Byron Katie "The Work" on Resentment and Self-hate masked as friendship and concearn for others

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Byron Katie and a woman from the audiance embark on an interesting journey exploring resentment, hostility and slef-hate masked as friendship, concearn etc. The popping up insights here are so refreshing and are an eyeopener and a great helping tool for everyone wanting to dive into his/her own thoughtconstructed realities understanding the very own individual inner formations of thought-structures and feelings arising along with it, which in fact are binding all of us in one way or another unknowingly to suffering. we're so unaware of these hidden processes inside and of this strange piled up "self", we cling to, piled up with a lot of "past", we so strongly cling on to. "seeing" this clinging on to this "self", observing how we start believing the very thoughts it produces, will already loosen its grip on us... by consciously loving and accepting us more and more and what is, detecting all the unquestioned thoughts, facing them, questioning them, arriving more and more, here, now, we will let go of all those heavy bags, which we were carrying around for so long.

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  • @geneedgerton4482
    @geneedgerton44822 жыл бұрын

    The woman in the audience is absolutely wonderful. She’s authentic, real, honest to the point of being funny. Just a pure delight to watch!

  • @kmm2442

    @kmm2442

    Жыл бұрын

    I know. It was like something from Seinfeld.

  • @erwinwoodedge4885
    @erwinwoodedge4885 Жыл бұрын

    Byron Katie has beautiful and amazingly expressive hands.

  • @suehowie152

    @suehowie152

    Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love Katie's hands..

  • @claudelebel49
    @claudelebel492 жыл бұрын

    It's not boundaries, it's just the truth.-- 25'

  • @SofiaTorre
    @SofiaTorre5 ай бұрын

    Great session! 😉 Thanks for uploading this!

  • @keyshajeffrey5685
    @keyshajeffrey5685 Жыл бұрын

    She is hilarious! But this is really good and eye opening.

  • @zain4019
    @zain40193 жыл бұрын

    "I am what I think you are in that moment." Wow. This is very true.

  • @eldonscott9
    @eldonscott94 жыл бұрын

    Her fire of attention, it's intoxicating!

  • @Ishana_Intuitive
    @Ishana_Intuitive3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this gem. 💎

  • @WonderingAboutThat
    @WonderingAboutThat Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    Жыл бұрын

    hello, you are very welcome 🤗 and thx for your comment 🙏

  • @enchiladasqueretanas
    @enchiladasqueretanas2 жыл бұрын

    Basically every story is my story.

  • @thisvideo1157
    @thisvideo11572 жыл бұрын

    Icried so much. This is a beautiful gift.

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    2 жыл бұрын

    indeed, it's a gift, a blessing 💚

  • @Obstanate1
    @Obstanate14 жыл бұрын

    Loved this.. beautiful, thank you.

  • @pe444
    @pe4444 жыл бұрын

    So, so grateful for your words, Katie. And Alexander, thank you for uploading this.

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    4 жыл бұрын

    thx for your kind words and thx for listening 😊 katie is such a wonderful being and such an inspiration 💫

  • @claypunk7718
    @claypunk77184 жыл бұрын

    The woman from the audience is very funny, but you can see her struggle. Byron Katie is very surgical with her questions. Very cool clip. I just discovered The Work and Byron Katie yesterday after having done shadow work for some time, and it's such a powerful tool. But I know that if I came by this clip even just 2 years ago it would've been incomprehensible to me. How times change :)

  • @pinkbox007
    @pinkbox0073 жыл бұрын

    ☕️❤️such an eye-opening journey with Patty.

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙋‍♂️absolutely🤗

  • @franciscalove2778
    @franciscalove27782 жыл бұрын

    It's painful to not like who we love.

