GOD bless you. I'm going through a rough phase of my life , one day I want to meet people like you who are changing the world

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

You're strong and can get through it :) Sending you love!

@fizaaahere

Ай бұрын

hope you do good

I like how you emphasized giving ourselves the same empowering treatment we give celebrities and not beating us up when things don't turn out right, though I find focusing growth a lot on "taking courses" and "learning new stuff" will eventually lead to burnout. It led me to burnout and I had to find a balance. You can fangirl and learn something new but find balance on not feeling bad because you decided to watch SKZ Code instead of taking that course you just bought. This is taken from the perspective that you're not binge-watching all the episodes nonstop. It's okay to look up to celebrities and find inspiration, great novelists have talked about how other writers inspired them, but do it in a healthy nonobsessive way. I've met so many empowering fangirls that state kpop inspired them to improve themselves, I include myself there too. Girls who have opened kpop related businesses, made new friends, found joy in new hobbies they would've never tried before, but also spend money going on tours, buying photocards, albums... and they genuinely look happy. Buy merch because YOU want it, YOU will use it and not to make your favs richer or as status. Stream music because you want to listen to it and not to top charts. Great video!

@YourALife

11 күн бұрын

Thanks for listening and I agree with you! You shared great examples of what I was trying to say - as long as it's in a way that truly benefits yourself, use celebrities and influencers as inspiration and entertainment. Similarly, BTS lyrics were a huge inspiration so my sister and I made covers of their songs in English! When I say learning new skills, I think many fangirls aren't allocating enough time and energy to bettering their own lives is all. All things in moderation! Take care :)

This post beautifully highlights the power of self-belief and the impact of becoming your own biggest fan. By redirecting the energy we often reserve for others towards our own goals and aspirations, we can break free from the cycle of low self-esteem and truly flourish. 🌟

perfect timing as always, a couple days ago i realised that the only thing left i need is confidence in myself in schoolwork

You are so true amy..growing up I have seen in others and myself that we often keep caring about our celebrities life instead of our own..and I used to think that I'll miss out on something if I don't follow every other trends religiously..but nowadays I'm trying to reframe my mindset and putting my needs first. I follow stray kids and they inspire me too but obsessing over them as a fan girl will serve me no good. So I'm always affirming that I'm putting myself first and I'll enjoy my leisure watching them. Just letting you know my story because your videos have helped me a lot and you deserve to get flattered for it!

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Aw thank you! I'm really happy to receive your comments. I'm grateful to read your words and know what you think about my videos :) Yes, you are absolutely right and it's great you know that too!

Hello, first time listening this podcast. After listening to this episode, it made me recall a bible session I attended earlier. One of the key take aways of the discussions was to work hard and mind your own business. I never realized but, putting someone on a high pedestal is in a form of minding other peoples business. It becomes an unhealthy habit. Thank you

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Yes, we would benefit so much from taking care of ourselves and what we can control first. Thank you for sharing.

@leilanisoon

Ай бұрын

Love this so much; thank you for sharing this video beautiful sister…this lesson has been driven home for me multiple times esp the past few years. When you treat yourself like your biggest fan, giving yourself grace and celebrating your achievements will give you the positive reinforcement you need to keep going because like you said, we are the person we are with all the time. Thank you for this so much; you are amazing ♥️

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

@@leilanisoon YES, you summarized this beautifully. Thank you ❤

My dreams are very simple. Spend time with family when you can, life can be very short. Make sure you can independently meet your basic necessities. When you’re financially stable make time for the things you enjoy. Not every moment needs to be filmed on the internet or social media. The joy of not being a celebrity is I can live a life I want without the added stress of a par-asocial relationship. You’re free to live as you are no matter what stage.

This is so incredibly on point. I´ve seen a few of your videos, and they all have a great value, but this one really hits too close to home. We all truly need to be more grateful for everything we have (time included), and use our time and focus more on ourselves. Thanks for this important reminder, Amy🍀

My jaw dropped when I watch your video, its like I stunned realizing something haha, big thanks ❤

Thanks for your podcast Amy,keep posting it, they are the one which is helping me to keep going .

