"He's too controlling" translation, I want to act single and be in a relationship at the same time without being held to any standards

@LoveAngel333

18 күн бұрын

I was just saying that lol I want to be with home but let me cheat in peace.

@bryantrice803

17 күн бұрын

FACTZ anytime a woman says “controlling” it means he’s not letting me do what I want to do but I want him to do what I want 😂

@TruValidity

17 күн бұрын

Hell, dudes are out here doing that and getting encouraged to do it. Why can't she? These double standards are wild.

@jeannieterrell6061

17 күн бұрын

Exactly 💯

@toyaward9818

17 күн бұрын

Facts💯

She’s immature, and only wanna save the marriage cause of the stability and security he provides.

@ladyt988

18 күн бұрын

I concur

@LoveAngel333

18 күн бұрын

Sooooo many people stay because of this very thing and have absolutely no chemistry with their mate

@keyeviondavis9647

18 күн бұрын

Finally real truth for once is being spoken, he is only being used, she has zero for him, when it comes to romantic feelings, AT ALL 💯

@chaneldior8344

17 күн бұрын

L

@YolandaTravis

17 күн бұрын

facts

HE NEEDS TO RUN 😭😭😭

@LoveAngel333

18 күн бұрын

Fast

@ronnimartin7033

17 күн бұрын

He shouldn't have married a kid.

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@ronnimartin7033💯👍

He needs to file for a real divorce, take his kids and send her where she wants to be The streets.

@ronnimartin7033

17 күн бұрын

He had no business marrying a kid. That's how she acts. He's making a young woman act as if she's a mature woman!

@eternal1blue

17 күн бұрын

​@ronnimartin7033 right she want her cake and eat it she is a sad case

@ELBONYBEAUTY27

17 күн бұрын

She’s 24!!

@nnekairoegbu2360

17 күн бұрын

She belongs to the streets, she needs to stay there.

@ronnimartin7033

17 күн бұрын

@@ELBONYBEAUTY27 💯 she needed a stable home and wasn't mature enough to know and understand what being married entails. She's running from the responsibility, as if she's single.

I don't believe she loves him.

@LoveAngel333

18 күн бұрын

Not at all

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

💯👍

@senegal4ever

11 күн бұрын

She doesn't at all. He loves her but she just tolerates him 😢

Im so lost... they have been together for a while and she is only 24 and hes 33? No one is peeping this? She was too young to get married, life just started.

@SRT_DRE

18 күн бұрын

They met on the job so I’m pretty sure she was legal.

@SweetBeeNatural

18 күн бұрын

​@SRT_DRE I started working as a minor at 15 so...

@jameekagillis

18 күн бұрын

In the first place!! SMH

@marlandkennedy7747

17 күн бұрын

@@SRT_DRELegal and maturity are two different things.

@6Summerville

13 күн бұрын

@@marlandkennedy7747that’s exactly what I was saying!!!!

Her dress wasnt too short when dancing with her friends but its too short to dance with her husband

@truecannon4922

17 күн бұрын

My exact thoughts! She’s just making excuses

@zulu3274

17 күн бұрын

😂 Knowing damn well she would have been twerking it all over the floor on other guys if it was just her and her friends there... But would be outraged if she saw another woman dancing on her husband...lol

@tinajackson6875

17 күн бұрын

Shameful. To have a good man like that, she's foolish. One day she will wake up and realize what she had but it'll be to late.

@chalisegee5606

16 күн бұрын

She’s a BIRD

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@tinajackson6875💯👍

Wow, we finally get a decent guy oy "Divorce Court" he deserves a round of applause 😂

No no no divorce is necessary because she still talks to the guy she slept with

@dimesdeath

17 күн бұрын

We're missing THAT part 🤦🏽‍♀️

@BlessedtoSOAR

16 күн бұрын

Yes this because that is an open door for her to cheat again

@Temilei

16 күн бұрын

She can’t let mr good penis go, that night she was out till 7am she was going rounds after rounds with him. He ain’t going no where. Husband needs to throw out any ideas of divorce and only pray for his wife to change

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@BlessedtoSOAR💯👍

He deserves better! Smh.

She’s 24… she’s doing what a 24 does. Go out and have fun. She’s not ready to be tied down

Men and women both do this. They love what you can DO for them, but they don’t want you.

