Coffee Chat: An Unexpected Turn of Events

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  • @dianelauren1559
    @dianelauren1559 Жыл бұрын

    It's difficult to understand how a person can get satisfaction over upending someone else's life because he didn't get what he wanted. Had he decided to take the high road by defending your low impact lifestyle and tiny footprint, it's possible he could have helped himself as well. I am so sorry this has happened and wish you all the best Adelina.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    That's true. He could have just gone ahead with a tiny on his property and none of the other neighbours would have said a word.

  • @justmaria5806

    @justmaria5806

    Жыл бұрын

    He probably did not have the intention of building anything close to code. Amazing how much trouble this individual could make CONSIDERING...... he never set foot in your house. What ilk.......

  • @TNbear0126

    @TNbear0126

    Жыл бұрын

    Very well said. The nicer, less-profane way I've tried to phrase/see it all. I simply can't imagine throwing a wrench into a total stranger's life, budget, plans, finances, etc. because I didn't get something I wanted. The aptly-named neighbor could've approached this in at least a half-dozen different ways that wouldn't be putting Adelina in this situation, and may even helped the neighbor get what he ultimately wanted. Flying off the handle, in petulant anger (I wrote the book) never helps/leads to anything good, trust me. So I really try to not be that guy anymore, as I admittedly have been in years past. I enjoy this channel very much and feel part of her journey on this stuff, after watching/commenting for two-plus years, so she's someone I only want the best/good things for because I know she has a vision and hopes/plans, and stupid stuff like this isn't helping one bit.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    What a lovely thing to say. Thank you! ☺️❤️

  • @sovereigns1grace

    @sovereigns1grace

    Жыл бұрын

    THIS is a very good perspective. So glad you made this point.

  • @dogwalker338
    @dogwalker338 Жыл бұрын

    May Karma come to the person who has caused you this stress, it always does. You will find your spot, and your attitude can only help you. Sending you positive energy. 💕

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @susanalario3836

    @susanalario3836

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry this is happening to you, I know you fell in love with this spot. Hope your. Ew spot is just as beautiful. Remember it's all a great adventure in your life. Prayers for you to find your dream spot and are able to still have that beautiful landscape you intended.❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊.

  • @kathleenhoney

    @kathleenhoney

    Жыл бұрын

    This is just ridiculous. As you say and during a housing crisis. Karma to the awful neighbor.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @AdrianeErin
    @AdrianeErin Жыл бұрын

    As a Canadian who is unable to afford a home in this country, I really hope you fight for policy change. You are a great voice for this cause. Good luck looking for a new spot.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊

  • @janew5351

    @janew5351

    Жыл бұрын

    How much would land costs that allows a tiny house on the island or would this govt intervention just be a few steps away?

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    It depends on the location I suppose.

  • @lovespurpleflowers

    @lovespurpleflowers

    Жыл бұрын

    Every single Canadian must “push back”, there are more of you than there are “them”! Same all over the globe, keep watching, it is happening!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @laurawinger4339
    @laurawinger4339 Жыл бұрын

    I am absolutely heartbroken for you. I'm so, so sorry this happened. For all the good people that might be out there, the small, petty, childish assholes just make humanity look terrible. I'm glad you've already got some options and I hope you land some place amazing where you don't have to deal with this again. Stay strong! And lots of hugs from rando internet stranger. 🤗❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you my friend (not random or stranger after all this time). ☺️❤️

  • @bettycole6416

    @bettycole6416

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you go back to the park you were in ?? Or this may be the time to buy you a property. Go out to a lake somewhere. So sorry this is happening to you. ❤good luck to you. I do watch your videos. Love the tiny home. It will work out great for you.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @lesleyhubble2976

    @lesleyhubble2976

    Жыл бұрын

    How nasty some people are, I hope he gets his comeuppance, he deserves a taste of his own jealous tendencies. So sorry

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @nancysmith5630
    @nancysmith5630 Жыл бұрын

    I believe this will be a good move for you. You continue to inspire your viewers. Rediculous by laws and a setback for affordable housing issues in Canada. We are all here with you my friend. ❤️

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ❤️

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊.

  • @cristinaseguro2165
    @cristinaseguro2165 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry that people had to stick their noses into other people’s business. The world needs people helping each other not causing harm. Sending positive vibes that you find a perfect spot for Serendipity.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @cristinaevans139

    @cristinaevans139

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree ❤ from Australia ps my name is Cristina too,where are you from?

