Best way to deal with a girl who ghosts you
You really like her but she's completely unresponsive. She's gone 'dark'. What's the best way to deal with the situation? What this video.
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@michaelpeople7283
2 жыл бұрын
I understand walking away from them but what about if the two of you work in the same field and have to see each other everyday? Every time when I see her she turns her back to me, looks away, and doesn’t even speak . How do I handle that please?
@frederickkgagane
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@chijiokeochubili7279
2 жыл бұрын
Do U have a book? U really have great content.
@brianbrino4310
2 жыл бұрын
No more comments here Jessica and thank you for your wise advice!👍👍👍👍
@michaelpeople7283
2 жыл бұрын
Than you very much sir.
Guys the number 1 thing to master the game, it’s to having an Abundance Mindset, no fear loss, Don’t care. Who cares if they ghost you. Go to the next
@omen3949
Жыл бұрын
My nigga ✊🏽
@Barber747
Жыл бұрын
TRUE DAT. 😉💪🏽 Their loss, not yours. Oh well...🤷🏽♂️
@matrixisreal2023
Жыл бұрын
But should you unfollow them ?
@trewilliams8789
Жыл бұрын
🗿
@Barber747
Жыл бұрын
@@matrixisreal2023 That's totally up to you...
"Ghost me I ghost you, God no go vex." . . . . LOL. If someone ghosts you, let them rest in peace, no need disturbing the dead.
@nixcutus
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nattyogli9317
Жыл бұрын
Damn💯🙌🏾🤣
@terrancefoster6613
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@jideofor.brightbright4488
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@DamaniDanDadar
2 ай бұрын
Wa chere! Chop knuckle I beg 😊.
This is a very hard pill to swallow. I recently got ghosted by someone I genuinely loved. This broke my heart. Thank you Jessica for this video. Now I know what to do.
@jbaru648
Жыл бұрын
It stings for awhile but you’ll be stronger
@traplandtrinitie4955
Жыл бұрын
Me too its hard to delete a girl you love t2 hard
@keysoteriq2590
Жыл бұрын
Happened to me when everything was going perfect. Saw each other everyday and talked about merging our lives.
@sharadnakarja821
Жыл бұрын
Exactly same thing here. Your world collapses and you have to start again
@evo8150
Жыл бұрын
@@sharadnakarja821 bro how did you ever deal with it I'm so confused on why she just left it doesn't make sense to me
"People will begin to value you when you value yourself" These lines always reminds of who and what I'm doing in this world. Thank you Miss Jessica for creating a greater to people like. It means a lot and a life changing one.
@jbaru648
Жыл бұрын
False cliche. Some women are selfish and demonic and will ghost you regardless of how much “you love yourself”. Love yourself for you.
@johnloydniala
Жыл бұрын
@@jbaru648 You said it yourself "some women" , so not all women are like that. It is still the same thing with men though. It's up to us to choose someone who will value and love us as who we are.
@jbaru648
Жыл бұрын
@@johnloydniala exactly. Unfortunately in the process of us choosing a good woman we may have to sift through a demon or 2 to get there
@gghhh6210
Жыл бұрын
@@jbaru648 you are damn right son the rate of toxicity in women today is beyond comprehension stand your grounds spiritually
If she ghosts you, why don't you? If she doesn't want to talk to you, why do you? If she is not interested, why are you following her? If she wants to forget you, why you want to remember her? If she looks down on you, why you want to place her on pedestal?Come on guys, respect your self, value your self, look after your self. Take charge and live your life fully. Don't waste it on who is not bothered about you. Good luck!
@flint9889
Жыл бұрын
I was talking to this girl for a few months and we've gotten along well. She then pushed me away so I avoided her for a month. She then started coming back so I approached but she backed off again. She came back again by darting glances, watching me, being close to me. But I didn't approach. Now her eyes avoid me but sometimes her head turns back to me. What should I do? Did I miss my chance to fix things?
@oscaralonsolapuentevalera8724
Жыл бұрын
@@flint9889 You didn't miss any chance, it is all on her. Keep in mind that you don't miss anything with anyone and if you ever miss that chance if you ever make any mistake, your "loss" is only for someone respectful to you, which she clearly wasn't by having you as an object who thought she could use like that. Love yourself mate, cheers 🤙
@johntez25mc-supercop
Жыл бұрын
@@flint9889 run for your,,,, have the courage to move on,,, ahe must be seeing some dude somewhere and now may be she has been ghosted too,,,,, don't be cheap at all,,,
@Mrgreen2558
Жыл бұрын
@@flint9889 just avoid her at all costs you don't need her
@nauxsi
Жыл бұрын
@@flint9889 bread crumbs. She just doing enough to leave door open but nothing more. Because loss is real....
It's usually the toxic ones that will ghost you because their low self-esteem issues won't tolerate you lol
@LiamWirtz
Жыл бұрын
Please can you make me understand
@samya1231
Жыл бұрын
@@LiamWirtz they're insecure themselves
@shedparker
10 ай бұрын
@@LiamWirtzThey ghost you bc your character and integrity silently exposes who they are without you even knowing.
@Jojosiwo
4 күн бұрын
@@daibm5392 if I ghost someone is no because I have low self esteem...is just because I am no interested
You are TOTALLY right, If someone doesn't respond within a day, stop persisting and move on. There is no such thing as "I had too much work and I did not see it".
@JuancoPRoFlow
2 ай бұрын
See it
There are three stages in ghosting (ghosting is actually break up in disguise) you have to pass through these stages, I'm at the last phase myself now, it only gets easier to walk away as you go through these phases. The first phase is Shock: you don't believe she's doing that to you after all u both have been thru and how you've invested in this relationship Second Phase is denial: you refuse to accept the fact that she doesn't want you, that she's just using you. You see the signs clearly but you still won't believe it The third Phase is called Acceptance phase; this is where you come to yourself (consciousness) and review all that's happening and see things for what they truly are and not what you want them to be and accept that you've been rejected and quit trying, then walk away
@daveeshiofune5440
2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life right now.
@mhill88ify
2 жыл бұрын
I have one stage: If there is no response within a certain amt. of time....I write that shit off. Charge it to the game, hold onto my nuts and mentally move on.
@wilfridjoseph6172
2 жыл бұрын
very accurate
@mohdzaid5439
2 жыл бұрын
Clear explanation 👍
@mhill88ify
2 жыл бұрын
You care too much about the other person and not enough about yourself if you have to break this down in such a detailed fashion.
That’s exactly what I do. And after valuing yourself, they’ll always come back. Never be a simp always put yourself on the highest pinnacle and thank me later
Its not about revenge, its not about sending a message, its about peace of mind and giving yourself worth.
Being ghosted for the first time hurts so bad.. heartbroken cause there was so much potential. Thank you for the message.
Ultimately if someone ghosts you....you let them go.... My Ex ghosted me for weeks and finally ended our relationship..... when I found a new girl... my Ex came back running wanting us to get back together... for 3 years she kept pushing...I'm not exaggerating.... Don't go around chasing people that don't want to be in your space....you will never be appreciated or respected if you chase
@arnoldayugi4768
2 жыл бұрын
True
@mademenchronicles2335
2 жыл бұрын
Mine reached out after 17 years. I'm good. I'd rather die alone
@nosakhareanthony97
2 жыл бұрын
@@mademenchronicles2335 17 years? TF😂
@tylerfranger537
Жыл бұрын
W man’s
@nwten2240
Жыл бұрын
@@mademenchronicles2335 lol she got ran through during that time untill her looks start to fade and noone wants her
You get in life what you tolerate. If you tolerate disrespect, you'll get disrespected. If you value yourself, people will value you. Thank you so much Jessica for these reminders.
I've come to realize that when you are a kind hearted person and actually care about people, that's when you will get ghosted, and it will happen consecutively. I've experienced this on many occasions and it continues to happen unexpectedly, but I've learned to deal with it, because people are attracted to toxic and negativity then the positive person who has so much to offer. It use to sting at first, but then you realize that it's naturally a habit for people to do, and all you can do is move on and delete the person from your mind permanently. We live in a convoluted society
@dietis13
11 күн бұрын
Exactly stay as you are, don't be a bad person, until you find someone who deserve you ! Take it as a gift from god, they can't manage you so they humiliate you, but it's because you are a "better" human, So they can't accept it, and so need to put you down, Be mature, and find someone better that deserve you, and will be happy to receive this gift ;)
@treize4ever69
6 күн бұрын
@@TimothyGPTSanders just happened to me. I fell for this girl she told me she loved me . We were great for a week then a few days later when she said she's going back to her boyfriend. Turns out I was a rebound but now I'm still in love with her.She was still talking to me but she is now ghosting me. B4 this my last gf of 10 yrs cheated so this is first girl in a very long time. I now have panic attacks and still love her.
