This was a great topic. I am 70 and have done this throughout my life. As a retired person, the dress is much more casual for the most part, but I also love the juxtaposition of of various jewelry with casual dress. I have a nice variety of silver and gold pieces that I sometimes even pair together for a look. (At my age, why save them for a special occasion?) I would have to say that not a day goes by when I am out running errands that I don’t get stopped and complimented on my outfit, hair or jewelry. Even my husband has mentioned it. Be playful with your style. You will enjoy each day as you create something brand new and your “audience “ will too!

@flexknits

26 күн бұрын

As a fashion lover who wants to embrace aging, thank you for sharing this! I hope I am as chic as you at 70!

@janerochfort2134

24 күн бұрын

I am 70 too....and I follow the same rules as yourself...and get many compliments on my outfits and appearance....hurrah for us....🎉🎉🎉

@kham7571

24 күн бұрын

Im soon to turn 60! But I still love putting outfits together, shoes, jewelry etc. so happy other ladies are like me. I have naturally curly, still thick silver hair. It always gets compliments. My hair is “its” own entity. Lol.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

I wish I could love this comment x10 🩷🙏 thank you for sharing!!! Xoxox

@MrsPeel2305

7 күн бұрын

You have audience? So you are an actress?

"Always use your good items" is the best advice anyone can receive, I have a childhood trauma, cause my mum got me a gorgeous pair of embroidery trainers and only allowed me to use in special occasions which means once, cause the 2nd special occasion I had they didn't fit anymore 'cause I had grown.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Ohhh no 😢😢💔

@WixRosane

2 күн бұрын

Oh my goodness! We love seeing lavish wardrobes! Such a great video. My favorites are the bags and shoes. I love the different colors, patterns, and textures! If I had to narrow it down, I think *gtdupe* ’s collection is my favorite.

@lafem2122

Күн бұрын

Probably good advice!

I really like the advice "always use your good items". Almost all my life I have been saving my jewelry for only some very special occasions. My mom also used her nice jewelry pieces only for birthdays. Last year she sent me a really beautiful necklace for my birthday and I put it in my storage for few months in order not to break ist. But then I saw a video about "using the good items" and started to wear the necklace. It made such a big difference to "see" that I am allowed to use every single piece of my jewelry or shoes or clothing and don't need to save it for later. I also don't know where I saw that advice but I am really happy you mentioned it, too. Thank you!

@esikazemese

14 күн бұрын

Love this for you!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Aw I absolutely love this so much 🩷🩷🩷 thank you for sharing. Xoxo

I love videos like this where people tell the stories behind the things they bought. We can all look at these beautiful bags and admire their beauty, then hear the story behind them and why it’s important or special to that person, like I love the *gtdupe* because it’s my first bag.

I read the original Heloise’s book (she used to have a homemaker advice column in the newspaper decades ago) and she was the one who said always use your good items for your loved ones and not to save them for company. I read her book as a young girl, and took this to heart. But this applies to your clothing as well…use your best items for YOU! I was guilty of keeping my “good” clothes hidden away. Now I wear them and get asked “where are you going all dressed up?”, lol.

@cc1k435

14 күн бұрын

Think of June Cleaver, doing her housework but also wearing pearls. 😂

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

👀 “Where are you going all dressed up?” 👀 😆 I love that! Couldn’t agree with this more! X ❤

@WixRosane

2 күн бұрын

You are such a screaming source of joy, darling! There is nothing wrong with escaping reality. In fact, I often do it by watching luxury videos like yours. Your enthusiasm always puts a smile on my face. The *gtdupe* is just a dream on my wish list. There are so many beautiful handbag styles, thank you for putting me in a good mood because I was feeling a little down today.

