Change your life by changing how you speak

In this lesson, I will show you how the language we use is a reflection of our deeper psychology. For example, if you are the kind of person who always apologises for your “terrible English”, this is going to hold you back in life. Another example happens when people constantly talk about what they are going to do but in fact, they never do it. I will teach you to be much more aware of the language you use so that you can speak in a more powerful way than ever before. When you speak powerfully, you get what you want. If you speak in a weak way, you will never be taken seriously.
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  • @kippen64
    @kippen644 жыл бұрын

    The more you know, the more you know that you still have to learn.

  • @danielehaniche484

    @danielehaniche484

    4 жыл бұрын

    you still have to learn

  • @bravekiller8115

    @bravekiller8115

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hate that

  • @EnglishwithCarla

    @EnglishwithCarla

    4 жыл бұрын

    Soooo true!

  • @sssbbbww

    @sssbbbww

    4 жыл бұрын

    well said

  • @connyhanson6293

    @connyhanson6293

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @waldmeister000
    @waldmeister0004 жыл бұрын

    This is the line where language and sociology/psychology meet. Good for emotional intelligence.

  • @AoyagiAichou
    @AoyagiAichou4 жыл бұрын

    "Do you speak English?" - "I like to pretend I do". Helps that I was born in the UK though.

  • @pauljordan4452

    @pauljordan4452

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why the Japanese user name?

  • @AoyagiAichou

    @AoyagiAichou

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pauljordan4452 I used to be a weeb and the name stuck, unfortunately.

  • @sabrethemoment6799
    @sabrethemoment67994 жыл бұрын

    Discovered your channel a couple days ago and I’m hooked to your videos! Thanks for uploading

  • @jorgealameda
    @jorgealameda2 жыл бұрын

    Usually, I enjoy your lessons but this time I LOVE IT

  • @Waseem9919
    @Waseem99194 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this lesson , we need more lessons like this one in order to better understand the language and be able to express exactly what we want to say

  • @professormburatto7172
    @professormburatto71724 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this class. I really appreciate your lessons!

  • @matthewcunningham2399
    @matthewcunningham23994 жыл бұрын

    Jade, you're fantastic. Thank you for a brilliant tutorial 👍

  • @senzanome7801
    @senzanome78013 жыл бұрын

    A friend of mine told me about your videos. I like them, I enjoy them. Thank you very much!

  • @jas0nutub3
    @jas0nutub33 жыл бұрын

    Love your teaching style Jade, you inspire me as a language teacher myself

  • @CELINE0355
    @CELINE03554 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much teacher Jade for great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.."when talking about my English learning.l never realized l was expressing a possible failure! Words are so powerful!l will hereafter say:"l m learning English with pleasure and confidence!"greetings from Italy:)

  • @Nicolas-ht4iv
    @Nicolas-ht4iv4 жыл бұрын

    this is actually really helpful because i'm a master procrastinator and i find these tips actually help me propel forward , tks Jade

  • @JonBilbaoMallona
    @JonBilbaoMallona3 жыл бұрын

    What I love about your videos is that you dont only teach the languaje, but also the meaning of live in English, wich I find it realy cool to know

  • @lucindawinehouse2002
    @lucindawinehouse20023 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jade when I was at school I had a teacher who looked exactly like you . That is why I like you as a teacher. I also find your English lessons really interesting and I enjoy watching your KZread Channel because it helps my conversation skills get better ( This comment is coming from a native English Speaker)

  • @sitmengchue4077
    @sitmengchue40774 жыл бұрын

    Timely reminder! Power to me! THANK YOU.

  • @samo3496
    @samo34963 жыл бұрын

    I'm in love with your accent

  • @timmurphy5541
    @timmurphy55414 жыл бұрын

    There is an aggressiveness in modern society which doesn't respect people who have doubt - hence you must avoid "should" and "trying to" and so on. But it's bullshit because nobody really knows or can have 100% confidence in everything. I have this problem all the time because I'm being accurate about my uncertainty and people take that as a lack of determination instead of truthfulness.

  • @AlphaLegionXX

    @AlphaLegionXX

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree, it's all about "selling yourself" nowadays. Sadly, we must interact with humans, and humans don't buy arguments, they buy emotions mainly.

  • @SSMMXII
    @SSMMXII3 жыл бұрын

    Learning psychology and English at once. I love your videos, Jade. Greetings from Romania

  • @mimimonbebe9077
    @mimimonbebe90774 жыл бұрын

    This video is really good! It helps you with your self esteem too 😭👌🏻

  • @JoseMorales-cy5ls
    @JoseMorales-cy5ls4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the class, you are a good teacher and besides being very beautiful.

  • @adamsjordan3293
    @adamsjordan32934 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Jade💕

  • @gatronix754
    @gatronix7544 жыл бұрын

    Great teacher!!! Thanks greetings from Argentina!

  • @yliasabas6689
    @yliasabas66894 жыл бұрын

    Hello thank you so Much Jade! I can say that my English is bad but being aware that my English is much better. It is kind of giving advantage to someone whose English is really bad to make them feel that their English is well.

  • @doppiorizzonte
    @doppiorizzonte2 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much Jade, I love your mood :-D

  • @faroukkhalid2102
    @faroukkhalid21024 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much teacher, Jade, for a great lesson!l often use the expression " I'm trying to.." when talking about my English learning.

  • @mohammadzamanbasirheravi6471
    @mohammadzamanbasirheravi64714 жыл бұрын

    My amazing teacher Thank you🙏🙏

  • @caulazaro
    @caulazaro4 жыл бұрын

    This class was very important to whole life. Thank you so much, Jade ♥️ One more subscribed in your channel

  • @officialdevidchiran
    @officialdevidchiran2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you indeed.

  • @vadimmelnikov7809
    @vadimmelnikov78094 жыл бұрын

    Great lesson. thanks a lot, Jade!

  • @pavelk7085
    @pavelk70854 жыл бұрын

    Jade thank you, hope to see more videos with planations of language subtleties

  • @katerynavolkova-shapovalen995
    @katerynavolkova-shapovalen995 Жыл бұрын

    Just wonderful! Thanks for this lesson

  • @josesanchezpalacios8991
    @josesanchezpalacios89914 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t seen them all, but, this is perhaps one of the most interesting of your videos so far, on my humble opinion. 😊

  • @stdnqe
    @stdnqe Жыл бұрын

    Really like this lesson. Learning English is a psychological game. Life is also like that.

  • @bluoltremare1762
    @bluoltremare17624 жыл бұрын

    I'm trying to... "No! Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try." - Yoda.

  • @suaptoest

    @suaptoest

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! I try to keep that in my mind.

  • @senzanome7801

    @senzanome7801

    3 жыл бұрын

    The Force is strong with you!

  • @beatris2210
    @beatris22104 жыл бұрын

    That's a really nice video, you were funny speaking such a true! I find so cool when people are funny being serious. I am in the 'my English isn't good team'. Thanks a lot.

  • @waha6651
    @waha66514 жыл бұрын

    Happy to see you again my teacher 🥰😍

  • @webernorbertgermany
    @webernorbertgermany4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. Your lessons are very helpful.

  • @patoninje8988
    @patoninje89883 жыл бұрын

    You have very interesting lesson jade!

  • @aleksiejporiadnyj9059
    @aleksiejporiadnyj90594 жыл бұрын

    I like the video, thank you, Jade. Have a nice time.

  • @poliglota1175
    @poliglota11752 жыл бұрын

    I adore your classes. You look amazing

  • @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec
    @ZeeshanAli-iz1ec4 жыл бұрын

    Today I learned how to use have to. Great information

  • @meharnosh
    @meharnosh4 жыл бұрын

    Jade you have explained it nicely:)

  • @bluray7877
    @bluray78774 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your videos

  • @mwat56
    @mwat564 жыл бұрын

    Good points! And I love your dancing! 😉

  • @aizacl4253
    @aizacl42534 жыл бұрын

    I'm so thankful i fhnd your videos. Thank you!

  • @leonildoscofield5260
    @leonildoscofield52603 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your lessons at all. I hope one day i could be video calling to take a lot of doubts that i have. Keep teaching us. See you

  • @CanisDei
    @CanisDei2 жыл бұрын

    01:36 was the best. Haha! Really enjoyed the way you explained. Thank you!

