Candace and Kouri: Player, Interrupted | Family or Fiance S2 E17 | Full Episode | OWN

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A bride hopes that her groom can relinquish his identity as a ladies' man and focus on becoming the family man that she needs and wants him to be. But without a father figure of his own growing up, he struggles with what that role should entail. (Original air date: November 20, 2021)
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Candace and Kouri: Player, Interrupted | Family or Fiance S2 E17 | Full Episode | OWN
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  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274Ай бұрын

    He didn't "choose" her. He kept her from realizing that she could do better and finding her ACTUAL husband. Run girl. He didn't propose out of love, he proposed because he didn't want to lose her during his shenanigans. That is MANIPULATION!!! RUN GIRL!!!!

  • @PeachPretty28

    @PeachPretty28

    28 күн бұрын

    I lived through this…he chose to ultimatum me to marry him because he felt that our individual families did not want us together. He told me he didn’t want to lose. He knew the abandonment wounds. He knew I didn’t want to start over. He definitely played on that. Now there’s healing. There is peace..but I had to find it in me. Had to realize that I could save myself. No matter who was there. No matter who walked away…

  • @talk2flonow261

    @talk2flonow261

    10 күн бұрын

    She is sacrificing her health physically and mentally by allowing him to have a side chick. 😮

  • @cevanbrown2314
    @cevanbrown2314Ай бұрын

    "He chose me." That response speakes volumes. Don't be so desperate to be with someone that you accept any and everything.

  • @Hotwingzlover84

    @Hotwingzlover84

    Ай бұрын

    A "Pick me"

  • @helena3631

    @helena3631

    Ай бұрын

    She’s a pick me

  • @ms-nyakio

    @ms-nyakio

    Ай бұрын

    A pick me who unfortunately has a child to bring into this mess. Women, stand up!

  • @Mary-zd6ow

    @Mary-zd6ow

    Ай бұрын

    I think women forget that we, as women, is the one that choose our spouse. Not the other way around. It is different if she said we choose each other! But "He chose me" makes my skin crawl!

  • @ovince186

    @ovince186

    Ай бұрын

    Thats said everything ​@helena3631

  • @aratang2948
    @aratang2948Ай бұрын

    If you’re this miserable before you even get married, what are you hoping for after? She’s basically dehydrated from crying.

  • @azaniasankofa5459

    @azaniasankofa5459

    Ай бұрын

    😅

  • @teresadavis2385

    @teresadavis2385

    Ай бұрын

    😩😩😩

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    Giiiirrrrl!😂😂😂😢😢😢😢😢

  • @leilanysouza5473

    @leilanysouza5473

    Ай бұрын

    Yoooo! 😂😂

  • @dineoportiamagoro3212

    @dineoportiamagoro3212

    Ай бұрын

    Dehydrated from crying😂😂😂

  • @Mimi-di3of
    @Mimi-di3ofАй бұрын

    He never comforts her when she cries 🚩

  • @liveinviolet2908

    @liveinviolet2908

    Ай бұрын

    I seriously feel because it seem like his mother emotionally manipulates him… so he does not fully understand emotional boundaries. His mother have no emotional boundaries/ regulation.

  • @charityshed235

    @charityshed235

    Ай бұрын

    Because he doesn't care. It doesn't matter what they said about his mother being manipulating. If a man cares for you he will comfort you.

  • @jocelynthurman6099

    @jocelynthurman6099

    Ай бұрын

    Sometimes you can't give what you never received, and it seems that's the case here. If he was never shown affection, he won't recognize when to give it or how.

  • @NikkiRich174

    @NikkiRich174

    Ай бұрын

    He Is The Cause Of Her Tears And Can't Say That He Won't Continue To Selfishly Cause Them

  • @Life23Live

    @Life23Live

    Ай бұрын

    Recently separated from a man who did this and my light finally came on .

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918Ай бұрын

    She's constantly crying - clearly very unhappy. You shouldn't be this sad in a relationship.

  • @marcelynsaxton6211

    @marcelynsaxton6211

    Ай бұрын

    Yesssss! She can do bad by herself...

  • @YesMaamYesMaam

    @YesMaamYesMaam

    Ай бұрын

    Yea she sad af

  • @the_shadow_healer

    @the_shadow_healer

    Ай бұрын

    She's lacking self love and worth, the heart chakra is out of balance.

  • @janicescott-pair97

    @janicescott-pair97

    Ай бұрын

    True.

  • @torry24
    @torry24Ай бұрын

    He has some NERVE catching an attitude when he’s the whole problem! Her brother was not aggressive, he was just an easy target.

  • @Mary-zd6ow

    @Mary-zd6ow

    Ай бұрын

    I loved the look on her brother's face! He wasn't phased and he made sure he repositioned himself to ensure he wasn't attacked from behind . . . he knew that Kouri is a weak, immature man.

  • @Del_ita259

    @Del_ita259

    Ай бұрын

    He was hoping the brother would take the bait. A physical altercation is easier than hearing the truth about himself.

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    You are so right. Its concerning that she doesnt realise that if Kouri doesnt respect her brother he doesnt respect her either. The brother has genuine concerns yet he wants to intimidate him into not expressing those concerns. This guy is still very immature.

  • @e.l.c.4298

    @e.l.c.4298

    18 күн бұрын

    Agreed and kouri was deflecting

  • @tobemeis2bfree
    @tobemeis2bfreeАй бұрын

    He’s figured out how to cheat better

  • @vickynyerere

    @vickynyerere

    Ай бұрын

    Literally 😂😂😂

  • @psalmxv4188

    @psalmxv4188

    12 күн бұрын

    Tell it.

  • @mercedesloyal9338
    @mercedesloyal9338Ай бұрын

    She better run for the hills.. He is already showing what he is going to put her through when they get married smh 😢

  • @missprizzy1

    @missprizzy1

    Ай бұрын

    Okay! Run and run fast

  • @vthe_listener886

    @vthe_listener886

    Ай бұрын

    Right we pray and ask God to show us signs and when he does we just ignore it😢

  • @justjools6156

    @justjools6156

    Ай бұрын

    Yes he has been prepping her on what to accept. He's also teaching her to hide things from her brother because of how he will react. And the fact his own family didn't know about his cheating is a huge red flag.

  • @user-jk6yf2lb3f

    @user-jk6yf2lb3f

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@justjools6156facts

  • @Ebony0420
    @Ebony0420Ай бұрын

    The long pause when she asked him if there’s a possibility of him reaching out to the other woman?!! Baby, if it’s ever between you and someone else, you never want to be the one he chooses. EVER!

  • @aminakhalia9505

    @aminakhalia9505

    Ай бұрын

    I would have left that house right then..🤨

  • @ohrheeco

    @ohrheeco

    Ай бұрын

    What's that saying. If you even have to choose, choose her/him 😂

  • @indiabrowne7549

    @indiabrowne7549

    Ай бұрын

    This is the moment she should’ve walked away. 🤦🏾‍♀️😩

  • @melissajohnson817

    @melissajohnson817

    Ай бұрын

    That pause would’ve been it for me..

  • @vetgirl71

    @vetgirl71

    29 күн бұрын

    @@indiabrowne7549right! He didn’t even answer the question! That’s a big problem! It’s emotional abuse and she needs to run! Let him go back to the other woman since he can’t let her go! He only gave her that ring to keep her on lock down, when he doesn’t want to be with his side piece! 🙄🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @FiveInterestingThings
    @FiveInterestingThingsАй бұрын

    He’s using his childhood as an excuse for everything 🤥🤥

  • @naturerazzi7shi495

    @naturerazzi7shi495

    Ай бұрын

    He might have had a tough - love kind of upbringing but so what. Mum had to wrestle raising a boy to a man single handedly. He disrespected her on set.👎

  • @prada11404

    @prada11404

    29 күн бұрын

    I heard childhood 14 times

  • @lolozum7295

    @lolozum7295

    29 күн бұрын

    And I'm sick of it already.. Candace needs to stand up for herself, the crying all the time won't cut it ​@@prada11404

  • @shabey8436

    @shabey8436

    13 күн бұрын

    This man is not ready to be a husband and a father. He has a lot of growing up to do. I feel he is emotionally abusive to Candice and he is also emotionally and physically distant. He really wants to be single and run the streets. I hope she finds the strength to leave him, because he is not good for her. She is aging in front of our eyes with all that crying. A good man does not make you cry and bring you down, a good man raises you up and makes you smile.

  • @psalmxv4188

    @psalmxv4188

    12 күн бұрын

    They always do.

  • @randomshorts3647
    @randomshorts3647Ай бұрын

    “It stopped for the most part.” What does that even mean?! She needs to focus on herself, her son, and her self esteem.

  • @ChelahMoore-tx5uu

    @ChelahMoore-tx5uu

    19 күн бұрын

    I caught that one too; if red flags was a person. 😂

  • @everywoman194

    @everywoman194

    15 сағат бұрын

    How did the family not catch any of his redflags?

