Conservative Mother Disapproves of Black Wedding Dress | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

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Melody Choate has her heart set on wearing an edgy black dress on her wedding day, however mum has always dreamed on seeing her little girl wear a white ballgown when walking down the aisle.
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  • @McLeanAmy
    @McLeanAmy3 жыл бұрын

    A ROMANTICISM WEDDING IN A LIBRARY WITH A BLACK RING?! CAN I COME TOO?! 🖤

  • @fakeulove9440

    @fakeulove9440

    3 жыл бұрын

    This would literally be my dream wedding..

  • @elizabethsoares6253

    @elizabethsoares6253

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if the reception tables all have arrangements featuring the couple’s favorite books???

  • @cj_kc6168

    @cj_kc6168

    3 жыл бұрын

    IKR!!

  • @Elora-vd9vq

    @Elora-vd9vq

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@elizabethsoares6253 At my older sister's wedding reception, the table centerpieces were small stacks of books! It was Lovely!

  • @ii_siimply_tera8634

    @ii_siimply_tera8634

    3 жыл бұрын

    WHERE IS MY INVITE?!? 🖤🖤

  • @overpassing-jumpsuit6080
    @overpassing-jumpsuit60804 жыл бұрын

    Okay, but that brother deserves a round of applause. He was stuck between a rock and a hard place most likely, but knew that this day was for his sister and her fiancée, not the Mom.

  • @kanikagaral7637

    @kanikagaral7637

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah he is very supportive and probably the only one in the family

  • @luluokeefe3602

    @luluokeefe3602

    4 жыл бұрын

    I thought you said applesauce

  • @tiaamdunord7817

    @tiaamdunord7817

    4 жыл бұрын

    The brother’s a tall drink of water

  • @user-fv6ps1to1i

    @user-fv6ps1to1i

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tiaam Du Nord And i’m thirsty.

  • @gachagirl7617

    @gachagirl7617

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah so true

  • @riri12566
    @riri125663 жыл бұрын

    These women are literally living in a gay coffee shop dark academia romance AU and I'm living for it

  • @missclaire8673

    @missclaire8673

    3 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT Man I want what they have

  • @elenavazquez6574

    @elenavazquez6574

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. They are living the life I want.

  • @yamaguchishoe6015

    @yamaguchishoe6015

    3 жыл бұрын

    When she said coffee shop I immediately thought of this

  • @raetail

    @raetail

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is almost word for word what I was thinking of commenting and I love that fact.

  • @yuh_we_out_here

    @yuh_we_out_here

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @Duck-cb8rk
    @Duck-cb8rk3 жыл бұрын

    “It’s her wedding day!” Exactly. HER wedding day, not yours.

  • @vic9344

    @vic9344

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @cielo_ciel_

    @cielo_ciel_

    2 жыл бұрын

    My mom and dad married without a diamond ring just wedding bands because they don’t like gem stones. Also my mom hates dresses, she married in a gold silk blouse and a pair of wide leg trousers. None of their parents said shit and that was in the 80s Asia. I can’t believe the conservativeness going on here.

  • @Duck-cb8rk

    @Duck-cb8rk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cielo_ciel_ I can only imagine how beautiful their wedding was! I never understood white dresses, diamond rings, weddings in general etc. Honestly it’s just sad when parents don’t support their childrens decisions.

  • @cielo_ciel_

    @cielo_ciel_

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Duck-cb8rk thank you! They are both artists and mom is also a fashion designer, so she made her own blouse and wore a pair of flats. I, while enjoy being single (never 'want' to get married, but if it happens it happens), don't understand diamond rings, huge reception parties and all of that. Just find someone you love and begin a journey together is more than a bless.

  • @cherubiya

    @cherubiya

    2 жыл бұрын

    uhm, whats up with the sass?

  • @nicolebosma9476
    @nicolebosma94764 жыл бұрын

    “My loyalty is to my sister”. Now THATS is my favourite part. You can tell how much he loves and supports his sister

  • @lovestruckly

    @lovestruckly

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nicole Bosma And he actually uploads a video about their wedding

  • @mackaylacook148

    @mackaylacook148

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lovestruckly aww that's adorable

  • @rubayaafzal2658

    @rubayaafzal2658

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lovestruckly where?

  • @debrastanfield6113

    @debrastanfield6113

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love that line

  • @isabellarose9074

    @isabellarose9074

    4 жыл бұрын

    *can't relate*

  • @sadia888.
    @sadia888.5 жыл бұрын

    *"But, my loyalty today is to my sister."* *Such a great brother* 😊

  • @suziclark4244

    @suziclark4244

    4 жыл бұрын

    She definitely brought him along to be her support against their mom. I picked that vibe up from the beginning.

  • @grraceavvila2418

    @grraceavvila2418

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup and the other day my brother is choked me I just love my sidling 😶

  • @bts_armyforever1719

    @bts_armyforever1719

    4 жыл бұрын

    Black dress,video about black dress and black writing?Everything is black *Black is amazing* *NATURE*

  • @shady8479

    @shady8479

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, great guy

  • @howaboutno8769

    @howaboutno8769

    4 жыл бұрын

    IKR, her brother is the best

  • @choryllis6646
    @choryllis66463 жыл бұрын

    Melody: "I want a black dress." Lori: "I love her!" I did not expect this reaction from Lori, but I am here for it

  • @aaron_rambles1817

    @aaron_rambles1817

    Жыл бұрын

    To be fair, lori has the very dark eye makeup so maybe we should have seen it coming.

  • @kattahj
    @kattahj3 жыл бұрын

    If she's conservative she should be all about the black, seeing how that was a common color for bridal dresses before white was. :-)

  • @calimorales9880

    @calimorales9880

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DreamWorld-1960 ?

  • @magnarcreed3801

    @magnarcreed3801

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DreamWorld-1960 Not these types of conservatives. Conservatives are confused people that don’t know history, just what the generation right before them did.

  • @miaironstone6783

    @miaironstone6783

    2 жыл бұрын

    If I remember correctly, the white dress wasn’t really a thing until the Victorian era, and even then mostly for rich/ noble born people since white was an expensive fabric to make and keep white. I don’t think the whole dress and diamond rings started to be a thing for somewhat ordinary people until the 1920s and 1930s when catalogs started portraying them as the ONLY way to get married. The modern symbology of a wedding is only around 100 years old and comes solely from a marketing gimmick

  • @briananavarrolopez9286

    @briananavarrolopez9286

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually it was red and blue

  • @OnLifeandLove

    @OnLifeandLove

    2 жыл бұрын

    Black was and still is the color at funerals. Before Queen Victoria brides did wear different colors, but not black

  • @contentkoo2004
    @contentkoo20045 жыл бұрын

    "my loyalty is to my sister" WOW BROTHER GOALS

  • @rociorafael97

    @rociorafael97

    5 жыл бұрын

    ARMY

  • @aishulko6169

    @aishulko6169

    5 жыл бұрын

    pastel-namjoon your username makes me uwu ^_^

  • @darlingmoneymoneymoney9505

    @darlingmoneymoneymoney9505

    5 жыл бұрын

    Armyy!!!

  • @sanah9785

    @sanah9785

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmao can't relate my brother isn't like that.

  • @sophiaisabella4474

    @sophiaisabella4474

    5 жыл бұрын

    ARMY FGJBCDJCDUJCDU FSTHXFIB OMG!

  • @idrzyts.6425
    @idrzyts.64255 жыл бұрын

    "The color? it doesn't MAKE a bride. You see that smile on her face ? THAT's what makes her a beautiful bride" Love it

  • @jadafitch3587

    @jadafitch3587

    5 жыл бұрын

    idrzy ts. Lol after I read this the lady had said it right after 😂

  • @ravijha3123

    @ravijha3123

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@jadafitch3587 lol me too

  • @TheRabidWolverine

    @TheRabidWolverine

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @ilahill2371

    @ilahill2371

    5 жыл бұрын

    idrzy ts. I totally agree

  • @keiraschneider4769

    @keiraschneider4769

    5 жыл бұрын

    I read this comment at the same time I heard her say that.

