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@mrawesome3842

3 жыл бұрын

p

@stylisthicc7873

3 жыл бұрын

n

@taggerung_

3 жыл бұрын

c

@mahirshyam4127

3 жыл бұрын

a

@bgreaud

3 жыл бұрын

I think she needs a vacation...

"Is there anything you want to talk about?" *Immediately starts crying.* I feel that.

@kiaraetsuko3523

3 жыл бұрын

Hapened to me on my first session of therapy actually lmao so yea I felt that as well.

@itsgabibelle

3 жыл бұрын

FUCKING SAAAAMEEEE

@TsdsxSansTSSunStone

3 жыл бұрын

Time stamp?

@hwalazia

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that so much. It's just nice finally getting to talk to someone who wants to help you

@altobonifacio8936

3 жыл бұрын

I think we all who went to therapy for the first time did this kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

"Can I think for a second" - This should be done more often, I respect this guy a lot.

@gametangia

3 жыл бұрын

actualy can you think for another second?

@shanecrawford3347

3 жыл бұрын

A really great approach by a therapist. It shows that Poki has the option of doing the same. Its a difficult seed to plant on the therapists part. Bravo Doc

@Suureush

3 жыл бұрын

@@shanecrawford3347 Can I think about what to think about for a second?

@SlanglieBeatz

3 жыл бұрын

@@Suureush nah, I will count down from 10 and when I get to zero you must state whatever you've come up with

@ayesupman923

3 жыл бұрын

@@SlanglieBeatz you mean he has 10 seconds to begin thinking about thinking then if you wanted hypothetically you could give him 10 more seconds to think and then to state what he was thinking about if that's a rule you want

When she said “I feel really sad for myself” almost as if she was confused and it was a bizarre thing to feel, I felt that. Mourning the death of your inner child and the trauma they experienced, early 20’s are a trip.

@OMIMreacts

2 жыл бұрын

fuckkkk yeah

@Heathmcdonald

2 жыл бұрын

Mid to late are worse

@silver2zilver

2 жыл бұрын

this doesnt make sense your inner child isnt dead if you're still breathing. They are a child, they are just hiding and you're probably scaring the poor thing. It's called nurturing for a reason,.

@amerstain

Жыл бұрын

@@silver2zilver this is a thought i had today and honestly idk if it's dead or hiding. Ig you can't say it's dead because then there's no hope. Probably weakened or hiding, who knows man this shit's kinda very complicated

@ryanfrank1309

Жыл бұрын

​@@amerstain In psychoanalytics it's referred to as the "Shadow". It's the dark side of us that doesn't follow the rules. Suppressing that side of you will only result in it growing and festering until you self sabotage and it all comes out. You have to integrate it into your being and accept it for what it is without judgement. Think of the inner child as one of Dr. K's darker guests (abuser, incel, narcissist). They're controlled by their Shadow because they don't understand it. When you can see your inner child as a valuable important person within you, that has needs too, you can find it easy to treat it with compassion and set healthy boundaries with it. An example would be the hero in a story who has a deep anger and hate for the villain who killed his father and intends to hurt others. The hero has a part of him that enjoys violence. Instead of crushing that side of him he allows the monster to feed when it is appropriate. The boundary he sets is "only when someone is actively trying to cause harm, the beast may come out and feed." In some stories the hero will be too brutal, recognize it and set another boundary. Kind of like portion size management of what the beast may eat. That is all healthy. Beating down your child even when it's actions would be appropriate is not healthy. Not standing up for yourself when someone crosses a healthy boundary is not healthy. So we see people who suppress the child become weak and scared (how your inner child feels when you tyrannize them), people who are possessed by the child (no healthy boundaries set gives the child free reign), and people who integrate the child (recognize what the child wants, say no when it's not appropriate, gives the child outlets and situations where they can let loose, and reigns them in before they go to far.)

Having a person like Dr. K just makes twitch look less horrible than it is. Hes like a saviour.

@Guus115

3 жыл бұрын

He should clean up Twitter too. That would be a massive job

@austeyen5628

3 жыл бұрын

@@Guus115 honestly maybe a little too much for him lol, twitter is a menace

@ChrisSmooth24

3 жыл бұрын

@@Guus115 Twitter is unsalable my dude. Let that shit sink

@fyrr_cat

2 жыл бұрын

Let's not push too much preassure on him

@whynot1135

2 жыл бұрын

bro Twitter can't be fixed

Imagine Dr.K talking with tyler1

@respectedmastermind

4 жыл бұрын

Under all that rage i think that Tyler is smart

@Omehatl

4 жыл бұрын

@@respectedmastermind I dont know man, he is a good person, and incredibly good at games for sure, but I dont think he is that smart. He is still machist AF and cares a lot about not crying and being a "MAN". Maybe he is just ignorant tho.

@respectedmastermind

4 жыл бұрын

@@Omehatl i only watched some clips and the off league stuff... It would be interesting for sure

@govna3969

4 жыл бұрын

@@Omehatl he used to be a 4.0 cpu science major

@anthonyboland9436

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler 1 is a character Tyler is a person he would be different off stream

It's honestly crazy to be doing this on a public live stream. That's like next level courage.

@ybt1995

4 жыл бұрын

i cant even do it with my close up people imagine doing it in front of thousands

@kevink6509

4 жыл бұрын

word

@catedoge3206

4 жыл бұрын

@@ybt1995 if you can't do that with your close up people. they're really not "close up" people. think again.

@ybt1995

4 жыл бұрын

@@catedoge3206 close are mainly my family which we love each other but we never talk about serious stuff basically as Doc K said as "NPCs"

@catedoge3206

4 жыл бұрын

@@ybt1995 I recommend going to a psychiatrist or a support group. In there, you can freely talk about things without getting judged. :D

I think her cry was mostly because someone actually wanted to listen to what she has to say and gave her their time to do it. It can get emotional.

@adityamukherjee32

Жыл бұрын

v true

@akitadakid6326

9 ай бұрын

I think it was because she was overwhelmed when thinking about her emotions. Since she’s a problem, solver, her mind started going and didn’t stop.

@HakaiKaien

4 ай бұрын

Yeah. Dr. K was probably the first person to actually be interested in her feelings in a productive way. Which is not surprising

@drz616

2 ай бұрын

It's because she's a woman, women are emotional.

@carlosmspk

Ай бұрын

@@akitadakid6326 the way you worded that really sounded like you said "she's a problem" 😂 Anyways, I think you're right

I'm glad i got off the "shitting on pokimane for no reason" wave. Shes my age, shes dealing with nearly everything im dealing with in some capacity and more, and it just made me realize how dehumanizing I was to her just because shes a streamer and I saw her as such. Fuck man i have so much to work on.

@bungodunko4123

2 жыл бұрын

nah she has done some shit things. She has to grow from them instead of acting like they dont exist. Also dr. k said it best she needs to start being imane more and not poki.

@akazi1582

2 жыл бұрын

@@bungodunko4123 To be honest, we all make mistakes. I don't particularly like her, but its important to note that all her faults like many other content creators are publicized. What I have learned to accept is that there is a reason for everything, even the mistakes that you make. It is important to understand peoples motivation to do things. Everyone knows the shit things they have done in our lives.

@bungodunko4123

2 жыл бұрын

@@akazi1582 Yea I agree im probably biased cause I watched her apology video that she made a bit back and take that context into account. One thing I think would help her is being more candid with everyone around her. Like dr k said we know poki but dont really know much about imane.

@ro-lk1qe

Жыл бұрын

🤡

@ro-lk1qe

Жыл бұрын

🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🤣😹💀

this man is going to talk with every otv member at one point in time

@sonny3351

4 жыл бұрын

otto wibe we need the Michael Reeves ep

@EmileAI

4 жыл бұрын

@@cobi421 can't wait

@thryke9919

4 жыл бұрын

Because otv is a house of millennials that livestream their entire lives, they're all just people like us and have their issues

@andrewwong2399

4 жыл бұрын

"how does that make you feel" michael: not great, turtles gotta die man

@MrMumi98

4 жыл бұрын

"The taming of Michael Reeves"

'You gotta start treating your family members like party members and not NPCs.' That hit me like a brick.

@mhballa5866

4 жыл бұрын

@Khaffit truuuuuuuuuue

@izs6946

4 жыл бұрын

@Khaffit haha i thought of that exactly when i heard dr k say that. Talking to my parents like an NPC did so much wonders for me and prevented a lot of confrontation that i dont think i want to stop doing it.

@supertrollfaxnoprinter3329

4 жыл бұрын

yeah i really should stop quicksaving and murdering my whole family over and over again

@FryedPidgey

4 жыл бұрын

starinthroughmyrearview But how else will I get my level up for the big raid

@ben1071_

4 жыл бұрын

@@FryedPidgey idk kill people other than your family, try closest friends

My first therapy session went a bit like hers. Dr: hello. Me: starts sobbing

@MsLenepigen

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@genericchannel126

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes we just have so much built up inside, and u finally have a chance to spill how u feel and what u been thru

@tailbonetailbone9380

2 жыл бұрын

I just had my first eval by a psychologist and didn't cry once! Things are loonking up!

@janek.3549

2 жыл бұрын

I had a feeling that the same think would happen to me, so I immediatly localized the tissues. Great help about 45 seconds later.XD

@myth1c4lz

Жыл бұрын

🤡

Absolutely brilliant conversation, so many insights + amazing vibes. Thanks so much for sharing you guys!

@josiahalby4195

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you linking this in your emails 💪 I never would’ve seen this otherwise

@KQJ_Diya007

Жыл бұрын

Fr

When he said “You gotta treat your family like party members not NPC’s” that shit hit fr

@iphoneusdsd

4 жыл бұрын

so talk shit and do nothing?

@Sponation-hj3lb

4 жыл бұрын

iphoneusdsd lmao

@Mehdi-el8dt

4 жыл бұрын

@@iphoneusdsd normally, yes

@TheBimayudha

4 жыл бұрын

so i need to flame my family??

@unknownone9324

4 жыл бұрын

time stamp?????

when he hit her with the "do you want to be poki or do you want to be imane" thing i felt the strings of reality bend around me

@mar8408

3 жыл бұрын

the time he took with that is amazing, it shows that he really cares and dont want to make her feel bad.

@sethblack7413

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine if her name was just “pok” lmaooooo

@MOGE_

3 жыл бұрын

lol.. what are the strings of reality

@adisoncardoso

3 жыл бұрын

@@MOGE_ ernie ball hybrid slinky

@WintersTwilightSky

3 жыл бұрын

When you’ve been on the Internet in a certain way, in forms where you’re known as a username, you have different personas of yourself that sometimes form. Sometimes I want to be me, the offline me. But sometimes I’m just the online me.

I won’t lie when I say I had a pretty negative image of Pokimane before watching this. Many of my friends and content creators I watched talked about shady things she has done and it made me lose trust for her. However, after watching this video, I started to understand why those rumors came about and why she really isn’t much different from all of us. Getting her heartfelt perspective on her position in this community really helped me see that human side of her. That content creators aren’t the culmination of rumors and drama. This was a good experience.

@Shady36

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not gonna pretend I'm an expert, I'm not a fan of hers, never made the effort of watching her streams or donating. I've had an inkling that she (along with other streamers) regret a lot of the things that defined their success. But they can't let it go, or a least be strong enough to stop it from defining them. I respect her for owning up to her guilt. I wish her and everyone like her the best Min Max of the game of life.

@Riku-Leela

3 жыл бұрын

All people ever do is talk about the negative things Poki has or even been rumoured to have done as if she's never done anything right. Its gotten to the point where almost everyone does it and its horrible and onesided. Looking at it objectively you see that everyone has done stuff wrong in different ways and so just singularly talking about stuff someone's done wrong will make them look like a bad person but its not them.

@Shady36

3 жыл бұрын

@@Riku-Leela Theres a saying in my country, do good 99 times out of a hundred - people will remember you for that 1 mistake.

@Riku-Leela

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shady36 very true, I do wish people would look at others more objectively though rather than just things they may have done before. Not saying all people are like that, as some have the intelligence to not pin an issue someones made to them as a person.

@Shady36

3 жыл бұрын

@@Riku-Leela Or just have a live and let live vibe.

i'm impressed with how dr K has created a youtube series that's essentially public therapy sessions with famous youtubers

@0Sicarii0

3 жыл бұрын

That's the whole concept I suppose. He wants to 'AOE'. So the whole idea behind the public sessions is so you, as viewer, can have resonance with some of the problems he talks about with famous youtubers/streamers, and as a result learn from them and apply it on your own live.

@Omnihilo

2 жыл бұрын

@@0Sicarii0 AOE?

@VIpown3d

2 жыл бұрын

@@Omnihilo Area of effect. So instead of going single target he is fixing multiple peoples fucked up childhoods while only running his jedi mind tricks on one person at a time

@Omnihilo

2 жыл бұрын

@@VIpown3d Oooh, okay. Cool, thanks for the explanation!

@VIpown3d

2 жыл бұрын

@@Omnihilo No problem mate

my dude tearing people minds apart while drinking a beer... my hero

@ripkin31

4 жыл бұрын

I wish this was reddit where I could pay to award you, jeez, agreed lol

@Buugzy

4 жыл бұрын

He is Lord

@river7591

4 жыл бұрын

@@ripkin31 just say you award this with gold and give a agold on reddit to someone random so the karma will be taken away

@MrRyonnsan

3 жыл бұрын

no need to "hold my beer"

@gumbo64

3 жыл бұрын

maybe more like reverse engineering

poki: i feel bad for kids these days dr k: yeah theyre fucked lololol had me dying bruv

@river7591

4 жыл бұрын

speaking from my point of view since i aint the oldest in the world i disagree with that Im not a merican or english so i dont know if kids there just are a bit stupid (sorry if generalyzing) but in my situation i think ill end up fine since im already learning what i want to do full time on my life

@d3ly746

3 жыл бұрын

@@river7591 if you have not experienced high school/university, you don't really have the ethos to claim that. Modern academia is a goddamn cesspool Be thankful that you don't live in US, the place where student debt torments the living hell out of students. You clearly have no idea about the hidden competition and market in University application processes. Enjoy life while you can. (And don't take IB no matter what. AP is way better adademically and for your mental health.) Your uni degree will most likely end up unless if it's IT/Business/Medical/Law related.

@al44tec

3 жыл бұрын

@@d3ly746 there are other opportunities to chase without having to start your life in a pool of debt because of uni. Either way you it is going to require effort to get there. Playing a victim isn’t going to help anyone succeed. Sure you can sit and complain about the world around you but that’s like sitting in a rocking chair. Your doing something but you are going no where. Instead of worrying about it, do something about it. Just a few thought drops. Dream large folks.

@UzairKhan-qd3xu

3 жыл бұрын

@@d3ly746 as an indian where there's a whole mafia for coaching and entrance preparation and an education system designed to create bots , i think i can relate to some degrees

@eg28

3 жыл бұрын

time stamp?

"streaming for 6-7 years" "I'm 23" She's been streaming since she was 16-17???? I have immense respect for anyone that can put themselves out there and deal with this kind of responsibility staring at that age

@starchannel123

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, it's not that young. Most people that make it big start in their mid to late teens because we live in a teen obsessed world. Some big youtubers even started at 12/13.

