being compared to siblings. HAVEN'T I GIVEN ENOUGH?
Жүктеу.....
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@melodys2717Ай бұрын
JAZZYYYY why does your explanation sound exactly like me when I was younger!!??? Like I remember whenever I lost in even like tying my shoelaces faster than other kids I would beat myself up about it and be so competitive and brag whenever I got the chance because I just needed to feel the acceptance of the others and how I’m superior like them and even now whilst I’m in my part of life that doesn’t criticise myself even sometimes on bad days I can find myself subtly bragging to someone to feel nice!!????? And I was so hard on myself I had to be the best at EVERYTHINGGGGGG. On top of this, I would always think I could get better results if I did it myself and the others just held me down. sorry for anyone reading my rants
@vriddhinavalakha2509Ай бұрын
Same and then parents are like you should always be free to talk to us "sure mom and sure dad"
@kavyanallani889Ай бұрын
Jazz has all the experiences and she gives us all advice
@aikamdhillon2010Ай бұрын
This is the most relatable video she’s done about Asian parents
@Moon_Cristal1234Ай бұрын
I didn’t grow up in an Asian household but honestly this is still really relatable. Being the youngest my dad for the most part had expectations on me because my older brother was always smart and had made his standards higher by that. Even though he doesn’t say it for the most part he still sometimes says things like “you know this” or “you can do this” even though I don’t. It still happens and is really frustrating
@CLEliasArtАй бұрын
Preach! ❤❤❤❤You get to decide what the definition of success is in your life. That’s the only definition that matters. That is TRUTH.
@MickeyNcatАй бұрын
As an Asian I actually can’t relate to this as I grew up with not too strict parents in Australia. They had low expectations for me which is sort of a good thing but all my friends at school were exactly like you Jaz, very competitive and achieving medals, making their parents proud and happy. I always thought I had let my parents down and they have given up on hoping that I would achieve anything. Now whenever I am in a competition or a game ( UNO for example) I would feel really anxious and scared I will let my team down or make a fool of myself when I lose.
@NereidaYao-zy6nwАй бұрын
Jazzy, you’re just Explaining me in a shorter version of myself I give myself so much pressure to point if I do not get the grade I want I will cry at least six times a week.
@user-vk5tn7ji5bАй бұрын
that is exactly like me when i was younger like use to literally throw all the uno cards if i lost in a game of uno and all of the other things that you said is exactly the same with my parents like them comparing me to my cousins saying it was supposed to "motivate" me especially because i was an only child so all the burden of expectations was on me😭😭
@kathrynson850Ай бұрын
Yes. So true. LITERALLY!!! Like I just stepped out of law school to help with finances and my cousin who did law school after me is getting all these credits. Like... wth? That doesn't mean she's better it literally just means I should have done what I wanted to do as soon as I finished college and that's to go to work at a young age, giving me time to save money so that when emergencies happen, I can still continue with my master plan. My cousin's family is just richer thus she was able to continue until pandemic was over. That's it!
@deepapattnaik3454Ай бұрын
Finally someone who says being content is success. But I truely believe having money laying around in bank account is very important because you never know what health crisis may occur.
@IamZahra6Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support jazmine but i kinda always feel like my parents (my mom. My parents are divorced) don’t like me and seeing other kids my age makes me feel kinda different and lonely because I have 4 other siblings and she kind of tells me bad word like “if I die, you are going to be its reason” or “you are such a headache”…. Thanks a lot for your motivation!!❤ Love you always❤️❤️🥰😘
@Echo-GamerzАй бұрын
FOR REAL IM SO TIERD OF BEING COMPARED TO MY COUSIN!!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡
@nagrajkolvekar6137
Ай бұрын
True
@BimalaAcchami
Ай бұрын
Me too I am sick of it
@airtiger4577
Ай бұрын
My sister in arms feels your pain.
@Its_Mickey10
Ай бұрын
Same! My cousin is 2 years older than me and 50% of what my grandma tells me about are her achievements
@YuviPhour
Ай бұрын
@@Its_Mickey10same but it a boy cousin
@Hinatsuru-SanАй бұрын
Me when I saw the title: 'HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? ALWAYS THE FOOL WITH THE SLOWEST HE-'
@vinshay1497
Ай бұрын
AYYY Gilded Lily ref!!!!
