I appreciate your honesty and way you present this topic. Its not like me to shame or think less of my bottom partners. Just the opposite I'm glad guys take pleasure in taking "it" in. You are spot on saying the act isn't complete unless my bottom is happy.

YES everything and every point you spoke of was SPOT on as a Top myself there has to be respect given in order for respect to be gained. ALSO the individual being shame has to have enough backbone to nip things in the bud and make it a point of not putting up with being disrepected and that can be done in a respectful way with conversation or just putting a stop to the sex PERIOD. A person can only do to you what you LET them do or what they feel they can get away with. I feel everyone knows when they are being disrespected and if thats the case it's up to you to ACT And if the person being dissed feels this is their only way of being loved then you are in for a lonely loveless life. ALL this points to a part of our MENTAL HEALTH keep doing what you do I look at it as PSA for the community you're doing a great service ok I'm done preaching

@iamsebastien

2 жыл бұрын

This right here just made my day! Preach anytime you think you want to. That’s why I’m here and thank you 🤗🤗🤗

@user-ut7hh3zb2f

2 ай бұрын

I love this -- You get the respect you give. Too many people demand respect but treat others horribly.

I’m hoping that we eventually get to a place some women have, where we view ourselves as the prize. Rather than falling over each other for tops recognize that we are valuable and not every dude deserves access to us. I’ve heard us refer to tops or straight men as “real men” but then what are we saying about ourselves?

@iamsebastien

Жыл бұрын

Valid point here!

Omg I’m made at KZread not showing me the notifications.. come on boo .. you better talk . I don’t like to label my sexual position because there are days that I lean heavier on one side than the other or neither at all

@iamsebastien

2 жыл бұрын

Yyyyaaaasss!!! Always good seeing your comments!!! 🤗🤗🤗

@shakawalker9921

Жыл бұрын

Same here

On bottom shaming.it is one thing to discretely say to your partner,hey..you might want to go clean up.. It's another to literally bully. As if LGBTQ aren't marginalized enough by the world as is.y'all marginalized yourselves,too

Let's not shame anyone :)

I'm a tomboyish lesbian. I'm not a dyke..cringe word, or a stud or whatever but I'm not feminine. I hate being referred to as a dyke..period, or even viewed as a stud...I'm just a masculine/tomboyish woman. I still acknowledge my femininity and womanistic qualities, and I love being a female.

I Love it! I will talk about it on my Chanel thanks your vid helped me alot

I love the way you speak😍

@iamsebastien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you love bug!

Hey, bestie.we just moved over the weekend.same building different unit.and,my birthday is technically today.feb.8.i turn 43

❤

Why can't u just switch ......

Certainly, everyone is free to express themselves, but the problem for those who are effeminate lies in the fact that the vast majority (or almost all) of gays (active or passive, masculine or feminine, young or old, rich or poor, educated or poorly educated, fat or thin, stylish or ordinary, carnivore or vegetarian, sporty or sedentary), is attracted only, exclusively or predominantly by masculine gays.

@naobe5

Жыл бұрын

Brainwashing is real!!!

@alanaban1840

4 ай бұрын

First it is not ok to be gay / it is a false / like charges repel each other/ that is normal/ men was not design to Play the role of a woman in sex/ the ass is a exit not an entrance/ get this / sex was ment between man and woman/ not man and man

@alanaban1840

4 ай бұрын

Stupid to be bottom / that is for woman

First comment gorgeous!

@iamsebastien

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

Babe! I misssssssss you.

@iamsebastien

2 жыл бұрын

Awe I’m here!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

Very instructive video. Thanks....I'd loved to be bottom shamed but the gay community has decided that because I'm black, tall and muscular and not flamboyant....I CAN'T be a bottom!!!

@iamsebastien

Жыл бұрын

Not a lie told here, but remember you have the right to enjoy what you like no matter how you look.

Are you a bottom?

Bestieeee

@iamsebastien

2 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗🤗