😭 😭 😭 The way I see it, never value your sons more than your daughters. I’ve seen so many sons neglect their parents and it’s the daughters who take on that role. It’s sad. Love all your children equally, Bc you just never know. It may be the most stubborn hard headed child that’ll be the one to take you in. Or the one with the sharpest tongue who may seem like their words are harsh but their hearts are soft.

zaj neej neeg no tus siab heev li, qhov tus siab tshaj yog peb cov ntxhais txawm peb hlub niam, txiv npaum cas los tsis muaj txiaj ntsim rau lawv thiab lawv yeej tsis muaj kev cias siab rau cov ntxhais li😢😥😢 ib qhov ntxiv, rau kuv mas kuv xav tias yog tim tus nyab xwb, yog nws hlub nws tus txiv ces nws yeej hlub lawv niam lawv txiv li os, nws xav ua ib tug zoo nyab, ib tug zoo pojniam nws yeej ua tau, nws yuav ua kom nws tus txiv muaj kev kaj siab ces yeej ua tau kawg li..., tsis tas li tus tub los yeej ua tsis taus txiv kiag li thiab naj, nws yuav tsum ua tib zoo hais tus nyab hais tias yog koj hlub kuv no thov koj rog kuv hlub niam tus kuv niam, vim nws yeej tsis muaj pis tsawg xyoo rog peb nyob lawm, yog tus nyab tsis kam ces hais rau nws tias ok yog koj tsis kam rog kuv tus hlub kuv niam ces kuv kawg yuav tau mus yuav duas ib tug los rog kuv hlub thiab tus kuv niam no xwb mas, es yog tus neeg muaj hlwb thiab xav ua neeg zoo ces yeej txawj hloov kawg li os...

I am so sad to hear a "highly educated" son give such a foolish answer. What is the point of having so many sons and yet they've turned their back against their own mom. So sad! Some Hmong culture don't make sense. Yeah-- wish your mom had remarried.

@hmoobtojsiabchannel7733

2 жыл бұрын

Koj tuaj koom kv thiab os

@cazyhmong

2 жыл бұрын

Stop blaming the hmong culture it’s the child bad side. Which everybody has the need to not care.

It’s sad. Because of our culture beliefs, parents have high hopes and rely on their sons so much. Parents would give and leave everything to the sons just because they are the sons. The daughters are always left out with nothing. For parents this is a lesson to learn. Daughters are as important as sons too and more.

@lilylo5191

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. The parents only hope for their sons and look at it now. The ones to care for them are daughters. In America, in Laos, it's the daughters that's caring for their parents.

@longherr2205

2 жыл бұрын

A

@solomoua5520

2 жыл бұрын

Wrong! She love her kids so much that she sacrificed her life not to marry. Kids now doesn’t care about their parents they only care about themselves. Sad for this new generation And when they get old they will tell the same story as their parents told them that their kids don’t love them 😂

@XMML33

2 жыл бұрын

That’s not always true, but most of the time it’s the nyab that do not want the mother in law. In this case the son are left with two choices. Take your mom in and loss the wife and pay child support. Trust me, it’s not solely the son not wanting to take their mom in. If all nyab accepted their mother in law, we won’t be hearing this story.

@justforlove9784

2 жыл бұрын

@@XMML33 I agree, the nyabs play a big role in these situations. The sons are in a hard situation so they choose their wives over their old parents,

This is the new generation. Peb cov ntxhais yeej muaj cai thiaj peem xwm tu tau peb niam thiab txiv. I’m glad the daughters were strong!

Niam tai aw......mloog kj lub neej tag ce peb cov poj ntsuam no tsis xav zov peb tej me nyuam li lawm os tu siab tiag tiag li os kv ce tseem zov zov kv peb tug me nyuam loj tiav nkauj tiav nraug tag lo nim tu tu siab kv siab li thiab os niam tia aw.......

Niam ntsuab teev zaj dab neeg no mas tsim nyog hais rau ntiaj teb paub tu siab heev

Txhob tu siab. Kev ua neej ces ib tiam yeej yuav zoo txawv lawm ib tiam vim sij hawm tsis zoo li qub lawm. Txawm yog tub ntxhais los txhua tus yeej muaj feem hlub lawv niam lawv txiv li txoj kev hlub txhawv hauv lawv nruab siab tuaj. Txhob lob txim rau ib tug twg.

