For guys, it works like this. 1. If she likes you, you can do almost no wrong. 2. If she doesn’t like you, you can do almost no right.

@shaundesmond8005

23 күн бұрын

Facts.

@brokeboy87

23 күн бұрын

Most accurate statement on here.

@UserRobot215

23 күн бұрын

Its safer to assume no women are interested

@Tunilvien

23 күн бұрын

Almost. When it comes to Gen Z, it seems they'll like you until they find a reason not to. I've seen girls stop liking guys because they messaged to late. Working with Gen Z in a coffee shop was eye opening.

@YomesVibes

23 күн бұрын

This sounds like the Döbler-dahmer theory from how I met your mother

Hey women, married guy here. If men are afraid to approach you then why don’t you approach them? Go up to a guy you like- from work, school, whatever- and strike up a conversation. Maybe even ask him out. You will be amazed at the response.

@davidwagner9644

25 күн бұрын

A survey of 2,500 women age 18 to 30 revealed 86% of women said they would never approach a man they liked for fear of rejection .

@pelxroro7853

25 күн бұрын

Women dont like any of us haha 😅, just a select top few (physically mainly and most are taken anyways). Dudes arent scared of approaching, they are burned out by incessant rejection or exploitation. This is not the solution sadly.

@Guus115

25 күн бұрын

That will never happen. It's literally against their nature

@doctordetroit4339

25 күн бұрын

They are cowards that's why.

@kenstrumpf909

25 күн бұрын

@@Guus115 happened to me, more than once. I was always delighted and flattered and always said yes when a woman initiated the contact. I married one of them.

Coming from a woman here.. the line between romantic and creepy is whether or not you find them attractive.

@johannastromberg1224

12 күн бұрын

There’s some truth to this. However I have guys I’m not into flirt with me and ask me out and I didn’t think they were creeps.

We used to say "there are a lot of fish in the ocean." I guess now it's "there are a lot of bears in the woods."

@Blinkers2007GameDev

18 күн бұрын

lol exactly

@TheSoulCrisis

14 күн бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@TakingTheRedPill69

14 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@Interdacted

7 күн бұрын

The dolphines ruined it

@zeldaxninja3214

6 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😭😭

The fact that people are rejecting dating apps in droves brings a smile to my face.

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

25 күн бұрын

There are still millions of people on there. Usually, women compete for the top 10%, ignoring/rejecting the rest as too short/fat/poor/ugly etc.

@Ssyphoned

25 күн бұрын

On one hand sure, it’s feeds some pretty gross subcultures, but without an alternative method to get younger adults to mingle we might exacerbate the already ongoing culture issue with people starting new families. People used to meet either a) through institutions like school, work, or faith. All of these are discouraged heavily both socially and even legally. b) recreation, people spend a huge amount of recreational time in front of screens c) random encounters. You used to have to talk to people constantly to get anything done. Socializing naturally occurred. Now we can just deal with automated systems or formal PR agents. Aside from meeting through a friend/family member, all that’s left is something even worse than apps: bars, parties and clubs.

@pinktfatrabbit

25 күн бұрын

now people just need to stop simping on social media.

@jehu4067

25 күн бұрын

How to not be a creep step 1 Be Attractive

@handlebar4520

25 күн бұрын

that's the only plus side here

"Just be yourself and approach to girls and it always works for me" - Henry Cavill 🤣🤣💀

@impalednewt

25 күн бұрын

“The worst she can say is no”

@ItachiUchiha-ut6xj

25 күн бұрын

hahahahahaha

@Carlosgerardo110

25 күн бұрын

@@impalednewt In this time, that phrase would be "the best she could say is no". With this modern dating mess.

@katiewhipple881

25 күн бұрын

@@Carlosgerardo110 FR

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

25 күн бұрын

@@impalednewt I've been told many much worse things that that by girls who've rejected me.

Handsome = Flirting Ugly = Creep Thats all you need to know focus on their actions not their words.

First rule for men, don't listen to women. What makes a guy creepy to a women will always be if she doesn't find you attractive. Simple as that. You could give the "creepy stare" from across the room and get called a creep, but hey if you're Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavill, suddenly you aren't creepy, you feel like you as a women hit the jackpot. News flash logically speaking, NO GUY IS EVER TRYING TO BE CREEPY. Some guys are awkward sure, usually cause they have no luck with women and are flying blind with no experience. Girls ignore and or push them away cause they aren't attracted to them and it confuses men and can make them worse.

You can’t be a creep if you never approach women.

@wyattterrell

25 күн бұрын

That’s the conclusion I’ve come too

@HenDrixPwns

25 күн бұрын

nope not true, now women will record you in public for attention on their tik tok profiles and make up some random bullshit story to go along with it. don't train at planet fitness...

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

25 күн бұрын

You also are very unlikely to get any action.

@antoniosalazar565

25 күн бұрын

The only way to win is to not play the game

@vulgar._.

25 күн бұрын

Real

I've got an alternative strategy. Just gotta wait for the bear costume to arrive in the mail.

@vulgar._.

25 күн бұрын

💀💀

@The_Super_NOVA

25 күн бұрын

That sounds like a Wiley Coyote scheme. Did you order it from Acme? Lol 😂

@maskedman5657

25 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 This comment is Gold

@sunfish4095

25 күн бұрын

I tried that. To my amazement they ran to the nearest man.

@MasticinaAkicta

25 күн бұрын

Black, Grizzly or Polar Bear?

A male loneliness epidemic kind of implies that a lot of women sleep with and date the same men. So some men cultivate a harem, while other men say "screw all of this". That's not a healthy development, for no party

@ceu160193

22 күн бұрын

It's just copying muslim countries.

@jimbothegymbro7086

22 күн бұрын

or the women are just pretending to be fine so they fit in with their soon to be spinster friends, you can never tell and frankly I don't really care but it's food for thought if you do

@alenaadamkova7617

20 күн бұрын

Women´s parents are even more picky.... As even Tom Bilyeu´s wife was doing interview about her rich successful father having negative comments...thats she will bring some ordinary guy, or that she will not be successful businesswoman etc, that her business will not be good enough..so she decided to anlyze his comments and become successful at her job so then he praised her. It seems people have to go to their community.....Community that makes sense and isnt obessed only with materialism but real values.

@avroarchitect1793

19 күн бұрын

Harems were common prior to religion breaking up the clan system and enforcing monogomy. Its actually tracable in our DNA. With the break down of religion and values we are literally returning to monke (aka barbarity).

@ceu160193

19 күн бұрын

@@avroarchitect1793 Perhaps ancestors really knew something about women after all. And not all religions enforce monogamy - muslims by their religion allowed to have as many wives, as one man can handle.

I am 28, i met my husband at church through a mutual friend. He was dirt poor but a really cool/ responsible caring dude. We now have a house, three kids, and a happy life. Met him when i was 21 2016

@VDOTU5

20 күн бұрын

Glad you mentioned the year. That was when it made more sense to still have hope in love. Downhill after that.

If women just said “thank you but I’m not interested” in a nice way without being extremely aggressive and negative in their responses… maybe more men would say hi.

@erdal0

24 күн бұрын

I talk to random women all the time and a woman never got mad on me. They were too afraid to get angry af me I guess.

@jamesg1974a

23 күн бұрын

@@erdal0 it’s never happened to me personally, but apparently it’s a lot of peoples experience…

@jimbothegymbro7086

22 күн бұрын

yup, if they weren't vicious about it and were just direct and polite 99.99% of guys would just go "okay fine thanks for your time" and dip

@iamReptar

22 күн бұрын

Last time i did that.. I got followed to my car and had insults thrown at me. Sooooooooo i am not the problem

@iamReptar

22 күн бұрын

@@jimbothegymbro7086they dont just go away. The orbit and persist and cannot take the L. I got my pepper spray handy for the next xy, that thinks they can talk to me a certain way.

