"A woman robs a man's intelligence", "No greater fitnah for men than women" - Hadith assim al hakeem
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I realized this as a woman. A few days before my cycle my emotions go on a roller coaster ride. I realized i should never make decisions in those days. Men and woman borh should realize this. It will help us avoid useless arguments and fights.
@lunarsensitive1
13 күн бұрын
That isn't true for every woman.
@messiah4951
13 күн бұрын
@@lunarsensitive1 exception doesn't make the rule.
@copernicus6420
12 күн бұрын
Is it really impossible to find a sane woman like you to marry ?
@pubcollize
12 күн бұрын
@@copernicus6420 akhi ittaqillah this is inappropriate
@_Cfocus
12 күн бұрын
@@copernicus6420 be aware of the shiytan footsteps brother, you cant make something like flirting
Men and women are equally honoured in the sight of Allah
@Eoots-zz9cz
8 күн бұрын
Not really
@dalhaanu
2 күн бұрын
Yes really. Don't speak unless you know the fiqe of islam.@Eoots-zz9cz
That hadith is true. If a women starts flirting with me, of course my shaitan thoughts will take over me. That's a fact. If man says no then he is lying. You can control your thoughts but that feeling will still kick in.
@EceAvc..
10 күн бұрын
May ALLAH make it easier and help you to hold your urges, Ameen. Read this Dua: Allahumma inni a’udhu bika min sharri sam’i, wa min sharri basari, wa min sharri lisani, wa min sharri qalbi, wa min sharri maniyyi. Translation in English: O Allah, I seek refuge in You from the evil of what I hear, from the evil of what I see, from the evil of what I speak, from the evil of what I think, and from the evil of my semen.
@abdula16
5 күн бұрын
You’re just a lonely simp
SubhanAllah! Allah has created men and women as described in Quran and Hadith. There are certain strengths and weaknesses with either one. And that’s how they complete each other if done right by complimenting strength and filling in for the weaknesses. That’s how a we can pull the best out of each other instead of having a battle of sexes to then create an ideal society
@user-dx1qv4yz5i
10 күн бұрын
@@sunshinestar2244yes but mind you Allah established this for the goodwill of all women, sure you may not be affected much by it( I doubt you aren't fully unaffected by it),that doesn't mean your female neighbours next door aren't, all I can say is alot of women wish they weren't as affected by this; nonetheless that's how Allah made them and he established rules suitable for them
Beautiful explanation. JazzakALLAH
Women's nature in general is also more emotional than men - therefore they may be inclined to give testimony based on how they Feel about a person;
JazakAllah khair Sheikh this is very helpful to understand 💫Almighty bless you Aameen Ya Rab !
6:40 absolutely! They are inspiring examples!
On point ❤
JazakAllah Khair Sheikh Jee Explained in a good way🤲🏽
Say Subhan Allah ✨️ Alhamdu lil Allah ✨️ La illaha illa Allah ✨️ Allahu Akbar
When women enter their thirties, they may gain a certain understanding or knowledge that was not present in their younger years.
@nightmare_fox4490
15 күн бұрын
Allah Barak ❤
@Altair-El-Haddad
15 күн бұрын
Nah, they stay the same, it's just the beauty starts to fade away so they're bound to snap back to reality after doing whatever they wished to do back in their younger invincible days.
@ariy7712
15 күн бұрын
Lol that is same for all genders.. where is the logic in your statement??
@user-fyw2o89h
15 күн бұрын
@@ariy7712 When you find yourself in a state of loneliness and depression, without the comfort of loved ones, family, or children, you will begin to understand the reasoning behind my comment. You may find that the ideals you held in your twenties, such as "Girl Power," may begin to fade away. It is in these moments that you will realize the importance of having someone by your side to care for you during your lowest moments.
@Little-sv5ql
15 күн бұрын
@@Altair-El-Haddadfirstly you are a liar therefore whatsoever you type i don't care, a person who can lie about his family is worthless. Secondly Alhamdulillah there are women who take both their looks and intelligence as blessing from Allah and don't care what imbeciles like you utter. A black woman is not black because she chose to be neither do white woman, they are as their Rab willed them to be. But one thing is apparent men like you are fools who judge a book by its cover.
