CONVO| Let's talk openly about sex before & in marriage - Themba Tom Ntuli |ThatHusbandPodcast

[S1] EPISODE 15: REAL TALK, LET'S MAN UP!
In this video, we explore the critical role marriage plays in safeguarding and enhancing your sex life. A healthy sexual relationship within a marriage goes beyond physical satisfaction; it's about fostering deep emotional connections, building trust, and ensuring mutual respect.
As a Public Health Specialist, Themba brings to light the harsh realities of men's sexual health, emphasizing the urgent need for a conscious approach to how we treat this gift of sex, both before and especially within marriage. He challenges us to rethink our attitudes and behaviours towards sex, advocating for marriages of high quality as essential safe spaces where true intimacy can thrive.
Themba's deep concern for the alarming rates of sexually transmitted illnesses in our country drives this conversation. He passionately believes that strong, respectful marriages are a key part of the solution. By creating environments of trust and mutual respect, we can protect our sexual health and foster lasting, fulfilling relationships.
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  • @The_Dream_Space
    @The_Dream_Space12 күн бұрын

    Thank you to everyone of you who have engaged with our content. If you would like to help support us so we can keep making more, there is a "Thanks" button under the video or you can buy us a coffee here buymeacoffee.com/thedreamspace Also, If you have an event of any kind Blaque Nubon is available as an excellent MC and Speaker. Get in touch here booking@blaquenubon.com

  • @hlengiwemathenjwa1371
    @hlengiwemathenjwa13718 күн бұрын

    Future husband i wish he bumps into such conversations before stepping into marriage

  • @priviledgetafirei6360
    @priviledgetafirei636012 күн бұрын

    When Themba said "Sin thrives in secrecy" I just heard a whole episode there. Powerful episode!

  • @HlogiKgatla
    @HlogiKgatla12 күн бұрын

    Godliness sustains a relationship not goodness🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    12 күн бұрын

    Amen!!

  • @TshepangPholoholo
    @TshepangPholoholo12 күн бұрын

    Man thanks for this space...This has been a great resource for me and my bro as young single bros looking to get married one day ...Cant tell you how much this podcast has been helping us. Keep going and thank you and your guest

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    12 күн бұрын

    Feedback like this so appreciated, thank you so much for taking time to let us know. It's messages like this that keep us pushing. Thank you!

  • @tlaly
    @tlaly10 күн бұрын

    What an episode 🙌🏾. How can we broadcast this to our young brothers??? Please somebody needs to call imbizo for all young men in the country and just play this video 😝. But on the real, Themba dropped real gems here👌🏾.

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    8 күн бұрын

    An imbizo is coming, watch the space! Thanks so much for the support 🙏🏾

  • @HlogiKgatla
    @HlogiKgatla12 күн бұрын

    This is so Good👌🏽👌🏽”Christ is the standard of compatibility “

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi672411 күн бұрын

    Haibo Blaque 🔥 You’re doing the Lord’s work🎉 My support for this podcast is moving to the upper room, y’all are in my prayers. Praying that God gives you strength to keep going and growing in this ministry of discipling men. That he will raise up more men to become social fathers like yourself and Mr Ntuli.

  • @owethumazibuko8377
    @owethumazibuko837711 күн бұрын

    This is a topic that has to be spoken more about man. Tom shared a lot of insightful things man. This is really building

  • @Ck-rc4bk
    @Ck-rc4bk11 күн бұрын

    Your laughter is contagious, these are serious issues and you have managed to capture my attention but still put some lightness in it. Thank you for sharing. Blessed are those who have you in their lives I am sure they always want to be around you.

  • @palesakholopane
    @palesakholopane11 күн бұрын

    What an amazing conversation, we definitely need Abuti Themba back. I am so greatful for this space Blaque, I am learning and unlearning so much. Thank you.

  • @CraganCrypto-mz8cs
    @CraganCrypto-mz8cs12 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this honest and much needed content guys. Ì can testify that God has been helping me break free from masturbation, the road isn't easy but it's necessary to live a thriving life.

