Classic alternatives - What to wear if you don’t want a white shirt, trench coat, black pants, etc.
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Have you ever seen those lists called "Five Pieces You NEED in Your Wardrobe," but you actually don't want or frankly feel like you need any of those pieces? Same here. Especially living in the mostly casual suburbs.
Bek explains why these must-haves don't necessarily work for everyone's lifestyle and offers some alternatives to these so-called "classics" that may work better for you.
Products mentioned in this video:
Mid-length Kensington Heritage Trench Coat
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Women's BeanFlex Utility Jacket
www.llbean.com/llb/shop/50473...
Levi's Women's Sherpa Teddy Jacket
www.amazon.com/Levis-Womens-S...
Sofia Jeans Women's Faux Fur Chubby Jacket
www.walmart.com/ip/Sofia-Jean...
ASOS DESIGN wide leg trouser in black
www.asos.com/us/asos-design/a...
Stovepipe Jeans
www.madewell.com/stovepipe-je...
Steve Madden Irelee Mary Jane Pump
www.dsw.com/en/us/product/ste...
Emilie patch-pocket sweater lady jacket in stripe
www.jcrew.com/m/womens/catego...
Organic Cotton Big Shirt
www.gap.com/browse/product.do...
Women's Nine West Drapey Button Down Shirt
www.kohls.com/product/prd-527...
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I totally agree with this "need to have" list. Most I have bought, and never wear as they are just not "me" . I watch a lot of influencers who live in Florida or Texas that tell me what I need to wear, who probably live in the suburbs too but since this is their full-time job they have a very different social life than me. I have purchased, and donated, way too many items this past year.
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
That's something I'm working on myself - learning to sit with something and not jump at it because I was influenced. Because it can be frustrating buying something just to donate it soon after.
I agree with you on many of these supposed "necessities." I pass on the white shirt, pumps, and the trench. My only heeled shoes are boots and sandals, for some reason. I wear a lot of flats including sneakers. I want to incorporate more casual skirts into my wardrobe, to take the place of pants. Your black jean suggestion is great; i like the idea of black jeans, but i have trouble finding comfortable jeans these days, which is why I like the skirt idea... mostly for comfort. Thanks for this video. I love to hear people talk about why these widely accepted "core pieces" aren't always workable or practical. Just subbed. :)
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
Skirts and dresses are so underrated sometimes. They feel like pajamas but look like you're actually putting in effort. Much more comfortable than jeans most times!
Thanks (from London England) for your views. I have never been able to be comfortable in trench coats and I find white shirts tend to be crispy(and restricting) which I dislike. I have a few silky viscose shirts in neutral colours. In October I went to an outlet and was delighted to buy two pairs of slim straight (my favourite) Levis in mid blue and black. I had been looking for comfy black jeans for ages and they have been my go to, paired with different party type tops over Christmas and New Year.
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
Sounds like you have some great foundational pieces for making outfits!
Loved this video. I can't imagine wearing a trench coat. Totally agree with you on all points. Not a good look for suburb use. I'm wearing loafers in a variety of colors. Can be casual or dressed up. I don't own a blazer. Just bought black flare leg jeans. Look great in the legs but are too tight in the waist. On the fence about keeping them but love the look. I had the opposite problem with the white shirt. Havevone that isvjustbtoo big on me. Looks sloppy. Found one on sale at Chicos that fit well. Thanks for sharing these great tips.
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
I've heard Chicos is great for basics. Bummer that your flares are too tight! Maybe hold onto those but keep looking for a better fitting pair.
Thank you I don’t have any of these and never wear those thanks for this
Bravo, bravo
I just found your channel and thank you! I live in the 'burbs in Canada and I'm so surprised that so many influencers still adhere to this list of classics! The conviction with which people stick to these items, wow. They aren't mutual funds or that supply of things you keep in your car in case you break down in winter where I live. I love your suggestions and they just make so much sense in a modern world.
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm glad it resonated and that we can all collectively agree that trench coats are not as great as everyone makes them out to be.
Pea coats are classic and not as fussy as trench coats (which I love but they just don't love me). Mine is red and 6 years old and still stylish.
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
Agreed! Pea coats are a great option
i don't like trench coat 🧥 too and pumps 👠.i only have 1 blazer because i need to wear formal attire in school.
I'd love to wear a blazer, but I'm HOT and I hate to sweat. I never wear white or black, only for a concert that I'm required to wear them.
@bedeckedbybek
9 күн бұрын
That's totally fair. Vest? Sleeveless trench? Linen blazer?
They always say "a little black dress" and some "well-fitting bootcut jeans" too! 😅
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
Yes! I also thought of the little black dress after the fact. I suppose black trousers would be a substitute for that one if you're not a dress person.
Right black wide leg jeans are more easier to wear, a chocolate men's vintage leather blazer is more practical, my western boots go with everything but pumps are a joke the pointy toe flats make more sense, long line khaki trench is easier to wear in the rain😊
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
There ya go!
I like most of these essentials, but when they bring up trench coats I shudder.. I've always loved them, but I look terrible - TERRIBLE - in them. I look like like I'm 12 in my mother's coat, while also looking like Miss Marple. I'm forever trying them on in hope, but no. Think everything on these lists should have an alternative, because no, they aren't for all.
@bedeckedbybek
10 күн бұрын
Hahaha yeah I really don't think anything is an absolute must have.
You talk a lot about silhouettes. What silhouette should I try to achieve for a casual, career, or professional look? Which silhouettes should I avoid?
@bedeckedbybek
5 ай бұрын
It's going to depend entirely on your body type and your preferences. Body type meaning round, triangle, inverted triangle, rectangle, or hourglass. If you're unsure, you can use a tape measure to confirm. Then, ask yourself: which, if any, are areas you would like to camouflage or emphasize? The goal in general (although current fashion trends are much less concerned about shape) is to balance proportions. So if you're top heavy, add volume to the bottom. If you're bottom heavy, add visual interest to the top. If you're middle heavy, focus on simple, body skimming tops and add visual interest with a jacket or cardigan left open to create a nice, elongating vertical line. Or, completely subvert these expectations and wear what makes you feel good.
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