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COMMON IN-LAW ISSUES | The Drama | The Makhs Snrs
DreamTeam! We are so excited to be back with you!! Today we discuss common issues marriages are faced with when dealing with in-laws. The Seniors are back in the house with us to talk about this sensitive topic.
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When your mother in-law is well educated, marriage can become easy.. I love your mother in-law👌👌👌
@lynettenene9218
2 ай бұрын
That is the best truth
I absolutely enjoy and appreciate how well spoken Mrs Makhetha senior is. Infact the entire Makhetha clan can express themselves really well maan! I love it
@DIVA2410
3 жыл бұрын
Yoh, I had lots of wow moments.
The Makhs seniors are such learnerd people.their english is soo classy and Englishy
@wandile_mm
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 we will pass the compliment♥️♥️
@happymuller841
3 жыл бұрын
💗
@bccreationskwakwa693
3 жыл бұрын
Englishy English🤣🤣
@mgeijho
3 жыл бұрын
@@bccreationskwakwa693 🤣🤣its not african english, its not american/tv english, its Englishy English.
I’m in awe of The Makhs seniors’ level of maturity and wisdom. WOW!😊 “The man sets the tone, if there’s a problem (especially disrespect or lack of boundaries), it’s his to fix”.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
"We don't have an in-law problem we have a son problem." I always say this. Period. The son is the one who should manage his people. If he is not man enough to do that he shouldn't be getting married. Also, yho hay bethuna we are not worthy of this content. I got so emotional towards the end. We all deserve this kind of in-laws. 😭
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Aaaah thanks Siya. We love you♥️♥️. The folks have said a mouthful🙏🏾
@bulumkobulumko652
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMakhs Lerato translate FOLKS to Venec,🙈🙈🙈
@nonhlahlaphyllia6967
Жыл бұрын
@@bulumkobulumko652 Parents/ abazali ☺
@lynettenene9218
2 ай бұрын
Ayikho inyani egqhitha leyo
I am just catching up on every episode and I must say that Lerato's Dad is definitely one of the greatest actors to ever come out of this country.
Lerato you are so blessed to have a wife that are adored by your parents- may God continue to bless you and your family.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hey guys, I'm still new on this channel and I'm really loving it. I got married 3 weeks ago and I must say I have learnt a lot from this segment. This was so informative and I really appreciate you. May the Lord continue blessing you and both your families❤️.
I don't know why but this conversation was very emotional for me. I pray that I have understanding inlaws one day because it's truly beautiful to have a healthy relationship with in-laws. God bless you the Makhs🙌
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love♥️
@nothilemdunge9972
3 жыл бұрын
Lolz🙈I teared up too.
@likopotsephe8979
3 жыл бұрын
I cried as soon as Mr Makhs senior started speaking!
@matebellonzeku9451
2 жыл бұрын
It is emotional. You are so blessed to have a family like Makhs.
I am manifesting a TV show for you guys. You guys have awesome structure in terms of asking and answering relevant questions. ❤️🌟
@rumbieguveya6186
3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@siviwemapekula1689
3 жыл бұрын
Amen🕯️🕯️
@fablife7081
3 жыл бұрын
True, this type of content needs more exposure. Very powerful conversations.
@dineomasetla3443
3 жыл бұрын
🕯🕯🕯
Register ashi… Here we like before watching instalment. Then we share with our friends and family. And post on our social media platforms. -Keep the comments coming as we are watching. -We don’t skip ads… (no matter how excited) -Make sure we are subscribed and have the notification bel ON. Then we sit back and enjoy. 🙂
@KamogeloB
3 жыл бұрын
Yup👊🏾
@LM-he7eb
3 жыл бұрын
All the time
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you our class captain! We love and appreciate you so much♥️♥️♥️♥️
@AnnstaciaK
3 жыл бұрын
@@LM-he7eb kao tsheper wena
@lebogangmothibe2697
3 жыл бұрын
Most def💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
I see so much of Hakoe in Ma’Makhetha it is mind blowing. Face, demeanor, everything!😂❤️
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
I get what Pheto is saying in the beginning that she isnt just saying this coz her in-laws are here.i think if they didnt have a great relationship she wouldnt even be comfortable doing this topic with them.she really is blessed.its resfreshing to see this kinda dynamic
@khethiweboqo3730
3 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
They are incredible people! Such a blessing♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾
is it me or their first daughter looks so much more alike to Mrs Makhs Senior!?
