my experience on Bumble as a man is that 85% of women’s first messages are “hey”

@Isaac-xs7tx

Ай бұрын

You get messages? Better than Bumble has ever treated me. At least Hinge lets me filter by religion for free

@mirabella2154

Ай бұрын

And ? That's how interaction starts. Do you expect a novel ? 🙄

@Throwaway-jn1jm

Ай бұрын

85%!? Holy shit. I’m closer to 100%

@MELISSA_ISDABEST

Ай бұрын

@@mirabella2154I’m sure people can be more creative then just a hey.

@reaver357

Ай бұрын

@@mirabella2154still wonder why you’re using an app? 😂

Bumble: “Women make the first move!” Women: “hey”

@Wwattz

Ай бұрын

​@@PURPLE_HAZE.de.😂you don't respond to 1% of those messages. Read the comments.

@Ribbitplease

Ай бұрын

Better than “wanna bang?”

@nekk-ra7080

Ай бұрын

Bumble: " Gals, make the first move." Men: "It's a trap!"😬

@crls1

Ай бұрын

@@PURPLE_HAZE.de. I feel bad for the ones you did.

@saigyl9149

Ай бұрын

@@PURPLE_HAZE.de. we are talking about bumble, no one messaged you unless you message first

Token initiative. 99% of women on the app just go "hey" and then the ball's IMMEDIATELY back in the man's court. Carrying the convo, asking for the date, planning the date, paying for the date, etc etc.

@SpyJay

Ай бұрын

whatever you say dude

@Dev1cted

Ай бұрын

@@SpyJayhow is he wrong ?…. The women literally want the men to do that

@SpyJay

Ай бұрын

@@Dev1cted Bro, that joke flew SO far over your head that now you're an even bigger joke. Look at what the original commenter's name is, then read my reply again. I shouldn't even have to explain it. And of course he's 100% spot on... he's Brian from WHATEVER!

@Dev1cted

Ай бұрын

@@SpyJay bro no you’re harassing the commenter what’s wrong you ? Be nice to people!

@CMCAdvanced

Ай бұрын

​@Dev1cted ok ,he explained his stupid joke, so now YOU'RE in the wrong

Women : guys have to have a creative first message . Women on Bumble : "hey"

@bertderauw8758

Ай бұрын

Preach!

@gravelDave

Ай бұрын

..and that was a copy and paste too.

@raaspider

Ай бұрын

when i tried my responses be few sentences i usually got back an okay, and this was when they liked my photo too lol

@RoVicD

16 күн бұрын

I kind of disagree with that. I never liked it when men were trying to send creative messeges. It oftens comes out wrong. I always prefered, 'hey I'd like to get to know you' or something along those lines. It depends on the persons. For me simple is better.

@bedroo222222

15 күн бұрын

@@RoVicD Yeah , well I can tell you as a man , if I send a "hey", I get left on read 99% of the time.

Dating apps are trash. A girl matched me and she said because I didn’t have Instagram, that was a dealbreaker

@dapperfan44

Ай бұрын

She did you a favor.

@spicycracker7828

Ай бұрын

brutal

@AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh

Ай бұрын

You dodged an absolutely scary situation. The less social media a woman has, the better. You want em connected to the outside, not pictures of the outside on Instagram

@mirabella2154

Ай бұрын

You dodged a bullet.

@ohjay7612

Ай бұрын

Those women exist in real life. Not only on apps

I always found it funny how women complain that men are horrible starting conversations on dating apps. 90% of the matches I've had on Bumble was a one word message "Hey" or "Hello" and nothing else.

@nicknevco215

Ай бұрын

Are we sure it not a bot

@lawrencetalbot8346

Ай бұрын

Majority was absolute silence. I’d match the same girls on tinder and after sending the first message they’d turn into social butterflies. Women is a synonym for hypocrite

@avalerionbass

Ай бұрын

Always expecting more than they can ever offer themselves.

@P.Whitestrake

Ай бұрын

Women only want equality when it's convenient.

@Sofloasian

Ай бұрын

This!!!! Literally

I've seen Women's profiles on Bumble that said "You must pursue me, I will not send the first message" Gave me a good chuckle.

@bertderauw8758

Ай бұрын

These girls man, every time i read that i get pissed.

@jbx1967

Ай бұрын

Typical barfly mentality.

@user-xb5eo2bm1n

27 күн бұрын

I've had some matches who didn't message first and hence got expired after 24 hours so basically the match was pointless lol. I still have the app in my phone but I've stopped using it now. Don't wanna support woke feminist bs. Leaving this comment so that every time someone likes it I'll be reminded not to use this app.

I had a girl whos bio said don't be boring and open with hey. Her first message?... hey So i reply hey and she unmatched me😂 The hypocrisy

@Cartoon-2lk

Ай бұрын

As a woman I can say that women contradict themselves. I was in a grup of friends and they used to complain that I don't communicate when I have a problem with them and told me I should do that. One day I did have a problem, I told them and one of them said "here's the solution: don't talk"😵‍💫 When I talk is not ok when I don't talk is a problem.

