Did you grow up with controlling parents? If so, how did you break free?

@keegan4196

2 жыл бұрын

i literally am living the life. i moved out at 17

@ddd8-

2 жыл бұрын

I did. My dad was very controlling, I could not go anywhere. When my parents divorced at 14 y/o. I just did everything what wasn’t right. Around year of 21, I did go to therapy for my childhood. If any parent sees this. I understand you wanna protect your child from all the bad things in this world. But being strict isn’t the answer. Always try to have an open relationship with your child. Let them feel save and free with you and comfortable enough to talk to you. There is already enough bad things in the world. Let you, and your home being the save place and not their nightmare.

@blackpanther258

2 жыл бұрын

I left

@diarystyler3372

2 жыл бұрын

I didnt

@teamsteed1

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't have controlling parents.

That's not a best friend that's family at this point. You don't get best friends like that. She is truly an angel

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

I thought Barbara might be Juliette's secret girlfriend

Love how patiently the friend sat & took all the shit the parents threw at her.

@krystalrussell4350

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I had a friend like that.

@Glamthemetalhead

Жыл бұрын

I would snap back

Parents, never force your kids into the career you want them to be in. Let them decide and guide them with love. Expect them to do well in school but don't make them do things just to boost your image. That's wrong and you will regret it later on.

@HwoarangtheBoomerang

2 жыл бұрын

😢

@miigwans360

Жыл бұрын

@@HwoarangtheBoomerang dude, I see you everywhere lol

@savannahhague4989

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, let God decide what path your child is meant to go on. If parents just encourage their children to put God first in everything, God will help them succeed.

My mother was strict as hell, and very over protective. When I moved out of her house, I felt free and great!!!

@afrosamuraiwarrior

2 жыл бұрын

And did you see her ever since?

@maria.fritch

2 жыл бұрын

I wish i can move out but my mom doesn’t allow me

@RoyalZ2504

2 жыл бұрын

@@maria.fritch if you're 18+ your mom has no right to forbid you anything. As long as you can support yourself you can do whatever you want

@maria.fritch

Жыл бұрын

@@RoyalZ2504 i can support my self but my mom forbid me to do that

@RoyalZ2504

Жыл бұрын

@@maria.fritch she can't legally do that, just move out. She can't stop you anymore. What's she even gonna do?

Her friend is more of family than her own parents. You don't, dare I say, can't find a friend like that today. But they're out there, you just gotta look for the right ones.

The parents were too strict! The stricter The parents, the more the kids are gonna do behind their backs!

@HwoarangtheBoomerang

2 жыл бұрын

You would think so. But I wasn't even able to do stuff behind their backs.

@miigwans360

Жыл бұрын

@@HwoarangtheBoomerang Yeap. Mine had cameras, always encouraged the younger kids to watch and tell on me, and kept an eye on phone stuff. And mine was a flip phone! I rebelled regardless of the punishments they threw my way and always got told on for it. When you break the rules you get creative about hiding things, including yourself.

One of my pastors said,"Children don't come with a manual." This is so true.

Oh wow! I can't imagine my friend's parents telling me to sit down, lecturing me, and me just sitting there crying.

@danaabel1049

2 жыл бұрын

I can, & why wouldn't you?? It's like people are so adamant about us being exactly like them, they forget 1 very important thing: WE'RE NOT THEM

@estherk4485

2 жыл бұрын

These parent's are wrong to yell at the friend.

@estherk4485

2 жыл бұрын

Why are they allowed to yell at the girl that is not their child? What the heck? Some adults are not grown up themselves.

@danaabel1049

2 жыл бұрын

@@estherk4485 How about just give them a rattle, put the in a playpen, & call it a day??

@Kelle0284

2 жыл бұрын

@@estherk4485 Maybe they live in a country that has freedom of speech.

Parents need to understand that their children have to make their own decisions.

@danaabel1049

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! They have to grasp the fact that they have to let their kids live their lives how THEY see fit, & to accept what is. Neither what their kids' lives could be, nor would be, nor should be, nor what they want it to be.

