Craig is my favourite of all the relationship coaches❤

@CoachCraigKenneth

Ай бұрын

Mine too!

@joeb5578

Ай бұрын

Mine too.

Bottom line some of the dumpers egos are so big, they can miss you like crazy and still never ever reach out

@joeb5578

Ай бұрын

I know

@S1lverspike

Ай бұрын

Aka my wife

@hdhbdh6388

3 күн бұрын

Very right cause mine still fallows me on all my platforms and it's two years but he has never stopped yet me i moved on long time ago yet he is the dumper, did many hurting things but silence was my answer but he is boiling

I think it is about time we start holding avoidants accountable for their behaviour.

@os3688

Ай бұрын

Yea tell them you’ve had enough of being taken for granted. That breaks them

@nickus51

Ай бұрын

@@os3688 Precisely. Set and hold boundaries.

@Android_insurrection

Ай бұрын

The avoidants have to realise/accept that they are avoidant and get help just like anxious attachment types must too.

@SuperMisterKory

Ай бұрын

I somewhat agree. I’m avoidant and the only reason I learned that and began to work on myself was after an extremely difficult breakup that caused me to self-reflect and recognise all of the mistakes I was making. I had a call with Craig and told him myself that as painful as my breakup was, I actually needed for it to happen.

I am beyond this stage. Trying to get something out of them is a thing of the past. I finally reached the true level of "I don't care"

@Android_insurrection

Ай бұрын

After my 4th breakup, I’m feeling the same… each time I’m hurt less. She denies being avoidant so won’t change. I help myself by accepting all the negatives that the relationship had.

@therocknrollcook

Ай бұрын

@@TheRealDebbieH sounds positive

Got ex back thanks to this channel. Took 5 months but oh boy, I dont want her anymore. The peace of being alone and productivity level whilst flying solo is just too good to give up. Thanks for the advice and all y'all carefull what you wish for.

@Francispia

22 күн бұрын

Let’s goooo! You are too good for an avoidant freK!

I'm guilty of doing this myself. My gf was taking some time to herself. I was biting my nails to the quick. I forced myself to just wait. I didn't reach out at all. Nothing. No texts or calls. It was really difficult. But I was rewarded after 10 days of 'no contact'. She reached out and was eager to talk to me. I was grateful that I held out. It went well. It wasn't so bad afterall. I'm still here. I know eventually it will happen again.

My LDR has backed off with flirting and romance . Her dad is very ill and she’s had business problems. I’m being supportive on a daily basis , but feel like I’m losing or lost what we had . The illness caused us to cancel a holiday together which was going to be our first meet after 6 months of messages and calling daily for 3-4 months . Unfortunately she isn’t as able to call all the time now

Almost 7 weeks NC... he still has me blocked. I finally blocked him back. Hopefully, he has dopamine withdrawals, separation anxiety, and fear of losing me soon. I miss him 😭

@veronicabrown1760

Ай бұрын

5 months NC. I still cry every other day...

@basicinfo2022

Ай бұрын

@veronicabrown1760 if he is the one who broke and hurt the relationship, then you deserve so much better. I hope you can move on soon. Talking to new men may help forget him faster.

@verafouka4619

21 күн бұрын

For me it's the opposite I blocked him first and probably he did the same but how can I find out?😢

@basicinfo2022

20 күн бұрын

@verafouka4619 I think you would have to unblock him to check if you can still access his profile from your account. I stopped doing no contact at week 7 cause we weren't in a commited relationship. It was a situationship. I'm just doing low contact now.

Thank you so much. I am the one who decided to give him space. He is extremely stressed and his behavior is erratic. One hour he loves me then silent so I stepped up and took a step back.

@joeb5578

Ай бұрын

Sometimes you have to. Take care of your self first.

try checking in on an avoidant partner, say goodbye to whatever connection you thought you had.. avoidant go bye-bye 🥺😭☠️

@therocknrollcook

Ай бұрын

Fact 😢

@Android_insurrection

Ай бұрын

My avoidant has come back 3 times so hang in there. Recently dumped for the 4th time.🫣 Next time, I’m going to be ready for her* by gaining The Knowledge (and doing done work on my listening [and retention] skills). *her or somebody else.