@schmoemi3386

29 күн бұрын

Her Standards obviously only apply to YOU, not to her 🤔

@aquiestapedro

28 күн бұрын

@@Cartoon-2lk Thats the reason we are tired of women bs

@Cartoon-2lk

27 күн бұрын

@@aquiestapedro eh, not just women, men too. Long time ago, I told a guy I like him. He told me he like me back. Later, he confessed he never liked me. It would easier if people would be honest and know what they want. 😮‍💨

As a guy, this feel like I'll be responding to a generic job posting and I have to cleverly woo the recruiter in order to get an interview

@regishwadum

Ай бұрын

Congrats, you just discovered what it’s like trying to find a girlfriend.

@marcotroster8247

Ай бұрын

Dude you gotta find a place where your dating profile goes through the roof and girls chase you instead of the other way around. I promise you there are places like that. Those algorithms are so weird (saying this as an AI engineer).

@that_guy_gustav

Ай бұрын

That's exactly what it sounds like lol

@robinfox4440

Ай бұрын

The gamification of dating through the apps makes them feel more capricious than job interviews. It's so stupid.

@badlaamaurukehu

Ай бұрын

​@@regishwadumAnd having one. Just another job with another entitled boss.

Dating apps have a financial incentive in you never finding a match. Let that sink in.

@user-sy2jy1si8f

Ай бұрын

Actually, the best case scenario for them is that you find some matches that go nowhere. Finding no matches makes their customers lose interest and leave. It's like casinos - to keep their customers engaged, they let them win every once in a while.

@TheLordNovo

Ай бұрын

They also have a financial incentive in you finding one because eventually people get burnt out by disappointing encounters. Min-Max dilemma

@BulletCRG

Ай бұрын

Multiple times on Bumble, I would see notifications that a match expired and it says I can pay money to talk to them, even though I checked it at least once a day leading up to that point. You should have 24 hours before it expires. Also, it is suspicious how you can have multiple "People who like you" on Tinder, use all your swipes multiple days in a row and almost never match them. It seems like they prevent them from coming on your feed unless you pay to see them.

@rolloxra670

Ай бұрын

@@BulletCRG Not to mention that you’ll have a very low visibility unless you pay premium.

@Kat-zx1pj

Ай бұрын

I think it's best if it's effective. You meet attractive people who are OK but not that compatible to share a life with them. You are dating or even be with someone for a year and be back for more. Love is rare, so even if you are dateable you will spend a lot of time on the app. If it doesn't work at all - I don't think they make that much money from those frustrated people.

These companies are so scared of men being successful and happy

@user-ff8rs7gk6r

Ай бұрын

Everyone is. Because a group of happy men are literally capable of changing the world. And none of the people in power want that.

@xavierjones6852

Ай бұрын

@@user-ff8rs7gk6rexactly! A happy man doesn’t need shit and that’s bad for business!

@chuckyyes

Ай бұрын

especially white men

@allanluis3696

Ай бұрын

@@user-ff8rs7gk6r ummmm, that is NOT how it works. Very unhappy men rooted in principle change society around them.

@liamfairbairn3374

Ай бұрын

​@@allanluis3696 the opposite of love is apathy.

Ladies, stop using dating apps. go to an event, join a club, go outside. the man you want is in your community, not the internet.

@rottengirl4046

27 күн бұрын

You first

@boyeatsworld-vr9ci

27 күн бұрын

@rottengirl4046 I did. Im dating someone from a cooking class I joined. Bonus, turned out shes not a hoe either. Now what

@user-wl5tv4jl7v

26 күн бұрын

@@rottengirl4046 no you first.

@DickRichie92

20 күн бұрын

@@rottengirl4046 Spoken like a girl who will most likely be single for many many yrs. You girls cry feminism, then turn around and bitch about how it's too much pressure to make the first move. wtf lol

To be honest I stopped using dating apps along time ago. It's all a waste of time and effort.

@brianburgess3231

Ай бұрын

never have .. what's the point .. I would rather interact face-to-face with my lady .. to me this is just another form of social distancing

@Viperauora

Ай бұрын

Did you ever use tinder?

@brianburgess3231

Ай бұрын

@@Viperauora me? no

@dapperfan44

Ай бұрын

Found my wife in real life. All the women on OkCupid wanted to play games.

@spicycracker7828

Ай бұрын

especially if you're not handsome And short, extra brutal

Dating apps are garbage, speaking from experience

@jzm2293

Ай бұрын

Even for women it's kinda the same we're usually there to get friends with benefits trapped without even being told that

@jzm2293

Ай бұрын

@Cambone-mx6zj I'd say 20%. I just got tired of apps they suck! 😫 Idk I sometimes feel like I'm unlucky when it comes to love and dating

@at7870

Ай бұрын

😂 it's not the dating app. It's the people in 2024.

@jzm2293

Ай бұрын

True. I just feel like the apps now are just for those who want a fun time

@jzm2293

Ай бұрын

@Cambone-mx6zj there's healthy men out there I know that I'm just talking about dating apps and a good 70% of both men and women on there are more for hookup than actual relationships which is why alot of people who want relationships are checking out of dating apps

As if men don't deal with enough bots, the dating apps are actively turning women into them.