My only issue with ghosting... is the fact that these people will ghost but than see you at some point and try to apologize 😂 that baffles me
I too was ghosted by a girl i fell in love with. My chest has been heavy with emotion and on a number of times i thought i would break down from the grief and loneliness that her absence has brought in my life but it was while watching this video that i truly broke down not because of how i was treated but because of how accurately Jessica has predicted my position..it made me realise that i wasn't the only one facing this and that how important it is to have self respect and control over your emotions. Much needed video and thank you so much jess.
@Jabberwocky_McScrugel
6 ай бұрын
Yeah I know the feeling, but all we can do is project no worries, but it's never not going to hurt. You have to dump and pump, not keep buying a withering stock.
I just leave them alone and work on bettering myself
@aresrain7850
2 жыл бұрын
💯
When they start creating ANY distance or disinterest I mirror the behaviours and move on.. I have seen and done it over decades after learning the hard way when younger and getting my head and heart broken. You learn after years when people take you for granted and are playing games. It takes time
Indeed Jessica there is more to life than people who take us for granted and eventually ghost us . Thank you.
7:07 Well you may be right, there are 8 billion people. But sometimes the heart wants what the heart wants. There are lots of fishes in the seas but not a lot of them are worth catching. It's difficult to give up on someone you had a connection with. Sure you can try other people but how many more heartbreaks is a person willing to risk to find another lover, who doesn't feel like a reward compared to the one you initially lost. Love is beautiful and so full of sadness at the same time. What a double edged sword planted in our emotions.
@MrSailor013
2 жыл бұрын
well said thank you i myself couldn’t put this in words myself..
@adrianchandler7853
2 жыл бұрын
Lust is full of sadness!
@ahmedhatimi4698
2 жыл бұрын
That's where u die early
@isaiah2810
3 ай бұрын
There really aren’t plenty of fish in the sea either that is nothing but bullshit.
@eugenedantzler4485
2 ай бұрын
Well said
I realized that myself. People will begin to value you when you value yourself!! The same can be said about respect!! Thanks for the great vid Jessica. I needed this💯🙏🏿
@jbaru648
Жыл бұрын
Cliche. A woman will still ghost you
@virtualworld2231
Жыл бұрын
@@jbaru648 she will come back to you if you ghost her too and act like she is nothing you just gotta love yourself more and realize that there is a vast ocean of women out there
I've been through this pain. It hurts so bad. I was able to walk away after a long time. And she felt it in the end.
What went wrong is usually the big question that many have that have been ghosted by someone they genuinely like. The thing is if you tried to make things work and be the best person for them and they still ghosted you out of the blue then the problem is not you, IT'S THEM. If you reap ghosting, you shall sow ghosting!!! Ghosting is a very cowardly move. A real man or woman don't ghost because they face their problems like mature adults but children run away from their problems.
Ghosting people is just immature. And as an adult, I don't want to waste my time with immature people. I met a girl who insisted I took her number, and after a few days I texted to see if she wanted to grab a drink with me . The message was "read" but she never replied. I just deleted her number and moved on. I never asked for her number in the first place. 🤷🏻
Jessica is a global treasure. She must be protected at all costs!
This was great Jess. Thanks for it. So many times it is fear of the unknown that makes us not brave enough to walk away.
Thank you for the much-needed moment of silence at the beginning of the video for those who have been ghosted Jessica. Really appreciate it…appreciate your words of comfort, support, & counsel too. Simply the best.🤗👍
The amusing part is when they ghost you and continue to watch your socials and such. But the best thing you can do is just ignore them and focus on you. The person that ghosted you is still keeping track of you and they're just waiting for their chance to come back. The more distance you create between you and the person they think you are, the better off you'll be.
@adrianchandler7853
2 жыл бұрын
You are 💯 percent correct!!!
@brianwaller7383
Жыл бұрын
Yep I unfriend my ghost from Facebook but I know she’s probably looking at my profile. So I posted random things like how I don’t tolerate ghosting and I’ll dismiss immediately who does. I’m calling her out indirectly because if she reads it she’ll know it was aimed at her.
@josephbedwell3164
Жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 I typically post a lot of misleading stuff to create distance.
@DG-EditsYT
Жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 yes but you are thinking of them clearly and they see the posts and they know it means them, they arent fools and you drop them flat/cut off. I know because I used to go through these same times. You don't own them nothing only yourself. Value yourself 100%
Thanks Jessica this is so true. I have released this so quickly so I decided to focus on growing myself in academics
Jessica I'm going through the same for the past days and I lost myself seriously but thank God I came across your videos, God bless you
You have a large amount of valuable knowledge and wisdom. The significance of it is that your suggestions are clean. Jessica, you should be on top of the world!