Masha Allah
Barak Allahu feek
@Hyper-Hyper66
15 күн бұрын
الله أكبر
The mention of testimony is mentioned 5 times in quran and only during financial agreements in surah baqarah it is mention that 1 mens testimony = 2 women's
@Eoots-zz9cz
10 күн бұрын
Not really , it’s not during financial arguments only but on most issues related to Islam, stop trying to cope with the fact that Islam goes against “human rights “ by portraying it from a different way than it really is
@abdelbouzazia4955
10 күн бұрын
@@Eoots-zz9czWho cares about human rights ? Truth is way more important than that. Can you avoid eternal Hellfire with human rights ? No. Can you hope to avoid it while trying your best to follow islam ? Yes. Then that’s that.
ما شاءالله 🕋 very interesting 🤔
Allah Has Favoured woman over man when it comes to respect and Flavoured man over woman when it comes to worship. Meaning Allah Expects men to worship more and women to worship as much as she can without certain bardains such as when in her cycle. Allah Knows Best
I love how this sheikh watches his words and even takes short pauses when talking about complex or controversial topics.
@abdula16
5 күн бұрын
Yes. It makes him seem pathetic. He’s so scared of saying men are better than women
@sanguine9031
3 күн бұрын
@@abdula16Slander
Allahuakbarr
@Hyper-Hyper66
15 күн бұрын
الله أكبر الله أكبر الله أكبر
anything that upsets women is wrong in today's world. whether the thing is true or false doesn't matter.
@jvg6877
14 күн бұрын
Okay I get your point but how many things that exist that upset men? It feels like the world just upsets woman and is meant to neglect their feelings but the men can do a lot more
@subzro5
13 күн бұрын
@@jvg6877shut up are you living in moon if a girl decides she can easily destroy you and your career so think twist before saying something illiterate
@ridwan_z
13 күн бұрын
@@jvg6877 i'm saying anything that upsets women these days are labeled as false/wrong by women and more by men. And about the "men can do a lot better" thing, I agree, men today can do a lot of better things than simping for women.
Is it not that Allah has favoured men over women only in this life, though? I thought that men and women received the same rewards in heaven? If men received better rewards simply for being men, then yes in this case Allah would favour men over women, but this is not the case. The rewards are based on merit, not on gender.
@saminyasir937
13 күн бұрын
I would not necessarily say Allah favoured men over women. As they are not equal, they are given different role and responsibility by Allah. If we are talking about authority, then yes authority is given to men more than women. But that doesn't mean, men are better, or women are better in this life. Superiority is determined by Takwa or piety and there are somethings in which men are naturally superior to women(i.e leadership, physique, etc) but they will be rewarded based on what they used to do as you have pointed out there's no difference between genders in that regard, It does not diminish their values in the slightest, it can be argued that having less responsibility means less things to answer for so, wouldn't that make women being more favoured than men? In the end Everything should be seen as a test. I think this verse is relevant here. “15. And as for man, when his Lord tries him and [thus] is generous to him and favors him, he says, "My Lord has honored me." 16. But when He tries him and restricts his provision, he says, "My Lord has humiliated me." 17. No! But you do not honor the orphan 18. And you do not encourage one another to feed the poor. 19. And you consume inheritance, devouring [it] altogether, 20. And you love wealth with immense love.” (al-Fajr 15-20)
@pubcollize
12 күн бұрын
Who says women get less ajr? I've never heard of such a thing.
@Eoots-zz9cz
10 күн бұрын
Meh not really , I don’t think women get other men in heaven though And Allah doesn’t promote equality ,so I don’t know why you expect that ?
@Eoots-zz9cz
10 күн бұрын
@@pubcollizewomen don’t get male houris in jannah
@pubcollize
10 күн бұрын
@@Eoots-zz9cz So you think because there's no daleel that women get 7urun al3een in jannah, it means Allah a-Shakur al-Haqq al-3adl Sub7anahu waTa3ala is going to give them less than what is the most befitting for their ultimate and endless happiness? Just going into jannah alone is purely from the mercy of Allah 3azza waJal, this in itself is more than anyone deserves. What does equality have to do with anything.
*Men are Guardian and protectors for women* Allah azwajal favoured men over women Many women who have exceptional abilities which is favoured by Allah
@purplelove3666
15 күн бұрын
Allah*
@penaldo1726
14 күн бұрын
الله ﷻ* @@purplelove3666
@user-hk9kn7tm4p
14 күн бұрын
Allah is always with A capital name of the only King 👑 of all the worlds please always type with A capital
@penaldo1726
14 күн бұрын
الله ﷻ @@purplelove3666
@inthabandz
14 күн бұрын
@@user-hk9kn7tm4pnot true. This is a cristian concept
Allah has dignified man kind saying "Lakada Karamna" Bani Adam. He did not say he dignified men more or women more. He said humanity as a whole. We are equally dignified in the eyes of Allah Azzawajjal. However, inside of the humanity Allah also gave gender roles for each that are favored for men and favored for women. However spiritually we are equal to him. The only thing that distinguishes us is piety and good deeds.
How can you be dumb but intelligent at the same time. Either you say they are dumb or either you say they are not.
Spot the difference... Non muslim Feminists : some women can be stronger and faster than man, so men has no advantage. Muslim feminists: some women can exceed in worship and wisdom so men has no advantage.
for god sake
May Allah protect us from these women
@user-hk9kn7tm4p
14 күн бұрын
Allah is always with A capital name of the only King 👑 of all the worlds please always type with A capital
@zuki7776
11 күн бұрын
@@user-hk9kn7tm4p It is not forbidden for you to write Allah with a small 'a', and there is no religious impediment to this.
There is ICNA, there is ISNA And there is Woman's FITNA 😄
Sheikh I am willing to give you $110 usd. Not for counseling but to find me a wife😅
Beware of the AVESTA in the Hadith collection.
@jammy3912
15 күн бұрын
What is avesta?
@yourfriends
15 күн бұрын
What is Avesta?
@AbdulShah-pp9jm
15 күн бұрын
What does it mean?
@chintazulkanain5694
15 күн бұрын
In ISLAM it's very important to take your knowledge from someone who's honest & reliable. Honest & reliable people will take their knowledge from Sunnah & only take from reliable sources.
@user-rt4hj7tj5p
15 күн бұрын
@@chintazulkanain5694 Quran 5 44-47 And whosoever DOESNT judge by what Allah has """"REVEALED""""" is a Disbeliever, wrong Doer and Defiantly Disobedient. I want NOTHING to do with AVESTAN practices and concepts embedded under the name of LAST prophet MUHAMMAD in the HADITH Collection authored by PERSIAN ZOROASTRIAN Converts.
The creation of Adam and Hawa is the clear cut evidence about the superiority of men over women.
@user-dx1qv4yz5i
15 күн бұрын
Didn't all men after that come from a womans womb? Allah never specified a preset difference between the values of worship or iman between men or women. Without a doubt women have their exclusive rights and responsibilities as men have their own exclusive rights or responsibilities. But neither were made inherently superior. Like the relationship between a general and lieutenant, although the general at a glance seems more important the lieutenant has more direct control of troops and is only superceded when the general is directly involved in an operation.
@user-mh5il9dj1y
15 күн бұрын
@@user-dx1qv4yz5i Absolutely Right.
@HashiramaSenyu
13 күн бұрын
@@user-dx1qv4yz5i "Men are the caretakers of women, as men have been provisioned by Allah over women and tasked with supporting them financially. And righteous women are devoutly obedient and, when alone, protective of what Allah has entrusted them with..." Al-Quran 4:34 Yes, when it comes to judgement they will both be judged equally. Their deeds weigh equally. but in terms of command the men have been ordained the leadership and women have been advised to follow. It should not be a problem for a well behaved woman to follow a man provided that the man is also on the right path of Islam. That's why before marrying, a woman should inquire about the religious know how and practicing nature of the man. If he is then I guess there shouldn't be any reluctance on her part to follow him. Same goes the other way around as well. if a woman is well religious to understand her duties towards her husband according to quran and sunnah. She is the one to marry.
@SM-ui3hc
13 күн бұрын
There is no superiority complex in Islam of men over women or women over men.
@TikyeWilliams
10 күн бұрын
@@user-dx1qv4yz5i❤