I used bumble and this guy I matched with had a photo of his pet bunny.. I messaged "hey! Is that your bunny?!" We have been married for 2.5 years now

@DionPanday

Ай бұрын

But if a guy responded the same women would call him lazy and boring. Peak clown world

@tommore1300

Ай бұрын

Sweet story 👏

@TheSaraphic

Ай бұрын

No I am bunny sitting

@bunez69x

Ай бұрын

@@DionPandayinsecure much no one cares

@DionPanday

Ай бұрын

@@bunez69x you’re cared enough to respond

Reject dating apps, embrace courting.

@LukeyBoy82

Ай бұрын

No embrace porn

@That_BookNeRd

Ай бұрын

fr tho courting was sm better

@That_BookNeRd

Ай бұрын

@@LukeyBoy82dude wtf

@miltain

Ай бұрын

lmao​@@LukeyBoy82

@Buddahmonk

Ай бұрын

You gotta go to third world countries to be properly taught how to court

Before this video started, an ad played. A Bumble ad...

@kikilong8411

Ай бұрын

😂

@3Equalz

Ай бұрын

Imagine not using an adblocker in 2024

@mackenziemesler7882

Ай бұрын

Same

@billybob7135

Ай бұрын

Bumble came to my campus a while back. The women running the stand weren't interested in talking to anyone, and just let us take whatever goodies we wanted. They explicitly told us they were obligated to be there. Yikes.

I had a terrible bumble opening line but I did my best. My now-husband responded in kind and we married 18 months later. So glad he responded 😊

@LadyDecember

Ай бұрын

Share with the class! I gotta know this husband-catcher of an opening line 🤭**props chin on fists, kicking feet giddily**

@jessicab6723

Ай бұрын

​@@LadyDecemberyou will be terribly disappointed haha. It was "what's your favourite fruit?" Sometimes we still whisper 'pineapple' to each other and have a giggle 🤭

@LadyDecember

Ай бұрын

@@jessicab6723 🤣Unexpected. But I love it! I'll have to shove that one in my back pocket in case of emergency. It probably needs further testing in the field, but clearly it worked on _someone,_ so there is a rate of success attached lol

@young-king301

Ай бұрын

I met my girl on bumble too. I think her opening line was "Hello" lol. We're engaged now so I'm glad she mustered up the courage to initiate.

@darklordsauron3415

22 күн бұрын

Married 18 months later? Married at all? GG. Nvm you a women.

Women : We want gender equality! Bumble : Ok, I made an app where you can make the first move with men. Women : Sorry?..😅

I actually met my girlfriend through bumble and we both acknowledged we were both very lucky to come across each other haha

@Fun_Sized_Gigi

Ай бұрын

Met my husband on bumble. We’ve been happily married for 5 years. I wish you and your girlfriend a lifetime of happiness

@violetnorwen8491

Ай бұрын

Yall be lucky and blessed

@TheLordNovo

Ай бұрын

Met my gf on bumble too. 6 months was a few days ago. I do find it funny though that she didn’t know women were supposed to message first until I told her that 4 months in. She just thought 90% of matches she got before she met me genuinely didn’t care to say anything lmao. But in all honesty, I’m very lucky to have met her and love her so much

@genetikz2010

Ай бұрын

Me too

@jakemetzgar

Ай бұрын

@@Fun_Sized_Gigi thank you!

I was on bumble for a short time, and then one day I went to log in and it told me I needed to agree with BLM in order to log in so I deleted it.

@LawlessLonewolf

Ай бұрын

Say what now?

@ZombifiedZealot

Ай бұрын

The White Man marches on.

@janelleg597

Ай бұрын

Wtf

@janelleg597

Ай бұрын

​@@ZombifiedZealot username checks out

@ZombifiedZealot

Ай бұрын

@janelleg597 your face checks out. OOOOHHHHHHHHHHH

Bumble originally was popular not to "empower" women but to stop the sexual harassment. Most apps at that time allowed men to message women freely which resulted in a lot of hate, and sexual messages. However, now that most dating apps only allow messages between matched people and upped their reporting workflows, Bumble's reason to exist no longer works. I can see why they had to change it. Most women started leaving Bumble

@WomenAreRottingHoles

Ай бұрын

"it was b/c of the poor poor holes" what a cuck

@DickRichie92

20 күн бұрын

Most women started leaving Bumble? Just curious how you know this.

women be saying that men don't know how to hold a conversation ... men be saying that women don't even know how to start one.

So making the first move is a burden? Damn we men go thru so much😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🎣

@Kevin.Costner.

Ай бұрын

🎣

@mattiej2311

Ай бұрын

And most of the time their first move is "heyyy" or "hii"

@tehejuliannetehe

Ай бұрын

it's not fr, i want a guy to make the first move but it feels like they never do!

@etiobatista5938

Ай бұрын

Someone once said: if you want a guy to make the first move, you as a woman must make yourself look approachable.