@anunimates_2690

2 жыл бұрын

@@meshshirtburgundypants5244 I said it was a great amount of responsibility, not necessarily that she handled it well. Like how being the leader of a country is a great responsibility, even though some people who have those positions don’t handle it very well. Poki’s past mistakes also don’t reduce my respect for her at all, everyone makes mistakes when they’re starting out in new territory, and you really can’t hold a teenager’s words against them 5 years later.

@artorhen

Жыл бұрын

@starchannel123 not all of them dealt with internet mobs tho. And a lot who did, are no longer online.

@corvacopia

14 күн бұрын

@@starchannel123I don’t know how old you are, but 16-17 is very young to be living that kind of life and having that kind of attention on tou

@meinnase

13 күн бұрын

@@corvacopia Its really not, the entertainment industry is pretty much the only career were a large % of ppl get big when theyre really young and its also the industry where you "live that kind of life and have that kind of attention on you", be that musician, athlete, actor or streamer.

35:26 Poki: i'm so worried about teens and pre-teens during this day and age. Dr. K: Yeah they're fucked... and it's gonna get worse gen z (and everyone younger): 👁👄👁

@ayp5177

3 жыл бұрын

Gen z but i agree HAHAHA

@BygoneT

3 жыл бұрын

Well, since marketing and corporations basically control adult lives and shape teen and preteen lives, he's absolutely right.

@InjusticeJosh

3 жыл бұрын

Man I’ve thought about this and for a while. I’ve thought that my parents are lucky they got to live in a time without the technology of today. It’s bad because it’s so new and huge. Like Daily Dose said we don’t know the result of growing up with so much screen time usage.

@bdmenne

2 жыл бұрын

@@BygoneT don't forget gov. and banking in that messed up soup.

@canavero4288

2 жыл бұрын

im gen z and im 20 bro, i think this only applies to younger gen z and gen alpha

God this channel is so great man. When I heard her say "people don't want to hear people like me complain" my heart broke for her...Streamers get put on this pedestal because they are playing videogames and socializing for a living, and it has to be hard to feel this sense of obligation towards feeling great and being happy 24/7. My girlfriend is a nurse and one of the things she struggles with is not ALWAYS feeling like being the "care taker" that she needs to be. Certain jobs come with certain moral and emotional obligations. I always try and remind her that her feels aren't crazy or bad feelings. They are always valid and justified.

@tbeycorgan5037

4 жыл бұрын

Timestamp?

@pandak6092

4 жыл бұрын

@@tbeycorgan5037 8:48 ish

@tbeycorgan5037

4 жыл бұрын

@@pandak6092 thx

@cutiebigbooty

4 жыл бұрын

So true. I am a nurse as well and "caregiver role strain" is a real thing for nurses. Nurses are expected to be strong for patients and family members who can't. And I guess people expect streamers to play games or be entertaining or whatever... we don't always feel like we get the opportunity to experience our own emotions. I hope your girlfriend finds the balance between caring for others and caring for herself. She seems very selfless though :)

@lyfealert8691

4 жыл бұрын

CutieBigBooty Thank you! You as well :)

this was INSANE ... I'm having almost all of the same issues ... thanks for this

@papilondon1401

4 жыл бұрын

It’s the aoe healing !!

@MrRyonnsan

3 жыл бұрын

@@papilondon1401 maybe Dr. K is Soraka main

@h_y_r_u_m

3 жыл бұрын

Cool to see you here, I love your art.

@primetimedurkheim2717

3 жыл бұрын

Almost like we're all humans?

@dwn2er061

3 жыл бұрын

I wasn’t going to watch this but this comment made me want to watch. Someone was able to relate to her and made me wonder if I can. 🙏🏼 ❤️ Thank you.

What I find heartbreaking is that children think they owe their parents anything. Yet, these children did not choose to be born. When I do something to make the lives of my children better, the thought of 'them owing me' does not ever cross my mind. I know Dr. K and Imane will never read this comment, but I think it's important for people to consider this perspective. And I hope she doesn't get mauled by the online beast. Thank you for sharing your story.

@zuzanna8335

3 жыл бұрын

thank you for being so good to your kids. you're setting a good example for them.

@qwertyuiopqwertyuiop-bb4mi

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. If anything, parents owe their children because they CHOSE to bring them to this Earth.

@haziee3108

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for having that mindset. Unfortunately most other parents just don't seem to think the same way :(

@SandLion

3 жыл бұрын

My parents literally asks me if I will take care of them once they're old. Not that I won't take care of them but dem my parents definitely think that I owe them my life.

@kaseymitsuri7

3 жыл бұрын

If I ever become a mum, I want to have your mentality. I feel like that. It's no burden of course, to want to take care of my parents, but there are times when it's limiting, and it can be quite heavy. My dad is very old school, and he sees wrong that daughters-sons go out of their home at 18 to live on their own (I'm from Mexico, so it's not as usual over here). He wants them to take care of their elderly parents. My mum is more liberal. I'm confused, but will take flight, and hope to make a better income to help them financially... But it's so confusing.

everybody asks who is dr k, but nobody asks how is dr k

@thehoovynator5642

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@Bossallama

3 жыл бұрын

I'll do you one better: Why is Dr. K?

@alliewest46

3 жыл бұрын

Woah

@alliewest46

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bossallama holy shit ur a genius

@hj2479

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bossallama Ok but this one doesn't really work, Dr. K isn't the hero we deserve but he is the hero twitch needs.

Ever since I saw that etika video of him walking down a street, talking about everything, I have started to be hyper aware of the fact that anyone, literally anyone can be going through so much, and you wouldn't even know it. So please if you're reading this make sure to check up on people, no matter who they are. It could save their life

@cartmansnipples

4 жыл бұрын

Seriously. That damn video broke my heart dude. Even before the news broke. Can’t blame the people that saw him that day for not knowing his situation or trying to help him, but I do think about the fact that if even one person had given him a hug that walk he might still be here fighting his way through it. Really miss seeing him hyped and smiling and just being a genuinely good person. RIP man.

@mr.piebro9010

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I would've never guessed that Etika, one of the most charismatic and energetic content creators, would have ended his life. Seeing that happen has made me so much more aware of how important mental health is. RIP Desmond #JOYCONBOYZ

@nullx2368

4 жыл бұрын

As I read this all I could think of..... maybe if etika was still alive this man could have helped him. I'm thankful he's here now so at least people don't have to end up like etika and have another chance before it's too late. Such a sad thought but happy and hopeful for some futures that are still lost out there.

@martinvadakara7759

4 жыл бұрын

Its fucks me a lot that he's gone because at one point I was getting out of a depressive way of thinking through Etika when he was himself.

@papichulo4171

4 жыл бұрын

@Elijah Dunay Shit this actually hits different. I remember getting the notification of that video and after watching it I knew something would happen. A few days passed and I saw that he had killed himself, that really fucked me up for a while, but it also got me aware of myself and others around me. I remembered being in school waiting for Etika's next smash bros reaction, knowing he was gone, shit I can’t describe the feeling. I somewhat saw myself in that Etika video, it felt like a mirror, but it also felt like a magnifying glass. I realized how fragile and important life is, but also how much suffering it entails, this was the same with everyone. I realized everyone has problems. Although I was trying to better myself after this, I never felt the same after my realizations from that video. This current pandemic has basically fucked up my life in some aspects, I know this goes the same for nearly everyone right now, but it’s given me some time to introspect also, a true dilemma. I still can’t fully process that Etika's gone sometimes, it sucks.

I wasn't expecting crying 3 minutes in I love how deep this gets especially with the whole facade people put on to be an entertaining streamer as a career

@ken-yo2hz

4 жыл бұрын

idk why you care so much about rich streamers who are living well

@pretsoulz

4 жыл бұрын

@@ken-yo2hz being rich doesn't make you happy, it just makes you have one less stress

@ken-yo2hz

4 жыл бұрын

@@pretsoulz lol my point still stands?

@evanr5871

4 жыл бұрын

Kakugen nobody gives a fuck

@JJroks543

4 жыл бұрын

Kakugen am I not allowed to care about the well being of other people just because they’re rich? It’s like saying I shouldn’t feel bad for Kobe Bryant’s family after he died because they’re rich and will never have to work another day in their lives.

poor Iman, I really felt that when she almost immediately started crying not being able to even explain why, that’s such a overwhelming feeling

She broke the record. Crying within 4 minutes. Dr K is legendary

@andrewbartleman9169

4 жыл бұрын

Then kaceytron broke that

@workeveryday8737

4 жыл бұрын

Like wtf she just started cryig. Lol wut?

@wsnols

3 жыл бұрын

3 minutes in she’s already crying 😭

@AntiCx_edits

3 жыл бұрын

Most Indians are legendary you guys underestimate us a lot :D this guys is like a really good example of good guys around India and what kinda understanding they have about life

@marishkaaable

3 жыл бұрын

She said she'd been crying a lot regardless of the session with Dr. K

And all of a sudden I’m in a never ending spiral of streamers’ full interviews that take up my entire day. Honestly, I don’t mind

@catsnamedfanta

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you are feeling okay

@_mayankr

4 жыл бұрын

@@catsnamedfanta Same! I mind though, because that is keeping me distracted from doing the my work job. But that's on me, and if I wasn't watching this, I would probably find something else to distract me away from the work.

@Viktor-gt4dx

2 жыл бұрын

Bro same

@bkh1324

2 жыл бұрын

@@_mayankr mabey you should think about changing jobs so you don't feel the need for distraction. I know circumstances and responsibilities but it's possible and you can do it!

@Bassynater2500

2 жыл бұрын

These have been the interviews and conversations I’ve wanted to hear. Emotionally driven and powerful breakthrough speeches. I spend my time listening while doing paperwork and stuff it’s so comforting and puts me in such an open and receptive mood to speaking to others throughout the day!

Man to think that Poki has been concerned about how people perceive her from out of context things has been a large part of her worries. Idk I think that the "Fed leaks" seem even more manipulative on his end as he would know how much that would hurt her. I honestly feel so bad for her.

@craig7405

3 жыл бұрын

fed couldn't have gained anything from those tweets. it's pretty clear that he was the one who got lead on and manipulated, but he also included out of context stuff. i don't like either of them

@michaeel4701

3 жыл бұрын

​@@craig7405​Aspecially that he knew it is going to get shut down like a week from leaking those files, yes. The thing is he had published a lot of private messages. How "cringy" they are is irrelevant, they are still private. He leaked those documents knowing fully well that the internet won't stay on his side for long. He did it because not only will those messages be visible, but also pokimane and her team would need to publish more of messages from their conversation to provide context :/ ,which is a complete loss of privacy. If my messages got leaked somehow to my friends, i wouldnt care much, but if i had huge public like she has i would care about it much more. Im not saying she is an angel or sth but saying she manipulated him is a bit of an exaggeration. She made mistakes handling their break up, but who didnt. The problem stands, that these incredibily private stuff that can be resolved privatly, got LeAkEd.

@craig7405

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaeel4701 they were never dating, according to her. fed thought they were, which is a direct example of being led on and manipulation.

@michaeel4701

3 жыл бұрын

@@craig7405 I wouldn't say it's direct, theres more into it. He wanted to take another step in their relationship, and she wanted to just stay friends. Their trip to (I dont remember where), can be interpreted as romantic (his point of view) as well as friendly (as she saw it). There is also a possibility that she changed her mind half way through, then the feds point of view would be very accurate. Again, it's not about what mistakes they may or may not have made or how indecisive she was, rather its about whether she manipulated him on purpose. And i dont think she did, i dont think she is as cruel as you think she is.

@craig7405

3 жыл бұрын

@@michaeel4701 and from the texts you can see that after she said that she continued to lead him on. she's not a sociopath, but she's not exactly a good samaritan

6:23 she really said "actually, can u think for another second?" 😂😂😂😂😂

@cleverman383

Жыл бұрын

omega poggers

I think Fed could benefit a lot from being on here with Dr. K Edit - Please stop replying this was two months ago, nothing had come out when I first made this comment.

@Dextline

4 жыл бұрын

Think he'd be pretty open about his problems considering how open and honest he is, and how much he overshares generally. I'd watch it.

@lukeemanuels1691

4 жыл бұрын

ALOT actually.I dont watch Fed like that so i kinda noticed he looks...sad in the emotional way

@shaynguyen836

4 жыл бұрын

@@lukeemanuels1691 he has been looking sad lately probs because of the whole Yuna and Jade and community so it would be nice if he talked with Dr K

@sinisterlemon

4 жыл бұрын

Tbh, I think a great candidate aside from Fed would be Xell...now that guy I feel has a lot of internal issues/struggles.

@MingRiYue

4 жыл бұрын

Fed said on stream that he wasn’t ready to talk with Dr. K yet

As a gamer and an aspiring psychologist this is essentially a marriage of the things I love. Dr K is the type of guy I wanna be

@cristhianc5580

4 жыл бұрын

Same bro

@TheRilai

4 жыл бұрын

good way to help ppl

@Darktalon0

4 жыл бұрын

Follow your passions

@Islamivan

4 жыл бұрын

Be yourself by yourself

@interycreeper1152

4 жыл бұрын

same

At 1:15 :44 when he starts to tear up at the thought of his daughter being helpless over noodles. Thats what needs to be focused on. Parents are hurt more by being left out than being told the truth because they know when we are hurting but until we tell them what the issue is they don't know how to help and it tears them apart. I love this video so much!

poki is such a bubbly happy personality and it was really refreshing to see this side of her. it kind of made me remember we are all humans and all dealing with similar things. also alot of the stuff her and dr k talked about was really helpful to me, i always feel like im lost, dont know who i am and cant feel emotions how i should and it was nice to hear "just exist, fuck all the other stuff". alot of great stuff here. thanks for being so open and genuine poki, and dr. k thank you for always sharing this stuff. been a rough long day and been watching dr. k all day and its really helped recenter me.

I feel poki, i finally found therapy , i said hello and bursted into tears. There's much deep down in all of us.

@amandaperez4574

3 жыл бұрын

i agree. my first therapist session, i couldnt get much out because the second she asked me a question i broke down into tears

@FlyhighLife

3 жыл бұрын

@@amandaperez4574 i hope you are doing well :3

@Akash-gn5zn

3 жыл бұрын

Omfg if someone starts sccusing this dude saying simp, i will fuck em up

@amandaperez4574

3 жыл бұрын

@@FlyhighLife thank you i am, i hope you too :]

It is weird how much these kinds of therapy interviews humanize streamers. It makes me realize how much on the surface we judge them and how wrong this is. This young women (I didn't even know she was this young) has to live in a world where almost every decision she makes is scrutinized and judged from a very young and I don't think it's fair. None of us are built by default to handle such things so early on. I will be sure to apply a lot more compassion when discussing/thinking about internet personalities. Thanks for the stream!

@slals

4 жыл бұрын

She probably does not humanize the people who make her earn money, so in return she wont be humanized. You have the public you deserve. Obviously she has interpersonal problems, but let's be real for a second : who does not?

@BlazerBoy1337

4 жыл бұрын

@@slals What you say may be true. But at the same time that doesn't mean that we have to judge her as a robot with bad programming. Just because she may be numb and acting that way it doesn't mean that we have to do it as well. Of course, at the same time, we don't owe her money or attention either. It was more of a thought experiment.

@slals

4 жыл бұрын

@@BlazerBoy1337 I never say that I judge her as a robot. My point is that we are animals with social instinct that makes human interaction (group interaction) the way it is, independantly of how you think and you behave on a personal level. On the other hand, Pokimane have a complete control on how she depicts herself, thus how people will think about her, and she is intelligent enough to know that.