These older guys trip me out marrying younger women and then get mad because they act like 'young' women! She wants stability but she's still mentally young!

She wants to be out in the streets but keep her husband

@charleslee1644

11 күн бұрын

EXACTLY THATS SOME DUMB SISH YOUNG WOMEN TODAY WOULD THINK

@leonietaylor7054

2 күн бұрын

Amen!!!!!++

"He gives everything a man should give a woman" is not a reason to get married... He clearly doesn't make you happy. People not making sense.

@patrickallen6511

16 күн бұрын

Happy? Happiness is subjective. A marriage can have its highs and lows at any given point. You have to be committed to the union for the long haul, something a 24 year old may know nothing about. If she becomes a single mom raising two girls life is going to get real and, the partying with friends will most likely come to a screeching halt.

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@patrickallen6511💯👍

Once i found out, that you've sllept with someone else, there isnt no counseling or nothing

@charleslee1644

11 күн бұрын

THIS SHOULD NOT HAVE EVEN MADE IT TO THIS SHOW HER AZZ SHOULD BE BACK FLIPPING BURGERS WHERE HE FOUND HER

Did he get the divorce? That's what he needs

She doesn't need to be married. He is a better man than I.

I doubt the judge would be telling the plaintiff to be patient if the tables were turned around. She would've said RUNNNN 😂😂😂😂

@greatone275

18 күн бұрын

She has told women too run, star contradict when it comes to women its the reason I barely watch now

@henriberry01

18 күн бұрын

@@greatone275 it's entertainment at the end of the day.

@tinajackson6875

17 күн бұрын

I agree, why stay with a woman who cheats but run from a man who cheats.

@user-zp7sw5zo3y

16 күн бұрын

Not what that was it was her seeing his desire to SAVE it ,Judge told them both papers were there READY if he wanted them today he didn't say yes .Sister ,girl and everyone seen he was hurting because it was new information but he wants his family still..giving a second chance because babies are involved. HE will return soon she will mess it up with same dude that only wants sex but without responsibility or daily dealings. Pray he does leave her but allow her to grow up solo and let her see tge real intentions of her lover and friends. LET HER RAISE THE CHILDREN AND CO PARENT AND PAY SUPPORT BUT IT WILL FORCE HER TO CORRECT THINGS WITH KIDS AND WORK TO SUPPORT HER SELF AND THEM

@bandit4life575

16 күн бұрын

Hell naw she would be killing this man out right now

She Only Wants Him For The Stability, and Nothing Else!! The Moment She's Bored With him, she sleeps with someone else 😔 So hopefully he want allow her to keep breaking his heart!!

@keyeviondavis9647

17 күн бұрын

Exactly

If this was my son I would encourage him to run FAST

@ladylady8745

17 күн бұрын

And she left their kids with him for 3 mths. This is not just immaturity but selfish.

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@ladylady8745💯👍

I want to know the situation with his 4 older kids. He's got 6 children at 33 😮. And it looks like he tried to lock down a young girl, and she is not feeling him anymore. They need to cut ties BUT something is missing from this situation....

@GreenGiant873

13 күн бұрын

@NRigsby7 what part did they say he had 4 older children? Timestamp please

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed

14 күн бұрын

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

@JoshuaEdward12

14 күн бұрын

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed

14 күн бұрын

Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being

@JoshuaEdward12

14 күн бұрын

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

Y'all need to use birth control and stop PLAYING HOUSE! GROW UP !

Young lady...you are too immature to be in a marriage. And the age gap doesn't help either.

@marlandkennedy7747

17 күн бұрын

The age gap does matter.If she were closer to his age she would appreciate his stabilization he provided and put him first.

@shashaleeparker

17 күн бұрын

@@marlandkennedy7747she didn’t say it doesn’t matter she says it doesn’t help

She don’t want to be a wife she want exactly what the judge said.