@LinkfromTLOZ28

Ай бұрын

@@tehejuliannetehe why dont you

So basically men need to put in the work..... Stunning and brave

@alexman378

Ай бұрын

Like always

@DangFee78

Ай бұрын

Screw that, the Soft Guy Era is here to stay. Drizzle drizzle

@SoulAtParadise

Ай бұрын

unless he’s hot and he’ll fulfill the creative requirements by the fact he’s hot alone.

Most of my bumble matches just never messaged me. If they did it was just “hey”, and then got ghosted once I replied.

As a woman to other women. Let's do better... We're so lame now, what happened?

Bumble is the worst dating app I have ever tried. Their suggested "best fit" are never my type. You spend time making a profile and what do women do? Write "hi" and then its back to the guys keeping the conversation alive. Also I have never in my life seen so many women write "feminism, equality and human rights" on their profiles as on bumble... Im looking for a date not a freaking activist...

@brittneyzarwel6242

Ай бұрын

I hated getting messages like "hey" from guys on dating apps. Even if I responded more than "hey" back I often would just get something like "cool". It was like pulling teeth to start a convo.

@brittneyzarwel6242

Ай бұрын

I put "Bazinga" at the top of my profile. I thought it was funny and I was obsessed w Big Bang Theory at the time.

@ems3991

Ай бұрын

To be fair though, it's harder for women to write original messages to 20 guys a day than for men to write them to a few women a month.

@lawrencetalbot8346

Ай бұрын

All these so called feminists have no idea how to initiate a conversation. Truly pathetic but that’s women for ya. There’s a reason our founding fathers didn’t give them the right to vote, own property, etc

@Tetelestai-cw8qy

Ай бұрын

"Feminism, equality and human rights" Just write "woke" ladies.

Dating is ruined and may never come back. Dating apps are just seen as money pits now.

@goodboy1269

Ай бұрын

Fugg no never tried it, rather take my chances with a twin headed cobra 😂😂😂

The BEST dating "apps" are still the bench under the tree in the park and that inexpensive coffee shop that has those GREAT apple slices.

@captainphoenix

29 күн бұрын

It's 2024. IRL approaching women = prison. Bad advice. Better advice is to just drop out and embrace being single.

I saw pics of you and Amala! So cool. Hope youre having a good time in L.A and stay safe, Brett ❤️

never forget that bubble implemented a height filter so girls could filter guys by height but so many girls were only choosing 6’6 and up along w the other filters so that they were seeing so few men bumble had to take away the feature

@spicycracker7828

Ай бұрын

hell, if you're a guy under 5'10" you probably shouldn't create an account on ANY dating app

@promisemochi

Ай бұрын

oh lord i didn't even know that. that's sad. that'd be like being able to filter women by weight. there'd be an outrage. i never understood the height thing. i've met some of the scummiest guys who were tall and some of the kindest who were not tall. height doesn't equate to being a decent, loving partner. things have gotten ridiculous.

@Ribbitplease

Ай бұрын

6’6 and up 😂😂😂 you guys are seriously exaggerating.

@gaiagba

Ай бұрын

​@@promisemochi you can change your weigh a better comparason would be breast size lol

@user-cz9jj2em2v

Ай бұрын

@@Ribbitplease Not really, 82% had the filter, and only 30% included 5' 10 only 15% included 5 9" more included 7 foot.

Wait, wait, wait. After _years_ of women complaining that men send mass mailing texts in order to get as many responses as possible, ignoring the individuality of each women they contact, Bumble decides to automate this for woman. Added to the whiplash mind-changing stereotype behavior, this actually makes me less interested in dating than I have ever been.

Sorry men aren’t chasing women anymore. The worst trade deal in the history of trade deals

I love that new studio setting. Bright, vibrant, and very green.

Men have been able to make the first move on Bumble for a long time with "Compliments", of which Bumble charges $5 each... or "just" $2 each if you buy a bundle of compliments! They're 100% in on men having to pay to even have a chance of being seen, and the cost is insane. Good luck everyone!

@86donkeys

Ай бұрын

💯 Once I realized this, I deleted the app and left a review mentioning it, to which the developers belligerently responded and assumed I wasn't getting any matches and that I should work on my profile prompts. F them.

Women: "Where are all the good guys. I want a good guy" Meanwhile also women: Too lazy to even put in the effort to type a message to a potential partner... People really think they can get good people without putting in even the bare minimum effort themselves

@kathyp1563

Ай бұрын

It's not really about what women think, or want. It's more about a business whose marketing strategy is floundering. So, they are trying to stay afloat.

@demarcusds95

Ай бұрын

Facts pure entitlement

@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418

Ай бұрын

All the good guys arent on a dating app my experiences online dating with men is pretty trashy most men on dating apps are so fake and only wanting sex it sucks I only had a good date with 1 man when it comes to the app Women are sketchy Men just tend to want sex.... Online dating just sucks thats why i skip to meeting irl and stick to public settings gets further with girls and couples

@MomoAfterDark

Ай бұрын

Women have been getting good people without putting in effort forever.