  • @NDB82
    @NDB82Ай бұрын

    The bride to be has the saddest eyes, even when she smiles. On another note, the mothers on this episode are gorgeous! 🤩

  • @sydnee5100

    @sydnee5100

    Ай бұрын

    THIS PART! even when shes smiling she looks soo hurt. I pray for her. I hope she's gets the happiness she's looking for. Deep down inside she knows he's not the one.

  • @gcchair7634
    @gcchair7634Ай бұрын

    Infidelity is one thing but a 2 yr affair is different, especially with his pause about going back to the side piece…no

  • @naturerazzi7shi495

    @naturerazzi7shi495

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely 💯 3 yrs infidelity??? and the pause that accompanied Tracy's question was eerie!! His spirit is elsewhere. Poor Candace .

  • @phillycheesedog1

    @phillycheesedog1

    20 күн бұрын

    lol he was in a relationship, SHES the affair

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555Ай бұрын

    Girl she want that wife title so bad 😅😅 " He wasn't the relationship type." So why continue with him.

  • @madenee2612

    @madenee2612

    Ай бұрын

    She saw a challenge. Her life became a bit dependent on him " choosing" her over the single life😢

  • @virgo7956

    @virgo7956

    Ай бұрын

    I don't think she wanted the title so bad, I think she wanted commitment like adults should want/single parent; her problem= WRONG MAN!!! He definitely wasn't the relationship type

  • @adannegadison877

    @adannegadison877

    Ай бұрын

    Yea ! Like infidelity is for married people lol

  • @Ginaaaa555

    @Ginaaaa555

    Ай бұрын

    @@virgo7956 So if he cheated before the proposal and afterwards. He also do not care about her son and after all that she still said yes. She is desperate to be his wife lol

  • @savillewilliams

    @savillewilliams

    Ай бұрын

    We need to choose better

  • @Candycanewish
    @CandycanewishАй бұрын

    He disrespected her brother and she asks him if HE’s ok🤯

  • @CashUnlimited8

    @CashUnlimited8

    Ай бұрын

    Yo!!! I’m irritated by that and I’m not even apart of their family lol. It was unwarranted and misplaced anger.

  • @thelonetravelr

    @thelonetravelr

    Ай бұрын

    She went straight to him despite the fact that he threatened her brother b/c he can’t face the truth 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @stephanieforeman6498

    @stephanieforeman6498

    26 күн бұрын

    I did not like that at all. She should’ve checked her “fiancé “ because he was totally wrong.

  • @Aquaria2291

    @Aquaria2291

    24 күн бұрын

    She doesn't have self esteem. She's still running after a man who openly said he's gonna entertain his mistress again. She can't stand up for herself, how can she stand up for her brother. 💀

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596Ай бұрын

    He don’t want her. He needs to stay single. Selfishness is a real word.

  • @lisa7184
    @lisa7184Ай бұрын

    Engagement was just to stop her from walking away. Why doesn't she love herself?

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    Desperate

  • @ayandakhumalo8692

    @ayandakhumalo8692

    Ай бұрын

    @@jaylenefarrell7175maybe her issues come from her son’s father leaving her.

  • @Roques-rage1706
    @Roques-rage1706Ай бұрын

    The threatening behavior towards her brother was concerning. Im afraid for her and her son. The son wouldn't benefit from him as a male figure.

  • @sattasana7753

    @sattasana7753

    Ай бұрын

    That's why I'm convinced she thought this was her final option. That man literally tried to break down her defense system. We know a brother will always protect his sister. He threatened him right there that it will never happen no matter how long he hurt his sister. That's not okay.

  • @Roques-rage1706

    @Roques-rage1706

    Ай бұрын

    @@sattasana7753 absolutely

  • @nicoledemerrill101

    @nicoledemerrill101

    Ай бұрын

    💯Facts!

  • @thelonetravelr

    @thelonetravelr

    Ай бұрын

    It was a very alarming and immature response. He definitely needs to grow tf up.

  • @dememurphy7859

    @dememurphy7859

    Ай бұрын

    I was waiting on him to step up and apologize at the blessing ceremony

  • @ambersealy1820
    @ambersealy1820Ай бұрын

    She looks tired .. I had this look when I was in a relationship with a cheating narcissist.. it literally is a spirit that gets on you and can even change the way you look.. I looked drained, puffy and tired all the time smh ..

  • @sattasana7753

    @sattasana7753

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely. So pretty but really drained.

  • @Healingwaters

    @Healingwaters

    Ай бұрын

    I agree. She's a beautiful woman and yet she looks so lost inside.