  • @abidarach
    @abidarach4 жыл бұрын

    Interesting video. Thanks for your effort.

  • @puncicatore
    @puncicatore4 жыл бұрын

    I wish you a lot of smiles!

  • @bincao6341
    @bincao63414 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @pauljordan4452
    @pauljordan44522 жыл бұрын

    You're a great teacher, Jade. One thing: speak a bit more quietly.

  • @timirelle
    @timirelle3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @alijawad9042
    @alijawad90424 жыл бұрын

    Wow jade best teacher English I love you so much 😘😘😘

  • @pablomorales4344
    @pablomorales43443 жыл бұрын

    Excellent Jade!

  • @thinkdaily5140
    @thinkdaily51404 жыл бұрын

    Thank you mam!🌈

  • @ceuny
    @ceuny4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jade

  • @abdulmalikalgodban6041
    @abdulmalikalgodban6041Ай бұрын

    Hallo Jade, you and your lesson deserve 100 % degrees.

  • @brettbirge8246
    @brettbirge82464 жыл бұрын

    I have to get up early and go to work. I want to get up early and go to work! Quite a difference. I feel better already!

  • @mostafahassan5021
    @mostafahassan50214 жыл бұрын

    An amazing episode.

  • @hifsakhan5672
    @hifsakhan56724 жыл бұрын

    I'm enjoying to learn everything it makes me more excited I want laern war/psychology/work life and psychology please and also customer service

  • @franciscoquezada4323
    @franciscoquezada4323 Жыл бұрын

    Hello I Love your english lesson.

  • @AHMEDAYASIN
    @AHMEDAYASIN4 жыл бұрын

    Yah, I agree that many people we meet pretend that they speak English well but actually they're not as good as they think they are.

  • @freddyubaquiduenas3348
    @freddyubaquiduenas33484 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video, you learn well, thanks

  • @aqeelafzal7687
    @aqeelafzal76873 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Maam, its really helpful.

  • @alvarocr8
    @alvarocr8 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, Jade. Excellent videos. Very nice. You explain really well. I like that you speak in English and add subtitles. 👍

  • @icodeHM
    @icodeHM4 жыл бұрын

    thankyou very much.

  • @vongoh2342
    @vongoh23424 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @enriquegranados5179
    @enriquegranados51794 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, miss Jade.

  • @whukriede

    @whukriede

    4 жыл бұрын

    Better say "thank you, Jade". We don't address people by their profession.

  • @enriquegranados5179

    @enriquegranados5179

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@whukriede Alright, I corrected already. Thank you.

  • @3g826
    @3g8264 жыл бұрын

    Good effort from you teacher really i enjoy the lesson very much

  • @saeedsadeghi2878
    @saeedsadeghi28783 жыл бұрын

    huge lessons, tnx

  • @cristianestebanochoapinzon5292
    @cristianestebanochoapinzon52924 жыл бұрын

    I will continue enjoying your videos, Madam!

  • @aparecidoferreiravais321
    @aparecidoferreiravais3214 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jade thanks for your video Have a great weekend my beautiful teacher 😉🇧🇷

  • @meenki347
    @meenki3473 жыл бұрын

    Jade, don't be so hard on yourself. Though your London accent is so strong, I can understand 80% of it. 😄🇬🇧

  • @alejandrol830
    @alejandrol8304 жыл бұрын

    great life lesson!. thank you. You are a pretty and intelligence girl

  • @ckrysyj7919
    @ckrysyj79193 жыл бұрын

    People here in my country prefer to use “trying to “ “hope” “might” etc. they consider these as modest ... And they even think speaking too directly to show your desire is kind of impolite ... those who are just normally confident would be considered as people who like to brag themselves . So it’s so hard to be confident for a lot of people in this environment , also hard to express normally like The positive paradigms in your video , they’re the reasons why the words first come to my mind is “ I’m trying to “ instead of “I can do /am doing” ... and it’s easy to have insecurity when someone tells you that he or she didn’t do well in that exam and then they‘ll get 90+ /100 🙃 . Really hope there’s more honesty . ( see “hope” QwQ )I will change my own problems , I want to heal my insecurity !!! What a culture shock lol

  • @eduardocajias5626
    @eduardocajias56263 жыл бұрын

    You are an interesting sassenach girl. NO doubt! Thank you!

