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  • @tialampuasa6065
    @tialampuasa60652 ай бұрын

    don't celebrate. no gathering. no cake no blowing candles. But.. accepting gifts is allowed. that's a relief 😂 Thank you sheikh. .

  • @petboy5839

    @petboy5839

    2 ай бұрын

    Why accept gifts for something you don't celebrate? Should we start accepting Christmas gifts too?

  • @End_Zionism

    @End_Zionism

    2 ай бұрын

    @@petboy5839he should’ve explained further but I THINK it’s because we’re not supposed to reject gifts (unless it is a sinful item like alcohol). And you can receive a gift without special occasion. And Allah knows best.

  • @user-hb9zi2on2h

    @user-hb9zi2on2h

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@End_ZionismThis belief is wrong even though I do not study Islam that deep. If you do not celebrate birthday do not accept gifts as well

  • @CaptHC

    @CaptHC

    2 ай бұрын

    @@user-hb9zi2on2h As u said it urself, u r not a muslim so it is best not to get involved. Thank u.

  • @HeyWhat50

    @HeyWhat50

    2 ай бұрын

    Bc we muslims are generous, we pay the restaurant for everyone invited, we give diner befitting a king to our guests, give money to the poor and give presents for no real reason but to show the love we have

  • @Muhammad-nz9kz
    @Muhammad-nz9kz2 ай бұрын

    Allahumma salim wa barik ala nabiyina Muhammad ﷺ

  • @ahmadtalal__

    @ahmadtalal__

    Ай бұрын

    Sallim سلّم*

  • @rinzler749

    @rinzler749

    Ай бұрын

    صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ

  • @anduel45

    @anduel45

    Ай бұрын

    Jesus is god 🇮🇱

  • @rinzler749

    @rinzler749

    Ай бұрын

    @@anduel45 then why he had a virgin birth? also why don't you practice your own religion? you think a simple meaningless sentence like "jesus is god(not)" will convince muslims? stop worshipping a human being!

  • @user-gx2ey9cd5o

    @user-gx2ey9cd5o

    Ай бұрын

    S❤A❤W

  • @ya.ustink2990
    @ya.ustink2990Ай бұрын

    Say this for free good deeds Subhanallah 3x Alhamdullilah 3x Allah hu akbar 3x Laa hawla walaa quwata illa billa 3x

  • @iqrah90
    @iqrah902 ай бұрын

    JazakAllah khairan kaseer Ya Shykh

  • @Onewarner
    @OnewarnerАй бұрын

    you can take what is given to you freely, in fact. do not accept anything other than what is given to you willingly.

  • @hahahafsahhh3208

    @hahahafsahhh3208

    Ай бұрын

    So when someone asks you what do want for a gift are you supposed to not say anything or can you say what you want ( plz say evidence as well if you respond😊) ?

  • @user-xg6ku7vh3s
    @user-xg6ku7vh3sАй бұрын

    ALLAHU AKBAR ☝🏽 Subhanallah 🙏🏽 alhamdulillah thank you for your knowledge

  • @ItzAzAM28
    @ItzAzAM28Ай бұрын

    Don't forget to read this and earn good deeds 👇🏻 1. Alhamdulillah ×10 2. Subhanallah ×10 3. Astagfirullah ×10 4. Allahu Akbar x10 5. La illaha illal allah ×10 6. Lahawla Wa La Quwwata illah billah ×10 7. Sub-Han'Allahi Wabi-Ham'Dihi, Sub-Han'Allah al Atheem ×10 8. Sallallahu Alaihi Wa sallam ×10 9. La ilaha illal laahu wahdahu laasharika lahu lahul mulku wa-lahul hamdu wa huwa alaa kulli shay-in qadir ×10 10. Allahumma Ajirni Minan naar ×10 11. Allahumma inni as'alukal al-jannah ×10 MA SHA ALLAH u have much deeds 👍🏻 Tip: Wanna Earn more? Share this As much as u can for on going deedz 🤲🏻🙌🏻

  • @bman7399

    @bman7399

    Ай бұрын

    How much do I win

  • @maktv7781

    @maktv7781

    Ай бұрын

    @@bman7399 a lot akhy

  • @anduel45

    @anduel45

    Ай бұрын

    I like pussy

  • @salmanp-xn7ii

    @salmanp-xn7ii

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@bman7399 endless good deeds in afterlife

  • @AbeerahSaara-uv1xb

    @AbeerahSaara-uv1xb

    Ай бұрын

    Icl how do you share😭

  • @malikibnmuhammadbashir
    @malikibnmuhammadbashirАй бұрын

    Barak Allahu fîk sheikh !

  • @ZaheerAbbasKhan
    @ZaheerAbbasKhanАй бұрын

    Celebrating Birthdays is not a religious occasion and neither is anyone making it a part of religion. Nothing wrong in celebrating your birthday if you are not doing haram in that.

