I can relate to this ,I have my brother who wasted 6 years of his life in UPSC preparation .At the end he is going through same trauma what sir has mentioned .we are trying our best to support him now . Just an update : He cleared the UPSC CSE in his recent attempt,Thanks everyone for all the warm wishes ,really grateful 🙂

@AM-sd3rh

11 ай бұрын

Tell him about this girl . and how he has done no mistake , and show him some garryvee videos where he says , you have time to even old people of age 60 . He says : " starting from 21 and you f*ck for the next 5 years , and the morning you wake up , you have the whole life in front of you . " These kind of information can help him deal with the situation .

@SplitgamingS

11 ай бұрын

Best of luck for him❤ Success is Journey Not a Destination...❤

@funnygamer2867

11 ай бұрын

I am going through this tough phase.. I had already wasted 7 years of my life for preparing various government exam.. Even I can't take decision... Should I give up or continue my preparation? I am hopeless, I felt immense pain.. Sucidical thoughts come to my mind.. I wish I were a poor student.. I am from general caste.. Every time I am out of the final merit.. I don't know what to do.. Give up

@deepikameena903

11 ай бұрын

👍

@mohanthakur1726

11 ай бұрын

@@funnygamer2867 U can become home tutors my frnd.

This is the harsh reality behind these entrance examination like UPSC, NEET etc etc & no one talk about this topic... Thnq Sandeep sir❤ for guiding us.....

Bitter but truth! Iam a psychiatrist. Many teenagers come to me in depression, when they are not able to crack UPSC. 1) failure is not a problem. But acceptability hona chahiye. 2) apni ability k according hi aapko apne carrier options choose karna chahiye. Every teenager must watch this video. Thankyou Sandeep sir!

@maryammohsin6693

7 ай бұрын

I think if your child has a valid point for not pursuing something you shouldn't force them. as for the girl sandeep sir is mentioning she didn't have valid point and the girl was a idiot. and every parents should raise the children the way sir sandeep sir advising.

@aaduthelittlechoreographer6545

7 ай бұрын

I want to talk to you please

@Someone_2406

3 ай бұрын

madam, i need help 😔😔

10:20 imp line.."koi b topic k 2 side dekhne chahiye usse negativity nhi reality kahte hai"👍👏

आदरणीय संदीप माहेश्वरी जी आप देश हित में बहुत बड़ा काम कर रहे हैं देश के फिल्मी हीरो जो नहीं कर रहे हैं इससे ज्यादा आप कर रहे हैं आप रियल हीरो है

@kamalsoren07

11 ай бұрын

I think filmy hero ka to comparison hi nhi hona chahiye, wo log to katputli ke tarah kuchh v act krte h...

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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I don't know how would have my life been without his advice and guidance 😢 thank you sir ❤

@sskothawade

11 ай бұрын

and yet, your username is hatemeguys !?

@Artist.Mathswali

11 ай бұрын

Yes same here

@kp-vt6kt

11 ай бұрын

​@@sskothawadewhat's the logic 🤔?

@Rahul-nb7mh

10 ай бұрын

Awesome,, you learning.....

Same meri mamma ne bhi kia tha jab mjhe career choose karna tha..i have given test for AIEEE jisme architecture ka bhi exam tha..usme i have scored more in architecture so i was more interested in opting architecture rather than engineering. After few days mamma mjhe ek di ke pass le gai jo already architect kr chuki thi unhone mjhe sab btaya kse unhone clear kia architect every pros n cons. After this discussion i was able to take the right decision. So you are absolutely correct. Smart parenting to hmare mamma papa ko bht ache se aati thi. Ab social media ne sab badal dia hai.

This man is born to make history ❤❤

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

Barbaad kerne par laga hua hai Bharat ko jo itne bure tarike se youngster ko संस्कृत or apne sanatan ke khilaf कचरा bhar raha hai.

@santoshkumarsoren

10 ай бұрын

Bhai same comment har bar

@mtbpiyush

10 ай бұрын

He already made it

Yes, Sir aapne jo es video m bola it is a truth because mai ak NEET aspirants hun or mujhe malum bhi h 22 lakh bacche exam dete h or only 50 thousands ke aas pass selection hota h mere pass hone ke chances only 1-2% h or fail hone ke chances 98% H fail hone ke chances jyada h it is not demotivation it reallity of any exam mene aapki video se kuch naya sikhne ke liye dekha motivation ke liye nahi Thank you so much sir 😊😊❤❤

Sandeep Maheshwari sir realizes the future reality 😊

@Triggered-Fact

11 ай бұрын

Sir best motivation for parents

@SumanSpeaks

11 ай бұрын

Very true.