  • @kuhlemndabe
    @kuhlemndabe7 күн бұрын

    Absolutely love how Mr Ntuli took on the compatibility question. Hard truth right there!

  • @gospelinfluence
    @gospelinfluence4 күн бұрын

    Hey bro, I'm enjoying this podcast yho...

  • @user-dz1fh3yd7h
    @user-dz1fh3yd7h10 күн бұрын

    I find this podcast interest and I'm a single female, just getting a different perspective of how men are and their everyday struggles

  • @siphokazii
    @siphokazii9 күн бұрын

    I know this is a husband podcast but as a Christian lady can i just jump in on the point of coping mechanisms created by the world and take it to church one of coping or protecting mechanism for us ladies being: close up, zphathe kahle etc when we get to marriage and we must now open up it’s not easy coz we been trained our whole lives to close /cover up & we don’t find it easy to be free and explore sexually or even initiate the deed with our husbands because kunale mindset that was instilled in us & indoda iba frustrated by this!

  • @raxxmoriti

    @raxxmoriti

    8 күн бұрын

    Indoda iba frustrated and starts blaming you for not trusting them or not having enough faith. I never knew this was a built in coping mechanism. Thank you for the insight!

  • @nokwandasithole8643
    @nokwandasithole864312 күн бұрын

    Such an informative, refreshing, light-hearted podcast episode. Spectacular delivery. Well done guys. 👏🏾 You’re doing God’s work.

  • @KAMOYA17
    @KAMOYA172 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the work you are doing with this podcast. May it grow from strength to strength!

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    Күн бұрын

    Thank you sooo much! This is so appreicated

  • @sunakotole1865
    @sunakotole18659 күн бұрын

    Thank you brothers. God bless you and your viewers ❤

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    8 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙏🏾

  • @zinedanewikruger7014
    @zinedanewikruger701412 күн бұрын

    Sish! Malume Blaque.. Thank you Every episode gets deeper, words can't even describe. Mr. Ntuli is a SAGE! ❤

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    12 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching and supporting! We definitely plan to have Mr Ntuli back! So much more to unpack.🙌🏾

  • @debramontymmatau5136
    @debramontymmatau513610 күн бұрын

    My word, my word my word!!! I wish this message can reach masses hey. Oh wow!

  • @MaMtungwa
    @MaMtungwa5 күн бұрын

    What a well spoken man!

  • @busisiwemakhombothi7435
    @busisiwemakhombothi743511 күн бұрын

    We thank the Lord for this amazing conversation, learnt a lot🙌

  • @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772
    @thandolwenkosimahlangu27729 күн бұрын

    🎉🎉 🎉🎉so true godliness is key. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @edna_mathipa
    @edna_mathipa11 күн бұрын

    I'd love to hear Blaque's story one day

  • @EmpowerED1990
    @EmpowerED19908 күн бұрын

    Great show, very deep and interesting ,

  • @Fufu041
    @Fufu04111 күн бұрын

    First time on your channel...I absolutely enjoy the conversation

  • @nonhlanhlangwenya3124
    @nonhlanhlangwenya31243 күн бұрын

    Valuable conversation 👏🏾

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    Күн бұрын

    Appreciate this so much, thank you!!

  • @fabricendayambaje9408
    @fabricendayambaje940812 күн бұрын

    Very educative,love this podcast

  • @6lackSky
    @6lackSky12 күн бұрын

    Dope episode gents 🙌🙌🔥🙌🙌

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    12 күн бұрын

    Thanks so much for the support!🙏🏾

  • @ronaldkhati9296
    @ronaldkhati929611 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤lovely content mates. I'm so happy for this platform 🎉🎉

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele31148 күн бұрын

    Thoroughly enjoyed nuggets!