Great woman. Thank you. Someone did that to me few weeks ago and I did what you just advised. I loved her but had to respect their opinions as well. Cheers
Jessica you just helped my current situation and my heart already prays for you .. you just put smile on my face for providing a solution, you shall be celebrated worldwide. You made me to stay off atrocities and violence, indeed you are the best woman in the world
Your advice are real and helpful. I am well updated now and everytime I watch all your episodes I learn new things that helps my person like you know what I am going through
Thank you Jessica My life has been so terrible experiencing this building a relationship thinking I was in the right direction only to walk away from But I feel so much better watching this video and I have decided to walk away from it now
This video really touched my heart! Thank You Jessica and God Bless You and Your Family!
Wish I saw this earlier. I entered into a relationship with a lady, I was made to think guys had treated her bad so I decided to treat her so well, and in 3 days I was ghosted lol. Me being the good guy reached out and showed up at her house to find out what was going on. She told me to stop coming to her house unannounced and she's had enough trouble. Hours later she now responded to my old chats calling it quits and she's having family issues. I really have been putting people first before myself. I will find love again. A window will open on the other side. Thanks
@harryschlitz4067
Жыл бұрын
See how they are Guys. Holy Smoke…Guy is respectful and decent and THIS is what he gets from these females. ??? (Although Brother, Please do not go over a Ladies house UNinvited, I can hear the Cops now. Ugh.) BET her old dude snapped his fingers and she fell into line.
@Ms_diamond24
Жыл бұрын
You will. It's a matter of time
@n.m.3760
Жыл бұрын
That's a giant red flag when she bad-mouths her previous exes. You know she's trouble.
@breadknyf
Жыл бұрын
Fast track today, am happily dating a lady, been in it for 3 months now and still feels fresh everyday!
Jessica, you're one of the best we have.
Your mindset gives me Joy always. It amazes me on how your thinking aligns mine most cases 💙💙💙
I've learned that everyone has the right to behave how they desire. It's OK to be sad and upset when you're ghosted. But you can't resent that person. I agree it's disrespectful in some cases. I was dating a guy for weeks and he ghosted. The best action is to reconcile within yourself to avoid carrying that negativity into future relationships. 💗
Thank you so much, just what I needed to hear 🙏 "Celebrate the fact that a toxic and low integrity person has walked out of your life" Yeah, in retrospect the other did me a huge favour. They showed they just cant communicate in a straightforward and honest way and rather keep me guessing and worrying. Should be glad indeed I dont have to get involved with them any further.
Thank you Jessica! I'm dealing with this right now.
There is more to life than one person who doesn't like you. Think clear, wider and smart enough
Facts Jess! Walk away like a winner, keep the winner energy! even if it hurt u that aint going to kill u, Respect urself first!
She has the most precise videos I’ve ever seen 🙏🏾
I'm up here @3 am watching your video. And you don't know how much it has helped me. I really needed to hear this. I believe God has used you to speak to me especially after my breakup. Thanks Jessica ❤❤and God bless🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you Jess! I did called her 3 days after she ghosted, she apologized and asked that we be friends. It's been almost five weeks and I'm moving strong without her existence. By her ghosting me, it has boosted my confidence and self esteem
I needed you in my life!!! 😂 Thank you! Your words have been pure gold to me. So grateful for you. Had a girl do this and then waltz back in to also tell me she has a boyfriend. yet she wants to meet up.
Thanks Jessica, this has bees happening to me for years, now I know she's ghosting. Now I know better and she comes back after few months to beg me
Really so helpful. Off all the KZread channels I watch on these topics, I felt you are the most genuine in giving advises. Thank you.
Thank you, Jessica for this sage advice. Many times in the throws of emotional pain we forget these cogent, yet simple, realities. Be blessed, my dear sister!
I swear sometimes i think Jessica knows what is going on in my life or I am feeling. She's like angel with the right answers
Thank you Jessica. Exactly what I wanted to hear from you...
