Can we talk about how black girls cant be normal, awkward, or cute? Like we all have to be either mammies or sensual goddesses and most of us simply do not fit stereotypes we are just normal people

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been saying this because I think I fall under that “category” ( if we are going by their standards) and people see it as you are still being a child. It’s like classy is seen or not showing skin means you aren’t grown. Lol so I definitely agree with this.

@MouthyPrincess

2 жыл бұрын

Yaaaaassssssssss 😭 just let us liiiiiiive!!

@marinettegemme7858

2 жыл бұрын

Factssss

@izza5577

2 жыл бұрын

Yes we can lol. This comment sounds like someone thats on social media all the time.

@brebre23461

2 жыл бұрын

Yes please!!! I'm tired of being judged by my own people by telling me that I act like a white girl. Im just proper. Im tired of being told that I don't act black. Like what?????

I'm just tired of the over sexualization of black women. The whole notion of "sex sells" seems to be the only formula for *black* women success. Meanwhile, Taylor swift's, Adele, Billie, etc are getting more views by doing a whole lot less. We need balance ASAP

@maga8008

2 жыл бұрын

There's honestly a lot of balance. Artists like tierra whack, H.E.R, Noname, Victoria Monét, Ari Lennox, BOSCO are really cool there just not incredibly mainstream. Black women have always been doing their own thing and I think that's what Chloe is doing too (albeit it's a little awkard).

@Joseph-zd7kg

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. Look at k pop. Rarely do the show skin and they get billions of views. The push for the overly sexy black women is turning people away. It's too forced to the point where it looks desperate. If it worked then more women would be doing it but it doesn't. People like a bit of mystery and innocence

@igorkarkaroff4218

2 жыл бұрын

@@Joseph-zd7kg K-pop rarely shows skin? Lmaoo what? Are we talking the same K-pop?

@KokoroMizu

2 жыл бұрын

@@Joseph-zd7kg kpop shows skin all the time lol. And being forced to act childish and cute while also in a mini skirt is hardly the greener grass ur trying to describe it as

@crysdee461

2 жыл бұрын

I’m tired of if too.

My only questions is Why is this over-sexualized persona the only form of “grown” and “experimenting” that is accepted. And why does this have to be publicized?

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Lol every woman explores their sexuality in their own way but I find in our community that you aren’t seen as “grown” unless you express it outwardly.

@mgn3618

2 жыл бұрын

Beats me too.. like can't you do something else? 🤦‍♀️🙈

@LizNeptune

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah., like why do you need to “come into yourself” by being naked and posting photos online? Lol. It’s a ritual I believe in Hollywood. You have to have your sexual debut.

@mariahyohannes

2 жыл бұрын

Sex sells

@princebadeior9631

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly that’s why I like H.E.R

It was cringey. She doesn’t have to do all that, she is literally drop dead gorgeous and talented beyond belief. She just needs guidance.

@jadeexc347

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 👍

@indiamoore8988

2 жыл бұрын

Very beautiful and talented as hell i still love her tho

@smanjilina

2 жыл бұрын

Goes to show no matter what other people think of you, you have to think you are beautiful. She does not have to do as much as she doing.

@StallyFit

2 жыл бұрын

Drop dead gorgeous…. 🤣

@cecegiles7753

2 жыл бұрын

If u call that cringe, what in the he'll do u call what R Kelly did......geez

I hope Chloe doesn't lose herself in all this thats all

@hello_04

2 жыл бұрын

Too late

@povofpoa2220

2 жыл бұрын

Halle is super self-secure though.

@danny4515

2 жыл бұрын

She already did she sold her soul she’s just doing what she signed up for

@zartrill9294

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly and that’s why I don’t like this because it’s looking like she is like I been a fan of both of them for so long because of their talent and attitudes but now the stupid industry is changing Clhoe 😔 but I just am hoping this isn’t a permanent thing. But most of all people care about these days is sex instead of talent who knows what will happen smh

@dblewis1779

2 жыл бұрын

@@zartrill9294 don't blame it on the industry. She's making the choice of which path she wants to travel. The exact same way her sister chose the path that she wants to go down

Zendaya is one of the few who transitioned from sheltered girl to grown woman’s sex appeal seamlessly. She had the formula down packed .

@MelaninMermaid296

2 жыл бұрын

Because she would've messed up her disney coins

@quelquun2018

2 жыл бұрын

@@MelaninMermaid296 she’s no longer with Disney…that’s why she “transitioned”

@Aniexo_

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the Virgo energy 😩

@sunnc

2 жыл бұрын

Omg you're right I didn't even think ab Zendaya. She def has owned herself & her image. I was just saying that Rihanna, Teyana Taylor & Angelina Jolie all give me sex appeal. It's interesting, I've noticed that women who have experienced having a slight natural or tomboyish (for lack of better term) side/look have more natural sex appeal like Angelina's experience in Gia, & Zendaya's in Euphoria. It's like the femininity with a hint of masculinity gives them the perfect balance between beautiful & striking. Idk if sex appeal is androgynous in nature but they just have that je ne sais quoi that an overdone woman with lashes and ass shaking just doesn't have.

@darkskinbae3544

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

I once watched a live of Chloe and Halle where she talked about how she liked her butt as a feature on her. Then she pointed at her face and said it wasn't all that. Then proceeded to praise her sisters face, but her sister was like "girl, what are you saying?" To me. That made me believe at the time that this girl wasn't that confident. I felt bad for her.

@user-eo9to7wd2t

2 жыл бұрын

Wow she rly said that?

@a.d.w8385

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-eo9to7wd2t Yes. It's an old live and I found it sad.

@andreathomas5857

2 жыл бұрын

That’s facts

@ledelle8749

2 жыл бұрын

In some of the interviews that I've seen with her, she often says that she's very insecure.

@junenye

2 жыл бұрын

Cancers are very insecure people 🙁

I think I have an unpopular opinion but what I liked about Chloe x Halle is the fact that they were talented without having to be too sexual. It was nice to see black women expressing their talent differently from the rest of the black artists. It's disappointing that now Chloe is doing the same as everybody else. She does not even need to do all of that. This is confusing 🤷🏿‍♀️

@AnikaDsr

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree! I’ve been saying this too

@justme-ew3ri

2 жыл бұрын

But they were also children? And not doing too much at least that I saw until grownish they are 23 and 21 so they are still very young, and should be able to figure out their style and how they want to be perceived and it's going to change obviously. It's also the style rn "hot girl" this and that. You're also creating this monolith that black women artist are all not....

@kirrkay

2 жыл бұрын

Same!!!

@mimil.2606

2 жыл бұрын

@@justme-ew3ri exactly and being sexy nesscarily doesn’t mean your selling out and like everyone else she just need to push hard on her music and every thing she puts out like singles and first main looks. Just doesn’t need to be sexy their can be a balance brains, talent in making worth it meaningful songs ( love and sexy songs are cool but not every single time)s and not always out putting outfits switch it up to show your not only one thing. There is a way to me as a black woman even any other race you can show your more then one thing. It just gonna take time and the attention span or needy demands if this generation your debut gotta live up to that standards first off

@justme-ew3ri

2 жыл бұрын

@Mimi L. But consistency also sells best…. And I think before making such a big “this is my brand” she is trying to find that which is nice…. Like right now she has created a space where I don’t know what she’s going to do next and I’m interested but that can’t work all the time… and probably works best when you’re young or when you’re very “old”.

This really just shows that the entertainment industry hasn't changed ONE BIT.

@welikelethabo

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@dugebuwembo

2 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@TheLovesnowangel

2 жыл бұрын

For some reason so many people think it has. Prince said it best “Once you add business to it (the music business), it is no longer about music” it’s strictly just business and what sells.

@caramelsmoothcat5477

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLovesnowangel . The only thing the music industry promotes to black people are death /destruction and over-sexualization.. and if it doesn't pertain to those things we don't even want it..just sad

@indigoocean7906

2 жыл бұрын

No one's forcing her

It’s was cringe lol bless her 😂 sex appeal isn’t easy to develop she’ll get there eventually

@loveyoursign2923

2 жыл бұрын

Right the other celebz do it

@loveyoursign2923

2 жыл бұрын

The same ppl shaming her are the same ppl who still will stream her music and worsh!p her.

@smittenkittens6713

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@IshtarNike

2 жыл бұрын

Sexy in real life tends to be more subtle. Confidence without the “tease”. But yeah she’s young and this shit is gonna happen. Most people go through it without being in the public eye.

@jbell7105

2 жыл бұрын

She is already sexy!! I don’t understand whyyy she does this over the top stuff lol

Can we stop calling people sheltered who grew up in HEALTHY households. Y’all are equating people not being exposed to certain things early on, as sheltered, when in reality that’s called parents protecting their children’s innocence.

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

That part.

@novanova5378

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for saying that...

@achieachie911

2 жыл бұрын

"Parents protec.."oh so, you mean SHELTERING Sheltered isn't a bad word🙄

@nourishevolvethrive4164

2 жыл бұрын

Healthy house holds and sheltered house holds are two different things some times sheltered isnt always healthy

@nnzulu7684

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!

She’s a true late bloomer and I’m honestly here for he exploring herself and discovering who she is as a woman. We never give BW the grace they need. Everybody’s been extremely critical of her the last few months and it’s annoying as hell.

@MouthyPrincess

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss, thissss 👏🏾

@CS-zq7qn

2 жыл бұрын

Explore yourself in private because some things you do in public will never be forgotten

@shalomgbibel2195

2 жыл бұрын

@@CS-zq7qn seriously ikr. Like explore yourself in private no one needs to see that. There's something called self-respect which unfortunately in todays culture is looked down upon and is being diminished.

@lolomarie9081

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@belkatesfjgv6099

2 жыл бұрын

You can do that in private you don’t need to be doing it in front of the whole world

Whether this was cringe or not I feel bad for her because no matter what she does people are always going to have something to say about her.

@miesha.b8740

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly lol

@flyleelee5351

2 жыл бұрын

That comes with being famous 🤷🏾‍♀️

@taylor_drift1

2 жыл бұрын

That comes with being a celebrity. Maybe I'm just insensitive but I can't find it in my heart to feel bad for people with extraordinary access and wealth.

@emmaganta2545

2 жыл бұрын

Not true she’s been getting press for years when she was tomboyish

@naomistar87

2 жыл бұрын

When you try to please other ppl, you'll fail Everytime. That's why it's super important to embrace yourself regardless of whoever. She shouldn't have taken it down IMO 💯

That Chloe clip is definitely giving late night “Are you alone? call 1-800…” vibes.

@Mimi89_7

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@cecegiles7753

2 жыл бұрын

BULLSHIT.....HAVE U SEEN THE JANET JACKSON VELVET ROPE CONCERT WHEN SHE BROUGHT A GUY ON STAGE AND GAVE HIM TONGUE? IS THAT CRINGE?

@nyshyn307

2 жыл бұрын

Forreal though 💀💀💀

@solarsky3691

2 жыл бұрын

@@cecegiles7753 yes it was.

@scottrogue946

2 жыл бұрын

😂

If Chloe is not careful she will be known for her "antics" and not her music.

Its so humiliating how it is normalized to over-sexualize BW now, to the point we cant think of any other way to express ourselves. I get shes young and possibly going through a phase but it still doesnt make this ok. Like I honestly cant think of ONE modern day black female singer who is famous w/o twerking or showing her body at some point. Its sad, its disgusting, we need to stop allowing people to categorize us like this and put our foot down.

@chancrawford

2 жыл бұрын

Jasmine Sullivan and H.E.R are 2

Chloe: *sucks and kisses lollipop like she’s got bills to pay* “ _thank you to my fans_ “ Megan: “WHY WOULD SHE SAY THAT?🤣🤣🤣”

@tammya5403

2 жыл бұрын

Onlyfans type shit 😂😂

@madame_ijeoma

2 жыл бұрын

@@tammya5403 another case of RnB singers competing with female rappers who are competing with strippers and pornstars.

@ShadesOfIvory

2 жыл бұрын

@@tammya5403 Exactly. 🥴🤨

@ChiChichiwe01

2 жыл бұрын

@@madame_ijeoma chileee

@theawesomeanimator2441

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 lolzzz

Even if the music does not get as much attention as Chloe’s hyper sexuality, her and Halle’s music still got a lot of attention. I love their music and I loved their exclusivity. However the likes and the internet validation is like a drug which never seems to be enough. There is such little representation of talented, attractive, wholesome young men and women these days and it truly concerns me for generations to come.

@Nominaze

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@gracieambrosio4967

2 жыл бұрын

People say Beyonce is her manager.

@Lordpraisethe

2 жыл бұрын

Chile that's why I'm mainly sticking with gospel music for the most part.

@Nominaze

2 жыл бұрын

@Charles Alice Voorhees even in the 1910’s they were doing that. But there’s something called morals and being true to ourself that we should all do, so of course people are going to feel like Halle is doing this for attention, because that’s what it feels like.

@chelsea9641

2 жыл бұрын

@Charles Alice Voorheesthere’s nothing wrong with being sexy and free but can we draw a line. Just because an artist doesn’t sing about sex does not mean they are a prude lol

Her sister Hailey naturally exude sexual appeal without even trying. She also exudes more confidence while being more mysterious. Chloe doesn't have to do this at all. The Bailey sisters are talented and gorgeous. Chloe tries to hard and thats the problem lol Less is more tbh

@maga8008

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she doesn't have to do all that but I think she wants to. It's a little awkward but it'd really not that serious and it's weird that people are always comparing her and Halle as if they're not two different people. She'll grow and change as time goes on. Just let her rock🤷🏾‍♀️

@nanayaa.5325

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%

@miriam9908

2 жыл бұрын

There’s no need to compare them. If this is how she wants be then so be it

@EmmaneTheCreated

2 жыл бұрын

Halle doesn't get near as much attention as Chloe does tho. Attention is the key word here. This is exactly what Chloe is looking for.

@feji7994

2 жыл бұрын

Why the comparison....

I’m sooo over this “exploring sexuality” BS. It’s BS. The girl is doing too much in the wrong direction. She is incredibly beautiful, incredibly talented, incredibly incredible. In Miami, we call this “muttin it”. And yes Eloho, you are absolutely correct. It’s our fault for real because she really did get attention when she started with the sexuality binge. Too bad.

@sixteen.candles.4644

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@its.dayday__

2 жыл бұрын

Big facts. She started dating more attention when they did their performances during COVID. That was nice to see but she started muttin it after the buss it challenge.

@VeryKinkyCurl

2 жыл бұрын

Say it hun👏🏾👏🏾you are telling any lies either

@beepbopboop7727

2 жыл бұрын

We've all danced sexily in the mirror,embarrassing ourselves but acting like a video vixen. Stop. Only difference is the social media era.

Of course after posting her buss it challenge and getting a lot of praise/ attention, she’s gonna continue to go down that route. It’s sad because she doesn’t have to, she’s very talented. But it’s not surprising at all

@bibaolaitan5189

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr!!!..

You said it, Eloho. So few people appreciated her and Chloe x Halle’s music before they started showing themselves off on Instagram. I didn’t like the lollipop video, but this public shaming could’ve been better directed toward people who really deserve it (rappers degrading black women in music videos, as an example).

@AlatOnDemand

2 жыл бұрын

Right nobody gave af about when they were singing about Jesus and talking about positive things. It’s sad how female singers can’t make it on a mainstream level unless they’re oversexualized.

@ab_4723

2 жыл бұрын

@@AlatOnDemand I agree with this but a large part of this is due to the black blogs. Never followed Chloe before and I still don’t but she’s constantly in the blogs now, hence the increased visibility.