  • @cristinaseguro2165

    @cristinaseguro2165

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cristinaevans139 I’m from Canada

  • @beachseeker634
    @beachseeker634 Жыл бұрын

    Adelina, I am so sorry this has happened to you. So many people today have the "what's in it for me mentality" and don't think about how their actions affect other peoples' lives. I have no doubt you will find the right solution to this, and perhaps be able to help others from your experience. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of hugs. ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the hugs, I need them ☺️.

  • @valeriebaxter2354
    @valeriebaxter2354 Жыл бұрын

    What a sad world that 1 person and 'jobs worth' public servants can cause so much disruption, on the positive it's for a reason and in a year or two you'll see why. Stay positive x 💖

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Valerie!

  • @chriscassidy221
    @chriscassidy221 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry you are going through this. Maybe your next spot will be sunnier…and quieter, and you’ll be so glad for the move. Putting positive energy into the universe for you and yours. 🙂

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I appreciate that. ☺️

  • @candicecassel1110
    @candicecassel1110 Жыл бұрын

    Greed, bs, stupidity, ignorance mean people is not an excuse for this behavior. Unfortunately this type of “humanity” is everywhere!!! This too shall pass! Stay strong girly and remember you got this! Sending prayers to you and Serenity and Sofie. Geeez it’s everywhere. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I appreciate that ☺️❤️.

  • @lizlorraine463
    @lizlorraine463 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry you are going through this. Im 76, and after a stroke (im fine now) I moved near a daughter to a small SE Alaskan island from Seattle and a home I lived in for 38 years in 2015 March. Here they would not allow tiny house on a lot with wheels, Ok without. Many places are way behind the times of what people are choosing for their homes, young and old alike. It so frustrating. Long story, but I gave up plans for tiny house. We cleared daughters back yard, and built a 315 sq ft inter-shelter Dome I had shipped from Juneau. Ive been living here for 5 years and love it. It’s not my dream tiny house ( I vicariously get to live in your beautifully built home) but its all good. I’d attach a picture, but don’t know how. Good luck to you on this next adventure in life! Personally, Id opt for the Sunshine Coast, it sounds lovely and a sure deal for the tiny house. ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kindness. I'm so glad you found a way to make a home near your daughter. ❤️☺️

  • @ronniem3592
    @ronniem3592 Жыл бұрын

    Look on the bright side--you were not settled in all the way and you will be away from that tattle-tale neighbor . The landlord had to have known something about the zoning law. You seem like a very strong person. I was in a situation years ago over a housing issue where I had to move in a hurry, It turned out to be a blessing in the long run. Don't get stressed and don't lose any sleep. Stay blessed and keep making your videos

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks. Yes, I'm sure it work out for the best.

  • @Gail-gf7km

    @Gail-gf7km

    Жыл бұрын

    I can pretty nearly assure you that the landlord did not know about these absolutely ridiculous regulations.

  • @ronniem3592

    @ronniem3592

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Gail-gf7km I hope not

  • @lovespurpleflowers

    @lovespurpleflowers

    Жыл бұрын

    The problem with “government” is that they make things so dang complicated for their citizens, not to mention the folks that do not even understand the laws that they are hired to enforce, no one knows how to take the tyrants on? Folks need to band together and demand the people that they elect, start back at square one and simplify everything!

  • @theroadhome_Liz_Summers
    @theroadhome_Liz_Summers Жыл бұрын

    Hopefully, this will be a case of "one door closes, another opens" and the new opening is better than you might have dreamt ... still, the uncertainty and stress of past months and until you get resettled has to be very challenging. Good thoughts for a process as smooth as possible ... from Montana, US.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @conniebarnes7383
    @conniebarnes7383 Жыл бұрын

    I think it is time for you to purchase your own piece of property if you can so NO ONE can tell you to move. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Praying for you. Moving is so expensive. Much love!

  • @francesmalzahn9994

    @francesmalzahn9994

    Жыл бұрын

    I could be wrong but I think part of the appeal of the tiny house for Adelina is that she can move it where she wants, when she wants. While I agree with your logic, buying land would defeat that purpose for her. This is an unexpected and heartbreaking turn of events for her, but I am certain she will land on her feet.

  • @susananderson1071

    @susananderson1071

    Жыл бұрын

    @@francesmalzahn9994 Not if she can buy land where ridiculous bylaws and interference is not

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Connie. My next 5 year plan is to buy some land, where there are no zoning restrictions and maybe have a tiny house village. I was saving up for that downpayment.