Jessica honestly your always on point people can value your ability when ur in astate of anger i love yo motivations
Jessica ever since you posted this video, i have been watching it anytime i close from work and i can confidently say i have found my real self God richly bless you🙏
Put premium on your life. Thank you Jessica...you are a source of inspiration, encouragement and a GIFT..love you ❤️
I'm leaving this comment here so after a month or year when someone likes it, I get reminded of this video
@innavision1920
10 ай бұрын
Reminding you of this video
@vs31396
27 күн бұрын
*Nudge*
@Msyztik
17 күн бұрын
Psst
I followed the advice on one of your videos and she finally said yes. Thank you
@JessicaOS
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
Hey Jessica. This video has helped me a lot and it is very powerful. Please keep on doing your videos. Thank you.
I must just say thank you. Its like you knew my situation even before you did the video. Thank you so much mama. I really enjoy watching your videos
Everytime I come and listen ... I just get better . Nice one Jessica ❣️
Really good solid advice! Been there done that only my case is sibling estrangement. Short story was we argued by text, she blocked me off communications by all means. I discovered peace and walked away to never look back! Hurts my heart but it’s what had to be done!
The moment of silence got me
That’s a great advice 🙏🏽 Thanks Jessy 👏🏽
This was well needed thank you‼️
I'm glad I found this video now. Very comforting words.
Damn, these videos are so informative, it takes away the feeling of sadness and worthlessness. No one loves you more than you. Thanks Jessica and God bless
These are advises from a mother to her sons. Just to say thank you Jess❤️😘💐
If Jessica open a school I would be the one of the first to sign up! Pure knowledge Jess 👊🏽
I saw this the very moment I needed something like this. Thank you Jessy🙏
You're on point Jess, love this video. Much love, Sahyoun
Jessica honestly, this is what I feel and being going through for some weeks now. I cried everytime I think about the whole thing. I begged like never before. It's really painful and brain draining. But I must say that, I kind of getting stronger and confidence after watching this video. I will try to adjust and pull up myself.💪 Thanks so much Jessica.
@sheilakhabere
2 жыл бұрын
You're doing well champ
@Oldsoulmedia
2 жыл бұрын
You're not alone bro. There are three stages in ghosting you have to pass through, I'm at the last phase myself now, it only gets easier to walk away as you go through these phases. The first phase is Shock: you don't believe she's doing that to you after all u both have been thru and how you've invested in this relationship Second Phase is denial: you refuse to accept the fact that she doesn't want you, that she's just using you. You see the signs clearly but you still won't believe it The third Phase: this is called the acceptance phase, this is where you come to yourself (consciousness) and review all that's happening and see things for what they truly are and not what you want them to be and accept that you've been rejected and quit trying, then walk away
@theeagle_personality3007
2 жыл бұрын
@@Oldsoulmedia exactly, you are right. Thanks so much bro. for the advice.
@michaeloshea4236
2 жыл бұрын
I get you in d same boat
@michaelpeople7283
2 жыл бұрын
Well, I’m that case I’m still stuck in the 1st phase. Making my way slowly to phase 2. This needs to hurry up.
I do this more often. My principle is very simple, I'm very accommodating yet very SNOBBISH. I'm very good at goodbyes 👋
Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement , I’ve thought everything you said but it’s nice to here someone say it out loud and give me perspective and hope
Thank you. This is the video I needed to see. My long-term ex did this. Despite being in shock, I instinctively did what you say - I made no further attempt to contact by any other means once I knew what was happening. I was unsure of myself; part of me wanted to 'fight for the relationship' or just get answers. Watching this makes me realise I did the right thing.
I broke up with my ex last year. I feel more ashamed of how I reacted, the questions and all the neediness, disrespecting myself makes me feel worse than her disrespect.
@christianbenn316
2 жыл бұрын
never have anything more to do with her for she not only ghosted you but broke your trust as well so don,t give her a 2nd chance to take her back in your life for it,s a red flag
It's the articulation in your spoken English for me. Proud to be a Ghanaian
Thank you so much Jessica, you instilled in me what I needed to hear, the thing is I know better.
My Girl Always Kills It With The GREAT VIDEOS. Thank You Jessica. DAVID, RI
Impeccable advice. And very timely. Thanks! 😊
You are a genius Jessica! Always on point.
Dearest Jessica I did exactly what you said in your video and now life is opening great future opportunities for me ! Thank you for your wonderful video and Cosmic blessings for your kindness and help! Love Life and Light to you always! 🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
@awunirichard4533
2 жыл бұрын
❤️
I really need to hear this, thank you so much Jessica 🙏
Come on you really change my lifestyle today I got girlfriend but she’s treating me like a young kid but I will try what you’ve preach and I belief it will work thanks a lot and God bless you forever All the way from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Wow.... This one hit me... Because Its happening to me...thank you Jessica..... Great insights....
