this was a REAL appointment

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Exactly but I wonder why many are so negative about it?

@mitzy183

2 ай бұрын

ppl suck, its just a shame, cus this was one of the best visits ive seen. @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

@eeriecraft1797

2 ай бұрын

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj yeah. He's just got the personality of golden retriever. He wanted to help and thought he was until he told he wasn't so he sat back. I see no issue with him being there. People are just being negative to be negative.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@eeriecraft1797Good analogy! He was being like a golden retriever and realized he was too much so he and his mom stepped back.

For anyone wondering, they are no longer together and Chris married another bodybuilder named Alexia

@alsadat77

Ай бұрын

The bad luck cuz he saw her in the dress before the wedding

@AlizMari23

Ай бұрын

​@@alsadat77luck isn't real. You need to pay closer attention to how people not only treat each other but how they respond to things and the words they use. And sometimes, even if there are no clashing personalities, relationships don't always work out.

@shevahauser1780

Ай бұрын

:(

@janellerudloff5073

Ай бұрын

Shocking … 🫤

@oliveheadwhoa

Ай бұрын

I mean, getting married at 20? Yikes

She and her fiance were so, so respectful in their disagreement! It is encouraging to see how they handled that.

@samanthabmw330

Ай бұрын

Bullsh%t. The MIL gossiping to her Son the dress was "Hideous" is NOT RESPECTFUL at all. #FakeAccount.

I love how the fiance and MIL respected her and stepped back

@rebeccaernette1749

2 ай бұрын

Me too

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Exactly and many fail to notice that and think all negatively.

@nafiulhudapalok

2 ай бұрын

Yes they were quite supportive actually. I love the aura of the groom

@Sternchen1963

2 ай бұрын

It was about time, that they did! Otherwise she would've left without saying yes to a dress!

@karenstieglitz3443

2 ай бұрын

I think they'll have a good marriage. Knowing when to step back is a big part of that.

It was refreshing to see the couple and the MIL all communicating in a respectful manner.

@samanthabmw330

Ай бұрын

I dunno.... The Mom backtalking to her Son when the Bride was out-of-earshot, "That Dress is hideous!" ... That's just Passive-Aggressive and Maligning behavior. I hope this Bride knows what she is doing. Given DESPITE this Clip was put up only 4 Days ago, it's apparent its years old.

I was with my wife when we chose her wedding dress, and we're still enjoying our life together for more than 35 years already! 😊😊😊

I don’t know why everyone is taking it so negatively. Her fiancé and his mom seem really supportive. It is great to have a good relationship with your mother in law. They both seemed supportive of her and it was a nice gesture that she is paying for her dress too. She spoke up and they listened so what is with all the negativity? Some are saying to take your mom but sadly as we saw on the episode with Samantha how bad that was. At times, mother in laws can treat you better than your own mother. Plus, there is nothing wrong with your fiancé seeing you in your dress before the wedding. It is just a dress and sadly too many are placing too much importance on a one time dress.

@happyash6048

2 ай бұрын

I'm with you! She said she was the last of her friend group to get married so they may have been unavailable. I took my fiance dress shopping with me. We've been married 11 years now and have no regrets about any part of it.

@LadyHuggington

2 ай бұрын

Exactly - he was trying to help, and when he saw that it wasn't helpful, he told his mother they should both sit back and let Kesha do her job. He was there to be supportive, and that's what he did, by listening to her!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@happyash6048Exactly and I am glad it worked out for you and bringing your fiancé is not necessarily a bad thing like some think.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@LadyHuggingtonYup and I am guessing those who are responding negatively did not even watch the video until the end or they did not pay attention.

@HGG381

2 ай бұрын

No,no and no from me...

This groom agree with everything his mother say. Does he even do any own decision?????

@nafiulhudapalok

2 ай бұрын

Well he literally told her mother that they should be as the background. What else do you want?

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@nafiulhudapalokExactly and people don’t notice that.

@nancysecare8376

2 ай бұрын

Bad idea bringing the finance. Period.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@nancysecare8376Not really as my brother came to my sister in law’s dress shopping and it was all good.

@user-fi4wx9cu5g

2 ай бұрын

Clear message and warning of trouble ahead!

This was a little scary at the beginning, but was glad they understood they needed to back off a little and let her make HER decision. I hope they are happy together and bless that Mom's heart. I hope every decision from this point forward will be THE COUPLE's and not Mom's. Very generous of her to offer to pay for the dress, but still, it is YOUR wedding and YOUR decisions.

Thank God , you got the dress YOU wanted , that’s the way it should be . They make a beautiful couple ❤😊💕

I’m just glad she got what she loved.

I really wasn't sure aboutt his one at the start, but the fact that they spoke so respectfully to each other, and when she explained how he wasn't really helping and he backed off straight away, that's when I really liked this couple and can see them being very happy for many years to come.

@mariesmith1616

Ай бұрын

No, they are no longer together.

I shopped on my own, did research first and then listened to the consultant, she knew what she was doing, I picked a black and ivory number suited to my shape, and personality, (I used to ride a motorbike and lived in jeans) took my Mum to the final fitting ran into the shop and hugged a huge pink dress with a tu tu skirt, and announced this is it, my Mums face was a treat, when she saw the actual frock, she loved it. My advice if you do take anyone take an individual that will be supportive of your wishes, but truthful and thoughtful with their opinion best wishes

the number of guests who wind up in the stockroom is insane, can't they put a DOOR WITH A LOCK on that room? that's like wandering into the kitchen of a restaurant because you don't see anything you like on the menu.

@BasicYTHandle

2 ай бұрын

At the very least: "Staff Only" should be posted.

@marquitabelgrove2094

2 ай бұрын

​@@BasicYTHandlethat can't stop them because they can't read 😂

@Justicia007

2 ай бұрын

Spoiler alert, They let those people back in the stockroom because it's good for the show. This is also entertainment

@lisamelroy2855

Ай бұрын

Great analogy!

i'm sure this won't surprise anyone, but he's married to alexia now (fellow body builder) and her wedding dress flairs at the bottom with tulle. i guess she knew how to stand up to his mom

@Sternchen1963

2 ай бұрын

So they didn't got married? He married another woman? How do you got to know that? Do you have a link to the video, where he married the other woman? Thanks in advance! 😘 🤗

@Midlife_Manical_Mayhem

2 ай бұрын

@@Sternchen1963 i dont know if they ever married. i found his body building instagram page and he show his wife.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Ай бұрын

@@Sternchen1963No, I think the order poster meant they married and then divorced. But it should be because of what we saw here.

These people seem really sweet. His mom is going to LOVE those grandkids for sure❤❤

The GROOM and the MOTHER IN LAW IS SO SWEET, relax guys, those chaotic moments cause they want to help. And how the BRIDE say thank you and tell him what she really want, it made me cry.

@elmienboyes7432

2 ай бұрын

😊

I don’t like bashing people for giving their opinion when they were asked to attend to offer their opinions. In the end, he listened when she asked him to step down, and they supported her choice, all of which speaks to a really healthy relationship

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Exactly and I am guessing many did not watch this whole clip from beginning to end so did not see that.

She looked stunning in the gown she eventually chose which neither her fiancé nor her future MIL could shoot down upon seeing her face brimming with pure joy.

My wedding plan was to see the look on my hubby’s face when he saw me coming down the aisle…..for the first time, in my dress❣️ That’s part of the fun of a wedding. I didn’t even show him pictures from the catalog.

This fiance is wearing jeans and a t shirt, definitely the mark of a true fashion expert. 😂

Keisha is my favourite consultant.

@tld7846

2 ай бұрын

She has a great sense of humor and fun laugh.

@AlbenaBG

2 ай бұрын

@@tld7846 And I think she has a great sense for choosing the right dress.

Girl, RUN.

What an amazing, patient, understanding and beautiful bride. True class!

This guy was so respectful and really listened to the bride when she got the courage to speak up. I really think he thought he was helping. I love this for them ❤

I brought my mother and my mother in law to try on wedding dresses. Both were supportive and it was easy to get my dress.

Y’all. It’s a show. A show meant for drama. They didn’t go searching for dresses on their own. 😂. It’s part of the show. They promote people to act certain ways.

@needspersonality

2 ай бұрын

Do they get paid for going on the show? Why do people go along with this?

