Cancer & Mental Health | Overcoming My Life's Hardest Trial

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Mental Health is a major factor that can be affected during any kind of trial or hardship. While going through her breast cancer journey and treatments, Delia was challenged with many instances that that took their toll on her both mentally and physically. In this video we focus on the mental health aspect and discuss some solutions that helped her immensely during her journey.
Therapy is a very important and necessary step to begin aiding one’s mental health when they feel they may be struggling. We share some helpful sources that anyone, anywhere can benefit from.
Delia continues on her journey of battling and overcoming breast cancer. Thank you all for the love and support.
♥️
#breastcancerawareness
#breastcancersurvivor
#mentalhealth

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  • @nancyfeldman410
    @nancyfeldman4102 жыл бұрын

    Hi Delia. At age 27 I was diagnosed with stage 4 cervical. I was newly married and my husband and I were a team going through our journey. This week is my 64th birthday. We became parents of two through the beauty of adoption and more recently grandparents. I dedicated my adult life to working in the private adoption world. I retired having been a part of hundreds of adoptions. Mental health is so important and thank you for this video. You will remain in my prayers for a full recovery. Thinking of you always.❤️

  • @bezagebremedhine5102

    @bezagebremedhine5102

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glory be to God. Thank you for shating your beautiful story. It gives me strength.

  • @elizabethkoobs1060

    @elizabethkoobs1060

    2 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful legacy you have had through adoption! To God be the glory!💜🙏

  • @monicafoster9926

    @monicafoster9926

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Nancy, my husband and I are looking into adoption and was just thinking I need to know the best resources when I saw your comment about dedicating your life to adoption. Could you point me in the best direction for resources for getting started on that journey?

  • @user-go4fh7cl1e

    @user-go4fh7cl1e

    2 жыл бұрын

    If u come Korea i m ganna kill all cancer in your body within 5months ..but u can do by yourself there. Take Liposomal vitaminc 20-25g doxycycline 100mg azithromycin 500mg 5days in a week and take 1600mg fenbendazole 600mg cimetidin 30ml Olive oil 1000mg meriva curcumin 1000mg omega3.. And 4000mg quercetin 800mg pterostilbene 400mg egcg probiotics metformin 1000mg Naltrexone 3mg Vitamin D 5000iu everyday... Before going to bed. 40mg Melatonin. one korean who has 5.5cm terminal pancreatic cancer he failed although he got 60 times chemo theraphy . even 12 times keytruda. doctors gave up curing. but he cured cancer with this. 20g Liposomal vitaminc 100mg doxycycline 500mg azithromycin in a day. he takes these for 5 days in a week and then 1600mg fenbendazole(mebendazole albendazole) 50ml Olive oil. 600mg cimetidin 1500mg meriva curcumin 1000mg omega3 in a day he takes for 2days in a week. everyday he takes 3mg naltrexon 5000iu vitamind 400mg egcg 1000mg metformin..he cured cancer within 7 months

  • @michellecain9268

    @michellecain9268

    Жыл бұрын

    What an amazing and encouraging story.

  • @daliab2776
    @daliab27762 жыл бұрын

    So true, we are never alone, "Throw all your anxiety on God, because he cares for you"- 1 Peter 5:7 By prayer, you can gain the peace of God. 🙏💕 We love you Delia & Dylan, 🥰 we haven't stop praying for you both 👩🏼‍🤝‍👨🏻 ❤️

  • @slo2350
    @slo23502 жыл бұрын

    The happiest people you see struggle with depression & anxiety, they know what it’s like to be down or weak. Delia you are so strong & amazing

  • @dcborn7032
    @dcborn70322 жыл бұрын

    Thank you both for this video. You have been on my mind and I had checked for an update for several weeks now and was thrilled to see you had done this video. Delia, you look great, happy and at peace! And, Dylan, as always, right by her side, supporting and loving her. Your love for each other is apparent in all you say and do. True soulmates. I’m praying for you both. Love you guys!

  • @nelliebrostrom2418
    @nelliebrostrom24182 жыл бұрын

    Love you Dylan and Delia, thank you for being so real and for still trying to help others, when you are going through your own battles

  • @barbarawelsch5850
    @barbarawelsch58502 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad to hear that you and Bec are in touch. I love both of your channels and I pray for both of you.

  • @gillkaramani5545
    @gillkaramani55452 жыл бұрын

    I thank you for being so honest and open about what you have been going through and I’m sure this will help so many others who have to go through it

  • @Ell5589
    @Ell55892 жыл бұрын

    It’s always such a blessing to hear from my favorite KZreadrs! I think everyone understands and appreciates whatever you share with your followers. We are watching rocks stars here, hero’s with hearts of gold. Thank you so very much for your insight, wisdom and kindness. ❤️ Our constant prayers in your behalf!