She will reap what she's sow..for real just give it time ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😅😊

WHY BRING ME ON NATIONAL TV TO EMBARRASS ME = SMDH

@Shogunn_Vee

18 күн бұрын

I hate that line like you knew what u were coming for and didn’t get dragged there.

oooo she 24 he’s 33 that’s the difference she feel smothered she don’t want to be a wife to him

@shirleyrussell7089

17 күн бұрын

She was to young how long have they been married. She's wrong for CHEATING

@creamekay

17 күн бұрын

she is only cheating because this is her h faze an she realized she don’t want what he wants now he’s crying because he thought he had a great deal a young girl knock her up make her a wife an she is now realizing he was trying to steal my youth to slow me down while time he wanted her for the wrong reason no she don’t like him he’s a predatory he got her way to young an assume she’s supposed to stay for loyalty she’s young that’s 9-10 age difference

@SheniceSays214

17 күн бұрын

I was looking for this comment to find out how far apart the ages are. As much as people don’t want to admit it, but it’s a fact, age is a huge factor in relationships. She started having children too soon and now she feels trapped

@charleslee1644

11 күн бұрын

TO NOBODY PERIOD

@charleslee1644

11 күн бұрын

​@SheniceSays214TO LATE AS FAR AS THE KIDS GO BUT SHE ALREADY REPLACED HIM

The first time my man don't come home ITS OVER!!!! LOCKES changed

@Gigi-xc6rb

3 күн бұрын

Right the first time

She shouldn't have had kids and gotten married, if she wanted to live the single life. This guy needs to take the kids and leave her

The like issue is - Kendra doesn't like herself !!! I want Greg to get a backbone and move ON! She'll see that the other Mr. doesn't give a rat's end about her! Too bad Greg doesn't realize that he deserves so much better !!!

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

💯👍

@SB-tc2jr

13 күн бұрын

@@magiclafire 👍

I aint 5 mins in ... and all I hear is "she for the streets" ... ....run homie

She is gaslighting the shit out of this man. File for divorce and get full custody.

@naomialves3269

13 күн бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I second that !

Do NOT take her back!

The sister completely put the fact that her sister sleeps around on her man all the way to the left. That's one big factor as to why he's the way he is.how can he trust her? Staying out so late when she goes out after she broke the trust. They need to break up. Co parenting sounds more better. She runs to other men all the time. She uses oh he texts in Instagram when she's laid up with another man.how can you compare the two? He's a good man and needs to go.

He definitely should leave her…I don’t know why she encouraged this relationship

She telling him to stay with the cheater but if he would have cheated on she would have been telling her to go

@keyeviondavis9647

17 күн бұрын

YEP 💯

WTF is going on here? She couldn't say she was for the streets clearer and he didn't divorce her?

She's not ready to be a wife, a mother or even a responsible adult. I'm praying for the children. Shes selfish and silly.

@6Summerville

13 күн бұрын

I wouldn’t say she’s selfish and silly…she’s being 24. That man got a young girl and tried to lock her down. They need to divorce, coparent and move on from one another. Period.

My momma always said ain't nothing open after 12 but legs and liquor stores!!!!

@d820m

18 күн бұрын

and if you can make it in before both close, more power to ya!!!🤣🤣

@Edward_Strong1982

18 күн бұрын

And clubs lol

@FullofSouthernCharm

17 күн бұрын

@@d820m lol 😂😂😂😂

@FullofSouthernCharm

17 күн бұрын

@@Edward_Strong1982 😂😂😂😂😂

@zulu3274

17 күн бұрын

😂 ain't nothing wrong with legs being open after midnight that's how most of us got here and relationships get started... liquor helped fuel the situation... it's all clean fun stop listening to them old folks Grandma legs was open too.. have fun be responsible and live life.. lol

Chile if you don’t put on your track shoes, Mr. Mims!

I wonder when they got together. They are almost 9 years apart and there was no mention of HOW LONG they’ve been together just that it was a long while… you can’t pick a child and expect expect them to act like a grownup

I live in Georgia. The after- hours are open. Either you're trustworthy or not. If you're not happy in the situation, DONT BE IN THE SITUATION!

@ljackson24

17 күн бұрын

They have them here in Detroit too. The thing is, that’s not where she is 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@quichequiche4274

17 күн бұрын

​​@@ljackson24yup! She doesn't wanna be married to that man. Just the finances.

@ljackson24

17 күн бұрын

@@quichequiche4274 EXACTLY! She ain’t slick. Smh I feel bad for the kids though. Mama moving out for months at a time & gone until the sun comes up? Crazy

She's not in love with him.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@jamessmith-ds1ww

9 күн бұрын

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

@ToneyReynolds

9 күн бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@jamessmith-ds1ww

9 күн бұрын

Her name is Cha mani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@ToneyReynolds

9 күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

He's controlling? Maybe because she's out of control.