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari11 күн бұрын

    I definitely found much value in this conversation... ❤❤ Thank you guys👌👌

  • @leonardsoto3104
    @leonardsoto310411 күн бұрын

    Good episode 👍

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari11 күн бұрын

    👌👌A lot of dopenes, yhoo❤❤

  • @dineomoaisi6724
    @dineomoaisi672411 күн бұрын

    Now I wanna see Blaque’s shoes 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yolisalisanqari

    @yolisalisanqari

    11 күн бұрын

    😂😂Same here but I think I have clue, it's the black square shaped in front, with a mint greenish sole❤❤

  • @bellalekwadi9538
    @bellalekwadi95385 күн бұрын

    Themba can laugh😂

  • @tshxxmx
    @tshxxmx9 күн бұрын

    Spiritually transmitted (insert word here)

  • @ratibamohale
    @ratibamohale12 күн бұрын

    hahaha. I am a gold man. Finish. This was really a gold episode. Beautiful conversations man

  • @neontsoereng441

    @neontsoereng441

    12 күн бұрын

    You should be on this podcast

  • @ratibamohale

    @ratibamohale

    11 күн бұрын

    @@neontsoereng441 It will come my friend.

  • @user-jq1er2wq8c
    @user-jq1er2wq8c11 күн бұрын

    this was so informative. as born again sister who developed a coping mechanism through porn, im now married and im finding it difficult to orgasm while intimate with my husband, how can this be rectified though?

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari11 күн бұрын

    Aww speed of light, Ahab😂😂😂😂🤭

  • @yolisalisanqari
    @yolisalisanqari11 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 Yhoo in here😅😅

  • @leonardsoto3104
    @leonardsoto310411 күн бұрын

    Porn creates s false sense of what sex is

  • @nelzg5819
    @nelzg581910 күн бұрын

    The irony of it is that its the married men that should be high risk. This is south a. Amadoda lana r not playing they are in unofficial polygamist marriages left right and center. So on paper its as the guest describes by in practice, weleleleee. Thats when a lot of men want to go or and hunt after marriage

  • @sarahsmrdal7094
    @sarahsmrdal709410 күн бұрын

    U r 100% . Black man have hardly any person they have seen being a good father & husband .

  • @6lackSky
    @6lackSky12 күн бұрын

    lol 🤣🤣🤣 I almost unsubscribed there for a sec lol I am gold lol

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    12 күн бұрын

    Don't go!! 🫵🏾 you are gold wena!! 😂

  • @ctm2594
    @ctm259411 күн бұрын

    😂👌🏽

  • @oloratolefenya5992
    @oloratolefenya599210 күн бұрын

    He is so 🤣

  • @tshwanelorakaibe985
    @tshwanelorakaibe9856 күн бұрын

    If you are going to have faith based marriage conversations please also include men from other faiths...otherwise this becomes an extension of church services limiting your reach (not everyone is christian). Not all men who do marriage right are christian. consider including non believers as well who are doing marriage right (however you define that)... South africa is so diverse...

  • @The_Dream_Space

    @The_Dream_Space

    5 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the feedback. We are very intentional and deliberate with our angle and our approach. You, however have clearly identified a gap in the market. How can we encourage or help you to get something started? Seriously, how can we help you?

  • @davidkobedi9615

    @davidkobedi9615

    5 күн бұрын

    Maybe GOD is calling you to start a podcast...😂

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs151111 күн бұрын

    Sorry for eavesdropping on men's convo, but: not everyone will get married, just facts we have to accept as Christians even if you want to. Then what 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @malisangxale8038

    @malisangxale8038

    8 күн бұрын

    As Christians, if you're not married, you don't have sex. Simple. If someone hasn't accepted Christ as their Saviour, we accept that they are lost and living in sin, without the grace and mercy Christians are afforded

  • @MissCombs1511

    @MissCombs1511

    8 күн бұрын

    @@malisangxale8038 may I please ask your age and marital status?

  • @nomlilomthembu9526

    @nomlilomthembu9526

    8 күн бұрын

    ​@@malisangxale8038❤❤❤

  • @nonhlanhlangwenya3124

    @nonhlanhlangwenya3124

    5 сағат бұрын

    @@malisangxale8038👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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