@justtrollinalong977

Ай бұрын

Reminds me of a great video I watched yesterday, where it was actually a woman coming to terms with the fact that they’re out here saying, “if a man wanted to he would” and yet she was recognizing that saying that meant SHE “wanted to and *wasn’t doing it* herself” and therefore how could she get mad at men. It was amazing to see one of them recognize their own crap. But…wont matter.

I'd set up a robot that sends "Convince me or f off" to women 😂

All I got on Bumble was a couple of scammers and a bunch of unanswered messages

How to use dating apps.. TURN THEM OFF AND DELETE THEM! Get off the dating apps! You get nothing but bots and laziness in people not wanting to put in effort.

@DangFee78

Ай бұрын

Facts

Bumble should BEE careful. They wouldn’t want to lose their users.

@ongiiee

Ай бұрын

Yeah they don’t want too much unhealthy BUZZ to their company.

@smorgasbord5715

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I'm sure that would really STING

@BentRoberts-qb1do

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 These puns are great

@Lavsharose

Ай бұрын

It is not BEEutiful if they don't

If women can have the option to date guys based on height...why isnt there any dating app that lets men date women based on weight?

as someone who been on blumble making the first move was so annoying lol

@WomenAreRottingHoles

Ай бұрын

awww it was annoying to say "hey" thanks for telling all the men you cant do the most simple of work you force onto men day in and out

This is my problem with dating app their business model is to keep you on the app not to make you delete it so they hide the people that would actually be compatible with you

This has zero to do with feminism, it has to do with the average woman not willing to put 1% of effort the average man has to.

@alexman378

Ай бұрын

Which is very much a feminist thing. “I want equality, as long as I don’t have to be responsible for it”.

@kathyp1563

Ай бұрын

Its really not about that either. People aren't spending as much time with the apps, which is causing panic, because it IS a business. I don't think this is about what women want or don't want. It's about the business trying to stay afloat.

@dearthditch

Ай бұрын

They wouldn’t need to change things if women didn’t have the abject fear of being shot down. Have to re-rewrite the rules for Princesses

@thereallazygirl

Ай бұрын

bro women wont chase u . get over it y'all want us more than we want u . it's the way of nature

@alexman378

Ай бұрын

@@thereallazygirl Yeah, that’s western feminist mindset in a nutshell. Women will very much chase a man if he’s built himself up for it. Just because you feminists hate men, it doesn’t mean normal women do too.

I actually met my now husband on bumble a few years ago during lockdown. In my country lockdown was pretty strict so meeting people outside was basically not possible since apart from supermarkets, doctors offices and hospitals everything was closed by law. He was honest on his profile about actually looking for someone to marry and have a family with and he wouldn’t mind dating a religious woman. So we texted, talked a few times on the telephone before we had a very lovely picnic in a park. It’s true that majority of people on dating apps won’t be what you’re looking for but I would never say never. Be honest and open about what you want and what are your good and not so good sides and chances are you’ll actually meet someone who understands you and shares the same values.

Wow that 1:36 triple snap cut whatever the term is. Wow! So much work for the editing department. Respect

Women don’t have game, they just play them

@billybob7135

Ай бұрын

The game men play is one of thos roguelikes wher eone mistake costs you everything. They only game women have are those "idle games" where you do nothing but rake in exponentially increasing rewards.

@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418

Ай бұрын

I disagree depends on the girl i got game and i am one some girls just dont want to make the first move guys are to scared of rejection The key is to get over yourself remember confidence is sexy

@Flubberiam

Ай бұрын

@@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418 absolutely, I did express a blanket statement however your skillset does not make up for majority of the population respectfully. I’d also like to add that women don’t need game in the first place in most cases, for a long time men have had to have some sort of mating call 😅

@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418

Ай бұрын

@@Flubberiamsome ladies need game to pick up another lady most women dont need game for a mans attention

@Flubberiam

Ай бұрын

@@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418 I agree, and yes that’s true women don’t need game for male attention because it’s been taught that women are to be approached not men. If I may, I’d like to say it will always come down to how two people get along, no matter how they meet.

Honestly, given how the modern climate is between men and women, if ladies aren't willing to put some skin in the game and put in some effort to a guy they like, then maybe they should just sit on the sidelines. Dating is harder now, for a variety of reasons. Some men are still willing to go through that minefield to try and get a dub, some men have called it quits; no shame in either choice. If the other part of the team isn't willing to put forth some effort legitimate effort, like they do for a job, then screw em (metaphorically). They can buy a dog and die alone.

@newtonsurmiser2319

Ай бұрын

Yep, in today's climate it's up to the women to do more of the approaching, since they seem to be so offput with men in recent years & have been pretty vocal about being so offput with men. Men have definitely picked up on this vibe & have responded accordingly, by removing themselves from dating altogether.