  • @conniebarnes7383

    @conniebarnes7383

    Жыл бұрын

    @@myBIGtinyhouselife Sounds like a good plan. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @sunrae1531

    @sunrae1531

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe we should start a ho fund me page ?

  • @caterinasalvatori841
    @caterinasalvatori841 Жыл бұрын

    I cried for you lol I don't even know you but I've been following you since the beginning and I felt your disappointment and sadness, but if there is anyone who can make this work, it is YOU. I wanted to rant about that 'person', but at the end of the day, it won't change anything. You got this, we are here for you!💪❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Knowing that really does help ☺️❤️

  • @jules3826
    @jules3826 Жыл бұрын

    I wish you the best in your property search! Luckily you have so many people who are sending positive energy to you! “Aptly named Dick” is right! Anyone with a happy life does not try to make others miserable. He’s probably not living the life he wants and is resentful to people (like you) who are!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️

  • @susantodd6963
    @susantodd6963 Жыл бұрын

    Oh nooo.....I'm so sorry, Adelina! You have always played by the rules and done your due diligence, I'm getting strong "no good deed goes unpunished " vibes. So many of us just want a little piece of land and a simple life, doesn't seem fair it should be so hard. As others have said, I hope this leads to an even more beautiful, sunnier and happier destination!!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I'm sure it will!

  • @suemeunier2556
    @suemeunier2556 Жыл бұрын

    Awe no, that is just terrible news. Why some people can be so miserable is beyond me. I wish you all the best in finding a better, more permanent spot in which to settle. My heart goes out to you and to your landlords too because they will be taking a huge financial hit every bit as upsetting as you will. So sorry this has happened.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, they are a young family with 4 children. My rent helps them pay their mortgage.

  • @pamherndon9345
    @pamherndon9345 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Adelina I am soooo sorry and sad that you have been given this horrible news. We all know you are such a strong woman who will get through this. There is another beautiful place for you somewhere. I am praying for you to find your next spot.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @debbiedann3697
    @debbiedann3697 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry Adelina 😢. It was hard for me to watch this video knowing what you have been going through. I think these neighbours need to use the message that you close every video with. “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” I believe that you are going to find something even better to fulfil your destiny. It just sucks that you have to go through this whole process so soon. Love and hugs to you my dear 😌💕

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I appreciate you ☺️❤️

  • @debbiedann3697

    @debbiedann3697

    Жыл бұрын

    No problem 😌

  • @louiseevans6121
    @louiseevans6121 Жыл бұрын

    How disappointing! Stay strong, Adelina. When you move, you will end up in an even better place. Peace and love!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @liesbethbos3049
    @liesbethbos3049 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for you and your landlord. You both put a lot of love, energy and also money into this. So much stress for no good reason. Big tiny house hugs to you and Sophie

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @GrandmaD2024
    @GrandmaD2024 Жыл бұрын

    I was literally in shock as I listened to your story. It was so obvious by your face this was going to be difficult. We all love you and are sending you warm vibes ❤. I hope your next place will be better than this one! Take care and know we are thinking of you ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @karenjohnson6667
    @karenjohnson6667 Жыл бұрын

    After all of your research, careful planning, and stressful (and expensive) moving, this just plain sucks! But you have the best attitude, and I am certain that you will get past this unfortunate (and frustrating, to say the least) situation and find an even better home for you, Sophie, and Serendipity. Good luck and prayers for a not-too-stressful search and move.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! ❤️

  • @nooncactus
    @nooncactus Жыл бұрын

    Your statement, “in a world where you can be anything be kind” would have been good advice for your landlord’s other neighbor. I’m very sorry about your situation. Sending good thoughts your way. ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I appreciate that very much 😊.

  • @noreenn6976
    @noreenn6976 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry you have to move. How sad that tiny homes are still not welcome in so many towns/cities, even in the USA.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    😊

  • @dim5479
    @dim5479 Жыл бұрын

    I have always found, just as you said, that there’s always one person that is miserable enough to try and ruin things for others. It’s a shame with what’s happening with housing everywhere that people become so vested in their small roles that they can’t decided these things on a case by case basis and rely on these rules that were written who knows when. Your home is lovely and obviously well researched. I hope you find a spot so good that this current situation is barely remembered.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. This will all make a good story some day. 😊

  • @danandlesliebulger2775
    @danandlesliebulger2775 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry to hear this! Wow! Your story breaks my heart, and frankly, makes me irate!!! Wishing you and Sophie a peaceful, (needless!) transfer!❤❤❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊.