@457anand

11 ай бұрын

See now again we are getting biased by seeing this video... so we went to the negative extreme.... Come on... not blaming sandeep sir.. but again everybody forgot the point of the video and got negative extreme thinking that UPSC will be a failure. If you are smart enough again analyze both sides of it...meet both the succesful and failures and make the right decision....same example of drinking water applies here...

@pindabrar-ej2li

11 ай бұрын

Thx sir

@divyanshisingh1129

11 ай бұрын

na sangharsh na taqleef to kya khak mja hai jeene me bde bde toofan tham jate hain jb aag lgi ho seene me❤❤❤👍🙏🙏👍👍kzread.infoXOIy2j1TLi0?feature=share

Exactly my point. Freedom to children is the cover over lazy parenting. (Even parents don't realise they are lazy) We tried to reason out our daughter's choice of career, help her meet those who were already in the field, encouraged her to ask the questions to them, and help her feel confident about it. Sometimes we doubted if it was interference, but, she is very happy that we help her decide her stream.

This is one of the best session to understand the thinking of our society

Really heart touching for those who already failed 😢

@divyanshisingh1129

11 ай бұрын

na sangharsh na taqleef to kya khak mja hai jeene me bde bde toofan tham jate hain jb aag lgi ho seene me❤❤❤👍🙏🙏👍👍kzread.infoXOIy2j1TLi0?feature=share

@semicolon6499

11 ай бұрын

​@@Ramesh-js5nofail kon hota he pata he bro aapko . Or kisi ko nhi pata ki fail ham nhi hote fail hamara Brain hota he . Hame usse sabse pahle conqueror karna hoga .

UPSC coaching institutes often employ psychology-based marketing tactics such as: 1. Authority: They showcase faculty members who are ex-civil servants or have impressive credentials to build trust. 2. Scarcity: Limited seats or early bird discounts create a sense of urgency to enroll immediately. 3. Social proof: Success stories and testimonials from previous toppers are highlighted to demonstrate their effectiveness. 4. Fear appeal: They emphasize the difficulty of the UPSC exam and position their coaching as the only viable solution. 5. Bandwagon effect: Institutes often stress on the number of students enrolling each year, suggesting that joining them is the popular choice. These tactics play on aspirants' hopes, fears, and desires, compelling them to sign up without fully evaluating their decision. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thank U sir for your right GUIDANCE ❤❤ It will save many students from stress, and suicidal thoughts

@bbe9459

11 ай бұрын

👍

@nidhijha7717

11 ай бұрын

It is reality

Best line of sandeep maheshwari is "Apny app dekho mery khny sy kya hota hn.... Best wisdom ❤

It's not only about UPSC but, other Govt. Job as well. Because, it's not our dreams. It's our societies Dreams. 🙏🙏🙏

@punittiwari212

9 ай бұрын

UPSC Govt Job hee haina

@tejas3763

9 ай бұрын

@@punittiwari212Ha

You make us think the way we should. As a teacher, I try my bit to help students think critically. And a lot of it is inspired by you. "Ye Duniya Badlegi, Badlegi ye Duniya.. Kyonki yeh bhi hona .. Aasaan Hai! "

This video is a must watch for every aspirant who is dreaming of IAS and preparing for government exams... As well as there parents also ...

@sarbanandadutta3591

11 ай бұрын

Nothing new here.... It's the reality.... There are ups and downs... There is failure... Uncertainty...depression....

@learningpath_121

11 ай бұрын

There is a person in my relation who has been preparing for UPSC for the last 8 years… and I am a JEE aspirant, so I did not get in the first drop, but he says, try once again, it will happen…I told him clearly that I don't want to try now because I know now that mine will not happen even in nit....& Now I am very happy with that decision so friends if you have parents or whoever Don't do on someone's saying first justify yourself then look at his other side if it doesn't happen... take a decision after all this....!😊

@Vinay09665

11 ай бұрын

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@SumanSpeaks

11 ай бұрын

Very true.

संदीपजी आप सच्चे संत हैं, जिसने काफी समय से दूसरे के हित में सोचा और दूसरो के लिए कर्म किया, जिसे गीता में यज्ञ कहा जाता है। आप धन्य हैं...🙏

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

Kabhi bhi ye sant nahi ho sakta bharat ke sanatan kr khilag hai jo sanskrit ka khilaf hai hai

@riteshsoni4615

11 ай бұрын

Kon keh diya ki Sandeep sir khilaf hai kuch bhi mat bolo Bhai

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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Sir apke Jaisa pure you tub per koi nhi sab khali lootne wale h sir apka dil bahot bada h ap jo kr rhe h apk jaisa aj tak koi nhi kiya h .bhagwan iske badle apko aur bahot kuch de jo ap deserve krte h

The best point in this video is human biases... ❤🎉

@bbe9459

11 ай бұрын

Yes.. Availability bias, reality check also

Sandeep sir is god of our present society..........................❤❤

I was also going through this type of journey depression . I was prepare one of competative exam . My thought of doing that exam generate from a seminar , where I was seeing only positive sides of that exam with ignoring negative sides. I was not ready to see the reality . I was badly afraid of to see the reality . No one talk about this ....everyone seeing only positive sides . Thanku Sandeep sir . 👍❤️ And please keep it aware to newly student who has currently thought about it.

He deserves a Padmashri....❤

I agree with you.... We need to show our kids the fact check process. Today's kids need to know how to face failures and adversity......

Again unbelievable session sir 🔥🔥

You are inseparable parent of many of us sir who teaches everything needed ..thanks a lot sir ...lots of love and respect to you....❤️❤️❤️

Shi kha Sandeep maheshwari shab 🔥 Me jab coaching wale teachers ke motivation Ko sunta Hun to hsii 😁 aa jati hai unki bato par Unfortunately 😢 vo baten students ko bahut acchi lagti or motivate ho jate h I Hate This system 😢

@user-kz9rc4vs9e

11 ай бұрын

Right 👍

@learner-1

11 ай бұрын

Exactly Sandeep sar bhi yahi bol rahe hai.

@ak47writesrajkishayari85

11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@ak47writesrajkishayari85

11 ай бұрын

Shi kha

@world_omegle

11 ай бұрын

💯💯

Listening him since 5 years he has evolved fro subjective point of view towards more objective point of view that is towards more unbiased approach day by day he should be working on himself so much in shadows ❤

@vikassengupta8427

11 ай бұрын

What do you mean by subjective and objectives, could you explain

Sandeep sir is modern world guru ji in our country 🙏❤️

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन । मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥ Love you Sir...

अति सर्वत्र वर्जते ...well said sir😮

Absolutely true! Coming from a state where I have seen people selling their land or giving away their savings to fund their children’s “UPSC coaching”.

@theambivert798

11 ай бұрын

Not only upsc neet nd medical study too.....😢

@arikvlogs3284

11 ай бұрын

@@theambivert798 but in neet have more chance than upsc

@theambivert798

11 ай бұрын

@@arikvlogs3284 its hard for general. ....to get seat

@indianjaihind4125

11 ай бұрын

​@@theambivert798just spend 1 year after 12 th for neet, if u dodnt crack no problem Join graduation in other stream

Thank you so much sir, I really need that kind of video because I've just completed my 12th class. And was confused about my career. Now, I know ki esi cheez me jitna time lgaungi usse accha jis jgah competition km h uss field me jaake bohot behtreen kr lungi.

Yes ..sir your are right 👍...समान समस्या

himmat ko salaam h sir aapki. is topic pe koi baat hi nahi karna chahta.

Great .... The World need people like you..... Lots of love and respect from Pakistan💎❤️

*Good discussion of coaching upsc industry thank you so Sandeep sir*

Web series dekh kr m bhi motivate ho gya tha bt sahi wqt pe apne sacchai se awgat kra diya, it is really an Eye opener video❤

No one can match this discussion ❤❤

@mahiway8368

10 ай бұрын

Acharya Prashant Sir ko sun lo ek baar.

My favourite mentor Mr. Sandeep sir ❤❤

Every upsc/NEET/IIT aspirant must watch and accept this.. I have been preparing for upsc last 2 and half years I have realised what does sir want to make understand to us.thank u so much sir..

Aaj aapne samajha diya life of reality. Government jobs ho ya other businesses ho but uska bhi negative point hota but log usko chhupakar only positive thoughts ke baare me batate hai. You are great sir 🙏🙏 Very very thankful sir 🙏

Very true.We should follow this method of parenting.👍

I have completed my graduation this year and i am 21.5 years old i am not preparing for UPSC but preparing for SSC but i will not waste my 5-6 years for preparing i will try just for 1 to 2 years just and i will also learn some skills during the preparation so that there will be option B for me❤️❤️

@patelvarshil2837

11 ай бұрын

Best of luck🎉

@scopeop5774

11 ай бұрын

Welcome To 10% Club If You Try SSC Or If You Direct Drop SSC and Pure Focus On Other Things, Business, Then Welcome To 1% Club

@abhaynishad3671

11 ай бұрын

2 year purely focus on ssc and 1 year enough for skills

@ashwanianand7756

11 ай бұрын

For success two years no plan B .. after two years make new Plan A... But never make any plan B.... Just change your Plan A as per circumstances...

@AshuMillionaire

11 ай бұрын

Bhai 21 ke ho gaye paise kamana suru Karo l. Ye exams ke pache mat bhago . First make millions

Sandeep Sir is telling us about the harsh reality in everyone's career in Indian society and families. It is the today's bitter truth and probably the word of mouth of every student, very difficult to digest for parents and their ego. 👍🏼👍🏼 It is the best Psychology Lesson and career counseling in the world. Thank you Sir for such brainstorming sessions and mindblowing content. ❤️❤️ Keep inspiring us and telling such harsh realities. We love your honest suggestions and future mappings. No motivational speaker in the world will tell such things and give this type of honest opinions to the public. 😍🙏🏻🙏🏻

@457anand

11 ай бұрын

See now again we are getting biased by seeing this video... so we went to the negative extreme.... Come on... not blaming sandeep sir.. but again everybody forgot the point of the video and got negative extreme thinking that UPSC will be a failure. If you are smart enough again analyze both sides of it...meet both the succesful and failures and make the right decision....same example of drinking water applies here...

@dr.chetan

11 ай бұрын

@@457anand I am not here to criticize UPSC aspirants or UPSC organisation here. I am thanking Sandeep Sir for telling dark side of UPSC. It's bright side is already known to the whole world, there is no need to highlight. As Sandeep Sir said, nobody could tell you about that dark side of failures and false beliefs in your mind.

@457anand

11 ай бұрын

@@dr.chetan sir.. agreed...but look at the comments.. see the mindset of people.... they have concluded that UPSC is a disaster.. tomorrow if someone says the opposite, they will believe that also... all am saying is try to analyze pros and cons and never come to conclusions based on someonees advise.. i agree this is an eyeopener video..

@dr.chetan

11 ай бұрын

@@457anand That's correct!

@dhruvgupta1124

11 ай бұрын

Bro sango life sutra ne pehele hi sab kuch bata chuke hai

हारे का सहारा.. बाबा संदीप जी माहेश्वरी हमारा ❤❤

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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Waah😢 sir kya example diya hai aapne samudra ka❤❤🙏🙏

One of my frnd started doing upsc 2 yrs back, that time yvf aspirants came and she was very happy and liked the series too much,, she said to me i shuld watch, then i watched and my view was like that ki reality nahi show ki h,, and its half the picture of reality,, bt she fought with me on my view,,

So great Full to attend this live session ❣️

दुनिया मे कड़वा सच बोलने वाले ओर समझाने वाले बेहद कम है सर आपने आंखें खोल दी

Absolutely correct sir sachchai yahi h🎉

Thank You Sir Your Speech Very Useful For Motivation

You are only one person of KZread when they say truth without any bias ✨✨✨✨

Thank you Guruji for this Amazing Awareness

सर आपने बहुत सुंदर बात की है पहले आपके वीडियो में आप बोलते थे आसान है तो मुझे लगता था की सब लोग किसी चीज का अच्छा बताते है लेकिन आपने यह वीडियो बना के वास्तविकता में एक महान व्यक्ति होने का परिचय दिया है ❤ I like you

This is reality of UPSC ❤ Awesome Sir.....❤

Wow wonderful session ❤

Speechless kardiye Sir.... 😢

Such a great sir.your thoughts and understanding.❤🫡

Thanks from the bottom of my heart for making this , I really learn a lot from this 😊 .

Love from Nepal 🇳🇵🙏❤ You dont know but many of international people love you much more 🎉❤❤

amazing lesson given by "Sandeep Sir" 🎉

I don't have words to actually express how true and right this point is!!!!

