"I'm not trying to discuss the African diaspora and 400 yrs of Trans-Atlantic slavery while grocery shopping for apples and peanut butter" Ha! Luv it!

@AsToldbyGabbie

9 ай бұрын

lol I'm trying to get my snacks and leave!

@prettybrwneyez7757

4 ай бұрын

Okay!!!!! ❤❤❤

@mathisbailey794

4 ай бұрын

My favorite part in the video

@lz.leigh999

2 ай бұрын

yesssss

I’m African American 🇺🇸 living in Spain and I 100% agree with everything you said lol. They stare ALOT mostly out of curiosity but it can get a bit uncomfortable.When you speak Spanish it does seem that they open up ALOT! It’s a beautiful country and it has a lot to offer you’re video was perfect ! 💪🏾 Enjoy !🇪🇸

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

you get it! yeah I try to use Spanish as my default especially because it helps to learn faster. Thank you so much!

@MariE-bz2eq

Жыл бұрын

I kinda want to visit. My grand father is from Spain. I'm not tryna get stared at like I'm an exhibit

@TheSamuelbest12

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry, I'm spaniard and many people here are racially ignorant, Black people exist here and people know it, but many still see it as something shocking, I hate those people

@helprehouseourvets6919

Жыл бұрын

Wrong sweetie. You are NOT African American (if you were BORN in America & are the direct decendant of slaves). You are an American of African decent. African-Americans are actually immigrants who became American citizens. That's the whole and complete difference and truth. Have a very blessed day!

@slickwilly6868

11 ай бұрын

​@@TheSamuelbest12 How would a black person be treated in rural spain?

I love this commentary. When you spoke on the fact that sometimes Black people are seen as caricatures or a form of entertainment 😢You hit the nail on the head.

@AsToldbyGabbie

9 ай бұрын

thank you!

“You know you’re American, but you don’t really feel a part of the American experience” this was the most perfect way to describe something that I feel like I’ve been trying to describe my whole life being Latina. I never felt like I ever had the privilege of using it as part of my identity ( living in the U.S) especially when people ask “where are you actually from?”

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

you get it! it's hard girl

@BronzeSista

2 жыл бұрын

I do feel that I am American. My family has been in America for many generations. Though our ancestors were from Africa. I feel no kinship to Africa. I'm just an American, who is Black.

@lupeavalos9342

2 жыл бұрын

USA is different usa is shit . I left America I went to live in Mexico and Spain . Spain is fab big sub for all Latin

@daniella8400

2 жыл бұрын

@@BronzeSista same!

@LM-cl6ys

2 жыл бұрын

I love it! “ I don’t feel like getting into the African diaspora and 400 years of slavery in the grocery line .” 🤣🤣🤣 real talk…

As a Spaniard, I cannot understand people insisting on the "where are you really from" question. We all have seen hundreds of movies about the slave trade from Africa to North & South America, and it is obvious that has happened generations ago. Quite stupid to expect that you could know from where exactly in Africa would your ancestors come from. It makes more sense to think if they were expecting you to say: Harlem, New Orleans, Alabama, Georgia,... Still quite stereotypical, but at least a bit more logical question.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

agreed!

Gabbie, next you'll have to do "Being Beautiful in Spain" You're so darn cute! I just got back from Barcelona and loved it!!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

🤧 printing this comment as physical evidence! haha thank you :) barcelona is a really cool city!

@mauricio5486

Жыл бұрын

lol what? spaniards are known for being hot and beautiful people lol she isnt the only one 🤣

@xxcherrycatsupxx

6 ай бұрын

omg seriously, I kept thinking wow shes smart and gorgeous! ty for the video :) These conversation are so valuable! it's especially good to know the level of intolerance tied to a place as a person who is thinking of moving to Spain. It's never easy to talk about, but deeply appreciated!

@Rain-sj4wc

Ай бұрын

​@@mauricio5486it was a joke 🙄

In Spain we love black american people cause of the culture you have exported. Bel air prince, Steve Urkel, Michael Jackson, Basket stars, hip-hop, R&B, Whoopi Goldberg, Octavia Spencer, fried chicken haha, Beyoncé, Tina, Eddie Murphy, jazz, soul, gospel, infinite stuff etc. Usually blacks are represented as the most cool, natural, flowed, skills to express, funny, art gifted, sensitive people etc and all those adjectives could match with Spaniard’s personality too. We feel more identify with you than the classic barbie princess blue eyed, we feel your vibe.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

haha you know a lot!

@sgthomas98

Жыл бұрын

President Barack Obama, Michelle Obama, etc…

@SRBOMBONICA86

3 ай бұрын

​@@sgthomas98he is a war criminal,very hated outside USA

@sgthomas98

2 ай бұрын

@LunaLuna-jz1uq what wars did Barack Obama and Michelle START, Confucius?

Spaniard here. Thanks for sharing your experience. This all makes absolute sense to me. I find it frustrating how people don’t realise that racism doesn’t have to be blatant or ill-intentioned to be racism. I feel like the topic needs to be more discussed in society, which I believe is finally starting to happen, also because we’re (slowly) starting to have more POC and descendants of immigrants in positions of power. Of course, such debates also spark ignorant opinions about freedom of speech and so on, but I guess that’s just part of the journey in the right direction. 🙌🏽

@ahhmeeman

9 ай бұрын

POSITIONS OF POWER ARE NOT "POWER" THEY ARE AN ILLUSION OF INCLUSION AND THE BIT ABOUT ILL INTENTIONED!?!?!?!?!??!? METHINKS YOU MEAN UN -INTENTIONED RACISM, IS EASY TO ANSWER, WOULD THEY BE OKAY IF BLACK PEOPLE CAME UP AND ASKED TO TOUCH THEIR HAIR OR STEER AT THEM IN RESTAURANTS, AND I THINK YOU WILL FIND IT WAS INTENTIONAL JUST NORMALIZED THROUGH PRIVILIDGE, AND I HAVE NEVER EVER EVER SEEN A BLACK POLITITIAN REPRESENTING A WHITE COUNTRY SPEAK FREELY OR IN ANY REPRESENTATION OUTSIDE OF AFRICA EVER DO THAT IN FACT WE NEED MOVIES ABOUT WAKANDA JUST TO EMBRACE OUR CULTURE OPENLY, AND LET ME BE CLEAR HEAR THIS IS JUST A FEMALE EXPERIENCE ITS NO WHERE NEAR AS CHALLENGING AS A BLACK MAIL HAS TO NAVIGATE

@gy3623

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for this comment. I am a Spaniard of African descent.