  • @justmaria5806
    @justmaria5806 Жыл бұрын

    Beside all that.....what a hassle for Sophie. She just finally got the last of her change of address notices filled out and forwarded to her adoring fans. 😊

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha! That's so true! 😁

  • @maryfitzpatrick8383
    @maryfitzpatrick8383 Жыл бұрын

    (Dick is correctly named Dick!) - I love your posts - even though, I don't live in a tiny house (dormer house). I love your posts and you inspire and teach me stuff. Sorry about the distress and worry that this is causing you. May only good come from this and hoping the governments get their act together and make it far more easy to have and live in a tiny house. (Your tiny house is gorgeous!!!)

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mary ❤️.

  • @maryfitzpatrick8383

    @maryfitzpatrick8383

    Жыл бұрын

    You add to my day and have inspired me to build a new, good life. Thanks for that. May you find a good place to live; even better than where you currently are living. (Ireland)

  • @jerigale
    @jerigale Жыл бұрын

    You will be fine - better than fine. I am crushed for you and your landlord. Disappointing is an understatement. You have many who will support you, be there with you in spirit and pray for you. You are loved. The person who complained will have to live with his resentful feelings. Making you move and struggle through the process will do nothing to change his heart. You have brighter days ahead because you are kind and deserve them. Hugs from the US coming your way.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. I appreciate you 😊

  • @lenoreconsiglio1355
    @lenoreconsiglio1355 Жыл бұрын

    I feel so sad for you, having to disrupt your private existence, because of nonsense. I hope this door closing brings you to the perfect new location, where you can be happy and at peace. Sending you an abundance of good energy . All the best.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks ☺️

  • @erikahunter1801
    @erikahunter1801 Жыл бұрын

    Adelina, I have been following you for a couple of years now and you’re a fantastic source for all things “tiny house”. You have now been presented a situation whereby you have followed all the recognized necessities to be able to live an alternative affordable housing option with the correct certifications & standards, and have come up against a wall of bureaucratic unknowns - “unknown” by way of the municipalities & province have yet to catch up & formalize. If anyone could be used as a recognizable good tiny house citizen it’s yourself. I will be watching closely as I consider you a maverick in true tiny house living. I have no doubt you will find yourself in the right place at the end of all of this, and we will once again benefit from your experience & knowledge as potential tiny house future dwellers our selves one day. Stay intentional & strong to your end goal & all this will work out for you. Much love & support ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I appreciate that very much 😊❤️

  • @Tamamaus
    @Tamamaus Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry to hear how things turned out. Some people can be really a pain for others, sadly. I wish you a lot of good nerves in the upcoming process and that your new spot will be a safe one for you! I am sure though that you are strong and positive enough to face all these troubles in the best way! Thanks for sharing the negative parts of tiny house living with us, too! And keep being the nice and strong woman you are!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @bobbim1410
    @bobbim14103 ай бұрын

    I’ve watched this video a couple of times and I’m so appreciative of you putting this nasty situation out there for others. In recent weeks here in southern Ontario there have been headlines involving shady landlords of rv parks that assured tiny home owners they were welcome to live year round at their site and that all bylaws had been met. Much like your home, these are gorgeous tiny homes and good people who now must scramble to find a new spot somewhere by the end of April. I don’t think I could handle such stress with your grace and having followed you now for sometime I know you’ve relocated again to a beautiful spot but my goodness - how disheartening. Thank you for showing all angles of tiny home life Adelina. 🥰

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    3 ай бұрын

    Thanks Bobbi. It was stressful but I'm sure there was a reason I needed to go through that. 😊🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Wanderfilled_Day
    @Wanderfilled_Day Жыл бұрын

    How heartbreaking! I'm so sorry you and your landlord are going through this. I'm sending you positive vibes for finding a wonderful next spot.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @donnalusk995
    @donnalusk995 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry you are going through this! Prayers that you find THE perfect spot. There’s a saying that has gotten me through some tough times. “God doesn’t close one door without opening another”

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Yes, I'm sure you're right 😊.

  • @12Gaile
    @12Gaile Жыл бұрын

    Oh Adelina I'm so sad this has happened to you. I wish that there was something I could do for you. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. Sending positive vibes your way. Take care ❤️🐈🌹

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, that is always helpful 😊❤️.