  • @eronstensland1679

    @eronstensland1679

    Ай бұрын

    Don’t speak without knowledge. Imitating the kuffar in their festivals is haram.

  • @nimra8634

    @nimra8634

    Ай бұрын

    It stems from the Egyptians from when the pharaoh was born, they celebrated his birth annually as the "birth of god" astaghfirullah. Therefore, carrying on a similar tradition of celebrating someones birthday annually is haram because of its roots.

  • @ZaheerAbbasKhan

    @ZaheerAbbasKhan

    Ай бұрын

    A birthday is not a kuffar festival. Guess what? Everyone has one 🤣

  • @eronstensland1679

    @eronstensland1679

    Ай бұрын

    @@ZaheerAbbasKhan celebrating it is festival that originates from Kuffar

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    @@ZaheerAbbasKhan Birthday celebration is a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @_xQw7
    @_xQw7Ай бұрын

    "Don't return the money" 💀

  • @Un_revealing

    @Un_revealing

    Ай бұрын

    Cauz its a gift You should always accept gift as long as its not something wrong like alcohol

  • @powermmm4570

    @powermmm4570

    Ай бұрын

    Enclude rubbing alcohol. # schezophrinia living

  • @friendlyhackerz
    @friendlyhackerzАй бұрын

    Where is it prohibited can you share the reference

  • @kamalbaydoun6998
    @kamalbaydoun6998Ай бұрын

    Allah Hu Akbar Allah Hu Akbar Allah Hu Akbar ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Amin

  • @eramahmed8763
    @eramahmed87632 ай бұрын

    Allahu Akbar 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍☝🏻

  • @shellys8482
    @shellys8482Ай бұрын

    No one has ever shown me proof in the Quran or Hadith that says we can’t celebrate

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah but wahabis like my sheikh assim will make up 😅

  • @yasminali7582

    @yasminali7582

    Ай бұрын

    There are only two celebrations that Muslims do and thats Eid

  • @shellys8482

    @shellys8482

    Ай бұрын

    @@yasminali7582 So you mean that it’s sinful to celebrate the independence day of your country? Like seriously

  • @yasminali7582

    @yasminali7582

    Ай бұрын

    @shellys8482 are you a muslim or not like seriously 🙄 Allah has forbidden what is wrong for us for a reason, you have free will however you answer to Allah and Allah alone remember that.

  • @shellys8482

    @shellys8482

    Ай бұрын

    @@yasminali7582 Yes I reverted to Islam 24 years ago

  • @lightzz1
    @lightzz12 ай бұрын

    What to do when my family arranged a surprise party for my birthday ? With guests at home, how do i say no to cutting cake and celebrating without hurting anyone ? How do i respond to birthday greetings? I'm a revert to Islam. We used to celebrate my birthday, inviting guests till last year... Now i fear for the day coming....ive told them i dont celebrate it anymore, but i suspect a surprise party coming. They dont take my words seriously..yet..

  • @Fiona_fuga

    @Fiona_fuga

    2 ай бұрын

    May Allah make it easy for you

  • @TheOfficialQueen1

    @TheOfficialQueen1

    2 ай бұрын

    Just don’t go

  • @luayuahmed

    @luayuahmed

    2 ай бұрын

    I think you just need to tell them, man.

  • @wastedk2994

    @wastedk2994

    2 ай бұрын

    @@luayuahmed he did

  • @luayuahmed

    @luayuahmed

    2 ай бұрын

    @@wastedk2994 ah I misread

  • @priusa8113
    @priusa8113Ай бұрын

    What’s the proof that celebration of birthdays is haram pls sheikh? Thank you very much ❤

  • @whyisthiscodenotworking

    @whyisthiscodenotworking

    Ай бұрын

    Akhi ! Celebrating birthday is not for people of common sense ! Because, a man with brain will not celebrate his birthday as each year you are closer to the grave and you are aging ! So why should you celebrate your journey to death 💀 ? Akhi also I don't have any proof from hadith ! Sorry But I Just gave you the common logic 😁

  • @Onewarner

    @Onewarner

    Ай бұрын

    According to the Qur'an and Sunnah especially declare that celebrating birthdays is a form of bid'ah or an religious innovation. This way it is now not part of the purest proper Islamic faith.

  • @xondeez757

    @xondeez757

    Ай бұрын

    Celebrating anything other than eid is innovation. It’s that simple. Give people gifts and celebrate in eid why copy the kuffar? Why celebrate getting closer to your death? You should be scared of not doing enough instead of being happy you got closer to death

  • @Xtine72

    @Xtine72

    Ай бұрын

    @@xondeez757But it’s an expression of love to people you care about. And a way to say you value them and let them know how much they mean to you. Why is that a sin and what does that have to do with death? I’m new to Islam and genuinely curious about these rules. I’m really struggling and appreciate any insight. Insha’Allah you can guide me. Assalamalakum.

  • @Kepler10b

    @Kepler10b

    28 күн бұрын

    I'm still going out for pizza and milkshakes on my birthday. It's just food so doesn't matter

  • @fatima7094
    @fatima7094Ай бұрын

    may allah guide us all

  • @user-mj4cx2lt7j
    @user-mj4cx2lt7jАй бұрын

    Alhamdulillah ☝️💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @ethicalbeasts
    @ethicalbeastsАй бұрын

    Yh but you could say. To eat a cake is ok. To have guests over is ok. To put a fire out is a good deed. Loop holes. Astaghfirullah

  • @Onewarner

    @Onewarner

    Ай бұрын

    According to the Qur'an and Sunnah especially declare that celebrating birthdays is a form of bid'ah or an religious innovation. This way it is now not part of the purest proper Islamic faith.

  • @Hameed639
    @Hameed639Ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah

  • @auntiesemite9295

    @auntiesemite9295

    Ай бұрын

    If you feel bad Omar, send me the money. I'll find a good Halal use for it insha'Allah

  • @mya7590
    @mya7590Ай бұрын

    We go throught it for the gifts anyway 😅

  • @powermmm4570
    @powermmm4570Ай бұрын

    Nice share Shiek 👍 Reminders Brothers and Sisters, Prophet Muhammad (saw) Wear Turban and Not Hijab looking male ♥️

  • @Muhammad-nz9kz
    @Muhammad-nz9kz2 ай бұрын

    Assalamualikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu Subhanallah Alhamdulilah Lailahailalah Alahuakbar

  • @your_majesty__
    @your_majesty__Ай бұрын

    Jazakumullahu khayran 🤲🏽

  • @bettyrose5387
    @bettyrose5387Ай бұрын

    Now where are my gifts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ex_Hindu_Hashhyy
    @Ex_Hindu_HashhyyАй бұрын

    😂😂😂True friends and relatives who wish birthday just give money and do acceptable things😅

  • @saala999
    @saala9992 ай бұрын

    And if someone gifts you a birthday cake? 🤔🙂

  • @beast-master2094

    @beast-master2094

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s the act of participating that is forbidden

  • @MABMMM450

    @MABMMM450

    2 ай бұрын

    @@beast-master2094what’s forbidden about eating a cake

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    Eat it as food without celebration or candle etc

  • @usamaryan7910
    @usamaryan79102 ай бұрын

    Sheikhs sneaky way of keeping the money love it 😂😂😂😂

  • @usamaryan7910

    @usamaryan7910

    Ай бұрын

    @@Little-sv5ql um you ever heard of a joke?

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@usamaryan7910 after 9 days you came here to tell me this

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@usamaryan7910 after 9 days you came here to tell me this

  • @sarafernandezsancho
    @sarafernandezsanchoАй бұрын

    As-salam aleikum wa rahmatulla wa barakatu. I'm a muslim revert (15 months ago, well close to 16 now, I pronounced my shahada). The last birthday I celebrated with friends was my 14 years-old birthday (I'm 26, I started to search about Islam in my teen years) My family don't know I embraced Islam, and every year a birthday party is celebrated for each member of the family, included mine. I tried to say I don't want to but is a tradition I'm not allowed to break by my parents. I'm currently living with them, and I don't want to cause problems... What should I do in this situation? Advices are welcomed, thanks in advance

  • @olalerelukman9120
    @olalerelukman9120Ай бұрын

    Churning out fatwa without any references from the holy book or authentic Hadith, nothing bad in celebration of birthday moderately without perpetrating any haram with your friends and family and using the occasion of ur Birthday ,to thank Alah for His mercy and life .Taking stocks of life ,in your relationship with God ,and pursuit of your life goals.

  • @CosmicHase
    @CosmicHaseАй бұрын

    Money is money. I get money, i have been given money.

  • @masoumehsaberi7110
    @masoumehsaberi7110Ай бұрын

    who said celebrating birthday is prohibited?

  • @Zakaria_Hasanat

    @Zakaria_Hasanat

    Ай бұрын

    It was just based of the hadith of not copying for if they do they become one like them (i.e kufar) I don't remember the word per word it's just paraphrasing, but search up the hadith

  • @masoumehsaberi7110

    @masoumehsaberi7110

    Ай бұрын

    @@Zakaria_Hasanat but I heard that sahaba used to fast every Monday because the prophet(pbuh) was born on Monday, in my opinion it looks like some kind of birthday celebration

  • @Zakaria_Hasanat

    @Zakaria_Hasanat

    Ай бұрын

    @@masoumehsaberi7110 “Whoever imitates a people is one of them” that was the hadith I was meaning to mention. So we don't celebrate birthdays for 2 reasons, the sahabah didn't, so why would we? And why would we copy the disbelievers? And for the prophet sallallahu alahyhi wa sallam fasting that day, i.e. his birthday, I never heard that hadith till now. The one I've heard was “Deeds are shown (to Allah) on Mondays and Thursdays, and I like my deeds to be shown when I am fasting.” Which is was Sahih. What grade was the one you mentioned? I try to search it, but it gives no sense of authenticity. Allahu a'lam. I'm not a scholar, but I doubt the prophet sallallahu alahyhi wa sallam did anything to copy disbelievers.

  • @masoumehsaberi7110

    @masoumehsaberi7110

    Ай бұрын

    @@Zakaria_Hasanat It is narrated in the book of Sahih Muslim that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) was asked about fasting on Mondays and he said: On (that day) I was born and on it Revelation came down to me And in Sunan of Bayhaqi it's narrated that the Holy Prophet (saw) sacrificed some animals on his birthday

  • @Zakaria_Hasanat

    @Zakaria_Hasanat

    Ай бұрын

    @@masoumehsaberi7110 Yeah, but what's the grade of authentication? When I search it, it's not under reference. And for the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sacrificing animals, I searched it, and that's Aqiqah. As a way to show gratitude to Allah for the birth. It's sunnah to sacrifice animals, yeah, sunnah to fast Mondays and Thursdays regradless of his birthday becausd if that was so, wouldn't it only be 1 monday throughout the whole year? Let me try to rephase what I mean. Just because we do Aqiqah doesn't mean it's sunnah / halal to celebrate the way the Christians do. Hope that helps a bit more

  • @Rosevaldemart21
    @Rosevaldemart21Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ahmadsuhaib8995
    @ahmadsuhaib8995Ай бұрын

    Isn't it not also allowed yo take gifts on particular date or for particular reason?

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569
    @eesaabdurrahman1569Ай бұрын

    Amazing how in EVERY one of these videos some Quburi/liberal shows up to shout “Wahhabi” thinking that constitutes an actual argument.

  • @AkiyamerGaming
    @AkiyamerGamingАй бұрын

    but i am forced to celebrate and do gathering,cake,blowing candles and celebrate in my birthday, what should i do?

  • @AbdurRahman-hh5sz
    @AbdurRahman-hh5szАй бұрын

    So is that the same for Christmas?

  • @rakibubraimah8182
    @rakibubraimah81822 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hmx397
    @hmx397Ай бұрын

    وَأَمَّا بِنِعۡمَةِ رَبِّكَ فَحَدِّثۡ ''And proclaim the Blessings of your Lord.'' Our life is a BLESSING from Allah Almighty Thus proven birthday are Not HARAM(if it doesn't have music free mixing and other haram stuff etc) amd saying cutting cake is not permissible is idiotic bcz cake is just a food and if ot is made of halal things you cant say cutting it is haram its just jahalt

  • @user-pf1bs4iy4b
    @user-pf1bs4iy4bАй бұрын

    Where is it written that you can't celebrate Birthday???

  • @drfuhque

    @drfuhque

    Ай бұрын

    Where is it written that you can’t watch porn? Does that mean it’s not haraam?

  • @Nobody-iy9be

    @Nobody-iy9be

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@drfuhqueIt is written bro Allah has told the believing men to lower there gaze

  • @essamdob2

    @essamdob2

    Ай бұрын

    @@Nobody-iy9be he is using sarcasim

  • @user-pf1bs4iy4b

    @user-pf1bs4iy4b

    Ай бұрын

    @adamhenrywalker Men must lower their gaze in front of a Women. Men aren't allowed to even look at a women's hair, to talk with a non Mahram. It's not allowed to look at private parts, whether it is a Women or Men, and you want to tell me that porn is ok?????? Now you tell me what is wrong about birthday!!!!!!

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    @@essamdob2 terrible example lmao

  • @AbeerahSaara-uv1xb
    @AbeerahSaara-uv1xbАй бұрын

    How come we give gifts on our ACTUAL birthday

  • @Vendettagameandfun
    @VendettagameandfunАй бұрын

    I think its not permissible to accept the gift because if you accept it you start to celebrate it

  • @HaRizIdeas
    @HaRizIdeasАй бұрын

    If this isn't the case the intention of money is for their bday right? Then how it will comes under a normal gift to be accepted??

  • @almatech101
    @almatech1012 ай бұрын

    Jazākumullāh Khairan sheikh What if it's my birthday and I'm given a gift ? Is it still the same ruling

  • @Islamicle

    @Islamicle

    2 ай бұрын

    yes, you accept birthday gifts but don’t ask for them

  • @Mo-jp4ym

    @Mo-jp4ym

    2 ай бұрын

    accept the gift and warn them from this act with politeness

  • @petboy5839

    @petboy5839

    2 ай бұрын

    That's the problem though. It's not your birthday. We as Muslims have one birthday and that's the day we were born. After that there is no other date of birth for us.