  • @christinem9280
    @christinem92802 жыл бұрын

    Keep fight Delia!!! We love you so much! You are so strong and you matter so much!!! It is the hardest thing to go through but you are coming a long way and we are always praying for you.

  • @michellepoe761
    @michellepoe7612 жыл бұрын

    Mental health is important now more then ever. Thank you so much for sharing this resource and an update on you both. We have a close friend that is going through cancer treatment and I always try to send her a positive message of encouragement because I can’t imagine how hard it is going through that. I always look forward to your updates and pray for you both. 💜🙏🏻

  • @sandip.7968
    @sandip.79682 жыл бұрын

    Delia, you remain on my prayer list. Sincere thanks for your openness on the difficult journey. You are going to make it!

  • @geraldkor8307
    @geraldkor83072 жыл бұрын

    You make our hearts happy! You both are so helpful as an example of Keeping everything real and positive going through such trials. We will keep you both in our prayers!

  • @elizabeththorson5184
    @elizabeththorson51842 жыл бұрын

    You two are incredible: kind, generous, loving and thoughtful. Thank you for sharing this difficult journey. Your resources are invaluable.

  • @lucindabutler1100
    @lucindabutler11002 жыл бұрын

    Hi, greetings from London. xx Thank you so much for this video its so important to take care of our mental health, issues have a way of creeping up on you. The journey you are both going through is the hardest emotional rollercoaster, that seems to be always in the back ground. When you have cancer, although it's happening to you, you always seem to worry about everyone else and the effect it's having on them and think of their feelings, and you then put yours in the back ground. I am so glad you have found someone to off load to. Take care of yourselves, stay strong, sending hugs to you both xx

  • @rosemarys2465
    @rosemarys24652 жыл бұрын

    This is part of your life's work....and you are doing it with such grace. Thank you. My prayers for full healing.

  • @Rhottador
    @Rhottador2 жыл бұрын

    I needed this video. We may not be going through the same thing, but it really spoke to me about mental health. Thank you for making my heart feel a little lighter. I need to give myself more credit

  • @seizetheday9546
    @seizetheday95462 жыл бұрын

    Hey Delia, your raw honesty & gentle wisdom touches the soul. Sending love & light backatchya. Love you too Dylan 🙏❤️🇦🇺

  • @corina6772
    @corina6772 Жыл бұрын

    Delia I’m praying all is well today. Stay strong and faithfully. Love you!

  • @maureenkilbane9948
    @maureenkilbane99482 жыл бұрын

    Your honesty and grace is so beautiful. Your calming demeanor makes us feel better. We should be making you feel better. Continued good thoughts and prayers

  • @joycady8325
    @joycady83252 жыл бұрын

    Awww, I was just thinking about you recently and this video popped up. So happy to hear that you’re doing good. Thanks so much for sharing all of your journey you’re so inspirational. Love you both so much.

  • @barbaramills7789
    @barbaramills77892 жыл бұрын

    The way you both speak so eloquently and communicate so well with each other, really is an inspiration. To lean on each other and others for help is an absolute must, being 'brave' and 'strong' hopefully means you have had the support behind you to be so. Mental health is the upmost to get through cancer. Much love and strength to you both ❤

  • @SxyGrl44
    @SxyGrl44 Жыл бұрын

    Praying that Delia is well... thought I would see an updated video considering I haven't been here in months but that's ok. Rest up and praying you're feeling better... mentally physically and spiritually. You're so strong!!

  • @tschandraheinze1680
    @tschandraheinze16802 жыл бұрын

    Keep fighting the both of you. !!!! I pray for you guys always. So scary and stressful 😫 the mental health side of things too. I have gone through this on outside looking in seen both my grandmothers go through this battle. I'm so happy you are bringing this topic up. I think it's so important to make sure mental health is a top priority, it's part of life never anything to be ashamed, making sure you have support. My mind is like your at night all the time. I close my eyes and talk to God every night specially in those hard times and he helps me so so so much. I really liked that. You both are so kind and caring for others. Sending my hellos, thoughts & prayers to you guys. 🙏

  • @ginacross264
    @ginacross2642 жыл бұрын

    You are both very special people. I pray for your complete recovery Delia! Much love to you both.

  • @jilly235
    @jilly2352 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sooo much for sharing your journey! I am certain you are reaching/helping many by being so open. I 1000% agree that it is important to share and be open about cancer as so many people are scared of the unknown.

  • @marciadichiara5688
    @marciadichiara56882 жыл бұрын

    Happy Easter! A valiant battle!! Best of health mentally and spiritually and physically is my prayer for you ❤️🙏🏻❤️🌸

  • @Cinderella1125
    @Cinderella11252 жыл бұрын

    Delia, it does get better. You are in the battle right now and your cancer fight is so real and raw. Time is a healer. Praying for you!

  • @lynnemac1402
    @lynnemac14022 жыл бұрын

    What you two are doing will help so many people, getting help when we need it is so important and is a mark of strength not weakness. Everything you are going through is so natural, all the worrying with different pains, it is just so human. I love your wigs and if thats what you need to do to get through what you are going through, then thats what you do. Stay strong and beautiful as always xx

  • @donnagunter1418
    @donnagunter14182 жыл бұрын

    Many prayers as you continue your journey. It's wonderful how you're raising awareness on the mental health side of the cancer journey. I know you're going to end up looking back at all of this and have such a testimony to continue sharing. I love you both. Donna in NC

  • @patrickhawkins5566

    @patrickhawkins5566

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Donna,how are you hope you’re staying safe

  • @bettyaltman3576
    @bettyaltman35762 жыл бұрын

    Delia you are truly an inspiration. I have been going thru my cancer journey for 7 years. Each day is a blessing. Prayers for you on your journey. God Bless you as you go forward.

  • @joannhempen8210
    @joannhempen82102 жыл бұрын

    Delia your such a beautiful soul. Your strength, your courage and humble nature makes you so very special ❤️ Thank you for sharing your journey. I’m so grateful your doing well🤗

  • @cindym3340
    @cindym33402 жыл бұрын

    I so happy to see you both! I have been worried about you Delia. I am praying for your strength and complete recovery. You two are what love is about. You are there for each other always. Happy Easter to you and may you continue to heal!😘🐥💓

  • @sheliaball7306
    @sheliaball73062 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad you did this video. Mental health is so important. I've been going to a therapist on and off for many years after a suicide attempt when I was 30. I'm 53 now and had to have a double mastectomy and started reconstruction in January. I lost all my siblings and my dad and most of my aunts and uncles so it puts my life in more prospective and I now am mostly happy to just still be alive. I had breast cancer in 2017. Then in 2020 I had a precancer in my other breast. Then last year I had another scare so I knew it was time to do the mastectomy. My family has a high level of breast cancer in it and I wanted to live. I understand the mental health thing. It's hard sometimes and I do reach out for help. You're so strong and you make other women going through the same thing know they are not alone. You have helped so much. Thank you for being you.

  • @ruthutter1968
    @ruthutter1968 Жыл бұрын

    Prayers for you Delia..you have been on my mind lately. I hope your days are filled with love and sunshine. 🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻

  • @msnola915
    @msnola9152 жыл бұрын

    You are called to this.... agreed!!!! Your genuine heart of caring is so evident!!!! Thank you for the link to mental health!!!!! Needed!!! To God be the glory in you guys and through you guys!!!❤

  • @iradz3087
    @iradz30872 жыл бұрын

    Hi Delia, I am just beginning my battle against breast cancer and your videos are a great encouragement to me

  • @blondeelockzz
    @blondeelockzz2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve followed you two since you started vlogging, and it’s exciting to see the direction your channel is moving in. Delia they say everything happens for a reason, and there is a reason you were given this battle to fight. You have the gift of empathy and compassion to help others who are struggling in life wether it be a physical or mental illness, trauma, cancer, or other battles they may be fighting. You and Dylan have this platform to share knowledge, information, hope, and so much more to so many people who need it! This is both of your calling to be a voice together as a team, to bring hope to the hopeless! By helping others you are also helping yourself, and the universe will reward you! You may be small but girl you are mighty, you are gonna live a long and healthy life I just know it! My mom got diagnosed with cancer around same time as you, thankfully the tumor is stable and not growing or spreading but she must continue daily chemo pills at this point. Her cancer diagnosis really did a number on my anxiety, along with loosing my biological dad after only 2 years of finding him after searching my whole adult life. So I’m excited to not only learn from you about healing myself mentally, physically, and spiritually but also sharing it with my mom ♥️

  • @maryrobertson8611
    @maryrobertson86112 жыл бұрын

    Delia, I am so sorry you are having a little sit back. You are so strong and a person of faith, which is important with your illness. Having been in your situation, prayers helped me, but being around loved ones also helps. Even coping sometimes is hard, but you can do this.

  • @shakinahs
    @shakinahs2 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so awesome. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on mental health. Some people who need these resources don’t quite understand the benefits of them. Seeking professional help is not a desperate cry for the weak, and it’s possible to find a therapist that you share a deep connection and trust with. Delia, I will continue to keep you and your husband in my prayer. Your pink sisters are here for you!🙏🏽❤️

  • @cathytauscher6760
    @cathytauscher67602 жыл бұрын

    I’m a nurse and I work with cancer patients. I’ve learned so much patients. The integrity, courage, grace, and strength that many of the patients have shown is amazing. Cancer has touched our family as well I have a son-in-law who died of stage four esophageal cancer in his 30s and 18 months after he was diagnosed my daughter was diagnosed with brain tumor. Fortunately she has beat all the odds but not without struggles she’s had many surgeries and scalp revisions. It’s true once you’ve had a cancer diagnosis even if you’re “ cured” the fear never goes away. Bless you both for sharing your vulnerability and resources that can help. Therapy is not for the weak it’s for the strong 💪.

  • @marciabryant5593
    @marciabryant55932 жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear that you are open to receiving help because it’s definitely not a sign of weakness; quite the opposite. Keep up the fight; life is worth it ❤️

  • @brookejackson8122
    @brookejackson81222 жыл бұрын

    Delia is so strong I’m so proud how she is handling everything and how she is so positive threw everything❤️

  • @shellyl.9662
    @shellyl.96622 жыл бұрын

    Both of you are such kind caring people. It’s amazing how God has put such love and kindness in your hearts. Even when you’re down you still have a way of lifting others up that’s an incredible gift.

  • @cindysears3130
    @cindysears31302 жыл бұрын

    I believe your transparency will help many many others, no matter what their difficult journey may look like. I hope your willingness to share reaches those in need. Beautiful video, very heartfelt❤️. Prayers for both of you.

  • @annetterichetelli5494
    @annetterichetelli54942 жыл бұрын

    So brave and strong! I pray for a healing that puts you in remission!

  • @carolannelunan5329
    @carolannelunan53292 жыл бұрын

    A cancer journey is tough …. Emotionally, physically and sometimes spiritually. You have had more setbacks than usual. I am so glad you are seeking the support you need. Hitting the wall is real for many people, and is VERY difficult. Watching your partner hurting is very difficult too. You both have wonderful families and friends that have been supportive, but no one can take the journey for you. It is a lot to deal with. Your openness and honesty will help/has helped so many people…..at the same time I am glad you have taken the time you need and have sought out the support you need to deal things in your own way. Sending you both hugs and prayers. May Gods peace wash over you. ❤️‍🩹🙏❤️👏

  • @patriotsgirl1112
    @patriotsgirl11122 жыл бұрын

    For anyone, this video, and it’s topic, is so very important to hear. Not only those who are struggling with anything hearing this will help them, but also maybe even Delia talking out loud more about it is helping her too! Mental health and emotional pain are very serious and should be talked about and brought to light more. Delia & Dylan y’all are much loved and appreciated ❤️ 🙏 ✝️. Yesss Delia can’t wait for that wig video, that smile on your face when you brought it up was amazing to see!!!

  • @tonifoster1835
    @tonifoster18352 жыл бұрын

    D & D, What an an extraordinary couple! 💙 All of our prayers have been answered…. You’re both incredible people reaching out to normalise mental health. Everyone is enough just as they are, faults and all. 💜 I love following your Chanel because your an inspiration to many. Beautiful Couple 💗.

  • @joyceprice6749
    @joyceprice67492 жыл бұрын

    Delia bless your heart you've been through so much. I thank God that my mom is here at Easter and cancer free. I'm praying for you that you will be well and happy. God bless you both and know that you are loved. HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE. 💖🐇💖

  • @rockybalboa985
    @rockybalboa985 Жыл бұрын

    Stay strong. After experiencing breast cancer with my employer, whom I absolutely adore, you have taught me so much about what she has been experiencing. Just know you are loved and we are all hoping you and your family are safe ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reinettbernardo2779
    @reinettbernardo27792 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. Having gone through the journey as well it is so good to know there is someone who understand one's fears, the pain, the disappointment and depression. Especially after the mastectomy, that's when it really hit me & my plastic surgeon referred me to a Onco psychologist. That helped me tremendously! With each check up after op he could see l was becoming quiter. That was before we started filling the expanders, so l was still flat. So grateful he was so aware of my state of mind to have picked that up before l had gone into full depression. I keep you in my prayers. You look beautiful, love the 'new' hair! Love from South Africa

  • @nooria59
    @nooria59 Жыл бұрын

    No news from you delia pray you are good n healthy

  • @deborahcollins9623
    @deborahcollins96232 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video! Counseling is a lifesaver. I had PTSD from a 36 year marriage that was mainly mental abuse, 9 miscarriages, cancer, and just life. I went thru Counseling and was shown a different way to deal with things. When my sister lost her hair from chemo the wigs and hair wraps were herway to SMILE!! You never know how that Hi or Smile will help somone... Blessings to you!!

  • @unitivecounselingservices
    @unitivecounselingservices2 жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful Delia. I'm so happy you are talking about this. It is so important. As a therapist, I see many people who don't seek treatment, until they have completely broken down and they feel all alone. I never want people to feel that way. We get through life together. Thank God, we have so many different professions and people are gifted in so many areas. We really do find out when we have sickness, trauma, etc that we are really a part of something so big and all is already so complete. The beauty is being able to see it all function as one. That's the unexpected gift we get to see when we have or are going through something like an illness that is very challenging. We get to see everyone coming together to help us, love us, and be of service to each other. I wish you so much love and happiness. Your family is so beautiful. It's so amazing to see the love you have for each other. Thank you.

