This is not only about having kids for a man. What I have Lent is that even sex is not personal to men I repeat sex is not that serious to men I use to think that being the baddest in bed can make u keep a man it can't. So having a kid is also not that deep to men. Let's protect ourselves ladies

Women it's high time you respect your womb, you can even have a child at 40 but with the right person

@sylviamodise3887

3 ай бұрын

I love the fact that this statement was uttered by a man. Thank you sir

@sueeland5675

3 ай бұрын

Amen Amen

@kamogelokoloane5182

3 ай бұрын

That's me...thank you for that

@Popi2010able

3 ай бұрын

You can say that again even at 40

@evahrakuba

3 ай бұрын

Thank you

You know what ne, this life has no formula 🤞🏾

@sylviamodise3887

3 ай бұрын

Your statement is absolute truth ma’am. Let us not go out and be reckless for the sake of it. Same way you drive a roadworthy car, you put on a safety belt, you have a valid driver’s license and you adhere to the rules of the road when you drive. You should apply same principles to other areas of your life including your reproductive system. I am not perfect, life is not perfect but let us change the narrative because now we know better, let’s do better.

@nthabisengmaluleka6630

3 ай бұрын

thank you i agree 110% it has no formula child no child at what ever time wort work for everybody so no one knows better for the other person we must just do us

Wami umuhle sana🥰❤. Makeup or not you are still a hotie😘👌

He can make you his babymama knowing very well he is not going to make you his wife):Owamie 🙌🙌🙌🙌

@aliciamomat7963

3 ай бұрын

But if you as women refuse to give him a child he won't force you. Giving a man a child is no guarantee

Love is a beautiful thing amen…..Break ups can be a blessing…. We can all relax there is more life to live

@howitsdone5348

3 ай бұрын

Danko 🎤

@Ladyle4ever

3 ай бұрын

Amen

The headboy of the ninjas signing in, we missed you Queen Ninja

@TheeMsutu

3 ай бұрын

😂Hi Elvis

@elvisndlovu1232

3 ай бұрын

@@TheeMsutu Ola Thee Msutu, unjani

@nomsachironda9624

3 ай бұрын

Bathong😢😢😢I missed her too 😢😊I always wondered why she's so quite ....

@sonixboy5481

3 ай бұрын

Our headgal was deeply missed, hi headboy

Cassper & Thobeka have always said that their child was planned. So people need to free Cassper, she willingly agreed to have a child out of wedlock so I don't understand the backlash Cassper is getting. Judging from Thobeka's IG captions & stories she wanted marriage but I guess she didn't play her cards right . Also according to Cassper they had been broken up for 2 years so what's the outrage about? The wife is beautiful, congratulations to them.

@sanelisiwedlamini7142

3 ай бұрын

I think they just want content

@mokgadiwantlema2344

3 ай бұрын

Really I don't understand the big fuss

@user-ci4dz9uk6i

3 ай бұрын

So which cards are to be played for one to marry you???😮 If a men wanna leave you he will leave you uzithobile ayoshada isdakwa sengwadla,,so which cards are you talking about

@RayOfLetsatsi

3 ай бұрын

​@user-ci4dz9uk6i You sound very defensive. Calm down then maybe we can have a meaningful interaction.

@thandekamasango3095

3 ай бұрын

@@user-ci4dz9uk6i I was about to ask the same thing...so it's her fault he didn't marry her??? Bakithi which cards are played kanti

One thing about you, you’ll say the truths only! 🤞🏼” having a child with someone doesn’t mean, he will marry you” and sana umntana is NOT a Wedding Ring bawo wam🤦🏼‍♀️

@mampoiapathiamopeli5500

3 ай бұрын

Not a wedding ring at all.i fully agree with you.🙌🙌🙌

@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok

3 ай бұрын

@busisiwe...but she said nothing new,our parents & grandparents have always told us dat a child doesnt keep a man...

@Yassmiinn.

3 ай бұрын

​@@LollyMadikiza-xw4okin the hood, most girls think that's how you keep a man!

The truth is when a man is ready to marry he will marry. Most of the times it has nothing to do with the women. If he is ready he will marry the woman he met 3 weeks ago. He may marry the woman he was living with for 20 years. He may marry his 1st gaby momma he left 15 years ago. The only thing that changed is the fact that he is now ready. Some me will not be ready until they are one foit in the grave & need a place to die & a nurse. Some will never be ready. It is what it is!

Preach Owamie I see alot of single moms in the near future It’s no joke, motherhood is tough it takes a village to raise a child

I just noticed, she posted a heartfelt video of him with a caption that ends in “we love you” just last year June. He also responded saying “I love you for life” Less than a year later he’s married? This life no balance

The most irritating part is they know who they will marry from day one.But they choose to waste someone else's time only to end up marrying someone else.This reminds me of Psyfo and Hulisani

@vuyelwavanga1282

3 ай бұрын

Remember when Dumi mkostad, said on TV he knew that he always wanted to marry ZiphoZenkosi , but he was in a relationship with his former gf for years

@julietkaunda9600

3 ай бұрын

@@vuyelwavanga1282 You see!They don't even think twice

@_COCOgal

3 ай бұрын

Why not make an example about yourself?

@julietkaunda9600

3 ай бұрын

@@_COCOgal Go take your medication for whatever you are suffering from.I don't have time for nonsense

@LM-he7eb

2 ай бұрын

AKA & Zinhle. He always wanted Bonang. Themba, Mpho & Nqobile combo. He always knew

I honestly don't think the money played as huge a role as people think it did. True, it's great to have a partner who is in good financial standing but remember, Casper is not a new millionaire. He has been living large for well over a decade now. If she truelly wanted him for the bag she would have come through a long time ago. I think it was just God's timing and the fact that Cass has now adjusted his lifestyle, acknowledged his sex addiction and found God also speaks to that. She seems like a lovely lady who respected herself and stayed away from him while he was chasing other women and now that the man is ready to be a proper husband she is reaping the benefits.

Men really love themselves and they put them first. As women,we need to start doing that. Kids or not, let us love ourselves shyme. I am staying with a man,my baby daddy but guess what,he felt that I'm not good enough for him to take me to his graduation and he took one of his girlfriends. And he is happy with that. Is for me to decide.

@thulimthombeni3057

3 ай бұрын

Yoh, wooow I could😂said it better men love themselves,. Men decides, their happiness comes first

Where are our childhood friends? 😂😂😂😂 It's time to get married

@bongiweantiz3285

3 ай бұрын

ei mfethu

Owi, my childhood friend was not my type when we were growing up, i did not look him like that. Until he grew up and I am like, wait, what?😊 now I can date him. So, let’s not question the lady’s intentions hereGuys… we all want the best version of a person!

Thobeka chose to be his baby mama.. She did say that her and Cassper had a mutual agreement regarding having a child.. She set her standards very low now they blame Cassper for moving on

Please Owami create that platform for our kids so that we bring them there and get them empowered coz from what i see in the world around me and social media our young girl's needs an intervention and raising a girl child in this planet is no joke. You would see girls as Young as 13 talking about there sex experience Imagen that what a shame and a doomed generation this is. Our mother's never had sex before they got married sex was a sacred special thing that was cherished back there and even in the Bible that abazalwane are reading but we ain't practicing that at all now we hear boys say aaah that one is easy and they pass you around for 2 savannas and our kids are done and treated like that is sad to look at this generation Please Owami look in to that and host starting from our 12 year old kids you can make it be an every month thing.... We could change the world to be a better place for everyone that lives in it❤

Spot on my ninja ❤❤love from Zimbabwe, Byo

Preach Ausi Owami, preach. Young lady your womb is precious stop having babies too early with people who cannot and will not look after the babies let alone marry you. It is a crisis and as a nation it seems like we have accepted this as our fate.😢

Money will get you the woman you want not the woman you need and when men get money they run after the woman they want.

Casper married his dream girl , that was his dream girl along 👀… That’s men for you

It’s unfortunate as a women to find a man when he’s still finding himself because you get the worst version of him while learning how to be a better husby to his wife to come. As you think you’re building your future with hes busy looking for his wife

Not all relationships will end in marriage Not all relationships will end well Above all nothing last forever in this world and we must learn to accept when love stop

Men will leave when they want even when they have married you, even that is not assurance, they'll promise the world, marry you, get you pregnant and leave with those children. Also Men will get you pregnant and marry you, we also don't know the promises he may have made to her. Also in this situation She is the one that left Cassper because he was a serial cheater He said so himself We might be catching feelings but The Baby momma is at peace. Kodwa ke Men will disappoint sana hay nje kancinci.

But he did say on Mpoomy's podcast that he was seeing someone. Regarding the looks, unfortunately it happens with a lot of couples. For instance, look at Julius Malema's wife. Do you think she'd marry him if he didn't have money? I don't think so. Even Regina Daniels, I mean look at that old man. She wouldn't marry him if he was not wealthy.

@ThembekaKhupiso-ee4iw

3 ай бұрын

So true😮

@studylive99

3 ай бұрын

Yes, and the women go there willingly. So if someone is happy to be "paid" for a lavish lifestyle it's also okay for a man to pick solely out of beauty. I don't see the problem there. And such men and women should be ready for the consequences of their choices. EG. If the money runs out, the wife will leave, and if the beauty fades, he will find another younger version of you. People just make choices but don't want to see the full swing of their decisions. See the good and bad, and decide that you are going to be okay if shit hit the fan and you have to bear the bad effects of your decision that served you right at first.

A lot of times we make the mistake of thinking, men are the ones who make decisions regarding when to get married,when to pursue certain relationships. It could be that his wife, didn't like the person he was before he met Christ. They probably got even closer during a vulnerable time. There's a lot we dont know.There is a time and place for everything. Lets be happy for the couple and keep them in our prayers

@JNM834

3 ай бұрын

Pray for your family instead, Lena Mara yooooo😅😅😅😅

@dineomametja3277

3 ай бұрын

@@JNM834 as brothers and sisters in Christ,we pray for one another

@studylive99

3 ай бұрын

@@JNM834 yazi in fact let me leave this comment section and worry about my problems

@JNM834

3 ай бұрын

@dineomametja3277 naaaaah. I doubt you pray for your relatives, too. Their families must pray for them. Why would you pray for people that you don't even know what they lack or have, naaah.

Men never marry for love. Its Only us women who do, and its a big mustake. Men get married for THEMSELVES and their needs. Love is secondary

Totally agree with you and also when will people get the fact that men naturally put themselves first they do not compromise, they do what makes them happy and they have no problem changing their whole lives in that process. They come first! And again the minute you become a 'baby mama' everything changes you live up to that title 🥲

Kodwa this is very common. Most people have babies but they are nolonger together and moved on to be with other partners. Why is Casper's situation different from what we see everyday hence we have thousands of single mothers.

Owamie, I think you should watch his interview on Mpumi's podcast to get clarity of what actually happened between him and the baby mama, from my understanding from that interview, she chose to leave the relationship because she was deeply hurt (of which I celebrate her for). To me this is just an unfortunate event for her because she just happened to be in Caspers life at the wrong time not that he didnt have intentions to settle with her at the first place.

@SuzetteKhiba

3 ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯

@olivemonyai2151

3 ай бұрын

True

This life no balance oooo

@myriamwilliams

3 ай бұрын

At all

@liphoskosana2425

3 ай бұрын

Is not make sense now!

@asandandinisa5916

3 ай бұрын

@@liphoskosana2425😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yi wishi wishi mntakabawo

Having a child with a man doesn't mean he will marry you. True. Having a child with your husband too doesn't mean he will stay and not divorce you. Kubi regardless, as women we are suffering. I salute those who have decided to never have kids 🙌🏽

@madamp6620

3 ай бұрын

Thank you ! End of story

@Beex848

3 ай бұрын

But let's be honest. A man who has married you is more likely to be present for you than a child out of wedlock

@Ponchables

3 ай бұрын

@@Beex848 married men are the most single people I know. Those people hardly ever respect their wives to start with. I still say as a woman, have kids because you want them. Not because your husband does. Even when things are good, ensure you will survive and have the resources to be fine should be ditch yall.

@aliciamomat7963

3 ай бұрын

But why girls think it ok to give Boys children without him paying lobola it's ok??

.. year later you seems to agree with what Nonnie said!! There’s a better chance for someone who has no child before marriage, we all learn from our mistakes although we seems not to take advice

Let's just say he is happy now. Maybe he wanted an academic. Let's be happy for him.🎉🎉🎉🎉

“Stop having babies with these men without a ring” do you know Jienie Mei fro the talk show The real. The is no formula shem 😂

@laaatoya

3 ай бұрын

The way you butchered her name ke sana 😩. Jeannie Mai*

@fumisoko7303

3 ай бұрын

*Jeannie Mai please

@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035

3 ай бұрын

Yhooo I remember she got married they dumped her.there is no formula in or manual of life.

@mariasimon231

3 ай бұрын

😭😭😭 that story has puzzled me to this day

@sugarbush0659

3 ай бұрын

He dumped her but he’s the bitter one . Trying to get full custody of the child with her while not doing a 🤬thing for his other kids… He thought he would break her but she’s steady bringing in the money.. He sees a meal ticket in the child 🙄

I was waiting for this one, let me sit down and pay attention

@letushilaalina

3 ай бұрын

the only version that matters!

Could it not be that Cassper is the one who decided to not be in a relationship because he wanted to give her everything he didn't have when he was broke? Men don't just abruptly marry; I think she was the one from the time they were still in school he just wanted to find himself and play and do what boys do before they marry. Some men do this. It's not always about money, who knows he might have been telling her when i'm right i am going to marry you.

@goodnessmitileni1120

3 ай бұрын

Debatable he should have went back when he started booming and started buying all these cars and made it, if that was the case, I look at it and he has just been a man the whole time, play the field while she "waited" for him then come back and marry her, still he put himself before all these women So it's a bit questionable on why they weren't together from then

@nonhlanhlankosi1786

3 ай бұрын

But that was her choice to wait and also maybe they've been together all along we just didn't know.

@Dii_22

3 ай бұрын

"Do what boys do" please evaluate that statement because young girls are getting hurt whenever those boys "do what boys do " .

@goodnessmitileni1120

3 ай бұрын

@@nonhlanhlankosi1786 very true, maybe just maybe those sneaking out days of his were with her sometimes, we will never know Women just need to put themselves first also, as his baby mama did, she was tired shame

@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok

3 ай бұрын

@koketso...i agree wid u

Tell the sis,some of us have been around for a while..it is so so true,girls please take care of yourselves❤

People angry that Cassper chose another woman as a wife and not his baby mama calm down. First does Thobeka seem like she wanted to marry Cassper? This lady has always been about Rich Aunt,Rich Mommy and just honestly focusing on her bag. I am sure his going to make sure baby mama whos well off by the way will have a home, car, and monthly allowance for his son. Sis is good guys. She lived with this guy for years if ahe wanted marriage she could have gotten it. I doubt she did. I agree with you, most childhood friendships turns into love for the other person, I think Cass had always eyed her ka love but could not express it, girlie probably eyed him the same and gave it a shot.

Guys, mina I think Casper married his dream girl - as men do. Unfortunately many women are placeholders and become girlfriends for 10+ years and that man will later go marry a woman he’s known for 3 weeks

@masegothemba

3 ай бұрын

Very true, every man has a dream girl that they’ll do anything for. Wether that means leaving his wife, kids, baby mama etc they don’t care when it comes to getting his dream girl.

@JNM834

3 ай бұрын

@@masegothembawhy would you waste someone’s time if they aren’t your dream, lena le encourage evil acts yooooo. They must go to their dream women and marry them from scratch yoooo.

@studylive99

3 ай бұрын

she has to be very careful. He does not sound like a man who is capable of handling a relationship. It takes at least 5 years to clear out a previous relationship, plus all his addiction issues. I hope for her sake he really has changed otherwise you can be happy to get married, but is the quality of the marriage good enough? That depends on the characters of the people married and not just being a dream girl. A man won't stop being the way he is truly just because you are his dream girl. It could also be well that his baby momma was done with him, and as usual most men cannot be single, which is the problem, and he just went to the next available woman.

I don't think it was intentional. I think what happened in the relationship with BM happened. They truly were in love, but things just didn't work out. I don't think she was trying to keep him. She's capable of looking after herself and their child. This just the next chapter for Cassper.

Glowing sana

Missed you so much Queen ❤. There is zero chemistry between him and his wife, I actually thought he was shooting a music video!!

Intombi yolahleko😂😩finally you're back! Still waiting for the ancestors voice note ❤️

It is better not to have or receive a blessing, than you receive a blessing a lose it. Baby mama is better off, than to get married to him and divorce.

The baby mama won. Imagine getting married to someone with an addiction problem. She’s free, pulane will have to deal with all his issues 😅

@terrencetncube264

3 ай бұрын

Jealousy will kill you no doubt

@moe_ramz

3 ай бұрын

@@terrencetncube264 I’d never be jealous of a man with an addiction problem. That’s a hell hole I wouldn’t wish even on my worst enemy.

@indianam7689

3 ай бұрын

Eish that is so scary and sad for Pulane, I wouldn't wish that on anyone too. I hope he has sincerely found Christ because I know he will be free from the addiction and I hope Pulane has a relationship with Jesus too, to be strong for however long it takes for him to be freed from the spirit of addiction🙏

@moe_ramz

3 ай бұрын

@@indianam7689 sadly addiction is a life-long thing. He will always be in recovery. She must pray he sticks to whatever therapy measures he’s taking. Sex-addiction like any other addiction is hard to beat.

@indianam7689

3 ай бұрын

​@moe_ramz many things are a life long addiction from a Christian Spiritual view but nothing is too hard for the Lord

Your skin is glowing 😍

I was waiting for you to cover this story😂💜

Driving from jhb to cape Town is a bad idea .A 16hr drive is torture 😣... Unless you are in for a "on the road experience "..

My Ninja I often watch your videos but I never get tired of your Intro You have great me of the best intros on KZread ke sana!

Let us be selfish with our wombs ❤

yes i was waiting for this one

Ninja signing in ❤

Both ladies are gorgeous i doubt its only abt looks..he just chose to do what he did.

Have missed you so much my Ninja

Woman date who they want but man marry who they want!

Utube streets was not interesting without u queen ninja 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

Was waiting for you to report on this the whole weekend ninja. You're opinionated maaam and I love how your mind works. It spits the truth as it is,period

Within 🖤

I have been waiting for the ancestors' voice video since Monday. Manje, I feel bad for hearing about you not feeling well and the passing of the baby 💙🩵🩶

Am I the only one that feels sorry for both the baby mama AND the wife??? Ay no, guy didn't look excited shame

Ninja checking in💗💗💗

my ask is how do we know that Thobeka wanted the ring??????????

They went through all the photosynthesis process in life together am also surprised 🙀 why are they deciding to mary now?😮and putting their relationship out there 🤔

True Queen, but the latter is equated the other side. Women leave babe daddies and be married to other people. Let's not say Casper was wrong it maybe the case that he was good as a baby daddy so the lady didn't opt for marriage. We all have choices to make. Let's not blame a man choosing himself as much as we support women choosing themselves. Let's not be a bias nation. You can marry who ever you want

@studylive99

3 ай бұрын

ayi you are below the belt here. Choosing yourself = sexual promiscuous at the expense of your girlfriend? If everyone does what they feel like doing, just imagine the chaos in the world?

Signing in from Mount Frere

Casper calculated the fact that even if he were to go broke atleast his son will still be well taken care of because Thobeka family is rich but has always knew he will marry Pulane 😅😂

Ninja signing in!

Facts on facts on facts, Danko

Ninja signing in 🎉❤

Notification gang🎉🎉❤

We missed you mama 🥺

U baby nama is so happy lapho akhona I'm sure of that ,coz thisn mn wow very toxic shem ,she dogged the bullet

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1Min in❤

Signed in

When are you gonna post the video with the ancestor voice

You look beautiful Owamie

In my opinion... khona into e-Off la... I have a suspicion that the getting married thing is to do the things 'properly' since he is now Christian... I wish them all the best because once the things hype dies down they can keep the fire burning somehow some way

Ninjalicious ❤❤❤

Ninja signing in

its a music video bathong

Queen Ninja ❤❤

I chose to have a child. I felt that a child was a must and marriage will come if it comes. The most important thing was to have a child with a person that I don't mind having in my life for the rest of my life whether or not we are together. Men don't love us... we need to put ourselves and our needs first because they will never put their needs after us.

Ndomutuvha queen 👸 🎉❤

I really feel like Casper did not plan on marrying this woman. It was arranged by his family, and I think he is a family pleaser

Motherhood is dangerous if you're doing it alone. Fathers nowadays dont even wanna be fathers

casper said it himself that the babymama dumped him cz he was a serial cheater..congratulations to them and l wish the baby mama gudluck.

So true Owami, I have never had interest in just having a baby with just a boyfriend or staying with a man who is not my husband. We really need to try harder to have babies in wedlock, even if the marriage fails or works out, one can say they tried their best to give a child a shot at having both parents or if one parent passes away. We have seen what a fatherless society has done to our men.

Owamie, you are beautiful even without make up. Mama-Genes Gal. ❤

I am the representative of the ninjas in Namibia 🎉🎉🎉🎉

I agree. Casper really loved this girl. O kari he was just WAITING for her to be single. His moving Tooooooo QUICK. I feel sorry for the baby mama. She was just practice

But Casper was looking like indoda edlisiweyo, he was looking so weak at the wedding, I hope he is ok

@madamp6620

3 ай бұрын

Thought I'm the only who sow this.......and seemed controlling/ no happiness. And for Cat not to even do outfit change something is off

@busisiwemichelle5391

3 ай бұрын

Sober shame kadliswanga man know what they want shame yeah

My ninja, have you uploaded the ancestor’s voice ? ☹️

If indoda uyizalele owokuqala uphindelani owesibini mbuze iphi Ring 💍 for owesibini nowesithathu.... Mxm nakusheka nengane nina .

Married at the age of 2😂😂😂Owamie Mara. We must just make peace that at the end of the day money makes things easy. I know alot of guys who are not on the public eye and did the same "married someone they couldn't have when they where broke" so it's really nothing new.

🤣🤣🤣 the thumb nail

Girl you beautiful ❤❤❤