Dating was never easy. But back in the day it WAS possible to meet people at work. Today, you can't even say anything nice without risking a trip to HR

@jtl-en4yx

24 күн бұрын

Do not ever say anything to women at work. If you work under a female boss you are setting yourself up to be harassed and fired.

@rydaddy2867

24 күн бұрын

I work in construction...what VERY few women there are constantly targeted by the overwhelming excess of men to where they simply default to NOPE to any work relationship consideration.

@StuJones-gn7te

24 күн бұрын

If you have women that work with, for or over you, look for a different job.

@lidiagizaw3828

24 күн бұрын

spoken like a dude who harasses women

@ScottishGypsymama

23 күн бұрын

I actually met my husband at work 😊 I had a mutual friend of ours give him my phone number because I felt awkward, lol 😆

No Brett, we are not doing this. Men didn't create this issue. Women screamed at the top of their lungs for men not to approach them in public. Women need to approach men and ask them out. It is the only method that will provide 100% clarity.

@sinaar4307

24 күн бұрын

Thank you I was like whatbis with these videos she is doing recently like, don't give men or women excuses, we call out shit behavior and delusions, guess this channel ain't for me anymore

@zipphora9456

24 күн бұрын

Liberal women are responsible for this situation. You can still meet conservative women in places like church. If you wait for a woman to approach you, you might only attract those who support the 'woke' culture. Conservative fathers often teach their daughters not to pursue men, but to be feminine and let men make the first move. Be careful, as you might miss out on these women.

@catalinamaria9169

23 күн бұрын

Why ? Is not a "masculine role"?😂

@sup9542

22 күн бұрын

Men can still be the ones to ask for the date, but women need to start those random conversations just as often as men need to. That's where Brett went wrong in this video - she didn't give the same prescription to women. No reason why the woman in that scenario couldn't be the one to say "where did the bartender go?"

@binks69

22 күн бұрын

Ofc she's gonna side with the women she's one herself considered me shocked

I’ve been asking women out for a decade now (in person, regularly interacting): 0% success rate. Only in the last YEAR have I had rejections that aren’t absolutely disrespectful and mean spirited.

@theminister1154

16 күн бұрын

You should try being taller and a lot more handsome.

Used to be, a guy was thinking he might have to deal with being rejected. Now a guy might have to deal with being arrested 🤷‍♂️

@georgecaplin9075

24 күн бұрын

Or plastered all over social media.

@senister14

24 күн бұрын

Preach

@pauljee9528

21 күн бұрын

The stakes are higher but the payout is the same... the house always win.

You know another problem I don't see anybody talking about with approaching women, these teenage girls nowadays are wearing so much makeup that you almost don't want to approach any women for fear that they might actually be a teenage girl like 16 or 17 or something with 5 lb of makeup on

@user-hj9fk6us6s

24 күн бұрын

Then don’t approach randoms on the street I guess, but it shouldn’t be that hard to tell?

@MG3887Griff

24 күн бұрын

@@user-hj9fk6us6s in some cases I've seen people be fooled by it and I don't want that to be me, I'm good on all that.

@andrewbrooks3996

24 күн бұрын

@@user-hj9fk6us6s if your in your early 20’s, your dating age range is roughly from 18-25 years of age. The girls that look still mature enough to be college students but are on the younger end ie. 18, 19, 20 are the girls he’s talking about. Still perfectly okay for a 20 year old male to approach. Sometimes the 16 and 17 year olds can look very similar in maturity so it is hard to differentiate and you automatically have to avoid them all because you don’t know if there are 17 or 20.

@MichaelAluminumCan

24 күн бұрын

Yes, more makeup than Cleopatra.

@r5t6y7u8

24 күн бұрын

Or a guy.

I’m a very smiley girl. I wear dresses and I’m kind to people not as a flex but because I came from a very abusive household, I was molested, beaten and tortured by female cousins. I’ve always felt like men protected me much more than women so when I finally escaped I saw the world and men as this big beautiful oasis of safety. I am happy they exist. I think men can sense that and they always approached me. Men and women say I’m easy to approach, but I just treat people how I would want to be treated

@ADxtraIsHere

23 күн бұрын

Sad to hear your story, but glad you're holding strong. Keep on being great!👏🏾🥰

@ladygardner9114

23 күн бұрын

@@ADxtraIsHere thanks! I definitely will do!

@jurassicthunder

22 күн бұрын

oh wow I've spend countless time on this thing called internet and never witness a woman say what you just said about men being "oaisis of safety". i don't know how to react lol

@ladygardner9114

22 күн бұрын

@@jurassicthunder I feel safe when they are around.

@theminister1154

16 күн бұрын

@@ladygardner9114 you intuitively know what most of these bear versus men women don't: the large majority of men are an oasis of safety. Or at least not a threat. Men are dangerous overall, but men are dangerous overall for the same reason that men are the key to society overall: *outliers.* The good productive men are very good and very productive in a way that women seldom are. Unfortunately the converse is also true. Bad men are very very bad. The key is to listen to your instincts early and just get out of any situation that feels the least bit uncomfortable. Fortunately there just aren't that many of these. Most guys like women and want to protect them, even if they become leery of women of late.

Instructions unclear, I am now being sentenced to 4 years in prison.

@user-pz7tf1cj2y

14 күн бұрын

just 4?

A Philadelphia man was charged with multiple felonies and spent one month in Bucks County Correctional Institute with a one million dollar bail. A woman (Angela Urumova) called police on the night of April 16th claiming he attacked her in the parking lot and tried to pull down her pants but she broke free. Due to inconsistencies in Urumova's story she was called to the DA's office. She finally admitted that she lied about the entire incident. He didn't approach her. They had no interaction. The reason she made the accusation: *_She thought the man looked 'creepy'._* So how, exactly, does a man minding his own business change things to "not be creepy"?

@Kridian01

24 күн бұрын

Russian for ya.

@jth_printed_designs

24 күн бұрын

That man made the common mistake of purely existing within the proximity of a woman.

@gabrielvazquez1691

24 күн бұрын

Brett, I hope you see this comment above. It answers the question as to why we keep our heads down today. Interaction ain’t worth life ending as we know it.

@begobolehsjwjangan2359

24 күн бұрын

establish sharia law. false accusation get death sentence at minimum. no false accusation made by women in daily basis. they did it casually because christian world forgot the most basic law of ten commandments 'thou shall not bear false witness' welcome to Islam. Islam saves america. make america great again.

@begobolehsjwjangan2359

24 күн бұрын

wait, i rephrase that 'Islam saves christianity'.

“Take a hint, creep!” Oh, but also “try harder! Don’t give up so easily!” 😵‍💫

@VirtuaDesign

24 күн бұрын

"He approached me, I said No and he didn't even push back! 😱 I just wanted him to try harder!" "Also, No means No, and if you can't take a No, you're a creep." 🤣

@theminiaturesmallholding9479

24 күн бұрын

Walk away from "try harder". If she's messing you around like that, then she's not worth it. Do you really want to be in a relationship where you're having to constantly read her mind and live up to expectations you aren't even sure she wants?

@lidiagizaw3828

24 күн бұрын

literally nobody tells creeps to try harder

@UserRobot215

23 күн бұрын

​@@lidiagizaw3828Ah yes, all men are creeps

@Colton-wz5sh

23 күн бұрын

@@lidiagizaw3828thats not what they were saying. The point is its impossible to tell when no actually means no.

Remember guys, woman only cry about a guy she can’t have while ignoring the multiple men she rejected

@abel4776

16 күн бұрын

10 years of Red Pill and the most devastating and most discriminatory campaign since anti-Black slavery in the 1800s, is anti-male sentiment showed by 10 years of dating app/sites showing 95% LEFT SWIPED MEN. Nearly 100% OF MEN ARE UNWANTED. This is CATASTROPHIC and DANGEROUS.