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@KennethBish

17 күн бұрын

i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

@MarvellousJerrytilar

17 күн бұрын

wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@KennethBish

17 күн бұрын

Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

@MarvellousJerrytilar

17 күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

I couldn't be with somebody who cheated on me and I'm not waiting on that maybe for them to grow up.

Ohhh she’s WILD!!! Her disrespect has no limit. This man needs to muster up the strength to get up off the floor and stop her from walking all over him.

@bandit4life575

16 күн бұрын

What judge starr say door mat!!!

@6Summerville

13 күн бұрын

She’s 24…exactly what 24 year olds are! She wasn’t ready to be a wife and mother. She only wants to be with him because of the stability he provides to her and her children

She needs to grow up. She wants to be young and free after the husband and children. If you love her, let her go! Find you a mature woman, not another child.

Damn instead of divorcing him, she needs cheating on him smh 🤦🏿‍♀️ she’s not ready for marriage. Are your “friends” going to pay her bills and watch her children lmaoo 😂

I hope it works out. It's rare for a relationship with this age difference to work. It's possible. She's clearly not ready for marriage. At 24 she shouldn't be. He thought cos she's younger he could shape and mode her but she got him crying the blues. He chose wrong, hope it works out though.

"This is an actual marriage."😅

@RacieRain

18 күн бұрын

Like what? 🤣🤣

@StarC2233

18 күн бұрын

​@@RacieRain Nice to see I was not the only one to laugh at that😂😂😂

He's 9 years older than her. She was not ready to be a wife or mother, and she just wants to have fun. Miscommunication happens when in a relationship/marriage. Two people, who grew up different, have different ways of communicating. The mature thing to do is to learn how your spouse/ partner communicates and adjust.

@tinajackson6875

17 күн бұрын

Well if she wanted just fun, why get married and then compound it by having kids who are going to grow up with issues because Mommie is out sowing her wild oats instead of home taking care of those babies. It's a sad sad and selfish generation. 9 years is not that much she is just a selfish little girl.

@Berta2real

17 күн бұрын

@@tinajackson6875was he not outside as well??? He has MULTIPLE children outside of her as well as knocked HER up multiple times. 9 years is a big big difference when you are talking teens and early twenties and mid thirties. He was outside at that age as well and now she is at that stage while he is now at the stage of wanting to settle down and be a homebody. They are in it now so they might as well fight for it and stick it out. You are not always going to like your partner when married. They both having some growing to do.

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@Berta2real💯👍

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

​@@tinajackson6875💯👍

@sweetsweet81

13 күн бұрын

​@tinajackson6875 9 years is a lot when it's 22 and 31. Yeah, she shouldn't have gotten married and he shouldn't have pursued her. He should have left that young thang alone!!!

He married a lady in her 20’s. That’s what they do, party!!!.. But also, she knew she was not ready to be married.

Being patient might give him a child from another man. She's not ready, too young, better yet, she doesn't respect him as a husband because they are not compatible.

She doesn't want to give her husband time cuz then she wouldn't have time for the other man that she is seeing

She needs to take notes fr😢 Lynn Toler

Not Compatible

They need to not be together. She wants someone to take care of her while she lives her best life. He doesn't sound controlling but she does sound immature. Maybe she is too young to be married.

She’s in her 20’s and her 20’s are still in her system. She’s wasn’t ready to be a wife. She all about herself and what she wants. Let her ass go.

She's using him for financial security. He needs to divorce her. She wants to run the streets. She cheated on him and didn't know if the first baby was his. She just announced to the world that she cheated again. Leave!!!!

She's 24, he's 33. He's too afraid to get a woman his own age😂

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

💯😆👍

@magiclafire

14 күн бұрын

💯👍

He married a woman 9 years younger and expected a grown up. I believe her when she said he is controlling because he is trying to grow her up like she is his child but that isnt how maturity works.

She is not ready to be married

I’m in tears 😭 Lord, bless this marriage.

She just wants to be single.

The fact that he was ok with 3 AM is unheard of. lol. Cuhz what y need to be back before the club let out except once in a blue moon

In my opinion, she wasn't looking for a serious relationship, just someone to make her feel secure. But he shouldn't have gotten involved with someone so young in the first place.