@TheMormonSorceress

2 жыл бұрын

Tell that to the Asian parents

@reduneyconceicao3420

2 жыл бұрын

Stop this bs Your parents job is to guide you to the right path and they are the only ones have the power to judge you when you are wrong.

@niasharp9049

2 жыл бұрын

@@reduneyconceicao3420 parents don't always know what is right

@reduneyconceicao3420

2 жыл бұрын

@@niasharp9049 it doesn't matter, stop thinking like that no one knows everything my dear so why would they know everything. The point is that they raised you and feed and they give life, by extension they are ones the who can talk to with authority.

The only way to get out of controlling parents are to just follow your dreams. No matter what. It is difficult, but you get stronger.

Freedom is what we all need

The parents were so domineering and controlling against their daughter and her friend, she wants to leave this tyrannical family. If there had been compromise before, it would have surely changed the timeline !!!

@jasonrandom372

2 жыл бұрын

And I thought only religious parents are tyrants.

@eugenelau3927

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonrandom372 Those are equally guilty too!!

@HwoarangtheBoomerang

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonrandom372 . . .

If I was this friend, I wouldn’t even give these idiots the time of my day. Especially after how they accused me of being a disruptive influence to her children.

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

Me neither.

My mom was (and still is at times) overprotective to the point that I couldn't go to sleepovers except for at a family friend's house (that's the Haitian culture) and she initially didn't approve of me dating my current boyfriend, but at least she never dictated what career I would have or who I would marry.

THE LADY THAT PLAY JULIET IS A SWEETHEART OF A PERSON AND A VERY GOOD ACTRESS AND SHE IS VERY PRETTY TOO

It's one thing to be strict when raising children, it's another thing to be entirely controlling when it comes to your children. Big difference. Strict isn't detrimental to their well being, but controlling can be downright devastating and harmful. I know a woman who always tried being extremely overbearing + overprotective/controlling of her children, and they were honestly well adjusted, well behaved kids. Once they got older, they began rebelling against her. Goes to show that being a controlling parent isn't the answer & is more harmful than helpful.

Those two parents were the sickest excuse for parents I've ever seen in this kind of media. They were lucky that they learned in the end and their daughter was willing to see them again. Many people like these two probably never learn, or they do learn but never see their children again.

You need to let your children be themselves or else you might just lose them forever!

I grew up with controlling and abusive parents..!!

@bhavanijayant526

5 ай бұрын

Im so sorry to hear that

Awesome message. Every parent should see this. Parental control is not about the parent, but about their child/children. Parents should be strict without being controlling.

@RoyalZ2504

2 жыл бұрын

They shouldn't be strict either

@savannahhague4989

Жыл бұрын

@@RoyalZ2504 sometimes being strict is necessary to raise children. If a child does something morally wrong, like stealing, or lying to get someone else in trouble, anything that can damage the conscious, the parents have to do what’s necessary to teach them, even if it meant a whooping in the behind.

My Mum never ever controlled me. I was always free to make my own decisions. She has always stood by me, and I by her. And that's the way it should be. She has dementia now, and I miss her.

The real Juliet is born the greatest character ever

Her parents are way too controlling

@OfficialCosmoXEditz

2 жыл бұрын

Hi

the acting in these videos is phenomenal.

Yes, I grew up with controlling parents.

@GPHEnterprises

Жыл бұрын

My mum was but she had reasons and thank her for it. I've rebelled a few times but now I'm old enough to make my own mind up

Indian parents should watch this

6:02 "And today... *claps* the REAL JULIET, IS REBORN!"

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

I loved that part!

Never force someone to do what u want them to do, let them choose what they want to choose

@maria.fritch

Жыл бұрын

Wish my mom was like that but she isn’t

@yohannesivewright5021

Жыл бұрын

@@maria.fritch I'm so sorry

@maria.fritch

Жыл бұрын

@@yohannesivewright5021 thanks for caring

@yohannesivewright5021

Жыл бұрын

@@maria.fritch you show your mum when she needs help and say absolutely not after for all.u have done to me

@maria.fritch

Жыл бұрын

@@yohannesivewright5021 i did say that to my mom and my mom said to me don’t be rude

Wow this made me remember how I was raised yes .