@Trillville43

2 жыл бұрын

Women participate in it the most and allow for it and are the biggest consumers of it so what's your point?

@Nytellem

2 жыл бұрын

Just because you don’t start getting the amount of attention that you feel entitled too doesn’t mean you need to start showing off your body and being more “Cringy” or “Sexual “ for the sake of attention. You keep WORKING hard and you put one best foot forward and then the next one. How did Beyoncé become who she is today? Is it by A. Being consistent and passionate about her craft, working on music and building a brand? OR B. Just decided to stop or slow down music and become a video vixen, making video with her ass out everytime you seen her??? This a real question, cause I need to know.

@Nytellem

2 жыл бұрын

@@Trillville43 The point is, It’s every one else’s fault but their own. Accountability, Morals, and integrity is like Kryptonite to them. Smh

I personally feel she hasn’t found her confidence, and needs validation, but you know she’s young, she’ll eventually balance out, she doesn’t just want to fade out. I love her, and support her through her journey.

idk. sza is a sheltered girl and she is very sensual but not sexual and it is a cute look on her. i think chloe should be around ppl like sza nd ppl who grew up the same way.

@chanelghostin6060

2 жыл бұрын

there’s an old tumblr post where sza said she stole g4njâ from her dad and there were also rumors that she had a 🚂 ran on her back in the day

@milanb7131

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanelghostin6060 Please share the links where you found that ! I never heard the last part about sza so that’s heartbreaking

@chanelghostin6060

2 жыл бұрын

@@milanb7131 i don’t have the links but i’ve read it on twitter

@0n_Cloud_9

2 жыл бұрын

@@chanelghostin6060 That’s in the past so it’s irrelevant.

@brownbabecc

2 жыл бұрын

@@0n_Cloud_9 right.

“Y’all know she’s a cancer, she’s a water sign and y’all know y’all made her cry when she took down that post” I can’t with you 🤣🤣🤣

@satanstella

2 жыл бұрын

💀💀

@blkmerican-.2934

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo me 😭

@meca3836

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao as a fellow cancer… she gone come back with ten times more dramatics

@ndjshsh737bdhyi83

2 жыл бұрын

as a cancer, I cried for her.🥺

@SONNYMOONN

2 жыл бұрын

As cancer I woulda cursed everybody out lmao I’m the “mean” cancer! 😂😌

Chloe has definitely changed. I’m not mad but it’s just weird to see…

@sashn2108

2 жыл бұрын

I mean when people mainly saw her when she was literally a teen and plus we don’t know her personally to know how she acts🤷🏽‍♀️. Bc I knew Chloe and hailey from Disney

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

Same. It seems so abrupt and unnatural for her, like she is trying to be something she's not or trying to get attention.

@LuvKitKatt

2 жыл бұрын

The industry

@LuvKitKatt

2 жыл бұрын

@@veronicajata3121 yeah it’s the industry

@alexc1474

2 жыл бұрын

She’s trying to be mainstream and showing her body off is expedient

I’ll be honest, I only hear about Chloe when it comes to expressing her sexuality. Never for her music. Still, I’ve never had a problem with her expressions as it made me reflect on what I’ve done in the past. We’ve all been guilty of exploring our sexuality in various ways and being awkward about it because we’re new to it in the moment. So, we should all get off our high horse with the dragging and see where she’s coming from.

@SW-nx4jz

2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone hun, speak for yourself lol. Its not hard to be a freak in private but not in public lol

@aniyamarie8370

2 жыл бұрын

@@SW-nx4jz there are women who are freaks privately (me) and their are women who are freaks publicly (chloe). Either way, we shouldn’t judge those living opposing lifestyles because it’s “cringey” to us. For all we know, someone out there could’ve enjoyed what Chloe puts out there.

I had a friend who was just naturally sexy, he walk, how she talks and she was naturally flirtatious. It’s just how she was, and it wasn’t forced or she never tried.

The "sheltered girl energy" really nailed it on the head. Honestly, as a straight man ( and some of my guy friends share the sentiment ) I really felt icky and grossed out stumbling upon some of her tiktok/instagram videos. Not because she's not a beautiful woman, but because it still feels so incredibly awkward coming from her, that I can't help but feel like I'm being an intrusive creep watching her do that. Be it peer pressure, industry pressure, or just some awkwardness, I feel like she should just be given the time to grow into this sexier image ( if she so chooses ) at a more appropriate pace.

@oncode7735

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. If men feel this way then it means it was too much from a woman of her class. At least nobody can say you’re hating, when you really know Chloe is better than this. It’s not coming across natural from her at all

@loveadvice8322

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

That's fair. I know some men who honestly aren't attracted to overly sexual women. A little mystery goes a long way. I wish women knew being sexy doesn't mean showing your body, you can exude sexiness and be covered up 🤷🏾‍♀️

@kawaiipandas4131

2 жыл бұрын

@@mimia.4810 His point when completely over you and the people that liked your comment, heads. It wasn't about how covered up a woman should/could be to still be sexy, its just that from her, or from women that exude her energy, it's awkward probably because she, as she said herself, is still growing into her womanhood. Basically she's trying to act grown too fast, which is OK because it's normal especially for black women as we are grown into a society and culture that forces us to be grown early but that doesn't necessarily mean we are or ready for it, in many cases we aren't.

@MissAmberRae1

2 жыл бұрын

Well Stated!

I don't think some people realize the huge impact that the hypersexual antics have on how black women are viewed. Black people that complain about the fact that other races of women do things like this disregard the fact that it's balanced for them. For every Kim Kardashian there's a Kelly Clarkson in other words they have the nice feminine representation as well. Black unambiguous women don't have much of that especially not in music industry.

@sisis-qt4oc

2 жыл бұрын

agreed.

@maryiahamour

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@bluelily3514

2 жыл бұрын

@K C I understand you but I just want to point that USA is very influential when it comes to the media. Everything that we see in the media is being represented whether we like it or not. Although she is an entertainer, it would come naturally that people who look like her would be presented in that manner that she portrays in that way. And no, there is no healthy balance in the black women community where we are represented sexually and feminine. However, Chloe is her own person and she should show her talents however she pleases to get her bag that she so rightfully deserve.

@ULuvJanae

2 жыл бұрын

THIS 💯💯💯

@bellabukuru

2 жыл бұрын

@@bluelily3514 you are right!!! The media have POWER when it comes to influence/representation. yess it’s true that nobody owe a thing to white people, but whether we want it or not, representation MATTERS. the way these celebrities act just make me feel like they don’t care or they’re just dumb. The community praising the constant oversexuslization of black woman should know how much it doesn’t benefits anybody but the artist itself. Not the community. While white women are celebrating sexuality and seeing it as a sexual revolution/liberation, I don’t think black women will get praised or respected for it. I really don’t know when will come the day a young black woman entertainer will find success without acting desperate. These type of missrepresentation continu to dehumanize us. For example the hit girl is never a full (looking) black woman at least not for longer than 15 minutes. when it comes to drama, romance , desirability etc. They keep recycling the Zendayas. (Im not hating on her, she admitted herself that she benefit from being mixed, she’s drop dead gorgeous and fully deserve every opportunity) I’m going on a full other subject but I’m so so tired of these dramatic songs about ass and being a « bad bitch »

She’s too easily manipulated I don’t think she’s last. Her Self esteem is obviously low and this confidence she “giving” is fake.

Thank you for pointing out the fact that her talent did not get people talking. This is what society wants, and when she gives it people cry foul. I hope she is able to find what works for her and makes her happy, because doing what society wants will have you blowing around lost.

I miss the days when talented people would showcase their talent

@justathought1971

2 жыл бұрын

exactly

@Luckimee

2 жыл бұрын

She did! Nobody cared

@Leno323

2 жыл бұрын

@@Luckimee That is so far from the truth.