@ahhmeeman

8 ай бұрын

POC!?!?!?!?!?!, POSITIONS OF POWER!?!?!?!?!?!?!, FIRST OF ALL SO CALLED "POC" IS NOT A SHARED EXPERIENCE ITS A SYMPATHETIC EXPERIENCE AT MOST AND NOT AN "EMPATHIC" EXPERIENCE, AND 2ND TOKENISM IS IS NOT POWER, ALL YOU ILLUSION OF INCLUSIONISTS ARE JUST THE CURTAIN "VEIL" THAT CLOAKS THE WIZARD OF OZ TO PLAY US ALL GTFOH 👊🏾👑👊🏾

Thank you for being candid and considerate to everyone’s POV. You were smart to be fair, not fearful to be upfront. These types of videos are useful. Can help so many others.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for recognizing that! I think its really important especially while living abroad in different cultures

I'm so glad I found your videos. I am considering teaching in Spain after I graduate this upcoming academic year. AND YES I HAVE THE SPIDEY SENSE!!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

I love to hear that! Do it! 10/10 would recommend. Lol, you get it!

I am black African 2nd generation from Spain. And everything you said it’s in point. I wouldn’t say they are straight racist it’s more general ignorance and stereotypes( from TV) but in general they are very friendly and even if you speak a little Spanish they are happy with that . And believe me, is not that they are proud of Speaking Spanish is that the average level of English is not good at all 😅a lot of people struggle with it. But yes! It’s a plus to learn the language specially the typical expressions, so you don’t misinterpret their intentions, Spanish we are very expressive and talkative people. I was the only black girl in my school and never had any racist issues just average “dumb”questions about my hair or if my skin get more tonned in summer 🤣🤣. And yes they treat Americans better, as someone commented, if you come from a “rich “ country they will treat you different rather than if you come from another no so “privileged “ country. So the racism it’s not so much with black people , but I’ve heard multiple times racists comments about South Americans, Eastern Europeans and North Africans( from Arabs countries). It doesn’t mean every body is racist, a few, I guess like everywhere. In general it’s a very safe country, I’ve never feared for my security when I was there and when I always come back to visit family and friends I come back full of energy and happiness, because the sun, cheerful people, great food, beautiful cities and lots of fun. So people don’t be scared to go an live there because I am sure you will have a good time.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

agreedd

@Oll_704

4 ай бұрын

Although you have valid points it didn’t necessarily negate the racism. A society can have issues with both racism and classism.

Thanks for sharing your experience, it is always enriching to know what it is like the same place from other perspectives. Glad to see you are happy in Spain and you understand that people are often curious rather than other thing

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

No problem, thank you for watching!

Aahh!! I’ve missed your videos! ❤️❤️ thank you for this video and always sharing your experiences!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

I love this comment! Thank you so much :)

Moved to Spain during a tumultuous time in the US is an understatement... I cannot imagine the questions they have for you about racial confrontations in the most diverse yet most divided country on Earth at this point in time. I hope you continue to enjoy the friendly and curious citizens of Spain. I lived in Mexico as an Asian American for years, and that was a real eye opener. Spanish is a great asset to have in your arsenal, language breaks down the barriers.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! it has definitely been an experience but I still love it here

I just found your KZread channel and I have been binge watching cause it’s very interesting 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

awww I love this! thank you for watching : )

Thanks so much for this video Gabbie! Most of the things you’ve mentioned I’ve had the same experience as well, I’ve been living in Spain for about a year and six months now. I’m still trying not to get offended by a lot of things that they’re curious about or how directly they speak, at first I used to really be mad when I try to speak to someone and they say”¿Qué? Dime” 😂😂😂😂😂 I really found that disrespectful. More videos please!!! ❤️❤️❤️ and yes you’re a beautiful black queen 👑

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome! Thank you for watching! And yeah girl I get it lol. But I'll also say, and I wish I had mentioned it in the video, that it's okay if you are offended by something to express that in a way that is still respectful of the culture if it's a cultural thing that was offensive. I think of it more as a cultural exchange/awareness. If I was doing something to offend a group of people I would want to know and I would hope that they would too. Whether or not changes are made is a different story, as we've seen with some holiday customs here, and maybe change isn't the expectation but I think it's important that it's said to at least make them aware of why people might be angry so that there's no confusion. But lol yes the way they speak can at times be refreshing and sometimes like damnnnnn lol. More videos on the way!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

And as far as Black queens go, real recognizes real girl

As a black woman who has traveled abroad for several years I have you say, try to get past the staring. It's usually out of fascination, and questions about you. When I was in Vietnam and Thailand, smiling and/or waving went a long way. Especially in Vietnam. People would bring their children to me and try to get them talking to me. I fully acknowledge that racism exist in many different iterations all over the world. It is usually borne out of ignorance. Trying to communicate and being kind is disarming, and in my experience usually changes how a situation plays out. I should also add that I feel like Asians are much more gentle than Europeans. I've been to Europe many times too, not Spain but other countries there, and I must say in the Asian countries I've been to people are much more friendly and open. Europeans not so much.

@katerinapetrova245

2 жыл бұрын

This honestly made me feel better

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing! I've never been to Asia but I'd love to visit one day. As far as being open and friendly I think it's different in each country that I've been to and can even vary from person to person but overall I've had really good experiences!