  • @joravlin4902
    @joravlin49023 жыл бұрын

    The daughter I gave birth to just came out to me, at 13, as non binary. As their mom, I just want them to exist happy, loved, supported and empowered. It they never wear a dress ever again, who cares? If they marry someone, someday, all that matters is they're loved and cared for. I'm so glad you're showing queer brides. Representation matters. Thanks for making it a more inclusive world for my kid and everyone.

  • @parvindarkaur9612

    @parvindarkaur9612

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awww!! This is so cute. I too am a teen who's bi asexual and I hope my mom too supports me. Love and hugs to you and your child!!!! I hope every parent is like you

  • @derpyrat5713

    @derpyrat5713

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh I’m scared to come out

  • @parvindarkaur9612

    @parvindarkaur9612

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@derpyrat5713 same.. it's really stressful for me too to just keep everything to myself

  • @derpyrat5713

    @derpyrat5713

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@parvindarkaur9612 fr tho

  • @doctorgooch

    @doctorgooch

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're so nice and supportive of your child for being non bianary, i wish my parents were. :( I'm an 12 year old agender who goes by They/them, Xe/Xer ,and it/its. Being accepted for who I am is hard. I get told that I'm too young to know who I am when i feel like being genderless is me. I dress in between feminine and masculine. I wish all parents were as supportive of your kid. And congratulations on them for coming out as non bianary!

  • @littlepeach9444
    @littlepeach94443 жыл бұрын

    In the Roman Catholic church Spanish women would wear black wedding dresses representing being with the husband till death and the color black means Mystery Strength elegance formality and sophistication. It also gives the women a sense of power and authority

  • @opsidiann5131

    @opsidiann5131

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds great, would love to marry a person in a black wedding dress

  • @dantemaquiavelli9039

    @dantemaquiavelli9039

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wait really? I live in Spain and my family is Christian Catholic, but we've never seen a bride in black, was that before Queen Victoria? Edit: spelling

  • @drunkensailor5612

    @drunkensailor5612

    2 жыл бұрын

    in Italy white dresses for marriage are quite a "modern" thing, common people started to wear fancy white dresses only after WWII, before that time only rich people could afford such a dress so common people used to wear dresses that could have been adapted and reused and, most of the times, dresses weren't white but brown or black . I even have a photo of my great grandmother wearing a brown dress at her wedding in 1930

  • @rociorodriguez589

    @rociorodriguez589

    2 жыл бұрын

    What? Sorry, I'm spanish, VERY catholic family. Have not ever seen a black wedding dress in my life. My dad would call me a vampire and cry for months.

  • @bridgethoggan1814

    @bridgethoggan1814

    2 жыл бұрын

    So pretty

  • @sanityisrelative
    @sanityisrelative3 жыл бұрын

    I honestly appreciated the "who's paying for the dress" question. It was a very polite way of asking "how much of mom's opinion should we actually take into account?"

  • @Nxox_

    @Nxox_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol ikr 0^0

  • @frogsareelite3942

    @frogsareelite3942

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES

  • @urixiac2860

    @urixiac2860

    2 жыл бұрын

    HAHHAHAAH FR

  • @aetlian

    @aetlian

    2 жыл бұрын

    i would like to politely disagree although i do think that your mom should have a little bit of a say in it especially if she’s paying for the dress it still should be what the bride wants ( after all it is suppose to be one of the best days of you life).

  • @cami5431

    @cami5431

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aetlian Im not paying for an ugly dress thats only going to be worn once and different colored wedding dresses usually aren’t passed down because most people go for the traditional white

  • @PistachioDean
    @PistachioDean4 жыл бұрын

    Is the brother also looking for a bride, because dayum.

  • @divyaism007

    @divyaism007

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @JeanSammons

    @JeanSammons

    3 жыл бұрын

    MA'AM- 😭💀

  • @jessboo173

    @jessboo173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well the mother might still want a prince charming for her child..

  • @matty_fressshhh

    @matty_fressshhh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wassup JC😗✌️

  • @itsjessicabae7024

    @itsjessicabae7024

    3 жыл бұрын

    Paws off buddy! 👬 already have taken the most and best men from us straight women. 😪 Stay in your lane. 👌😄

  • @lolasills878
    @lolasills8783 жыл бұрын

    i love how supportive her brother is omg, he was so kind abt how he liked the first dress just not the print and didnt make her feel bad abt it at all

  • @KitsunenoHibi
    @KitsunenoHibi3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, her engagement ring is STUNNING!!! Black diamonds are pretty rare, especially jewel quality ones!

  • @oshohgosh359
    @oshohgosh3594 жыл бұрын

    The white dresses don’t really suit her. She’s right when she says she rather have black.

  • @luna1327

    @luna1327

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's because she blond and has pale skin which trust me (because i'm blond with pale skin) makes you look like a white pice of printer paper and everything is getting washed out by the white which is why blonds look better in light pinks, almost any blue or green, and black

  • @kappa3667

    @kappa3667

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think it fits very well with her tattoos haha.

  • @philliey

    @philliey

    4 жыл бұрын

    She could have gone white with a lot of black accents to the dress as compromise. I dont think the black dresses really suit her. Oh well.

  • @haydenkoelemy4846

    @haydenkoelemy4846

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mqrshy yes they do

  • @rebelrose1385

    @rebelrose1385

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have seen some really pretty white dresses with a lot of black accents and they are gorgeous.

  • @ari6092
    @ari60923 жыл бұрын

    The mom is literally so annoying. The fake laughing and smiling in unbearable.

  • @launalopez342

    @launalopez342

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr.

  • @sage1463

    @sage1463

    3 жыл бұрын

    Listen I wanna like.. But it's at 69-

  • @garlicbreadisbetter

    @garlicbreadisbetter

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sage1463 your a good person 😔

  • @ari6092

    @ari6092

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sage1463 LMAOOO

  • @Alexis-go5cd

    @Alexis-go5cd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not really, she loves her daughter, it’s just she planned everything for her and nothing went her way, it’s pretty sad. In the end they both love each other no matter what and I think the mom just needs to make some adjustments and let it fully sink in.

  • @OnLifeandLove
    @OnLifeandLove2 жыл бұрын

    "Melody and my mom don't see eye to eye on everything today, but my loyalty today is to my sister." Sibling goals!!!

  • @alyzu4755
    @alyzu47552 жыл бұрын

    "She was so nervous she asked me if I wanted to grab coffee". That's so freakin' adorable!!!!!! 🥰

  • @leahanderson7416
    @leahanderson74165 жыл бұрын

    “i looove that color” *dress is piss colored

  • @trishuna3917

    @trishuna3917

    5 жыл бұрын

    When

  • @trinitydecosta3259

    @trinitydecosta3259

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@trishuna3917 it is at 4:16

  • @ninadawson8232

    @ninadawson8232

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ikr it disgusts me

  • @trishuna3917

    @trishuna3917

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oof

  • @lilegg301

    @lilegg301

    5 жыл бұрын

    piss stained

  • @Misscakeshop
    @Misscakeshop4 жыл бұрын

    Her mother: the dream for my daughter was that she would find her prince charming and marry in a white dress! Her daughter: My fiance is a woman and I want a black dress. I think her mum wasn't ready for this

  • @nesswhopees

    @nesswhopees

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mom is DEFINITELY homophobic

  • @jennielauber8308

    @jennielauber8308

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nesswhopees If mom were homophobic, I doubt she'd be there with her daughter.

  • @tabbyroberts6242

    @tabbyroberts6242

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nesswhopees I wouldn't say mum is homophobic, probably just not used to her daughter being a lesbian yet. She had this whole idea in her head about her daughter that has been flipped, takes a bit of time to adjust.

  • @emilyblydenburgh2627

    @emilyblydenburgh2627

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tabbyroberts6242 true but didn't she say that her daughter came out two years ago?

  • @crimsongold6980

    @crimsongold6980

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nesswhopees Just because her mother had different expectations doesn't mean she's Homophobic. Grow up. Everyone's mother wants to see their daughter marrying the prince of their dreams in a traditional wedding. It's just fact. But that doesn't mean they wouldn't accept differences in marriage. Be it colour nor who they marry. If she didn't like that her daughter was marrying another woman, I doubt she'd be there at all to support her. 🤷🏼 Not everyone who has different opinions is instantly homophobic. That's like someone mentioning that they prefer dogs over cats and another person starts freaking out at that opinion, instantly taking it as that person kills cats because of how much she "hates them". It's stupid and childish. Stop instantly branding people as haters because of their own preferences and choices.

  • @riakun
    @riakun2 жыл бұрын

    I know they focused on the mother and her not-so-subtle subtlety, but can we take a moment to appreciate the brother and how he's like, "Our mother is conservative, and they won't see eye to eye, but *I'm* here to support my sister" and he does just that. I'm glad someone was on her side from the beginning 🖤

  • @ChristineInNornia
    @ChristineInNornia3 жыл бұрын

    Mum needs to let go of what she feels her daughter should be. She wants her daughter to wear a white wedding dress and marry a man. Too bad Mum.

  • @neoandroid8586

    @neoandroid8586

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @noreenmcgough5894
    @noreenmcgough58944 жыл бұрын

    “I looooveee the color” *dress looks like a stick of butter*

  • @gryneye

    @gryneye

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha 🤣 I thought so too

  • @none_yabitch9199

    @none_yabitch9199

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao

  • @dftbawolf

    @dftbawolf

    4 жыл бұрын

    But in black sooo pretty

  • @thatoneelfnamedaiko4737

    @thatoneelfnamedaiko4737

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wait, so it's not a stick of butter? *slowly puts away toast and knife*

  • @EmberRose24

    @EmberRose24

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right when she said that I read this comment 😂

  • @broadwaymelody33
    @broadwaymelody335 жыл бұрын

    “And now she’s got a PRINCESS Charming hahaHAHAHAhaha! HAHA! Ha!” Okay, I don’t think Mom is handling this well at all.

  • @ml.kimoni

    @ml.kimoni

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tell me about it😂😂😂

  • @dantesgarbagefire4844

    @dantesgarbagefire4844

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lost Soul the coffee shop AU.

  • @MelonHere20

    @MelonHere20

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel like the mom is constantly saying "this is fine, i'm fine." in her mind.

  • @lilybreee

    @lilybreee

    5 жыл бұрын

    She is smiling through the pain lmao,you can tell she's on the verge of a mental breakdown.

  • @dilfdestroyer7

    @dilfdestroyer7

    5 жыл бұрын

    When she laughed like that the I could tell what she was thinking, “HAHAHAhaha...ha..ha...oh god.” She sounded like she was trying not to say something horrible.(which she did a minor way)

  • @Elle-xf8mw
    @Elle-xf8mw2 жыл бұрын

    5:59 Love the way he is reminding his mom it's not her day! This is a perfect brother.

  • @winniedapooh597
    @winniedapooh5973 жыл бұрын

    ok i’m sorry but the mom isn’t even paying for the dress. I really liked dress number 2 in black:/

  • @alicecullen977
    @alicecullen9775 жыл бұрын

    If a bride wants to wear a paper bag in her wedding, she will wear a paper bag.... It's her wedding after all and her feelings matters most.....

  • @trinity2387

    @trinity2387

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alice Cullen YES THANK YOU

  • @aryanapalmer2296

    @aryanapalmer2296

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes PERIOD 👏

  • @Krishna-fv3dx

    @Krishna-fv3dx

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yaaassss

  • @lxvedxxm

    @lxvedxxm

    5 жыл бұрын

    YASS boo! (Also love your profile pic)

  • @katiecullen4436

    @katiecullen4436

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg that is my surname

  • @spice1710
    @spice17104 жыл бұрын

    Bride: *comes out in white* Mom: :) Brother: :/ Bride: *comes out in black* Mom: >:( Brother: :D

  • @graycommunicates3218

    @graycommunicates3218

    4 жыл бұрын

    honestly i love the brother lmao. also hes hot lol

  • @almavillalobos6768

    @almavillalobos6768

    4 жыл бұрын

    :D

  • @lemon9881

    @lemon9881

    4 жыл бұрын

    bro... your pfp

  • @x3no841

    @x3no841

    4 жыл бұрын

    Spice Your pfp though

  • @lottieevans5462

    @lottieevans5462

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bride: comes out Mom: :/

  • @sarahwren7418
    @sarahwren74183 жыл бұрын

    Well there’s her complexion to consider, mom. She is pretty pale already, a white dress would flush her out. A darker color would look better on her

  • @angelkingsley5299
    @angelkingsley52993 жыл бұрын

    This is why my family isn’t invited. I don’t need nor want micro aggressions and passive BS

  • @rlast4698

    @rlast4698

    2 жыл бұрын

    Geez. Sorry about that. You do not need all that

  • @magnarcreed3801

    @magnarcreed3801

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s what I thought. I’d invite the brother and let the rest “burn in fire.”

  • @claire3585
    @claire35855 жыл бұрын

    They are arguing in very nice voices

  • @ryanwhy9270

    @ryanwhy9270

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @snickerdoodle15

    @snickerdoodle15

    5 жыл бұрын

    that’s so true lol

  • @Agame-sf8pm

    @Agame-sf8pm

    5 жыл бұрын

    Passive agressivness is probably the worst kind of aggressive

  • @meh6297

    @meh6297

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hate it when people do that

  • @lilegg301

    @lilegg301

    5 жыл бұрын

    passive aggressiveness is worst when it's your family. if it was another random person at school, i'd just call them a pussy. the fact that you have to hide your disliking for something just shows how you aren't close...

  • @anettkunnekerekes1991
    @anettkunnekerekes19913 жыл бұрын

    Mom is like: “Hahahahahaha I’m soooo frustrated that my baby girl marrying a woman hahahahaha and EVEN in a black wedding dress hahahahaha kill me in a traditional way hahahahaha!”

  • @shenanigansofanotaku

    @shenanigansofanotaku

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is precisely how I interpreted the mom, as well. You can tell that, even after two years of her daughter being with another woman, she's still extremely uncomfortable. She's trying too hard and is basically fake laughing to hide her disappointment, which is kinda backfiring considering her words also speak volumes.

  • @user-pt1cz4ot1e

    @user-pt1cz4ot1e

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg, it was horrible! I want to believe that no one would ever act like that, especially in such a special day for their child.....but, I’ve unfortunately become addicted to the news in the last few years, and it’s so a fucking thing. 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @gabygabytoy5612

    @gabygabytoy5612

    3 жыл бұрын

    She gets to feel whatever she wants...she there supporting her, it doesn’t have to be honest too.

  • @no-ep1yo

    @no-ep1yo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fr sis even said “like getting baptised by fire” when talking about her daughter and her daughter’s fiancée going to the gay pride march. Also the fact that she’s conservative made me automatically think she’s homophobic.

  • @naydrasnowfield8404

    @naydrasnowfield8404

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@no-ep1yo I don’t think she’s homophobic for being traditional. People can’t expect others to agree with or support things that are supposedly against their beliefs, especially if they’re traditional or religious. The mother doesn’t have to agree, but it’s obvious she’s doing her best to support her daughter. That should be enough

  • @Spoiled_soup
    @Spoiled_soup3 жыл бұрын

    The mom is being nicer because she’s on camera having to hide her homophobia

  • @UtterQueerNightmare

    @UtterQueerNightmare

    Жыл бұрын

    When she said " I imagined a Prince Charming and a white dress and now she has a PRINCESS Charming" and then didn't even mention that the bride wanted a black dress. She's so clearly lashing out against the black dress because wants to complain about her daughter being gay without being seen as homophobic. It's disgusting. I hope Melody had a long, happy marriage with her lovely wife. 🖤

  • @aaaa-kb4mm

    @aaaa-kb4mm

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@cjpv1972 Some parents are ALWAYS going to act this way and it really shows their true colors. If you loved your child with all your heart, youd accept every part of them

  • @nkzlgm17
    @nkzlgm173 жыл бұрын

    isn’t anyone gonna talk about how cool her ring is tho

  • @thatonegirl3391
    @thatonegirl33914 жыл бұрын

    THEY MET IN A COFFEE SHOP, ARE GETTING MARRIED AT A LIBRARY, AND ARE PROUD GAYS!! THIS IS A FANFICTION; I REPEAT, THIS IS A FANFICTION PEOPLE

  • @clashfan2875

    @clashfan2875

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, I needed to laugh for a solid 3 minutes today. :D

  • @marlanakleiber5012

    @marlanakleiber5012

    4 жыл бұрын

    AND WANTED THE BLACK WEDDING DRESS

  • @andra3672

    @andra3672

    4 жыл бұрын

    COFFEE SHOP AU FANFIC

  • @adiposeNarnian

    @adiposeNarnian

    4 жыл бұрын

    THE BEST.

  • @madking6668

    @madking6668

    4 жыл бұрын

    Obviously

  • @user-ie6zh4le4m
    @user-ie6zh4le4m4 жыл бұрын

    I hate how her mom is telling her she can’t get a black gown even though she’s not buying it.

  • @medeya560

    @medeya560

    4 жыл бұрын

    B Right... like she can GTFO!

  • @savannahm9681

    @savannahm9681

    4 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY 😂

  • @emmerentiabuys967

    @emmerentiabuys967

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know! It’s HER wedding, NOT her mom’s!

  • @raeleneholeman4399

    @raeleneholeman4399

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@medeya560 okay but that's why she brought her mom. Your mom plays a special part in your life, she has to have a say in it. Think about it. If you can leave a store with your mom hating your dress, your honestly terrible

  • @kelliemurphy1454

    @kelliemurphy1454

    4 жыл бұрын

    RAELENE HOLEMAN I agree completely and her mom didn't tell her she couldn't get a black gown, she said for her it was white that meant wedding. In the end she went along with what her daughter wanted anyway, just because what her daughter wanted was more important than what she wanted. No one should be hating on this mom. She's just trying to get her head around something that let's face it is usually the complete opposite of what most brides are looking for anyway.

  • @nothankyou59
    @nothankyou593 жыл бұрын

    "It's her wedding day....! I imagine her in a white dress!" "With her *prince charming!*" This mom is rude, let the bride pick! And I personally felt offended when she said *prince* charming, when she is marrying a girl? Go pride!!

  • @ansianeedsgrass
    @ansianeedsgrass2 жыл бұрын

    Can we just talk about that RING! Holy smokes it's gorgeous!

  • @tahllia1497
    @tahllia14973 жыл бұрын

    Consultant: What's your budget? Melody: $6000 Consultant: And who is paying for it? Melody: My fiancé and I are paying for it Me: HAHAHAHAAAAHAHAHAA!! Sorry mom, you have NO say.

  • @Totallynotemma.

    @Totallynotemma.

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why do they even ask people that isn't the bride-

  • @teehee5700

    @teehee5700

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Totallynotemma. ikr like wtf. She likes black, she gets black.

  • @genevieverichards6338

    @genevieverichards6338

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Totallynotemma. drama

  • @Stv_dva

    @Stv_dva

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Totallynotemma. I think it’s bs usually the ppl who pay for the dress other than the bride usually hold it over their heads and expect to get their way

  • @rxsie_1163

    @rxsie_1163

    3 жыл бұрын

    How do you heart a comment lol

  • @just.blitzy
    @just.blitzy3 жыл бұрын

    the mom is a "no offense but * something offensive *" person.

  • @shsluwu8256

    @shsluwu8256

    3 жыл бұрын

    hello i luv your rantaro pfp 😌

  • @just.blitzy

    @just.blitzy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shsluwu8256 thank you! i like your band aid pfp

  • @shsluwu8256

    @shsluwu8256

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@just.blitzy ty!!!! :D

  • @Alexis-go5cd

    @Alexis-go5cd

    3 жыл бұрын

    okay why so many hate comments to the mom ;-; i feel like she spent all that time raising her daughter that she had an idea of her life, when it didn't go as planned she wanted it to at least go her way a little... i feel like with these things you really can't say the mom doesn't have a say because its not her wedding, she does. When you have a daughter you have an idea for whats best for them and imagine carrying a baby, planning and dreaming for years to find out that not even a single thing goes as planned, its honestly kind of sad...

  • @just.blitzy

    @just.blitzy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Alexis-go5cd no its not. that "mom" doesnt know her baby will grow up having their own mind and preferences. whats *really* sad is that the daughter probably never got accepted by her mom.

  • @littleotterowo4655
    @littleotterowo46552 жыл бұрын

    at 4:36 the fitter lady was so close to bitch slapping the mom- istg 💀💀💀

  • @TBTaya
    @TBTaya2 жыл бұрын

    I hate when mom's say "I want this, I want that" like..... then go get married. It's your DAUGHTER'S decision. This one isn't even paying for it!!! UGH.

  • @jennysky47
    @jennysky475 жыл бұрын

    Her mom's laughing and smiling creeps me out wayyyy more than a black wedding dress

  • @Vincisomething

    @Vincisomething

    5 жыл бұрын

    Seriously lol

  • @mv499

    @mv499

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats called denial hun

  • @crazycrafter9309

    @crazycrafter9309

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is exactly what I was thinking!!

  • @hunnyflash

    @hunnyflash

    5 жыл бұрын

    yeah. you gotta love the "im so proud of myself for accepting a black wedding dress and gay daughter" white woman who has "changed" in one day.

  • @symonsays8559

    @symonsays8559

    5 жыл бұрын

    For real

  • @Liamisah
    @Liamisah4 жыл бұрын

    The FACT that not only is she getting married in a libary and wants a black wedding dress but ON TOP of that she's marrying a woman like yes queen living the lesbian aesthetic.

  • @goldfish7835

    @goldfish7835

    4 жыл бұрын

    I want to be like her when I grow up lol

  • @someantisocialkidwithayout8828

    @someantisocialkidwithayout8828

    4 жыл бұрын

    My dream wedding

  • @ari9525

    @ari9525

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lydia Hilbers Jesus loves you

  • @alicewang5398

    @alicewang5398

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @karen2018

    @karen2018

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm not lesbian BUT YAS QUEEN I LOVE THE ASETHETIC

  • @apollocraft7838
    @apollocraft78383 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to another episode of “THIS AINT YOUR DANG WEDDING MOM”

  • @cherylannemason
    @cherylannemason3 жыл бұрын

    Mom:"Honey I don't know!" Bride:"It's my wedding and I DO know." Saw the finished product on a later episode, and it was indeed fabulous in black.

  • @tianalortian5229
    @tianalortian52294 жыл бұрын

    6:40 “The colour it doesn’t make a bride, you see that smile on her face thats what make’s her a beautiful bride.” Best advice ever

  • @CassiTheNerd

    @CassiTheNerd

    4 жыл бұрын

    *advice :)

  • @vivr0519

    @vivr0519

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love that quote so much

  • @RioMuc

    @RioMuc

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think you can wear black at (almost) any occasion, but not white. So I prefer to see a bride in some kind of white.

  • @patrochilles6275

    @patrochilles6275

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@RioMuc you can wear white at any time too. What's your point?

  • @RioMuc

    @RioMuc

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@patrochilles6275 of course you "can" wear white, but it's definitely not common. You rarely see someone wearing a white gown on the red carpet, for example. In our culture, we associate white dresses with marriage.

  • @darkkitty645
    @darkkitty6453 жыл бұрын

    Mom is trying really hard for the camera to hide her homophobia. She's passive agressive af.

  • @evanescent_light

    @evanescent_light

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gurl8327 no tf?