I love this and I feel like there needs to be a part 2 so we can see the changes between the parents and their daughter's relationship.

Tears of joy in the ending 🙂❤️🙏😔 great friend she has awww

These are my parents I am a girl who have spent entire life under control of them and now what they are saying is they gave me too much freedom lol

@Leojw10

10 ай бұрын

Exactly what my mum is like even tho im 18 she still acts controlling pretty much my whole life she was controlling sometimes guess we have to try get along with parents tho

My experiences concerning the abuse my mother had put through has lead me to change the Fifth Commandment (of the Ten Commandments) in my heart & mind from "Honor Thy Father and Mother" to "Honor Thyself."

My mom was also strict, I didn't really understand why I was not able to do many things. But after losing my mom at the age of 17. It was God's grace and mercy that got me through. But over the years I endure everything that satan threw my way. But once I finish school and had my children I realized why mama did some of the things she did. And for that I love her more and more as the days pass by.

@Leojw10

10 ай бұрын

My parents are controlling mainly my mum it is frustrating but we have to try get along with parents

I can def. relate to this whole story. The trouble w/ some parents is that they can't understand that families are made up of individuals & we have to respect & accept each other's differences. I mean, there's nothing wrong w/ parents wanting their kids to follow in their footsteps, w/ the proviso, of course, that that's what the kids want as well. After all, life's way too short to be living miserably trying to live other people's personal goals & dreams. In short, life's way too short to be living a lie.

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

If the friend is under 18 then the controlling parents should talk to the other girls parents.

@NewLERoyUser

Жыл бұрын

Good suggested but are they willing to?

Allelujah! That's the way it has to be... Just grow on your own with your parents...not trough your parents. How can you be unique if your parents create your identitie?

Ooh Sting!!!!!! That's hurtful ouch that's terrible, judgy parents, controlling

Is it me or does this remind me of the old show 7th heaven? Lol

@redips

2 жыл бұрын

i remember that show

@robertsmith2879

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, those parents just reminded me so much of the parents on that show

Controlling parents needs to stay out of their grown-up childrens' lives.....for good.

The actress playing Juliet looks so familiar. Does anyone know her name or what else she’s been in?

Good going girl

*holding up mirror and showing the parents themselves * YOU are ruining your daughter’s life not her Friend

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

Great idea!

I got As and Bs in school, not because I wanted to learn and grow, but because I don't want people to think I am a "bad" student. I also thought doing everything right means success. Boy was I wrong. I spent time in school people pleasing, not learning. Thankfully, I am prioritizing what matters to me, not what society thinks of me now. I don't feel proud of my honour roll certificates because they are not authentic to me.

The mother would get backhanded if she grabbed me like that

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, or I would call the police

I'm estranged from my family. This is an oversimplified video.

@krystalrussell4350

2 жыл бұрын

My parents were like this at times.

@GabriellahItaly

Жыл бұрын

I'm estranged from my family as well. I know people who have gone through similar situations as Juliette and to this day years later have nothing to do with their parents and other members of their family.

My mom is always controlling that’s why i wish my mom was dead instead of my dad my dad always let me do what i want and he let me make my own choices he wasn’t controlling at all

Yes , I agreed with that, This strict parents are terrible attitude. If I will need teach a lesson.

Parents control because the child is inferior, unknown of his/her potential. Once the child realises his own power, then parents will set the child free.

@khandakararraf2012

2 жыл бұрын

Some parents will not stop controlling their children even if child realises his/her potential.

@angelflora8468

Жыл бұрын

@@khandakararraf2012 so true

da,m das a solid mate right there

MY MOTHER NEVER WANTED ME TO HER I WAS A THROWAWAY BABY SHE COULDN'T STAND THE SIGHT OF ME I WAS THE BLACK SHEEP OF THE FAMILY

@jeanmathieu857

2 жыл бұрын

I really apologise for hearing that, I pray that you'll find your way back and that you'll feel better. You may be a blacksheep to your mom but know that to God ,you're the apple of his eyes and he would do anything for you . May God bless you and remember that Jesus loves you no matter what and nothing is impossible with him :)✝️

@lindathrall5133

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeanmathieu857 I'M DOING GOOD I HAVE THINGS GOING JUST THE WAY I NEED IT TO GO

@jeanmathieu857

2 жыл бұрын

@@lindathrall5133 AMEN OUR PRAYERS HAVE BEEN ANSWERED :) GOD BLESS !!