@ForeverLuxeDesigns

2 жыл бұрын

@@Luckimee Im sure her fans that are fans of her talent did appreciate it. Kind of like I was a fan of lizzo at first but her behavior is a turn off

@ginasta7575

2 жыл бұрын

@@Leno323 she did when she was making her own beats she received a bit of fame but with all this she's getting mainstream attention

When you start listening to people is when you start losing 60% to higher percentage of what you stand for. Not ever everyone is going to agree with everything you do. Criticism is good, sometimes, it makes people feel relevant and often, it makes you grow

@Opinions567

2 жыл бұрын

And what does she stand for?

@YoutubeTeasipper7856

2 жыл бұрын

Standards can sometimes make you feel lonely at first but but its keeps you in your own personal lane of contentment and happy in your own skin... I don't know about everyone else but I'm not interested in all kinds of company...

@Nytellem

2 жыл бұрын

Not even sure if this made any sense, Listening to people don’t determine who you are, the INFORMATION you get from them will only lead to you making smarter or Bad choices but who you are in the core stays the same.

@amorelockster1023

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I was like now sis😒🤦🏽‍♀️

@AGEE_95

2 жыл бұрын

@@veronicajata3121 that’s not a question you can answer for Chloe.

If Chloe doesn't come up with an album that truly showcases her beautiful vocals and pure talent, she might unfortunately lose her day-one fans. I've been rooting for them since their YT days, because they were talented and look like the black girls around me. Not all of us see ourselves in the black women who only twerk online. Their fanbase was steadily growing the right way. I I'll wait for her album before I decide if I will continue to support her. However, I would still want her to succeed even if she goes the new rap girls ways.

You are absolutely on point talking about Chloe feeding off of the majority’s energy. Chloe is gorgeous, yes. She is also multi-talented. I was a fan before her rise and I will be a fan when the horde turns on her. Compassion and kindness are free. I loved this video. You spoke on all the topics I think about in regards to this and shared insight and maturity.

The new attention she gets for her sexuality really bothers me bc she deserves soooo much more REAL recognition for her talent

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

That part

@Alex-pd5vs

2 жыл бұрын

@The Don clone of eternity reborn The Don I entirely disagree. A woman can be free to explore and show off her sexuality and still have her “morals”. If you loose “respect” for her just because she’s a lot more sexually liberated then there’s a bigger problem with how you view women. And Beyonce as used her sexuality during her Sasha fierce era in order to get away from the commercial image she had before then. So I don’t think it’s fair for you to speak on what someone else would be proud of.

@Alex-pd5vs

2 жыл бұрын

@The Don clone of eternity reborn The Don So there lies the deeper issue. It’s honestly about time women got selfish. Men think everything women do is catered them and only see worth in women based on their physical appearance. Proceeding to slut shame a woman who you don’t even know anything about other than what she chooses to show the world is very telling. Don’t demonize her just because you see women as sexual objects and nothing more.

@Alex-pd5vs

2 жыл бұрын

@The Don clone of eternity reborn The Don Whether I know or don’t know, my point still stands.

@Alex-pd5vs

2 жыл бұрын

@The Don clone of eternity reborn The Don 😂You assume my gender then attempt to insult me and assert your dominance by trying to silence me. I’m glad this discussion was had

There is sexy… then there is trying to be sexy. Both her and Lizzo fall into that category. That’s what’s cringe- comes off forced. Like walking in your mama’s heels😂

@NovaKnight_

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like the difference is that Lizzo has always been loud and now that she’s mainstream people can’t handle it, while Chloe it seems like just flipped so suddenly and intensely that it’s an overload and feels unnatural. I also think for Lizzo it has some to do with people thinking because she’s big she shouldn’t be allowed to be confident like the slim thick girlies, but that’s another conversation.

@mochas9249

2 жыл бұрын

Lmmfao yes

@GDL364

2 жыл бұрын

@@NovaKnight_ Lizzy didn’t always act like that. I followed her before she went mainstream and she didn’t do the over sexual antics.

@NovaKnight_

2 жыл бұрын

@@GDL364 I didn’t know that, but I think now she’s genuinely extroverted and out there, just to a jarring level to the public.

@PortraitofAsha

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect analogy

I’m sorry to compare but I think this whole “she’s finding her comfort in her sexuality” is really just a giant excuse and cop out because there were similar young women in Chloes position namely Zendaya who was literally a Disney kid and she gracefully transitioned into this beautifully young women who can also infuse her sexuality into her craft with out It being exploited or overtly sexy, to me at this point with Chloe it’s starting to feel repetitive, very clickbaity and attention seeking.

@IDontWannaBeAFreak

2 жыл бұрын

@Narutotrickzxtv 3D THIS IS THE COMMENT!! We make excuses for who we favor and say "they're young... or whatever" but this isn't new or unique. It's just the same box with the same label. Created and Packaged for Sales. I hope she's an exception, but if she goes down the path to the "sunken place" in the name of fame or clout, all these folks saying she's just trying to find herself will be very quiet or act like they didn't see this coming.

@kazi2683

2 жыл бұрын

Chloe loves being sexy and over the top she is no zendaya and does not need to be . She is amazing even when she does do cringey things like this but she will learn from this video however se definitely should not stop doing whatever she feels is her even f it is very sexual .I stan Chloe for even being brave enough to do what she does

@jtwinny4105

2 жыл бұрын

zendaya is barely black tho. she fits in with her white peers and can be feminine and still have success with no problem

@michaelbenjudah3010

2 жыл бұрын

Lmfaooo you know there going to say "it's only cause zendaya is light skinned "

@Chickentits

2 жыл бұрын

Zendaya shows her sexiness to the business man she Mets behind the scene. I wasn’t surprised she was seen being Harvey plus one and working with him. She did what she had to do to secure spots for “Spider-Man, a judge on a fashion show, appearances at award shows and performing at his after parties with a song under his management”. She’s not sexy to the general public. Just another petty light skin whose being pushed for doing the bare minimum in everything that she’s in.

In my opinion Halle is the more “sexier” sister she reminds me of Janet Jackson very sensual without doing much…idk what Chole be doing but she doesn’t have to do too much to be sexy

@Joseph-zd7kg

2 жыл бұрын

Never compare sisters. It's hurtful and causes resentment

@KultureKritiques

2 жыл бұрын

@@Joseph-zd7kg it’s not a negative thing to point out how they are different people Chole is sexy too in a whole different way which she doesn’t realize she doesn’t need to be extra

@kenziestv6934

2 жыл бұрын

@@KultureKritiques saying “sexier sister” is wrong, thanks.

@KultureKritiques

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenziestv6934 I meant naturally Chole just has to work on her sex appeal that’s what I was trying to explain. Hence the quotes. Love how you guys are mad but literally the whole internet was acting like Halle didn’t exist as soon as choles bust it challenge came out plss I’ve been a fan of them for the longest if they are different there’s literally nothing wrong with stating that especially if not putting one down.

There’s a lane to be sensual/sexual without being vulgar and over the top. It comes off forced. It just sucks that she had to resort to this.

@oncode7735

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly my point

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I'm tired of society pushing the narrative that in order for a woman to be sexy or confident she must be half naked.

@MissAmberRae1

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@ManUntdForever

2 жыл бұрын

@@mimia.4810 spot on. And it seems like that narrative is always forced onto BW especially.

@ceeella7215

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I think the issue now is that this is becoming her brand, she's being known as "the girl who is trying too hard, doing too much and just ends up being cringey" so then people don't take her seriously. I doubt that's where she wants to be and honestly it's a disservice to her talent. It's better to get no attention than the wrong kind of attention. Her talent would have gotten her there, might have taken more time, but she would have been THAT girl. Now she's not being another one of those girls. It's not too late...but I hope she figures it out before it is. Because the industry is pushing the artists out one after another. Her sister on the other hand? Had me covered on goosebumps and damn near in tears in her last Disney " can you feel the love" performance. It was just pure talent.

Becoming a grown women isn’t overly exposing and objectifying yourself

@aliXcat

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jadesmith7983

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Not for me anyway.

@dragnfly138

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! ANd how long is this exploring going to take?! This isn’t new anymore.

@PPGSTONER

2 жыл бұрын

It is when society conditions you to be this way in order to be seen as a woman and or feminine. Then shes a black woman shes been sexualized her entire life unfortunately

@maz8429

2 жыл бұрын

@@PPGSTONER i don’t think black has anything to do with it

I honestly believe she’s loves her body and I know her fans (like me) love her for her fierceness and talent. I liked that she’s expressing her sexuality but she didnt need to thank us sexually 😂

@mangelique_

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo

@Kodak718

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂💀

@LauraLoraVlogs

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@ifyouaintbtsyouaintit.9806

2 жыл бұрын

😂

I’m not trying to disrespect anyone in how you want to portray yourself , I just want all women of all ages to know that they are SO much more than just your body and being sexual . Focus on your inner beauty and making sure your soul is beautiful , and I promise it will shine on the outside and you will attract the right people and things in life . God bless , please take in media that is good for you . ❤️

@AQlady10

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!- that's right!

@withniejules2244

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you and your family !🤗💛❤️

@poisedwithpurposeco

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you!!!

Honestly I'm just tired of BW being hypersexualized in this industry. I hate how they have to pull these sort of stunts just to make it, when ALL these girls are extremely talented. I don't blame them, I blame the people who consume and praise this low vibrational nonsense. I still show my love to these girls, just from a very far distance.

@jadesmith7983

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@princebadeior9631

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly that’s why I like H.E.R

I totally understand what’s going on with her. I’m an awkward 24 year old black girl who has absolutely no “sex appeal” 😂. Lol anytime I try to be sexy it comes off as doing wayyyy too much because I’m not really sure how to make it come off organically. It took for my boyfriend to explain that I don’t have to be like that and that the fact that I’m awkward and a bit sheltered is sexy in its own Lane. That’s when I started to embrace it because I thought being feminine means sex appeal and less clothes when in fact being sexy is subjective. She’ll figure it out soon. We just have to keep being supportive, no bashing needed.

@anony1596

2 жыл бұрын

Love this 💕 And shout out to the supportive boyfriends lol

@soupafleye

2 жыл бұрын

exactly 👯‍♀️

@lovelydae7455

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it's a mystery for conservative women too

@luvnpossibilities

2 жыл бұрын

May God continue to bless ya'll relationship. I wish I had a good guy to tell me something like that. I'm middle aged and still awkward.

@Monie71793

2 жыл бұрын

Aww 🥰

I live for halle, she literally is a sweet, mature, ethereal beauty who doesn't need to be sexualized because her beauty. She literally can stand in place and look timeless

@malikabuz

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree! Halle has class and angelic beauty! She doesn’t let herself be sexualized and I respect her for that! Chloe take notes!

@kitsontuli2713

2 жыл бұрын

She's classy without even trying

That Megan clip “why would she say that!?” 😂😂😂😂 I wasn’t ready!!!!!!! OMG OMG OMG I’m cryyyyinnnnnn ☠️

This girl needs to be able to be herself. She'll find her balance. This is like a person become newly religious and they're extreme but the eventually balance out.

@graciousgrace7509

2 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo Why is this soo accurate

@Tmassey16

2 жыл бұрын

lol dang that happened to me

@heyjojo7919

2 жыл бұрын

This is literally my brother he found out about the Bible and God and WOULD NOT SHUT UP. 😭😭

@fromthebottom1112

2 жыл бұрын

It might as well balance out into porn at this rate😳

@simplymonica6888

2 жыл бұрын

“You know that person that now that they found Jesus they try to throw Jesus on everybody. You did nothing to deserve that conversation” Kevin Hart😂

I just love that she’s a woman with dreads who people find sexy and feminine. I like that black hairstyles are becoming feminine again, like people are loving our afros, our braids outs, twists outs, wash and goes etc. but I see where it could be cringeworthy too lol, but she’s a beautiful and talented woman and that in itself will always suffice.

@shushia1658

2 жыл бұрын

Yes they've always been beautiful. I love that more people are appreciating them.

@achankiir1263

2 жыл бұрын

@Anna smith in America…where those beautiful hairstyles can get someone fired or denied job opportunities.

@ocherry95

2 жыл бұрын

@Anna smith cause ppl need to work in America where you been lmao

@mochabrown7406

2 жыл бұрын

@Anna smith whatever you talking about

@mochabrown7406

2 жыл бұрын

@Anna smith how you gone go off like that as if she didn't say some real shit even among ppl in the black community alot of these hairstyle are seen as unattractive or of low value

She's a talented artist - why the "only fans" vibe?? It's a race to the bottom you only have so much skin to show.

Cringe isn’t bullying it’s empathy 🤷🏾‍♀️

I'm so tired of oversexualised images of black women, it's such a bad influence for young black girls

@NovaKnight_

2 жыл бұрын

This is an age old opinion but we need more Alicia Keys’ out here.

The lollipop video can honestly spark up the conversation about sex appeal. A lot of people think sex appeal is automatically granted to them if they’re attractive or pleasing to the eye. That’s not how it works. I’m here for Chloe and her embracing her sexuality/womanhood but I feel like she’s trying hard to have sex appeal. Like she can gorgeous and fine without doing cringey things. I do feel some of the backlash she’s receiving is bullying and downright ruthless, like there’s no need for that.

@Daijxo

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like this is a good convo to have cuz I agree.

@ladybccesar7582

2 жыл бұрын

Yup like it’s okay to criticize but ofc ppl take it too far. It’s a journey to find your sexy and sometimes you’ll do things that are cringe but she’ll find her sexy.

@OzanaDivine

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. People can't seem to express their opinions without taking things too far. It's like Social Media makes everything extra dramatic.

@sunnc

2 жыл бұрын

Yes sex appeal is it's own lane. It has to come from within and be authentic to you. Rihanna has it.

@kmarcol1

2 жыл бұрын

Great perspective. Some women just exist and exude femininity and sensuality without showing any skin. It's natural. Poor Chloe, I need her to stand on her square when she does this type of attention seeking and not delete or cry about it.

I love how you embraced her, instead of embarrassing her. I'm not sure alot of ppl in these comments watched the whole video.

Zendaya and Normani are examples of growing into womanhood and into their sexuality seamlessly. And I’m sorry, but Normani doesn’t get enough credit. She’s also incredibly talented, shapely and talented.

She's SO talented, it's an unfortunate situation but maybe this will help her realize she doesn't have to do all that? 🤷

@lluxery

2 жыл бұрын

I hope she realizes it! She has beautiful talent

@msphil4life

2 жыл бұрын

Really!!! I've been saying this.. I really hope she snaps out of this. It really does not take all of this! So freaking talented! That separation from her sister impacted her plenty!!

@ocherry95

2 жыл бұрын

@@msphil4life idk ...I seem to think that it was all part.of.the plan. They're so different and I would find it hard to believe that while one sis is off doing movies the other sis wouldn't naturally be working on stuff anyway.

@msphil4life

2 жыл бұрын

@@ocherry95 working on stuff, yeah. Even if they were doing different things professionally, the distance and limelight Halle received at the time, could have contributed. The attention seeking behavior started to increase significantly...

@ocherry95

2 жыл бұрын

@@msphil4life uh hmm ...good point

It definitely comes off as trying waaay too hard. It feels like she’s trying to play the role of a sexy girl rather than just letting that natural sexiness shine through.