Omg I look up to you:) I wanna be a teacher abroad when I'm older and youre such a great guide to what I should expect ❤️ thank you

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

You're so sweet! and please do it! glad i could help in some small way :)

Thank you so much for this. Planning on going to BnC and your video really opened my mind.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! It's still a great place to visit you just have to be more careful and aware than I was at the time lol

Hi Gabbie! I love your videos and I’m glad I found them! I think it’s interesting that you express your experience alone compared to your white counterparts. It’s ideal that the natives in Spain may have assumed that you are American and trying to learn their language, and/or Afro-Latinx. As I’ve visited Barcelona, I typically got the narrative that they believed I was in University studying or Afro-Latinx. Which I took both as a compliment because either way they only spoke Spanish to help further my practice with Spanish. Overall I am loving this video, and I definitely would like to see more of your experiences of dating as a Black woman in Spain, and in comparison to dating while you were in The United States.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Hey girl! Thank you for watching! Lol same it got to the point when I was studying abroad that I would explore the city alone and make new friends to practice my spanish. I'll try to get a dating video in the works lol but im nervous!

I really enjoyed your video and enjoyed hearing your perspective on living in Spain.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching!

Great video and thank you for sharing your perspective. I just got back from Barcelona and had an amazing time, even considering moving out there.

@AsToldbyGabbie

10 ай бұрын

thank you! Barcelona is a good time haha one of the places I visited my first time in spain. You should do it!

Hi Gabbie. Thank you for sharing your experience in a educated smart and positive way.I am a Puerto Rican living in the US for several years now. My hope and plans for the future are to retire to Barcelona. I have some roots from Spain. All this years in US have been full a good and not so good learning experiences. I have been in love twice to American men but I feel like they treated me in a certain way because of me being latina, not at the same level as they would treat white woman. That's was painful and interesting. Lol! Same on previous jobs experiences. Definitely not the case now working for a company that handles diversity extremely well. Anyways I wish you all the best. Thank you again. Delmarie

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

hey girlie! you're welcome! I'm glad that you're in a better situation now and I hope that you're able to move over here :) Wishing you the best as well, thank you!

Looking forward to hearing more experiences!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm excited to share!

Thank you very much for posting this. I will be traveling to Spain for a week trip in September and yes I have been a bit uneasy because anytime I hear anything about Spain and black people, it has never been positive,l. I am hoping and praying for a good vacation when I go, so thank you for giving a better update about people from Spain.

@feli634

Ай бұрын

Te an contado el cuento del reves por parte de la masoneris inglesa en España la esclavitud estaba prohibido,los matrimonios entre razas era legal todos los españoles de América de todas las razas tenía los mismos derechos que los españoles de la península,en ,los años 1650 avía un director en la universidad de granada ,el primer negro en una universidad fe EEUU fue en los , años 1940,los matrimonios interraciales en EEUU,a partir fe los años ,1940 ,o sea enserio nosotros somos los racistas?bueno siempre ay algo de racismo en todas partes

Thank you for your transparency. I’m in college and I’m planning to study abroad in Barcelona this Summer. Your video was very insightful.

@AsToldbyGabbie

10 ай бұрын

good luck friend! i hope you have the best time :)

@goawayplease6456

Ай бұрын

​@@AsToldbyGabbiewhat job do you have that allows you to live there?

Hi Gabbie!! My name is Victoria- I found your channel while surfing KZread for "black girl in barcelona" videos. I know--random. What struck me is your username!! I too am an "As Told by" lol and I found it to be so amazing. I don't know you at all but I wish you much success in your endeavors in Spain and wherever else your journey takes you! God bless.

@astoldbyvictoria

2 жыл бұрын

For context btw- I was randomly looking up flights to Barcelona yesterday (I wanna learn Spanish) hence the YT search, fingers crossed I get to visit in the future!! Meanwhile I have your vids on DECK!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Victoria! haha great minds think a like! Thank you so much! This message is beautiful and honestly made my morning :) I wish the same to you and hope that you are able to make it over here at some point!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Spain is one of the best places to learn and fully immerse yourself, 10/10 would recommend! Or any other Spanish speaking country really. I have the travel bug now and would love to study in South/Central America too. Good luck!

Thank you for sharing this video! I will be studying abroad soon and have been struggling to find content from African American women about their experiences in Spain.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! thank you for watching :) I'll try to get some more videos out soon!

You are very intelligent Gabi and quite broad-minded. I've lived in Spain and miss it a lot! Thanks for a great video!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Moving abroad has been really enriching for me :) YW! Thank you for watching!

Very good video sister, you put me at ease in regards to visiting Spain.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm happy to hear that :)

Thank you for this video I want to study abroad in Spain this is probably the most helpful video I’ve found.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

omggg that makes me so happy! I'm glad you were able to find it useful in some way :) good luck with your study abroad journey!

I thoroughly enjoyed your video. You are funny and refreshing in your recounting of experiences and the info you shared. Can identify with you, even though I was in Spain in the late 90s! It was a truly memorable experience, and I had the time of my life. That part when you said as you experience negative interactions as a Black person, there's always that thought in your head of was that just...?....Nah...maybe? That is the truth for us. No matter what, continue to enjoy your time!!

Thank you for this insightful video!

I'm glad I found your video! I am considering au pairing in Spain in 2022 to improve my Spanish and to explore Europe. Glad to here over all your experience in Spain as a black woman is good!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you found it too! I had a few au pair friends and its a great way to learn! It really has, my experience isn't representative of everyones and I'm sure there are times that are difficult for some people but I've been really blessed in that regard!

Okay but you are so PRETTY!!! I love your hair! I am hoping to study abroad to Barcelona from North Carolina this June so, Thank you for the video!! So insightful! Now i know not to be offended by their staring lol

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

omg thank you 🤗! you're so welcome! good luck!!

I am Canadian and I’m also Black. My parents immigrated to Canada from Trinidad in 1968 when I was two. My first memory is a townhouse in Brampton, Ontario, Canada. When I’m asked, “Where are you from”, my answer is Brampton. When I get the follow up question, “Where are you from originally”, it’s usually with a “yeah right” tone in their voice and a snug look on their face. At that point, they only get negative attitude from me.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

the "yeah right" tone is what irritates me the most

This is amazing to listen to. Am considering living in Spain and thankful I found this account. Where did you go to school? Curious as you mentioned being from and studying in Virginia... I lived in Richmond for 10+ years. Did you go to VCU?! Cool to see you've lived in Virginia and Spain. Also excited to watch the rest of your videos and hopefully hear your Spanish!! 😁

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You should do it, 10/10 would recommend especially if you're already considering it. I went to Virginia Tech. Thanks for watching!

Thank you for being honest in this video, your a good speaker and real as a black women I need to here this.

@AsToldbyGabbie

6 ай бұрын

thank you! so glad that it was helpful :)

If you're were white he wouldn't have asked that question but he should know white Americans is not originally Americans they're European Americans.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

agreed! lol you get it

"I know your family has been in America for 400 years *but where are you really from* " EDIT: Do white Americans get asked where they're really from 🤔

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

this!!

@gailmedina5283

2 жыл бұрын

I am white, and only non-Americans ask me where I’m really from. I so appreciate your perspective Gabbie, and I know that racism is everywhere. I see it all the time, living in a diverse city.

Your skin is so amazing! & Gorgeous ❤️

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

haha thank you!!

Hi Gabbie! I wanted to start by saying great video and thanks for sharing your experience with us. As someone who has traveled to almost 20 different countries the "where are you REALLY from" question annoys me for more reasons than one. The first is that African American culture can be found in every corner of the world but in 2021 people still have no idea that we aren't immigrants. We are also the 2nd largest Black population outside of Africa (Brazil is the first). When a Black Brazilian says that they are from Brazil, no one is going to ask them anymore questions. The same goes for any other country in the American continent, despite the fact that none of us are indigenous to that land. At some point people need to educate themselves and stop expecting complete strangers to list off their family tree. The second thing I wanted to say is, respectfully, please do not feel that we don't know our "lineage". You're an African American woman from Virginia with West and Central African roots. I'm an African American woman from Louisiana with West and Central African roots.Our ethnicity and identity is just as valid as anyone else's and more than enough.

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

Hi and thank you for watching! I agree that it's not our jobs to continuously explain our existence. As far as lineage I'm more so referring to the fact that a lot of Black Americans aren't able to identify which African country that they are specifically from. Yes I can probably guess West or Central Africa but I could never know for sure unless I did some extensive research as I've only been able to trace some of my family tree back to the late 1800s. Also West and Central African countries, while on the same continent, are widely different with language, food, culture, etc. Rather than knowing a general area I'd love to know more specifics and learn more because it's a part of who I am and I wouldn't be here without it. I don't think that wanting to know more about where I come from invalidates my current African American identity if anything I think that it will enrich it even more.

@nadiaburnett1933

3 жыл бұрын

​@@AsToldbyGabbie Hi again! I wasn't suggesting that there's an issue with you wanting to know more about your African ancestry. I was commenting on the way you phrased your statement about us "not knowing our lineage" or where we're from because we know both of those things. No, we don't know where our ancestors were from specifically as we are almost 500 years removed from the African continent, but I disagree with the way it was worded. I think this sentiment is expressed by African Americans quite often but I've never heard any other Black group say that about themselves, even those who are also descendants of enslaved people.

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

@@nadiaburnett1933 Hey! Gotcha, that's fair. I think for me personally the word lineage fits because I'm referring to specific people. I know or can at least approximate my ancestry but I don't know names, I don't know stories, and I don't have any documents the way some of my Non-Black friends do because those things and opportunities were stolen from our history as descendants from enslaved people. I agree it is expressed by Black Americans a lot because it's true. But that doesn't mean we did anything wrong and I don't think there's any shame in saying that. As a child of parents from different parts of the diaspora, I see and can kinda understand why at least the other Black groups don't. The part of me that can trace back to a Caribbean country is less curious about digging deeper than the part of me that is Black American. But from what I have observed in my family, it's because they feel more tied and rooted to that country even though it may not be the country that they technically descended from. The language, the food, the culture, etc. are all things that they are able to hold on to when they move away from those places and pass them on to their children. As Black Americans we also have our own culture within the U.S. that is specific to us but I've noticed that the love for our current country of residence isn't felt in the same way if that makes sense.

@FreeToBe_Me

Жыл бұрын

No black ppl in the diaspora can point to a specific African country if slavery is in their history. It’s not a black American thing. Carribeans, Afro Latinos, Haitians, etc., also “don’t know where their from.” Only AAs are questioned because we come from a majority white country. The other countries are seen as black so those ppl don’t get questioned.

@chonrae

Жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie Now you're going to have me saying, "Oh! you mean where are my great-grandparents from?? The US!!" That is CRAZY! But, I get it.

I love ❤️ you. I smiled throughout this whole vid you are beautiful and a strong black queen 👑

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

omgggg thank you!! this made my day!

Important video!! Thank you!!

Appreciate the video. I've been debating on going to Spain myself. Also from Virginia too

@AsToldbyGabbie

6 ай бұрын

yw! i recommend

this is so helpful as I consider moving to Spain!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad it was helpful for you!

So I learned Spanish 3 years ago, European Spanish and I live in the US. I’ve noticed that men typically respond in English, and women are intrigued that a black American speaks Spanish and only want to speak Spanish. Even the ones that just know like 5 words of english still respond in english. When I go to Hispanic parts of town they just assume I’m from the islands. For whatever reason to a lot of Latinos, a black person who speaks Spanish is automatically Dominican Cuban or Puerto Rican, as if no other countries have black Spanish speakers. It’s always funny. When they respond to me in English I just stay in English. What do you do?

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

now that I think about it you're right about that! haha that's interesting. and also same I usually get asked if I'm Dominican. I used to let them set the precedent until I realized ppl were using me to learn english for free and I wasn't even learning any Spanish. now I try to do a mix because I want to learn too!

You got a new follower today girl😍😍😘😘

@AsToldbyGabbie

10 ай бұрын

tysm!! trying to get better about posting more consistently!

Good one!🙌🏽 I’m a Latina Negra and I know what your talking about. That sense or gut feeling develops from prior experience.👀 Thank you for sharing🥰💋

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

that gut feeling is something special

@emanueldelacruz1101

2 жыл бұрын

Parker is not a very Latin last name.

@Zarigueyaa

2 жыл бұрын

@@emanueldelacruz1101 well, she may have Caribbean roots in her family. Caribbean and Central American countries have a lot of British surnames due to them (the English/Scottish/Irish) having settlements on the coasts. I say this because I’m from Central America, and in my country, you see people with last names like hers, Smith, Taylor, Williams, Wilson, etc. Not saying it’s her case but a possibility:)

Great info! I'll be moving to Marbella from the Netherlands soon!

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

sounds amazing!! never been but it's definitely on my list

Whooohooo! You’re back! Would i be able to msg you on socials or something for a must see/do in Madrid /Spain? I’m traveling there for a few weeks with my brother and i have no idea what to do!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

I'm hereeeeee! Sure! Message me on Instagram :)

Ah you posted this at the right time. I’m moving there soon and I’m kinda nervous haha.

@dubwavy6386

3 жыл бұрын

For school ?

@olamideishie538

3 жыл бұрын

Same😭😹

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

That's great! Not gonna lie it's a bit nerve wrecking at first but I have loved my experience! I hope you will too :)

@victoriabrimm5014

3 жыл бұрын

@@dubwavy6386 yes for school.

I appreciate you expressing your opinion. I hope all is well for you.

@AsToldbyGabbie

9 ай бұрын

thank you!

I've gotten the "but where are you really from" question as a Black American in the US from other Americans. I feel it comes from a place of ignorance and stereotypes (a side effect of racism). They see me has not being the stereotype they have in their head and think I'm from somewhere else.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

agreed

@lucymo6540

Жыл бұрын

It’s not really from a place of ignorance. It’s just a common European thing (however how annoying it may be). Black Americans have been in America for hundreds of years. Large Black migration to Europe began in the 1950s (for the uk), 1990s/2000s in Spain etc A lot of black people in Europe and generally are first or second generation. Our parents, grandparents or ourselves migrated from Africa or the Caribbean to Europe. So a lot of us know our parents language, food, culture etc That’s the norm for black people in Europe. So when people ask “where we’re really from” it’s because we are not native to here and know our heritage. So when we see a black person saying their just American. We forget that you don’t know your lineage unfortunately because it’s not the norm for a black person HERE not to know their lineage

@purplelove3666

Жыл бұрын

It's not ignorance, they really want to know where you are from

@damonmcdowelljr2782

Жыл бұрын

I personally wouldn't be very offended by such a question, yet still. Would they ask a white American that question? African Americans have been in the United States for centuries. Most of us have blood stretching back before the United States became the United States. I can see why another black American could be a little ticked off.

@rosamattisse4652

Жыл бұрын

@@purplelove3666 as a person who got this question all my life (ironically 100% Spanish anscestry), growing up in the Midwest, I can assure you that for people who get this question it doesn’t at all feel innocuous. You know you are being instantly “othered”, by the person asking this question. I’ve counseled anyone I can to never ask this question. Basically, if you wouldn’t ask a blond American where they’re from, why ask a person of any color? Do people care if someone’s ancestors were Hungarian, French, German or Dutch? Do they ask them about their heritage? Probably not. So if you’re a person who gets that question all the time, it’s immediately uncomfortable.

Girl I experienced the same thing in South Korea. I'd be out with friends (ex-pats and Koreans!!) and the waiter or owner would look at me and start speaking Korean. I had a similar experience being Black in Korea with microaggressions and curious questions, but I loved it. I am going to apply to teach English in Madrid next year, which was very helpful!

@latinoflair9283

Жыл бұрын

cool 😎

@Not_Lactoselntolerant

8 ай бұрын

Have you ever considered that he might not be able to speak in other languages besides Korean? After all, he's Korean living in South Korea... 🙄

@sydneygreene3096

8 ай бұрын

If you watched the video and actually read my comment you’d realize I wasn’t saying it’s weird he was speaking Korean but rather as the only foreigner at the table it’s funny that they would let me take charge of ordering, but good try though!

Hello! Im from Spain and I wanted to say that as you said the problem some Spanish people come up with are immigrants I find that is not the color of the skin as more the money you have. People here I don’t really think they have a problem with the color of the skin but with where you come from. As you are from the United States you have different privileges here than other people from other countries. It also can happen to white inmigrants like romanians for example. Spain is the “gate” to Europe so there is a lot and I say a lot of immigration, so that is mostly the problem they find, which country you are from, one with money or one without it? For some reason there is people in this country that think that those without money just came here to take it from us because they are going to take our jobs, which is super absurd. I wish there were less people who cared about the precedence of the people. In my opinion no matter the color or procedente you have every right as a human being to live here, and I wish everyone in Spain gives you the best experience posible! I’m sorry for those that don’t give you that experience and hope that you can overcome the rude people and meet nice one to have the best time you can here 🤗

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

it's a similar problem in the U.S. as well but overall I am really enjoying myself and have had mostly positive experiences! it's a beautiful country

@joeydelmarco9879

2 жыл бұрын

I wanted to study there because I really enjoy the culture But now I'm rethinking

@wtfisthis96

2 жыл бұрын

@@joeydelmarco9879 go study there, it's a beautiful country and there's a lot of different cultures and different places to see.

I know this video is old, but it's EVERYTHING! Also, you're gorgeous! Hope you are still having am amazing time and staying safe. Happy Thanksgiving :)

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

omg thank you, you're so sweet! I am lol "one year" has turned into 3 haha. Happy New Year!

First of all your gorgeous 😍 ur skin is flawless and I believe the people are enamored by ur beauty period. My husband and I are thinking of retiring somewhere in Spain. My question is hair care! Did u find someone to twist ur hair or do u do it yourself? What about hair care products 🤔 cause lord knows I need My conditioners and My moisturizers lol like can u tell me a little bit about that?

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

Thank youuu omg that's so kind of you to say :) I do my hair myself! I started learning through KZread in college and I just watch a new video if I wanna switch it up haha. As far as hair care products, I usually bring mine from the U.S. and make them last because it can be pretty expensive to ship them. In larger cities like Madrid and Barcelona there are more options but you probably won't find the same caliber that you're used to in the U.S. During the lockdown last year I ordered braiding hair off of AliExpress for knotless braids and it took about 2-3 weeks to arrive. I think in some of the FB groups people have posted good sites that are a bit cheaper

Am moving there at the end of the year and this is helpful...thank you

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad it was helpful! good luck!!

I’m just curious do you do your own hair or did you find a salon down there. That’s really important factor to me. Loved the video btw very informative.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I appreciate that :) I do my own hair! I started doing my own hair in college and just refer to KZread to learn new styles but depending on where you are located there are a couple salon options but definitely not like in the U.S.

This video just brought me so much peace! lol

@AsToldbyGabbie

10 ай бұрын

this made my heart smile

@Astoldygabbie Loved this video. Where do you get your hair done? That's my only problem in taking the big leap to move. I'll be in Barcelona but I don't mind taking a train to go get my hair done somewhere.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I actually do it myself but there are more shops and things popping up that I've heard of to get it done

Great video - in my time in Europe, I agree with most of these points 1. The NYC and LA questions is so real lol ... yall know there's other cities right?! 2. The prioritizing of nationality over race and ethnicity def takes getting used to 3. The immediate disarming of prejudice when they hear an American accent is something I experienced as well

I lived in spain for a study abroad program in 2017 and whew...I experienced all of that! I found barcelona and the southern parts more qlecoming which is funny bc that was when catalan were trying to succeed. There were even posters and graffiti telling immigrants and foreigners to get out. Kinda scary but I'd visit again its a beautiful place

I definitely can feel it . I hate they r watering down your experience. I can’t deal

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

it is what it is but I refuse to let them ruin my time here and I'm really enjoying myself!

Hey girl Hey!! I'm so glad I came across your video. Are you still living in Spain? I'll be moving in September and I'm not terribly nervous about moving. But one of my main concerns is speaking the language. I've taken Spanish in school but honeeeyyy when I tell you a sista has forgotten a lot lol Like its real. And I could always read Spanish really well, it's the speaking that makes me nervous! Are you ever nervous when you have to hold a conversation or ask a question? Is it one of those things where you just have to keep doing it to become comfortable? Oh also, I'm coming from EC-VA as well!

@Floren_Andro

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, Im Spaniard and i can tell you... Just try to speak spanish, and do it slowly. Only with that tiny effort, "almost every" Spaniard will help you anytime. If this dont happen the first time, just try again. Remember that Spain is a contry with 47 million people AND 90 Million Tourist a year. So may be you chose the wrong one :)

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Hey! and yes lol I love it. I completely understand! I was in the same boat when I first moved to Spain but it gets easier with practice. I do still get nervous sometimes but the more you speak the more comfortable you get and easier the language comes to you. It's important to let yourself make mistakes because that's how you learn. definitely keep going and pushing through! good luck!

I was born in Madrid and I thought about moving back and the racism always annoys me. I have a God mother and some friends that still live in Spain and I realized if I'm out and about with them then things are rather tame, but by myself it's like what you said with the curiosity just comes in such waves. It's like woooo! I don't mind the questions it's the sometimes rude comments that follow the curious questions. My parents were born in America, their parents are from America their parents were born in America, but their parents came from I don't know where. My Sister and I are from Spain. Shoot my American friends (ALL THE COLORS OF THE RAINBOW) always ask the same type of questions. Can you twerk, can you sing like Beyonce or Whitney. Can you braid my hair?! It's like WHAT?!

I was born and raised in Spain and I can tell you that here they will ask you were are from even if you was born here. They won’t consider you from Spain truly (most of them) for them we are all from Africa. When they ask you about your hair, your culture… is because they really wanna know and learn, bc of the bad image that the media puts on inmigrantes. Some people are really ignorant, like really ignorant. But in general they are really nice and lovely people, they will hug you and kiss you every time they see you. And yes, you’re not only gonna have bad experiences only from Spanish, also from other immigrants 😂 And PLEASE if you wanna travel more in Spain, search the places you wanna go. Bc there’s still a lot of racists places from the dictatorship. & excuse my English 😂

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@yendaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Your English is good 🥰

@WalterModel45

Жыл бұрын

Where do you lived? Maybe in some parts in central dpain or Andalusia... Where i lived came a lot ot latinoamericans and africans in the last 20 years and i never heard a bad word about it...

I don’t understand why they would not understand the connotations of the ’N’ word. Christopher Columbus colonized the western hemisphere on behalf of Spain. The ‘N’ word comes from Negro which is Spanish for black. They know… it came from them in the first place.

you are awesome I'm glad you used the word person which is nice every nationality have good and bad people wish you a sucessful and happiness

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

aww this is so sweet, thank you!

@nickyingtavorn5491

Жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie we are all respected each other

So glad to find your channel. I’m moving to Andalusia in September to teach English. Have u been to any of the cities in the region ? Was it a positive experience ?

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! I visited Sevilla, Cordoba, and Granada when I studied abroad in 2017 and I loved it! The cities are beautiful and there is so much culture there. It does get very hot in the summers tho. The food was good, the people were friendly, and I learned a lot while I was there 10/10 would recommend!

@tiffanyedmonds1082

2 жыл бұрын

Cool! I'll be there to teach English in Seville!

@syniahfeatherstone6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyedmonds1082 I’ll be in Malaga! Still waiting on my visa so stressful

@tiffanyedmonds1082

2 жыл бұрын

@@syniahfeatherstone6295 me too! But I got my ticket on faith and hopefully I’ll be there on the 28th. I’m trying to meet all the sistahs I can!

@syniahfeatherstone6295

2 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyedmonds1082 what’s your Instagram? We can connect on there!

This was really great

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

Hi! Please excuse me if I missed this in the video but which program are you with for the English teaching assistant job?

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

North American Language and Culture Assistants Program (NALCAP)!