I've watched so many style and clothing videos but yours speak to me more than any others. You get straight to the point (thank you for not over-talking each point!) and keep things moving. Your ideas are spot on and help me understand, refine and embrace my own style. I've never commented on a video before so now you know tour impact.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Oh wow thank you so much for this lovely comment 🙏🩷 I’m so so glad to hear this!! Xoxox

Honestly Emily, I would have once said anyone with your figure and beautiful face could have worn anything and still looked good. Then you compared the white jacket and printed pants against a shorter denim jacket and the difference is very clear. Same with tucking the oversized top in the oversized pants. A lot of us hide under baggy clothes but using these simple tricks actually work to create a waistline that some of us don't naturally have. Happy birthday Nate

Love your style and your instruction. For some years I lost my sense of style, gained a few pounds and was definitely discouraged…. I am making my way back by honoring my preferences (yes, linen even if it requires pressing) and it feels so good to finally feel at ease in my own sense of style. I like classic, timeless, comfortable and quality clothes…. Its a start!!! Thank you!!!

I just happened to encounter your video and decided to subscribe. I thoroughly enjoyed your relaxed way of communicating. The way you sandwich in a little of your life with your topic of style and clothing and look right into the camera makes the video feel like I'm sitting down with a friend and chatting.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Awww gosh this is a lovely comment! Thank you so much, really glad you enjoyed it. Sorry for the last reply ❤🙏 xoxo

Some fashion you tubers are very judgmental of clothing choices. But you definitely are not! Bravo 👏 ❤

Can’t wait to see how you style some outfits with colour as I am not a neutrals girl.

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Yay I can't wait to get some of this content out later in the year! So many ideas, not enough time 😛😛😆xoxo

Congratulations on 100K subscribers! I'm loving your content! ❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thank you so so much!!! 🙏🙏💕💕💕

Happy Birthday to your sweet boy XX another great video! Thanks for your time and dedication!

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

🩷🩷🩷 thank you again! 🥰

In all likelihood your body type \ kibbe body style frame totally enables you to wear two oversized item pieces :) Most other types would find it much harder or near impossible to pull off an overly baggy look!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Ahh fair enough!! 🙏 I need to research more about kibbe body types. Mt suggestion wasn’t for everyone to break this particular rule, just to try to be open to breaking rules and not being afraid to try different things that go against “dressing rules” 🙂🩷🙏 xoxo

@anaalves3658

6 күн бұрын

I think that personally I can get stuck wearing the same thing for years, sometimes we need to try something that works for someone else, we should challenge ourselves a bit. Yesterday I decided to belt a dress that I really like and it gave it a very different look, I loved it. I had seen a video in which a similar dress was styled with a belt and it looked great on the other person, I tried it and really liked it. My 9 year old daughter also gave me the thumbs up 😊

@EmilyElizabethMay

5 күн бұрын

@@anaalves3658 love that! 😍Experimentation is so important. It teaches you things for sure!

I’ve watched your videos since 2020, and really admire your down to earth, practical advice and honesty. Looking forward to more about color! Happy Birthday, Nate!! Those two years went by fast.

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Aw 💕 ❤️ this is a really nice message to recieve. Thank you so much. So glad you have stuck around and enjoy the videos xx the past 2 years has absolutely flown by!! 🎈

Love how this is short, practical and to the point. Bravo ❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Yay thank you 🙏🩷

Your content is so much more valuable than when I first started watching -- not cookie cutter as you said yourself! Thank you

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Yay! So so glad you are finding it helpful. Thank you for letting me know 🙏🩷 x

Awww, happy birthday Nate! I cannot believe he's two!! Thank you for another informative video Emily. xx

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thank you!!!!! 🙏 ❤️ time flieesss!! xoxo

I love this video, your advices were so useful :) And I love your style ❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

So glad, thank you so much 💕🙏 x

Absolutely love your content!! You are such a pleasure to listen to and your advice is excellent. xo

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Aw thank you so much 🙏🩷 xoxo