She has kids but staying out late. Why stay with her husband or get married. Just stay with other guy.

@charleslee1644

11 күн бұрын

OTHER GUY ONLY GIVING D NOT MONEY

I don't think this woman loves this man. It's time for him to bolt. This isn't the man she wants to be with.

Lets be clear, when she goes out she does not want him with her. She might want to read up on the 80 20 rule. She is about to wreck her family for BS.

If he’s controlling, y u wanna save it

Greg is 33; Kendra is 24 ...

@laurasaw6933

18 күн бұрын

And

@Reezy12333

18 күн бұрын

And????? You think it’s cool to be a degenerate at 24 or are you expecting ppl to be one because they are 24?

@SB-tc2jr

17 күн бұрын

@@laurasaw6933 And that's it ... !

@Berta2real

17 күн бұрын

Period! Mistake from the start…

@Reezy12333

17 күн бұрын

@@SB-tc2jr and that means nothing. You act like there’s not 33 yo degenerates also

I don't understand, if her dress was too short to dance with him, what kind of dancing was she doing, and why did she go to the dance floor. She wants to be a 24 year old that wants to hang out with her friends. She's still in communication with the guy she slept with, she's still cheating.

She really needs to grow up! You are a wife and mother nothing should come before your family!!

There’s always a club. You’ll never miss or be late for partying. But family is forever. Memories are timeless. You’re blessed with healthy family loving husband.

This controlling crap is a joke. Don't get married if you don't want to respect the marriage. Woman staying out till 3 in the morning and got a nerve to say he's controlling. Idk what controlling man would allow that.

There is no such thing as breaking up when you're married...

There is no going out regularly with friends when you're married. These young ladies want the security of a husband and the comfortability of a single woman in the streets.

I don’t get why he stuck around for the whole episode…as soon as she admitted that, I woulda dipped right then and there.

@LoveAngel333

18 күн бұрын

Period

@DeloresSimpson-go7yf

17 күн бұрын

He stuck around because he loves her.

@Berta2real

17 күн бұрын

They been doing that. It’s time for change and a better method! Also they have kids together so they need to figure this out amicably.

She needs to get her single friends out of her marriage. They need to find happily married couples to be friends with. She needs a mentor.

Let her go. What J Cole said “ don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved”

They are both adults, 9yrs is not that big of a difference. They are not compatible and they have grown apart. There's no working things out, she stepped out on him twice and called him boring. She has the taste for the streets and is used goods. Me and my ex fiancee were 18yrs difference in age, but we were compatible. We liked to go out or stay home. We enjoyed each other's company and we were silly and playful with each other. We compromised in music and movies. RIP Rodger 🙏🏽.

@marlandkennedy7747

17 күн бұрын

Then why is he your Ex: 9 and 18 yrs is a huge age gap.

@libratude9595

17 күн бұрын

@@marlandkennedy7747: Did you not see the RIP Rodger part?

This is why you party and do whatever before you commit to marriage.

If she wants to leave her life, no need to say I do. Be single till you are ready

Indifferent party animal😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Boomba

Best witness ever on this show.

This is crazy it's like me wearing a size 10 shoe and trying to fit my foot into a size 9 shoe and telling myself if I lose some weight I will be able to fit my foot into that size 9 shoe knowing no matter how much weight I lose I'll never be able to wear a size 9

@GreenGiant873

13 күн бұрын

😅😅😅

She’s young and he feels like she is obligated to do something! Counseling is needed!

Judge star u are not always right tho ugh

You go through this once, man or woman, and it takes a lot of concerted effort to heal from it and live freely again. Greg, be strong and let her go brotha, you will be FINE out here bc the good woman want a good man. Just keep being you. Ma’am, good luck out here, especially being the way you are bc ain’t no respectable man gon put up with your nonsense

I am still waiting for her to tell the court how this man is "too controlling". She's not playing her part AT ALLLLL.

And WAFFLE HOUSE! Gas stations, legs, and Waffle House 😂

Laid up with another man at 7 in the am, while your husband and kids looking for you. This is not a wife. Bro looks weak

Leave now

Just divorce and be done

THAT WAS THE MOST BS APOLOGY SHE GAVE HIM AFTER TELLING HIM ON NATIONAL TV SHE SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ELSE THE STREETS CAN HAVE HER