  • @aram5642
    @aram56424 жыл бұрын

    Hope you're doing well, Jade! Crazy times.

  • @SaifulIslam-ov7oc
    @SaifulIslam-ov7oc4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear

  • @leylishoja4623
    @leylishoja46232 жыл бұрын

    Really useful👍

  • @ridwanfarah3262
    @ridwanfarah32624 жыл бұрын

    Thanks jade i like your accent i wish i could do.

  • @montage-fire
    @montage-fire3 жыл бұрын

    perfect+++++++++++++++++++thak u so much

  • @rodrigolourenco1968
    @rodrigolourenco19682 жыл бұрын

    - "Who said it? Your mom?!" - Nah, my wife...

  • @saeidmixfa9717
    @saeidmixfa97174 жыл бұрын

    best of luck to you

  • @marco3083
    @marco30834 жыл бұрын

    Your voice is special

  • @fabiolahernandez1114
    @fabiolahernandez11142 жыл бұрын

    I understand why it's better to say things in a psycological positiviness, just not to block your action. But sometimes is also beneficial express what you think about your behaivior: I should... I have to... I wish... I think it's more natural, first you express this feeling, then you find how to do that, and of course it will be correctly say it as: Yes! I can speak english :)

  • @xoavital128
    @xoavital128 Жыл бұрын

    awesome

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx4 жыл бұрын

    I think when someone is going to use the " I am doing that or I am already not going to do that " and fail, he/she is gonna go into negative circles

  • @w0nerx

    @w0nerx

    4 жыл бұрын

    think about how u think or your ways of thinking

  • @oldisgold9512
    @oldisgold95124 жыл бұрын

    Could you post a video teaching difference between whilst and while?

  • @notthatmuch9586
    @notthatmuch95864 жыл бұрын

    If you put a summary end of the video it might be so effective

  • @naikrovek
    @naikrovek4 жыл бұрын

    as a native english speaker, I'm here to watch Jade. i can say definitively that this woman has the most beautiful eyes that I think I've ever seen.

  • @navneetnautiyal4944
    @navneetnautiyal49444 жыл бұрын

    I missed you Jade.. ☹️

  • @alpaslanilkman3122
    @alpaslanilkman31222 жыл бұрын

    Can you please make an up-date video?About any subject ?

  • @peter_roth_8812
    @peter_roth_88122 жыл бұрын

    I'm going to subscribe your channel one day.

  • @spandgen
    @spandgen2 жыл бұрын

    this was rather psychological!

  • @czamman
    @czamman4 жыл бұрын

    Has anyone mapped out the dialects of the United States with the European influences? For example the Irish and English from the northeast down to the southern states? German and Polish around the Great Lakes, Scandinavia in Minnesota. I find bits and pieces I just wonder if any one studied this. A map would definitely help. Thank you for getting the mind going 😊

  • @w0nerx
    @w0nerx4 жыл бұрын

    when you feel for example wanna go to the bathroom and say: I have to go ... it's like you're separating your body with your soul cause your body 'wants' the bathroom but you (soul) say I have to go... this is actually really deep

  • @imuselessfellow
    @imuselessfellow4 ай бұрын

    I am from India ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brd8764
    @brd87643 жыл бұрын

    We can suggest life skills to those who are willing to learn or are open to ideas unless we need to appear and sound out of place. Learning is about liking to live life unless it is about wanting to live life. Liking is experiencing life and wanting is feeling life. Loving is living life and indulging is loving life.

  • @idoykc4585
    @idoykc45854 жыл бұрын

    Authentically, your lesson makes me study learning English but just now, not tomorrow 😀... (Can you correct my mistake if there is in the sentence)

  • @whukriede

    @whukriede

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually, your lesson makes me learn English just now, but not tomorrow. (Don't say "study learning".)

  • @TheShahi
    @TheShahi3 жыл бұрын

    really my English speaking is so terrible miss. and now i am trying so hard to speak a good English like a native speaker talk. in this journey i do i really need a book material as long as self practice? if yes kindly suggest me which English book should i get to strengthen my ability to speak English. thank you in advance!