  • @danyelgarcia3689

    @danyelgarcia3689

    Ай бұрын

    Wow🤯 it caused you to take on another appearance.

  • @GlamDivaTW

    @GlamDivaTW

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, me too. I started looking older and was depressed to the max. All I did was sleep.

  • @legalmemories

    @legalmemories

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly- I wish she knew that this is not how the love of your life is supposed to make you feel.

  • @goodchick88
    @goodchick88Ай бұрын

    He still has emotional soul ties to the side piece and she needs to love herself a whole lot more than she does.

  • @lorraineblessed242
    @lorraineblessed242Ай бұрын

    So wait he paused when he was asked he may reach out......I would have left there and then.!!!! He obviously still loves the other woman! It's definitely an emotional attachment. Sorry but he will not be faithful in marriage.

  • @Kendallslovejoy

    @Kendallslovejoy

    Ай бұрын

    Right

  • @Grace-im7sl

    @Grace-im7sl

    Ай бұрын

    Agreed 💯💯💯

  • @TuBella14

    @TuBella14

    Ай бұрын

    I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was tapping my screen like did it pause 😩🤣 I feel soooo bad for her. An emotional connection is deep! No way he’s ready to let that go. Smh.

  • @kiagraham2987

    @kiagraham2987

    Ай бұрын

    I think they edited the show for the dramatics

  • @ka8204

    @ka8204

    26 күн бұрын

    It’s all about her self esteem. She doesn’t have any

  • @CashUnlimited8
    @CashUnlimited8Ай бұрын

    She’s going to stay with him until there’s no more tears left and her eyeballs are damn near falling out the socket. SMH

  • @laj4186

    @laj4186

    Ай бұрын

    Unfortunately

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    @CashUnlimited8 thats so funny🤣🤣🤣

  • @realityqueenKe
    @realityqueenKeАй бұрын

    I love Keyon. Every woman needs a brother like him

  • @konnormax
    @konnormaxАй бұрын

    Kouri and Tammy Townsend are not a cohesive 💑 couple

  • @NDB82

    @NDB82

    Ай бұрын

    At all. It is so strange that she couldn’t see that & wanted to actually get married. 😢

  • @thelonetravelr

    @thelonetravelr

    Ай бұрын

    Tammy Townsend, the actress? 🤔 I thought her name was Candace.

  • @lj1906

    @lj1906

    Ай бұрын

    @@thelonetravelrthey look very similar. He’s not serious

  • @ceenichole6866
    @ceenichole6866Ай бұрын

    This is a manchild. The disrespect to her, his family, and he cheated. The way he threatened her brother and left the table was just a hint on wtf she will endure. No thank you

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    @ceenichole6866 you are so right. I was hoping the moms would not bless the wedding and ask them to postpone until the manchild matures into a real man and she comes to a point of loving herself more.

  • @cherylbarr7609

    @cherylbarr7609

    21 күн бұрын

    Yes. And that girl is probably still around

  • @psalmxv4188

    @psalmxv4188

    12 күн бұрын

    He's already doing this. She's already experiencing this.

  • @beautifullyblessed985
    @beautifullyblessed985Ай бұрын

    This man doesn't respect her or her family. You call them there for their opinions, then wanna fight when opinions are spoken. RUN CHILE..RUUUUUNNNN

  • @Mimi-di3of
    @Mimi-di3ofАй бұрын

    Not he a bad step daddy 🤦🏾‍♀️ girl red flags already

  • @guerlinemacean3684

    @guerlinemacean3684

    10 күн бұрын

    Terrible

  • @Iamjeffsledge
    @IamjeffsledgeАй бұрын

    He's a horrible person and she's miserable. I've never seen a woman cry this many times in a one hour show. She just doesn't want to be proven wrong. Also, i bet he sees that other woman till this day.

  • @LakeishaLifestyle
    @LakeishaLifestyleАй бұрын

    6 mins in.. girl run!! This is a prime example of people will treat you how you allow them to. Edit:Chef kisses to the verbiage of the therapist. She was so on point this episode. ❤

  • @AlwaysLisaLisa

    @AlwaysLisaLisa

    22 күн бұрын

    True In my opinion we can’t teach the unreachable. People are either naturally respectful or not. Time to go. No teaching our spouses. A conversation is not a lesson. We must leave the disrespectful abusive competitive partners n lovers❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ms-nyakio
    @ms-nyakioАй бұрын

    The bride looks so sad. She’s hurting

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    It is palpable

  • @victoriadoolittle105

    @victoriadoolittle105

    Ай бұрын

    It's kind of hard to watch, because she looks so sad..SMH

  • @teresadavis2385
    @teresadavis2385Ай бұрын

    We need an update on this couple ASAP 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @nomathembaakwaugo5228
    @nomathembaakwaugo5228Ай бұрын

    As a mother who raise a son alone. You do not want this character being praised and valued by your son at all. She is sad and holding on, let go sis its hurting you and your son.