@BlazerBoy1337

4 жыл бұрын

@@slals I disagree in the sense that you allocate her full control in herself. In the same sense that we are animals and don't have full control of our behavior so does she. I think this is a mistake we do when looking at streamers (or personalities in general), we think that everything they do is calculated and planed. But, as it is a livestream, we will surely see unfiltered reactions and actions. To put it in another way, if you were in her place how would you react to all the feedback she has gotten? Be it positive or negative.

@slals

4 жыл бұрын

@@BlazerBoy1337 I talked about social instinct, not indivual behavior. Not everything is calculated, but a lot of thing, that starts by the background of their cam. A streamer very rarely become popular because of hasardous things.

As father of 3 Daughters I do my best to let them know that as long as they do what makes them happy in life I will proud of them. I don't care if they are rich or poor, CEO's or barn keepers, all professions are admirable, as long as what they are doing is what they truly want to be doing. I don't want them to feel like they need to do anything specific to make me happy, just be themselves and be happy with their choices. I will always be here for them and forever proud of them. I hope that I give them the tools they need to succeed in life not just some given career. Dr. K you are doing fantastic work and thanks to all the people who have come on and spoken to you so openly that takes real courage.

@TwintailsVtuber

Ай бұрын

OF?

@phoenixj1299

Ай бұрын

This is exactly why western society is going down the drain.

When you became Poki, Imane got left behind - I felt this.

@snooks5607

3 жыл бұрын

he might've leaned on that a bit much given "shoulds" likely started in childhood and there was no poki until later but it's a convenient placeholder

A side note I thought about, in the disabled community there’s a lot of “your symptoms aren’t as bad as mine so you don’t get to be upset about your pain if it’s not as bad as mine” and I don’t get it, we’re all suffering with symptoms and people even without a disability are allowed to be sad about pain they’re experiencing because that’s their pain, not ours. I just had to get that off my chest sorry.

@wichitawwojak3786

3 жыл бұрын

I think the main takeaway from all these interviews is that you don't have to be sorry, it's cool, there's nothing wrong with just dumping thoughts in comments sections.

@sachikawaii

3 жыл бұрын

Justin B yeah it’s different pain but it’s still pain. I dislocate my joints daily and feel like shit all the time. It’s not okay for me to go out and tell people with joint pain that they’re not allowed to feel that pain or talk about it because it’s not as bad as mine. It’s still pain, all pain is pain and no ones allowed to tell people they’re wrong and aren’t allowed to feel their pain. I wouldn’t go to a person with my condition who suffers from heart problems and a punctured lung and start telling them how to get better coz I have no idea. My pain isn’t the same as theirs but both of our pain exists.

@sachikawaii

3 жыл бұрын

@jorge guzman but pain is pain. Just because I have a much higher pain tolerance in order to function as a human doesnt mean everyone with less pain than me dont matter. Also money doesnt equal happiness, you can actually be rich and horribly depressed. And that's allowed and valid.

@sachikawaii

3 жыл бұрын

Justin B well I mean it’s hard to differentiate with that, like I look completely normal, I’m not in a wheelchair, I can walk into a shop and back out but sometimes I get pass out spells or horrific vertigo or my legs just stop being legs so I use a disabled spot because of that risk. If there was a choice between me and a wheelchair user then 100% I can walk from the spot that’s slightly further away. Noone should diminish others pain because we don’t know what others are truly going through and feeling. I can semi comfortably push myself to walk to the village shops and it looks relatively effortless but when I get home, I’m almost paralysed for a bottle of milk.

@sachikawaii

3 жыл бұрын

Justin B no i totally agree on that front, I just don’t like when people feel superiority for feeling more pain than others and telling people with less pain to shut up about it. Also if people are dicks and wanna use depression/disability as a get out of jail free card they can eat my ass tbh I don’t care about those people. Pissed me off when Harvey Weinstein was suddenly disabled at his trial.

"So what's wrong with crying?" - How did this hit so hard? Dr. K has speechcrafting maxed out I swear.

@andrewwong2399

4 жыл бұрын

ikr? he asks the most existential question ever without even trying

@danieldosso2455

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, socially it's understood that crying is a sign of weakness. Pokimane in the public eye probably wants to hold are her emotions in all the time. Being a fairly physically attractive female based on western standards, she probably gets plenty of creepy guys messaging her and she probably feels she has to hold that in too.

@Proger-sj8cj

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Dosso Society itself is weak asf how Tf are they going to see crying as weak lol

@hayman122

4 жыл бұрын

I haven’t cried in 4yrs I’m 22today didint celebrate cause of covid and weak family connection

@figloalds

4 жыл бұрын

@@danieldosso2455 no public figure can be 100% spontaneous, women even less so. Maybe the only spontaneous public person that can exist while being a woman is Lady Gaga

Dr. K is so damn good at his job, every question he asks is so direct and just directly tackles the problems his patients are experiencing

dr. k: "you don't need to do anything.... because you are perfect" me: *uncontrollably sobbing*

"My dad passed away a couple of years ago. It's all good. I'm cool with it. He's cool with it. "

@gaussminigun

3 жыл бұрын

jesus

@seapinecone2869

3 жыл бұрын

@Nikx24 41:09

@ThetrueAddic

3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment lol

@pastarrozz

3 жыл бұрын

@Nikx24 41:09 edit:oh crap sorry I didn’t see someone else already comment the time stamp 😅

@adjasontspace1037

3 жыл бұрын

I felt that kinda response to I'm sorry so much

I think that's the fastest "can I think for a sec" we had. This one's going to be hard to beat :D

@christhebritt2231

4 жыл бұрын

Wtf is this on a public stream? It's private counselling

@DaneAraux

4 жыл бұрын

CJ Cowabunga Yes it is on a public stream.

@austin5977

4 жыл бұрын

@@christhebritt2231 it isn't counseling because it's public, it's just talking

@lunaerislunaeris795

4 жыл бұрын

@@christhebritt2231 why are you watching then?

@brandonpersaud5634

4 жыл бұрын

@@christhebritt2231 why are you here then, also if you actually watch it at one point he say that we should talk more about this later in private

Poki really killed this interview, straight up realism, lots to learn here. Which is hard to expect from such a famous streamer.

@20yrs_oldBlackGuy

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@user-ti7me6yv7w

Жыл бұрын

Bruh, no giving A plus(probably should be she processing it😂)

This is one of the best conversations I've ever listened to. I learned so much about myself and a lot of lessons 🥺

When she started crying after saying hello.. I felt that

@alexmeyer8133

4 жыл бұрын

When you said "I felt that", I felt that 🤧😩

@umangbhalla

4 жыл бұрын

@@alexmeyer8133 When you said " When you said ' I felt that' ,I felt that🤧😩 " , I felt that 🤧😩

@toushiri9476

4 жыл бұрын

@@umangbhalla I can relate too *crying face*

@Mobofddd

4 жыл бұрын

umang bhalla when you said "when you said 'when you said i felt that' i felt that🤧😫' i felt that" i felt that 🤧😫

@stevenmcqueen7433

4 жыл бұрын

@@umangbhalla When you said "When you said 'When you said "I felt that", I felt that🤧😩', I felt that 🤧😩", I felt that 🤧😩

i didnt realize she was only 23. i think she'll be fine. she's intelligent and introspective enough.

@kiyat040

4 жыл бұрын

Simp

@honest_bishop5905

4 жыл бұрын

Hi. I like your video. Are you still an sjw?

@justjuniorjaw

4 жыл бұрын

Intelligence can also be their own downfall if they don't keep their thoughts in check.