You've no idea how much I needed this. Thank you so much for all the advice sis♥️🌼

Amy, you're so on point. I've giving up on trying to understand this timing, but I feel like I need to thank you. I've following you for a while and every vídeos makes more aparece and wise about myself. THANK YOU

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

I'm so happy to hear that. Thank YOU!

super thanks to you for posting this life-changing video❤ love these kinda videos btw 💌

ever since i found your channel i have been binge watching your videos( like listening to a podcast)

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Yay thank you! Glad they're helpful :)

Really love your dedication to help us in academics as well as life 🧡

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

🧡🧡🧡

I don't like actors singers or just entertainers in general and ive never cheered them in the comments it feels super awkward to even see others do that. I like their work not them, so gossiping about TS or Kpop stars is something that saves me so much time and energy! Love their music but don't follow them like sheep

Your A+ life 😊the first KZread channel offering motivation to students 🎉

Thank You Amy. You are actually amazing and your videos are actually helpful. I Actually Have Understand This Facts on my own(proud of me😁). I also stan BTS. But My Main Priority Is My Life. But They Actually Help me in my life. Whenever I feel so tired amd feel like giving up I would remember BTS has also worked hard. But they haven’t given up. They gave their best. I should too. Or whenever I feel like why my parents don't support me in my dream. I remember not every member of BTS had supportive family yet they achieved it. Their song lyrics also help&motivate me. Again Thank You Amy for your amazing videos

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Yes I agree! I really like BTS' song lyrics like Baepsae and their hard work. You give a prime example of using celebrities to help your own life, which is when it totally makes sense :)

Girllll we need a podcast asap

Great advice!

Amy is the best big sister that I’ve never had

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

❤️

This was really insightful, Amy. Thank you so much! It really anwers most of our doubts. 😊

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful! :D

@carolinaCCC5

Ай бұрын

@@YourALife 😁　all of your videos are helpful! Even if you don't millions of subscribers, we as a community always support each other. And we're close! :)

imagine having a young Amy as your friend in high school lol. I would always have a drive to study then and i wont feel weird too (bcx of not being a cool kid ) X

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Haha being driven IS cool. You will end up much cooler than the "popular" kids post-high school.

great advice😍

Love u for this

My favorite sister, I feel so good listening to you❤ love from 🇨🇴

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Aw much love 💕

I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

LOVE THIS CHANNEL!! We dont need cool gifs and stuff we need ur invaluable advice big sis ❤❤❤

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Thanks Queen!! Yes, I hope that with less time-consuming editing, I can create more videos with advice like this one :)

@queen.abc.

Ай бұрын

@@YourALife Slayy Queen!!

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i know this doesn't apply to this, but i decided to do a hairstyle w/o thinking too much (for some reason teachers & students refer to people with cute, pretty hairstyles and stuff like that as a naughty kid/a kid who doesn't do school work) i know im not bec i do my work

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

You do you! There are stereotypes but as long as you know who you are and you're working hard, people's perceptions don't matter as much.

I love the colour on your lips can you share from what brand and what shade it is?

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

It's my natural lips haha, but thanks!

Thank u so much for posting this vid amy ❤ I already know it's gonna be amazing 🤩 Btw can you create a video on how to grow your yt channel😅

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Thank you! Video topic is on my list ;) What are specific questions you have?

you are the big sister i never had

Thank you so much 🤍 this video showed up on my fyp today and I believe it happened for a reason 🥹 (just subscribed!)

@YourALife

Ай бұрын

Aw yay thanks for joining the fam :)

I'm so glad you opened this KZread channel. You are really helping me. You are such a comfort. Now I listen to every one of your podcasts and advice. You inspire me so much. Thank you. Keep up the good work. So glad I found you🥹💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓🫂