Breakup Chat & Meeting the Ex Makeup | Amelia Liana

A chatty makeup look for meeting an ex boyfriend, talking through breakups & my classic outfit!
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OUTFIT OF THE DAY:
Burgundy Dress:
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Over-the-knee Boots:
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Black Box Bag:
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Black Box Bag:
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Jumper I'm Wearing in the Video:
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BEAUTY PRODUCTS I USED:
Clarins Hydra-Essentiel: bit.ly/2GbA1CP
It Cosmetics Confidence in an Eye Cream: bit.ly/2puvQbY
YSL Touche Éclat All-In-One Glow Foundation: bit.ly/2G2avN8
By Terry Terrybly Densiliss Foundation: bit.ly/2puY46g
Estée Lauder Double Wear Custom Coverage Correcting Duo: bit.ly/2FVOPGF
Nars Soft Matte Concealer: bit.ly/2IJlcpw
Charlotte Tilbury Hollywood Flawless Filter: bit.ly/2udR9mK
Clé de Peau Beauté Concealer: bit.ly/2IJ8gA6
La Mer Bronzing Powder: bit.ly/2ubOl9B
Surratt Eyelash Curler: bit.ly/2FX9Nol
Tarte Lid Lock Clay Eye Base: bit.ly/2GQISrp
Inglot Eyeshadows: bit.ly/2pwQSWk
Tom Ford Eye Defining Pen: bit.ly/2puwEh0
By Terry Lash-Expert Twist Brush: bit.ly/2IIr56g
Giorgio Armani Mascara Eccentrico: bit.ly/2IIKwfB
Laura Mercier 'Second Skin Cheek Colour in Lush Nectarine: bit.ly/2FXlMCs
Charlotte Tilbury Lip Cheat Lipliner in Pillow Talk: bit.ly/2u9WZ8y
Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Finish Powder: bit.ly/2pw9uGO
Anastasia Beverly Hills Liquid Lipstick in Crush: bit.ly/2pvNgER
By Terry Baume de Rose Lip Crayon: bit.ly/2F5PnsR
Lancome L'Absolu Rouge La Base: bit.ly/2GgHpgb
Benefit Goof Proof Brow Pencil: bit.ly/2IKUA7B
OTHER THINGS MENTIONED:
Hot Water Bottle:
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JEWELLERY I’M WEARING:
String Bracelet: bit.ly/2qUqLf8
Bangle bracelet: bit.ly/2vLLUrE
Coin necklaces: bit.ly/2yVaha1
Evil Eye Bracelet: bit.ly/2I8ec5i
Ear Cuff: bit.ly/2tmqGDf
Stacking Rings: bit.ly/2x7GiHx
Evil Eye Rings: bit.ly/2tRiPu0
Trinity Ring: bit.ly/2x7IBuc
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EQUIPMENT:
Canon Vlog Camera: bit.ly/2f6R1vq
Canon Big Camera: bit.ly/2xcsoba (with this lens): bit.ly/2eII9vj
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  • @LadyAkame
    @LadyAkame6 жыл бұрын

    I was best friends with my ex since highschool for 6 years and we got together in college. Was together for 4 years before i found out he was cheating on me with someone he just met for a few months... not gunna lie i spent a good 2 weeks crying 24/7. Had to crawl into my roommate’s bed a few times in the night because I couldn’t sleep 🤣 bless her kind kind soul ♥️ 1 year later and now sometimes i forget we were ever together. I still see him in class cause we go to the same college and take the same major but yknw, past is past. He is also still with the girl he cheated on me with. It really hurt me when i first found out but now, if being with her makes him happy, then i’m happy for him too. So guys, if you’re going through a tough breakup, trust me all you need is time. And good company.

  • @mzgjc

    @mzgjc

    6 жыл бұрын

    ITSGEENA best comment ever read! 👌🏼

  • @littleangel3184

    @littleangel3184

    6 жыл бұрын

    ITSGEENA How Amazing are you girl?Best advice ever! You handled the situation with such grace!Good for you!

  • @melanieemertaylor

    @melanieemertaylor

    6 жыл бұрын

    very inspiring - you're such a strong person. I wish you lots of good things x

  • @Eden_Rivers
    @Eden_Rivers6 жыл бұрын

    The worst part about breaking up for me was instantly losing the comfortability and closeness of another person--something that usually took a long time to get. The idea of starting over with a stranger was so exhausting to me. I don't have any awkward break-up stories, but I do remember being in my twenties and just dating guy after guy who would want to break up, but didn't have the balls to do it. They'd just start behaving so badly, I had to break up for them. And then, they wouldn't go away. Calling, stopping by, all that crap. I don't miss dating! 😊

  • @DaylightInMyHeart

    @DaylightInMyHeart

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're so right about the loss of comfortability and closeness! It's such a strange thing to have to start over again. (That's the point I'm at now and it just feels wrong...) I hope it'll get better over time! :)

  • @jordanelliot2419

    @jordanelliot2419

    2 жыл бұрын

    You all probably dont care but does any of you know of a trick to log back into an instagram account?? I was stupid lost the password. I would love any help you can offer me.

  • @emilyraskett6095
    @emilyraskett60956 жыл бұрын

    That mascara is incredible, and I love chatty videos.

  • 6 жыл бұрын

    Breakups are never easy, never clean and never peacefull but you get up and get going and survive

  • @christinamariemoney
    @christinamariemoney6 жыл бұрын

    Nothing like one of Amelia’s videos to brighten up your day! ❤️ you are always so sweet and positive, I love it! Keep shining girl! Love from Canada! 🇨🇦

  • @amelialiana

    @amelialiana

    6 жыл бұрын

    Aww you're so sweet!! Thank you!!

  • @jfogarty92
    @jfogarty926 жыл бұрын

    "Don't be petty. Don't have sex..." OMG I just LOLed in public.... so worth it! hahahah

  • @kbewilson
    @kbewilson6 жыл бұрын

    Found myself with a huge smile on my face by the end of the video. I’m 27 now and am the only single girl left in my pal group. Everyone’s in long term relationships and that seems to be all anyone wants to talk about. So nice to feel as though there’s at least someone on here who’s repping for the dating scene. Thank you for talking about this x

  • @ushmamehta8104
    @ushmamehta81046 жыл бұрын

    This video is so all over the place and absolutely hilarious! You are such an absolutely real person who I'm sure a lot of people can relate to!

  • @JaspriyaLall
    @JaspriyaLall6 жыл бұрын

    I just want to give you a big hug!!!!💖 I love how open an honest you are, it means so much and I can relate on so many levels✨

  • @izluc9378
    @izluc93786 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @Lyn_DS

    @Lyn_DS

    5 жыл бұрын

    Izlu C hi girl, I know your comment is over a year old but I saw that you wrote about the 2y to get over an ex and for me it’s now 2y and sometimes I think I’m over him but other times I catch myself on the fact that I’m not completely over him yet.. did it just take time or did something in particular help you? I hope you’re happy now; single, dating or in a relationship! xx

  • @annasophiedame6344
    @annasophiedame63446 жыл бұрын

    This was extremely refreshing and good to hear! You are the BEST! haha I love all-natural Amelia :D xxx

  • @sl2501
    @sl25016 жыл бұрын

    Unbelievably relatable and so glad u made this video and chose to speak about this! Unbelievably helpful for me 💕

  • @serena4065
    @serena40656 жыл бұрын

    you make me laugh so much amelia! never stop being you, sending lots of hugs xxx

  • @hayleyarmstrong93
    @hayleyarmstrong936 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE how you always ramble completely off topic 😂

  • @rachelaliceberry

    @rachelaliceberry

    6 жыл бұрын

    H.A “what was I saying..?” ❤️

  • @carmencabrera6248
    @carmencabrera62486 жыл бұрын

    Loved the chat! I would love to see more videos like this one but on different topics (make up for a first date, job interviews...?)

  • @WickedSarcastic
    @WickedSarcastic6 жыл бұрын

    I love this video so much! Chatty get ready videos are some of my fav, and I love some good girl talk, but I love that this is just positive and useful advice lady to lady!

  • @keziarosedh
    @keziarosedh6 жыл бұрын

    Whilst I can't relate to break ups because I met my first boyfriend at uni, dated for 11 years, then got married 5 years ago...I really enjoyed this, I like how open you are, how you can laugh at yourself and I don't think saying you share a bed with someone you are in a long term relationship with is sending bad signals at all. X much love x

  • @samanthajewell2272
    @samanthajewell22726 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video so much. I love these little chit chats where you can tell that you are just putting it all out there and just being real like I would with my best friend or something.

  • @alexjoanes2896
    @alexjoanes28966 жыл бұрын

    So cute and chatty - loved it! And your eyelashes are incredible!!!

  • @totoro1234567
    @totoro12345676 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing and opening up about your break up. Break ups are one of the most difficult things in life because it disrupts your emotional well-being and concerns your heart. But the fact that you are sharing it just shows how strong you are and you give hope that healing can happen. So thank you ☺️

  • @kmmedina94
    @kmmedina946 жыл бұрын

    I love this video and simply your chats. It’s like I’m listening to my besties! 💕

  • @cbrownes
    @cbrownes6 жыл бұрын

    That was one of my favourite Lisa Eldridge videos! And I have never been in a relationship - so no exes either. It's just so special to listen to her talk about finding yourself again and how makeup can play a role in that process of looking put together when perhaps you don't feel all that together at that moment in time. Either way, I'm rambling, I love how you took that video and made it your own. (I think choosing your vlog camera really worked!)

  • @sophieameliac
    @sophieameliac6 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video! Casual chats are the best and I think break up advice never goes astray! ❤️

  • @dee00011
    @dee000116 жыл бұрын

    love youuuu xxxx this was so fun to watch! love hearing you chat away about random things

  • @nadinesilversparrow996
    @nadinesilversparrow9966 жыл бұрын

    Love this video haha dresses are the best for feeling confident and comfortable it's always my go-to! Sending you love 💕

  • @sarahwithstars
    @sarahwithstars6 жыл бұрын

    Those sass boots are stunning xxxx Someone will appreciate every single oddity and obscurity that makes you special and unique xxxxxx

  • @TabithaElizabeth
    @TabithaElizabeth6 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goodness I absolutely love this video! You have great energy as well you just seem really positive! X

  • @taylorb3084
    @taylorb30846 жыл бұрын

    I also loved Lisa’s video about this- was happy to see another and hear some stories! I’ve always had private/intimate break ups, but often have seen them again after to meet up at some point months later. I always go for glowing skin and a tan and minimal make up!

  • @ericag11
    @ericag116 жыл бұрын

    Love your vlogs so so much but this makes me really really misss your makeup videos!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JJBabbles
    @JJBabbles6 жыл бұрын

    This wasn't the video I was expecting (from the title) BUT.. I freaking loved watching this!! Amelia - you seem like such a genuine sweetheart & it's a joy to watch relaxed videos like this - love it!

  • @annamcbride9134
    @annamcbride91346 жыл бұрын

    Amazing love the chatty vibes with the gorgeous make up thanks for sharing x

  • @PascallePointing
    @PascallePointing6 жыл бұрын

    So excited for this video only just started watching! Love your vids loads! Meant to be working but oh well - screw work for the next 20 mins :D xxxxx

  • @loveLebgirl
    @loveLebgirl6 жыл бұрын

    Honestly one of the best videos I've seen in a while! Loved how honest and down to earth the content was! Plus the makeup looked fabulous as always ;)

  • @melodydiem6067
    @melodydiem60676 жыл бұрын

    Loving your videos as ever...you're literally one of the most interesting youtubers :)

  • @SandraOlufsen
    @SandraOlufsen6 жыл бұрын

    Really love how open you are with us! Loved this video as well 🙈

  • @1118Tiffany
    @1118Tiffany6 жыл бұрын

    what's wrong with having pasta and rice every day... i do that every day... hahahha

  • @artemis1154
    @artemis11546 жыл бұрын

    Love your vids! Especially these chatty ones! 😁❤️

  • @maryalmond8705
    @maryalmond87056 жыл бұрын

    Love it!!! You have such a beautiful personality 💕

  • @3112sol
    @3112sol6 жыл бұрын

    I’ve missed you ❤️ love love your chatty videos 💕✨

  • @lauracrosby9165
    @lauracrosby91656 жыл бұрын

    Totally appreciate your transparency on this topic!

  • @britnikuizin2807
    @britnikuizin28076 жыл бұрын

    This is such a great video!!!

  • @rosannamansfield2713
    @rosannamansfield27136 жыл бұрын

    Really loved this video, thank you for sharing this not enough people talk about break ups! xxxx

  • @GilrMeetsMusic
    @GilrMeetsMusic6 жыл бұрын

    thanks for posting this ! commenting late but so nice to hear someone talk about this!

  • @XxChloeLiddiattxX
    @XxChloeLiddiattxX6 жыл бұрын

    I love how you do your mascara!! I am soooo messy!! I love the set up for this video, love the advise as well❤️❤️

  • @sinazomanentsa9461
    @sinazomanentsa94616 жыл бұрын

    Duke and the water bottle lol, so funny! Loved this chatty video. I haven't had many breakups but after a breakup, it always hits me the most in the morning cause I've had to see my ex's in class or school and for some reason, I usually go into this self-improvement mode where I'm going to the gym more than usual and I write down self-affirming words which help . I know as I get older relationships will probably get deeper and I'll maybe handle things differently

  • @sarahmorse8134
    @sarahmorse81346 жыл бұрын

    Love your hoodie!

  • @kristinb7450
    @kristinb74506 жыл бұрын

    Makeup is beautiful and omg your lashes are everything !!! 💕💗

  • @irocurseoxoff
    @irocurseoxoff6 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god, I just needed this video so much Amelia, thank you for representing all the single girls and actually talking about break ups and things that kind of suck. You are so real.

  • @kristina-lifeinmy30s16
    @kristina-lifeinmy30s166 жыл бұрын

    LOVE the chatty videos from you! I'm sitting here working and listening to the video in the background, but have to keep opening the tab to see what your makeup looks like :) haha!

  • @Louviathan
    @Louviathan6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video it is life! You are the cutest !

  • @apk23love
    @apk23love6 жыл бұрын

    Loved this so much and Guy at the end...hilarious! We need him in more vlogs

  • @em_shall9291
    @em_shall92915 жыл бұрын

    I've just gone through something really similar and it encouraged me to set up a KZread channel offering advice to other girls out there! Your video inspired me Amelia so thank you x

  • @shreyaraje2282
    @shreyaraje22826 жыл бұрын

    Your amazing,love how honest and genuine you are 😘

  • @lollypop7113
    @lollypop71136 жыл бұрын

    These sorts of videos make me want to buy half the products you used. Seriously, I've made a list! A chatty, honest vlog ist the best sort of vlog.

  • @kathrynjohnson2408
    @kathrynjohnson24086 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE the crown- my roomies, sister, and I are all obsessed :) also enjoyed this video- love the chats you do!

  • @abigailc475
    @abigailc4756 жыл бұрын

    I always feel like I’m catching up with an old friend with you Amelia. Never change !!! X

  • @Tsvetito97
    @Tsvetito976 жыл бұрын

    In my opinion this is one of the best and funniest videos you have ever made. Love you! ❤

  • @pmsuja
    @pmsuja6 жыл бұрын

    Off topic. But Duke running away from the hot water bottle cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Awesomebeautyxo

    @Awesomebeautyxo

    6 жыл бұрын

    HAHAAHHAHA same I died

  • @evangelinewestern6980
    @evangelinewestern69806 жыл бұрын

    Subscribed four days ago and CAN'T STOP WATCHING! Literally watched you non-stop

  • @susanguerra8452
    @susanguerra84526 жыл бұрын

    Whenever I feel bad, I also love watching Princess Diana documentaries and movies ❤️ love how real this video is!

  • @skyeb_
    @skyeb_6 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE your advice about using a handbag that you actually have to hold with your hand. Just a simple little thing but really practical bc of course you're already nervous and thats one less thing to grind on -not worrying about what to do with your hands.

  • @EmilieCJS
    @EmilieCJS6 жыл бұрын

    loved the make up look and the outfit x

  • @Gresaaa
    @Gresaaa6 жыл бұрын

    bloody loved the crown (i don't know anyone else that watches it boooo) and i don't even give a crap about the monarchy, it was just so fascinating and the actors were brilliant. OH NICE MAKEUP! I love how open you are on your channel, you do genuinely care about your viewers

  • @ModernGreenGoddess
    @ModernGreenGoddess6 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Loved the topic and the outfit

  • @TinTin-fq5id
    @TinTin-fq5id6 жыл бұрын

    You look gorgeous! Love the hair. The stories were great. I felt very uplifted watching this, so thanks for that.😙

  • @TinTin-fq5id

    @TinTin-fq5id

    6 жыл бұрын

    And you're rocking that leather jacket!

  • @Victoriaward
    @Victoriaward6 жыл бұрын

    It's so soothing to hear someone who is going through the same thing be so honest. Thanks Amelia

  • @lauracarati4690
    @lauracarati46906 жыл бұрын

    Love your chatty videos so much 😊

  • @rosiefruish4698
    @rosiefruish46986 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video, such a funny way of looking at bad situations!!

  • @joywerner3689
    @joywerner36896 жыл бұрын

    love your honesty, very relatable

  • @a.m.j.freund3114
    @a.m.j.freund31146 жыл бұрын

    Your personality is so lovely and bubbly! Thank you for this video. Dating and relationships should be enriching and I honestly believe that I learned from every relationship and now I know what I want and need. My mum always told me that I will meet different people in different phases of my life and once I know what I want and who I am, I will know who compliments me. That is what happened to my parents and 30 years later they are still a great team! X

  • @NoorJaddaa
    @NoorJaddaa6 жыл бұрын

    I loooove this video ❤️ and I love the makeup!! It suits you verry nicely, all the love Ameliaa ❤️❤️

  • @CaseyCam
    @CaseyCam6 жыл бұрын

    The whole video I’m thinking “I wish she and guy would get together now that she’s broken up” and then she calls him at the end! They just seem like the couple in a rom com that never wanted to be together and were always there for each other through the years, then finally realize they are in love and get married! Obviously I don’t know these two people in real life! But I always have loved them together through years of watching her videos.

  • @AndreaLovesApples

    @AndreaLovesApples

    6 жыл бұрын

    I actually always thought that they were together!

  • @shivanisharma6837

    @shivanisharma6837

    6 жыл бұрын

    I love this so much because I always thought I was the only one who thought she is EXACTLY blair and he is EXACTLY chuck and then she's had a bunch of nates and dans and now its like time for season 5.

  • @shazheartsmakeup

    @shazheartsmakeup

    6 жыл бұрын

    Omg yes

  • @scienceandstuff5450
    @scienceandstuff54506 жыл бұрын

    Such a cute video. I watch your videos because you’re very entertaining, but this one was especially funny

  • @kathybehan8567
    @kathybehan85676 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoy listening to you chat: you're so funny sending hugs from Ireland xx

  • @FashionAplenty
    @FashionAplenty6 жыл бұрын

    I don't know why but for some reason watching Princess Diana interviews/docs are so comforting to me esp when I need it :)

  • @hellofifties2857
    @hellofifties28576 жыл бұрын

    I simply adore you! Your so funny and witty!

  • @bisqyt
    @bisqyt6 жыл бұрын

    this was an amazing vid! thank you for sharing, you are so charismatic! lots of hugs!

  • @juliah.9431
    @juliah.94316 жыл бұрын

    Loved the personal vibe! Break ups are annoying, but make up makes everything a little bit better ;)

  • @shermorais5815
    @shermorais58156 жыл бұрын

    I had so much fun watching this! x

  • @jacksonlover121
    @jacksonlover1216 жыл бұрын

    Bloody hell that makeup is amazing, you look stunning!!

  • @kimberleym6236
    @kimberleym62366 жыл бұрын

    I loved this!

  • @naamabinnes657
    @naamabinnes6576 жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video about things you'd tell your teenage self please. More advice videos would be great. Thank you for making all this wonderful content ❤💗

  • @maryblue1759
    @maryblue17596 жыл бұрын

    I love this video so much! I feel like I’m hanging out with my best friend ❤️

  • @emilysugden4
    @emilysugden46 жыл бұрын

    Love you so much Amelia this video made my day😂😂

  • @mimilucas8099
    @mimilucas80996 жыл бұрын

    this has came at the right time as i’m meeting my ex next week for my stuff back😂 love you your always smiling and we’re get through this xxx

  • @serendipitytwo777
    @serendipitytwo7776 жыл бұрын

    This vid is original ameila and I love it!!!!

  • @Bruins4Mia
    @Bruins4Mia6 жыл бұрын

    I love your chatty honesty; it was like we are good friends and we're having a girly-chat in your flat. You're so funny, you crack me up!

  • @jnada101
    @jnada1016 жыл бұрын

    you're so relatable!!

  • @extrachickenwang8062
    @extrachickenwang80626 жыл бұрын

    love chatty videos !❤

  • @hannahhh..
    @hannahhh..6 жыл бұрын

    Omg loved this

  • @amberlol7
    @amberlol76 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time i've watched one of your videos but I love it!!! It's like gossiping with a friend :) so fun xxx

  • @kellykellitsa
    @kellykellitsa6 жыл бұрын

    that is the best hair color I have seen on you ever!

  • @sandyhsyu3317
    @sandyhsyu33176 жыл бұрын

    I like your chatty videos. Can't say the same about others. You are so honest about yourself.

  • @TheEverydaykay
    @TheEverydaykay6 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend and I had been on and off long distance for 6 years. We always spoke about living in the same country together (He lived in Germany and I lived in the US) so when I finally graduated college, I started looking for jobs in Germany (I had lived there previously for a year studying abroad) I finally was able to secure a job and packed up all my things and moved out there. I was so happy and excited to be making this big move forward and knowing we would finally be in one place at one time. He would also tell me the same thing and we even talked moving in together and eventually marriage. Well...sometime after being abruptly fired from my job for reasons that required legal intervention, as well as countless hours spent freaking out and searching for a new job to keep me in the country. My BF, upon returning from a month long trip to Vietnam, came to me and told he that he had had time to think while on holiday and that he had always felt that he didn’t really want to be with me and had doubts of me coming to Germany but because I was now out of a job, it would be easier for me to decide if I wanted to be there for myself or if I had only come there for us..... Little to say that I pack my shit right the fuck up and headed back to the US.

  • @TheEverydaykay

    @TheEverydaykay

    6 жыл бұрын

    anosjc preach 🙌🏼

  • @sarahibowles7934
    @sarahibowles79346 жыл бұрын

    Love The Crown!

  • @caitlinparker7306
    @caitlinparker73066 жыл бұрын

    Guy is such a legend! Loved this vid x

  • @nocturnalhime22
    @nocturnalhime226 жыл бұрын

    Loved this chatty style video. ☺️

  • @lulumuhairi1144
    @lulumuhairi11446 жыл бұрын

    long time no see ❤️!!!!!! how much I miss these chatty videos ❤️🙈. Video idea: your mom's rice recipe maybe? or a day out with your sister ?

  • @gwendolinedecat-beltrami6638
    @gwendolinedecat-beltrami66386 жыл бұрын

    you're gonna find this quite weird but I'm heading to the gym this morning before work, and I thought I should watch this video to motivate me... because you're the greatest friend that lifts my mood and motivates me love love xx

  • @dgab1013
    @dgab10136 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing Amelia thank you for sharing, my advise is to try to keep a calm it's hard but if you get worked up you won't really say what you really want to say cuz. Lots of hugs from a hugger 🤗😘❤