Sandip sir dil se ❤ .....1 like guru ke liye

@ElivishYadav-EY

11 ай бұрын

😮😮

@ElivishYadav-EY

11 ай бұрын

😮😮

The best way to choose your career is to see and meet both the failure one and the success one. who does what you want to doing. and see the good side and bad sides of the career - Sandeep Maheshwari

Thankyou sir for raising this issue..... Nobody even seeing this reality or talking about it... This thing needs to be stopped..

How true You are doing great by being an eyeopener

Best motivation speaker in the world is sandeep maheshwari sir ❤❤

That's very best decision making process ❤

A little observation over the year on Sandeep ji’s videos. At the Initial stage of his videos, almost every videos were a motivational which was very helpful for the those who were disheartened with their life experiences. Be it career, business, relationship, health, etc. You gave a new hope for those who don’t have any other vision or a prospective. Now, in 2023, most of the videos are not so called motivational rather a realistic videos. It’s a gentle leap where many of us are aligned with the thought process of you. The realistic videos gets lesser viewers. Anyways, Thank you sandeep ji

@preetipatil9324

10 ай бұрын

As Sandeep ji also evolving each and every day as per his experiences ,he's trying to deliver his best. Life has to go through various stages of life.

Nice to hear from you and got to learn more about good parenting. Thanks fm bottom of my heart. “Balance in life is very essential to take right decisions “

A man and his love can change the world. Thanks for your contributions.

@user-ty7lw3rr6g

11 ай бұрын

Can anyone explain me ki negetivity aur reality check me difference kya h because when if we are thinking about reality may be we can be demotivated 10:38

Love you Sandeep Maheshwari sir

Indeed a very enlightening & eye opening video ...Please post such content as much as you can ... Thanks a lot for sharing your valuable guidance .

💯 percent reality based thinking.....👍👍

You are absolutely right sir. There is lots of students suffering from this. This is best video for their parents ❤❤❤❤❤

Sandeep sir is only worlds best motivational speaker and. Counsellor..And mentor..❤❤❤ jinke parents nhi h unke liye sir hai. Like mee🥰🥰😍🥰 love you sir❤❤. Aap hamesha swasth rahe 🙏🙏

@sonutiwari4330

11 ай бұрын

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This is an Amazing discussion, so much need of this awareness at this time and age. Beyond intelligent.

Aankhe khol d sir aapne....superb sir

Your name is enough to save millions of people who is actually faceing struggle Thanku sir for your this Channel🏆

Thankyou making such content sir.. it's really amazing for students 😊

I have no words, I can see everything clearly after watching the video, and now I am crying 🙏❤️, thanku sir apke hone se zindagi aasan hai ...🙏

You are definitely not a normal human being.... You are simply awesome... You surprise us everytime we hear you... Thank you and God Bless you... 😊😊

You r really telling the facts❤.... sir....

I can't express in words about you sir because you are most valuable person for me

Sahi baat hai ,,, KZread pe bass positive he hai,,,, koe nagative ni dikhata k kitne bache fail ho jate esme ,,,,,, logo ko samjhna chahiye ,,, good video sir

Thankyou sir.. This video will help many youngsters to learn more than that of their dreams..

Everytime we watch his videos, we get a new perspective towards life❤ Thank you sir

Im now 20 year old and in last year of graduation, my thaught process was same like that girl who too excited for upsc ,but this video took me on ground reality and think me that if i fail than what my next step😢 thank you so much sir for showing me this reality❤❤😊

Zabardast.. sir yahan tak to hume pohchte hi nhi jo point aapne dikhaya hai aaj 👍👍👍👍

Sandeep Bhaiya is one of the show which shows the depressiive side and failure of an UPSC aspirant

Well said Sir...I am happy that I think this way...UR WORDS R GEMS OF LIFE .. NOTHING LESS...🙏

Best answer when everyone wants a goody-goody life. I think he is one of first guy to speak on this topic . Hats off to you sir🙏 Everyone blames there parents for all their bad lives. They forget that once they will be in 40s-50s they will also be blamed by their children..

You are Sandeep sir aap ho asli ke hero jo Hume dikhaya jata hai aur Jo hum dekhte wah hero nahi hai but aap real life experience holder hero hai 😊

Look da influencing ability of this man 45k without any dislike....salute to u sir

Life mai jab vi depression mai hota hu app ka video dak ka bohot motivation milta hai sir🔥 Sahi bola na...? 😊

Sirr ; we need a series on this topic ❤ 🎉😢

Excellent video sir... Thankyou for your effort.. reality is most important..

Salute he sir aapko hmara 🙏 hr parent ko ye video dekhni Chahiye.