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    2 жыл бұрын

    well, i have to ask you: do you truly believe what you put in words? for me personally, you've put in words the great dichotomie, the great inner/outer war most of us struggle consciously or unconsciously with... the great schizophrenia inside, the chasm everybody wants to overcome... somehow. when we truly are being love... we will have no reason any more to raise this question ❤💚💜💙 a teacher of mine, Thich Nhat Hanh, passed away recently and his whole live was "being love" although his human form has been burned... he lives in me and in all others he touched deeply. everything there really is, is LOVE 🌞 it does not matter how we lable it... sometimes its pain, sometimes old age... whatever... existance is being love 💚❤ at this point... ontoligically... mind cannot comprehend... and this is the point people are most afraid of: losing control, losing their cultured perceptions of self and things... freely letting go of all "wrong" notions is one of the greatest joys and the greatest libereations to be expieienced in this human form 🙏

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/kWWjk7Z9pbvMXZs.html this is a great listening meditation on being love with Thich Nhat Hanh 🙏 if by time you find spare time, please, enjoy it 🤗

  • @SA-lz1vx

    @SA-lz1vx

    2 жыл бұрын

    😔

  • @judithpfeiffer9154
    @judithpfeiffer91544 жыл бұрын

    I love this! Thanks for posting! The Work of Byron Katie has made all the difference in my life!

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙋🏻‍♂️hi judith, thanks for your lovely comment. yes, byron katie is simply amazing 🦚 the conscious living love in her has touched me years ago and inspired me ever since on my journey 🤗 we need many more awakend and loving human beings who cannot be controled by "fear" any longer! we live in times of great changes and what we experience right now worldwide points on the scale of inner evolvement as humanity. we are still growing very slowely and we could grow and really thrive beautifully and much better when more awakend people, like byron katie, help others to awake. ignorance, greed and hate... would soon be transformed, exploitation of people, animals and nature would stop immediately... the so called rich and wealthy and very powerful...do not have to fear the poor and need not to control the "mass" any longer... living love, sharing what we have here on this wonderful planet, helping each other... thriving and deeply uncovering and understanding the mysteries of our existence as individuals and as a society... well, this for me is much much better than blindly agreeing to the manifactured consent by so called elected leaders to maximize their profits over people, planting seeds of fear and hate in the hearts of generations to come and killing and murdering them if they do not think and behave as they want it. in a human world of concious human beings who are living with awareness and who are developing and sharing love and keeping healthy minds alive no fear can enter our hearts unfiltered and no weapons of mass destruction need to be build with our own money, no terror needs to be created in the name of so many lies disguised as religion, god, democracy, human rights, freedom, prosperity... and no "virus" is needed to destroy people rights and our lifes. sorry for generating such a reply..., i am living here in vienna, austria, and you would not believe what is happening here because of a "virus"... people freaking out within a couple of days out fo sheer irrational fear... its utterly insame... so please, again, forgive me, that i also reflect in my reply here the current events due to this tiny corona virus... i am afraid to say, but we are sliding into an absolute fascist state... worldwide...and this is getting more and more obvious for all the people who still use thier eyes und listen carefully. its a state with no rights to express any longer, no different viewpoints will be allowed: do not think them und do not discuss them openly, otherwise we will punish you! our thoughts and concearns will be vaccinated away as herdimmunity is what is needed here to go on destroying everything wonderful human is capable to create! its a envolving dysthopia we are all in and we are not even allowed to come together any more... and the best is: we obey out of fear! and this fear has nothing to do with a healthy fear we all have! its the very way to manipulate and impose whatever... the powerful want to impose... but there are a lot of loving and concious people like byron katie... and we are growing fast and we will not consent to the programs 🙂 demands! never! i hope you are doing well in these times! take care and all the best alexander

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mascha Ott--> hi mascha, is t true? its a good one! danke für deine lieben worte. ein reflektierter austausch wird hier via youtube eher schwierig zu gestalten sein, was meinst du...? ich schlage vor, wenn du möchtest, kannst mich unter atschimov@gmail.com erreichen. herzliche grüße

  • @Viv8ldi
    @Viv8ldi3 жыл бұрын

    "What I think of her, I am doing, and that is my pain"

  • @sheilakirwan9462

    @sheilakirwan9462

    3 жыл бұрын

    Galliano Marr absolutely

  • @vincenzi75
    @vincenzi754 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🦋😍🔥

  • @JonasAnandaKristiansson
    @JonasAnandaKristiansson2 жыл бұрын

    Nonduality = Freedom

  • @Cungnhaututap
    @Cungnhaututap Жыл бұрын

    Hey Alex, which year this event took place? Thank you.

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    2 ай бұрын

    hi, sorry, but i cannot remember any more...

  • @anthonya.antonio
    @anthonya.antonio Жыл бұрын

    This must be California. I can tell by the behavior.

  • @AM-kq6tv
    @AM-kq6tv2 жыл бұрын

    I don't think this works with malicious abuse

  • @lilgorgo

    @lilgorgo

    2 жыл бұрын

    It doesn't, friend. Some things have no reason and no reflection in you, sadly.

  • @simonsays525

    @simonsays525

    2 жыл бұрын

    The work works with everything.

  • @lilgorgo

    @lilgorgo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@simonsays525 may I ask how? For example, how does a child "turn around" abuse they have endured from an adult? What is the reflection within the child that created that circumstance?

  • @lilgorgo

    @lilgorgo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@simonsays525 any thoughts?

  • @vrndavandhamdas

    @vrndavandhamdas

    2 жыл бұрын

    well, in fact, it works with everything! not with "malicious abuse" in particular... because it already happend... but with the thoughts/feelings/reactions one has developed after such a terrible experience... and this is a rocksack full of stones drowing anyone who wants to swimm from one shore to the opposite one... why carrying such a weight... this is the miracle... when you see and experience it yourself: it's absolutely possible!

  • @lynnmanning5292
    @lynnmanning52922 жыл бұрын

    Interesting way to spell concern. LOL

  • @Medietos
    @Medietos Жыл бұрын

    She and her Work is wonderful. But if i is to work on me,I'd have to have Katie as my guide. I so need someone like her and have sought help for 41 years. I think the Work can work on many of my smaller things, but hardly on my 40-year healthcare trauma. iT is not just my thoughts on it and them all, but such tragic and horrible consequences.I hav been working th 12-step program, also was on a Work-group long ago. But I didn't get it, and the leader was too unskilled and emotonally not whole and wise and skilled enough, he couldn't help me with my immense Asoergers- and trauma terror with all the sleep debt, aLoneliness, outsiderdom, Blame for the mistakes of them, "punished" for reacting like a harmed, stressed, fearful, Highly Sensitive human to the long-term, multiple torture. I lost my teth, my lifetime, my body functions and looks, my beauty, my chances, my best years, my home and money stolen, good name (falsely so) my legal rights unlawfully too), my chances of eve r getting well and getting acces to myfull self and my life. I get mad and with the impulsive thought that I want to hit and kill anyone who claims all that and more to be ÓK, on top of the childhood abuse, and withheld health care and therapy, and for so long, and in the ligt of who I am, and all the (unpaid) work I have put in to survive even the supposed helpers, manage myself and having to suppress it to, not understanding why they do it, and being withheld information in order to not be able to orientate, calm down, think a little, make decisions and take action on a good plan, and get out of this abyss and loong rock bottoms. i have done acceptance and forgiveness-work, and 12-step work, but alone or with a good but not really good proficient, verbal, present/active/deep/empathic and communicative enough sponsor. If someone would question "Is that abuse true?", I fear I'd abandon myself too if I say it is not true, deny the abuse/torture/taken life sps. i need Katie to talk o my ego there,, findn other than the ususal way of wording the process. I am so tired and now even stuck in not going to sleep...so I don't have any energy. If tere is anyone warm, wise, verbal, empathic, spiriually/soully a bit deeper, I'd be so grateful and glad if you could coach this Work with me? With that hope at the horizon, I'd get hope and be be able to get up despite lacking energy and health and prepare daily habits, do easier Work to get into it a bit. Please pray for me. I wan to come alive now.

  • @suehowie152

    @suehowie152

    Жыл бұрын

    You may just surprise yourself if you sit in stillness with the questions.. I to come from a very abusive past and the Work was so beneficial to me without any additional trauma..I shifted stuff doing the Work that years of traditional therapy couldn't..Trust the process..

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