@danielbenyair300

13 күн бұрын

facts! XD

I met my Thai wife in a BKK restaurant, where she worked. I said “ Hello, you speak good English. You have a lovely smile”. Married 9 years now. Very happy, both of us. 🙏

Remember guys, if you talk to a woman and she is attracted to you, it's a pleasant, flirtatious experience, possibly leading to a relationship. If she is not attracted to you, it is sexual harassment, possibly leading to the loss of your job or prison. The exciting part is you don't know if you're attractive to her until you approach her! Fun, right? Are we still confused about why AI girlfriends are becoming more popular?

@devilgames2217

25 күн бұрын

This should be the top comment.

@1omarella

25 күн бұрын

Approaching a woman is not sexual harassment. Continuing to pursue someone who has made it very clear that isn’t wanted, is sexual harassment. It’s pretty easy to figure it out.

@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

25 күн бұрын

​@1omarella and yet, women are apparently complaining that men "don't try anymore" once they hear no. Because "it makes me feel ugly".

@rycs16

25 күн бұрын

@@1omarella "Approaching a woman is not sexual harassment. Continuing to pursue someone who has made it very clear that isn’t wanted, is sexual harassment. It’s pretty easy to figure it out." I watched a guy get SCREAMED AT for saying "Hi." in the line at starbucks...

@sunfish4095

25 күн бұрын

I believe they only put you in prison for looking a woman in the eye in Britain.

Men have been told not to approach... NOW women wanna be upset and say "Enough with the dating apps! Come approach us in person!" You literally HATE it when we do!

@maskedman5657

25 күн бұрын

Women are hypocrites. News at 11. Cold Approaching is only viable for Chads

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

25 күн бұрын

They only want to be approached by Chads.

@agarengames3101

25 күн бұрын

No fr, I can easily start a convo with dudes easy peasy, but women have this standoffish energy as if they're always on edge... it's tough out here

@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

25 күн бұрын

It's almost like women don't know what they want.

@BheeOrgh

25 күн бұрын

Even have laws against us yet still want us to risk catching a case for their enjoyment.

Activities safer/more enjoyable than approaching women these days…. Swimming with sharks, Gator wrestling, Being bitten by a venomous snake, Jumping off a cliff… without a parachute, Staying underwater until the bubbles stop, Visiting East LA wearing the wrong colors

I met my husband on a dating website in 2009. People were more sincere back in those days. It's sad to see what the youth have to deal with nowadays😢

A young woman SCREAMED at me to "stop looking at her" when I looked in her direction twice. Guess I wasn't attractive enough for her.

@Kridian01

24 күн бұрын

lol Avert your gaze creepy boi!

@R.Tokyoo

24 күн бұрын

I’d say you dodged a bullet 😂 she seems crazyyy.

@wecanolivetogether11

22 күн бұрын

that’s crazy 😂

@bg5215

21 күн бұрын

"Sorry.... I just can't believe you're so FAT!!!!" (or other less than perfect body feature)

@Xander1Sheridan

21 күн бұрын

you should have immediately said there is a spider on your back.

Creepy = not 6’4, blue eyes, finance, trust fund

@hopperskid381

25 күн бұрын

yeah, men who are not the size of a bear are horrifying bro. Like looking into a mans wide open, icy blue eyes makes me feel so safe !!

@beliber6681

25 күн бұрын

Women j want a man w shared values.

@flexjohnson18

25 күн бұрын

​@@beliber6681 who's also 6'5" fit as a pro athlete and a millionaire

@Throwaway-jn1jm

25 күн бұрын

Exactly

@JeffreyWongOfficial

25 күн бұрын

From conservatively aiming for the top 15% of men to now setting the new - and far more reasonable - standard at the 0.5% height-cutoff is definitely the newest important acchievement of the average humble TikTok chick! 👏 this way it’s guaranteed that at least 1 out of 500 girls won’t stay single 🥰

When women say they feel lonely : "You deserve love queen". When men say they feel lonely : "Get off you creepy loser."

The problem is no patience… everyone wants to skip the boring part of getting to know many potentials and straight to the cutesy texts and sex.

@Sibahem3

23 күн бұрын

You are right.

My mom was born in 1977 and even she agrees with me that If you are unattractive you’ll be seen as creepy. If you are attractive you won’t be seen as creepy

@alexman378

24 күн бұрын

Agreed, but you also need to take into account that you might be attractive, but not the specific girl’s kind of attractive. Then what do you do?

@ei15870031

24 күн бұрын

​@alexman378 you keep it moving, bro. You become free when you are not afraid of losing and/or rejection.

@alexman378

24 күн бұрын

@@ei15870031 Yeah, well, rejection is one thing, catching a false accusation is another.

@lidiagizaw3828

24 күн бұрын

such a dumb thing to say u think women dont find hot guys sleazy and creepy too ?

@ciskoh_

24 күн бұрын

@@lidiagizaw3828 not really but if they find you attractive it doesn’t matter what you do or say anything goes, just my observation especially when a woman has liked me. I have noticed tho that there is a stereotypical facial look that almost every woman I see likes

Speaking as a man who is older, and believing that males are pretty much the same as always, it’s not the rejection that is paramount. That has always been there. It’s the harassment allegations and the social media humiliation. It seems guys are no longer comfortable being in pursuit. For better or worse, men need to bold, brave, and assertive. That gets misconstrued now. Being shot down is par for the course, but being publicly humiliated in front of thousands of people online and being labeled a creep is the real problem.

@Xander1Sheridan

21 күн бұрын

It is not he rejection, it is that women cannot politely reject men. At one point a woman that was rude and mean to a man would be shunned by everyone wherever she was. Now all women are sexist.

@avroarchitect1793

19 күн бұрын

the risk of reputational and professional dammage is too much for most of us now. Even when accusations are proven false the damage has usually already been done by then. Take that dude who got accused of SA for helping a woman who's car broke down. He was headed for prision if it weren't for the video camera that proved otherwise. A prision sentence based on only accusation and no evidence. Despite that he lost his job, income, wife, and all professional reputation and trust. He never got any of it back.

@kickblake

19 күн бұрын

It's not just being publicly humiliated, it's being accused of SA and having your life unraveled simply because of the allegation. You're risking literally everything for a girl who, in all likelihood, sucks. Men not approaching is a rational response to incentives.

@dkpitt3912

14 күн бұрын

@@kickblake very true. That is the worst case scenario, that happens way too often

@chadcadsonvii5258

9 күн бұрын

Kenan Basic was his name.

I know the blame goes both ways, as far as gender is concerned, but I personally experienced an environment a few years ago where this concept rang loud and clear for the men's point of view. I was part of a college-aged group (at a church, for crying out loud) where many of the young girls (not all of them, but enough) would trash-talk nearly any guy who had the audacity to be friendly. The only way to "pass the test" was for the girls to already be interested in him solely based on physical appearance. It left nearly all the men terrified to approach any of the girls, even in a platonic sense. Why set yourself up to become the next gossip victim? It nearly ruined the fellowship of our group.

@Momofukudoodoowindu

24 күн бұрын

Ya, so, biblically speaking, all those women were jezebelian and probably did not have true intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.

@jonathanfarley2023

24 күн бұрын

Yup---girls reject you if you show interest first.

Imagine living in a world full of lonely people that are all too afraid to meet eachother, but at the same time, being together is what they all want...absolutely wild...

So I’ve been called creep for years just for being politely socially awkward. Allways friend zone energy 😭

@bradleyharris774

25 күн бұрын

As someone who is also socially awkward around women (Went to an all Boys Private School) this sounds like hell on earth.

@sethspence5552

25 күн бұрын

You can't be friend zoned if you don't make them friends be a man and tell them how it's going to be. I'm not looking to be your friend. If they can't accept this then move on. Women are social people.