  • @zesu09

    @zesu09

    Ай бұрын

    @@Islamicle but we can't give gifts with the intention of birthday presents, right? it seems rude if we accept gifts snd dont give sny

  • @skubioleh8895
    @skubioleh8895Ай бұрын

    But I'm forced to go with them what do I do

  • @SamGodsHustler
    @SamGodsHustler16 күн бұрын

    Please I will like to know why is it prohibited to celebrate birthdays? 😢 I'm lost in the context.

  • @montahaelmahdi3152
    @montahaelmahdi3152Ай бұрын

    What do i do when my friends send me happy birthday text ? Without hurting them ...

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    They are Not your freinds anymore according to wahabi wisdom

  • @Onewarner

    @Onewarner

    Ай бұрын

    Just reply "thank you, but I do not celebrate my birthdays" and it is done.

  • @saadboss2161
    @saadboss2161Ай бұрын

    My friends give me candies or chocolate on their birthday in school, I always give it to someone else who is non Muslim. Am I allowed to eat that chocolate???

  • @hasnain9654

    @hasnain9654

    Ай бұрын

    Haram thing is haram.... You should never enjoin in haram things, throw the thing instead of letting a non Muslim eat the haram food..... Similarly u can't give other haram things to anyone no matter it is jaaiz in their religion

  • @firdowsjohnson5766

    @firdowsjohnson5766

    Ай бұрын

    @@hasnain9654why is it haram? As long as the candy itself is not haram the ruling would be the same as the one in the video. Throwing food away is only then allowed if it causes harm to the body or is intoxicating so dont give advice to throw food away.

  • @hasnain9654

    @hasnain9654

    Ай бұрын

    @@firdowsjohnson5766 What did Allah say then in Chapter 5 of Surah Maida that 'enjoin each other in righteousness and not enjoin each other in acts of disobedience' Why are you accepting the act of disobedience from someone? Anyone who supports the haram is considered it's part....! So no, this is not right.... sheikh has perhaps been mistaken

  • @SpeedySpeedBoy14

    @SpeedySpeedBoy14

    Ай бұрын

    @@hasnain9654 you can't decline gifts, its that simple

  • @hasnain9654

    @hasnain9654

    Ай бұрын

    @@SpeedySpeedBoy14 but when gift is coming in the disobedience of Allah,,, then you should stop them from giving u gifts anymore for biddah things... U should never ever participate on things which are in disobedience of allah

  • @zahirkhan4576
    @zahirkhan4576Ай бұрын

    There is no reference in Islam where birthday is prohibited. None at all. Please show your reference if you have one. In addition, your judgement is hypocritical. If celebration of birthday were prohibited (and it is not), then any gift given on a birthday is given in recognition of the day being the birthday. Then it's hypocritical to accept the gift on account of the day being the birthday.

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    We don’t celebrate days other than the two Eids. We don’t imitate the disbelievers.

  • @thechallenge293
    @thechallenge293Ай бұрын

    Can we at least wish happy birth day?

  • @handsomejack672
    @handsomejack672Ай бұрын

    So eating cake in birthday is haram?

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    If you are with wahabis like him every new thing will be haram.thats their problem an inner evil 😅

  • @maryamsalah8709

    @maryamsalah8709

    Ай бұрын

    No

  • @javeedganie
    @javeedganieАй бұрын

    You don't see innovation in sending gifts on birthday ?

  • @zuranien7559
    @zuranien7559Ай бұрын

    Couldn't agree logically

  • @larisalarisa4984
    @larisalarisa4984Ай бұрын

    How about just having a cake on your birthday, no candle, it’s just my family don’t ever buy cake, so we don’t see cake often, but only sometimes my mom bakes cake, and it’s on the day that I was born, we don’t call people to sing birthday song, we just come eat cake and go, and the people who eat the cake are my siblings, my mom don’t call people to come over because we just don’t celebrate it, and my sister give gifts, not like okay happy birthday here is the gift, no, she give the gift so randomly, and we eat cake without song and any happy birthday congratulatings

  • @zuranien7559
    @zuranien7559Ай бұрын

    Those don't add up

  • @ASH-dj8mv
    @ASH-dj8mvАй бұрын

    Too late I've returned the money

  • @La-ilaha-Il-Allah
    @La-ilaha-Il-AllahАй бұрын

    Why accepting gifts, it's not a special day , so you can accept normal gifts yes but not for a special day ? Or i'm I wrong ?

  • @mandabarrat2620
    @mandabarrat26202 ай бұрын

    Could I please have the hadith where your information comes from? In shaa Allah

  • @gingerpinon5590

    @gingerpinon5590

    2 ай бұрын

    I also would like to know where this comes from.

  • @shwanmirza9306

    @shwanmirza9306

    2 ай бұрын

    How many Eids in Islam? Only 2, right?