If there's no communication people have a tendency to overthink because you don't know what is going on. I think people should ask why is a person over thinking there's a reason why a person might over think and it has nothing yo do with not having confidence. Comm is the key to stop people from OT.

You need to be careful if the person breezes in and out as they feel like it, or they use it as a pretext to explore other romantic options.

it seems like anger is my only friend because it protects me from abusers

What if they don’t say anything at all? Ignored all your texts and refused to give a clear answer.

i did ALL THE Wrong things they say. He asked for space while we were together (LDR). we last called in march, in april we had a fight and asked for space. I sent a few long messages in which I apologised for all my faults and i told him how much oi loved him and valued him. I was supposed to move to his country in Oct. he ignored me. I texted him at the beginning of June and I was over texting and pushing so he dumped me. then he blocked me everywhere. He went from talking about marriage and kids (i didn't want them but he made me change my mind) to this. I can't believe and i just don't understand. It's been about 3 weeks of NC. he's back on dating apps ... I won't reach out. If he doesn't want me his loss. He's too proud and stubborn to come back ... I dared him to leave me and push him ... I did all she says at 10:00 ...

My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and I tried to fix things for all this time. So I think it’s getting better. We sleep together, hang out, talk but nothing more. She wanted me as a friend and keeps contacting me everyday about everything. So I told her that I can’t be just a friend and don’t want to continue communicating and if she’ll change her mind about me she can write me… she got very upset by this.. so I’m in no contact for 5 days. Did I do the right thing? Is it a mistake that I said I don`t want to continue communicating? Because she stoped texting me after that at all..

Hi coach Craig, I was in a 17years relationship with my daughter father, he cheated on me, though out the lent of the relationship. On 10/3/22, he just packed up and left me and our daughter.he blocked me and treated me like nothing . I know it is over, but I'm still hurting. What can I do to stop these feelings.

I initially went no contact after my ex of 4 year broke up with me and I have broken it in 3 days and beg her to stay with me. She told me me to never call her again and unfortunately my anxiety got the best of me in less than 2 weeks after that and I called again. This time she was very angry at me and blocked me every where. Do no contact still work in my case? I am anxious and she is avoidant.

Can you please, please do a video when you are dating the same sex? Woman to woman. I feel like things are possibly different when you date the same sex. I could be wrong and would really love your perspective!

💜💜💜

My use me and then leave 4 months now. first he say it is not me .we been together for over 1 year .i love him but i ❤me more he can go to hell

She came back after 1 year of no contact . Slowly, we talked and got back together. I treated her well. After 5 months of intense relationship when she wasn’t expecting it, I started to pull away and i sent her a 3-word breakup message followed by videos of me and her best friend in action. Then I blocked her, now she is calling me crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣 . It was funny, I feel better. That 's what she deserved . Yeah do them dirty too.

@TheWitchBoi

Ай бұрын

That is horrible.

@yaarisminko8228

Ай бұрын

@@TheWitchBoi No, what’s horrible is what she did to me. She changed me and I don’t regret it. They know what they’re doing to you and they don’t care. But from the moment you give them back, strangely they become victims. I personally when someone hurts me I reply because I let too many people walk on me.

@emcarcia

Ай бұрын

damn u got issues u literally just did her a favor lol she doesn’t deserve u at all

@ajantameitei4156

Ай бұрын

So you just wanted revenge? Nah bro that’s just horrible.

@yaarisminko8228

Ай бұрын

@@emcarcia She cheated on me .And yeah , I don't regret what i did . If you want to be someone’s footstep, that’s your choice. I did mine.

Very true, the more you want to contact them the worst it gets, best thing is to get therapy, book a call with coach craig before you screw up your chances forever

Question: Had an amazing ‘flash’ connection in which we futurized (bad) talked about the future (good) just fell hard for each other! Went exclusive 6/6…he broke up w me 6/14🫤 A few days later before I knew anything about attachment styles, I wrote a letter (bad) to clear my own plate so I could move forward (good). After listening to you all, is his having this letter (in which I was kind and accepting) feeding his need for me now that we are full ‘no contact’? So things will take SO much longer to get back together 🤦🏼‍♀️