  • @veramaxey7899
    @veramaxey78992 жыл бұрын

    Aww, I’m SO late!! I’ve been MIA too, and had NO idea. Delia you have such a BEAUTY, GRACE, and STRENGTH about you. I’ve watched you guys from the START. I’ve been Following your sister and brother-in-law as well. You guys are such a STRONG FAMILY and you have a SOLID Support System. I’m PRAYING for your continued STRENGTH, ENDURANCE, and MOST IMPORTANTLY COMPLETE HEALING. DO NOT fret and loose faith. THIS too shall pass. GODS blessings Chatwin Family.

  • @DEEDEE4xo
    @DEEDEE4xo2 жыл бұрын

    Your honesty and transparency is so inspiring and will help so many people seek out help. I totally understand how important it is to take care of yourself mentally as well as physically. I'm in awe of the both of you! Through all the trauma and pain this journey took you through you open up your hearts to others that may need mental health care. I also believe kindness and love can make such a difference to someone. You guys are such beautiful, sweet, thoughtful and caring people!!! I'm sending all my love hugs and prayers to you always! I can't wait for the Q & A! Please stay positive and keep God in your hearts! Btw Delia, you look beautiful in every single wig! The cutest couple ever!!! xoxoxo

  • @denisewright6095
    @denisewright60952 жыл бұрын

    You are so strong! I had lung cancer. It is true every pain I get thinking the cancer has come back. You are stronger than I was when I had it. Then last year I had breast cancer that was removed. I am fine now. Everytime I feel sorry for myself I think how strong you are and tell myself stop you are stronger than you think.

  • @susiepravitz8202
    @susiepravitz82022 жыл бұрын

    Bless you both. Cancer affects so many and to openly discuss it is a "fresh air experience.". I have had cancer twice and the 2nd time was right after my husband passed. Mental health is SO important. I appreciate both of you being open.

  • @abrahamthomas4680

    @abrahamthomas4680

    2 жыл бұрын

    I never believe when I saw allot of comments about the cure for cancer from people until I gave it a try I order natural herbal remedy from Dr. Osaka on KZread channel and I'm completely cured of Cancer.

  • @debsoldies
    @debsoldies2 жыл бұрын

    Many of the things you say in this video hit home. Thank you both so much for all your openness and kind words. I love your honesty and your blessing all with what you are learning. God bless you both, always.

  • @lorindacory1924
    @lorindacory1924 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad that you are doing great and you look wonderful. I was having a hard time and I started praying for God to walk this journey with me. I'm a breast cancer survivor in remission for almost 4 years. I'd glad to be apart of your journey. May God bless you and your family.

  • @pxleex
    @pxleex Жыл бұрын

    Delia, how are you doing? I'm concerned about how you're doing since I haven't seen your video uploaded. I'll keep you in my prayer in your recovery. I was also diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer, and am currently under chemotherapy. I'm rooting for both of us! Sending all the love I have to you!

  • @DeadKisses

    @DeadKisses

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m also concerned… we haven’t heard from them, I hope all is well.. sorry to hear u r going thru the same thing I hope u as well recover soon.💕

  • @michellelyman7092

    @michellelyman7092

    Жыл бұрын

    oddly enough, I just went to their channel to see if there was an update, for some reason I thought of her today - I truly hope the fact that we've not had an update in awhile is not indicative of any issues....

  • @TerriaJanee

    @TerriaJanee

    Жыл бұрын

    she posted on her IG an update of what's going on with her.

  • @starrperry6395
    @starrperry63952 жыл бұрын

    I’m sobbing, this was God answering my prayer. I need to reach out and speak with a therapist. I don’t have cancer but I have an autoimmune disorder that is affecting my major organs and joints. Thank you for sharing this and you never know how and who your story will impact. I agree, people should be kind because you don’t know someone’s story and a kind act or word could change their day.

  • @clarelockwood6018
    @clarelockwood60182 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for doing this vlog. I am so proud of you for seeking help. I lost my nephew to suicide in December 2020. Such a tragedy. All the best to you Delia. I think if you often and look forward to you updates. Faith keeps us going.

  • @waynemasters
    @waynemasters Жыл бұрын

    My Mum was diagnosed with Stage IIIA Breast Cancer April 2014, and had the exact same treatment schedule as you. My Sister was diagnosed in 1988 with Stage IV Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. By God's grace, they are both survivors like yourself. I praise God that the three of you are healed, and had the support, prayers and love that you absolutely need on a terrifying journey like this. May God bless you both always, and praise God that your health is restored. Sending love and hugs to you both from St. Catharines, Ont. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @mfes14
    @mfes142 жыл бұрын

    Delia I watched you before you had cancer and then watched you as you were diagnosed and then go through your treatments… well here I am also with breast cancer diagnosed in February and going through many treatments you have already been through… I have said to so many people the mental side of cancer is the worst side effect.. so much is concentrated on the medical symptoms of cancer but more needs to be looked at for your mental health.. so thank you for bringing this up 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @MrJdogg123456
    @MrJdogg123456 Жыл бұрын

    I love you both, to see your love and support for each other, you are making a great difference in many peoples lives, sometimes our sacrifices and thing we endure are used for the betterment of mankind. You both are examples of love and kindness, thank you!

  • @MsHarlow15
    @MsHarlow152 жыл бұрын

    I have been praying for you every night and thinking of you every day. I am not the flashy type but you can rest assured i am out here…behind a screen in a small town in Canada pulling for you. Sending love and light !!

  • @kimdrury6184
    @kimdrury61842 жыл бұрын

    Delia I am an 8 years breast cancer conquerer. I relate to everything your saying and the aftermath of cancer and all that is involved from diagnosis to "forever" is physically and mentally, emotionally draining....it does not ever end. All of the mentally aspects during treatment, after treatment...PTSD, depression, anxiety, any ache, pain, bump, fatigue, breathlessness etc etc...is always on our minds. Cancer is forever....but I feel the same...whomever I can help by communicating the truth about it all I feel I am also serving our fellow people. We are in a group we never wanted to be a part of. Love hearing your updates!!! I'm also following Becca's journey as their location is quite close to where we live and her treatment is at one of the best hospitals. Hugs to you and your hubby!!

  • @annettegregg8654
    @annettegregg86542 жыл бұрын

    God bless you My sister has been diagnosed with lung cancer and we are praying it hasn't spread 🙏

  • @beckyz1393
    @beckyz13932 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for reminding ppl to love others, and give that smile. It costs us nothing to be kind. Much love and God bless you.😘❤

  • @emiliemoyer461
    @emiliemoyer4612 жыл бұрын

    “God is even in the small moments”🙏🏼 Praying for you Delia-for you both/your family! Thank you for sharing your whole journey with us all. Your story inspires not only me, but I know so many others! ❤️

  • @stacybroussard3097

    @stacybroussard3097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen♥️

  • @dawnclarke8482
    @dawnclarke84822 жыл бұрын

    Delia, you are a vision of loveliness inside and out. You warmed my heart the way you talk about God and being kind. You are always in my heart and prayers.

  • @kristinamartin4811
    @kristinamartin48112 жыл бұрын

    I have been through so many therapists/counseling services as well as intensive outpatient therapy. Somethings mentally can also be inherited. I love how much better it makes me feel when I leave . No better medicine than therapy.

  • @lilyraiyne9225
    @lilyraiyne92252 жыл бұрын

    Sweet Delia, every time I see a video you post, I always saw how beautiful you were...but each video allows us to see how you blossom into this amazing garden of hope, kindness, transparency & even more beautiful of a person. You are an amazing soldier, and such a lovely person 💕. You warm my heart!!!❤ Thank you for sharing so much with humbleness and grace! You are in my thoughts every day!!! Sending all the love, hugs & blessings you can hold🦋❣️

  • @maureeni2648
    @maureeni26482 жыл бұрын

    You two are such a strong couple.. your support of each other is amazing!! God bless you both

  • @lisatingley8953
    @lisatingley89532 жыл бұрын

    You two are so loving and giving. Sharing your faith in your messages is so real and true. In some of my lowest times, rolled up in a fetal position, crying when I really wanted to wail ( I couldn’t i was a single mom of 4), the only thing I could cry out to keep my sanity is “ The Lord is my Shepherd! The Lord is my Shepherd! “. Until I could pull myself together, pull up my bi girl panties and go make dinner. You both inspire me. Prayer and Good bless you ❤️

  • @dollydampman2633
    @dollydampman26332 жыл бұрын

    You are such a bright light in this world God Bless you both! Happy Easter! He has risen!

  • @Yvone0707
    @Yvone07072 жыл бұрын

    God bless the both of you, Delia and Dylan. You inspire so many. You are correct in that two of the most important things are that we need to treat everyone with love and kindness. Prayers for you always.

  • @aliceandrews1974

    @aliceandrews1974

    2 жыл бұрын

    May the Lord speed your recovery. Prayers for you always.

  • @susanworrell8141
    @susanworrell81412 жыл бұрын

    Dylan is a great support partner! You guys are blessed with each other!!❤️❤️💐

  • @esmeraldabasilio7237
    @esmeraldabasilio72372 жыл бұрын

    Hi Delia, I was diagnosed with breast cancer back in December and that’s how I came across your channel. You were such an inspiration to me seeing how strong you were and always had a smile on your face. I did my last treatment a few days ago and I’m so happy because it was such a hard time of my life. Everyone is so surprised because I’m 25 and everyone is always like “your young you can take it “ I hate when they would say that because it made me think that if I complain about any little thing they see me as weak. But it took me a while to realize I shouldn’t worry about anyone else but myself and what I feel❤️

  • @dalenemoore

    @dalenemoore

    2 жыл бұрын

    Esmeralda-I’m so sorry for all you’ve gone through. I support you and encourage you. I’m hoping you are getting good care. Keep on keeping on. Rest when you need to and cry and feel sorry for yourself when you need to. You are loved. Sending you good wishes ❤️

  • @margenn3889

    @margenn3889

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending best wishes to you.

  • @shakinahs

    @shakinahs

    2 жыл бұрын

    I completely sympathize and understand you. People would tell me I am young and strong and I have beat breast cancer before. But in reality, I feel so weak. And I appreciate the positivity but on the other hand I believe this situation/outcome is out of my control. It doesn’t matter how strong I am. I have always felt healthy until I was first diagnosed at the age of 32. Five years later, reoccurrence of breast cancer is still hard, painful, and overwhelming.

  • @connieweber7449

    @connieweber7449

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you lots of love. Stay strong and I wish you the best ❤

  • @aSoldiersGirlieGirl

    @aSoldiersGirlieGirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ugh!! I swear that people must not really realize what’s coming out of their mouth. I’m older then you, 39, and was diagnosed with stage four metastatic breast cancer end of January/beginning of February, and it has spread like wildfire. I’ve always been the “tough” one. Im also a nurse. I swear that *some of my “loved ones” don’t realize how asinine they sound. Im sorry you had to hear that. ❤️

  • @1PROUDGLAMMA67G
    @1PROUDGLAMMA67G2 жыл бұрын

    It’s so so good to see this both of you on this beautiful Easter evening. Stay encouraged beautiful. God has you. Praying for total healing mind, body, and soul💪🏾👑🙏🏾💖

  • @alanlongman2952
    @alanlongman29522 жыл бұрын

    My wife has stage throat cancer ovarian cyst cancer spread fast already taking it out her uterus almost done and gone shes loves u as family from afar love kristal we are foster parents raising a teenager son we love him hasnt been easy on us she trying get life back to normal 44 now really sick still cant find her a cure cancer spread fast already breast cancer stage 3 turn in stage 4 sucks totally she uses a wheelchair rest of her life paralized hair falling out now hates it on meds shots every day illness are to many to name staying strong for now praying for her now were from regina Saskatchewan were huge fans of yours praying for u guys thanku for sharing your story with us all amen i pray for now recovery day one rough on me i cant get up walk on my own hit me hard physio therapy weak right now take it day by day amen

  • @jessicalewis1263
    @jessicalewis12632 жыл бұрын

    I really do admire you two ,both of you are very honest genuine people who care about others and want to help whom ever you can. Delia you are truly an amazing person ,you are going to be just fine i have no doubt

  • @CMP6111
    @CMP61112 жыл бұрын

    This was such a powerful video. No one knows what you have been through and still going through. Asking for mental health support is never a sign of weakness. It’s having the strength to realize it’s needed. I have needed it. Helping others in need and passing your knowledge and experience onto them is such a beautiful gift. You both are servants of God and give so much love and kindness in all that you do. God’s Blessing and Prayers to you Both❤️🙏❤️

  • @patrickhawkins5566

    @patrickhawkins5566

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Carol

  • @michellelindsay5727
    @michellelindsay57272 жыл бұрын

    Delia, you are a true survivor. I applaud you for your honesty, perseverance, fortitude, dedication and grace that you’ve shared during this journey. I cannot imagine your individual battles but I am grateful to the both of you for sharing this information. You have poured your hearts out to us and shown the necessary courage that you use to overcome and live through these difficult times. You definitely have been blessed by the love for one another, God’s love and your family’s love that has encapsulated you to endure the impossible of this horrible cancer. Without the varieties of treatments, understandably could mean a poor outcome; however, realizing that believing in the magnitude of possibilities opens up a person’s hope. Treating the whole person in any disease is of utmost importance. Therefore, it’s extremely important to utilize all avenues of communication which are offered by the medical team. Opening up and accepting help in the area of counseling or therapy is wise. These are all beneficial and necessary to succeed and thrive whether needing short or long term cancer therapeutic treatment or for any medical situation. Cancer or any long term illness affects the entire family unit. I appreciate all of your ongoing insight. My prayers will continue for your on-going healing Delia. Blessings my friends on your future plans and definitely upon your lives as you two continue to minister to the world because you two have been CHOSEN. ❤️✝️☺️

  • @marvellamitchell6743
    @marvellamitchell67432 жыл бұрын

    I Love you guy's so happy to hear from you and we just keep on fighting and it gets hard but it nice to have another person to talk to.

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer39502 жыл бұрын

    It's so good to see this vlog. It's great to see you both. Delia, you are beautiful. Thank you for talking about doing things to make us feel better. I have been going through a tough time mentally & emotionally the last 18 months. You reminded me to do things that I did before that I enjoyed. I needed the reminder. Thank you. I really appreciate everything you shared with us. We're always routing for you! ♥️🙏♥️

  • @barbarahooper7829
    @barbarahooper78292 жыл бұрын

    Keep the fight. Love what you are saying you have a great message. God will always be with you!

  • @taraleonard9749
    @taraleonard97492 жыл бұрын

    You two are amazing people!! God is using you and this channel for the good. There are a reason your going through this God needs your testimony of him and to help other through their journey of cancer!! love you guys and praying for the 2 of you!!!!

  • @tinatalks
    @tinatalks2 жыл бұрын

    Love you two! Thank you for your honesty and transparency! Your testimonies are definitely needed in our world today. Know that I think of you often and pray for you and Dylan! May God bless you both!

  • @patrickhawkins5566

    @patrickhawkins5566

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Tina, how are you hope you’re doing great

  • @carolynmarshall1968
    @carolynmarshall19682 жыл бұрын

    🇬🇧 You are looking so well Delia. Seeking extra help is so necessary for mental health. Your body and mind have gone through so much even Dylan’s mental health is important to be able to support you. Sending love and light to you both xxx 😘

  • @melissakummeth5428
    @melissakummeth54282 жыл бұрын

    Delia you are stronger than you know. You are an inspiration. And you look absolutely fabulous! Much love!

  • @lynnesawri2805
    @lynnesawri28052 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video everything you said is so true no matter what the journey is in our lives. It hit home when Dylan said some of the strongest, funniest, etc people he knows aren’t with us anymore. My son unfortunately was one of those people whom took his life because of anxiety and depression that took over his life. I have walked the journey of a grieving momma for 2 yrs now telling myself I’m strong I can do this, but over the past few weeks not sure I can and listening to you two has given me that push to seek professional help so ty from the bottom of my ❤️.

  • @lauriemcginnis2636

    @lauriemcginnis2636

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lynne,It hit home with me as well when Dylan said that many of his friends were gone by taking their own lives. Many of my friends went down that path. I feel so much for you being a mother. They say losing your child is unbelievable and frankly brings unbearable pain.I am praying that you reach out for help and that the right person will be there waiting for you.We all need to reach out for help. God bless. Love,Laurie

  • @lynnesawri2805

    @lynnesawri2805

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lauriemcginnis2636 thank you so much for your kind words. It truly is the worst pain and grief and something you never think you will face. Sad part is there is so much stigma with suicide and mental health people just abandon you as they themselves don’t know what to say etc.

  • @Gesegirl
    @Gesegirl2 жыл бұрын

    Some people just don’t have those people and fight alone! While I was going through mine my husband was off doing his own thing. He ran and far! But I fought for my life and my kids! I wish I would of had someone to talk to even another cancer person, it would of been nice to have that! Good for you for talking about this! It’s not known or really thought of from the doctors they are focusing on your cancer health and not your mental! My prayers are with you that your outcome and journey was a positive one like mine! You got his lady, your strong and brave and courage shows! If you ever need a positive story of cancer I am always happy to share! This can be a positive thing in peoples life! I am thankful for my cancer!

  • @stacieclark-benson688
    @stacieclark-benson6882 жыл бұрын

    Love you guys! I continue to pray for you Delia. 🙏🏼💗

  • @lindamallett3467
    @lindamallett34672 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing a very important message, and you are continually in my thoughts and prayers. I have just finished my 6th chemo treatment for Stage 1 Ovarian Cancer. I feel fortunate that my cancer was caught early, surgery got the cancer and my scans show no cancer now. However, I feel some anxiety, like you mentioned, regarding any recurrence or what the future holds. I think it’s a process everyone goes through after treatment, and this would be one choice for people to look into. Thanks again, and God bless you both 🙏🙏

  • @jeanninebode7781
    @jeanninebode77812 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video. I’ve been suffering from more anxiety than ever and hav been looking for an online therapist. God is always walking with me and so I know he will give me the strength to continue on. U both r amazing people and truly appreciate!

  • @patrickhawkins5566

    @patrickhawkins5566

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Jeannine,how are you hope you’re doing great

  • @patriciamilczewski8009
    @patriciamilczewski80092 жыл бұрын

    God Bless both of you. Dylan I hope you are getting help as well. You're trying to be strong for both of you and that has got to be so hard for you emotionally and mentally as well. I think sometimes we forget what the significant other is going through because they're always trying to be strong for the one that is ill. I'm sure Delia realizes that this is so difficult for you too because she is such a kind loving soul. I hope you continue to find peace in God. He is always there with you. You are always in my prayers.

  • @stephanievillagran6812
    @stephanievillagran68122 жыл бұрын

    It beautiful how you look at each other when one is talking 🥰 May God keep you both strong 🙏Love & Prayers ❤

  • @yvonnegarcia2907
    @yvonnegarcia2907 Жыл бұрын

    My prayers are with you, for strength and healing

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