  • @christinenightingale2528
    @christinenightingale2528 Жыл бұрын

    It's bureaucracy gone mad. Its like that in England. You can't fart without having to get permission 1st. I hope you get sorted and I hope the person/ people that reported you get sorted in a different way! Blessings ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks ❤️

  • @dianeyoung2914
    @dianeyoung2914 Жыл бұрын

    And all because one person complained!! It's not like your home is an eyesore or that you leave trash everywhere. Well I hope that he doesn't rest easy! I wish you well and hope that you find a lovely spot x

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏼❤️😁

  • @geavisser7339
    @geavisser7339 Жыл бұрын

    We will follow you where ever you go and support you in our minds....you already have courage, so i wish for you a lovely new place where you and Sofie and Serendipity will be save and happy for a very long time! Take care ❤❤❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @barbr9662
    @barbr9662 Жыл бұрын

    I am rocked to hear this! I'm so very sorry. I've been following for a long time and was tickled to see you move to the island! On top of that I saw your video when you walked around Chemainus - one of our own favorite towns. It made you feel even more like my neighbor. We're in Duncan. This is unbelievable yet in our current world nothing is anymore. I am sorry and pray you find a perfect next place. ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'll be sorry to leave here for sure.

  • @gracecallowayable
    @gracecallowayable Жыл бұрын

    This will be a blessing in disguise…Fine the positive in the negative…Your forever spot is in the making!!! 👠🚌👠

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! 😊❤️

  • @swaziswimmer
    @swaziswimmer Жыл бұрын

    Such a disappointment!!! So sorry! Thank you for being so clear about all that happened and sharing it with others -- this is life, right?

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep, that's life! 🤷🏻‍♀️😁

  • @sonialovely913
    @sonialovely913 Жыл бұрын

    Adelina, I can only IMAGINE the stress you feel with the current turn of events. I’m so sorry this has happened because someone ‘felt’ however they decided to feel. How sad they couldn’t live and let live. I’m disappointed for you but also so hopeful that you will find something new that suits you as well as this place does. Wishing you the best of luck as things change & progress.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Sonia ☺️.

  • @jennygrimm4969
    @jennygrimm4969 Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing how the few manage to ruin so many things. Their goal is to make everyone as miserable as they are. My thoughts and prayers are for you and Serendipity to find the perfect spot.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jenny ❤️

  • @dianabanana6724

    @dianabanana6724

    Жыл бұрын

    You got that right. Misery loves company.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    😊

  • @tiffaniste4778
    @tiffaniste4778 Жыл бұрын

    Rules are rules and there there to keep everyone safe. It’s your job to familiarize yourself with the rules/ laws or hire someone that is licensed or familiar with the project and its requirements. The city codes are needed to regulate all housing project to protect you , the neighborhood and the environment. Good luck.

  • @RoseofSharon3
    @RoseofSharon3 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry this has happened to you and Sophie. I hope wherever you go it’s were your children can come & visit often. Chin up, better and brighter things to come. And whoever the trouble maker is it will come back to bite him/her in the rear end eventually.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Tammy ☺️.

  • @cyndyomand8429
    @cyndyomand8429 Жыл бұрын

    Could u put your story on Global News ? To create and hopefully awareness for Tiny Home owners in BC and why the bylaws NEED to be changed and hopefully to reverse their decision 🙏🏡🙏 It’s so unfair that 1 neighbor could have made this come about 🤬.. the rest of your neighborhood is fine with you staying 🥰

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    It's a thought. Thanks.

  • @mrsgmakes
    @mrsgmakes Жыл бұрын

    Oh Adelina I am so, so sorry to hear this. I love your positive attitude about being able to help others through your experiences. Take care. You’ve got this 💜

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! 😁

  • @janlint7434
    @janlint7434 Жыл бұрын

    My goodness, I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’d be a wreck. I’m sure you’ve had your moments, but you put out such a gracious attitude and I commend you. I pray you get things to work out. That really makes me angry. We all know it’s part of the journey but it shouldn’t have to be. Keep your head up and eyes on the prize (an even more beautiful and relaxing spot). You are an inspiration and a trailblazer. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your kindness and graciousness in all of this will be rewarded. ❤💕🌻🌷👋

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️❤️

  • @cathymoloney8668
    @cathymoloney8668 Жыл бұрын

    This is my 1st time on your channel. I'm in FL so can't help you. May the perfect land show up in your life.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome Cathy. ❤️

  • @Barb.....
    @Barb..... Жыл бұрын

    Oh Adelina, I'm so sorry that you have to go through this after all your efforts and expense to find and settle into a great spot. I can only imagine how stressful this situation is. It is a shame that people like that can't just mind their own damn business! I hope he sees this and learns a lesson. So sad for you. I also feel bad for your landlords that went to all the effort and expense to prepare your spot only to have this happen. However, I know that you will turn this all around and find another lovely spot for yourself, Sophie and Serendipity. This may lead you to exactly where you are meant to be. Sending positive vibes your way. May you soon find the spot of your dreams. ❤🤗

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your positive vibes ❤️. I'm sure it will work out for the best.