@user-cz9jj2em2v

Ай бұрын

That isn't the problem. Marriage is dead and the future is polygyny. Look at Bumble's abortive height filter - 82% of women had the filter, and only 30% included 5' 10 - only 15% included the average of 5 9". More included 7 foot than the average. Women simply are not attracted - sexually - to men who are not in the top 20% or less of men. Women not putting in effort? Are you nuts? Have you seen the shit they do for Chads? It's fucking crazy simp stuff. They throw every at those guys, money included. Ultimately, the world will need to accept a norm where Chads have like 5 or 6 women and the rest of us dudes go do something else. What that is I have no idea. Historically, it meant fighting wars, but wars are now so utterly destructive that this is not a realistic option - maybe something like the Aztec Flower wars.

@kathyp1563

Ай бұрын

This story about Bumble changing their primary marketing strategy is more about a business struggling than their customers actual preferences. People aren't turning to dating apps like they used to. Bumble is throwing darts in the dark trying to save their business.

@kathyp1563

Ай бұрын

​@@newtonsurmiser2319 but women always "chased a man until he caught her". Something is broke in the system. As an older woman, I agree it is with young women. "Come hither eyes". Do you remember old Bugs Bunny cartoons where a female rabbit would give Bugs "Come hither eyes"? Bugs would literally float across the room to her? That's the way you guys operate. Men haven't changed.

@amyj4283

Ай бұрын

@@kathyp1563 Yeah. Women need to give men signals. The sociopolitical environment sucks so much, which makes everything harder.

Oh cool an app that I’ll never use got an update, thanks!

I hope I never find myself using these types of apps, but I found it funny that their system which was set up for “empowerment” was evidently too much effort to ask of the women who use their service.

And why should i be forced to take 100% of the risk as a man??

@svietka202

Ай бұрын

u dont need to, no beta does😂

@butwhy312

Ай бұрын

No one's forcing you 😭 uninstall the apps

@Erowens98

Ай бұрын

Because the alternative is being alone

@79Dnivara

Ай бұрын

Coz women are too brave and stunning to take effort.

@absolut_dre

Ай бұрын

Women don't have game, that's why

I was on Bumble for a while and I'd match with dozens of women and they'd almost never message first. They just want a self-esteem boost.

My fiancée & I met on Bumble in 2018. My first message to him was more than just a "hey," and I actually showed that I was interested in getting know him in person. After the 1st date, I knew we had something special, though yes we took things slow(we both had offal experiencs with past dates & on Tinder, okcupid). We both worked our butts off to buy our first home in 2022. Now getting married in August at the beach!!😇 We have the same goals, values, & most importantly God!❤️

sunny makes me sleepy but your videos keep me awake, i do not think i will ever use a dating app, tbh

Women don't understand Women 😂

@user-cz9jj2em2v

Ай бұрын

The truth is that women are *very* simple creatures, and have been understood forever. But mentioning reality is considered sexist now. Example, a certain 6th century illiterate whose cult is currently conquering Europe - seriously a you don't even need to read to figure out women.

@R0d_1984

Ай бұрын

Just posted the same thing...face-palm.

@MichaelVavor

Ай бұрын

Shit. At this point men understand women better themselves lmao.

@GetMedoed

Ай бұрын

Yet they claim they’re way better communicators than men 🤡🤡

@rrrealqueen

Ай бұрын

Same. Im a women and all my girl-friends start drama, or they do petty shit. I keep a healthy distance from them. Outside of them and my woman experiences. I absolutely avoid women at all costs because there a lot to handle. Smh.

Uh huh. Men are done with the whiplash. No point in going 12 different directions at once.

@user-cz9jj2em2v

Ай бұрын

Men are being sent their own way. Men aren't "done" with anything. The whiplash is just women stuck in a never ending circus trying to get Chad. The whiplash only exists because people can't bring themselves to admit this reality. The "answer" is that humans are entering a polygynous era. In the future, Chads will have 5 or 6 women and the women will work to support the kids. The remaining 80 or 90 percent of dudes will just have to go do something else. Not sure what that ends with

Bashes on California, but yet she records in California…

@rolloxra670

Ай бұрын

She bashes on California’s politics not in the state itself

@alec4902

Ай бұрын

@@rolloxra670 both, I’ll send you the link where she is…

I got a bumble ad before this video

I tried a couple dating sites/apps years and years ago... Probably a decade or more. But when I realized how stacked the numbers are against finding someone truly compatible, I just quit. I've dated women I've met in person and still looking for the one but I find meeting people in person feels much more natural and less like a job interview.

@jzm2293

Ай бұрын

Do abroad dating plus especially where the culture is different

@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418

Ай бұрын

I went on a date with a threple couple litterally felt like a job interview 😂

@captainphoenix

29 күн бұрын

You must be over 40. Approaching women under 35 in 2024 IRL is jail time.

As someone who’s been in the religious life, it’s insulting when media portrays convents/monasteries as full of people from the Handmaids Tale 😂

@robertbusek30

Ай бұрын

Insulting, but not surprising…

@nickmedley4749

Ай бұрын

@@robertbusek30 I have some hunches about what you mean, but for sure I agree that this treatment is to be expected from the media.

Feminism is all about having power but taking 0 responsibility.

I met my partner on bumble but I’m so thankful we met before this update I don’t think I could handle it. I was already over it even at that point..