I really look forward to your videos. You have inspired me to be more careful in curating my wardrobe and to look at balance and so forth I just hope I can remember all the tips ! 🤣🤣🤣I think the balance one is the one I use most and also the proportions. I really can't wear to much loose because I am only 5'3" and it can overwhelem me. But you never know!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Aw I’m so glad 🩷🙏 Petite dressing is definitely more complicated, so give yourself grace. Do you follow some good petite KZreadrs as well? I’m sure you do. I love watching videos from petite KZreadrs because it helps me understand others a little more. We’re all so different! 🩷🙏 xoxo

Very astute insights! I'm on that journey myself and many of your insights rang true. Thank you!!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

You’re so welcome! Glad you liked it 🥰🩷 xo

Very useful tips, I took some notes. Thank you!

Thank you for sharing your great advice and also love your outfit ❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Aw. Thank you so much! ☺️ 💕🙏xx

Aw when you were eating the bread with butter , that was so cute!! 😊

Your little dance eating the bread was so cute! Good advice though as well. Especially wearing your good clothes. I’ve saved things in the past and they went out of style or I outgrew them!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Aww hehe love bread 🍞 😆🙏🩷🙏 yay for wearing good clothes! Xoxo

I just found you and love your explanations…style sense! 😊

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Yay, oh I'm so glad 💕🙏 thank you for being here xo

Thx you that was helpful. I love how there was a bite out of the slice of bread before butter, a habit I’ve done all my life

@EmilyElizabethMay

25 күн бұрын

Hahahah I love that you noticed this 👀 😆 the bread was still warm, too yummy 😍

Excellent informative content! Thank you so much. ❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

I love your simple outfit! XOXO❤

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thank you 💕🙏xx

Loved this video!! And you're right, we should use our nice stuff, why save it!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

🩷🙏🩷 thank you

Yes! So helpful. Can you advise how to create a pleasing balance when wearing a hip- length jacket? What style/length/ shape of pants or skirts work?

Love the style tips, but really loved the site of the homemade bread!

Nice reminder video of aspects of style. So lovely to see some of your life (style.) Nate-2 years old! Puddles are fun.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Hehe 🩷🙏🩷 thank you! He’s growing way tooooo fast 🥹🥲🩷 xoxo

Thanks, that was very informative!

So good!! I really like that content. Thank you!!

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

So glad ❤ you’re welcome x

Happy second birthday to your little bubba ❤

i always forget that im allowed to use my good items on completely normal days and i love that advicce bc when i do i always feel so good abt myself

Wonderful simple advice no matter the aesthetic boho, business casual, romantic, edgy ect. You can apply these rules.

Sure, rules are there as guides but of course, by all means, bend them to accommodate your personal preferences. That is what I always say, in life, fashion and home decor.

Thanks, very helpfull! It all makes sense

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thank you!! 💕🙏 glad you found it helpful x

Thank you so much for your advice. i am at a time in my Life in my mid 30's where I am frustradet with my wardrobe. I am currently trying to figure out how to deconstruct my current wardrobe and be more intentional. Will you bring out a video on colour and colour combinations? Thank you so much, all the best to you!

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

💕 Totally understand this feeling. I have a series coming out soon about curating your wardrobe, I hope that will help you. There will be an episode on colour. My biggest tip is to take your time, take notes in a journal and experiment with colour combinations in the change room at shops even if you don't intend to buy, just play around ☺ xxoxo

@patriciatorres6129

28 күн бұрын

@@EmilyElizabethMay thank you for your great tips. i actually already know which colours suit me best. But I get caught up in trends which results in colours that don't suit me. 😅 I also want to know how to dress more elegant, do you have a video or advice for that? I sometimes choose clothes that make me look much younger and Like a Teenager but I want to look my age😄

@danidani13101

16 күн бұрын

L

so good!