Txhob yug mes nyuam coob coob nyob teb U.S.A. no os mog...mloog tej neejneeg no ces tsis tsim nyog yug mesnyuam kiag li os Lawv..Cas yuav tu SIAB ua luaj..peb ua niam ua txiv laus yujzus lawm tiag. nawb HMOOB..

Mi ntxhais aw koj yuavtau zoo thiab yuav kaj siab mus ib sid mog vim koj hlub niam heev tshaj plaws li os

Tu siab tshaj plaws thaum yus laus lawm ces tas nqi lawm os hmoob aws yug tsis muaj tub los tus siab yus tau los tsis muaj kev cia siab os hmoob.

@xeelee2124

2 жыл бұрын

Yog kawg

Right now, women are the man of the house. Yuav hlub niam tais yawm txiv los yog tus ntxhais. Yuav hlub niam pog los nyob ntawm tus pojniam/ tus nyab txhais tes. Disregard the culture and tradition of the son and nyab take care of the son's parents. Now in America, it should be all children responsibility because we all work and need help to take care of our parents.

Most of my brothers are just like yours. My mom lived in the same town as me & I took care of her for 20 yrs until she’s passed away. I miss my mom very much & I feel the same like you too sister. 😢

@kevinher3546

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of you you are good daughter sister may God bless and have a good life

Me vivncaus aw!!! tsuas yog peb cov ntxhaig es thiaj nco hlub yus niam yus txiv xwb os niam thiab txiv ces tus xub mus yog tus tau zoo os tus mus ua qab yeej yog tus raug txomnyem tshaj xwb os kuv niam xub mus es kuv txiv nyob twb txomnyem li koj niam thiab os

Niam txoj kev hlub no lub ntuj piv tsis tau hlo li niam zoo li tus no tsis muaj lawm

Nyuj ua nyuj thaum nees ua nees ris kev npam kev khaum yeej muaj tseeb. Txoj kev laus koj kuv yeej yuav dhia tsis dhau. Koj cov nus mas lwm hnub txog nws zeeg mas tseem yuav tau txais txoj kev tsim txom los ntawm nws cov yog nws yug.

Tu siab kawg li os, niam thiab txiv yeej hlub menyuam tshaj li uas menyuam hlub niam thiab txiv nawb vim li ntawv Mekas thiaj tsis yug coob2

Don’t live with the expectation that your kids will take care of you and you won't be disappointed.

@solomoua5520

2 жыл бұрын

So you don’t have hope for ur kids. Good for u Lol

@panouthao6350

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I don’t expect my children to care for me when I’m older. If they do, I’ll be thankful. If they don’t, it’s ok as long as they are happy and can take care of themselves.

@XMML33

2 жыл бұрын

My advice, save a lot for retirement. Go on vacation and enjoy life. Don’t expect your kids to care for you.

Peb ua neeg ces tsis muaj me nyuam los nim ntshaw ntshaw kom muaj me nyuam es yav laus thiaj li tau qhov chaw nyob, hos muaj ib pab los ho tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam Hlub. Tu siab kawg li os.

No greater love than a mother’s love for her kids. Nowadays parents should love their daughters more…the tide has turn to our daughters, not the sons anymore. As parents we should love our daughters and sons equally.

This story is so sad. It's makes me think about my mom and my mil. I'm so lucky to have them.

These are ungrateful sons. A mother's love is unconditional but a husband's and son's love is condition, the husband cheat and the son's abandoned their mother. It's sad. That's why we as mothers love ourselves unconditionally and our husband and son conditionally. What goes around comes around. Karma will come around 10x for the sons.

Tsi tsim nyog nej niam hlub hlub nej tsi mus yuav tsi nim ua kab ua noog cawm nej.