@Camizuchi

25 күн бұрын

Honestly I relate. Some women need to understand there is a difference between being socially awkward and actually being creepy. I asked out a girl once and she was beating around the bush without flat out rejecting me and then later she just started harassing me every chance she got.

@user-bless.soldier

25 күн бұрын

I started just backhanding women. It seems to work pretty well

@chancegeiger1546

25 күн бұрын

You know what’s annoying, is that the only women im able to be very clear and fun without social awkwardness around are the women i find unattractive. Make it an attractive women then add in all these extra arbitrary standards of height, money, etc and there’s basically no shoot it will work out even on the rare occasions I can harness my normie nonchalant charisma.

"It's not creepy to TRY".... I don't think modern women got that memo.

@e.c.5994

24 күн бұрын

I've . . . always given men the benefit of the doubt? Even when they were being slightly awkward? It's not all women, we just seem to be rare because everyone's terminally online and the crazies get more attention here.

@jcmustian

24 күн бұрын

@e.c.5994 most women are like this. Men need to stop pretending that viral tiktoks represent us all.

@TriScaleCreations

24 күн бұрын

@@e.c.5994 Certainly, I was simply making a general statement, not a "100%-always-true" statement. There's plenty of good women out there ready to give guys a fair chance, I'm not saying there aren't. But there's a hell of a lot more that are less than gracious, and usually there the ones with modern sensibilities. That's more of what I meant by modern women, not just "women in modern times".

@ypesie

24 күн бұрын

I have found that the women, not that many, that have approached me have had absolutely 0 game. Going in way too strong with touching etc. If a dude acted that way towards a girl it would almost be classified as harrassment haha. But I just back off in those situations cause it just feels a bit creepy/weird (:

@jtl-en4yx

24 күн бұрын

@@ypesie I can relate to this, definitely have gotten weird vibes from women coming on too strong. Usually they are trying to cheat with you

when every move you make has a high chance of getting called "s***** harassment", there are no merits of doing it anymore

@avroarchitect1793

19 күн бұрын

Yup even the male models and movie stars are affected too. The "perfect" pretty men are feeling the burn too now.

They're not looking for men. Brett. They're looking for the top 20% the top 10%. Not looking for a good old fashioned apple pie, blue collar boy. And social media validating all these cringe women's feelings is nonsense. Just because you feel something doesn't mean it's correct or good

@mikametcalf3783

21 күн бұрын

This needs more likes immediately.

-Be attractive -Don't not be attractive On a serious note, one thing i've come to accept is that no matter how much you 'self-improve' there will always be at least one person who will find you creepy. As long as you are not violating anyone's personal space or individual rights, don't let it get to you. At that point it is the other person making an issue with you, and you have every right to leave peacefully.

@MrYoko101

22 күн бұрын

Who cares if they find you creepy? If you are forthright about it your interest and they say no, you’ve done no wrong. They can shove their indignation right up their asses

Married two years now! She was a girl in college that pursued me and put herself around me whenever possible - IT WORKED! Love my wife!

@Canadian_Reiver

24 күн бұрын

Congrats for that, it's nice to know it happens, even if rarely.

@MTrent3

24 күн бұрын

That’s beautiful! Thank you for sharing!

@strangerdanger8462

23 күн бұрын

Two years of marriage is still too early to celebrate. But, I am happy for you, and I wish your marriage continues to reward you forever with the joy expressed in your post above.

@user-tx4wj7qk4t

23 күн бұрын

According to stats, 80% of wmn in college have slept with a stranger or a "friend" with no commitment

@johnsampson6387

22 күн бұрын

I think relationships only work if the woman pursues the man tbh (for the most part). She has to be really into the guy.

You know, I haven't had the slightest clue about understanding flirting before. With a great breakdown like mentioned in the vid, I understand what areas I need to improve on a bit. Thank you again, Brett, keep up the good work

"Be The Change You Want To See In The World"... 💯%

I deleted my apps yesterday and it's a burden lifted off my shoulders... life is so peaceful off of the internet

@EthanEdwards23

25 күн бұрын

You on the internet rn

@Ifailedeverything

25 күн бұрын

But you’re here on KZread….

@Yuukicrossx01

25 күн бұрын

​@@EthanEdwards23what they mean is, no more dating apps... The constant dating apps was draining them dry emotionally.

@Royay

25 күн бұрын

@@EthanEdwards23 Whoses spam scrolling youtube to check for updates? lol But people will do that to tiktok/insta/fb/tinder and so on.

@justinleonard6183

24 күн бұрын

@@EthanEdwards23so are you

Hey, yall chose the bear, made ick lists, and made guys feel gross for not being 6'5" and up with a 7 figure salary. Made your bed, now sleep in it... Alone. 😅

@UserRobot215

23 күн бұрын

Yep, idk why women are complaining now and making these videos

@greystudios2021

23 күн бұрын

@UserRobot215 Like I do understand it's not ALL women, just like it's not ALL men. However, they say the loudest opinions tend to be heard.

@ipercalisse579

23 күн бұрын

Do you guys not complaining that a woman is not fit and fake like an insta model? Don't you? If she has glasses, a big nose, large hips, short legs... not to mentions skin color.. do you even look at her?? Yes, now why women have to accept courtship of men short and ugly? Men who clearly don't go to Jim and don't improve themselves, while we try diet, exercise, make up, hairstyle etc.?

“Don’t ask her out immediately, try to get to know her first.” Good advice on paper but in practice that’s how you end up as a friend she will never see as a potential dating partner. Men really are damned if they do, damned if they don’t in today’s dating world.

@theminister1154

16 күн бұрын

That is the worst possible advice. You get in or out of the friend zone right away. Make your intentions known as quickly as possible without being creepy. I like something like a sly "you know I'd probably let you drag me home if you brought me a few drinks first..."

@wehumansmayglow

15 күн бұрын

​@@theminister1154A wife will know you for years so that she can trust you. Not cheekily appreciate a flirtatious comment and give it all up...

@theminister1154

14 күн бұрын

@@wehumansmayglow you can use something a little smaller caliber if you want. But you better let that girl know you find her cute right away. Otherwise you're a damn fool. Do not let her slot you in the friend category. Also of course wife material is going to make you take her out a couple times first. You have a lot more chance making it from where I start then from where the dumbasses who play friend game start. It is in fact dishonest and sleazy to pretend to be a girl's friend wonder what you want is more.

@slardebard

11 күн бұрын

​@@wehumansmayglowhuh?

Easiest solution for men is to date like women - don't approach unless approached.. or stay single cause its far better than being called creep and being with the wrong person

Screw it. Just be creepy and give em hell.

@fredfredburger5150

24 күн бұрын

Woman crosses the street as I approach? More sidewalk for me!😆

@user-pz7tf1cj2y

24 күн бұрын

@@fredfredburger5150 A woman starts running in the opposite direction from me at night? Better catch up to her and ask her what we are running from!

@yusufraage8554

24 күн бұрын

You must be a woman because being creepy is not the only danger.

@katrinawinter5645

24 күн бұрын

Do the creep! kzread.info/dash/bejne/poCEvM-JkavTlZM.html

@chitsanzokatholowamo459

24 күн бұрын

😂 😂

I got the worst rejection ever last month and it was from a chick I wasn't even talking to. Two girls passed by, I stepped into the establishment they entered and hoped to strike up a conversation after they ordered inside. The girl I was hoping to speak to froze with shock, as her friend went straight into rage mode, screaming at me. Me asking "come here often?" isn't tantamount to a crime. So, responding to that banal opener with threats... what are we even doing?

@seanla38

25 күн бұрын

When a woman does that to you they are saying g they want to be treated equally so treat them the same way you would treat a guy that did that after she regains consciousness and picks her teeth up off the floor ask her how she likes equality feminism now

@niallk9336

24 күн бұрын

She's looking for a man in finance trust fund 6'5 blue eyes.

@TheyCallMeSledge

24 күн бұрын

That's not a rejection, that's some trippy chick who doesn't know how to mind her own business interjecting herself into a conversation she wasn't invited in. Best way to handle that situation is to playfully mess with her head. I would've playfully flirted with her just to gauge reactions from her for my amusement. Hell in some cases the woman you had eyes on might be impressed on how well you handle such a situation.

@user-lv5xb5ug3q

24 күн бұрын

Either you did something wrong unintentionally (happens to everyone) or they are just weirdos

@lauraivanakircanski6679

24 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry it happened to you😥! That's awful! I hope it didn't bring you down as a person! Please do not assume women are all like this😓🥲 Wish you the best!💕

In Philippines, we have a joke about that when men are creepy. It goes as something like: If a man is ugly and talks to you, he is called a stalker. If a man is handsome and talks to you, he is called an admirer. CANNOT be any more true. It's a joke but women these days, yeah, they apply that as if that's some sort of a bible.

I'm not single by choice, I've just accepted it and decided to stop wasting effort on something doomed to failure from the start. Getting off the app won't bring me back.

I do not look for girls at the gym because of the whole gym creep thing.

@jonathanfarley2023

24 күн бұрын

A young female plumber came to my house and I averted my eyes.

@nicolaskeenan8839

24 күн бұрын

@@jonathanfarley2023 you did the right thing.

Do you know how many guys these women have to turn down before they get to the point of airing out their dirty laundry on the internet? They don't want a commitment. They just want attention.

@kathryn-yd7bh

25 күн бұрын

The first time my husband asked me out I said no we were in the same friend group, so I got to know him he asked again I said you were have now been together for 8 years.

@markd6838

25 күн бұрын

Well said that man!

@markd6838

25 күн бұрын

​@@kathryn-yd7bhuntil the high chance of a future monkey branch, according to stastistics, I couldn't put myself in that position, waiting for the other shoe to drop

@Royay

25 күн бұрын

@@kathryn-yd7bh Standing in front of you and you didn't give a fuck for those 8 years.

@kathryn-yd7bh

25 күн бұрын

@@markd6838 🤣 you do you, between him asking the first and second time it was like 3 weeks my shoe drop pretty quick.

I was 18 when I started using dating apps. At first, I didn't know how to make myself look attractive and would go months without getting matches. After a few years of putting myself together (ie. working out, getting a well paying job, getting my own place, and overall working on myself) I found that I could actually get some women to talk to me and go on dates. However, lately it seems like no matter what I do nothing works. I've gotten tons of matches and went on several dates, and still nothing. It feels like no matter what I do nothing works. I've spent a lot of time feeling inadequate and invalidated, but lately I've changed my attitude. The most important thing I can do is respect myself for the progress that I have made so far on my life. You don't need dateing apps to feel validated.

That's your first mistake, assuming that since she is crying that her feelings are genuine.

I don’t care what women want anymore.

@raybod1775

25 күн бұрын

Step #1, don’t care because she doesn’t know you. Congratulations!

@jurassicthunder

25 күн бұрын

​@@raybod1775we'll see when she needs to know us when getting graped in the subway, robbed, get attacked, in wars do you want me to continue?

@nastyathedustslayer

25 күн бұрын

@@jurassicthunderso your response is to name all the atrocities committed by men? Still wonder why many women will choose a bear?

@albertobarrera6791

25 күн бұрын

FACTS

@sn5806

25 күн бұрын

@@nastyathedustslayer wait until society really collapses and you aren't worried about a dark alley, but eating rather than being eaten. Literally people used to get eaten by wild animals pretty regularly.

If it’s woman constantly saying don’t approach and that’s causing the main problem, then why is it men’s responsibility to fix this issue? Shouldn’t those who caused it, right the wrong?

@mikametcalf3783

21 күн бұрын

Agreed. Modern women in general don't zero accountability. The videi of this girl trying to suggestd how we women can social engineer and force men to ask us out again. Seriously? Just starting doing the damn asking yourself! Why are we playing these games as adults?

I think it’s best getting to know someone in a context where you have mutual friends/interests. I will say that being approached randomly on the street can be scary because unfortunately there are people who don’t take no well. I also believe that a good foundation for a relationship is a friendship first so probably the best course of action is to befriend. Yes, that carries the risk of the friend zone but then that relationship probably wouldn’t have worked out anyways.

This is great advice! I love when men approach me as long as they are smiling and polite! If they aren't my type I kindly reject them and move on. I think we need to create more opportunities for people to meet and practice their social skills in. A safe environment ❤

Be handsome, tall, athletic, rich, charismatic etc.

@StreamerSam

25 күн бұрын

6’4 blue eyes finance trust fund

@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

25 күн бұрын

And work driven, but not a workaholic, love kids, but can't tell her how to raise her own kids, Make her feel protected, but always shares feelings and cries, etc

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

25 күн бұрын

@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer Be athletic, but not spend time playing sport. Be ambitious & driven, but don't take life seriously!

@jimpanse1638

25 күн бұрын

​@@DavidZ4-gg3dm😂😂🙄 yep run a billion dollar company but also be a family man and around all the time...

@jurassicthunder

25 күн бұрын

women don't know how to be happy.

The real funny thing is that women that I am not attracted to have told me that I am creepy. I was just being nice. A girl at work told everyone that I was creepy even though I did not talk to her. I was in a relationship w/ a girl that was hotter than her, but she thought that I was creepy b/c I would walk by her and not talk to her.

@Kridian01

24 күн бұрын

lol Fookin hell man!

@justinlevy274

24 күн бұрын

she was clout chasing

@de14jabs

23 күн бұрын

They lie as easily as they pretend to cry.

@johnsampson6387

22 күн бұрын

Counterintuitively, the less attractive women can actually be less friendly. I've had pretty girls be super nice to me and then less beautiful girls will sometimes go out of their way to dump on me and humiliate me in front of others (I guess to raise their own social status?).

@Xander1Sheridan

21 күн бұрын

@@johnsampson6387 women are evil. Mocking and teasing and humiliating them is something all men need to be good at.

For Lent, I gave up dating apps after going on a few dates at the beginning of the year, went back on after Easter, and have given it up since. Made me remember how good it feels to wait for something "real" and in person, even if it'll take a while. God is good and His mercies are new every morning.

I met my wife through a local singles group that had an online portion, but sponsored monthly meetups. I found it difficult to go somewhere and try to pick up a girl when there wasn't a mutual goal of looking for someone.

As you noted, approaching women in public right now is not exactly socially safe. Asking young young men to be the initiators of change under these conditions is probably futile, and not really a fair thing to ask.

You can NOT go up to a random woman nd talk to them. They will almost always yell, scream and call you a creep.

@Kridian01

24 күн бұрын

Like that one who screamed at the guy in the parking lot?

@violetnorwen8491

24 күн бұрын

Welp. Apparently I'm the exception. The only time I thought the guy was a creep was because he had GRAY HAIR and was obviously 35+ (I'M 18!) And he was skulking around my work place when I was alone before talking to me and saying I was beautiful before running out of the store. For context, a 14 year old thought I was 14 when I'm 18. I look 4 years younger than I am, and he still was hitting on me. I felt so contaminated the rest of the day😰

@jonathanfarley2023

24 күн бұрын

@@violetnorwen8491 So you're telling us you are age-ist. Incidentally, Aristotle said men should marry at 35 and women at 18. And I doubt you knew his exact age. He could have been an old-looking 25.

@violetnorwen8491

24 күн бұрын

@@jonathanfarley2023 no, I just want to be safe. Sorry if that offended you

@jonathanfarley2023

24 күн бұрын

@@violetnorwen8491 You are and were safe. And why would you be less safe if he was 18.

I’ve been on dating apps and every relationship I’ve had has never been the result of an app. Get out there people and improve your social skills

It's truly simple. If you are tall and handsome, you wont be creepy. If you are not tall and handsome, then you will be seen as creepy.