It’s like I’m hearing myself 😮, exactly the same I realized few months back, probably because of lots of fashion related content on social media too

Looking forward to your colour videos 😊

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏 ❤ xox

Thank you XX🤩

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Oh 🥲🩷 you are too kind! This means a lot. Thank you for all your support, and I’m so glad you found this helpful xoxo

Great ideas and so real. With all the style trend advice out there it’s easy to forget your own self 😊 Looking forward to the colour advice. Last night I discovered I don’t suit white - go figure 😂

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Aw thank you so much that means a lot! 🙏🙏 .. haha such a suprising realisation when you work out you don't actually suit a very common colour. Mine was BEIGE! And my whole wardrobe was beige at one point 🫠😅 I still have a few beige pieces, but I tend to not love it around my face anymore.

There is a designer in the states [Lauren Conrad] who has a brand called LC Lauren Conrad at Kohls, and your style aesthetic is the perfect muse. Classic pieces, neutral color palettes, with a pop of charming prints and femininity.𐙚‧₊˚💛✩ ₊˚⊹♡

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Ohhh interesting I will check it out! 🙏🩷 xoxo

Hi Emily i learned so much on this topic. Could you please do more . Thank you.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Absolutely! So glad you did. Thank you 🩷🙏

Ohhhh, this was an amazingly helpful video, Emily. Such great tips and tricks. Loved all of your outfits. I do really struggle getting my proportions right! I'm an hourglass ⌛️However, I'm only 155cm, so it's not as flattering for me (I think). I can get the bottom to look ok with heels (5 to 6cm), but the top section is always my issue. I have a short torso, but cropped doesn't always work that well for me. My hair is growing back after chemo, but it's still very short, and my face needs a fringe of some sort. I will get there, but my hair style, as you said, makes a very big difference too. Loved Fantas cameos, he is such a beautiful big ginger boy 🐈 I can not believe Nate is now 2 years old. Time flies so quickly. Thank you Emily 💗

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Yay, thank you Kate!!! 💕🙏 Thinking about your vertical proportions for balance is also important and I didn't touch on that in this video. Do you know yours? Do you tend to have a short torso, and longer legs, or a longer torso and shorter legs? Do you gave a short mid-section (between your bust and hips)? Knowing all of these proportions can help as well. But petite dressing is so particular, and can take a lot of trial and error to find the right pieces. Sending love for hair growth 💕 is it coming back any different? I remember my sisters came back quite curly after chemo. x

@katem3961

29 күн бұрын

@EmilyElizabethMay I do have slightly longer legs, now I've had both my breasts removed with no reconstruction it makes me look longer in the torso 😆 I'm now looking at a completely different situation in regard to my proportions 🙃 My hair was really wavey with a lot of curls, like my dads was. However, it's grown back completely straight like my mum! No sign of a wave or curl. I don't mind, though. The colour is what has amazed me, it's really mousey like when I was Nates age 😆 It's also baby soft 😊

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

@@katem3961 Wow talk about navigating changes! Aw I think it's quite touching that your hair is growing back baby-soft ☺🥰💕

I love the first gold necklace with little gold beads! Where did you get that, if you don’t mind me asking.

A very interesting and nice video! Please, could you tell me, where you got the wonderfule loose blouse you wear at the very beginning and also later on with the blue denim? I really like this shape a lot!

Lvoe those floral pants!

Growing up my mother always had us save one or two outfits "for good" so that you would feel special when you wore it. However, saving everything doesn't work either because by the time you decide to wear it, it feels dated or you don't love it anymore.

I tend to gravitate towards neutral tones, I do enjoy watching your videos 🙂

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thank youu so much !! x

❤❤❤

Love the gold beaded necklace. Where can I get it please? Thanks

I have a lot of jackets that are like the cream one you showed that was imbalanced. Can you show how you would "fix" that outfit, please? Side note - love the navy cord wide leg pants!!

@EmilyElizabethMay

28 күн бұрын

🩷🙏 I would start by unbuttoning the jacket this will help you to create a new horizontal eye line with your trousers. I tend to avoid wearing “midi” jackets done up if I’m wearing long trousers, as it cuts us off in the middle of our bodies (creating that 1:1 ratio that isn’t ideal). Also, wide leg trousers tend to look quite heavy with a midi length jacket, so I would personally pair with a straight leg trouser to create more balance as well. Also, this length of jacket looks amazing with mini skirts/shorts too. Wearing a monochromatic outfit underneath your jacket will help create length. And at the end of the day it all kind of depends on your own vertical proportions too. I hope this is somewhat helpful! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ xoxox

Good advice.

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching! xx

Could you please tell me what lipstick you are using here? It's so pretty

Hello Emily! Maybe you can also make a video about building your bag and shoe wardrobe. It would really help a lot! 😊

@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

Hi! This topic has been on my mind as well, I'll try add it to the list for this year xx

@lciflife6213

29 күн бұрын

@@EmilyElizabethMay I know they all work hand in hand, but I just couldn’t master the art of purchasing the right ones. I always end up buying a lot of black bags and other random colors that don’t really go well with my shoes or outfit. It’s the same with shoes. That video (soon) would really help a lot. Thank you so much for noticing. Love your vlogs as always. ❤️

Fantastic vid

@EmilyElizabethMay

8 күн бұрын

Thank you 🥰🙏🩷

Not sure how you feel about the concepts behind seasonal color analysis, but one of my favorite creators Colour Analysis Studio are located in Melbourne. I cannot recommend them highly enough. Could be a fun cross content opportunity for you both and another piece of the puzzle on your personal style journey.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

I am so interested in colour analysis!!! What’s the name of the person in Melbourne? Xx

Great advice and what a lovely young lady you are...best wishes Jane...North Wales UK

Have you checked out Carol Tuttle's Dressing 👗 Your Truth??

How many tops and bottoms do you think is reasonable to have for a given season (summer/fall/winter/spring all being different seasons)?

I want a slice of that bread so bad!!!!

A very wise woman reminded me that If an item is in a drawer or closet, it is worthless

Do u watch Christina Mychas? She also talked about enjoy wearing your good clothes, ect.

❤️you

Hey, very nice video :-) I love your lipstick. Can you tell me which color and brand it is?

@EmilyElizabethMay

25 күн бұрын

Thank you 🥰🙏 it’s a Mac lip pencil, colour is Suar. And then I put a clear balm on top. I use the Laneige Sleep Mask on top which is such a beautiful product. 🩷

Maybe this is the video? Why you should use your nicest things every day, by Rajiv Surendra.

Me I'm just waiting for my close get out of the drire

5:57 you look much balanced with that blouse outfit and the hair in a bun. Rest I agree with all your wonderful styling tips.

@divyamishra9481

28 күн бұрын

Same thoughts

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Oh it’s so funny how we see things differently, I feel like my head looks way too small, like a little pea head 😅 I feel so self conscious when I have my hair up and a puffy item on top.

❤ for the algorithm

@EmilyElizabethMay

8 күн бұрын

🩷🩷🩷

Amazing content like always!!! ❤❤❤ =^.^=

I like yout cat!

Fashion trek/ voyage/ expedition/ safari/ quest/ cruise/ tour? From a worldview, fashion is vain. From a privileged view, it is not. Love your tips, by the way. Will keep watching.

@usehername1

8 күн бұрын

Expedition, safari, cruise, and tour are definitely not the right word choices at all

where is this white stripped shirt with huge sleeves from? xoxo

@EmilyElizabethMay

16 күн бұрын

I think it’s linked in the description, it’s from Daughters of India 🩷🩷🩷

What about stay at home mom's? I have a little one and am constantly covered in something gross. If i wear "good clothes" then I will just have to replace them frequently and that can get expensive. On the other hand, not wearing good clothes has made my self confidence tank because I feel like I'm constantly "slumming it" around the house in anticipation of being filthy by the end of the day. I still dont have a great solution to this.