  • @robindifabio3619
    @robindifabio3619 Жыл бұрын

    Adelina, so very sorry this is happening! Sending love, hugs and positive energy to you.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @silverlining1398
    @silverlining1398 Жыл бұрын

    We are so backwards here in Canada when it comes to tiny homes, it’s ridiculous. The price of traditional homes and rents are outrageous and unaffordable for most. Is it possible to get your old spot back? You’d be closer to you sons and not in a position to have to move bc someone complains. In Canada, I’d be concerned about moving a tiny anywhere unless it’s an approved village- because who knows where bylaw will show up again. I’m so sorry that this has happened, it takes one jerk to start the ball rolling- thanks Dick!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, this problem is everywhere, not just Canada. I get messages from all over the world from people struggling with the same thing. Things will change because the movement is just getting bigger, unfortunately that change will be slow and painful. There are legal options in Canada but they are still not very abundant.

  • @cariplotnikoff5657
    @cariplotnikoff5657 Жыл бұрын

    Politics and bureaucracy, got to love em🙄 I tend to see these negative, adverse, difficult times as a chance to learn and grow. It's happening for a reason. It will lead you to a better 'spot'. 💕keep your chin up, BC is beautiful and I'm sure your furkid will love it just as much as my 5 felines and I do😊❤😻

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks. Yes she does 🐈❤️.

  • @sandyallen1488
    @sandyallen1488 Жыл бұрын

    Adelina, I am so sorry this happened. I am hoping you find another spot that you love and that you will feel secure with so that this doesn’t happen again. This is more than disappointing…this is terrible and the fellow who complained should be ashamed of himself.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Sandy 😊.

  • @sandralnwebster3204
    @sandralnwebster3204 Жыл бұрын

    Your positive attitude will see you through this trying time,Adelina! I hope you find a great spot for your tiny house close by that is even better than what you have now! You have to ask yourself what kind of a person would cause so much pain for another over petty jealousy of not getting what he wanted?!! Keep on,keeping on! We haveyou in our❤❤!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤️

  • @wanderlust62
    @wanderlust62 Жыл бұрын

    I have a list so I will just say this...the complainer can't even see your home from his. I feel sorry for him to be vindictive at the expense of an innocent person. The Lord has found something even better and you have options! The county is enforcing regulations they are not prepared for. They could have told the other person, no. What do they think "tiny home on wheels" means? I'll stop there, jumping off the soapbox. You have been blessed to have such a wonderfully supportive landlord and a beautiful land to share. Only better is to come! I will be praying for the perfect place, perhaps for you to even own, comes your way soon.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much !❤️

  • @Sundayjean
    @Sundayjean Жыл бұрын

    So many of our current systems are out of alignment with what is needed. Wishing that your new spot is magnificent!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @annies8075
    @annies8075 Жыл бұрын

    OMG, what a horrible jerk the 'neighbour from hell' is, causing all this trouble for you and your landlord. I sincerely hope that karma comes his way. So sorry to hear that this ridiculous situation is happening to you. Hope that you find a new spot quickly, so that you can get Serendipity moved. Sending you positive energy from the UK.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much! ☺️❤️

  • @kellimahaffey553
    @kellimahaffey553 Жыл бұрын

    When you started out your video, I had 2 HUGE fears.. having to move or Sofie.. I'm crushed and have a mixture of emotions. The reason for the move is absolutely ridiculous, petty and infuriating. I'm assuming there is no legal parking on the big island since you are looking at other island options. Know that you are always being given massive hugs of encouragement and strength, especially now. I admire you, your resilience, independence, determination & strength. Karma is real, and this 'neighbor' will not escape the circle of fate down the road in their lives.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. All the positive vibes and love really helps. ❤️

  • @livingitup9647
    @livingitup9647 Жыл бұрын

    This is a very heartbreaking story. My condolences for all of this unnecessary upset, disruption and expense. Many of us will be sending prayers and blessings for a miracle… and a subsequently easeful transition to a ‘perfect’ new home❣️🙏🏻💞🌟

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @joycemcclarty7491
    @joycemcclarty7491 Жыл бұрын

    Lots of tiny home communities. Lovely beautiful communities

  • @TracyLavery-cx9ut
    @TracyLavery-cx9ut Жыл бұрын

    This is so heartbreaking! I live in a community where homelessness is increasing daily. It seems so unfair that we are pigeon holed into living life by someone else’s terms. I do wish you well and hope that your next spot proves it was all meant to be. Many blessings🙏

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @ijayashree
    @ijayashree Жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to you Adelina. You will be fine. Take care and all the best wishes to you 💓💓

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @michellehenriques9164
    @michellehenriques9164 Жыл бұрын

    OMG, how unnecessarily petty is he! I hope you’ll take the Sunshine island spot, it sounds dreamy. Wishing you all the best.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Momabear1
    @Momabear1 Жыл бұрын

    Karma will find that evil neighbor. I would go for the island spot sounded so nice!