Cas Nrog koj tu siab ua luaj lis os me ntshais aw

Thank you for a beautiful story. I wish to hear more of us daughters standing up for our moms. You did great so proud of you now you won't feel regret you didn't do anything for her but will only miss her because she's no longer with you. I still miss my mom everyday every holidays. Take care sis

hlub kaws li os

me hlub aw ib txheej ua rau ib txheej os mog lwm hnub lawv cov me tub yuav ua rau lawv ib yam o mog

1leej niam yug tau 10leej me nyuam, tab si 10leej me nyuam ho tu ho hlub tsis tau 1leej niam Koj cov nus lam kawm Ntawv siab xwb os siab dub thiab phem tshaj os yom, mloog mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os koj cov nus es 2hnub lawv cov mam ua rau lawv, lawv yeej yuav paub os nim no ntuj nyob qi2 lawm os khaum sai2 os

It’s is the responsibility of ALL children to take care of their parents when they are frail and are unable to care for themself. There are Hmong traditions are good and bad. It’s not about face or repetition with in the Hmong people. It’s about loving your parents like how they lived and cared and raised you from an infant. It’s a disgrace to hear stories like this.

@maylee8634

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@cazyhmong

2 жыл бұрын

People need to understand tradition and culture are two differences reputations facts

Tus niam laus tsis yog koj ib leeg thiaj raug txoj kev no xwb os. Kuv los tib yam thiab os. Cov laus cias siab rau cov tub tshaj ces thiaj zoo lis no. Kuv muab saib lawm tej kev dab qhuas no ces nyob ntawm yus xav xwb. Yog yus tsis cais niam cais txiv cais ntxhais los yeej tau kawg yog muaj kev hlub hauv yus lub siab tiag2.

I'm so happy ya sisters are so tough, strong, and supportive of each other to take your mom!

😍🥰😘

Kuv los zoo li koj thiab os tus me muam aws...

Peb cov poj niam Hmoob muaj kev txom nyem siab tshaj plaws li piv rau peb cov txiv neej Hmoob na; txoj kev ua nyab, kev ua poj nrauj poj ntsuam, thiab txoj kev pab tsis tau niam txiv rau yav laus. Our Hmong women have greater suffer compared to our Hmong men; marriage, divorced, widow, and the responsibilities right over our biological parents. Why do you think that is?

Li ntawv es thiaj hais tias leej niam ib leeg tu tau nej 9 leeg menyuam loj tab sis nej 9 leeg tu tsis tau koj niam ib leeg nas. Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj twb tsis tsim nyog leej niam lub zog li os.

@kevinher4010

2 жыл бұрын

Yog kawg !

I dislike those brothers and nyabs that want to keep the parents when they can still help out. But as soon as the parents cannot help them no more and are no used to them anymore, they don't want the parents. It's usually the younger son and nyab that they helped the most too.

Nm tij los yog nm ntxawm ntsuab teev zaj no hais tau tu siab ua luaj zaum no mus tom ntej tub ntxhais hlub txhawb ib yam vim ntxhais siab me tub yog txiv neej siab loj siab dav tus ntxhais muab 100 1000 rau yus vauv tsis yws tsis hais hos tus tub muab 100 1000 rau yus ua nm ua txiv tus nyab cem tsid yuav cai lub suab noog diab noj txiv vaj khaum xwb mog

We are in America which it is giving us the opportunity to value all our kids equally. We love our children and they are all precious to us either boys or girls. Old tradition should be obsoleted. It is irrelevant.

Tsis txhob cia nej niam nyob tsev laus os mog

80%tim cov tub ua tsis taus txiv 20%tim cov nyab siab nqaim zog

@chouyang3197

2 жыл бұрын

A agree 💯 cas Tsis muaj nej cov me nyuam tua pov tseg thiaj tsim nyob nej Tsis hlub nej Niam lam Kawm ntawv Siab Tsis muaj nqis tua nej Cov me nyuam POV tseg ua ntej lawv coj nej mus nyob tsev laus in the future

@phuabvaj9286

2 жыл бұрын

Yog tshaj li lawm os vim tub nyab xwb mas ua tsis tau txiv thiaj zoo li no

@semicharmedlife

2 жыл бұрын

Tsis yog tib cov tub xwb

@kevinher4010

2 жыл бұрын

Yog kawg !

Tos niaj hnub niam no peb cov leej niam twb laus laus los tseem pheej xav mus yuav txiv ces txawm yog zoo lis no? Tsuas muaj niam txiv hlub menyuam xwb, menyuam yeej tsis hlub niam txiv. Txhob cias cias siab rau tej menyuam lawm mog.