  • @mandabarrat2620

    @mandabarrat2620

    2 ай бұрын

    @@shwanmirza9306 what do you mean ? What's the point regarding accepting money for birthday, if celebrating is strictly haram.

  • @Asn-xh9nq

    @Asn-xh9nq

    2 ай бұрын

    You could give gifts as both birthdays in Islamic and gregorian calendar are valid, can't celebrate it, but can gift

  • @Khaled_Alghamdi

    @Khaled_Alghamdi

    2 ай бұрын

    @@mandabarrat2620​​⁠celebrating birthdays is an innovation in Islam . So anything that involves you celebrating is an innovation . Accepting a gift is not a celebration what’s a celebration is to go birthdays party’s put your age number there etc ..

  • @Kulsum_2006
    @Kulsum_2006Ай бұрын

    Kya normal day per 🍰 cake par candle 🕯️ laga ke kha sakte hai

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    Will you eat candle too? If yes then sure have it

  • @Kulsum_2006

    @Kulsum_2006

    Ай бұрын

    @@Little-sv5ql nahi mobarti fukane ke liye, khayege nahi

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@Kulsum_2006 apke ke ghar pe electricity nahi hai kya? Ya kafiron ke jaise kaam karna zyada pasnd hai?

  • @SadafKhalid-bq9fw
    @SadafKhalid-bq9fw2 ай бұрын

    Can we go out and eat pizza 🍕 or something without the intention to say or celebrate birthday

  • @petboy5839

    @petboy5839

    2 ай бұрын

    You can go out for pizza any day of the year. We humans can fool ourselves but we can't fool Allah SWT

  • @SadafKhalid-bq9fw

    @SadafKhalid-bq9fw

    Ай бұрын

    @@petboy5839 I don't understand what meant

  • @SadafKhalid-bq9fw

    @SadafKhalid-bq9fw

    Ай бұрын

    @@petboy5839 sorry 😔 I know what u mean sorry

  • @petboy5839

    @petboy5839

    Ай бұрын

    @@SadafKhalid-bq9fw It's all good brother. This lady at work asked me if I did anything for Thanksgiving. I told her no I am Muslim we don't celebrate thanksgiving. Then she asked if I had least gone out to get something to eat. I told her no why would I need to go out and get something to eat on Thanksgiving? If I wanted to go out and eat I could do that anytime of the year. Why do I need to do it on Thanksgiving giving the impression that I am celebrating the day on the down low?

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    @@petboy5839 Sadaf is a girls name, she isn't a "brother"... no offense

  • @JamesJohnson-pz8pu
    @JamesJohnson-pz8puАй бұрын

    Surely most of these people who phone up haven't read most if not any of their religious texts...

  • @muhammadtalhahayat
    @muhammadtalhahayatАй бұрын

    I gifted her too i thought she ask the question haha

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    I think his name is umar

  • @muhammadtalhahayat

    @muhammadtalhahayat

    Ай бұрын

    @@Little-sv5ql ;) i thought when i got notification of the title not open that time

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@muhammadtalhahayat next time remember to watch the video first.

  • @muhammadtalhahayat

    @muhammadtalhahayat

    Ай бұрын

    @@Little-sv5ql you need to consult doc for your humour

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@muhammadtalhahayat sorry i am broke but if you are interested then sure sponsor my consultation.

  • @kaizo999
    @kaizo999Ай бұрын

    whats the reference to it?, why cant i go out and eat a cake with my own money i save all year its atleast worth it spending it once an year

  • @CosmicHase

    @CosmicHase

    Ай бұрын

    You can give zakat with it.

  • @kaizo999

    @kaizo999

    Ай бұрын

    @@CosmicHase what if i give zakaat and still wanna eat a cake once in an year

  • @CosmicHase

    @CosmicHase

    Ай бұрын

    @@kaizo999 could I get a slice too?

  • @kaizo999

    @kaizo999

    Ай бұрын

    @@CosmicHase bet

  • @mchowdhury3184
    @mchowdhury3184Ай бұрын

    Is it allowed to gift someone a present on her birthday without making a party?

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    Why wait till their birthday to gift them? Giving gifts is a good deed so you should try to do it whenever you're able to without the intention that it's for their birthday. Allah knows best.

  • @spacex9819
    @spacex9819Ай бұрын

    I normally just hangout with them like go to a mall and have fun is that allowed

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    You can do that any time. Why wait till your birthday to do that? The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691). May Allah aid us.

  • @Kepler10b

    @Kepler10b

    28 күн бұрын

    ​@@-adhkarwho said they only do that on their birthday?

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Kepler10b Our actions are judged by intentions, and only Allah knows our intention. The main point is we should refrain from intending to celebrating birthdays as doing so was not the practice of our Prophet ﷺ, his Companions, or the generations of Muslims coming after the Prophet ﷺ. Allah knows best.

  • @Imanonymous47
    @Imanonymous472 ай бұрын

    I think birthday celebration does not harm the religion if there is no activity against the sharia

  • @bonelessdoomy6932

    @bonelessdoomy6932

    Ай бұрын

    it is imitating the kuffar.

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    It's a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @kiiiiit5109

    @kiiiiit5109

    Ай бұрын

    @@-adhkarthen just burn your Quran Kareem book at home. That Book itself is an innovation, compiled long after prophet SAW passed away. Printing is also innovation from China. Is that book decorated with geometric patterns, damn! Decoration is Persian art. Dude, you really doesn’t belong to this century

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    @@kiiiiit5109 Assalamu alaikum. I advise that you listen to the scholars concerning what bid'ah (innovation) means and the reason celebrating birthdays is haram. They are more knowledgeable than you and me concerning our religion and the affairs of our time. I am only passing on the message which I heard as well as the sayings from our Prophet peace and blessings be upon him, which is applicable in all times. I am not speaking from myself or my own desires. There is a longer explanation from this same Sheikh and others. May Allah increase all of us in beneficial knowledge and guide us to actions which are pleasing to Him.

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    @@-adhkar I swear I dont get how you exist you can't celebrate ur birthday, be clean shaved and apparently cant listen to music how do you do anything in ur life without questioning if its haram at this point

  • @bensafi9665
    @bensafi9665Ай бұрын

    This man has twisted the religion for his convenience.

  • @TemanM

    @TemanM

    Ай бұрын

    Whoa thats a heavy accusation, be mindful of judgement day. Look at the full video for a better explanation or just email him yourself. Finally, please delete this negative comment.

  • @mariosaintfleur7286
    @mariosaintfleur7286Ай бұрын

    But is it hijri months

  • @AKhan-fy7sj
    @AKhan-fy7sjАй бұрын

    My kids are going to hard time with understanding this

  • @TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper

    @TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper

    Ай бұрын

    Then don’t use a salafi scholar to teach your kids Islam.

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    @@TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper says the genius who thinks only Arabs can be Muslim. Smh

  • @TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper

    @TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper

    Ай бұрын

    @@eesaabdurrahman1569 TRUE Muslims I said.

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    @@TitaniumSlayerNinjaCopper you’re still wrong and horribly irresponsible. You have any evidence for this terrible lie you are spreading?

  • @BOBBY-et9xb
    @BOBBY-et9xbАй бұрын

    Can accept gifts but can't wish someone happy birthday. So what does one say to the person what the money is for. Sorry Sheikh. A bit confused.

  • @tyrionstark380
    @tyrionstark380Ай бұрын

    Why its prohibited?

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    Becaue wahabis like him don't like it😅.

  • @nuwienosman1194
    @nuwienosman1194Ай бұрын

    Why is it prohibited?

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    It's a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @AUNBeast
    @AUNBeast2 ай бұрын

    So, even saying Happy birthday to someone is prohibited?

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, imitating kuffar

  • @AUNBeast

    @AUNBeast

    Ай бұрын

    @@UmeHabiba. oh wow! Can you explain why it's prohibited?

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    Celebrating birthday is a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @user-vq3bl8xx3i
    @user-vq3bl8xx3iАй бұрын

    Give the money to Me if you don't know what to do with it brother

  • @user-fk2ro4pw8n
    @user-fk2ro4pw8n2 ай бұрын

    Why making deen so difficult??? What's problem in celebrating birthday with family. Stop connecting everything to the religion, as we know many things are cultural or have no relation to deen... Grow up .. grow your mind set ..

  • @petboy5839

    @petboy5839

    Ай бұрын

    Scholars who study the Bible say that the earliest mention of a birthday was around 3,000 B.C.E. and was in reference to a Pharaoh’s birthday. But further study implies that this was not their birth into the world, but their “birth” as a god Pagans, such as the ancient Greeks, believed that each person had a spirit that was present on the day of his or her birth. This spirit kept watch and had a mystic relation with the god on whose birthday that particular individual was born. It is assumed that the Greeks adopted the Egyptian tradition of celebrating the “birth” of a god. They, like many other pagan cultures, thought that days of major change, such as these “birth” days, welcomed evil spirits. They lit candles in response to these spirits almost as if they represented a light in the darkness. This implies that birthday celebrations started as a form of protection. In Christianity, it is believed that all people are born with “original sin.” That, in combination with early birthdays being tied to pagan gods, led Christians to consider birthdays to be celebrations of evil. This lasted for the first few hundred years of the existence of the Christian Church. It wasn’t until the 4th century that Christians abandoned that way of thinking and began celebrating the birth of Jesus, also know as Christmas. Celebrating the birth of Jesus was partly enacted to recruit those who already celebrated Saturnalia, the Roman holiday

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    Birthday celebration is a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691). You can enjoy the time with your family without waiting till your birthday to celebrate. There are permissible celebrations in Islam so that is what we need to restrict ourselves to. May Allah help us.