  • @shamioshi

    @shamioshi

    Ай бұрын

    As a mother who raised 2 sons alone I would NOT be focused on that woman and her brokenness. I would be more concerned about my son's brokenness: his emotional disconnect, immaturity and lack of integrity. He is sad, unprepared and HE needs to let go. He's hoping/waiting for her to let him out of this mess he's created.

  • @coveredcovered20

    @coveredcovered20

    Ай бұрын

    HES ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDHOOD AS AN EXCUSE

  • @nomathembaakwaugo5228

    @nomathembaakwaugo5228

    Ай бұрын

    @shamioshi agreed but she is trying to heal the son with him.

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    @@coveredcovered20 Yes you are so right, I also noticed that. So if he knows that his childhood was not idle, why doesnt he make the changes that he wants to see. He seems to be living in the past and stuck in teenagehood.

  • @BJSooRocks-Royal
    @BJSooRocks-RoyalАй бұрын

    Him not answering if he would go back to the ex he probably never left alone did it for me!!!

  • @GoddessoftheDivine80

    @GoddessoftheDivine80

    29 күн бұрын

    Me tooo. He gave her his honest answer 😂😂

  • @tashawilliams4890
    @tashawilliams4890Ай бұрын

    I'll never understand why a person would come in a person life, propose knowing dam well their not ready 😒

  • @guerlinemacean3684

    @guerlinemacean3684

    10 күн бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Justlikethat555
    @Justlikethat555Ай бұрын

    He doesn't have my blessing. 😂 He's the same person and he wants her bc he knows if/when he cheats again she won't leave. These are the types of women men choose to marry. Carry on....

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    It's not just him here. She needs therapy

  • @ka8204

    @ka8204

    26 күн бұрын

    😅😅😅 mine either!

  • @Daniellehiu

    @Daniellehiu

    18 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @Candicewallace444
    @Candicewallace444Ай бұрын

    He doesn't want to let go because she's a CATCH. Go play around if that's what you want. WOMAN, you deserve so much better ughhh. His ridiculous attitude is so scary, and he's very immature.

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    She also needs therapy

  • @laj4186

    @laj4186

    Ай бұрын

    @@jaylenefarrell7175Absolutely

  • @hotoffdapress1018
    @hotoffdapress1018Ай бұрын

    He has ALOT of text book answers. Something ain’t right about him!!🤨

  • @ayandakhumalo8692

    @ayandakhumalo8692

    Ай бұрын

    PR answers 😂😂

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    @hotoffdapress1018 I love your analogy of "text book answers" very poignant indeed!

  • @GoddessoftheDivine80

    @GoddessoftheDivine80

    29 күн бұрын

    I'm gonna use the text book analogy😂😂😂😂😂😂 smooth, simple & chic❤

  • @guerlinemacean3684

    @guerlinemacean3684

    10 күн бұрын

    Indeed

  • @tamarabello
    @tamarabelloАй бұрын

    This relationship needs to end. She is still hurt, and he isn't ready to be a one woman man & a father figure.

  • @michelleelmore3974
    @michelleelmore3974Ай бұрын

    Girl he isn’t the one he got mad because he was being held responsible for his actions and he tried to transfer the blame onto everyone else! He got called to task and didn’t like it. He’s immature and not ready

  • @ohrheeco
    @ohrheecoАй бұрын

    I feel like she is so emotional because..in every fiber of her being, the whole family's being... She KNOWS this is the wrong decision. But because she has invested all this TIME ⏲️ she thinks she may as well keep investing, she half way there..😔 side note. She so prettttyyyy ❤🥰😍

  • @akuaanim3286
    @akuaanim3286Ай бұрын

    I like the fact that the groom to be friend is a man. He will hold his friend to the fire. That's an honest friend and man.

  • @vetgirl71

    @vetgirl71

    29 күн бұрын

    It’s his cousin! I have respect for him because he expects him to step up and for her to stand her ground and set boundaries.