  • @gurl8327

    @gurl8327

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@evanescent_light let me give am example . a person should like and agree all religions and their believers . Don't u think it's stupid ? We can respect a thing doesn't necessarily mean we have to accept that and agree with it

  • @evanescent_light

    @evanescent_light

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gurl8327 it just hurts when people say such things like “I respect them but I don’t agree with their choices”. No one would choose to be at a high risk of being hate crimed all the time. Just because some homophobe mistranslated a book few hundreds of years ago doesn’t mean you can justify hate

  • @mariakeys5708

    @mariakeys5708

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gurl8327 in the Bible the Hebrew words for man should not sleep with man was actually saying that man shall not lay with child (pedophillia). So therefore, someone who was a pedo changed the words so instead, it would label gay people as sinful, when I reality, the Bible never stated anything about being gay is a sin

  • @evanescent_light

    @evanescent_light

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gurl8327 homosexuality was never a sin in the bible. It got mistranslated and it meant a man shouldn’t sleep with a boy. Sadly in other religions the scripture says that it is

  • @mitzy183
    @mitzy1833 жыл бұрын

    i love how lori and her crew always support the bride. its so sad when family sometimes cant hold their tounge... i mean its her choice after all. im glad that she felt confident in telling the world how much she loves her partner!

  • @KittyUnicorn56XD
    @KittyUnicorn56XD3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think her tattoos worked well with the white dresses but they really looked better with the black versions. It just felt like it was in the same ball park with her personality and her appearance.

  • @Chaotic_Observer
    @Chaotic_Observer4 жыл бұрын

    Shes getting married in a library? Lol imagine needing to say “I do” and some person trying to read, is like “SUSHHHHHHH” Edit: it was a joke

  • @swaggiegran5882

    @swaggiegran5882

    4 жыл бұрын

    I DIED😂

  • @Sweet_Oni

    @Sweet_Oni

    4 жыл бұрын

    Panda Gal low key now I wanna get married in a ball gown

  • @firefistingace

    @firefistingace

    4 жыл бұрын

    Panda Gal I live in Jacksonville and the downtown library is actually huge and beautiful, with an outdoor courtyard and grand staircases. There’s tons of weddings thrown there!

  • @Chaotic_Observer

    @Chaotic_Observer

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Nikki Winchester ooo neat!

  • @lavitamahanta5043

    @lavitamahanta5043

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @amandasimonson3184
    @amandasimonson31844 жыл бұрын

    *wants a black dress* me: nice *getting married in a library* me: niCE *marrying a woman* me: NIIIICE

  • @faith9196

    @faith9196

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao

  • @talialehr2194

    @talialehr2194

    4 жыл бұрын

    I said the same thing 💀

  • @lykegenes5867

    @lykegenes5867

    4 жыл бұрын

    honestly that's just the dream isn't it

  • @l.l274

    @l.l274

    4 жыл бұрын

    This girl is living my ddddddrrrrreeeeeaaaammm!

  • @emilylittle1187

    @emilylittle1187

    4 жыл бұрын

    And they met via the coffee shop trope!!!

  • @kayleed3407
    @kayleed34073 жыл бұрын

    The “I hoped that she would meet her prince and be in a white gown” was a red flag from the start

  • @darcyjorgensen5808
    @darcyjorgensen58082 жыл бұрын

    Melody isn’t “unconventional”, Melody is MELODY!!!💖🥂☄️💥👍🏻💐

  • @caie5710
    @caie57105 жыл бұрын

    1. You can tell her mom isn't 100% supportive of the couple 2. She's trying to dictate her daughters wedding day when really, it's not her day, it's her daughter's so imho THE DAUGHTER SHOULD BE HAPPY

  • @chastiana

    @chastiana

    5 жыл бұрын

    I just think her mom is trying to be supportive but is still having a hard time wrapping her mind around this new norm. She obviously loves her daughter.

  • @isabelkailey2152

    @isabelkailey2152

    5 жыл бұрын

    And the daughter is paying for it

  • @amberslahlize7961

    @amberslahlize7961

    5 жыл бұрын

    She wont. Thanks for showing no concern.

  • @arisymphony

    @arisymphony

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not only is it not the mom's day, it's not even the mom's money!

  • @ebonidt

    @ebonidt

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@chastiana I disagree, I think mom is way too controlling. She isn't the type to say she disapproves, but there's subtle signs that she does. She is really uncomfortable and it feels like she is trying grasp control of her daughter in any way she can i.e the dress.

  • @GersonPerez7
    @GersonPerez74 жыл бұрын

    Ok but can we talk about how sweet and a gentleman her brother is? He’s so accepting of his sisters choices, and he’s soo easy on the eyes. What a sweetheart.

  • @longislandartist

    @longislandartist

    4 жыл бұрын

    His speech at their wedding was AMAZING and eloquent TOO. (Seems like quite the catch)!

  • @karlrogers7317

    @karlrogers7317

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stephen IS a gentleman with a HUGE heart. And he is still single! We are great friends!

  • @Ryuk_Shinigamii

    @Ryuk_Shinigamii

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@karlrogers7317 sign me up...for him😂😂🙊

  • @angelcarrion8607

    @angelcarrion8607

    3 жыл бұрын

    Karl Rogers I’m already taken, but tell your friend that there are at least a hundred women that have seen this episode and are willing to simp hardcore for him

  • @williamsmith6213

    @williamsmith6213

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol yeah he is easy on the eyes like omg he's hot

  • @ahmedopi344
    @ahmedopi3443 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't like the fact of black dress and accept that her daughter is gonna married another women 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @kayleighherron1358

    @kayleighherron1358

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can't tell if this is homophobic?

  • @ahmedopi344

    @ahmedopi344

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kayleighherron1358 there is no homophobic but there is w/r/ong se/xu/al i/nter/est 🙂

  • @XFAIRY-rc4ns
    @XFAIRY-rc4ns2 жыл бұрын

    Her mom makes me so 😀,”her Prince Charming”Just leave her alone.She found her true love .

  • @le-ro
    @le-ro5 жыл бұрын

    Video: she wants a black dress Me: nice Video: she's gay Me: NICE

  • @ZzippystardustT

    @ZzippystardustT

    4 жыл бұрын

    That Leo Again Oml Same

  • @sifaelnanono9077

    @sifaelnanono9077

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha

  • @nhungnhu9902

    @nhungnhu9902

    4 жыл бұрын

    More like SWEET

  • @terrianaserrano3518

    @terrianaserrano3518

    4 жыл бұрын

    That not nice to say

  • @laneypaulk2790

    @laneypaulk2790

    4 жыл бұрын

    YO SAME

  • @willow9912
    @willow99124 жыл бұрын

    Black dress and a black ring* Safiya Nygaard entered the chat Edit: Thanks for all these likes 🤧

  • @laishatakami3771

    @laishatakami3771

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vatsala Mehta seeing this after crying all night to Safiyas cute wedding video 🥺😭

  • @ee8546

    @ee8546

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@laishatakami3771 I just watched it too 😭

  • @dessire1175

    @dessire1175

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@laishatakami3771 Same🤧🤧

  • @willow9912

    @willow9912

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@laishatakami3771 Everytime they cried, we all cried 😭

  • @laishatakami3771

    @laishatakami3771

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vatsala Mehta yessss 😭😭😭😭

  • @darcieisnotdreaming1720
    @darcieisnotdreaming17203 жыл бұрын

    Mum doesn’t get a say she’s not paying. The ivory washes her out bless

  • @mehnazameen1464
    @mehnazameen14642 жыл бұрын

    5:45 this dress is totally breathtaking and imagining it in black is overwhelming for me 🖤🖤

  • @HerHollyness
    @HerHollyness4 жыл бұрын

    Mum: I'm going to act like I'm uncomfortable with the idea of a black dress, when really I'm uncomfortable with the whole idea of my daughter marrying a woman. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.

  • @marshimango

    @marshimango

    4 жыл бұрын

    TRUTH🤣

  • @goldenglove99

    @goldenglove99

    4 жыл бұрын

    I Eat Toe Fungus :p not in every culture. in some places you wear white to funerals. white in a wedding was only recently popularized by Queen Victoria in her wedding.