@oncode7735

2 жыл бұрын

Very much so

@LuvKitKatt

2 жыл бұрын

That’s what happens when the industry comes in

@yaniebee04

2 жыл бұрын

BINGO‼️‼️‼️‼️

I also don’t understand why people keep equating becoming overly sexual and objectifying oneself as girls growing into women. What!? I thought girls growing into women deals with having a high intellect, being wiser, wardrobe change, career change, maybe different hair, different friends. Adele can literally do albums documenting her age and what she learns and the world has watched her grow into a mom, wife, divorcee. Why are black women only treated as objects and mammies? It’s sad.

@poisedwithpurposeco

2 жыл бұрын

Very sad 😕

@Monie71793

2 жыл бұрын

💯😩

At this point I think it's hurting her music . People are going to associated with her "cringe" and being sexy rather than her music ... I don't want that to happen but ..... let's be real... it's happening

She needs direction. That’s all. If she came out with some good R&B, even experimental, if she used her vocals and did some choreo people would be here for it. It’d be a good avenue to express her sexuality while still being in her element if it’s done right. If she did some concept like Ciara’s ‘Promise’ people would be here for it! She has the vocals! People only find her cringe because though she is confident, it feels overly performative when she can just BE pretty/sexy without trying.

@wshelby83

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you!!

@OpinionatedBlues

2 жыл бұрын

So true. Ciara eased herself into sexiness more and more but did it in a natural way at a natural pace. So now when we see Ciara we know how she’s coming & we love it lol

@krystinamaxine1528

2 жыл бұрын

This is on point

@earnesttemp9634

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t think she’s confident or comfortable yet. She’s even said so herself in numerous interviews that she’s trying to find her confidence and that’s ok.

@NovaKnight_

2 жыл бұрын

@@earnesttemp9634 Sadly she’s making the mistake of associating sexual attention with confidence. I hope she finds her footing one day.

I think the main thing is that she just doesn't seem confident in it. Her sister is exploring but looks confident. Why share or perform in a fashion that you aren't comfortable with at all? If you do things in front of an audience, you will garner critique. Criticism is even a profession that goes hand in hand with the performing arts. If you give a bad performance, critics will let you know. It's part and parcel of being a performing artist, a chef, a playwright. To be honest, the forced sensuality is reminiscent of someone that has gone through se×ual trauma. That thought saddens me.

@esmeralda8305

2 жыл бұрын

She's in the pits of the hollywood elite, sexual trauma, sadly, is almost a given. I think she's being forced to act like this because as you say, she does not look confident at all and that's why it comes off as cringey.

@v.a.l.5165

2 жыл бұрын

@@esmeralda8305 unfortunately this is too true.

@PIA-tj5hc

2 жыл бұрын

It absolutely seems forced

@sandrae4912

2 жыл бұрын

I hate when people compare one sibling or sister to another. It just makes the other feel inadequate. Like parents comparing a sibling to another. I get your point. She needs more courage to pass it but still even the women who are courageous or confident are overdoing it these days. Look at all the female videos. It's as though they need to be naked to get validation or be popular. And mostly the public thinks it's ok to continue cheering that on. If you're confident you don't need to do all of that or go extra overboard to get attention.

@ms.wilson6439

2 жыл бұрын

This did happen AFTER the break up... she was heart broken and wanted to show that she can have any man prolly....

This girl was so unique and had a different style and that’s what attracted me to her and her sister. They wrote and produced their own music and didn’t over sexualize themselves. I noticed right after Halle got the little mermaid role and she was getting the most attention, that’s when Chloe decided to show more and more skin. She literally downgraded to a basic Instagram “model” that makes generic music about her booty being so big. Now she’s receiving more attention and NOW Halle is starting to show skin lmao it’s like their flip flopping with each other for attention.

there’s nothing wrong with a woman being sexual and all of that. but this just looks forced. she looks a lil uncomfy and it’s hard to watch

But are the people that gave her attention for her sexuality buying her music? I hope so. 😕

@Dagrammadababy

2 жыл бұрын

I mean yeah her song do it with her sister took almost a year to go gold and have mercy went gold after 2 months

@Covers-and-Commentary

2 жыл бұрын

Not at all

@shakanuhglorie8444

2 жыл бұрын

No , they just cheer on her antics then pay her music dust

@elizabethdalgliesh6085

2 жыл бұрын

Whew Chile👀☕

@jasminewilliams1673

2 жыл бұрын

That’s the thing, attention is not translating into charting. Have mercy wasn’t doing well. Them men following her are not streaming

I’m dating a church girl and I can definitely see a shelter girl that has freedom now. P.s it’s nothing wrong with It. Just an observation, don’t kill me in the comments.

@lelomm1668

2 жыл бұрын

I feel attacked

@iamflay3776

2 жыл бұрын

Why you coming for me lol

@11Taneka

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 I’m sorry y’all. My gf said the same thing.

@mikashae8651

2 жыл бұрын

But whats wrong with it though?

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

It's like the kids that had strict parents that didn't allow them to do anything, but once they go to college....they are the craziest party animals 😩

She needs guidance. She needs a better PR team. There’s a way to do things gracefully!

I think after she got on that live crying about how she was insecure and finding herself, it was going to be a rough journey. It shows in the overdone performances that are starting to look sloppy and the solo music is low quality/dated. Everything about her brand is clashing right now (but hey, at least the creepy men that know nothing about her music are happy) 🙃

The problem is that she is a beautiful young lady who thinks she has to be more than who she really is to get attention. But when you are that “IT GIRL” you don’t have to separate yourself from what comes natural to you. She is super talented and naturally beautiful. But being overly sexual becomes awkward when you aren’t really about that type of lifestyle. I just wish it didn’t seem like she was desperate for attention, because her talent and her natural beauty speaks for itself.

“She’s feeding off of what she’s being fed” this right here goes for every single woman to ever live, especially when it comes to our bodies and sexuality!

@ruruvarela

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like she is not yet found herself. You can he sexy confident and talented without falling into cringe. She goes overboard because she is feeding off the energy that we are feeding her. She has yet to claim that power. Right now is is responding to the audience and not demonstrating her power over the audience. Self respect and how you carry and represent yourself to the world is more powerful than being who the world wants you to be. And that is where she is stuck. She is catering to the public and that can be a rollercoaster of emotions. You can't please everyone. She has to find herself. Stand firm in how she wants to carry herself and remain respectful and respectable. Two different things. She doesn't have to be perfect but embrace you imperfection and show your growth by your aligning your actions with your words. She is cringe AF. It just going to be part of her journey now.

@cremepuffle

2 жыл бұрын

@@ruruvarela i agree, before she blew up i really liked how both her and her sister werent raunchy but now it’s just…. She’s fallen to the same trick almost every female celebrity has at one point or another. But it’s also just the fact that not every good looking woman can have sex appeal, she doesnt need to oversexualize herself but if thats what she wants then🤷‍♀️ In all honesty as well i can no longer truly support women who do performative “sexiness” or sell sex cause it’s really not making it easier for women especially black women. It’s like theres never a middle ground yet theyre feeding into it. They dont want to be the change cause they know it’s easier and can only benefit certain women.

@ruruvarela

2 жыл бұрын

@@cremepuffle Mya is a an older artists but i love how she carries her self in music. She is confident/sexy/doesn't overdue her sex appeal and doesn't make her lyrics super explicit ad well as touched on lots of topics when singing

@cremepuffle

2 жыл бұрын

@@ruruvarela yes she is very sexy in a not overdone way i agree. Theres many female artists like that tbh, they just dont get as much attention.

the fact that she took it down just bc everyone told her too is actually the saddest part. she's jonesin' for everyone's attention not doing what makes her feel good. so shes already falling into the celeb "trap"

@thebigbrain99

2 жыл бұрын

Agree.

“She’s feeding off of what she’s being fed” the accuracy

It’s very sad that black girls have to over sexualized themselves to get anywhere in the industry. Normani, Chloe, Tinashe etc… even though the case is similar for most women in general it seems like for black girls this is the only option. 😞😞 “have mercy” has been played on the radio more times than I can count but Chloe has an amazing voice and since when have they ever played any of her other songs they never get that much attention like “Have Mercy”

@oneel3859

2 жыл бұрын

And taylor, adele etc are clothed and selling. Reminds me of J Cole "of my skin pale, would I then sell like Eminem or Adele?"

