the judgement.

@elinchristensen4854

28 күн бұрын

Perfect 👍

Take the I-pad it could be useful. I took different forms of entertainment when going out in public. You do what you gotta do.

My five year old asked me to dance to the Lammas world sounds at 5am on Mother’s Day. WhoWhoWhoWhoWhoWho

So glad you stood up for yourself and had him move back to his house! GREAT DECISION!!!!

I can't help but feel a twinge of all the attention that you received! I have three sons, three adult sons... Didn't hear a single word from them....

@my3pups

28 күн бұрын

Call them! Tell them you love and miss them. ❤

@eileenhaslof1696

28 күн бұрын

@@my3pups I absolutely have!

@my3pups

28 күн бұрын

@@eileenhaslof1696 I read that you hadn't heard a word from them. It's great you call them. Mums are the central hub of the family.

@eileenhaslof1696

28 күн бұрын

@@my3pups I mentioned that as a declaration to my attempts to be in touch with them! If anything, l raised all three of them to be fiercely independent!

Absolutely it's 3. They change so much little demons suddenly

Mom of autistic son and an Irish twin 9 months between them and we could literally never ever leave the house again if we didn’t bring iPads it’s saved my sanity it’s only a hour or two and teh]y can run free when they get home and the relief of peaceful eating you HAVE to do it f what others think

N how did he afford this massage he got u?

I’m glad she had a lovely day! But sorry I don’t see the boy friend lasting long.

I love the peace and quiet that an iPad gives us at a restaurant. But I don’t like that the kids now expect it all the time to behave in public. Unfortunately we had to take them away because

@violetpeterson5006

27 күн бұрын

They expected the iPads to behave

At 3 children do get a burst of hormones same around 7 to 9 and then puberty 9 to 15 .I found age 3 hard then 15 to 17 difficult w8th my 3 girls but by 19 it was great again.

Hell Yes to the IPAD!!!