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Wow!!!! The way you unapologetically drop these facts is commendable! Subscribed!!!!

@SkillofAttraction

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Thanks, man! Welcome aboard!

Thank you Eric for this valuable informations. It's a must nowadays to be aware of the red flags before dating a woman.

@SkillofAttraction

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Absolutely! Ignoring them only hurts you in the long run.

Great video as always man. The last one (goals and values not aligning) is the hardest one because even though there's probably nothing wrong with her, you still have to drop the relationship. One could say that, ideally, the girl should simple align to your goals and values if you enforce them properly, but sometimes people are just incompatible.

@SkillofAttraction

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Yeah, it really sucks when this happens...& people in this situation often hold on longer than they should, because it's so difficult to let go. Just a general rule of thumb, if you can feel that it's not going to work out long term, it's best to get out asap. Stretching it out only makes it more painful.

@SkillofAttraction

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@nickecletico Correct. if you want different things in life it'll be constant battle.

Supreme stuff.

@SkillofAttraction

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Thanks, man!

You described the NJ princess. They have each red flag mentioned.

@SkillofAttraction

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It's pretty amazing how many of these women are all over. They're undateable.

I've messaged on your other site, but I'm with a woman now whom after 3 dates is already buying stuff for my home including bedding and food and she's treating me like king, but, long term I know it won't work, and it really sucks to let her go, as I truly think she's into me.

@SkillofAttraction

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Did you send a message or did you post it? If you posted it, what is your username?

@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753

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@@SkillofAttraction ye I meant a post

I treat service people bad if they do not provide good service, it they provide good service I tell them thank you so much many times and leave good tips. I am a woman, just in case. If spa salon technician is not good I will Let them know.

@SkillofAttraction

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That's different. I'm talking about people who treat service people like they're beneath them.

Uncommon opinion here. Im a male and I have one night stands sometimes but afterwards I get too attached to the woman. Some woman just want to use me for one night. How do I get deattached from sex like they do? I enjoy having fun from time to time but I want a serious relationship and someone that appreciates me not just for the looks. It makes me feel bad and with low self confidence.

@johnmortimerjbmfitness7753

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It's part of our evolutionary make up. We get attached mentally, even though deep down it may not be what we want, so that we stay having sex with them long enough to procreate. There are plenty of women out there, just enjoy the moment and then move on.

@SkillofAttraction

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Yes, that's part of what your body & mind is wired to do. After sex, Oxytocin (among others) is released into your system & it encourages you to pair bond with your sex partner. However, you can ignore it & that's much easier if you have other options. This is also how you find a long term partner...by dating around until you find a good match. Most people just leave it up to chance & then end up miserable in an LTR/marriage. So, they don't really date around. They just take the first thing that comes to them.

@PaulTC777

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@@SkillofAttraction Thanks, sometimes they expect me to be a player but i end up caring too much about them and showing neediness so they end up not talking to me anymore. They expect me to just f*** them and forget them.

@SkillofAttraction

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@@PaulTC777 If you're being needy, then you're missing something in your life. You want to work on bringing abundance in your life, because that will kill your neediness.

@PaulTC777

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@@SkillofAttraction thanks, thats true, i havent found my purpose in life and thats why I take women and dating as a very important thing when it really isnt.

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Damn my ex did #1 bad, then began to do #2 frequently

@SkillofAttraction

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It's difficult to avoid emotionally immature women these days. They tend to not face any consequences for emotional immaturity, so they find no reason to change. But flakiness is a problem for sure.