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    Birthday celebration is a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    @@-adhkar eating pizza is haram, its an innovation and it was made by non muslims

  • @aliounethiaw1443
    @aliounethiaw1443Ай бұрын

    Since when it is haram for people to gather and have a good time?

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    Whenever there is wahabi like him😅.

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    It’s not. But creating a new celebration is haram.

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    @@Ijasahammed-ev6mqyou guys always think that saying “Wahhabi” constitutes an argument. It doesn’t. We’ll follow Islam. You can follow liberal society and insult those of us who follow actual Islam.

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    @@eesaabdurrahman1569 actual ? Thats an arrogant claim.

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    @@eesaabdurrahman1569 yeah nowadays it doesnt work because already infiltrated sunni scholars are bought. Wahabist money power. I am not worried about the change. It will come to an end anyhow. And good will win

  • @adil012345
    @adil0123452 ай бұрын

    New innovation by Sheikh Aseem Hakeem. Please give us the reference just because you got Mike don't misuse the opportunity. Don't be innovator.

  • @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    Ай бұрын

    Agree.. I don't know why some so called scholars of the time making every thing a sin without reference, they just relate everything to deen.

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    Imitating kuffar is prohibited, show us when any companion celebrated it?

  • @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    Ай бұрын

    @@Little-sv5ql what companion are you talking about?

  • @Little-sv5ql

    @Little-sv5ql

    Ай бұрын

    @@user-fk2ro4pw8n Sahaba may Allah be please with them all

  • @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    @user-fk2ro4pw8n

    Ай бұрын

    @Little-sv5ql Things changes with time , so according to your point we must abandon everything of this era , then don't wear modern clothing i mean pants , shirts or any other and don't use smartphones , don't use any modern facilities, don't drive cars or any other vehicle because at that time there were only horses. .....?? I hope u got my point We need to grow up with time Everything is not haram

  • @ammarshahzad9627
    @ammarshahzad9627Ай бұрын

    why we cant celebrate birthdays? Any logical reason?

  • @Onewarner

    @Onewarner

    Ай бұрын

    According to the Qur'an and Sunnah especially declare that celebrating birthdays is a form of bid'ah or an religious innovation. This way it is now not part of the purest proper Islamic faith.

  • @ammarshahzad9627

    @ammarshahzad9627

    Ай бұрын

    @@Onewarner biddah is somethings whether good or bad thats added to religion over time and is encouraged when it was never practiced by Holy prophet (PBUH). No one says that birthdays are a religious celebration, I dont see how you are regarding celebrating birthdays as biddah. As you said that it mentioned in Quran and Sunnah, can you please provide some references?

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    @@ammarshahzad9627 exactly

  • @kiiiiit5109
    @kiiiiit5109Ай бұрын

    Sheikh gets older, but his mind gets narrower. Another proof that wisdom doesn’t grow with age

  • @hust0n497
    @hust0n497Ай бұрын

    h

  • @metalgear5581
    @metalgear5581Ай бұрын

    Give it to the poor

  • @blackmamba-iy8df
    @blackmamba-iy8dfАй бұрын

    WHY YOU ARE LIVE ON SOCIAL MEDIA..ITS ALSO HARAAM😅😅😅

  • @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    @Ijasahammed-ev6mq

    Ай бұрын

    No it's not haram until you are in so called Sunnahs clothes.😂😂😂.only people like sheikh aseem can come online😅.wahabi wisdom

  • @bman7399
    @bman7399Ай бұрын

    This is Haram my brother

  • @tigrayplea5385
    @tigrayplea5385Ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this guy is so funny , you celebrate " muwulid" the false prophet's birthday and why not celebrating birthday others is forbidden 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @eesaabdurrahman1569

    @eesaabdurrahman1569

    Ай бұрын

    We don’t celebrate the Mawlid, that’s a mistake some Muslims make. And you are a vulgar, hateful fool.

  • @shakv2995
    @shakv2995Ай бұрын

    Well this is absurd

  • @-adhkar

    @-adhkar

    Ай бұрын

    Celebrating birthday is a festival made and celebrated by the disbelievers, so if we celebrate then we are imitating them. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “You will certainly follow the ways of those who came before you hand span by hand span, cubit by cubit, to the extent that if they entered the hole of a lizard, you will enter it too.” We said: “O Messenger of Allah, (do you mean) the Jews and the Christians?” He said: “Who else?” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1397; Muslim, 4822). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud, 3512; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Irwa al-Ghalil, 2691).

  • @robertwells3797
    @robertwells3797Ай бұрын

    Wow how boring!

  • @tzdaouk
    @tzdaoukАй бұрын

    What a bunch of bull

  • @xx24xxx
    @xx24xxxАй бұрын

    Yeah but owning humans is completely fine. The bs of islam

  • @ShaggyMatPat

    @ShaggyMatPat

    Ай бұрын

    ???