  • @ladybug3864

    @ladybug3864

    4 жыл бұрын

    A mother never dreams of her daughter marrying a woman more less being in a black dress and this nonsense where everyone feels u must accept someone being Gay that is not everyone's believes and for her mother being there says it all that mother loves her daughter nothing wrong with mother wanting to see her daughter in a traditional wedding dress

  • @mayallyourbaconburn7133

    @mayallyourbaconburn7133

    4 жыл бұрын

    HerHollyness my father once got really sad cause the radio talked about how difficult lgbt ppl in Japan have it. He got sad and started talking about how he could not understand that parents would do that to their kids. He talked about how those kids deserve just as much love and suport. He talked about more but the thing is , is that my father is quite a stoic guy. My parents are really open and always say that they wouldn’t mind if we where gay. They always say: boyfriend, or girlfriend instead of just future boyfriend. Even though I’m not gay and neither is my brother. I’m happy that my parents love so much.

  • @dianaescobar6369

    @dianaescobar6369

    4 жыл бұрын

    I Eat Toe Fungus :p black is also worn in traditional Spanish weddings as well, Black has different meaning in other cultures than what most of society perceives black is. Plus it’s her wedding leave her alone

  • @jaycookie2912
    @jaycookie29124 жыл бұрын

    "They're not even reading the same book" Honey they're not even in the same library! Momma should scoot over to the one they're actually getting married at.

  • @sof7068

    @sof7068

    3 жыл бұрын

    Underrated comment

  • @urnotyummi

    @urnotyummi

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @clockwinder2924

    @clockwinder2924

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is such a great comment!

  • @anushkachauhann

    @anushkachauhann

    3 жыл бұрын

    best comment ever

  • @Alexis-go5cd

    @Alexis-go5cd

    3 жыл бұрын

    okay why so many hate comments to the mom ;-; i feel like she spent all that time raising her daughter that she had an idea of her life, when it didn't go as planned she wanted it to at least go her way a little... i feel like with these things you really can't say the mom doesn't have a say because its not her wedding, she does. When you have a daughter you have an idea for whats best for them and imagine carrying a baby, planning and dreaming for years to find out that not even a single thing goes as planned, its honestly kind of sad...

  • @moonbear5929
    @moonbear59293 жыл бұрын

    I wish Mom would shut up, esp since she's not paying for the dress. If Melody is paying for it, she should get whatever dress she wants, period! It's not Mom's wedding, she shouldn't be trying to live vicariously through her daughter on her wedding.

  • @karenhouser4123
    @karenhouser41232 жыл бұрын

    She has a loving loyal brother! ( Very handsome too!) I'm glad mom came around for her daughter!

  • @Someloser3232
    @Someloser32325 жыл бұрын

    The moment she says her and her fiance are paying for it I already knew, Mom, irrelevant. You ain't paying for the dress, you don't complain about the dress. Yasss the brother supporting your sister

  • @faitha.fraser459

    @faitha.fraser459

    5 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY. The _only_ time she should ever have a say is if she was paying. Thats the only time mom's should be very opinionated. Lmao _her_ money. _Her_ wedding. _Her_ dress. _Her_ choice. Thats it.

  • @Whydtheyaddusernames

    @Whydtheyaddusernames

    5 жыл бұрын

    Anadia Smith It’s not that simple.

  • @Gaywizardry

    @Gaywizardry

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haley - it is, in fact, that simple

  • @Whydtheyaddusernames

    @Whydtheyaddusernames

    5 жыл бұрын

    Conrad Dickinson You are sooo right! Because moms shouldn’t give their opinions even though that’s whose opinion matters the most her daughter. Moms have a vision too and if you seriously don’t respect your moms opinion nor do you want your mom to be honest and give it. Then you must not have a good relationship with your mom. Or you must not have kids. Although as moms we want to be sweet and love everything are kids do. We need to tell the truth and give are opinions no matter what.

  • @faitha.fraser459

    @faitha.fraser459

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Whydtheyaddusernames There is such a big difference between forcing your beliefs on someone, and simply giving someone a motherly and helpful opinion. This woman was hell bent on getting her way and her way only. That doesnt sound like an opinion, that sounds like forcing something. You can already tell she wasn't happy with the marriage to begin with so the dress is one way to let out all of her "opinions". This entire attitude she seems to have towards this wedding actually isnt about the dress, its about the marriage. So if its the marriage she has a problem with, then mother or not her opinion is completely irrelevant. If someone thinks they have the right to impose on someone elses relationship no matter who they are and what their intentions were, thats officially crossing the line.

  • @youngsheldonfan_001
    @youngsheldonfan_0014 жыл бұрын

    The mom is definitely trying. She didn’t grow up in an accepting era. We can’t judge her because we don’t know what our views would’ve been even a decade before we were born. She’s trying and is becoming more open minded. She’s able to grow as a person and that’s what matters

  • @greenelephant...ofdoom5527

    @greenelephant...ofdoom5527

    4 жыл бұрын

    She's definitely trying. She's pretty clearly still very uncomfortable with it but she is trying.

  • @lt-ug2pz

    @lt-ug2pz

    4 жыл бұрын

    At the very least she is being there and trying to be involved with the wedding planning, rather than disowning her daughter for who she choose to marry

  • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley

    @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, finally others who see this! For someone who would normally be very conservative, the mom is doing amazing! She's getting there, just give her time :)

  • @kats.5958

    @kats.5958

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right like idk why everyone thinks shes so horrible... i thought she was very sweet actually. Shes just a different generation lol

  • @ztarr

    @ztarr

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I think the mom is wonderful. You cant expect someone to immediately change their lifelong cultural views. She is very obviously trying to adjust & that is something that we all take time to do when things are different from our conventional lifestyle. The bride is completely untraditional and that's probably hard to swallow for such a traditional parent. That being said the mom is understanding that it's not about her and it's about her daughters happiness. It may take a bit of time but she will come around full circle one day.

  • @user-jb7tq7ko7e
    @user-jb7tq7ko7e2 жыл бұрын

    The mother is trying really hard not to be homophobic because she knows it's wrong, so even though it's a bit cringy, I appreciate the effort

  • @hajeraa
    @hajeraa2 жыл бұрын

    5:55 that was the sweetest thing ever !!! they way the brother supported her sister choice and took her side all the way !!! 💕💕🥰🥰

  • @gabrielhorvath2486
    @gabrielhorvath24864 жыл бұрын

    her mom is having a homophobic nervous breakdown that she's firmly in denial about

  • @57andstillkicking

    @57andstillkicking

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is clearly doing everything she can to accept her daughter. Labeling someone a homophobe for needing to take time to accept what they were taught against, is wrong.

  • @gabrielhorvath2486

    @gabrielhorvath2486

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@57andstillkicking man i just think it's funny

  • @thevampirefrog06

    @thevampirefrog06

    4 жыл бұрын

    That laugh is the laugh of a woman who had a crying fit in the bathroom to the theme of "why couldn't she just be NORMAL" after her daughter got engaged.

  • @thevampirefrog06

    @thevampirefrog06

    4 жыл бұрын

    She's going to the PFLAG meetings but she also goes "what do you want honey I'm still GETTING USED TO IT" every time her daughter calls her out on a passive aggressive homophobic comment.

  • @Girl._.Interrupted

    @Girl._.Interrupted

    3 жыл бұрын

    Word

  • @zaedahblack
    @zaedahblack4 жыл бұрын

    Dress number one looks like she's wearing a comforter...

  • @mabelmanabat8054

    @mabelmanabat8054

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omfg hahahhaa

  • @delphineblue

    @delphineblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    LMAO I actually thought it was beautiful until i read your comment, now i can only see a comforter.

  • @marjanabrstilo3306

    @marjanabrstilo3306

    4 жыл бұрын

    It looked like a shower curtain to me...