  • @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent

    @YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent

    27 күн бұрын

    He reminds me of all my ex’s friends that told me to RUN lol. They told me I was selling myself short and it was so true..They even started saying it while he was there smh. I was miserable just like this lady…I’m now happily married now to someone else

  • @SomaliRoyale
    @SomaliRoyaleАй бұрын

    If there's something in your childhood or you thar blocks you from showing me empathy, compassion and instantly want to comfort me when I'm sitting next to you crying, GOODBYE ! because that's when your so called love should show up !

  • @mar-ei7pz
    @mar-ei7pzАй бұрын

    She is beautiful and deserves better in life.

  • @aricarii3936

    @aricarii3936

    Ай бұрын

    I totally agree but she has to see it and want it for herself,so sad

  • @phoenixastral9046
    @phoenixastral9046Ай бұрын

    He's lucky the brother dosen't come off as confrontational because I would've match his energy and put him in his place

  • @the_shadow_healer

    @the_shadow_healer

    Ай бұрын

    as an elder brother of a sister, I totally agree.

  • @MemyselfandI625
    @MemyselfandI625Ай бұрын

    His brother don't play with him lol.. I love it! ❤❤❤

  • @vetgirl71

    @vetgirl71

    29 күн бұрын

    That’s his cousin , not his brother. I’m sure they are close like brothers though. 🙂

  • @kynamkh
    @kynamkhАй бұрын

    Seems like a cheating bully, I pray she runs quickly😒

  • @aricarii3936

    @aricarii3936

    Ай бұрын

    As beautiful as she is ,she’s slowly fading from stressing and crying behind a loser

  • @Trendingnow1103
    @Trendingnow1103Ай бұрын

    First off the wedding would be called off snapping on my brother like that for no reason... luckily she didn't have a brother that matched energy 😮

  • @helena3631

    @helena3631

    Ай бұрын

    This these type of men know who to pop off with

  • @kamariasia

    @kamariasia

    26 күн бұрын

    Cuz some of the brothers from other episodes would've gave him what he was begging for lol

  • @sherriet2879
    @sherriet2879Ай бұрын

    He can’t be trusted..,

  • @jas8471
    @jas8471Ай бұрын

    What in the struggle love. 🙄 Im sooo sick of it. Some women just want to have a ring so bad.

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    This!

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918Ай бұрын

    He's probably still out cheating.

  • @trishtalksflix
    @trishtalksflixАй бұрын

    I think he uses his childhood as an excuse for bad behaviour. How is your childhood responsible for you not comforting your fiancé when she's upset?

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    Yeeeesss!

  • @judenemcleod775
    @judenemcleod775Ай бұрын

    Omg. Her brother is fiinnneeee.

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    As HELL!!😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @AliyahoZ
    @AliyahoZАй бұрын

    The brides mom was WAY too lenient. It’s actually disturbing!

  • @CrochetTutorialsGirl
    @CrochetTutorialsGirlАй бұрын

    I DO NOT feel sorry for her. She chose him knowing full well that he is a man of the streets. She did it to herself and it won’t stop.

  • @tonitwitty9529

    @tonitwitty9529

    23 күн бұрын

    Some women aren't strong as others so I do feel sorry for her.

  • @rottielove2012
    @rottielove2012Ай бұрын

    I don't see this man staying faithful

  • @Warrior8909-k1k
    @Warrior8909-k1kАй бұрын

    I’m sorry I’m not seeing what cadence sees🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️lord be a new set of glasses Amen

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    Amen!😂😂😂😂

  • @Warrior8909-k1k

    @Warrior8909-k1k

    Ай бұрын

    @@TheMwendaa 😫😫😂😂😂

  • @PRINCESS2U_

    @PRINCESS2U_

    Ай бұрын

    Idk what’s the catch!

  • @s.p529
    @s.p529Ай бұрын

    I don’t even believe her when she said yes after her brother asked her if she was really happy. Wasn’t convincing at all. Don’t be with someone just because. And that’s what it seems like to me.

  • @laj4186

    @laj4186

    Ай бұрын

    She's visibly very unhappy.

  • @MzSeptember
    @MzSeptemberАй бұрын

    I think a large part of his disconnect is that he does not want to be faithful. I can only buy for so long that your dad was not in the picture. There are plenty guys out there who are stepdads to children they can conquer this quicker than he has.

  • @kaylawright6536
    @kaylawright6536Ай бұрын

    That’s crazy. Both families were willing to give blessings just based off of him, saying some words and that’s good enough? Without him proving his words with action I would not believe anything he says.

  • @mangoyacho

    @mangoyacho

    Ай бұрын

    @kaylawright6536 I enjoyed reading your perspective - very insightful.