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@needspersonalityNo, they don’t get paid. They just want to be on TV.

The way the MIL got her first glimpse of the first dress, then turned and whispered, “See? I told you!” to her son, and then turned back with a fake smile - that rubbed me the wrong way. You two should not be having secret side convos and exchanging snyde opinions about the dresses. If you have an opinion, save it for when you are asked, and say it kindly and considerately. And when he said, “That’s the one,” he immediately looked to his mom for validation, not his fiancée. They recovered nicely though.

@kimm6589

2 ай бұрын

Right? Glad the camera caught it.

BEAUTIFUL ❤ They ALL AGREED🎉🎉🎉

She looks absolutely GORGEOUS - and SO happy, in that last dress. I'm glad the hubby to be and his mom realized that it wasn't THEIR dress to wear, but HERS... Congrats and Best Wishes to & for the couple!

I did some searching. She goes under her maiden name and her latest photos show a trip to Florida with some girlfriends. There's not alot visible on her page but there's a pick of two of them in 2015 and no wedding photos I can see.... make of it what you will....

@mariesmith1616

2 ай бұрын

They are no longer married. No surprise. He’s married to Alexia a fellow bodybuilder.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@mariesmith1616Many of the couples on here have divorced which is sad.

The mother in law should not be paying for the dress. Where are her parents? She's old enough to buy her own dress. I really like the MIL.

As I watch this show for years, I’m so grateful that I found a beautiful gown in a magazine, went to try on the sample, which didn’t fit on my newly reduced size 13 body so I couldn’t leave the fitting room, but imagined it would be perfect, and promptly found a dressmaker who made it and my matching veil. And I did this only with my MOM because I thought it was OUR SPECIAL TIME TOGETHER. No entourage, no outside opinions! Then I picked out my bridesmaids dresses and had them go and try on and order them. Boy things sure have gotten complicated since 1978!

@thehungrygoldfish

2 ай бұрын

It’s been fifty years, hon. Yes, times have changed, Grandma lol.

@bonnylouwho76

Ай бұрын

1976 yes they have. My Mom and I did everything as well and our friend from church made my gown and veil as well. Only one sister in our family had a store bought designer gown and I think she bought it herself as she was a bit older when she married and already had started her teaching career. Her gown was classic gorgeous column gown with a long train and it was worn by TWO other brides as well, a sister in law and a niece. Do whatever works for you and your situation I say.

you marry him after just a few months? that's way before you really get to know who he is! this appointment was a good test though. Now RUN!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

Ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with that as you need to learn as you go too. My brother’s best friend married a girl he knew for only 6 months and they are happily married for 23 years now with 3 daughters. I know some who are in arranged marriages still happily married for 63 years now. It just depends as knowing someone for a long time in advance does not guarantee anything at all.

@amyruger1549

Ай бұрын

Her fiance is controlling , marriage will never last

I love! how they speak with each other. That's Goals❤

I feel very grateful to say I have the same support from my fiancé and mother in law. I’m very lucky in that department ❤

What a sweet bride. Were the groom and MOG doing some acting? So glad she finally stood up for herself!

Ok, at first I hated that they took over the appointment, but then they also backed down. Also, I don’t think the stockroom should be open to anyone other than staff.

She looks stunning

Everyone has the right to bring A FEW people of their choosing to the appointment. Ground rules need to be established before they walk through the door of the bridal salon. Anyone who can't remember to stick to the bride's ground rules doesn't need to be there.

It’s a brides choice. Who cares about the mother-in-law’s choice or anyone else’s?

Someone is married to mummy. Wedding might be fun but marriage could be tough.

This actually choked me up.

I just took my husband shopping for my dress and loved the experience. We have been together over 40 years. But the we have always been best friends and love each other dearly. I can’t imagine taking anyone else. It would have been a disaster if family had been included.

Love the first dress and the one she chose. Both dresses are gorgeous.

I cannot imagine being able to shop there for a dress then think it is ok to walk through the stock room picking dresses myself! The consultants know what they are doing let them do their job!

@bonnylouwho76

Ай бұрын

I would only ask to look WITH the consultant, if I did. I am a seamstress who has worked with wedding and other gowns. I would be bringing an example book with sketches as well.

Girl RUN! The red flags are flying like crazy with him and his mother.

Bride is outnumbered....Run...

She wants to choose her dress!!

Run!!!

Tell them to leave and get your mom!

That dress was beautiful on her.

This is the Biggest Red Flag 🚩 I’ve ever seen on “Say Yes to the Dress”

Fiancée at wedding dress appointment is not just “untraditional”. It’s supposed to be a wonderful surprise on their wedding day for the groom to see his bride come down the aisle. It’s supposed to be the moment that is worth waiting for for them. Otherwise, it’s like “you read my list and I got everything I wanted with no surprises” instead of “wow, that’s beautiful” (on the day of the wedding) Still gotta be extra careful with who you pick to come on the bridal appointment with you. Like Randy said.

Don't marry him, run for your life😮😮

glad that the feance was not difficult when she talked to him

Red flags aplenty from that groom. Hope it all works out for them both.

I think that if Chris and his mother love her, they should let her chose her own dress. As mother is paying for the dress, the obligation to please her is going to be regretful

Very pretty dress

Respect for respect

Keishe is great: "I can't make him stop. Ha, ha, ha!" Bride: "I wish the knocks would just stop." Can't this guy get the hint? Randy is right: Think carefully about who you bring to the appointment.

Red flag he controls what she wears. Why is his mother paying for her dress? Another red flag. The dress is supposed to be about the bride. She is the rare jewel in her gown.

@Maz-zb9uf

2 ай бұрын

Spot on

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Wow, what is up with all the negativity? He was supportive and his mom and him both backed down when she spoke up. Why is it a red flag that she is paying for the dress? What if she wants to give it to her daughter in law as a gift? Gosh, I don’t understand all this negativity.

Modify your budget and choose for yourself, and surprise them all on the day! Of course, the drawn out process of meddling dynamics could show whether to ditch him and his mum now, before it is too late 😂

Disrespecting his bride already, and letting his mother do the same. Good luck girl.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

No, she spoke up and they listened and let her be.

Does anyone know how designed the dress and what collection it is from? It's beautiful!

Eight months… i've taken more time choosing a weeklong vacation spot

If a man insists that he has a say in your wedding dress, I can almost guarantee you that he is controlling and manipulative. It’s a man and his mother gang up against you and make fun of you, I can guarantee you’re going to have a miserable marriage.

Wow, what a nightmare. She should have had the divorce attorney present as well

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Wow, why so negative?

Aw aw aw Mother in law, play nice.

oh nooo! girl, runnnnn!!!! 😅

You need to show each dress full length front and back. Otherwise it's hard to evaluate the dress. Sometimes I have a sneaking suspicion a full dress isn't shown on camera because the producers don't want to give particular designers free advertising.

@bonnylouwho76

Ай бұрын

You have to think of the designers of the gowns as well. They may well NOT want to have the entire gown shown in order to try to prevent rip offs of their designs. ( I am a seamstress, just saying.)

Flo rocks!!

One thing that I would never do is to bring my fiance to my dress appointment I don't have a mother in law because she's deceased

The red flags are all there. Run girl! Don't walk but run!

There are brides from this show who do not get married in the dress they said yes to. Others have called off the wedding and still more ended up divorce not long after.

Ladies, it's time to stop obsessing over marriage and instead focus on understanding what it truly means.

42 years of marriage here: my husband and I picked out my gown. Once I got it- he did not see me till I walked the isle in it. He looked at me in it after our vows and continued to ask me if it was the same dress. No curses or bad things. It's just a tradition. In this case: HE WOULD HAVE BEEN KICKED OUT! Thank goodness it was not like this.

I’m NOT bringing my future husband to my bridal appointment 🤨😑😑!

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

I would bring mine if he wants to come.

Run for the hills

Please give us a good view of the dresses.

I hate when the person who holds the purse strings thinks she can dictate!

I always say dress shopping is experience for the bride with who she spent good times with maybe Mom, Nan, Bestie, Sisters. I get this. But, the moment MIL FIANCE IS THERE. It is not being superstision etc. Its the time you get to spend few hours alone.