@OnlyMichaelJackson

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@jojobunnyyy

2 жыл бұрын

Right, the music industry is just toxic, nobody appreciates real music anymore. They love to idolize gang violence or anything sexual.

@emmaganta2545

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry but people need to get their facts straight. Whitney Houston wasn’t as half as sexual as Madonna and still sold millions. Summer Walker is platinum and just sings love songs nothing sexually explicit and neither is her image. There’s no need for it and it has nothing to do with race!!

@PrincessYonna1

2 жыл бұрын

It definitely was cringy but it didn’t bother me as much I’m used to the image of black women being like this or turning into this. This is the only image of us but no one forces us into it we do it ourselves, this how majority of bw want to be viewed.

I’ve been a Chloe x Halle fan since I was a kid and I haven’t liked “sexy Chloe” for a while. She always had sex appeal but there was an air of class around it but it seems like since her sister left she’s been trying entirely too hard. I didn’t like her VMA performance and I really don’t like Have Mercy but this just feels like a phase and I’m trying to hold out for the end of it because she’s still talented regardless. “Sexy Chloe” has been cringey for a while now though I think people were just refreshed with a natural IG body that had major talent attached to it. People got sick of Meg shaking her ass every five seconds too.

@haiticherie509

2 жыл бұрын

What does Meg have to do with Chloe?? Is meg the only one who shakes their ass?? Like yall kill me. They’re not even in the same genre…

@Alicapy

2 жыл бұрын

WAIT HOW DOES MEG RELATE LMAO? Girl that's not it... it's because Chloe brought a "new" more refreshed look with her locs and people recognized she had talent. Meg shaking ass has little to do with her success, you said the reason yourself.

@shaepricesp

2 жыл бұрын

@@haiticherie509 I think she brought up Meg because she also has "a natural IG body and major talent" like Chloe. Maybe she was attempting to show that people like this in an artist and were just excited about a new girl that could serve the same things.

@christinem8799

2 жыл бұрын

VERY MUCH AGREEE

@christinem8799

2 жыл бұрын

Of course you’ll have people miss your entire point Lmaoo. You said nothing wrong. 💯

I saw it and was like “she’s corny as hell” lol. I can’t believe Beyoncé doesn’t police her social media more closely. She’s talented, she doesn’t need to do that 😒😒

I’ve been trying to put my finger on why the video made me so uncomfortable, and I think I’ve figured it out. The video was made to thank her fans, and to be real from what I’ve seen her REAL fans been here since the KZread covers. There’s a lot of new “fans” that popped up once she started showing her sexy side but I don’t think those people are the ones streaming the music and actually supporting. So it’s like she made the video to thank US but the way she did it seemed like it was targeted towards THEM. If that makes sense. Like…. Why are you thanking your fans sexually? I feel like most of her real fans would’ve preferred her thanking us by singing a snippet from the album or just being her smiley bubbly self. It just seemed like the message and the method weren’t in line.

The video was cringe, but I wasn’t surprised about it.

It’s so unfortunate that women feel like they have to get undressed in order to be desired.

@purplebearediblec2293

2 жыл бұрын

Right it's sad. ...and agreed

@kilimanjaro5537

2 жыл бұрын

Women who wear hijabs exude sensuality without even trying. Makes you wonder why so many of us think we have to be naked in order to be sexy.

@mesalouis8976

2 жыл бұрын

R.I.P modesty.

@BriaBarrows

2 жыл бұрын

My thoughts. But many don’t think like this

She just needs to relax, be herself & stop trying so hard. Being sexy shouldn't take so much effort

I was the sheltered church girl and let’s just say that I’m SO thankful that social media in todays form did not exist for the masses.

i definitely know how chloe must feel, being liberated after having a stricter childhood. to this day my grandma still insists on telling me right from wrong, much to my frustration… because im 19 now. being able to express yourself any way, and having people VALIDATE it, is very liberating after having to conceal a part of yourself that’s considered to be wrong or shameful. i hope chloe finds her way no matter what she chooses.

@oneel3859

2 жыл бұрын

The problem is that parents think its for protection while it leads to vulnerability. I was still SAed because I couldn't even understand what was going on. We usually discuss and condemn the "free roam" parents but forget how damaging the helicopter parents can be to development. There is a fine line between the two, either extremes damage.

@simbaladesignsinsights

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@nasayzaamei

2 жыл бұрын

I can 100% agree with you on that my dad controlled my life SO MUCH ! Punished me for getting B’s ,wouldn’t let me go to dance or cheer competitions if he just felt like it ,wouldn’t let me hang out with friends he controlled me while I was in college and all the way up until I got pregnant with my son. It’s sad when parents are strict because my dad didn’t know that I was pregnant until I was about five months along because I was too nervous to tell him. I feel like after I had my son I rebelled and went to the clubs every weekend which is weird because I was a grown ass woman with a child but in that instance I finally felt mature.

@brib6046

2 жыл бұрын

@@nasayzaamei sounds like your dad was similar to TI because Zonnique had some similar issues. This makes me wonder if most if not all of these parents act like this because of transgressions they committed and know their kids will be a target of actions they previously committed

@siddycity101

2 жыл бұрын

I love this👏🏾

I’m glad I’m not the only one who cringed at that video lmaoooo I saw it and kept scrolling

@gak2008

2 жыл бұрын

Never saw it but this convo is interesting. Even her most loyal fans are reluctant to speak criticize her so I am wondering how many did in this instance. Based on the fact she took down the vid it must’ve been alot.

@gatestimonymiracle1302

2 жыл бұрын

Your too young to watch it . That's why

@tatyana-fw8re

2 жыл бұрын

@@gatestimonymiracle1302 I’m 22 😂😂😂

"Some girls were in the hawse" the way you said that took me lmaooo

I have been so concerned for Chloe… she is soooo thirsty and for what?!?! You are beautiful and talented. She has been moving in this direction for a while (cringe). We all thought she was going to go the Beyoncé route but she’s gone too far to me… But you are spot on @Eloho, we created this monster!!! #WhatAreYouSupporting #MentalHealthIssues

@kazi2683

2 жыл бұрын

she has always been like this , if you don't like it then just keep scrolling . She can be overtly sexy nothing wrong with that i find it amazing you find it cringe to each their own

@SW-nx4jz

2 жыл бұрын

@@kazi2683 She can comment if she wants grow up lol

All the women loved her regardless. The men only started paying attention after she started doing this 😂 blame them

@amazingdoublea

2 жыл бұрын

Nah we can’t blame them……we gotta stop looking to idiots for validation lmao NOT TO MENTION men who really like her ARTISTRY hate this shit 😂😂😂😂😂

@miesha.b8740

2 жыл бұрын

Pretty much lol

@ladylocs2xcel

2 жыл бұрын

Comments like this is why some men think that women are incapable of taking accountability for their own actions. The vid was cringey and that’s solely on her cuz she is grown now and she made that decision. Everything isn’t a mans fault.

@vibewithniq8227

2 жыл бұрын

@@amazingdoublea 😂😂 damn that’s kinda true.

@vibewithniq8227

2 жыл бұрын

@@ladylocs2xcel nobody is saying “literally”. My point was, she’s not doing it for women attention 😂😂😂she was already getting that from us.

I find it weird when men think I will gang up on a woman because of MY own spiritual beliefs. To each their own. I would never do this but I would also never suppress another woman's choice. I choose to be conservative and she can choose to be as raunchy as she wants. Its not my business like that

I mean why can Adele, Billie Eilish and such showcase their talent without being forcefully overly sexual, is it because of the musical genre and audience ? IDK I feel like it's becoming incredibly difficult for women to showcase their talent without selling sex these days unless they're exceptional artists.