  • @relvailhickenbotham4620
    @relvailhickenbotham4620Ай бұрын

    Her brother really still concerned about his sister

  • @Sthrncal12
    @Sthrncal12Ай бұрын

    DO NOT MARRY THIS DUDE!!!!!

  • @HobbsHeartHome
    @HobbsHeartHomeАй бұрын

    I hope that she realizes her and son's worth. She loves the potential and idea of being with him more than her own happiness. So mamy red flags

  • @tammyjenkins2530
    @tammyjenkins2530Ай бұрын

    How long does Kouri get to use "it goes back to my childhood" as an excuse not to show up in a relationship??? How many times did he say that?

  • @lovewins8914

    @lovewins8914

    Ай бұрын

    Because when you don’t deal with childhood trauma, it does play a part; he is just dealing, with the help of Tracey, that he harbors certain behavior traits because of it.

  • @vetgirl71

    @vetgirl71

    29 күн бұрын

    @@lovewins8914yes I get it, but he either needs to continue with therapy to be a better man or not get married! We all dealt with some type of trauma or lack of affection in the household because our parents worked long hours to keep a roof over our heads! He shouldn’t get a pass for bad behavior just because he defaults to “his childhood”! Now that he knows some of the reasons he cheats, he needs to seriously work on himself! She also needs therapy to figure out why she is lowering her standards and self esteem to think he is a prize, because he “chose her”! He is still emotionally tied to the other woman and did not answer the therapist question if he would get in contact with the other woman again! Even though he didn’t answer, that was his answer, it wasn’t a “maybe”, it read loud and clear that he wasn’t through seeing the other woman! I feel bad for her son, because he is going to endure seeing his mother hurting and emotionally drained from this toxic relationship! 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @user-jk6yf2lb3f
    @user-jk6yf2lb3fАй бұрын

    If i got to tell a man to act like a dad to my child, then i dont want that man. He clearly doesn't want to he a step parent.

  • @trecehunt8591
    @trecehunt8591Ай бұрын

    She is too sweet, he’s a hothead and she needs to RUN!!!

  • @guerlinemacean3684

    @guerlinemacean3684

    10 күн бұрын

    Run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ faster

  • @tia-kaycommay3265
    @tia-kaycommay3265Ай бұрын

    This is the only show that i dont want the couple not to be together...she is so beautiful

  • @Wisdomsmother

    @Wisdomsmother

    Ай бұрын

    You used a double negative… do you want them to be together or not?

  • @MsSmith781
    @MsSmith781Ай бұрын

    He is out of her league. She settled with him.

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    Most definitely

  • @Sweetie0231
    @Sweetie0231Ай бұрын

    The body language with the sit down tells it all.She’s leaning towards him for comfort and he’s leaning away from her because he’s being put in an “uncomfortable” situation with everyone calling him out for his behaviour and how he treats her.Huge red 🚩.RUN babygirl!!!!

  • @kyliethorn9040
    @kyliethorn9040Ай бұрын

    Oh no, if his mama has doubt him, I feel like that’s a red flag

  • @mlm1916

    @mlm1916

    Ай бұрын

    Flag with an 'S'‼️ This is what stood out the most for me. His Mum ... ⁉️ Major 🚩🚩🚩

  • @smilesw3712
    @smilesw3712Ай бұрын

    He’s not ready to be a father nor a husband.

  • @chuntayejordan5130
    @chuntayejordan5130Ай бұрын

    Run girl, I think his family would help you escape 😢

  • @HoneyBee4163
    @HoneyBee4163Ай бұрын

    If she don't take her son and run...drop, roll...hide

  • @DreamofJerine

    @DreamofJerine

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rottielove2012
    @rottielove2012Ай бұрын

    She crazy to marry him.

  • @bluewhales6877

    @bluewhales6877

    Ай бұрын

    *desperate 😢 He really isn’t mentally prepared to be a parent or know how to be one. He needs a male mentor to guide him into manhood. She wants her son to have a dad, but she is overlooking that he ain’t the best model. She needs to build her self esteem instead of looking for a bf to raise!

  • @ferraodeaf436
    @ferraodeaf436Ай бұрын

    This woman is not happy. Nobody stable or happy is crying so easily. She needs to have self esteem and heal

  • @JennyClevers-en9ow

    @JennyClevers-en9ow

    Ай бұрын

    💯

  • @teresahodge4846
    @teresahodge4846Ай бұрын

    Young lady remember this you are the prize if he don't know this for real he's not the one !!!!!!!!!!!! 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @myae9563
    @myae9563Ай бұрын

    The self esteem 😮‍💨

  • @nicklebaby
    @nicklebabyАй бұрын

    Girl take your son and run. That will be a cycle.

  • @tannyshayearby8698
    @tannyshayearby8698Ай бұрын

    How do you stop cheating for the most part?

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    This😂

  • @jaylenefarrell7175

    @jaylenefarrell7175

    Ай бұрын

    Tip only?! 😂😂

  • @bluewhales6877

    @bluewhales6877

    Ай бұрын

    He’ll put the most part in his side piece, but not the whole thang all at once!!!! 😂😂😂

  • @quelbranch3007
    @quelbranch3007Ай бұрын

    He knows he should step up more with the child.. That means he chooses not to.

  • @nicolenichols8109
    @nicolenichols8109Ай бұрын

    Whoever this other woman he was with for the 2 years is still a factor you can tell by his demeanor.

  • @TheMwendaa

    @TheMwendaa

    Ай бұрын

    Big factor

  • @Beatrix_Ditto
    @Beatrix_DittoАй бұрын

    Uh... he did not end the affair.

  • @empowermentebony5955
    @empowermentebony5955Ай бұрын

    You can clearly see he is not ready.

  • @rosewanda2
    @rosewanda2Ай бұрын

    She’s still hurting because of the infidelity.. 😢

  • @TheSkyhamilton
    @TheSkyhamiltonАй бұрын

    No one should have blessed this. Stevie Wonder can see this is a train wreck.

  • @bflymovement9812
    @bflymovement9812Ай бұрын

    Their body language speak volumes! She’s more into him, than he is her.

  • @monajean-baptiste890
    @monajean-baptiste890Ай бұрын

    The fact that his excuse for everything he doesn’t do is that “he didn’t have that growing up” but hasn’t worked on how to do what he’s not doing is a huge red flag.

  • @bellalenee263

    @bellalenee263

    Ай бұрын

    I swear it triggered me I wanted to throw my phone😂 but her believing him made it worse

  • @jes6161
    @jes6161Ай бұрын

    I don’t understand people why stay with their partners after cheating. It only takes one time for me to leave the relationship after breaking trust like that. She needs to cut him off and never look back.

  • @guerlinemacean3684

    @guerlinemacean3684

    10 күн бұрын

    Exactly

  • @UriyahMommy
    @UriyahMommyАй бұрын

    He is in love with the other woman. She better run and never look back, she seems sweet and loving but super vulnerable and open to reality.

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917Ай бұрын

    Corey is immature and volatile

  • @CeyceywithaC
    @CeyceywithaCАй бұрын

    The groom is way to immature for marriage period.

  • @eugeniamelecky7940
    @eugeniamelecky7940Ай бұрын

    Run he's not ready. He wants to change but he hasn't. Some counseling would be needed.

  • @1materialgurl
    @1materialgurlАй бұрын

    They are so fundamentally clueless about how to be in a relationship with each other, how are they even engaged?

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186Ай бұрын

    She's an emotional wreck!

  • @tammarabrown7046
    @tammarabrown7046Ай бұрын

    Singing "I'm a fiancee" u shud be singing " I'm a daaamn foool" girl do better PICK URSELF..He's not it!!

  • @Purplegirl-pi1jo
    @Purplegirl-pi1joАй бұрын

    Please remember that you teach people how to treat you, by what you put up with and don’t put up with. ❤

  • @tiffaniemusgrove9753
    @tiffaniemusgrove9753Ай бұрын

    I've been her, it's gonna take sleep love, God and therapy. That man has hurt her to her core. I can see and feel her pain and true unhappiness

  • @lemoynepaulk8401
    @lemoynepaulk8401Ай бұрын

    Baby, I was "he chose me" at 18yrs old til 34yrs old. Married him at 23yrs old had two children by him and everything. It still wasn't enough, they truly drain you of your youth and energy. I hope she realized it and ran 🏃‍♀️

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555Ай бұрын

    The bride to be is such a push over 😬 how you cut his mom off for no reason. She probably could give you some insight on his trifling behind.

  • @keishawilliams7546

    @keishawilliams7546

    Ай бұрын

    She won’t listen, she has low self esteem and desperate to have a man by any means

  • @Mesha89100
    @Mesha89100Ай бұрын

    He doesn’t want this woman. He knows she needs his validation, and he plays on her biggest weakness “EMOTIONS.” He’s cheated once and she accepted it. He’s going to do what he wants, when he wants because she has no boundaries.

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