You are a very pretty and educated young woman. Don’t feel offended by closed minded and ignorant people. In my country you are a “negra” but we don’t say it in a demeanor way. I’m Cuban and negros and blancos are all the same from where I come from. And as it should be. Keep thriving in Spain. It is a beautiful country. I am a Spaniard descent and wish I could live there instead of in the US. Good luck and GOD bless you!!! 😊

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :) I recognize that there are cultural differences and try to factor that in when I am reflecting on how something that was said made me feel or react and move from there. It's a process😂 but thank you, I appreciate it!

I'm a white Spaniard guy...and I love you, your skin and your beauty ❤️😘🌹

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

thank you, thats very kind!

Forgot to add, I’m in France and I noticed the same thing. Most of the rude interactions I’ve had have been with people who aren’t French.

@AsToldbyGabbie

10 ай бұрын

hello! idk where their bad rep comes from and i hope i never find out lol

@cloudsurfer73

10 ай бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie me either lol. I think I’ve just been lucky

Interesting experiences. I am living 10 years in South Spain and most people that ask me where I am REALLY from are foreighners. I was born in Holland and when I say that in Holland I always got that question too, here with Foreighners I quickly have to say, but Yeah my parents are from the Caribbean. Oh 100% true about learn Spanish, here they can speak english mostly, but they treat you "nicer" if you speak the language and they won't have to struggle with English!

Wait.... Is your name a reference to As Told By Ginger? lol Great stuff.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

you sir understood the assignment

I had the same experience. I was seen more as American and not Black. I studied in Alicante.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

love alicante❤️

I am planning to visit Spain Barcelona & Madrid

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

That's great! both cities are really fun

I have been asked that question so many times

Very interesting video. I think some of what you said about expectations can even be applied to the Black American experience. We don't all have the same experiences yet it's usually portrayed or insinuated like we do. I haven't had a lot of racist type issues in my lifetime and I'm in my 50's, very successful, and no I am not white passing. I've probably have had more negative experiences with other black people than I've had with white people. It puts me in a very weird position of people either discounting my experience or acting as if it doesn't count. I want to start traveling to some European countries. I appreciate the honesty of your review. I want to go to Italy because of all the architecture and was disappointed when I just watched a few videos that painted it in a negative light, but I won't let that discourage me because my love of art is too great. I seriously hope that after not being called the N words once in my life that I won't go to another country and be called it, but there are good, bad, and ignorant people everywhere. Thanks again. Will check out some of your other videos. Oh, an also, I don't know when the N word is coming because I've never had it directed at me, or even had it said by non-black people around me. No one in my family even uses that word and none of my friends or acquaintances, so if I hear it said by black people, it's on the street in passing. But again, I'm not your typical experience.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

thank you, and agreed! definitely don't let it discourage you, I think it's still worth it to visit. I've had great experiences in Italy but also made sure to mentally prepare myself before. good luck!

As a native Spaniard, I know that racism exists in Spain, but It is of a different nature than in North América. It is not so much based on skin color (we know that according to northern European or US standards, we are barely considered as 'white'). It is more based on the lack of interest of other ethnic or religious groups of people to accept & integrate in our communities, due to their creed or other reasons. In that sense we could be more 'racist' against pale White English tourists or residents that show zero respect or interest on our culture or language (even after living here for years), than towards Africans or South Americans.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, overall the racism here is a little bit different in my own personal experience. But I do think that it has to do with skin color because at the end of the day here when I encounter racist ppl (which isn't often) they don't care whether or not I'm American all they see is that I'm Black. I can tell the difference when they are annoyed or angry that I am American vs. when it is because I am Black, it's a lot more personal. I think what you're talking about is more about prejudice than racism. I am also bothered by the expats that refuse to learn about the language and or culture but choose to live here long term, it's pretty disrespectful of them in my opinion. In my experience as long as you make an effort, most Spanish ppl have been very welcoming

@piofernandez3301

2 жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie Sorry to hear that you are confronting racist attitudes & people here in Spain. I know it Is not the same, but I guess to some extent It could be comparable to some "unfriendly" reactions I perceived in the US when they heard me speaking in Spanish. Neverheless, not at all the common rule.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

@@piofernandez3301 it doesn't happen that often and in some ways it's better here than in the U.S. at times. I think that's a pretty good comparison!

@WalterModel45

Жыл бұрын

Inmigrants that call theirselfs "expats"

Thank you for this video. I'm an african based and raised in Norway that might move to Malaga for work a few months and I'm very curious about these things.. Do you know which city there might be more black people or immigrants?

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for watching :) I would say usually in the larger cities like Barcelona and Madrid and I also noticed that there was more diversity in the larger cities in the Andalucia region!

@johanna6550

2 жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie Thank you for replying me!

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

@@johanna6550 of course!

Is funny, because they find rude if you asked them what they do for a living, but at the same time they kind a feel entitled to ask constantly were are you from.

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

It is quite ironic isn't it 🙃

In Spain it is a tradition to tan your skin in summer, to be more handsome 😉😘

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I've noticed!

You must understand that for the Spaniards race was never a problem. The first black grammar professor in Spain was Juan de Sesa in the 16th century in Granada and he married a Spanish noblewoman. Our cultural context is different, in Seville the brotherhood of the blacks It was created by the black community that had

Great video.

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I appreciate that :)

Are you going to do a 2nd part on working and dating?? Great video btw!

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

Hi and thank you! I can! Do you have any specific questions?

@sakura-rc3ed

3 жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie i do, even though i'm not the original commenter 😂 how has dating been like or making new friends? did you have enough time to enjoy your own hobbies and meet people through that?

@erikahernandez5832

3 жыл бұрын

@@AsToldbyGabbie Hi Gabi! I’ll be moving to one of the balearic islands this upcoming October as a language assistant. I have a few questions since I will be traveling alone. First off, was it easy making friends in Spain? Where did you meet people/friends? Any recommendations on making friends with the locals? I am fluent in Spanish, not Spain Spanish though and I believe on the islands they speak Catalán. Also, what was your experience with dating? 😃 do you recommend using dating apps or meeting people at bars/social events? Lol sorry for being so nosy.