@craigwatchesyoutube401

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff K. Simp

@kingdrift1136

4 жыл бұрын

Jeff K. Simp

I haven’t even watched 5 minutes of this and I think this girl has really needed this for a long time. I sincerely hope this helps her a lot. I’ll be honest, There’s been a lot of things that have bugged me about Pokimane over the years knowing about her but, I have to remind myself this is somebody who’s been put in front of a world wide audience since a young age, she’s going to have issues I don’t fully understand and I just hope this helps a lot. We all have problems, I have plenty myself. There was a time about 6 years ago I got upset at every streamer/KZreadr that felt fell in the “fake” category and didn’t treat humans like humans with souls all the time (not saying poki is not human etc. please, try to read between the lines here) I would say things that were too judgmental which is not helping at all and making the problem humanity is facing worst. That problem being too connected too easily without REAL connection to one another. I have learnt and grown from this since then. Don’t spread hate, fellow people. Spread love

Dr.k i really really trully am thankfull that your channel exist, its really helped me undertsand alot of my own "tangles" and start to accept and heal from it.

I really enjoy it when Dr.K talks about his kids because I never get to hear my dads perspective on what it was like raising kids or what his feelings were towards me and my sister. Thanks Dr.K

@saraqostahterra4548

4 жыл бұрын

Same :(

@bruh5601

4 жыл бұрын

You never know you've fucked up your kids until they're grown up and that's scary

@IIIIllllllllIIIIIllll

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@essayedgar

4 жыл бұрын

@Jeff B some people don't have that kind of relationship with their parents, or the parents just don't like to talk about stuff like that..

@GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse

4 жыл бұрын

Dude I tried game ending last year and the only person that knows about it is my cousin. I don't know but the gap between me and my parents is too big to break my mental issues to them.

43:06 I feel like pokimane hit the nail on the head with the line about "numbers don't stop, there is no 'you've done enough'", resonated with me a lot

@haitharu

3 жыл бұрын

i mean im not in that situation so no idea but why not just set some goals? after hitting them you can worry about keeping those numbers while trying to do things that make you feel better. ie maybe less streaming, or streaming less popular things etc no need to aim for the moon after all esp if youre unhappy

@Tekiruru

2 жыл бұрын

@@haitharu after hitting the big numbers there's always gotta be someone better than you. Even if you really become the best of the bests(personally for me) your parents will never acknowledge you

@spacebunsarah

2 жыл бұрын

@@haitharu yeah seriously, once my family is all set up I won’t give a fuck about money or success. grinding just to grind is a great way to end up crying after 4 minutes of talking to someone who remotely gives a shit.

you provide such an empathetic space in the internet that felt like it was lost, thank you so much.

Guys I’m watching this on Christmas and I just love this wholesomeness and the growth and authenticity and messiness. UGH. Absolutely freaking love this :)))))))❤❤❤

I got a second hand therapy session from this

@joshuag506

4 жыл бұрын

plasma jumbo it’s part of the AOE healing bro!

@miyalys

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-lp8ur5qn3o Area of Effect. :)

@chalice6109

3 жыл бұрын

i got HAND therapy if you know what i mean

@ErazerPhazer

3 жыл бұрын

I really thought this was a double entendre but I think I'm just tired

@RaaynML

3 жыл бұрын

AOE healing is a great thing but also understand that your max health will likely not change without a first hand assist

I just spent three hours watching people talk and I feel like I spent ten years learning about humanity. What the hell.

@mark.k164

4 жыл бұрын

Yep

@hopefulbloom

4 жыл бұрын

But that's a good thing right?..

@yourfavoritespartan8841

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, sadly this is a rare occurence here in america. We are the most individualistic country on this planet. In other points the world, and central U.S.A. this is a common occurance, to actually sit down and care about another person's thoughts

@dragonplayz6606

3 жыл бұрын

YourFavoriteSpartan idk about the most individualistic country in the planet, Japan is up there but then again you guys are made to think you are somehow special compared to the world and always number 1, let’s hope China beats that

@sheuphorica7417

3 жыл бұрын

@@hopefulbloom what if it wasn't? ;)

I just discovered Dr. K a few days ago, and I've been slowly watching through a few of his videos. And I want to say 2 things (both of which have surely been said a lot in the comments) 1: This is such a great thing that you are doing Dr. K. Spreading this positivity and mental health awareness is so important. I'm sure these videos will be a huge help for so many people. 2: These streamers are incredibly brave for putting themselves out there like this. Streaming is already such an intrusive media, but to allow yourself to show your emotions, and have these deeply personal conversations in such a public way is, at least in my opinion, just as important as what Dr. K is doing. So thank you both (as well as all of the other streamers that have participated) for putting yourselves out there for such a noble cause.

Thanks Dr. K and Emon for this. Having the possibility to see two people truly connecting and opening up It's a gift and example for me

She said she feels guilty for playing video games for 12 hours for no reason. Just hit 10,000 Unemployed hours on dota 2 and feel like a GOD.

@holczy0

3 жыл бұрын

What is a Dota

@holczy0

3 жыл бұрын

@Agyfasz-Huszár szia

@danendraaryadewa5455

3 жыл бұрын

Is that supposed to be a good thing lmao

@pmp7251

3 жыл бұрын

yikes

@evolveaxsym9422

3 жыл бұрын

That's rookie numbers....sadly :(

This man is doing god's work... This streamers spend their lives in front of a pc screen and put their lives out for people to jugde and critize them. I'm not able to imagine the amount of mental weight they hold. Yes they have the money to go to therapy, but this man is making possible that everyone of us to see thing clear about mental health and how everybody has issues beyond what's happening on screen and HOPEFULLY the community will improve to a healthy point.

@Proximity94

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah, their life is sooo difficult XD Poor streamers and their burdensome job.

@kilsw1tch

4 жыл бұрын

dude u should have seen the AMA part doc's helping to pay a random discord member's college fees(for 1st year tho) and that shows how much he cares and is dedicated to help us gamers

@NoxyYT

4 жыл бұрын

To be honest it would be nice if he had talks with smaller streamers that cannot afford therapy. Only top 1% of streamers makes money, others actually lose money streaming (living costs, equipment etc). Still gr8 job.

@jaydenong5503

4 жыл бұрын

@@Proximity94 dude stfu

@Proximity94

4 жыл бұрын

@@jaydenong5503 Truth hurts, I see.

I have been catching more and more of these interviews while I do my homework for college, and I am beginning to really appreciate your approach. You have a gift Dr. K.

These are so valuable, thanks for sharing the talks with others!

Poki sounds like someone who gave too many pieces of herself away and forgot what she wanted and who she was deep down. I really relate to this and I cry about it too.

@wesleywallace4426

Жыл бұрын

I don't think she gave away pieces of herself. She neglected herself, tried to use adulation to compensate for the lack of self-love, and stretched herself too thin. Making sacrifices is a part of being responsible, but she then proceeded to punish herself for not being happy to be making those sacrifices.

"People don't want to hear someone like me complain". I'm a 'nobody', but seeing a 'somebody' feel the same doubts and feelings, have human problems, feel restless, in need of change, reenforces that no matter what I DO end up achieving, or what relative level of accompishment I get to in life, happiness is not found in the result. It's found in the journeys we go on, the interactions we have, and the challenges we face, overcome, or lose to, and our mental approach to those. Thanks Poki and Dr. K, again.

Gosh, I didn't expect this to hit me so hard. I certainly did not expect to cry at the very least. Man that was intense

god the way she immediately started crying is so relatable. it made me tear up too. literally exactly what I would do in this situation.

I think channel is really important to have. Everyone should sub to this guy

@jackflexington4706

4 жыл бұрын

hit him with my twitch prime yesterday, dude had me crying and wasnt even talking to me.

@siegpasta

4 жыл бұрын

@@jackflexington4706 wat made yo cry?

@jackflexington4706

4 жыл бұрын

@@siegpasta When he was drunk crying yesterday talking to that kid about his life. First time I ever found him streaming except for when kitboga hosted him.