  • @sallyb4699
    @sallyb4699 Жыл бұрын

    Lots of love to you, Sophie and Serendipity. It will be ok as long as you are all together. 💕xx

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @juliewilber9759
    @juliewilber9759 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry about this! I know you will handle it with grace as you do all things. Wishing you all the best as you search for your new place! ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @sovereigns1grace
    @sovereigns1grace Жыл бұрын

    This is devastating news! I can't see a way that you could have foreseen this happening. The expense and disruption is enormous. I really admire your strength and positive expression of this news. Times are hard, but the right perspective gets us through. You really demonstrate that. I'll be glued to my seat to see how this unfolds. My heart goes out to you.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @Carol-ng3qi
    @Carol-ng3qi9 ай бұрын

    There will always be that negative person that is so unhappy with their own life that they would do all they can to steal someones joy. I am learning from your story. I too would like a tiny home. I pray for you that you will be blessed with a great answer. Don't give up.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you Carol ❤️☺️

  • @marci9669
    @marci9669 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your trials and tribulations 😢. Please let’s us know if there is anything we can do to help you through this time. Sending you prayers and hugs!!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Your prayers and hugs are just what I need, thank you ☺️.

  • @joannk5259
    @joannk5259 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for this massive frustrating mess, especially when it seemed so unnecessary! But perhaps, this will drive you to find your perfect forever spot! Good luck and somehow I suspect you will land somewhere even better. ❤🙏❤️

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊

  • @amazingsylvia
    @amazingsylvia Жыл бұрын

    May God help you find a peaceful beautiful green awesome place. You are a blessing and amazing things happens every day. We are praying for you.❤❤❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️

  • @pinecone1321
    @pinecone1321 Жыл бұрын

    It's the trailer hitch that totally confuses the whole situation. Sorry your leaving the spot, your landlord was super nice to venture out with you. Your new spot is going to be awesome, can't wait!!! I'm going this direction, tiny home, in the states. I am researching my state today. Imm sure the snitches are watching behind their curtains satisfied.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 👍

  • @maddyanttila6690
    @maddyanttila6690 Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry that this happened to you. I love your channel and hearing about your adventures. I was just looking at a tiny house up the coast from me in California, and I would not have considered it if it hadn't been for seeing how happy you have been in your house.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    I am happy in my little house. No matter where I'm parked, that will never change 😊❤️

  • @sherylclements2846
    @sherylclements2846 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting your events, as sad as they are. It's informative, you're teaching us all out here processes (since the beginning!) of tiny house living, that other channels just don't cover. After you get settled in your new spot, you need to write a book. I'd be the first to buy!! I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and God brings good out of bad situations. It's a shame this person harmed you, out of his own anger or whatever. I pray that your next spot not have any of these issues (as you spoke about one possibility), and that you can settle for a few years until you own your own land ... which BTW, you now know what to check into when you do purchase land, etc. God bless you and Happy Easter tomorrow. I'll be watching intently for future updates on this. I live in AZ, USA btw. We even have hiccups out here. I have a mobile, on my own land, and county jurisdictions are so great here (basically not many!), but the city next door likes to interfere with county goings on. They fined me $600 when I replaced my single wide (it burned down), with a double, over the electric pole, that had already been approved by the county, who actually had jurisdiction. They just wanted to fine and get the $$.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    I"m so sorry to hear that story. 😕❤️

  • @nanalou1474
    @nanalou1474 Жыл бұрын

    What a "Dick" to put you through this! However, You never cease to amaze me with your knowledge and courage and strength to go through to follow your dream with your tiny home. I love your channel, keep following your dream and greatest of luck in finding your perfect spot.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much! ❤️

  • @avaraquel
    @avaraquel Жыл бұрын

    Good luck!