@silveraruchi2421
2 жыл бұрын
Fine the reason why she's ghosting u someone can just ghost u for no reason.
Let them be…there’s honor in walking away..! It helps you recoup your lost energy and regain yourself..! Never repay disrespect with respect… that’s too much disservice, take the walk of honor…!! Leave..!
@isaaqmulumba9143
2 жыл бұрын
This is very great advice right here. Very informative. Best thing you can do for yourself
Big respect to you, Jessica
Thanks very much, I really needed this info. I have learned good things from you about love from your few videos , I have been naive concerning these things and have received a lot of mistreatments. Thanks for opening my eyes, and may God bless the works of your hands!
Really going through a lot right now, hitting rock bottom, but I trust God for a way out, I am looking for a job as well to help me for upkeep,
Damn this was amazing. Thank you. Was ghosted by my ex after 4 years in the relationship. I complained the lack of seeing her and her being overly busy to reply to texts and she then decided ghosting me was the best thing to do. Listen, it sucks and it’s been literally 48 hours but I’m ok. The hurt and shock turned into anger and now I’m like whatever. Her loss. Keep ya head up ladies and fellas. It gets better.
@justme-so2en
Жыл бұрын
Did she come back yet , I’ve got the same problem and I crave the day she comes back , they always do lol
@mrreddington777
Жыл бұрын
@@justme-so2en nope and honestly it’s totally fine. I met someone online and we’ve gone out on a couple of dates and it’s been fun. Of course it’s going to feel strange and in some weird way I felt like I was cheating or something but that will pass. I’m 45 and if I sat here waiting for her to comeback I’d be missing out on living. You shouldn’t either and if they left you then that’s their loss.
@justme-so2en
Жыл бұрын
@@mrreddington777 actually I asked a few times to talk to me more communicate and go on dates but it all was about school and work no intimacy nothing for 11 months so one day i got up told her I was going home and broke up with her . Be talked to her since and she’s said please wait for me yet she still treats me like I’m not a priority or a option so I’m healing and going on with my life . Thought she was the one and idk what happen to her but that’s not the woman I fell in love with
@mrreddington777
Жыл бұрын
@@justme-so2en I’ll say this. If your partner doesn’t treat you like a priority after you mention your feelings to her or him then it’s time to move on. No one is perfect but never accept being an option than someone’s priority. I was feeling the same way and I made my case and instead of my ex saying hey I’m sorry she ghosted me. Totally fine too. I can sleep peaceful at night knowing I tried and can now meet different people. Best of luck to you and stay strong. You are worth it.
@justme-so2en
Жыл бұрын
@@mrreddington777 thanks , even though my ex started school and asked for me to wait I broke up and am trying to move on even now trying to talk to her to get a date to get my stuff still she reads it and ghosts me at times I’ve had enough
I more than love this video. Thanks Jessica 🙏🏾❤️
It's like you know what I'm going through. Thank you . You helped alot just by watching this video
I know most of this info but the way you spoke on the topic was well recieved.
@JessicaOS
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you. And your support as well 🥰
Going through this right now with a girl that I had been dating for 3 weeks still hurts so bad!!
@francispellerin5093
Жыл бұрын
any updates ? mine lost interest after two weeks and ghosted me gradually by only answering without reciprocity.
@seanm7539
Жыл бұрын
My gf was in my life for about a year but , she went cold on me. And went back to her child’s baby daddy. It ended poorly. But I’m bouncing back we broke up back in January
I salute you Jessica on this.....it really heals the way you just put it...... nice video as usual.
I love you for the wise words - love you ! From this moment onwards I will never let anyone do this to me again! Done!
Value is important in every relationship… be it in the professional space, personal & in fact everything in general…
After every single girl Ive attempted to date and get into a relationship with has ghosted me, Ive realized this, It really doesnt matter, you can try your hardest, you can be a good man with a balanced lifestyle, take care of yourself, value yourself, be a great candidate, and still get ghosted. It's a pattern and I don't understand why. Which leaves me thinking, everyone I meet will end up ghosting me down the road so why even bother?
@psyheim
7 ай бұрын
We’re in the same boat bro, I honestly don’t even try anymore
@isaiah2810
Ай бұрын
Why bother It’s gonna hurt me It’s gonna kill when you desert me This happened to me twice before It won’t happen to me anymore 🎸🎼🎶
@jah_guar
20 күн бұрын
if someone ghost you mind me it's a red flag and that she finds something new
Thank you so much Jessica u r a real blessing to everyone.