@himasha3125Ай бұрын
so true that comparison thing really get on my nerves
@dinosauraurАй бұрын
Jazzz, thank you for giving me the push to appreciate myself! Luv you so much girlieeee💖
@ArishaMalik-nj4rgАй бұрын
I really really love the way you say "Ok I love you byee"💖 Oh my god 😍 especially the BYEEE 😘💘 I love itttt
@ridhwan7255Ай бұрын
This didn't happen much for me as a child, but I was fragile and really needed that love and support. It still hurts but now that I've started seeing there's more to life than vanity, I'm VERY ready to respectful tell ANYONE off to never do that to me or my siblings else they risk harming out relationship VERY clearly. People need to do better
@Mellohi_404Ай бұрын
and now look at the confident girl we have now!❤
@AwasthiJii-so9syАй бұрын
Jazzzz u know what you're inspiration of many girls mann..... okiii lovee you bayeeee😅❤
@Ashley__rania22 күн бұрын
Why is it so relatable😭
@aesthx_blinksАй бұрын
As a single child Im always compared with my friends 😭
@RabeyaKhatun-vi2pwАй бұрын
You are a real it girl 💓💓
@asimrana2632Ай бұрын
girl I love your atittude your style and also you amazing and motivating love you. love from India
@sanhitadas3719Ай бұрын
I loveeee u soooo much jazzz! Can u pls make a video about friends?
@shreya5457Ай бұрын
U r so beautiful 😭✊️
@sharadakafle5725Ай бұрын
Yea true and when they compare you infornt of someone even worse
@Hello.bitches33Ай бұрын
FRR my mom always compares me to my cousin even tho her parents are MUCH MORE chill than mine her parents UNDERSTAND her unlike mine who are always ready to get into arguments
@Zoey_LiontigerАй бұрын
This is so real.
@aagggaa9623Ай бұрын
Ok, short storytime. This video is literally so relatable. When I was like 8 or 9 years old, my parents always compared me and my lil sis. I used to care, but now I just don't. I don't have to be as good as someone else, to be great. I don't have to be better than everyone else to be great. I just have to be enough for me. Btw, I'm 11, turning 12 this year. (Just in case: 😊 please don't be like those people, who say "aren't you too young to be in the comment section" My life, my choice.)
@vijayatripathi9124Ай бұрын
Love you girlyyy
@IdkhashtaglolАй бұрын
Why is this so true!?
@Unniex985_Ай бұрын
Tbh i m really exhausted of that fuc*ing trauma that happens when someone compares me to my sibling.
@leesapradhan1474Ай бұрын
Bro, I'm telling you.I wish I had a friend like her who had told me so many things about life where I didn't have to make those mistakes when it comes to men when it comes to parents or teenage
@user-gc6zj8jt3rАй бұрын
jazzy gurl LOOKS LIKE YOUR LIKE ME ASIAN PARETS NO GROUP WORKS. WHEN YOU SAID THAT A PERSON WHO IS TRUELY SUCESS FUL..... GURL I AGRREE WITH U U ARE SLAYYY QUEEN AND SUCESSFUL
@AngelinaHolden-wq1ivАй бұрын
Love you always too ❤
@khadijahkhan9456Ай бұрын
The first thing that came to my mind "haven't I given enough haven't I given enough"🎵
@BimalaAcchamiАй бұрын
She is so damn real for making this video asian parents sometimes cross the limits of comparing their children to their siblings or cousins i am a teen and boy my own cousin like my biggest enemy Love ya jazzy thanku for making my day sis✨💕
@Mio13068Ай бұрын
"yOu kNoW yOuR cOuSiN kEvIn iS dOiNg vErY wEllEh?" 😂😂😂😂
@flowergirl-1523Ай бұрын
For real😂
@SA_savageАй бұрын
Yeaaah! That's right 😂❤❤😅😊
@rezajafary2051Ай бұрын
Bravo!
@ananyasharma_25Ай бұрын
I am so happy to be an asian whose parents are really good ❤
@smritidua2960Ай бұрын
THANK YOU JAZZY!! ❤
@idkwhatsmyhandleАй бұрын
I think all Asian parents do that because mine do that too 😭
@user-mm2ty2cx3bАй бұрын
Every thing she told about her being competitive in the past is my present self
@SanviSingh-ek2ptАй бұрын
SO TRUE! thats all i can say SO TRUE!
@PrimordialOracleOfManyWorldsАй бұрын
jaz, you are not alone. my sister was compared until she got her life together and used her god-gifted genius intelligence that she neglected for years, went to the fashion institute of technology and university of Massachusetts, became a buyer at Macy's, rose to be a VP of Macy's. she was married for 30 years until her husband died of a heart attack. she had it all.