@happyash6048

2 ай бұрын

Every situation is different. She said she was the last of her friend group to get married. It gets hard when you get left behind like that. I was in that situation too. And maybe she doesn't have a mom or sisters. I was very very close to my father-in-law because my father had died. I went dress shopping with my fiance because he was my best friend. We had a blast and I still love looking at the fun pictures. We've been married 11 years now and no regrets about any part of the wedding or marriage.

What a wimp, he lets his mother pay for the dress! But the bride needs to wake up, cause that future mother in law is going to be trouble

@catezaida8081

2 ай бұрын

Well stated. He doesn't need a wife because he has that Mom. And may I say, been there and done that? Yeah.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

No, what is wrong with that? It could be a wedding gift from her mother in law which is a nice gesture. Lori the bridal shop owner gifted her daughter in law 3 dresses for her wedding with her son and got all good responses. But yet everyone is complaining here. Sad!

@oldageisdumb

2 ай бұрын

What is wrong with her paying for the dress? It was a gift. Just because your parents didn’t pay for anything with your wedding doesn’t mean you should look negatively upon others who do.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@oldageisdumbExactly! I don’t get why everyone is being so negative? I bet it was a wedding gift for from her mother in law which is a nice gesture.

Omg warning ⚠️ mummy's boy!!!!

Gorgeous.

NEVER bring the fiancé or future mother in law to your appointment!!

This was tough to watch in the beginning, but I’m glad they both realized that they had overstepped and then backed off

@sistek133

2 ай бұрын

Leaves me wondering how staged it all is

Get out now unless you want to submit all the time. Between the mother and fiance.😮 He's already married to his mother.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

If it is just a dress then not a big deal, but yes it would be disastrous if it was like that all the time or for way more important decisions.

@dotlaowai

2 ай бұрын

How can this behavior be just for the dress? A mommy's boy like that has been a mommy's boy since forever

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@dotlaowaiThis is only a short clip so who knows if he is always like that.

The groom looks like such a crybaby

@tinabrock758

2 ай бұрын

Mommies boy

@Ivonnemichelleperez

2 ай бұрын

Kinda

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Not really as he told his mom how his fiancée was feeling and his mom listened.

I sure hope this marriage works.

@J.W.vanVeen

2 ай бұрын

It didn't.. he married someone else.. 😢

Il hope this girl ran for the hillls!!

Well that’s going to be a short marriage.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

Not true and I am guessing that you did not watch until the end or did not pay attention.

@J.W.vanVeen

2 ай бұрын

​@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I've watched this 3 time but I really don't know what you're talking about! Come on tell me..

@bonnylouwho76

Ай бұрын

I don't think the married or were divorced. He eventually married another body builder lady named Alexis.

Very sweet and calm family 🥰❤️

where is her family?

Now my husband, at the time my hubby bought my wedding dress for me since he is deployed. He wanted me to pick out my dress and he paid for it.

I picked out my own dress.

Chris's mom is going to pick the dress.

So is he bringing mommy on his honeymoon too? Run girl run! He is not the one! So many red flags with this guy. It is only going to get worse.

@BasicYTHandle

2 ай бұрын

MIL is there b/c she is paying.

@J.W.vanVeen

2 ай бұрын

It's over between them... He married another bodybuilder..

@tamitami9275

2 ай бұрын

@@BasicYTHandle I think it is awesome when a bride brings the MIL. The problem is tag teaming her, then going to find Her the dress THEY want. Not once stopping and thinking she is the bride. It is Her dress, until she calls them out. It shows a dynamic. Paying for the dress should not mean you choose her dress, it means you pay for her choice. They did not want her dresses, so they overrode it, and went to find their own. Tells a lot. For one, it is their opinion matters over hers, and clearly shows they will just stomp any boundaries, until called out.

That marriage isn't going to last

@chelseagirl278

2 ай бұрын

i wish we could find out

@Grandmomof30

2 ай бұрын

If you can't think for yourself you won't be the man your wife needs to be cause he won't have the backbone

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

2 ай бұрын

@@tintioz3281Not really as she spoke up and they listened. She got to pick what she liked and they were supportive.

@Midlife_Manical_Mayhem

2 ай бұрын

you can with a little digging. it didn't last. he's married to a fellow body builder.@@chelseagirl278

@juliejohnson1481

2 ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly.

Keisha, please show your pretty eyes.