So many of the patriarchal and religious messaging around sex is toxic - but perhaps there is no lie is bigger than “sex is for men”. Many folks who grew up in purity culture and have this myth as a default have poor sex lives and believe it or not, many wives then resort to managing that poor sex live akin to a household chore. Husbands convinced this is a “need” then also don’t do the work to really see their partner leading to nobody thriving in the bedroom. #exvangelical #marriage #purityculture #weaponizedincompetence #genderroles #dismantlethepatriarchy #feminism