@heatherpierce9123

2 жыл бұрын

I'm also a black sheep.♥️ You are special and amazing.

@HwoarangtheBoomerang

2 жыл бұрын

@@lindathrall5133 I think your caps lock is stuck.

THOSE PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE CONTROLLING TEENAGERS I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WOULD TREAT THEM LIKE THAT NOT COOL....😠😢😢👎👎

I mean that was bad getting a kid to drink that’s bad

7:22 someone tell me what happened to the eyeliner please

Tha good best friend no matter what and parents need back off the kids and let kids make this decision.

Thats the reason i have been divorced because off controling parents and grandparents😠

@NewLERoyUser

Жыл бұрын

I feel so sorry for you. I am planning to move out of my controlling parents home at some point when I am at uni. It might get to a certain point where you have to start thinking of cutting ties with them. You might already be in that position.

@felicialartey8865

Жыл бұрын

@@NewLERoyUser I did already they are cut off my life

What’s that song that is playing in the end ??

@nericmitch

Жыл бұрын

You Don’t Understand by Cameron Ernst

Sorry, but I wouldn't have sat there and let anyone talk to me like that. I would have just walked out.

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

Ditto

All parents do objectify their kids, mine do.

What’s up with the friends eye make up

Ephesians 6:4 - And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽✝️

I like your videos but I would like more acting and less talking stuff

@Kelle0284

2 жыл бұрын

If you want less talking, you could watch one of those 1910 Charlie Chaplin films.

@nazimovab3549

2 жыл бұрын

​@@Kelle0284 or the Keystone cops 😄

Paradigm studios episodes gives off a 90s or a 00s vibe just saying.

It's sad but they say it to men in amplitudes more

Was Juliette adopted

@bellalegendre2644

Жыл бұрын

Yes. She said to her parents "I wish you never adopted me".

She's 25 yrs old? Why is she still living at home?

@jannettsnow2856

2 жыл бұрын

So what if she's living at home with how high rent is and things that's the way it's gonna be

@krystalrussell4350

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't leave until I graduated high school.

@zoedark7101

2 жыл бұрын

Many people aren't leaving home until their 30s because of high rents and mortgages. Times have changed since I left school 30 years ago.

@ThriftyDivas

Жыл бұрын

Well her parents did yell at the friend and say there’s no way she’s moving into that apartment with you…. Sooooo lol

@lordybelance3410

Жыл бұрын

@@jannettsnow2856 That's my situation right now unfortunately

Your parents have to apologize to you

Thank god my parents were n't like that

Juliet's parents make me think of Horrid Henry's parents, Mr. Bolhofner from The Loud House, Benson from Regular Show, Ms. Meany and Wally the Walrus from Woody Woodpecker, Dave Seville from ALVINNN!!! & The Chipmunks, Jesse Katsopolis from Full House, and Dennis Sr. and Sandra from Dennis the Menace & Gnasher - 2009

The acting in these is usually decent enough but , the actors in this one are really bad. That Asian girl is particularly bad.

@ThriftyDivas

Жыл бұрын

It’s the script

Title should be '' The Ungrateful Daughter.''

@GuessWhoAnna.1995.

2 жыл бұрын

Why cant anyone accept that some parents are controlling?!

@RoyalZ2504

2 жыл бұрын

Ungrateful for what? That her parents are straight out abusing her?

@greyskymy

Жыл бұрын

Yes, the child was abused by their narcissistic parents. They are goddesses and gods. And the children are devilish Lucifers.

@RoyalZ2504

Жыл бұрын

@@greyskymy i don't know whether the first half or the second half of your comment is sarcastic

@greyskymy

Жыл бұрын

@@RoyalZ2504 The first half is not sarcastic. The second half does.