Dang Eloho, you're completely right! I think you gave words to my emotions. I honestly feel like eventually Chloe will find a good balance one day that's comfortable to her. Also a balance that will work for the fans too. It'll take time. She's only 22.

I too am a woman whos sheltered; only listened to Gospel, only watched G and PG movies, no make up except for chapstick, NO BOYS, didnt get out much and if we did it was always with a parent, and wore plats for most of my childhood and most of my teenage years couldn't do certain things and now am trying to find my own identity and explore myself (not really sexually) without veering too much to the left or veering from my values and what's right. And its tough. I got to say that I'm thankful for my parents keeping me from a lot of things that could potentially hurt us but it does have a negative effect as well. I too find myself wanting to be beautiful, more feminine, more savvy, and even sexy in some sense, see where I fit concerning men. Then again it seems like men don't approach me like that because Im not really a savvy or a fast girl. I have a baby face and sometimes may not always have the wherewithal or be very savvy in some situations so that make things much worse for me and because of that people treat me like as if I'm a child and feel like a second thought concerning men. And everyone raises a ruckus the moment I may ease a finger out of the box that peoole put me in. Its tough! I too am going through the "Chloe effect". lol I'm a young woman trying to find my way. I truly feel this video.

@xkristina1222x

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. You’ve really described how I’ve felt growing up and then when I went to college it was tough being around girl friends who had more of natural feminine appeal. I’ve tried to stay true to my morals for the most part but in finding my identity and transitioning into womanhood, I learned to just stay true to myself instead of trying to force being sexy like others who are deemed more sexually attractive. Men approach me regardless if I wear makeup or not, natural hair or weave or whatever because I remain classy and respectable. At the end of the day, don’t force anything it’ll come naturally. And take care of yourself

@kaylajoyner8428

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I definitely see a lot of myself in her rn and your comment. Glad you said something

@Nuffsaid22

2 жыл бұрын

lol completely understand the feeling

@golisha5871

2 жыл бұрын

Same! I’ve learned that at the end of the day people are going to treat you different over the illusions in their mind. So I might as well just do me!

She is too talented for these antics 🤦🏽‍♂️

@Luckimee

2 жыл бұрын

Talent gets you nowhere these days. The talentless ppl are the most popular

@emonbooker1260

2 жыл бұрын

@@Luckimee amen to that ... it's so unfortunate but it's the truth .

@princebadeior9631

2 жыл бұрын

@@Luckimee no talent is the new talent smh

I don’t have a problem with a woman being sexual at all. But this doesn’t feel like she’s comfortable herself…like there’s people like Megan thee Stallion she’s super sexual but it feels like it’s natural to her, it doesn’t feel cringe because she’s being herself. Chloe is insanely talented she doesn’t have to do this at all imo. I’m from a strict Muslim background and I know a lot of girls in my community who when given the freedom act this way…it’s honestly her figuring out what she loves it’ll thaw out lol. I just hope she doesn’t lose herself or her dignity in the way. I’ll always love Chloe as long as she continues to kill it musically.

Unpopular opinion: Y'all holding her accountable too late, I thought even the "mercy" video was doing too much. Not a hater, just concerned that society has gone too far with normalizing hypersexuality!

@bowbowbow9954

2 жыл бұрын

yikes i thought the same thing too. when she did the aggressive split thing laying on the ground in the music video… that specifically caught me off guard. its just not cute and you can tell it comes unnatural for her. still love and support her tho.

@MiNNi0La

2 жыл бұрын

@@bowbowbow9954 I know the exact scene you are talking about. It sent me gasping in shock as well. Some things should be left in the privacy of your own Chambers.

@bowbowbow9954

2 жыл бұрын

@@MiNNi0La not chambers 😭 but i agree 100%

I love her but she’s doing the most. People use that excuse of “ well why y’all don’t say nothing when Cardi, Megan or the city girls do it”. I’m sorry but their sex appeal seems more natural. Chloe comes off as trying way too hard & instead of being sexy, she’s making herself look like a fool 🤷🏽‍♀️

@a.g3322

2 жыл бұрын

exactly. Cardi was a stripper and she was sexual. But her no at all. We can anderstand being a little be more sexy (by the outfit or choreography) but she is turning into something else that she's not

@jujubee6030

2 жыл бұрын

Also they came out with the sexy image, Chloe didn't. So of course it will take people a longer time to process on Chloe's part.

I agree Eloho. However I will say it’s unfortunate that black people are not able to take control of our image so we have to resort to low vibration tactics. Especially when it comes to black female artist it feels like there is no balance. And unfortunately the few times us black men do gain the control we also put out smut type content.

@mleedeau

2 жыл бұрын

For real

@JulianSteve

2 жыл бұрын

You are right Tyson. Our Black entertainers have to do “the most” to get attention. Not saying some of these entertainers hate it (I know some enjoy showing this side of themselves), but it does get repetitive. I am a fan Chloe’s while in the group with her sister and as a solo artist. I am rooting for her and I hope she succeeds and do what she’s comfortable with. I hope it’s not her label pressuring her to act “too sexy.”

@theman9048

2 жыл бұрын

Y'all never buy the artist who don't sell sex

@dugebuwembo

2 жыл бұрын

This 👆🏿

@stoneychi8648

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry but race has nothing to do with the industry cause white and Mexicans bussing it open doing low vibrational things too that's just the sickness of hollyhell

Why is everyone criticizing her so much? She's young and doing her. Let her be, let her figure out what she wants to do/be.

The problem I and I think a lot of others have is that this isn’t in addition to her talent, it overshadows it. She so worried about looking sexy it’s disrupting other things. Like her “feeling good” performance. She also doesn’t understand that there is a time and place. You don’t have to do this all the time. That vid definitely looked like a cam girl advertisement on pornhub.

Chloe will get the hang of it eventually lol. She’ll realize that sensuality isn’t about what you do with your body, it’s about your energy. Sensuality is subtle and flows easily not forced. Everyone has the ability to have sensual energy but it does take time. She can easily grab the attention of others because her whole being is beautiful but this is a new territory for her so it comes with the awkwardness. I understand where she’s coming from bc I was once a “good pure modest Christian” girl and being “sexy” was weird af to me 😂 but I got the hang of it and she will too ❤️💐

@ariamonsoon7510

2 жыл бұрын

Love love love your comment! I couldn’t agree more

@tammiivibe

2 жыл бұрын

@@ariamonsoon7510 Yes I think the real ones will understand and be more gentle with her! This stage is totally normal, it's just that she has to navigate this publicly

@DeeCee84

2 жыл бұрын

Yyaasssss all of this! She will get it together but unfortunately she's growing up in public and everyone has an opinion. She will be just fine.

@IshMollyVlogs

2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@audisaidthis

2 жыл бұрын

exactly how i feel

I kind of understand how she feels being seen as the “good girl” or the “innocent girl”. People can become physically uncomfortable when you try to embrace a different part of yourself that’s different from how they view you in their mind. Humans are complex creatures, we’re not one dimensional!

@solaris5922

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, people be forgetting I’m no longer a minor and act out when I act my age.

@chelsea9641

2 жыл бұрын

I have a question people are saying she grew up sheltered and stuff but how comes Halle doesn’t act the same way? I know they have different personalities etc but I always wondered why

@solaris5922

2 жыл бұрын

@@chelsea9641 Are they the same person? No? Question answered.

@Monie71793

2 жыл бұрын

Acting like everyone else is one-dimensional.

@thebigbrain99

2 жыл бұрын

If this is not the most relatable thing I've seen in this entire comment section. Looking at this now it pisses me off because you have people that literally try to box you into one category instead of acknowledging that you are more than just that one attribute. Just like a hairstyle people can be versatile too.

We’re just now realizing this?? We lost Ms Chloe a long time ago…