With seeing how sophisticated AI has become, I no longer see any reason to use online dating apps. There is no protection from AI chat bots on any of these sites.

Dating apps are fixed against men. Waaay more men use dating apps than women and studies show that while men typically “like” over half of the women they see, women only “like” a tiny fraction of the men they come across. Unless you’re tall, handsome, and/or rich, you don’t stand much of a chance at having regular matches. Most women will have dozens or even hundreds of men hitting them up at any given time while most men will be lucky to have a single woman want to connect with them. It’s a giant pool of every guy in the general area and unless you’re at the top of everyone else, you aren’t getting picked. Survival of the fittest. It’s superficial Darwinism in action. Then some of the apps like Tinder or CMB will literally filter out girls who like you from the pool of potential matches so you’ll be forced to buy “premium” to see them, and then half of those are bot accounts. It’s EXHAUSTING. So I’m done. I’m giving it to God and letting Him find me a woman because all my years of heartache have yet to get me any closer to marriage.

@user-cz9jj2em2v

Ай бұрын

Why the *hell* do you want to be married? Masochism?

@bellasecretsify

Ай бұрын

This is exactly why I've been on two dating apps for over six months with no success.

@dirtpiddler7548

Ай бұрын

Facts

@high-captain-BaLrog

Ай бұрын

What the f ck is CMB

@butwhy312

Ай бұрын

If you had given in to God in the first place, you would have never gone through it.

Okay, that transition was AWESOME 😂😂😂

I met my husband on tinder in 2020. I messaged first. The opener was so easy then. " What are you doing for quarantine?" It's really not that hard.

Women in general don’t like making the first move. I match with so many women on bumble but they never make the first move and they expire. I hate it so much

@MichaelVavor

Ай бұрын

And even the women that do make the first move, they seem so uninterested and would mostly like to be approached instead lol.

@Deew0244

Ай бұрын

@@MichaelVavor for real! Most of them are dry texters

@high-captain-BaLrog

Ай бұрын

incompetency and duplicity should be synonyms for the word "woman"

@punchkitten874

Ай бұрын

And so you keep your subscription because someone MIGHT reply. They're just keeping you on the hook with fake, generic matches. You wouldn't keep paying if noone matched up. So they HAVE to show you matches in order to make money. It's not women, it's business.

@WomenAreRottingHoles

Ай бұрын

@@punchkitten874 its women b/c its the same IRL nice try

Isn't this... What... Matching was initially for...? To signal both sides are interested but leaving space for initiative...? What is even going on

@3000phon

Ай бұрын

And soon every girl, will send an automatic reply to every match, making it the same as matching is now, farming guys for maximum attention. And bumble will need to add another layer...

@juliemesser2053

Ай бұрын

​@@3000phonNot for long.

Bumble adds have been harassing me for the past 2 weeks like I’m not downloading the app!!!

First move: “hey”

Every guy no matter what should reply, "I have a girlfriend."

@oldskoolaspie

Ай бұрын

Even if it's a bold-faced lie?

@keshavraj6186

Ай бұрын

Hell yeah

@SchooloftheOlde

Ай бұрын

@@oldskoolaspie life is a play and it gotta be played until the last act.

@artawhirler

Ай бұрын

That raises the question of what is someone with a girlfriend doing on a dating app. 😅

@keshavraj6186

Ай бұрын

@@artawhirler finding his wife

So in other words, we need to go outside and get hobbies ❤

As someone who absolutely hates and svcks at initiating conversations (I can carry on well after the ice is broken), those opening options seem cool to me XD Luckily I don't need to do that anymore

the way i got a bumble ad about the rebrand from youtube in the middle of watching this video

Meet the new boss. Same as the old boss. 😂😂😂

@ProfessionalCleancutguy

Ай бұрын

😂

I want to be a stay at home wife, mother, and home maker.... I have no idea where to find my husband, but I know it isn't here. 😭💀

@LinkfromTLOZ28

Ай бұрын

the south maybe

@LukeyBoy82

Ай бұрын

Get in to OF and porn, you’ll make more money and be happier. Get some nose candy so you stay skinny

@michaelwellen2866

Ай бұрын

Good men are literally everywhere. You just need to make a move.

@Viperauora

Ай бұрын

You could find a husband.

@chuckyyes

Ай бұрын

@@michaelwellen2866 she just wants attention. She knows good men exist. She's just saying rage fuel shit, so you'll give her attention, and you're the sucker that fell for it. When will you learn?

Ha, Brett changes studio, and the first thing she does is a dating episode with a Ruff Greens ad.

I haven't used Bumble since before the Pandemic. What struck me was that a lot of women put links to their other social media accounts like Instagram in their Bumble profiles. This is because they didn't want to make the first move. They wanted men to make the first move by messaging them on Instagram. This proved to me that the whole idea of Bumble where women could make the first move was flawed.

I hate Bumble! I used to make the first move and then my match would expire and disappear because the guy didn’t reply within 24hrs. It was ridiculous!