  • @dinabertrand9113
    @dinabertrand9113 Жыл бұрын

    Oh, I am so sorry this has happened to you! I just love your outlook on everything though. I'm sure you allowed yourself a minute, but then you picked yourself up and said "what's next?" I hope this next process goes smoothly for you ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep, I felt pretty sorry for my self at first. It's still something that creeps in but I need to keep focused forward and stay positive.

  • @Steveteras
    @Steveteras Жыл бұрын

    Although it is a big inconvenience for you to have gone through this, on the bright side, I am thinking that maybe a better and nicer place is waiting for you. Wish I had a land where you can stay. It would be amaizing to be neighbours. Best of luck in your searches.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! 😊

  • @janewright2800
    @janewright2800 Жыл бұрын

    All the best for you and wishing a lovely new safe space for you and your tiny home💚🌈☀️🦋

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! 😊

  • @shelly936
    @shelly936 Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear this. That neighbor is definitely aptly named. Good luck to you; I hear the Sunshine Coast is beautiful.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it is.

  • @soniao.5482
    @soniao.5482 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. God willing you will find a better place. I hope all works out for you.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! 😊

  • @celesteautokier
    @celesteautokier Жыл бұрын

    So very sorry to hear this. Positive vibes and prayers. Thank you for telling this story. Just buying a Tiny home is not always easy. Just like your journey. Wish you the best.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 😊

  • @kimmetcalfe6408
    @kimmetcalfe6408 Жыл бұрын

    ❤Blessings and prayers to you keep a positive attitude like you always do. 💕

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! ☺️

  • @noneofyobusiness7099
    @noneofyobusiness7099 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry such a kind person as you is going through this. The county rules have reinforced a petty bully who rather than choosing to advocate for change for the benefit of all; decided “if I can’t have it, you can’t either”. A kindergarten teacher would expect more. I hope you’re reading this nasty neighbour…I hope you’re pleased to know that your legacy is cruelty to several neighbours who were living peacefully. There is a special place in hell for people like you. And county - when will common sense and ethics start to play into decisions like this?

  • @Itsme-jv4cd
    @Itsme-jv4cd Жыл бұрын

    That's crazy! With all the thousands of people living in tents on the sidewalks and in broken down RVs along the city streets...and no one seems to be stopping them, yet you are doing everything right.

  • @carolcollins3108
    @carolcollins3108 Жыл бұрын

    Love and Light to you strong lady. I pray that you are happy in your new environment. I'm glad that you've had a good experience with your landlord , the kindness etc. May it all get better for you.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️.

  • @karenanderson6443
    @karenanderson6443 Жыл бұрын

    Sending peace and calm to you💕🌸. May each new step ahead be filled with ease and kindness!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that! Thank you ☺️❤️

  • @KeiteiVentures
    @KeiteiVentures Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear about your situation Adelina, that's such a blow - I thought that tiny house living was easier in Canada but I guess not... I'm part way through building a tiny house here in England and I also have to move my tiny house due to the local authorities... Thank you for sharing your story, I hope it's the start of a lovely new location elsewhere!

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊.

  • @sandramiller4112
    @sandramiller4112 Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck to you. I hope you find a perfect landing spot for your tiny home.♡

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊

  • @vballady
    @vballady Жыл бұрын

    💕 Hoping your search is successful, and you find a great new spot for your tiny. 🤞 Thanks for sharing the details.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks 😊.

  • @jfragnoli674
    @jfragnoli674 Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Unpleasant noisy neighbors forced me to move many years ago. It is beyond stressful. I know this will work out better for you. Sending positive thoughts & energy your way.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much 😊

  • @mrs.onyango6504
    @mrs.onyango6504 Жыл бұрын

    Park it in the non zone place and not worry about it anymore

  • @yvonnecrosbie
    @yvonnecrosbie Жыл бұрын

    Oh I am so sorry to hear your news 😢 my thoughts are with you sending you lots of love. ❤

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @anneslates6612
    @anneslates6612 Жыл бұрын

    Just reading this. What a nightmare. This is why I’m triple checking before I buy land to put my tiny on. The laws are so far behind. I’m so sorry this is happening.

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, they are so confusing. Good luck.

  • @craftycat6859
    @craftycat6859 Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear this. Very unfortunate that we have people who’s misery has to be transferred on to others & cause them pain too. Praying you will find a new spot, one that will suit all your needs & desires. One that is free from having this happen again! Sending you love, hugs & prayers 🙏💕

  • @myBIGtinyhouselife

    @myBIGtinyhouselife

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ☺️❤️

  • @ChrisMarkTvv
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    That's so sad thanks for sharing this video ❤❤

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