@FourishedDaydreamАй бұрын
Attention🌷💌🤍 The queen has posted
@karmahadidАй бұрын
Well, jasmine. U r a fighter. My parents did that also but yeah... im still a loser n not motivate enough to become successful 😅
@garigari5245Ай бұрын
Hi Jaz, any experience on encountering toxic boy mums? Any tips on handling this special creatures? 😂 They're weirdly so obsessive of their son, and super combative of other female presence in their son's life, to the point of borderline lunatic. It's a huge contrast, her behaviour around my fiancee's sisters/ her own daughters and my fiancee/her son 😅
@BLINKDOM_.Ай бұрын
Frrr🤧
@asimrana2632Ай бұрын
i am a girl and thankyou for this sibling......... advice
@yinix_AlexuhopeАй бұрын
My parents would compare me to my 6-7 YEARS APART SIBLINGS JUST BECAUSE OF RESULTS, THEY COMPARING LIKE 'oh, why cant you be as hardworking as your siblings and be more responsible' AND FOR THE SMALLEST OF THINGS THOSE TWO WOULD ACT LIKE THEY ARE THE VICTIMS WHEN THEY DON'T TAKE ACTION FOR THEIR OWN WORK, GETTING ME SCOLDED AND WHAT NOT. EVEN COMPARED TO MY OLDER COUSINS
@blossomed4695Ай бұрын
Same
@SnowfoxxyyАй бұрын
Ikr Arab parents are the same it sucks
@Anjela_ARTАй бұрын
Baby girl being a big sister is hard. I talk for my experience as a big f sister 😔😂😁
compared to cousins? always and foreverrrrrrrrrrrrr its the way of our living actually they know no other way of life then this their marks their passion their hobbies everything is compared to us specially if u are of same age
@user-ko5kh2pb5mАй бұрын
Im here early before famous love your videos
@FilmproplusАй бұрын
your content is like watching a good anime character girl.
@Birdie1212Ай бұрын
Hi ❤
@user-xr2fv5cy6iАй бұрын
I KNOW RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
@kayleetran1214Ай бұрын
my life:👁👄👁
@ThasaraGamageАй бұрын
THIS IS MY INNER VOICE RN😭😭😩😩
@sooyaasauceАй бұрын
im just THAT cousin 🤷♀️
@shilpisharma9153Ай бұрын
Jazz tell me more I’m so sick of it but lemme first compliment ur pretty hair colour
@dafialatas4179Ай бұрын
setuju jazmine 4 vice president,
@dafialatas4179
Ай бұрын
after this i will subtle disobey to parents order, proportionally listen to their interest, and give them, what they need , without sacrificing my interest
@kyoha9840Ай бұрын
Well I was the cousin that parents will compare you with(;
@X9LarvvaАй бұрын
rel
@pondering1716Ай бұрын
Kinda morbid, so only read if you like digging through the dirt... There will be a time in all of our lives when death comes for us - only us - and everyone else gets to continue on living. It's like a big unfair wall being put between you and the world that you can't tear down. At that moment of disconnection, say, looking at children playing in a park, you'll realize how precious having your whole life ahead of you is. Don't waste it being someone else. There's no room for "fitting in" once that wall goes up
@fahmidabegum1168Ай бұрын
I AM EARLYYYYY
@GiRL_NeXT_DOoR77Ай бұрын
So true 😂 also first pin plz 😢 l love your vids
@missisha6349Ай бұрын
I am first I am first😂
@sharadakafle5725Ай бұрын
I am first
@user-of4nu9yq4yАй бұрын
can i please get pinned ur my only confidence when im low
@JennieFan512Ай бұрын
Pls pin me ❤❤❤❤❤
@spiritual_pragunАй бұрын
You still going to be single/divorcee!!
@user-xx3dv7yw1xАй бұрын
Your mom wanted you to be a Doctor, so the rebellious in you became a KZreadr. Try to convince them that you make twice as much money now making videos
@Poulomi7866Ай бұрын
For a 2:23 video she did 7 times that "so called" bunny ear thing with her two fingers .....like seriously you're so so sooo overacting girl ...
Пікірлер: 94
JAZZYYYY why does your explanation sound exactly like me when I was younger!!??? Like I remember whenever I lost in even like tying my shoelaces faster than other kids I would beat myself up about it and be so competitive and brag whenever I got the chance because I just needed to feel the acceptance of the others and how I’m superior like them and even now whilst I’m in my part of life that doesn’t criticise myself even sometimes on bad days I can find myself subtly bragging to someone to feel nice!!????? And I was so hard on myself I had to be the best at EVERYTHINGGGGGG. On top of this, I would always think I could get better results if I did it myself and the others just held me down. sorry for anyone reading my rants
Same and then parents are like you should always be free to talk to us "sure mom and sure dad"
Jazz has all the experiences and she gives us all advice
This is the most relatable video she’s done about Asian parents
I didn’t grow up in an Asian household but honestly this is still really relatable. Being the youngest my dad for the most part had expectations on me because my older brother was always smart and had made his standards higher by that. Even though he doesn’t say it for the most part he still sometimes says things like “you know this” or “you can do this” even though I don’t. It still happens and is really frustrating
Preach! ❤❤❤❤You get to decide what the definition of success is in your life. That’s the only definition that matters. That is TRUTH.
As an Asian I actually can’t relate to this as I grew up with not too strict parents in Australia. They had low expectations for me which is sort of a good thing but all my friends at school were exactly like you Jaz, very competitive and achieving medals, making their parents proud and happy. I always thought I had let my parents down and they have given up on hoping that I would achieve anything. Now whenever I am in a competition or a game ( UNO for example) I would feel really anxious and scared I will let my team down or make a fool of myself when I lose.
Jazzy, you’re just Explaining me in a shorter version of myself I give myself so much pressure to point if I do not get the grade I want I will cry at least six times a week.
that is exactly like me when i was younger like use to literally throw all the uno cards if i lost in a game of uno and all of the other things that you said is exactly the same with my parents like them comparing me to my cousins saying it was supposed to "motivate" me especially because i was an only child so all the burden of expectations was on me😭😭
Yes. So true. LITERALLY!!! Like I just stepped out of law school to help with finances and my cousin who did law school after me is getting all these credits. Like... wth? That doesn't mean she's better it literally just means I should have done what I wanted to do as soon as I finished college and that's to go to work at a young age, giving me time to save money so that when emergencies happen, I can still continue with my master plan. My cousin's family is just richer thus she was able to continue until pandemic was over. That's it!
Finally someone who says being content is success. But I truely believe having money laying around in bank account is very important because you never know what health crisis may occur.
Thank you so much for your support jazmine but i kinda always feel like my parents (my mom. My parents are divorced) don’t like me and seeing other kids my age makes me feel kinda different and lonely because I have 4 other siblings and she kind of tells me bad word like “if I die, you are going to be its reason” or “you are such a headache”…. Thanks a lot for your motivation!!❤ Love you always❤️❤️🥰😘
FOR REAL IM SO TIERD OF BEING COMPARED TO MY COUSIN!!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡
@nagrajkolvekar6137
Ай бұрын
True
@BimalaAcchami
Ай бұрын
Me too I am sick of it
@airtiger4577
Ай бұрын
My sister in arms feels your pain.
@Its_Mickey10
Ай бұрын
Same! My cousin is 2 years older than me and 50% of what my grandma tells me about are her achievements
@YuviPhour
Ай бұрын
@@Its_Mickey10same but it a boy cousin
Me when I saw the title: 'HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? HAVENT I GIVEN ENOUGH? GIVEN ENOUGH? ALWAYS THE FOOL WITH THE SLOWEST HE-'
@vinshay1497
Ай бұрын
AYYY Gilded Lily ref!!!!
so true that comparison thing really get on my nerves
Jazzz, thank you for giving me the push to appreciate myself! Luv you so much girlieeee💖
I really really love the way you say "Ok I love you byee"💖 Oh my god 😍 especially the BYEEE 😘💘 I love itttt
This didn't happen much for me as a child, but I was fragile and really needed that love and support. It still hurts but now that I've started seeing there's more to life than vanity, I'm VERY ready to respectful tell ANYONE off to never do that to me or my siblings else they risk harming out relationship VERY clearly. People need to do better
and now look at the confident girl we have now!❤
Jazzzz u know what you're inspiration of many girls mann..... okiii lovee you bayeeee😅❤
Why is it so relatable😭
As a single child Im always compared with my friends 😭
You are a real it girl 💓💓
girl I love your atittude your style and also you amazing and motivating love you. love from India
I loveeee u soooo much jazzz! Can u pls make a video about friends?
U r so beautiful 😭✊️
Yea true and when they compare you infornt of someone even worse
FRR my mom always compares me to my cousin even tho her parents are MUCH MORE chill than mine her parents UNDERSTAND her unlike mine who are always ready to get into arguments
This is so real.
Ok, short storytime. This video is literally so relatable. When I was like 8 or 9 years old, my parents always compared me and my lil sis. I used to care, but now I just don't. I don't have to be as good as someone else, to be great. I don't have to be better than everyone else to be great. I just have to be enough for me. Btw, I'm 11, turning 12 this year. (Just in case: 😊 please don't be like those people, who say "aren't you too young to be in the comment section" My life, my choice.)
Love you girlyyy
Why is this so true!?
Tbh i m really exhausted of that fuc*ing trauma that happens when someone compares me to my sibling.
Bro, I'm telling you.I wish I had a friend like her who had told me so many things about life where I didn't have to make those mistakes when it comes to men when it comes to parents or teenage
jazzy gurl LOOKS LIKE YOUR LIKE ME ASIAN PARETS NO GROUP WORKS. WHEN YOU SAID THAT A PERSON WHO IS TRUELY SUCESS FUL..... GURL I AGRREE WITH U U ARE SLAYYY QUEEN AND SUCESSFUL
Love you always too ❤
The first thing that came to my mind "haven't I given enough haven't I given enough"🎵
She is so damn real for making this video asian parents sometimes cross the limits of comparing their children to their siblings or cousins i am a teen and boy my own cousin like my biggest enemy Love ya jazzy thanku for making my day sis✨💕
"yOu kNoW yOuR cOuSiN kEvIn iS dOiNg vErY wEllEh?" 😂😂😂😂
For real😂
Yeaaah! That's right 😂❤❤😅😊
Bravo!
I am so happy to be an asian whose parents are really good ❤
THANK YOU JAZZY!! ❤
I think all Asian parents do that because mine do that too 😭
Every thing she told about her being competitive in the past is my present self
SO TRUE! thats all i can say SO TRUE!
jaz, you are not alone. my sister was compared until she got her life together and used her god-gifted genius intelligence that she neglected for years, went to the fashion institute of technology and university of Massachusetts, became a buyer at Macy's, rose to be a VP of Macy's. she was married for 30 years until her husband died of a heart attack. she had it all.
Attention🌷💌🤍 The queen has posted
Well, jasmine. U r a fighter. My parents did that also but yeah... im still a loser n not motivate enough to become successful 😅
Hi Jaz, any experience on encountering toxic boy mums? Any tips on handling this special creatures? 😂 They're weirdly so obsessive of their son, and super combative of other female presence in their son's life, to the point of borderline lunatic. It's a huge contrast, her behaviour around my fiancee's sisters/ her own daughters and my fiancee/her son 😅
Frrr🤧
i am a girl and thankyou for this sibling......... advice
My parents would compare me to my 6-7 YEARS APART SIBLINGS JUST BECAUSE OF RESULTS, THEY COMPARING LIKE 'oh, why cant you be as hardworking as your siblings and be more responsible' AND FOR THE SMALLEST OF THINGS THOSE TWO WOULD ACT LIKE THEY ARE THE VICTIMS WHEN THEY DON'T TAKE ACTION FOR THEIR OWN WORK, GETTING ME SCOLDED AND WHAT NOT. EVEN COMPARED TO MY OLDER COUSINS
Same
Ikr Arab parents are the same it sucks
Baby girl being a big sister is hard. I talk for my experience as a big f sister 😔😂😁
Fr I hate being compared
Jelly beans/ jawbreaker/ jelly rings / jolly rancher
They always compare me too😭😭
compared to cousins? always and foreverrrrrrrrrrrrr its the way of our living actually they know no other way of life then this their marks their passion their hobbies everything is compared to us specially if u are of same age
Im here early before famous love your videos
your content is like watching a good anime character girl.
Hi ❤
I KNOW RIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
my life:👁👄👁
THIS IS MY INNER VOICE RN😭😭😩😩
im just THAT cousin 🤷♀️
Jazz tell me more I’m so sick of it but lemme first compliment ur pretty hair colour
setuju jazmine 4 vice president,
@dafialatas4179
Ай бұрын
after this i will subtle disobey to parents order, proportionally listen to their interest, and give them, what they need , without sacrificing my interest
Well I was the cousin that parents will compare you with(;
rel
Kinda morbid, so only read if you like digging through the dirt... There will be a time in all of our lives when death comes for us - only us - and everyone else gets to continue on living. It's like a big unfair wall being put between you and the world that you can't tear down. At that moment of disconnection, say, looking at children playing in a park, you'll realize how precious having your whole life ahead of you is. Don't waste it being someone else. There's no room for "fitting in" once that wall goes up
I AM EARLYYYYY
So true 😂 also first pin plz 😢 l love your vids
I am first I am first😂
I am first
can i please get pinned ur my only confidence when im low
Pls pin me ❤❤❤❤❤
You still going to be single/divorcee!!
Your mom wanted you to be a Doctor, so the rebellious in you became a KZreadr. Try to convince them that you make twice as much money now making videos
For a 2:23 video she did 7 times that "so called" bunny ear thing with her two fingers .....like seriously you're so so sooo overacting girl ...
Fr! The lasting competitive effect is so real