@siegpasta

4 жыл бұрын

​@@jackflexington4706 I left mid-poki-interview caus bored init, so I fukin missed it. What a fanny on, fuck me likee.

@klunkerlama

4 жыл бұрын

@@jackflexington4706 I feel truly blessed to find this guy. I had the same reaction the first "season" I saw of him and sky. It is wonderful what he does. I will check out the drunken stream later today, put it off but sounds funny af.

this comment said something sincere about Etika but I accidentally changed it, rip.

@adc4836

4 жыл бұрын

purad for real, at least he gets to make a difference for others today

@IIBraderz

4 жыл бұрын

@@adc4836 that's a positive

@emilheroyt

4 жыл бұрын

yeah for real

@MrLeanscott

4 жыл бұрын

Damnnnn

@zimmiz17

4 жыл бұрын

yes. instead, we got that trash keemstar to talk to him before the tragedy happened

I felt this and also cried and this man is absolute angel to poki that can help her in her sad time of her life this guy is awesome 👍

Very relatable, thank you both for allowing this interview to happen.

I can tell from miles that she needs a break from twitch as a job.

@payamux8933

4 жыл бұрын

Damn these twitch streamers have it really hard sitting all day reacting to videos while receiving millions of dollars.

@reaperm666

4 жыл бұрын

@@payamux8933 Being succsesful and rich doesn't make you immune to mental illness, and it doesn't mean you have the right to dehumaise them either.

@utvoltz1728

4 жыл бұрын

@@payamux8933 the money and comfort is the good aspect of being a streamer and most of the time it's the only aspect people take into account when they visualise one. The reality of having to bring the highest energy/most entertaining version of yourself to sometimes thousands of viewers on a daily basis is not healthy for your mental state

@minecraftermad

4 жыл бұрын

@@payamux8933 you came in the wrong house fool

@KanohiVahi

4 жыл бұрын

@@payamux8933 Question: What brought you to this channel? For someone watching a mental health focused channel you are really oblivious to it. Makes me hard to think that you would be a regular here.

Man this is not a thing 23yo should be able to manage at all

@Hellbryan1

4 жыл бұрын

Poor queen she is suffering a lot :( :( :(

@JuicyTobacco

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hellbryan1 Cringe

@Hellbryan1

4 жыл бұрын

@@JuicyTobacco Simp

@pierreaoun9600

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hellbryan1 how tf is he the simp lmfao

@tpl1339

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hellbryan1 tf r u on

This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much to both of them. The meditation in the end was a great way to end the stream.

This was really interesting to listen to. I was surprised at how much I could relate even as someone with a whole set of different circumstances, background etc. It was really brave to open up with these feelings for 3 hours in front of countless people watching.

When she said she felt the need to make her parents proud for what they did for her, I started crying so bad... Its so powerful how someone can express vulnerability on a subject that is very close to you and then, suddenly, you're there, you feel like you're the one being listened to by Dr. K...

i feel like shes been living in this weird bubble and nobody actually treats her like a real person, the fact that people spamming QUEEN in chat before she even arrives is kind of a red flag, and that this has been going on since she was a teen is just kind of disturbing

@andrewwong2399

4 жыл бұрын

yeah its golden hand cuffs. sometimes u want it all to stop but you just cant

@jondrew9086

4 жыл бұрын

1) its twitch chat 2) people say that her fan base refer to her as a queen so it has became a meme. but i do agree that people or the viewers don't treat her nicely. But i do think now it is a lot better since she is in a streamer house (offline tv) and everyone there treats each other like family. we already had lilypichu go on so i do think that helped poki go on stream as well.

@filipjecz

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sc4recrow44 Are you saying that she's to blame when others start to idolize her and put her on some sort of pedestal?

@pate7179

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sc4recrow44 exactly, iwonder if many celebrities or twitch streamers experience similar

@filipjecz

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sc4recrow44 Truth. But I would debate about her obviously playing into it. While obviously there are people who would accept finding themselves in this situation with open arms, she might've not even noticed (or in a worse case scenario went in knowing what it would bring) the repercussions of being put on a pedestal by others. But I guess that is something that ultimately she knows.

*The HATE has gotten to her guys..* *Dr. K's first question: How are you feeling?* *Poki - starts crying...*

@Riku-Leela

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I really hope that she's feeling better within herself now.

@mery9127

3 жыл бұрын

@@Riku-Leela yea same

@raidersgo94

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly and that says a lot

@rexonthedestroyer9708

3 жыл бұрын

I am an asshole. High-five mate!

Only issue I had with this interview are the assumptions he makes about her parents and how they'd receive what she has to say. Most emotionally neglectful parents don't just sit with or let in meaningful dialogue, they push it away. Imone could go to her parents with an open heart and be met with spears. I hate it when therapists do this, just because they're parents they think all parents are healthy enough like they are. Some parents are abusive or just darn right neglectful. I came to my mother like this, being real and that's exactly what happened to me. I not only got coldness but I got attacked for telling her how I felt even though I did it calmly, positively and contrustively. Sometimes you can't go to your parents and that loss is another thing you have to mourn

@joke0291

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you. I think that's something someone should pick up, when a person speaks on feeling truly alone in the world. Instinctively, you would lean on and speak with someone close to you. They would always be there for you right? Especially because she felt indebted to them, so it did come off as a solid relationship because she didn't go too deep into it. However, it's hard to say otherwise since Pokimane herself didn't go deep into her relationship with her parents. Since she hadn't had said anything, and because again, its in the public eye, she may have not felt comfortable going deeper and deeper about this relationship. Because she didn't say anything, i felt the way he approached her relationship with her parents with respect and delicacy is wise. If he had assumed otherwise, as if her parents are emotionally neglectful, it would've came off as a negative assumption as well. I think the way he approached it is wise because it respects boundaries, and diving deeper into her personal relationships with her parents, and speaking on potential issues infront of the world obviously isn't ideal, nor is it comfortable for anyone.

@embrace7052

2 жыл бұрын

He is a psychiatrist and he has met a lot of ppl and talked with a lot of ppl with neglectful parents, has studied psychiatry so i am sure he knows what he is talking abt. Your opinion is not wrong tho because this is what you have experienced and thats valid but you need to understand that this person knows what he is talking abt so it may not work for you but how do you know it won't work for everyone? Or what do you or we know abt her parents?

@IOTewks

2 жыл бұрын

Legit, some parents are impossible cases. I find it essential to never assume humanity on the part of people's parents, sad as that is.

@Omnihilo

2 жыл бұрын

@@IOTewks You seem like a good person.

When she started talking about her parents and how hard they worked to immigrate to provide them everything they didn’t have hit me so hard. Because I felt the same way, I felt like I had to be perfect. Perfect in the sense of Good grades, no drugs, no alcohol, no parties, no boyfriends, nothing that can endanger my future that they carefully prepared for me. I literally went to uni just because I thought it would make them proud...I’m graduating this fall with a bachelors of science and I’m just like...did I want this? Have I succeeded? Did I make them proud?

@fanglez9294

4 жыл бұрын

gigi ! Dam yea shits crazy... I feel this often too but I’m still in uni

@SHARKBAITM8

4 жыл бұрын

If your first thought is how happy someone else would be for your accomplishment, this will be something you struggle with... You need to make yourself proud, find your “dharma” and feel satisfied with your life (not serve someone else’s desires)

@veigar9347

4 жыл бұрын

Lol better than me, I forced myself through engineering even though I’m terrible at and hate math and physics and ended up failing and dropping out in my final year and attempted suicide. Better place rn and realised my parents just want me to be happy, but in training for a job better suited for me that I hope I can make money to support them.

@Daedalus33

4 жыл бұрын

I have a very similar experience. Instead of doing instrumental performance as amy major i did engineering because i didn’t want all of my parent’s efforts to go to waste because i chose to be happy, rather than choosing what made most practical sense.

@lonelystoic69

4 жыл бұрын

Our generation is literally having to relearn how to accept ourselves and be adults because of the immense pressure from our parents and its so shitty. Also fuck dads cuz idk what its like to have one.

When he told Poki "You're not alone, I'm with you, at least for a little while", idk why but I suddenly started tearing up as well. The power of those words is not to be underestimated

This feels really powerful to see someone open up like this, thank you 😊❤💙

40 min and i really appreciate this interview! props to her for being willing to be vulnerable on such a big way, that is extremely brave and courageous! 🙏🏽♥️ wish you the best in figuring out your path!

To the people in the comments calling others a simp for empathizing with her, I just wanna say, that I’m hope you can get better in the future. I know that there is probably something going on in your life that is making you lash out at others. I hope that one day you gain empathy for others.

@Dramaticdodo

4 жыл бұрын

Tyler Fulton Simp 😂

@bigchungus8436

4 жыл бұрын

Simp I'm saying simp as a joke, I generally feel bad for her a lot of times, cause I can understand how she feels

@Enourmousletters

4 жыл бұрын

Simp But seriously, very true man, quality comment.

@await2487

4 жыл бұрын

theyre joking usually

@Enourmousletters

4 жыл бұрын

@@itsaident Probably depends on what kind of person Tyler is. It is possible to feel both things at once though. You can be angry and resentful of someone, while also hoping that their life becomes better and them a better person.

The more I think about it, the more it makes sense. All people ever see is Pokimane the ruthless business woman, Pokimane the queen, Pokimane the most successful female streamer. Her fans and haters alike only see what's in front of them. As a person, Imane doesn't feel like she has a right to complain or feel down because she has all these things. Which just goes back to the point that no matter how much money and fame you have it doesn't necessarily mean you'll suddenly gain eternal happiness.

@GMOTP5738

4 жыл бұрын

200 iq 🤣👌

@SoddingSuperHero

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t think finding happiness in a life a destination, it’s more of a journey. Imane seem to be detached from reality until Dr K hit the right spots

@HordePlayerMostly

4 жыл бұрын

Sure, money isn't a guaranteed happiness. But it's hard to feel bad for her when she brings it on herself. She can't take criticism, and got a smaller channel to lose a big sponsor, thus affecting his income (bet you don't care how that made him feel right, since he's a dude.) Plus she kinda sells out by filming in a way everyone can see her in tight yoga pants.

@morroc6846

4 жыл бұрын

@@HordePlayerMostly you really care about her lmao

@HordePlayerMostly

4 жыл бұрын

@@morroc6846😂 not really. That's information you can get from 1 video.

watching this in July 2021 and I cannot stop crying. I somehow relate a lot to how Poki feels even if my life is completely different from hers.

@no-one.in.particular

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you're ok 💜

@Paula-tq8sj

2 жыл бұрын

@@no-one.in.particular💜

@valoropedia2844

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh

Watching this now after the drama with Jidion and Ninja, she does make it clear around the 2 hour mark that she does not like outing people for harassing her or bullying her publicly, so kudos to her for opening up on stream yesterday and empowering herself and standing up for herself. She has definitely grown as a person in that regard; she understands her own worth not only as a streamer but as a person representing a community.

This is so powerful. I think Imane is such a smart and strong person but she's also so young. I never realized she was only 23. I can't believe she still has so much place to grow! I'm happy to say, and I say this confidently, that you will grow so much more. This is only the beginning Imane. You got this. Much love.

@chileanzat6731

4 жыл бұрын

seriously, she's my same age and I feel like I amount nothing to what she's done in life, and in the same way I can't even begin to imagine how much pressure she feels from the work enviroment she works in

@AlexanderMartinez-kd7cz

4 жыл бұрын

@tim conway your abuse of LOL is cringe beyond my capacity to write

@FouadShawly

4 жыл бұрын

@tim conway piss off you attention seeker, no one responded to your first comment so you have to reply again so that people give you the attention that you seek

@Proger-sj8cj

4 жыл бұрын

I3INARY_ Make up is the only answer

@rayyankhan1106

4 жыл бұрын

@I3INARY_ ok

I had some weird blame/anger towards Pokimane even though I don't watch her and I conciously understood that it's not her fault - because of a lot of the toxic/simp people who were always the ones to bring her name up everywhere, just acting beyond annoying. It got tiring to go around twitch and constantly hear people who either hate her for dumb reasons, oversexualise her, or hype up some dumb clips. I'm really grateful for this 3h talk because it actually let me learn who she is a person, out of the context of the bad part of her community, and now I can appreciate her, genuinely hope she gets to achieve peace and find true friendships in the business, as well just not get frustrated next time I see someone in chat being nasty about her name.

@traze2963

4 жыл бұрын

Lixy Fox she’s not actually that annoying it’s just always been a thing to hate her

@LixyFox

4 жыл бұрын

@@traze2963 I don't think she's annoying, just that seeing a lot of weird and nasty comments all over twitch about her got annoying to me and it made it so I couldn't help but associate it with her stream/to an extent her. I should probably also tune into one of her game streams at some point just to see if I like it

@genkyo6

4 жыл бұрын

The truth is, if you're a twitch streamer like her and your personality is based off of screaming and being hyper, you're gonna get called annoying by some people. The problem is some of these haters just take it way too far and mass dislike her videos or Weirdchamp and Dansgame anytime she appears on their favorite streamer's stream. If you think a streamer is annoying just leave the stream or don't watch it, trust me no ones gonna miss you.

@yaboi-km2qn

4 жыл бұрын

@@genkyo6 I think that's too simple of an explanation.

@jalishapaz

4 жыл бұрын

I actually first found out about Poki from a video on my feed listing all the reasons why I should hate her. But I started watching her videos and offline TV stuff, and I found I actually really like her. 😆

Never thought that this stream would resonate on so many levels. Listening to this was wild

This is a great example of why talking to a psychologist can be beneficial. Thank you to all of the people coming onto this channel for being open and honest and leading by example. There is unfortunately such a massive stigma on these types of interactions. We need this as a culture and society.

This guy is really good. Anyone who gets a session with him is blessed

@arnavrawat9864

Жыл бұрын

Truly

Definitely relate to the crying after saying "hello".... from personal experience it comes from a lot of unchecked/unresolved pressing issues and being in a situation where you're anticipating talking about them is super overwhelming :

I could watch these two talk all day. Both of these people are so wonderfully perceptive and sharp and good-hearted.

It’s incredible how doctors break people down it’s insane how they piece things together

I feel like I owe my parents too. I feel like I’m a debtor. I dream of just throwing 2 million dollars their way and then just disappearing from them and finding out what is important to me.

@JoelGonzalez-qf8cp

4 жыл бұрын

I definitely feel the same

@wuyev

4 жыл бұрын

yep indian here feel the exact same, i wanna leave but feel like I owe them a lot of money and time lol

@shanehere

4 жыл бұрын

I promise you that your parents would much rather have a relationship with you than $2 million.

@RuilinLinRyan

4 жыл бұрын

@@shanehere I would too but there's too much damage done to me by them for any sort of relationship to be possible

@___blaggard999___8

4 жыл бұрын

@@JoelGonzalez-qf8cp money ruins people. Trust me, your parents need love and support more than money. I used to sell weed, big quantities and I was never so miserable in all my life and I could buy anything i wanted. But you cant tape over deep problems with money woman or cars. Woman and money brake your heart a lot less than cars do lol.

This was super relatable especially the first section of issues, y’all covered being overwhelmed. Not being happy even when you have things that you think you should be happy!

Mentally preparing myself for my own counseling session this weekend with this video

I genuinely admire the time Dr K takes in different moments to process and think.