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

@@sakura-rc3ed haha no worries! I found making friends to be relatively easy when I first got here but I'm a pretty social person and I arrived here pre-pandemic. I would say its probably a bit harder now with all of the restrictions and things but not impossible just more effort. Dating is alright lol the language barrier is definitely a thing if you're not comfortable speaking but a lot of people my age have at least a very basic level of english and my Spanish is pretty decent so that helps a lot. Dating culture is a bit different here and hard to explain so maybe I'll make a video about that for more details

@AsToldbyGabbie

3 жыл бұрын

@@erikahernandez5832 To me yes but I also think that I got really lucky and was able to find really good people really early on and we stayed connected throughout the program even during the lockdown. I will say it has been harder to make Spanish friends in my experience but its not impossible. I met people threw the FB groups and we met when we arrived also some of the older auxes organized a meet and greet our first week here and I just made sure to make the effort to keep in touch with people! Invite them out for lunch or dinner, go to the beach together etc. As for making friends with locals, I'd say speaking the language will go a long way for you! As far as dating, I think apps are fine as long as you use them carefully and make your intentions known but I also think its fun to meet ppl out but sometimes its just not as easy. lol girl no worries!

The staring is not specifically for being black or different. We do stare a lot, regardless of circumstances. I have not notice it myself (of course) but I have seen a few videos lately of expats pointing that out.

I have encountered more racism in America than in Spain. I never had a Spaniard ask me why I speak Spanish unless it's a Spanaird from somewhere else like Peru. Granted I'm lightskinned and that may make a difference but definately I feel it more in America.

@AsToldbyGabbie You don´t need to take the question "Where are you from?" in that bad way. As you said, we are curious in the good way. In the US is very common to ask "What you do for living?", but in Spain we don´t really care.

Black Conquistadoresa and Generals in Spain WAAAAAAY befire the USA was even born. 1. Estebanico, Black muslim conquistador, sailed with Narvaez to Florida, a sea storm send them in the hands of natives which held them captive. Learn the languaje and became a celebrity Shaman amogst the Natives, traveled 10 years from florida to Nevada, as a Shaman along Cabeza de Vaca, super crazy story 2 Juan GArcia one of the conquistadores of the Inca Empire with Pizarro, he took part on the kidnap and ransom of Atahualpa and took his share (inmense wealth) Founder of Cuzco, He was in charge of counting and spliting all the gold the spanish took from Peru, He came back to Slain super rich and famous where he changed his name to Juan GArcia Pizarro 3 Sebastian Toral, Hero of the Conquest of Yucatan. Sold by the Porrtuguese as a Slave to Spanish conquistador Francisco De Montejo. During a Mayan ambush Toral saved his owners life and he said “a brave man is his own master” and freed him. He became best friend with the governor of Yucatan. A Military hero. He went dawn in history when he refused to pay taxes as he should be tax free sce was a hero. Local tax authority said that Africans should pay taxes, and if he wanted to be exempt go back to Spain and talk to the King……and he did, he managed to be received by the King who declared that he had been abbused by local tax men, and should be repaid with interests. 4. Juan Suero, Spanish General 1860 in Dominican War l Known as the black EL CID (see Charlton Heston Movie) for his exftraordinary bravery 5 juan Garrido, first African man into today’s US in 1508, Spanish conquistador, conqueror of Mexico with hernan Cortes FIRST PERSON TO GROW Wheat in America. Said to be the son of an African King whose father sent to Lisbon at 15 and was enslaved there and sold to a Spanish man o freed him. 6 Eusebio Puello y Castro 1859 Spanish Three star General, Medal of Honor equivalent, he charged against the rebels in Cuba saying “ i am a black guy and offer myself as a target (White) to the enemies of Spain” The all White men Spanish marine división he cpomanded followed him, sadly he took a bullet on his chest , 7 Juan Valiente Black Conquistador founder of Santiago de Chile as a free man

Thanks for making this! I feel like a lot of Europeans say or do things that show that they’re a bit naive and (usually pretty innocently) ignorant. But still ignorant so it can get a bit old 😅 Thanks for the info though! Im currently living in the UK and I’m considering moving somewhere warmer 😎😂

@AsToldbyGabbie

Жыл бұрын

no problem! thank you for watching :) lol you gave a great summary

If I asked you "where are you from" and you answered "I´m American", probably my next question would be : "Really? I´ve always wanted an American girlfriend!" 😁

27:39 i don't think u are seen as entertainment, u are simply identified in the culture that distinguish your people. For example, i am Italian, when foreigners meet me they always aske if I can make pizza, my Spanish bf always gets asked if he can dance flamenco, stuff like that

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I get what you're saying but those things don't represent everyone and it can at times be a bit insulting depending on the way people approach you but I guess it depends on the person and culture. I don't mind curiosity as long as it's done tastefully and respectfully. Typically you'd have to ask someone one if they are Italian. As someone who isn't Italian, I can't just look at someone and assume their nationality but someone can look at me and make assumptions about my race without ever having spoken to me and learning about me.

@Bayo106

2 жыл бұрын

@Paseos por Madrid doesn't matter its fucking annoying

Im going to madrid in a few days and im really worried about my hair and how I’ll be treated bc I feel like im gonna be so different from everyone around me lol

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

everyones experience is different! we cant control the way that people act towards us but we can control our reaction to these situations. the simple fact is youre gonna be different no matter what you do to your hair. I personally haven't had any negative interactions regarding my hair. I usually get a lot of compliments and/or questions if anything. Good luck! I hope you have an amazing time!

Where did you get your hair done?

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I do it myself!

Can I apply for a tourist visa to Spain and get a resident permit before my visa expired.anyway out

@AsToldbyGabbie

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure. It depends on where you are coming from and what country you hold citizenship in. I suggest reaching out to your embassy!

Not you breaking down the Atlantic Slave Trade at the super market 😭😭

@AsToldbyGabbie

6 ай бұрын

literally in the produce aisle 😂 like get serious!