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I understand you sister. You are brave to take your mom to live with you. I see this type of case so much now a day, and it is very sad. I hope we all can learn, grow, and treat our parents better.

Tus hlub tshsj plaws cais yog niam xwb mog , luag tiag cuaj lub hnoob tsis cuag ib lub hli kaum leej tub tsis cuag ub leeg txi muaj tseeb . Khuv xim niam lub neej thaud kawg ua cas thaum I niam tsis mus yuav txiv !

Nej cov ntxhais yog hlub ces coj mus nrog nej nyob zoo dua

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li nas lawm 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I wish them older generations will realize that daughters are as important as sons.

yu niam hlub yu los yu hlub tsi tau yu niam os yom😭😭

Koj niam cov niam cov niag tub ces tsuas yuav muaj txom nyem zuj zus ib hnub xwb lawv yeej yuav tsi tau ib lub neej zoo ua os

Tus siab luaj li os. Kuv qhuaj2 heev li lawm os cas nim zoo li Kuv niam lub me neej es, ua rau kuv tus siab siab heev li os. Kuv nim yog tus yau es nim tsis tau muaj neej li lawv cov Hlob es tseem pab tsis tau Kuv niam. 😓😓😓

Tiam 21 no txawm txhawb tsis tau tub doctor los txhob tu siab txawm tau los thaum kawg tub doctor yeej ua tsis dhau nyab dov taw ces thaum ntawv kev tu siab yuav muaj os los, cov ho muaj tub doctor lawm los nrog nej zoo siab tab sis yuav tau npaj lub quaj thiab nawv.....

Mloog zaj dab neeg no cov tub nyab dev coj tus cwj pwm yuav npam ib hnub xwb xwb os Lwm hnub lawv cov mes nyuam mam ua rau lawv piv tsis tau lawv niam ib qhos mes mes tseem txom nyem tshaj lawv niam

Qhov no qhov uas cov niam thiaj li mus yuav txiv lawm es thiaj cia cov me nyuam ua ntsuag pov tseg ces yog cov me nyuam siab phem kawg yeej yuav npam uas nej tsis Xav hlub nej niam

Your brothers received your mother's love the most but they are the MOST selfish and greedy. I hope one day they are treated that way from their kids so they can understand your mother's love and suffering. So sad!

Anyone can be highly educated and still an idiot. Good luck to your brothers. It's going to be hard to "excuse" their way out when the time come. As for you sister, may the heaven bless and watch over you.

@CelicaSierra

2 жыл бұрын

I think we need to hear the sons side of the story too. I am the last son my mom stay with me soon I will get my first stroke.

Hmong culture, why the neej tsa waited until the muam passed away and they would be coming "nplua lawv nyiaj"?????? Why not make it secure for the muam when she still alive and needing help???? Cov neej tsa no different than her sons.

Ntuj aw cas leej niam txoj kev hlub yuav tas li no xwb. Nkim leej niam lub zog hlub nej, nej cov mam ua rau nej nej thiaj paub os

Cas yuav tsis tsim nyog qhov koj niam hlub nej li os lawv aw

OMG sister I totally feel you on your pain and feelings. Your brothers are despicable excuses for being her son. They are truly unworthy of her love nor her caring nor her sacrifices and support to get to where they're at in their life. She supported them and give them her all and a life. She was so right. They do not deserve her. God is watching he'll dish out the injustice they've brought her. They were wrong. Just be thankful you had time with her. Karma will visit them.

@isarili747

2 жыл бұрын

Yes karma will catch them later no matter what

Cov tub mas lawv yeej hlub lawv niam kawg. Qhov lawv ua tsis tau vim tim tib cov nyab nkaus xwb rau qhov tsis yog lawv niam ne...

Cas mloog koj txoj no tu siab ua luaj li os peb cov niam cov txiv txoj kev cia siab ces yog cov tub xwb peb cov ntxhai hlub tej lau lo txaum tag li cas peb cov ntxhai yuav tsi muaj ib txoj cai hlub tau li lub siab xav li os

🥲🥲🥲cas Tu sia ua luaj kuv Niam quaj22 tu22 Siab nrog Koj os me Ntxhais Cov neeg uas lam Kawm ntawv Siab tab sis Siab phem siab txhia ntshav lam yuav cov Tsis txawj ntse tab sis Siab zoo os mog hlub koj niam kawg li os

Tsis tsim nyog kiag, nej pab nus myam kom nkim zog thiab nkim sij hawm xwb, ib hnub twg nej yuav taug koj niam txoj kev txom nyem es nej mam paub tias koj suffer npaum cas sij hawm rau nej cov menyuam tsim txom. Khwv xim koj niam tiam neej

This is the problem with our society for older adults, not just the hmoob community but every other community. Throw our parents in nursing home and forget about them.

@cua1879

2 жыл бұрын

Every situation is different. Until you have to make that tough decision whether or not to put your loved ones in a nursing home please don't judge.

@hmoobtojsiabchannel7733

2 жыл бұрын

Tuaj koom kv thiab os

@abeel9009

2 жыл бұрын

If you’ve never taken care of an elderly person it’s very hard to judge the situation. Not saying every case is justified but it’s a hard job.

Leej twg yug tsis muaj tub los txhob tu siab thiab tab sis cov tub no tsis zoo los yeej muaj ib co zoo2 thiab tsuas yog lawv tsis muab tuaj hais xwb es txhob tu siab thiab mog

😭😭😭

Koj yog ib tug muam ua siab zoo tshaj plaws koj yuav tau txais txoj koob moov zoo heev

Zaj no tu siab heev. Yeej muaj tseeb li zaj no tu siab tshaj vim peb yog ib leeg ntxhais tsis muaj cai li .

Kuv xav tias peb cov Hmong ces zaj dab neeg zoo li no yeej tsis sib txawv deb kiag li nawb. Kuv niam lub neej ces zoo tsis txawv kiag li no thiab tiag. Thov cov tus thiab nyab hlub cov niam thiab txiv thiab vim nyias muaj nyias lub caij uas yuav txog yus hnub laus. Peb cov ntxhais ces yog hloov tau tub chaw ces yeej sawv ua tub lawm.

All these ladies commenting bad about the son here are hypocrites. If you are a nyab that accept your mother in law, you are a wonderful person. You make life easy for your husband. But in most cases it’s the nyab that doesn’t want to take in the mother in law. When this is the case, it put the son in a really tough situation. You choose your mom, you loose your wife, you choose your wife, you loose your mom. You ladies have no ideas how stressful it is to get caught in the middle. When a family is in this situation, the nyab play the biggest role. So don’t be too judgmental when you don’t know all the facts. As for this mom, I really deeply feel sorry and saddened. No mom should have to go through what she went through.

Yuav yog nej niam txhob foom xwb yog nej niam foom ces kawg npam xwb xwb

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob me kas aws thov hlub cov niam cov txiv thiab os lawv aws

Hmoob cov dab yog cov dab siab me siab nqaim. Kuv yuav tsis thov tiam nws ntxiv lawm. Qhov me los txhaum, qhov loj los txhaum. Cov niag dab siab me no tsis muaj neeg ntshaw.

It’s easy to say when you have never taken care of an elderly with health problems.

Sister, I feel sorrow for you and your sister because we're daughter and mother ourselves. We know the pains that your mother feels but if you were your brothers, you probably do the same to her too.

Ua ib leej niam es yug taus me nyuam coob tag npaum no es thaum kawg twb tsis muaj chaws nyob chaws tuag li no ces tsis yug me nyuam los tau lawm.

Hais rau nej cov ntxhais na mus ua lawv nyab yuav tsum mus hlub lawv niam lawv txiv nawb ok....

😭😭😭😭

Cov tub nyab uas txawj2 ntse thiaj yog cov Tsi yuav niam yuav txiv los mas

Tias no, cov nyab hnav ris ces tub thiab nyab nyob thiab hlub niam tias yawm txiv lawm xwb.

Omg what a beautiful story for our family to learn from 😭😭😭

Am a son but still cry while listening 😢😢😢

Cov nyab na yog nej tsis hlub niam pog ces txhob hlub nej niam uas yug nej thiab nawb

lawv aw ua neej nyob es txawm yuav txawj ntse npaum li nov Los yog tsi hlub cov laus ces nej txoj Kev txawj ntse tsi muaj qab hauv li os. yog yim ntse mas yim txawj hlub tej laus ua ces nej yim ntse es nej haj yam tsi hlub cov laus lawm . ib qhov nej niam twb tsi mus ua neej es nws twb nrog nej nyob Kom nej muaj niam li luag thiab txhawb nej es nej thiaj lawm ntawv siab2 li nej os nej mas tsi tsim nyog qhov nej niam nyob zov nej li os . txawj ntse npaum twg Los yog tsi hlub nej niam li kod ces txhob khav Tia's txawj ntse no nawb mog nej yuav tsi tau koob moov li os.

Xav kom peb hmoob hloov thiab, cov tub yuav Tau nyab los txhob cias tus pojniam ua tus take care yus niam yus txiv xwb, yuav Tau ob leeg sib pab tus. Ho tus nyab los yuav Tau xav tias kv twb hlub kv niam tais yawm txiv thiab es yuav Tau hlub niam Pog txiv yawg thiab. Nco ntsoov nej niam tsis yug tus nyab ces nws yuav tsis hlub npaum tus uas yug nws, tiamsis yog tus txiv hlub lawm ces tus nyab yeej hlub xwb.

Tus viv aw kuv hnov koj zaj no ua rau kuv los los kua muag li os tam sim no kuv tus nyab tus nus muab kuv txiv cov nyiaj $68.000 phas noj tas lawm ces tam sim no nkawv tab tom yuav coj kuv txiv mus nyob tsev laus os nkawv muab kuv txiv kaw rau hoob txaj ib hnub ib hnub 8 xuab moos nkawv lawb hauj lwm nkawv mam pub mov rau nws noj xwb peb hais hais es nkawv cia li tsi pub peb mus tom nkawv li lawm tu siab kawg😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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This story make me miss my mom 😞😓😩😤

Lawv aw tus siab tshuaj li os😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

😭😭😭😭😭Sad. It makes me love my mom more today.

Ua neeg ces yeej muaj ib cov neeg siab phem kawg I Zaj no tu siab kawg li

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Hmoob yuav tau tseg qhov yug menyuam coob2 es thaum laus los thiaj tsi muaj2 kev tu siab os vim yug coob2 ces tus twg los tus tias tseem tshuav cov other sons too ces nyias taus nyias xam khib xwb ces leej twg los thiaj yuav tu tsi tau. Yug tsawg2 xwb es lawv hlub thiab tsi hlub los kavliam thiab os. Feem coob hmoob cov laus li 60 mus rau 70 xyoo mas lawm tsi xav mus nyob tsev laus li es thiaj li nyuaj rau cov menyuam xwb. Lwm hnub ces tej zaum neeg yuav tsi tshua ntshai qhov yuav tau mus nyob tsev laus lawm

Lub ntiaj yuav loj yuav dav lo tsi cuag yu niam ho viv ncaus aw

koj Zaj dab neeg no mas txeeb txhob kawg li os . tos koj niam cov neej tsab tuaj nplua koj cov nus vim yog koj xwb . yog koj cia nws nrog lawv nyob txawm nws nyob tsev laus los nws tsis luaj twg na . koj tsis tas yuav ua qhov hlub hlub koj niam li ko li os yog yus niam yus yeej hlub los mas tab sis tseem tshuav koj cov nus naj . nco ntsoov tias yus twb yog nyab thiab nawb .

Koj cov nws tej zaum yog dev yug lawv xwb tsis yog koj niam yug

Tu siab ua luaj.. yus yug tau ntxhais xwb tsis muaj tub es puas tsim nyog yug kom tau tub os

All ladies who divorced should remarried ladies after listening to this story. Too sad, when your own children turn away when all parents are in their old age.

@flryprn745

2 жыл бұрын

Life does not guarantee marrying a 2nd time, the hubby will love u til death do u part. Accordingly to all these stories, women R experiencing worst hubby the 2nd time around. Just need 🤞that all is well at the end. Best to stay w kids

One thing stupid about our traditional Hmong culture is this. However, for the sister that sent in this story, the real story is how you would take care of your in laws if/when they're in the same situation since this is your mother you're taking care of.

Tsua yog hmoob meka xwb thiaj muab yu niam go gev laus peb hmoob nplog g tau hnov cov mu nyob gev laus li hmoob meka li