@EmilyElizabethMay

25 күн бұрын

I totally understand. I was there not long ago ❤️ and to be honest, it took a while for me to feel great again in my wardrobe. What I focused on was dressing for what I could handle that particular day. If I had the energy to put together an outfit that would make me feel good, I would do it and go for a little walk around the block. If I wasn’t in the mood that day then I would stay cosy and casual but still try to match my “at home outfit” (if I could). I knew that by the end of the day I would be messy no matter what, I chose clothes that I knew would wash well (no hand washing). I got a few “new” things from charity shops to wear post partum as well, that I knew it didn’t care if they got too messy but these things still made me feel good. And I also wore a lot more white compared to black. Black would show all the vomit and milk (i had a reflux baby, lots of vom!) Lastly, this part took a while but I tried to accept the season of life. This was really hard for me but I tried anyway. I had post partum depression and anxiety, I really know how hard this time can be. I look back now and I’ve come so far with the happiness of my style since then. I have a video on my channel about dressing for mums ❤️ I hope it helps too. Here it is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nIp516atmpa8iLQ.htmlsi=UT8rtubBPo3cvnsN

@Andrea-tf1le

25 күн бұрын

@@EmilyElizabethMay I so appreciate the empathy. It truly has been a challenging season. I have taken to the only wearing clothes that wash well and can easily be swapped out. I invested in a bunch of comfy black leggings that can be swapped out for one another and shirts that "go with leggings" that can also be swapped out easily if I get filthy. Then I at least don't have to think about and hunt for something that "matched" the specific pants I wanted to wear that day or something. It's all interchangeable. That seems to have helped. I appreciate the advice of going out when I do have the energy to look cute. I will have to do more of that. Thanks for the video link, I'll check it out, I'm a new follower :)

Too, too bad you don't tell us how to buy the gold necklace you showcase at the beginning of your video!

@EmilyElizabethMay

4 күн бұрын

Hello lovely! Sorry I usually try to share everything, but this was missed! Here are all my favourites from MV with 20% off code. The beaded necklace is the first necklace listed xoxo c.klarna.com/al/8toV/

I used to think that owning a luxury bag was an unattainable dream, until H Q D U P S told me that this dream is actually very close. The sense of fashion comes not only from the brand, but also from personal matching and attitude.

I don’t think style is vain. I actually saved your video to watch for later, because it’s fun! Your channel looks useful and interesting. My point is rather that the use of the word “journey” is inappropriate here in my view because it should be reserved for heavier topics. It’s a rather gratuitous and distracting word to use in fashion. I’ll continue to be put off by the use of “journey” when referring to curls, style, or the like. It’s an editing suggestion. You are welcome to disregard it. Word choice is something I pay attention to, just like you pay careful attention to style choice. Thanks for your thoughts and have a nice day.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

Ok I appreciate your suggestion on the word change, but what would you suggest I use instead? For me it’s a quick way of delivering my point across that I’ve gone from point A to B. Do you have another word idea? Also you said “vain topics like fashion” in your previous comment so I’m a little confused. I’m completely aware I’m not saving lives over here with style videos, but I still see personal style as a journey. It has ups and downs as our lives change and our bodies change, it can affect your self-esteem and mood, it has a huge impact on confidence, it can make you spend money unnecessarily, all these things can impact your daily life. I’m open to a word change if you have a suggestion of something appropriate 🙂 next video coming out in a week says “journey” within the first few seconds 😅😂

@usehername1

8 күн бұрын

​This is getting real deep into the realm of conceptual semantics if we were to only reserve using "journey" for important periods of growth. This micro level of conceptual semantics might suggest saying "How was your journey?" instead of "How was your trip?" (when referring to a holiday) diminishes the weight of the word "journey"...even though in formal semantics it would be the literal definition of journey-and weird to exclude from this use case. I understand that you might not want "journey" to follow the fate of the word "awesome", but the reality is: English is a living language, our use will change and grow. A journey, if you will. ​@@EmilyElizabethMay I think journey is a perfectly fine and acceptable word choice. From a marketing perspective, if you intend to stand out from other creators with similar topics, here are some alternative phrases you can choose from if you so wish: style education, style enlightenment, style search, style exploration

@EmilyElizabethMay

5 күн бұрын

@@usehername1 thank you for this input and explaining it so clearly 🙏 so much for me to think about going forward. 🩷

This is why I'm not a fan of high waisted, so not flattering.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

They’re my favourite style 😍 I definitely feel best in high waisted!