3 simple rules for men to not be creepy. 1. Be attractive 2. Be attractive 3. Be attractive

@Alison2436

24 күн бұрын

or go for women below your attractiveness, I know, shocker right?!

@CandlelightWanderer

24 күн бұрын

@@Alison2436 No no. Literally date gold mine 1! “Hey beautiful! I thought you were stunning and wanted to get your number to set up a date sometime!” - number is a win, everything else is a bust.

@laniyamamoto6693

24 күн бұрын

that's only true if you're dealing with a shallow girl. women are social creatures, meaning we usually place more value on your personality and how you interact with our friends and family.

@martinpalm5

24 күн бұрын

Good, point. American women aren't worth the effort.

@64bitUnity

24 күн бұрын

No, even then you can be seen as creepy... Honestly, just don´t be wierd. And if she is wierd, or just answers with nothing answer.. Just give up on her, and move on to next. And despite @alison2436 being dumb with that comment, she is kinda right.. Often less attractive women, have more common sense and might be sweet..

Women crying in the car is cringe. They also can all find a man. However, they would reather chase after "Chad" whom is out of their league. They have too high of standards, and want to be "boss babes". All this "Strong independent women" talk and raging about how men shouldnt approach women. This is your own faults. Real good Men are simple, they just want "Peace."

@howyoudoing88

25 күн бұрын

Someone who gets it.

@j.davila4523

25 күн бұрын

For longterm yes, someone that won’t nag us or think we are disposable …

@Ifailedeverything

25 күн бұрын

If you had listened you would have heard that the dating apps are set up to make users feel like they’re shopping instead of meeting people. This is why it seems every woman wants a 6’+ Billionaire or, since you didn’t mention it, how men say they want a trad wife Stacy who’s a 10.

@FAMOUS-_-AMOS

25 күн бұрын

This lady knows men 👏

@ShaeferGriffin-it9nx

25 күн бұрын

Preach.

I am not at all a designer or anything but, i love how the people behind brett kn ow how to combine the set and colours and make brett wear things that really compliment the set behind her. I love how the colors really fit well.

Awsome video as per usual Brett, but i have a request for you and i dont think im the only one, but what do you think of make a dating tips video it would be awsome to get advice from a lady with a similar mindset to us

I was talking to a young woman yesterday at a dealership and the conversation was about cars and at one point she told me I was funny, and she was very pleasant to talk to, but man I'm so cautious now after getting burned by so many women, I think how nice it would be to have someone to do things with and share good times, go places, and then I think about all the crap that can go wrong and think about losing the peace and tranquility I've now been enjoying for the past three years, how all of that could just be wiped out by a woman in seconds😬 It's really scary sh*** I love women and care about them, but they are so damn difficult and hostile and cheaters! As much as I want one to love on, I just don't think it's worth the risk anymore☹ Good Luck Brothers🤞

@Chimchimchu

23 күн бұрын

Sadly, I agree with all of that 100% ... Then when I did find one that wasn't like that, it's because she was a massive beta and likes men to walk all over her (Basically treat her strict, controlling, and borderline violent like her father did). I've seriously come across that multiple times and it's a massive turnoff.

@JoeSmith-nu8oo

23 күн бұрын

@@Chimchimchu Yeah that's some weird schitt to deal with😬

@VDOTU5

20 күн бұрын

What would you say to men like the boyfriends of Kimora Launmei Hodges, Lauren J. Courtney, Julissa Thaler, Julia Carter, Letecia Stauch? Would you say they should not give up on looking for a new partner after their previous girlfriends brutally deleted kids they were supposed to take care of? Even if they hear of each others' cases and way more cases like that beyond them?

@JoeSmith-nu8oo

19 күн бұрын

@@VDOTU5 I'm only speaking for myself!

@VDOTU5

18 күн бұрын

@@JoeSmith-nu8oo I see.

Sorry, the genie is out of the bottle and ain't going back in. All social media reduces women to the worst version of themselves and men have seen this with eyes wide open.

@Chimchimchu

23 күн бұрын

We've seen so many fake allegations to and the woman never gets in trouble for it. Not like how the guy was going to get in trouble anyway.

I met my now fiancé, future husband, as a coworker last year. He’s the love of my life and we are both each others number one fan and can’t wait to raise a family and spend the rest of our lives together. It can happen, be bold, be respectful, and be patient ❤

Good lecture, thanks Brett

Best way to "not be creepy", stop chasing women entirety. Focus on work, exercise, and finance. The juice aint worth the squeeze anymore.

@Stormcrow_1

25 күн бұрын

Do a search for "Woman Fabricated Attempted Rape, Kidnapping, Cops Say" This women accused a man she'd only seen and never actually met of rape. When she finally confessed to lying, it turned out it was because she thought he looked creepy.

@jaughnekow

25 күн бұрын

And play video games

@officialthomasjames

25 күн бұрын

That’s loser behavior as well. You’ll be single, childless and alone at age 50. Guys make too many excuses. Get in shape, get your life together and then seek a wife. Don’t waste time on the women that would see normal behavior as “sexual harassment” or being “creepy.” There are plenty of great women who would welcome a conversation.

@awesome9174

25 күн бұрын

​@@jaughnekowSingle and childless at 50 doesn't sound bad to me lol. And you don't have to be alone when you're single.

@Vladi2102

25 күн бұрын

Never was.

Asking women to be realistic is hilarious in its own right. 😋

@badstar9670

24 күн бұрын

Like telling us to be emotional

@alphaprimer

24 күн бұрын

@@badstar9670 Like telling a fish to ride a bicycle

@catalinamaria9169

23 күн бұрын

So much sexism în Breet's comment section. Conservatives 🍜

@alphaprimer

23 күн бұрын

@@catalinamaria9169 good, so much open misandry in society, media and television now.

@GjVj

22 күн бұрын

@@catalinamaria9169 [I'll bite...] Define "sexism", please. What _exactly_ do you mean?

On point Brett-Thank you! Where was this when I was 20? Or 30? Or even 40, for Heaven’s sake??? I’m single, never married, really want to be-I’m turning 50 in a little over two weeks, and no one ever talked to me about this, either. (Background: Physically Disabled and sheltered most of my life, raised by a single mother, never saw examples of healthy interaction between men and women until I turned 19 and went to college, and by then, I suppose everyone around me thought I knew things I didn’t have a clue about.) Thank you for laying this out, young lady. This video is a keeper!

How not to be a creep in 4 simple steps: a) Look handsome b) Be at least 6' tall c) Have at least a 6 figure income d) Have at least 6" in your pants

Whether you’re charming or creepy depends on whether she finds you attractive.

@Rojin_04

25 күн бұрын

Yeah, but with people's unrealistic beauty standers nowdays, it's a high bar. Those girls need to get off the internet and realize that it's okay for someone not to look like they spent all their time getting plastic surgery lol

@616igotamissedcallfromyobitch

25 күн бұрын

@@Rojin_04 i am a girl and i have had guys who are GORGEOUS approach me and still be creepy and have also had men who r not so good looking approach me and were so smooth and charming. I agree alot of this is on thw women however so many men dont know how to approach women anymore

@stoneylonesome4062

24 күн бұрын

@@Rojin_04 That’s not gonna fucking happen. Even if girls delete social media/dating apps tomorrow, their standards are gonna stay the same. Once they’ve dated/hooked-up with an 8/10 guy, nothing less will do. The majority of guys in Gen-Z are overcoming their Disney movie programming and realizing that looks DO matter to women. The fact that it’s happened at this fast of a rate should tell you that this is beyond the point of no return, there’s no fixing this problem, it’s only gonna get worse. I think in the near future, the majority of young men will have to pay for physical sexual intimacy with a girl, because average women won’t be attracted to average men. And I say this as someone who isn’t even a conservative, and is slightly progressive-leaning.