  • @pixelpudding3914

    @pixelpudding3914

    4 жыл бұрын

    It looks like a tablecloth

  • @vanessacosner5092

    @vanessacosner5092

    4 жыл бұрын

    A big, wrinkly duvet that didn't get stuffed into the cover properly

  • @hyoyeonsnsdfans
    @hyoyeonsnsdfans2 жыл бұрын

    5:19 that dress behind there is very pretty xD Don't mind me tho~ I'm just admiring some dresses in the background ^^

  • @Roxville23
    @Roxville233 жыл бұрын

    She actually did get married in the black dress. Looked stunning 😍

  • @samanthav297

    @samanthav297

    3 жыл бұрын

    is there any videos or pictures of her wedding?

  • @amybess

    @amybess

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@samanthav297 look her up on fb

  • @tiffanys358
    @tiffanys3585 жыл бұрын

    1:08 “Prince Charming” that’s how you know her mother isn’t 100% supportive of this marriage

  • @miaberry5159

    @miaberry5159

    5 жыл бұрын

    She said princess charming xx

  • @alexalevon4885

    @alexalevon4885

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well, considering the fact that being lesbian isn’t you know common, she was probably thinking she would be straight.

  • @SunBeeSmoked

    @SunBeeSmoked

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@alexalevon4885 regardless, the way she was acting about it seems very unsupportive. Like she's embarrassed.

  • @blacktigerpaw1

    @blacktigerpaw1

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SunBeeSmoked I don't blame her. The future kids are coming from a turkey baster and won't know their dad unless they get the legal papers. Wow, it's almost like the mom wants her grandkids to have a dad.

  • @SunBeeSmoked

    @SunBeeSmoked

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@blacktigerpaw1 kids don't need a dad and a lot of people use anonymous sperm donors, not just gay people. If they do go the route of a sperm donor, they CAN know the identity of the man who gave them the sperm if they want and in that case, if ever the kid wanted to know who the man was that never planned on being a father to this kid, the kid can know. People donate A LOT of sperm because it's easy money.

  • @tiffgibbs_
    @tiffgibbs_5 жыл бұрын

    you know how someone looks like a bride? by BEING a bride 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @Olivia-yq9yu

    @Olivia-yq9yu

    5 жыл бұрын

    Tiffany Gibbons and the best bride is a happy bride

  • @helena_lang

    @helena_lang

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah “it doesn’t look bridal” is such a stupid complaint. What they really mean is “it doesn’t look the stereotypical bridal gown I envisioned.”

  • @peachtea4088
    @peachtea40882 жыл бұрын

    I love that the mom thinks she's being cutesy or funny while she's being homophobic "LOL, it's just so crazy, I wanted my daughters' wedding to be to a man and to be wearing white because I think of children as copies of me!"

  • @GraceSavidesKeller

    @GraceSavidesKeller

    2 жыл бұрын

    "You always wore princess dresses when you were a little girl." "Because you MADE me!" Her mom needs to do some serious soul searching.

  • @rlast4698

    @rlast4698

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@GraceSavidesKeller oh leave the mom alone.

  • @GraceSavidesKeller

    @GraceSavidesKeller

    2 жыл бұрын

    ​@@rlast4698 I get it. It's hard to let go of your little girl, and maybe I was a little harsh, but ultimately it's important to see them as the adult they become. I'll admit I have some baggage around this so I'm extra sensitive.

  • @magnarcreed3801

    @magnarcreed3801

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rlast4698 Stop excusing homophobic ride parents that view their kids as extensions of themselves.

  • @darkness_noir999
    @darkness_noir9992 жыл бұрын

    I've been thinking of having a black wedding dress or something similar to it, and seeing multiple videos with women wearing black dresses at their weddings, warms my heart to the brim it's so inspirational.

  • @gp8390
    @gp83905 жыл бұрын

    English: white is the colour of weddings. India: white is the colour of *death.* >:)

  • @cuteclipsllcfl

    @cuteclipsllcfl

    5 жыл бұрын

    China too i think. They where red for weddings and white for funerals if im remembering everything correctly.

  • @lulu_Lm

    @lulu_Lm

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@cuteclipsllcfl traditional China maybe but modern China brides wear white

  • @vrindarakwal7746

    @vrindarakwal7746

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@cuteclipsllcfl thats the same case in Hindu religion! Red for wedding and white for death

  • @nasreenyusuf7780

    @nasreenyusuf7780

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha yea thats true thats y red is better

  • @biancaignat149

    @biancaignat149

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's not only English people who wear white on wedding dresses 😂

  • @theverysmallfrog
    @theverysmallfrog5 жыл бұрын

    THAT. SMILE. *THAT MAKES A BRIDE.*

  • @mayrareyes7681

    @mayrareyes7681

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dinosaurus ik

  • @amberslahlize7961

    @amberslahlize7961

    5 жыл бұрын

    Which one?

  • @holasenor5594

    @holasenor5594

    5 жыл бұрын

    IT MAKES A BEAUTIFUL BRIDE

  • @sidoniefranklin4189

    @sidoniefranklin4189

    5 жыл бұрын

    Awe so true

  • @Lizzie-ve7kt
    @Lizzie-ve7kt2 жыл бұрын

    I love Lori, she’s exactly right it’s the happiness and joy shining through on their wedding day that makes someone a bride.

  • @lostrainforests8259
    @lostrainforests82592 жыл бұрын

    “I really can’t stand the print” god I love that brother

  • @ulrichsterling4488
    @ulrichsterling44885 жыл бұрын

    The mom: “I want a ball gown, I want an ivory dress” Me: “Then get one for yourself” 🙄

  • @lancemcelrone6118

    @lancemcelrone6118

    5 жыл бұрын

    The most painful part is she isn't even paying for it.

  • @brookelynnenewcomer943

    @brookelynnenewcomer943

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right she is like some of my cousins. I want I want I want. And they are younger then 7

  • @lolchampion9895

    @lolchampion9895

    5 жыл бұрын

    I know i wish i could say to the mothers like her ITS👏NOT👏YOUR👏WEDDING👏

  • @Lea-ep1bi

    @Lea-ep1bi

    5 жыл бұрын

    Honestly, at that point I would just tell my mum to get out. I love my mum, don't get me wrong, but this should be a day all about me and my partner, not about the opinion of my mum.

  • @trublue9185

    @trublue9185

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think that the mom is used to being conservative. But I can see that she's trying...like really hard! To support her daughter, its just a bit harder than you think.

  • @rae7864
    @rae78643 жыл бұрын

    Awww the brother!! "They dont see eye to eye on everything today, but my loyalty is to my sister" ugh what a legend

  • @sherryconner5799

    @sherryconner5799

    2 жыл бұрын

    I Love How He Supports His Sister, No Matter What 🥰

  • @ExAngel001

    @ExAngel001

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gotta love this brother! ❤ The brother is just awesome.

  • @thaloblue

    @thaloblue

    Жыл бұрын

    He’s here for the girls and the gays simultaneously!

  • @chrisnshellypalmer7384
    @chrisnshellypalmer7384 Жыл бұрын

    Aww,I really loved this. Mom came around and the bride felt great and her brother was a sweetheart ❤. Perfection!

  • @nixite1178
    @nixite1178 Жыл бұрын

    I like how at the end, mom lets up a bit when she realizes how happy her daughter is.

  • @tylyngonaeatchu
    @tylyngonaeatchu5 жыл бұрын

    You can very much tell that the mom is NOT okay with her gay daughter and is very uncomfortable. And you can see that every time the daughter is fighting for her black dress that she’s got pain behind her voice and in her eyes cause her mom wants her to be ‘normal’ (not gay)

  • @NekoHanyouHanaru

    @NekoHanyouHanaru

    5 жыл бұрын

    Did you watch to the end???

  • @reee5806

    @reee5806

    5 жыл бұрын

    Why the fuck are you like "oh i can tell this i can tell that bla bla" it doesnt matter. The mom doesnt have to support gays cause its a human right to support whatever tf you want. Shes supporting her daughter the best she can.