@Muddfeet64

Ай бұрын

Probably because you have to pay for the damn subscription to see and text matches or likes. (Unless im forgeting that Bumble is a sexist b!tch and they only make men pay for it and woman get it free)

@chris8534

Ай бұрын

haha that's gold - half the confidence problems of modern women is caused by men not checking their phone often enough. Got to see the funny side of that.

@alexman378

Ай бұрын

I find hilarity in women reacting in horror to what is just normal occurrences for guys.

@highlanderknight

Ай бұрын

Some men aren't glued to their phones.

@kriistyyanne

Ай бұрын

@@highlanderknight I get that, and that’s why I hated bumble because 24hrs is not enough time for men to see it. Most men go on dating apps during the weekend so the timings were never right.

Just another reason why I will never use a dating app

Lol how you snuck that kibble in there 😂😂😂 Brett is so pertinent and always on point, gawd u make me smile 😄🤣

9:23 that’s when you choose all the things you hate and if someone asks you about it, you act innocent and say in your sweetest voice “Oh, those are supposed to be things we agree with? I thought we were listing everything we hate! My bad!”

1920-2000: Courting/gentleman 2000-present: Stalking/creep

@alexman378

Ай бұрын

Right, and when did third wave feminism start? Around that time.

If I got a automated message I would probably just unmatch them

Brett I love you sm but these transitions are so funny

This is a perfect example of be careful what you ask for. Bc you just might get it.

Thanks, Brett. Thanks to your video, I will be deleting the terrible app that is Bumble. Thanks for helping me finally understand why I have literally gotten zero matches in my month on the platform.

@janelleg597

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤ good luck to you

There is nothing about dating apps that is beneficial to society. Nothing. I will die on that hill. I know some people meet their significant other on dating apps and have had wonderful experiences…. But those are few and far between. Without dating apps, i doubt hookup culture would be what it is today. Without dating apps, “men are trash” wouldn’t be on the lips of so many women. Without dating apps, men wouldn’t be questioning every thing they say for fear of being called “creepy”. It’s insane.

@anthonyfava9367

Ай бұрын

The problem is that cold approaching women has been deemed socially unacceptable outside of bars or similar settings.

@pancernyhusarz2985

Ай бұрын

Dating apps ruin mental health of the guys. And they give much too much power and attention to a women. And lets be honest. If u are women and u heave 20 extremely desperate guys simping to u. Such attention and beeing desired would just corrupt and entitle u. Current dating both in dating apps and in general life heave completly screwed up balance. Never before one gender like guys were so incredible lonlely and opposite gender like women so incredible desperatly desired. Its obviously unhealthy. And good for neather gender. I think geniually dating apps are doing more harm then good and i would say that anybody heave much more chances in risking and geting to know a women in random places not designed for it at all then there. Sadly. The main problem here lies much much deeper then just dating apps. Even that obviously IT give its own share of curse into this world and help to spread IT up. But the source of problem still lies within current wokkie culture. That bassicly helped people to avoid responsibility for theirs own actions, broke, a familly values and promoted hook up culture.

@efe75623

Ай бұрын

@@anthonyfava9367 Nah it still works. It's pretty hard on the first 20-30 attemps but you get used to rejection.

The fact I got a bumble ad before this video…

I do not take any women on dating apps seriously, I automatically assume it’s not mine it’s just my turn They are all dating like tinder is a slot machine they keep pulling the handle looking for that perfect guy while stacking bodies with every pull

Call me bumble cause i dont either😭💀

@Kevin.Costner.

Ай бұрын

Help me Please its a cry for help😖

@kerryfracasso

Ай бұрын

Same

@That_BookNeRd

Ай бұрын

Im a women and even I don’t 😭✋

@brianburgess3231

Ай бұрын

ditto

@brianburgess3231

Ай бұрын

@@That_BookNeRd so many of my lady friends don't too

Wow, this sounds exhausting.

@gravoc857

Ай бұрын

Yup. I feel bad for anyone trying to date online. Just go the old-school way and meet people in real life.

I Like the new background set, more outward fresh !!!

As a man, I find this change brilliant. It lets women pretend that they have all the control, without them having to deal with any of the responsibility. They're basically tricking women into taking on more traditional roles.

@3000phon

Ай бұрын

Modern version of dropping the handkerchief.

@malasi888

Ай бұрын

Whats traditional about women being lazy and not making the first move?

@SerenityGS

Ай бұрын

@@malasi888 What's not traditional about women not making the first move?

@malasi888

Ай бұрын

@@SerenityGS I understand english very well. But I've never seen such a confusing sentence. These 2 "not's" in the sentence make it impossible to understand.

@SerenityGS

Ай бұрын

@@malasi888 Split the sentence into 2 parts "What's not traditional" is the question, "about women not making the first move?" is what the question references. It is asking if there is something non-traditional about women not making the first move.

So the women get to decide whether or not to continue messaging the man based on his response… After sending a message with no thought put into it?

"I literally have no words". Brett, you have all the words.

Oh Bumble understands women. Hence changing their mind.

This lighting is everything for you Brett🤩🤩🤩 YALL need to film everyday outside 😂