@stoneylonesome4062

24 күн бұрын

⁠ That’s not gonna happen. Even if gìrls delete social media/dàting apps tomorrow, their standards are gonna stay the same. Once they’ve dated/hoòked-up with an 8/10 guy, nothing less will do. The majority of gùys in Gen-Z are overcoming their Disney movie programming and realizing that lòoks DO matter to womèn. The fact that it’s happened at this fast of a rate should tell you that this is beyond the point of no return, there’s no fixing this pròblem, it’s only gonna get worse. I think in the near future, the majority of young mèn will have to pay for physìcal sèxuàl intìmàcy with a girl, because average wòmèn won’t be attràcted to average mèn. And I say this as someone who isn’t even cònśèrvàtìvè (slightly left leaning).

@babyblueblazes

24 күн бұрын

Well yeah. So? If she's attracted to him, she'll be open to his advance. If she's not, she won't be open, and THEN if he keeps trying anyway, it's creepy. Brett literally just said this. Reading whether a woman is open to you or not is a skill. If you don't want to come across creepy, learn it. 🤷‍♀️

Men's standards aren't skewed. We're largely realistic. Women's standards are WAY out to lunch.

@spacegamer85

24 күн бұрын

Modern WESTERN women standards no longer align to reality.

@mschenandlerbong8539

24 күн бұрын

Trust me. It's on both sides. Men are shockingly unaware.

@martinpalm5

24 күн бұрын

@@mschenandlerbong8539 lol no. be a healthy weight, take showers have a pulse is what most guys want.

@mojaxon23

24 күн бұрын

@@mschenandlerbong8539 Lol, my standard is, "actually acknowledges my existence beyond what it utterly necessary, and doesn't think I'm trash." How is that anywhere near the standards women have for men? Oh is asking her to be a healthy weight too much also? It's easier to say it's a both sides issue, because then that removes accountability for the issue from the women. Which is getting really old and tiring to deal with in every scenario. I am sick of being blamed for issues caused by the other side. I am sick of being told what I have to do to fix it. That is why so many of us are done. You cannot work with someone that always blames you when there is literally no further action you can take and you aren't causing the problem. Either stop blaming us, or watch us move on to anything else.

@mschenandlerbong8539

24 күн бұрын

@@mojaxon23 I don't actually care what you do. So you're little take it or F off attitude doesn't mean anything. But you have revealed a lot about yourself. PS.. a "healthy weight" for women is equivalent to either very muscular and handsome for men or makes a LOT of money and ok with supporting me. You want hot as a bottom of the barrel requirement and you have a bad attitude to boot. You ought to ask someone you really trust to pick out random women that you should be looking at for dating and see how they match you. Get your sister or a family member, not some dude bro. See if you agree.

I have spent my life being oblivious to the subtle "hints" of women, making it very hard to tell if I should approach or not. I had no luck in the real world and then experienced what u mentioned regarding the apps, where i would see the same women on 3 different apps, maybe get a couple to talk to, but ultimately get ghosted by them all. I also very rarely spend time at bars anymore, choosing to volunteer with my church and helping out family with things that they need. This means that even at church, since i mainly work with the kids' groups, i only socialize with women who are usually already married and have kids, so my odds of meeting someone drop tremendously. Maybe someday i will meet someone, but when i am in public places and at events, ill try to remember the tips on flirting, lol. An art i never perfected, even i was in college before apps were really a way to meet people.

I love this type of vídeos, please make more!!! ❤

@vklnew9824

24 күн бұрын

Poorly aged ♀️

Sadly if a woman doesn't find you attractive, anything you do is considered creepy.

@bmorg5190

24 күн бұрын

1000%

@rishi1910

24 күн бұрын

Women find money attractive so poor are creepy wait a minute thats what my mom said :)

@WiinterKitten

24 күн бұрын

All this is untrue. Please stop listening to these false “alpha gurus”/incels/femcels there are plenty of average women out there looking for average men. Please get offline… I’m 26 yo virgin who is just making myself into the woman the type of my I want deserves. And I’m not even thinking about men who are not my type. And like MOST women, I want a man who is passionate about his career, family, and goals.

@arielmk7612

24 күн бұрын

Well these are rude women, not all of them are like that dodge those and give yourself the chance to meet kind ones.

@ypesie

24 күн бұрын

I think a lot of women, when they are "putting themselves out there", go to places and just sit there waiting for a man to come up to her. But most men won't do that because they are afraid of the risks of being called creep, harrassment etc. So the risks just outweigh the reward of aproaching a woman

Sadly, even when women get off the apps and go real world many, even a majority, still carry wildly over-inflated opinions of themselves and, in turn, utterly unrealistic expectations. You can't blame guys for believing that there are more productive ways of spending their time. We are creatures that consider the equation of effort in vs reward out and if that equation is seriously unbalanced then we just don't bother. Einstein was right: insanity is doing exactly the same thing over and over again while expecting a different outcome.

@user-lv5xb5ug3q

24 күн бұрын

There's also the problem with guys who are all like "it's too late" "you got what you wanted." I think that doesn't help either.

@1986SuperVegeta

24 күн бұрын

@@user-lv5xb5ug3qwhy? If dudes don’t want to date older women who can’t give him kids or already have kids what’s wrong with that? Or is this another thing where women can have standard but when a man has standards shame and name calling occurs.

@user-lv5xb5ug3q

24 күн бұрын

@@1986SuperVegeta no, as a matter of fact, there's nothing wrong with wanting to date younger women, unless you are being mean about it, objectifying about it, or close minded. I'm saying that, while girls being shallow and materialistic is a problem, it does not excuse guys refusing give them a chance

@jackburtonstwin

24 күн бұрын

@@caitlin862 No, you really don't.

@caitlin862

24 күн бұрын

​@@jackburtonstwincoincidence then! Have a good day!

Im actually stop doing that i went through some really bad stuff with dateimg apps really glad i have a good man in myr life. ❤

I have spend years on dating apps and dating sites with no luck. I have tried dating events with no luck. I have worked with my self for years, to improve myself and become "good enough" for women, with no luck. Im 177cm 99kg, Work out 6 days a week, have a full time job, have my own place, no debts and yet Im still not good enough. I have gotten to a point in my life where I dont believe there is anyone out there for some one like me, and I know a lot of guys in the same situation. Todays world we are living in is all about yourself and not caring about others than yourself. Im kinda looking forward to see how bad it's gonna be, when women finally wakes up and realise men don't want them anymore because of the way they are treating men now.

For all the bother of asking a woman out without being a creep, it has to be worth it. What makes women worth all that hassle? It’s about time women pondered that question.

@vincer7824

25 күн бұрын

It's mostly a means to an end. Being a Dad seems amazing and a good wife is needed to have the best chance of raising kids in stable, healthy home. If I had no interest in having kids I think I would give up women entirely and live the rest of my life celibate.

@Anicca108

24 күн бұрын

They’re like Put Options: Good opportunity to make a tidy little profit, but downside potential is MASSIVE if things go against you.

@laniyamamoto6693

24 күн бұрын

you'll never know if she's worth it or not if you don't try and find out. there's a lot of genuine kind women out there and they won't initiate because they're more traditional.

@vincer7824

24 күн бұрын

@@laniyamamoto6693 Statistically this is fact, although perhaps hard to find depending on where you live and look for her.

@laniyamamoto6693

24 күн бұрын

@@vincer7824 small towns & the south is my recommendation. your local church sometimes is a good place to start

For guys who are confused by women saying approach me after years of saying they dont wanna be approached. *They aren't talking to you. They are talking about Chads.*

@isabellaeleina

24 күн бұрын

Ok titty mcgee

@LunaJLane

24 күн бұрын

That is still a problem because of the metoo crap where men can so easily be accused of things and have their lives and/or careers ruined even when he did nothing!!!