  • @sighcantthinkofaname

    @sighcantthinkofaname

    5 жыл бұрын

    I mean hey, at least she's trying. Like yeah, she should be supporting her right from the start, but she clearly loves her daughter, and I think the fact that she's happy really is more important to her. She's taking some time to get use to it after picturing her life a different way. It's not great, but I think she'll get there.

  • @kne2004

    @kne2004

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I agree

  • @armeenshahzad9567

    @armeenshahzad9567

    5 жыл бұрын

    DemonWitchBoy I was ur 1k like

  • @ashleycarmella1471
    @ashleycarmella14715 жыл бұрын

    damn that “she doesn’t look like a bride” even hurt me too 😔

  • @Rivracost3

    @Rivracost3

    5 жыл бұрын

    She didn't though. The ballgown looks more bridal. If you sacrifice color then you need a dress with an identifiable "bridal" cut.

  • @ashleycarmella1471

    @ashleycarmella1471

    5 жыл бұрын

    *Riv Racost* if you don’t like the dress that’s your opinion but i ask you to respect mine. and technically no one “needs” a ballgown style so idk what you’re on about...

  • @bunnyqueenkj

    @bunnyqueenkj

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ashleycarmella1471 Right?? Like I wanna get married in a black or red mermaid style dress. I'll still look gorgeous, hopefully, and look like a bride. Style of dress doesn't determine if you look the part or not.

  • @ashleycarmella1471

    @ashleycarmella1471

    5 жыл бұрын

    *Kjersten Gray* that sounds totally beautiful for a wedding dress! im glad you agree with me!

  • @RionaHenry

    @RionaHenry

    5 жыл бұрын

    That would look beautiful @@bunnyqueenkj

  • @renatal.129
    @renatal.1292 жыл бұрын

    from the moment that mom said "found her prince charming" i saw what i needed to see...

  • @gomes7066
    @gomes70663 жыл бұрын

    Man the final dress in black they showed in the end looked SO BEAUTIFUL! Now I'm mad we didn't get to see her wearing it

  • @gigi2323
    @gigi23235 жыл бұрын

    What I hear “I wanted my daughter to be straight I wanted her to be in a white dress” In my OPINION (this is just my opinion) I think the moms disappointed with her daughter

  • @eleanormunt2860

    @eleanormunt2860

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think she is definitely disappointed, but it seems she's also trying to be accepting.

  • @elisethompson406

    @elisethompson406

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think the mom was disappointed. She obviously is being very accepting and sweet. She just doesn’t understand how important the black dress was for Melody. Personally I think Melody wasn’t being very compromising or grateful to the woman who raised her.

  • @sreejita9090

    @sreejita9090

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@elisethompson406 No bride should have to compromise on their wedding day. Not even to their mother.

  • @elisethompson406

    @elisethompson406

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lost Girl Well... maybe. But I still think people are being very unfair to the mom. She’s a conservative southern woman who never expected her daughter to roll that way, and I think she did an amazing job at letting it go. My mom would’ve tried to beat the gay out of me or perhaps picked my wedding dress for me.

  • @sreejita9090

    @sreejita9090

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@elisethompson406 Yes but sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. The girl's just gonna have one wedding right? It's her day. And yes I do agree that this mom is doing her best to let go. Definitely. Ps if what you said about your mom is true then I'm sorry, that's just wrong.

  • @toiletpaper6408
    @toiletpaper64085 жыл бұрын

    The mother seems really manipulative, and it seems that she was always that way "You always wore princess dresses when you were little." "Cuz you made me!"

  • @LornaRoseFoX

    @LornaRoseFoX

    5 жыл бұрын

    Slushy119 sounds like my mother was an emotional hell when I was first dating my hubby and my mother was like “oh trust you to love someone from far away” well sod you mum and your conditional love. True love is unconditional.

  • @ouestlelivre

    @ouestlelivre

    5 жыл бұрын

    I mean, we all wore things as children that we don't wear as adults!

  • @toiletpaper6408

    @toiletpaper6408

    5 жыл бұрын

    Andrea D of course that is true, but the daughter said the mom *made* her wear princess dresses, so I assume that she never actually wanted to wear them. And now she doesn't want a white dress, but the mom still has something to say about that

  • @ouestlelivre

    @ouestlelivre

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@toiletpaper6408 good point. That's true. When I was really little, I didn't have too much choice about what I wore.

  • @Garnetlioness

    @Garnetlioness

    5 жыл бұрын

    I had mom change one princess outfit i wore for Halloween into a witch costume when i was like 7.

  • @ningning5561
    @ningning55612 жыл бұрын

    THAT BLACK DIAMOND IS GORGEOUS 😭😭😭😭

  • @Aj_Orito
    @Aj_Orito2 жыл бұрын

    I love how openminded her Mom is even if she was raised in a traditional way. The Mom's lovely but she's even made lovelier by her mindset.

  • @magnarcreed3801

    @magnarcreed3801

    2 жыл бұрын

    She’s absolutely not open minded. She’s passive aggressive. I’d uninvite her until she learnt better.

  • @ascent8487

    @ascent8487

    Жыл бұрын

    @Magnar Creed, I’m really sort of amazed by how people see this woman. She’s not hateful. She’s not disowning anyone. She’s not unaccepting of the fiancé. Ultimately she wants her daughter to be happy. Was she thrown for a loop when her daughter came out? Maybe. Should she be free to admit that? I think so. I’m sorry but all these very progressive or so open minded commenters seem very lacking in empathy and quite frankly seem incredibly close minded in regards to other people’s experiences.

  • @lauren7859
    @lauren78594 жыл бұрын

    "We've got so untraditional!" *laughs nervously in homophobia*

  • @bun2579

    @bun2579

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lauren C ok, cool. They’ve got differing views and the moms trying her best to be supportive. Not really homophobic.

  • @eyysha

    @eyysha

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lily Literally every comment is AhAhAhaA I always thought she’d have a Prince ChArMiNg and a WhItE dReSs hahaAhAhA I guess I’ll never have want I WANT and dramatics That’s not what acceptance sounds like by a long shot.

  • @cubbybunnyx

    @cubbybunnyx

    4 жыл бұрын

    A Bryant and the mom doesn’t care that she’s married a girl she just didn’t want a black dress

  • @greenelephant...ofdoom5527

    @greenelephant...ofdoom5527

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@cubbybunnyx The mom totally cares or she wouldn't have felt the need to bring it up in such an awkward way.

  • @cubbybunnyx

    @cubbybunnyx

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@greenelephant...ofdoom5527 I just meant shes trying her best to support her daughter that's all

  • @breebree218
    @breebree2184 жыл бұрын

    She’s a conservative mom, at least she’s trying her hardest to be supportive. A lot of conservative parents DISOWN their gay children. Let her come out of indoctrination, it takes time.

  • @dp8178

    @dp8178

    4 жыл бұрын

    Artoria Pendragon Hm, but who gets to decide what’s normal and what’s not then?

  • @Saralee932

    @Saralee932

    4 жыл бұрын

    Artoria Pendragon normal is boring

  • @unoriginalname4544

    @unoriginalname4544

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Artoria Pendragon seeing how many people come out nowadays, i'd say it's pretty normal. Maybe you should do something about that prejudiced part of you that insists on that not being the case :)

  • @unoriginalname4544

    @unoriginalname4544

    4 жыл бұрын

    Artoria Pendragon Do you mind if I ask why you wouldn’t want a gay kid? It wouldn’t really change anything and wouldn’t affect you or anyone else in a bad way so what’s the problem?

  • @nicolevillela7843

    @nicolevillela7843

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ya that’s true Ik my parents would disown me and say something like my god forgive me for the sin I commit oh and call me a disgrace to this family

  • @jiminsjams9842
    @jiminsjams98422 жыл бұрын

    2:36 she's got a point tho✋😩

  • @emmaearthling444
    @emmaearthling4443 жыл бұрын

    “I want an ivory dress” 👏ITS👏NOT👏ABOUT👏YOU👏

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