@kabelop9082
3 жыл бұрын
Totally Hakoe is Koko & Koko is Hakoe strue
@NomaMPride
3 жыл бұрын
Now that you've mentioned it. I see it. What a blessed family. May God bless all of them
@KamogeloB
3 жыл бұрын
Yup I see it too
@ThandazaMK
3 жыл бұрын
Yes Hakoe nje umntana Gogo straight!!!
@siyethembad8049
3 жыл бұрын
Facts!
Phetola you're indeed a daughter in the family, I can eve see similarities between you and Mrs Makhetha Sr💖 This was a great episode.
Never have I ever heard such wisdom on the topic of in-laws. I pray that this reaches millions others. God bless you guys and thanks so much for this. ❤️
The wisdom😭 incredible.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️
We have a son problem and the same so has to to dictate how his family is to be regarded. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 it’s very clear for me. I’m thankful that my husband of 23 years laid the foundation of how I was to be regarded by his huge family and we haven’t fought once❤️
There are no in-law problems, there are son problems....ai the seniors are just too wise, it's amazing
10:00 "Who is she?"🙆♀️🥺🥺 Oooh I love Mama waitse. Cutting ✂️ right to the chase🔥🔥
Hai Mama Senior🔥🔥🔥 Cima cima cima! When she opened her mouth! Cima🔥
Interesting topic, your parents are wise, you can tell they are God fearing.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
You see, I'm not married nor am i in a relationship where I'm building towards that... But honestly your installments speak wisdom over me.. Its through such channels that you prepare yourself, you learn and unlearn issues so that whenever that calling comes to take place in your life you have been already equiped by learning from those before you even if its not yet relevant, so then you can go back to your wisdom bank and pull out what you once learnt from someone years ago because it's time for its use.. Otherwise, Thank you guys.
How I wish this could air on TV when most elders are watching. What a profound conversation!!
😭😭 OMG! They literally said everything I've been saying, About inlaws.
@crm5616
3 жыл бұрын
Same Sis
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@000Benz
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
Welcome back, we had missed you big time really. Condolences to the family. This was a hit, my husband and i kept watching and pausing and rewinding in interval discussing this one. Thank you for inviting the Makhs senior, we forever appreciate their visit to the DREAM TEAM...
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
We thank God ♥️♥️🙏🏾. We love being back! 💃🏿
I cried so much realising that I have endured so much pain from my inlaws because of my husband's stationary position 😭tjo
@shammahboterere9344
3 жыл бұрын
You can say that again!!
I love the honour Mr Makhs Snr bestowed on the wife, that she is the mother of the next generation of the Makhs clan, like how beautiful is that. How could they not treat her with love when they view her in such a beautiful light. And I know not all couples choose to have children but you don't have to give birth to children of your own to be a mother, guiding and imparting your wisdom too can be you being a mother.
I cannot 'like' this video enough!
Come on! Man! These parents. We need a 10week series with them.
Pearls of wisdom 🤯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I love what Mrs Makhs Senior said...The son does set the tone of how the wife will be treated by the family. If he draws a line early then they will know not to cross that line. Also some moms forget that once their sons get married its a new chapter and that new chapter needs to also be respected.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true and we’re lucky to be parented by such wisdom 🙏🏾
I had to stop this 16 minutes into the video and just commend the wisdom in this video....wow!! I'm astonished. Son, take your position, all will go well in the family. And this is my first experience and I am definitely staying with the Makhs, proper content right here.
I wish the whole country could watch this ... but also to be able to implement something like this the parents need to be of a good strong character and also the daughter inlaw also need to be of good character to not abuse the goodness of her inlaws ... so above all this proves that only 'whole ' individuals can come together and build a good family unit (especially when they are not biological family. Just coming together seeking a unity of peace and love ) ... hope I'm making sense 🙏 ❤
Clicked as fast as i could...am much as im a fan of this channel but let me tell you! When i see the Makhs seniors i get even more excited, they always dropping some great nuggets(wisdom). Haven't watched, just super excited!!
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
The seniors are a fave!♥️♥️
@ladye1253
3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more
Shhhhh! Let's sit and listen kids, the seniors are here...we already know gems will be dropped here... Happy father's day bo Papa❤ You all look great by the way family!
I’m a woman & my mom is so attached. She doesn’t respect my time. When you say “NO”. She pouts. I wish my dad was alive, I feel like her new hubby.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
It can get very tricky with parents sometimes. If you haven’t done so already, take the time to ask God to soften her heart when you bring the conversation up. He will work on her…
@winniethipa4011
3 жыл бұрын
Lol I know this isn’t funny but I’m glad someone is in the same boat as me
The Maks never disappoint with solid content that provokes thought!! So much to reflect on as a sister to brothers and a future Makoti.
True people of God. Speechless I wish the Makhs seniors have their own channel, just motivational channel... I love them so much
This was a great episode. My husband and I had a session with Mama a few months ago and it was amazing. It's always great to hear a different perspective on things.
Some of us go through alot 💔 Thank you so much for this. I really wish we have better in-laws in future and we ourselves become better parents in law as well
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love♥️
@keneiloemyoli
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMakhs thank you
@mantitilefalatsa6944
3 жыл бұрын
I pray for your situation and I trust and believe the Lord will hear our prayers.
@keneiloemyoli
3 жыл бұрын
@@mantitilefalatsa6944 hey friend 🙈 you are here..lol. Thank you Tee. You know hle..thank you ❤️ I love and appreciate you so much. Let’s keep on praying 🙏
Wow 😍😩Best video ever watched this year 🙌😍❤️I don’t have words.Thank you for teaching us the norm.We are a young generation of re-learning how to do things and letting go of toxic cultural practices that break marriages. ❤️I will be watching this again and again.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! Thank you for watching♥️
Thank u so much for educating & sharing your experience🙏May God Almighty continue to bless u, give u wisdom and strengthens u.......You are really a BLESSING and we ar learning a lot
so blessed to be married in a drama free family Nashwas are amazing nolies!!! they are a dream come true
Guys go monate yang mo! Thanks for this
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
O ra gore!?❤️❤️🤗🤗
This episode has blown me away. y'all should bring the Parents more often. because yoh, the wisdom. the words they spoke are so profound. you are very lucky to run your race as a couple with such parents by your side.
I desire such in laws 🥺🥺 I can't stop watching this video definitely worth sharing with my age mates. Thank you Soo much the Makhs you guys inspire me Soo much especially when it comes to love, family,belief etc❤️❤️ #🇿🇼
Yoh, the parents are wise. Thank you for this!!!
Wow wow wow!!!thank you for being real with the real issues affecting most of us.You are loved all the way from eSwatini.
@The Makhs I am weeping listening to this. I had a terrible experience with in-laws and I asked myself why should it be painful. You have a daughter why treat me this way. I prayed about it and thank you for bringing up this sensitive topic which is over looked.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Makhs Seniors. How I wish our parents could see this
It's the whole family for me... Yhuuu guys.... You are a blessed to be a blessing. Love you all Makhs family. ❣️ 🌸
This was a very informative instalment, i have learnt a lot as a wife and am also very grateful that i have a mother in law that is supportive of me and we can relate. I have been successful with my in laws by not taking sides and also just minding my business. Most especially just focus on respecting my mother in law and supporting her in all sectors of life. My father in law is late so i did not have the opportunity to interact with him. Thank you.
You should hear me agreeing like Pheto like “yah” “mhm” 🥺🥺🥺🥺. So much knowledge bathong. I’m not even married. I took so much 😭😭
Can we please take a moment to honour our fountain of wisdom [The Makhs Seniors], i love it when they are featured into these installments Thank you so much Bhuti Lerato and Sis Phethola for another beautiful episode! I enjoyed this one Whatever Sis Phethola said when she prayed for in laws 🕯️🕯️AMEN! You truly are blessed to be married into so much love
3 years later this is still beautiful to watch ❣️🥂 Mrs makhs Jr has beautiful inlaws
@mirandalehoke7059
4 күн бұрын
It's the first time I'm watching it😂
@jennychembe6427
4 күн бұрын
@@mirandalehoke7059 amazing 😍
To the beautiful and sincere Mr Lerato and Mrs Phetola Makhetha: you have such breathtaking souls. Your maturity is at another level. You don’t claim to be born again, you are. I see the fruit of it in your instalments because they been genuinely. To the Makhs Snr: bathong, I need to sit down hle. I’m amazed that such People of your calibre exist. I am a Psychiatrist but I felt like I was in premarital counselling here. I think the Makhs Snr’s and Jnr’s need to write a book. A book we can buy and read over and over again and give as a gift. Bathong what about a tv program? I mean this deserves to be international. All I gotta say is: I thank God for leading me to those He ordained to do my premarital counselling. I prayed about it cause I don’t want any knowledge outside of the principles of the Word of God, Elohim. At His time, I’ll be in touch. Such etiquette. This is what Wisdom is. Kealeboga. Aaaa 👏🏾🤝🎱… Oh, new subie, bell 🔔 on. Love you guys. Love you mega! Ma Setjie
The wisdom that pours out of Mme Makhetha's mouth is as precious as rubies. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
"You've come to build not to break" That's it, thanks folks, always refreshing listening to you💓
I’m so grateful for this channel. I’m not married nor in a relationship but I’m so hooked 😄. It’s a great platform for singles to prepare themselves and have an idea of what to expect. Like they say “prevention is better than cure”.
So glad to know that we have parents who see things this way. Our African families can be complex but actually, it can be simplified. This is really powerful. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Oh my word, I love your parents...the WISDOM, your MOM is everything and she's absolutely gorgeous Wooooooooooow! you guys are blessed!
Bathong!! How I wish I discovered the channel earlier. Great content The Makhethas. Thank you.
I feel like you guys provide a special segment mo KZread hey, 10 years ya lona ke unique selling proposition
I love your parents so so much.Mrs Makh senior was my psychology teacher in college 😍I can listen to them and you guys the whole day😍😍Welcome back guys
watching from jamaica and this is so informative. would love if you translate on screen what you guys say in your language. i love this
I love how this family is so united
Wow so much wisdom right here. "You teach everyone how they should treat your wife." Thank you Fam for bringing the Seniors, we love and appreciate you. I hope and pray you will continue to heal in Jesus name. The Great I AM loves you
Shuuuuuu those who have ears let them hear,so much wisdom my goodness 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌.I absolutely loved this one too fam❤️❤️❤️❤️
I subscribed after this particular installment. I've been married 4 23 n Mama summed up my painful makoti initiation. It was not from loving my mom in law though bt my sisters in law. I'm so glad that I never hated them but kept them in my prayers.. My faithful God answered my prayers
Mama le Papa always dropping gems 💎 ❤️
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
Always!!!💯💯💯
This conversation right here convinced me to subscribe because wow, ✔️wholesome content, ✔️truth and love, ✔️genuineness, ✔️God honouring 🙌🏽 love to see it!!
