Coercive Control explained

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  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee11 ай бұрын

    It's for my daughter, since lock down they went worse with the control and madness and they really install fear in hear. I don't see them a lot because i avoid them but somehow their opinion counts as the truth for everyone involved with me and my child. I'm still baffled how this happend i mean they left me bleeding on the streets with oh well got to go. Strangers helpt me after i called my mom. When i got to emergency almost dead other time not same i got the reply then you also knows how it feels a'd no visit ofcourse. Everytime and it extreme situations. With school and government and such i can't pick up my stuff and go. Therefor please some advice for conversations not to get to that level of advantages for them. I have to stay calm always on alert if there is something difficult in my life and they know they'll pop up not to help nono to see how poor me is struggling again 😅

  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee11 ай бұрын

    It's only thing That still striggers i work over 15 years whilst not being able to get out ro stay calm. But i wanna take my child and run. They lie to the school to the counsel my own doctor they went dare suddenly untill it wast professional anymore and these doctors fell for it. You don't share that info and therefor dismiss my doctoral visits from that opinion that's not professional especially cause i have had myself checked many times. I'm not mentally ill i'm just exhausted and always in fight flight.

  • @Ntokozokhathi_cohesivevictim
    @Ntokozokhathi_cohesivevictim Жыл бұрын

    Im also going through coeicive control nd i want my story 2 be known nd told before i die stopping this abuse. how do i go about it

  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee11 ай бұрын

    Important info. Oh yeah like wait untill we are home look, sigh a tone no one sees it gets but you. You can't prove it they didn't that's just your interpretation and so on... Wyat do you answer to that one they turn it around Like they are not responsible for how you feel or your interpretation therefor they didn't do anything it's all in your head you make it like but you know the concequences and after you are one who is mental not stable and so fort. And everyone around you who doesn't know will affirm that you're to sensitive you're reading to much into it. What do you say concrete to fix this. If these are your parents everyone believes them. It's awefull. The men became violent after losing control over me when i had znough. My parents keep doing the everyone will see you as the instable one. I work on my triggerd but they really now what do to so when i get a bit to independent or self secure they just make some drama happen which is then me and i'm under control again out shame no way out and no one who believes it has cost me jobs houses moving friends relationships. And now it's for my daughter

  • @StephaniVrellSachs

    @StephaniVrellSachs

    6 ай бұрын

    I believe what you're saying and have seen this happen. Please know the there is a person in the world, me and many others, who believe you.

  • @muntee33
    @muntee333 ай бұрын

    Huh?!? This is predominantly a toxic femininity issue isnt it?

  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee11 ай бұрын

    I don't believe them anymore it took a lot of self work therapist didn't always work cause again my mom just goes there also talking about how she feels she can't get through to me. Tzmk to your own therapist about that then!!

  • @user-xs1yx9tc9m
    @user-xs1yx9tc9m5 ай бұрын

    What were the woman's marriage vows ? The choice is yours.

  • @sharonwilletts

    @sharonwilletts

    5 ай бұрын

    Where was his marriage vows! To love and respect her.

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