May Almighty heal the heart of mother who lost her beloved child Aameen

May Allah grant her sabr. Living abroad with such a grief is difficult. Husband should have take her along or shud make some arrangement for her that she doesnt stay alone during this period.

Yeah i don’t think a grieving mother’s top priority is her in laws. This woman needs grief counseling or something, cause she seems stressed and the husband is not bothered.

JazakahAllahu kayran sheikh, very precise answer!

May Allah help ease her suffering Ameen.

Acceptance helps us to suffer less whatever happens.

Allah bless to her

Alhamdulillah ustadh is being fair

Allah Swt give her sabr Ameen🤲🏽

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

his son died and his wife is depressed. so he decided to leave his wife alone in the house that her son died and go to meet his mother... and also saying that if she doesnt let him go she will go to jahannam..... what is this? are we siding with the husband on this? at least give her some advice rather than saying just let him leave in peace

@jodolski

16 күн бұрын

The advice is for her to seek refuge in Allah. The Prophet lost many children but never despaired. Moving houses does not resolve her lack of faith in Allah. And since his son passed, what is there to do except move on? Grieving is important, yes, but the woman did not say how long ago he died. And it is true that we would not want to miss the chance to see our parents before they die too. You never know. I empathize with the mom, of course. It is never easy to deal with death but I do have to question having to move and delay him from seeing his mom.

@amatul7ayy

16 күн бұрын

She is a grown woman. If she is patient inshaallah Allah will reward her abundantly. However she is too much in her own head. As bitter as it is, life goes on and she still has a family (husband, maybe other children, inlaws, etc) to take care of.

@amatul7ayy

16 күн бұрын

As you rightly stated the husband also lost his son. Maybe he is not able to control his emotions due to that? Or maybe he can't handle her constant complaining and nagging anymore? Why do we always consider men's heart to be made out of stone? And why doesn't she accompany him to India, if she feels so bad in her house? I as a woman appreciate that the Shaikh did not make it all about the sister but considered both sides. We need to start differentiating and stop blindly catering to women's feelings.

@ishrakmujibift4269

16 күн бұрын

If you listen closely, the son probably has passed away quite a whie ago, since the father already went to india once to meet his mother. The woman's issue is that she is depressed and anxious and thinks that leaving the home would fix the problem but is unable to buy another home because of his husband spending money for international flight. With all due respect, leaving the home probably wouldn't fix the problem, she needs emotional support and counselling. Also, the husband has the right to meet his mother. We don't know what is going on in the marriage after something like the death of a child and how long it has passed since the event. Regardless, what else can you do except tell her to be patient?

@Rabbi-Jill-kews

15 күн бұрын

It sounds like it’s literally years on, she needs to leave him alone.

This lady seems annoying

@hasibamalik1186

15 күн бұрын

Why. She is grieving. Her son has died and the husband decided to have a holiday with his own mother. Wasn’t she a mother. Doesn’t she deserve love and compassion, time to accept and understand what has happened. Yes it’s the will of Allah to lose a child but a person needs support to move on, especially from her Spouse

@Rabbi-Jill-kews

15 күн бұрын

@@hasibamalik1186 she said the same thing happened last summer, how long has the son been dead? Seems she’s an average overly emotional south Asian and the husband neeeds time away from her lol

@Rabbi-Jill-kews

15 күн бұрын

@@hasibamalik1186 try listening, obviously she’s trying to control the guy. Sons been gone for at least over a year, this sheikh panders to women and is a weirdo

@hasibamalik1186

15 күн бұрын

@@Rabbi-Jill-kews hey try and show some compassion. Do you really think a year is enough to get over grieving. ? Relationship can be quite complicated and she may not be controlling at all..sometimes we take a little longer to get over the pain of losing a loved one and a spouse should be there to comfort and offer solace , if they don’t meet the expectations, it’s quite hurtful and demeaning. Occasionally I find it’s a tug of war between the wife and the mother in law to gain attention over the man..personally I have been unwell and in need but spouse chose to go abroad to spend time with his mother where he should have ensured my welling first. Life is not black and white and those two in a marriage actually know what is going on behind closed doors. . and Allah knows best…

@Rabbi-Jill-kews

14 күн бұрын

@@hasibamalik1186 you don’t ever get over it, I lost my 20 year old brother a couple years ago. I know my mom wouldn’t be in this situation. This is a brown south Asian Bollywood drama thing