@LuckyTypewriter

24 күн бұрын

The whole "women are struggling too" narrative is weird. Women have been able to enjoy their adventurous dating phase for the last decade through apps, and now that they are getting to that 30+ phase and wanting to start a family, everyone is shocked that there are no men ready for that kind of thing yet. Well, what did you expect to happen when you kicked 80% of the male population from ever getting any chance to date around and labelled them misogynist creeps? Just listen to that incel comment "we know too much about the female nature now" this is what you're going to be dealing with.

@shandorunia

24 күн бұрын

We know, and we have known this for years

@lawrencetalbot8346

24 күн бұрын

We know which is why we are done. And Brett saying if a woman says no, move on. This completely contradicts other women who go on TikTok saying they are playing hard to get and wish men would chase them or pursue them. Nope that’s “stalking” and we don’t do that anymore thanks to y’all canceling/shaming/arresting every man. Edit: I think this is actually one of Brett’s best videos to date on this subject. I was just pointing out that towards the end she said a man shouldn’t ask a woman out more than once, which I agree with in todays society. However I was also just tying this back to a video she shared a few weeks ago where a woman said she she told a man No and he then he walked away and she said she was upset that he didn’t attempt to pursue her. We don’t pursue anymore because ladies have said that is wrong, creepy, harassing etc, hence no means no. So yes fellas if you’re told no, move on and if a woman is upset, it’s her own damnfault

16:05 our biggest “GO TOUCH GRASS!” advocate 😂

I met my bf on Tinder and we both don’t love that because it feels like it paints us both as the stereotypes of young people that you see on those apps. We both still were trying to meet people in person at the time, but 2 1/2 years ago everyone was still so invested in dating apps. I’m glad the tide is turning

Sorry, Brett, but I’m not letting women tell me how to not be creepy, when so many of them CHOOSE to be offended over everything men do.

@DamienHanma

24 күн бұрын

She's 20 and found a dude to marry her, so here she goes with the ”master of dating” content. Every person online who's managed to find a partner for 5 minutes, somehow has the answer to everyone's dating situation, and of course of course about it.

@sb7394

24 күн бұрын

Oh stop! She’s been advocating these same idea’s basically since her show started. She isn’t trying to be a “master of dating”, she’s just giving some advice... including how she found her husband. Take it or leave it! She never claimed it would work for everyone or every time. The dating world had become much harder to navigate, and she’s just pointing out the problems.

@chadcadsonvii5258

24 күн бұрын

@@sb7394 she's lying and downplaying the huge problems being created by women. She is a TradCon gynocentric feminist, telling men that their lived experience isn't real.

@yusufraage8554

24 күн бұрын

Any man that takes a woman's advice on dating is a fool or a simp.

@rodimussupreme2329

24 күн бұрын

@@sb7394 Guess you didn’t read what I said. Not taking advice on how to not be creepy or even dating advice in general from women. Y’all are illogical individuals that don’t know what you want, except for everything that’s wrong for you.

Near the end of the video Brett mentions 'getting to know her first', I highly disagree. That is how you get friendzoned. If you're attracted to her and the chit-chat goes well, ask her out on a date (make sure you use the word DATE).

@jonathanfarley2023

24 күн бұрын

You are right. Brett's advice was particularly bad.

@janelleg597

23 күн бұрын

You are both wrong. A friend zone can be a great place. It's not forever. I had all my 3 relationships start like this and I'm now married. I would not consider going on a date unless I knew the guy first. Getting to know someone without the pressure of a date is a great way to become comfortable with each other. But keep whining. I'm sure that'll work

@jonathanfarley2023

23 күн бұрын

@@janelleg597 I don't believe you, because I have encountered a man who said he was in the Friend-Zone first and then got the girl when she was in her prime. You also engage in typical fmnsts anti-male shaming that men by speaking are "whining" and that the "whining" is the reason they are not getting girls and that they are not getting girls. (So an Andrew Tate or Myron would give the same advice, even though they obviously do get girls.) I am open to hearing more details and being proven wrong (if I can believe your story), but my assumption based on my experience and your rude comment is that you are a liar.

@shootingbricks8554

22 күн бұрын

And if you rush into it and didn't see the red flags, you'd be screwed especially if u married her.

@jonathanfarley2023

22 күн бұрын

@@janelleg597 Typiclal fmnst anti-male shaming tactics: "You don't have women because you disagree with me."

12:34 love this thank you Brett!!!😭

rule one of dating never take dating advice from women i might be 41 and out of the market but i do know that much

@scottvincent3024

24 күн бұрын

Bingo... if you want to learn how to catch a fish, you don't ask a fish... you ask a fisherman

@rrrealqueen

24 күн бұрын

Have a job, be in shape, have a future.. and be opinionated (most important) thats how you get a woman. (Used to be Lesbian) Got plenty of girls in person and on/off apps.

@PainX187

24 күн бұрын

@@rrrealqueen and yet young men who do all that still cant get a date it is almost as if there is lower expectations of you is it not food for thought

@de14jabs

23 күн бұрын

lol I watch to see how far off the plot whamin are and see if there's any progress on realizing they have to change and stop blaming men for their attitude and behaviour. So far, nothing. They keep going further away from reality

Time out.. Time out.. Time out.. Time out.. a girl went single to a comedy show, sat on the front row and was surprised she got roasted by the comics for being alone…??? Stand up show rule number 1: the front row is like the splash zone at sea world. Don’t sit there if you don’t wanna get wet

Thanks!

I had one younger girl, about 20 years old, working for me. She was cute, in good shape, had a bubbly personality, high energy, and so naturally attracted every young male in the near vicinity. She came to me one day and complained that she was tired of all the attention from her male coworkers and that a number of them had even (wait for it) asked her out. She was appalled that a coworker would dare do something like that. I can’t remember her exact words, but she ended the complaint with something like, “I mean, work is the LAST place anyone should be looking for a date. Dating coworkers is such a bad idea.” I just chuckled. Didn’t used to be that way. It used to be THE way.

@gordonsrus

24 күн бұрын

My parents met in the late 50's at their workplace... a greenhouse.

@ctsxhp326

24 күн бұрын

This is fair, but it also can be a brutally awful choice which is why the stigma has been spread around. I personally sacrificed a job over this, got involved with the wrong girl, turns out she was way worse than I thought and once the curtain fell she turned into a literal demon and blew up the whole thing, somehow I was the one that got the wrong end of the stick. Now I have a buddy who got involved in a toxic relationship with a girl that works for one of his largest clients, so he feels stuck in it because if he leaves her he's gonna lose a lot of business.

@Hiraghm

24 күн бұрын

no, it didn't used to be THE way... because men didn't used to be gay... and the workplace was a man's space. Women who usually got dated by co-workers were secretaries and their bosses. See "The Apartment" for examples.

@Toutvids

24 күн бұрын

I've met every single girlfriend I've ever had I met in the workplace. Most everyone I knew also dated in the workplace. You are there 8 hours a day, you see these people all the time, you get to know them, relationships develop but now it seems to be a sin to do so. So they went to dating apps and we see how that worked out. Nobody wants a bar whore, nobody goes shopping to hit on women, that would be like weird tik tok videos. So where else would you do it? Drunken pit parties? That's the same as a bar.

@Colton-wz5sh

23 күн бұрын

@@ctsxhp326not literal

This all just doesn't seem worth it.

@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer

25 күн бұрын

It ain't.

@jurassicthunder

25 күн бұрын

only winning move is to not play

@Old-Dog00

24 күн бұрын

It's not. Been married almost 30 years. Women are very boring creatures. Most of my gorgeous friends have been through bad divorces. I'm a bit of an asshole. Women seem to like that.

@Dante02d12

24 күн бұрын

Happiness is always worth it.

@jurassicthunder

24 күн бұрын

​@@Dante02d12oh you one of those "happy wife happy life" kooks