@vaderladyl

22 сағат бұрын

They don't look good on many body types. I don't care for them either, as for me medium waist look better on me.

Settle for the buzzword then. Enjoy.

@EmilyElizabethMay

8 күн бұрын

I had no idea it was a buzzword until the other commenter said that yesterday. Since then I have been trying to work out new ways to express myself for future videos (that haven’t already been filmed). But I’m trying to be honest at the same time in saying that I’m taken back in hearing it’s a buzzword and still trying to understand. Does that make sense? Of course I’ll try do better, I love constructive criticism. I don’t think I took your first comment very well because it came across accusative as opposed to trying to educate in a friendly way. I’m not out here trying to fool anyone, I’m just trying to tell stories in my videos of my own life experiences to see if it helps anyone. Always willing to improve and do better 🩷 anyway, this one has been noted. Next 5 videos have been filmed, edited and scheduled before my holiday though. X

@user-we8mu3ho2w

7 күн бұрын

@@EmilyElizabethMay Yes, this makes sense! I am enjoying your channel and am saving the videos to watch for later when I can give them my full attention. Thanks for your work.

Please stop using the word “journey” for vain, superfluous topics such as hair and fashion. It is not a style “journey”.

@EmilyElizabethMay

11 күн бұрын

It’s a way of expressing going from point A to B. You are entitled to think that style is vain and superfluous, however I don’t have that same opinion so I will continue to use the word journey to make my point. How come you’re watching style videos if you think fashion is vain?

@kmdn1

10 күн бұрын

That was my first thought as well and surprised to see it at the top of the comments. Overused buzzwords like "journey" and "blessed" and "mindfulness" really take away from the content of your speech. Everytime you opt to use one of those buzzwords you minimize yourself... Every time I hear someone use those "fake tanner" pseudo spiritual overtone words I start to feel like "this person isn't going to say anything unique that would add value... They don't even bother to use their own choice of words." Its a subconscious thing but when i stop to think about why I find buzzwords so annoying it's because its a sign that I'm probably wasting my time listening. I don't mean for that to be mean or directed specifically at the person in this video. The use of language is part of a culture. I just wish other women were more comfortable speaking their minds using their own individual voices. That being said, I'm going to stick it out for the other 8 minutes in hopes that i'm pleasantly surprised.

@user-we8mu3ho2w

10 күн бұрын

@@kmdn1 Well said.

@EmilyElizabethMay

10 күн бұрын

@@kmdn1 this is starting to make a little more sense to me. Thank you for explaining your thoughts on it. Where I’m stuck is that I’m still taken back that “journey” is a buzzword. English has never been my strongest subject, so there’s that, but in my own mind, the word journey is still the easiest way to express my point of working on my style over the course of years. Other words just feel unnatural to my vocabulary. I will honestly keep this in mind because there’s obviously something I’m missing, but I also don’t want to suddenly not sound/speak as myself.

@usehername1

8 күн бұрын

I've come across your comments at three different points in this video section, you need to use the reply button because all context is lost when they're three standalone comments

"Always use your good items" made me think of a TEDx Talk by Gillian Dunn, Change your closet. change your life. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iZ2KqrWLiZWvZbw.htmlfeature=shared It's a very good reminder to not wait for the special moments but actively make the moment special by using the things that you enjoy the most. Thanks for a great video!

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@EmilyElizabethMay

29 күн бұрын

♥️🙏 xxx