20yrs in my marriage still learning , it's a process, but we live in the moment, with God included
At this point i think The Makhs Seniors should start their own marriage counseling channel tle, Lol. Really enjoyed and learnt alot from this installment. Thanks guys
@shorti2370
3 жыл бұрын
It would really be amazing
I like it when you said" let the reasonable~ness not be abused*
Wisdom can only be given by God but shared to others and thank you Ma le Papa for spending time in the secret place and living by example. I truly thank God for each and everyone of your lives. It's amazing what the Lord has poured into your lives and thank you so much for sharing. I pray that the Lord shall continually preserve your lives IJN💗💗
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
A word! Thank you for the contribution♥️
Love your channel! May you please add subtitles. A Zimbabwean follower here🇿🇼
15:35 "We do not have in law problems, we have son problems. Sons who do not take their positions" 🔥🔥🔥 Di nuggets tsa instalment eeee🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Your parents are extremely blessed with so much wisdom , absolutely love how open minded these folks are . I learnt so much from watching this, May God continue using them as a vessel to transform people’s unions . This was beautiful to watch .❤️
This conversation is so powerful!!
I judged watched it now ....I am crying ....I am so emotional ..........Thank you seniors and juniors 😭😭😭😭😭
This is so inspiring xem like I've realized as we come from different backgrounds some principles are never poor, old fashioned or stale it's like so powerful 😍😘
this video???!!!!! what do you even mean???? I literally found myself wanting to hit the like button 10 time. wow guys!!! THANK YOU.
Thank you for sharing your parents with us. Wealth of wisdom. I love your channel...
We need more installments with the seniors, so much wisdom pouring out from them 🙌 👏 🙏 ❤ 😍 😫 🙌
So beautiful... I have learned so much from this installment
What a blessing for parents to see their children in marriage and for the couple to have their guidance and support in their marriage. This is something that most of us no longer have. I envy you both ☺
@minkz002
Жыл бұрын
Indeed. This is so beautiful to see. Wow. 🙏🏼
I love how Phetola is now taking the front seat, she now drives and steers the conversation.❤️❤️❤️
Makhs senior !!!! in the building I’m so happy💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽👏🏾👏🏾
I'm definitely sharing I can't be selfish with this wisdom 😢yey 🙆🏽♀️thank you bagaetsho
This episode was mind blowing. Lerato's parents are so full of wisdom, they are such a blessing. I wish couples, pre and after marriage can watch it. I'm definitely referring it to people that I know.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@labophilanikometsi6236
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Hapitji😍💋
May I have such an amazing relationship with my in laws 🕯🕯
Welcome back May the Lord continue to heal your souls and spirits . You were missed kakhulu mara all is well
May God bless Your Parents guys. Such wisdom, it can only be God really.
@TheMakhs
3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️
This installment deserves to be on a tv channel🤍🕯,I just wish mother&father in-laws can hear this.
yoh guys the wisdom here🤷♀️...I can only quote few : SAFE SPACE, INCLUSIVITY, A MAN MUST TEACH, INITIATE MAKOTI BUT WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE PAINFUL, MAKOTI YOURE HEWREE TO BUILD NOT BREAK... thank you The Makhs I'm learning a lot here🙌🙌
I love this topic...we had same conversation with my inloves ka di 16. I am so blessed to have them im not makoti to them im their daughter. All the things the makhs seniors said i relate cos im blessed with parents and siblings that love me. I love them to bits
Really enjoyed it, yhoooo so insightful. It really made me as Palesa appreciate my mother in law❤️❤️❤️. But we must say, Lerato was not his normal self today, hope you alright 😔. We love you fam😍😍
I'M SHORT OF WORDS. THANK YOU. I'LL ALWAYS REFER TO MME LE RRE MAKHETHA FOR WISDOM. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
A prayer I never knew I had to go pray and got answered. A beautiful session🤎 Modimo a Le okelletse ho feta mo