As an oldest child who was also an only child for eight years I know how this shig feels

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

ahh im so sorry you know how this feels I completely understand

@tajinaasgar

Жыл бұрын

Yess the high expectations is sooo real tip like I could have a 94 in math and my litttlr sister could get a C and my parents don’t mind and also the blaming always happens I hate it

@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp

Жыл бұрын

Same, but my parents treat me and my younger brother according to our ages. Sometimes I feel they spoil me too much, like treat me like a child younger than my age (I like it). So as an oldest child I can't relate to this. They treat my younger brother the way they treated me at his age. Btw, this (the way my parents treat us) is common in my country.

@tajinaasgar

Жыл бұрын

@@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp good for you!!

@navoditachakraborty-zl7yp

Жыл бұрын

@@tajinaasgar ikr

This is basically describing me as the oldest

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

ahh im so sorry...

@PreppybyTalluah

Жыл бұрын

Same for me

@TurtleDropZone

Жыл бұрын

Same…

@shadinaneo6452

Жыл бұрын

Same though....

@Tipsbykennedy.

Жыл бұрын

Fr

a quote from my parents: “since you’re the oldest, you have the most expectations…they go down with each child. simple.”

@lara_ballerina

Жыл бұрын

felt

@HazardousBgirl

9 ай бұрын

Oof. That’s though.

@nailzzy-xoxo.

7 ай бұрын

Lucky.

@slytheringirl1814

7 ай бұрын

Bruh I'm the youngest and I completely feel like being the oldest it sucks. Who ever is the youngest child is sooooo lucky

@MeexXD

7 ай бұрын

felt bro

Honestly, this isn't a representation of an oldest child, it's a representation of bad parenting.

@Xx-urfavbrunette-xX

Жыл бұрын

that’s what i said

@tahiti-themagicalplace7007

Жыл бұрын

Nah I’m oldest and this is true

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

@@tahiti-themagicalplace7007I’m a oldest child and this is how my younger sister is treated. It’s bad parenting it’s just some people don’t accept the fact that some parents are bad. I’m sorry for you.

@MiuMiu_Wony

Жыл бұрын

Nope

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

@@MiuMiu_Wony yep

This is literally my life: I'm tired of having to go home afraid that someone will tell me something because I got an A- instead of an A/A+. I'm tired of always having to have a thousand responsibilities. I'm tired of being blamed for anything. And I’m not perfect, my sisters CAN’T be like me because my life isn’t the best. Finally someone who understands me. Thanks girl, I respect you 💕

me for high expectations: it’s literally impossible in my school to get an a+-

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

yeah isn't it just Im in a media school so its quite easy to get a top grade distinction

@Lefty-1909

Жыл бұрын

I non stop study to make my parents proud as they're always digging into me that I need to work harder so I don't end up like them and I can achieve my dreams. This makes me extremely ambitious and rarely get to do things that I want to do. But they don't realise this. They always call me lazy and say I spend to much time in my room but it's were I do my work and the other bit of time I have left is what I would actually spend in my room. I'm really stressed out alot of the time but they don't think I can be because I'm "just lazy" and think I'm using it as an excuse. I rarely want to eat, I struggle with sleep and sometimes don't, I lack motivation but when I have motivation, I REALLY have it, I have so many procrastinating thoughts, I pull my hair, etc. but they don't realise any of it. However, teachers who barely know me know more of it than them and have even told them but my parents just ignored it and got worse. However, they're always bragging about my intelligence to their friends but then moan because I don't/can't help out with chores as much and constantly compare me to my cousin who always does chores because she doesn't focus on school work like I do and has time but she gets paid for it.

@mysterygalaxykitten4394

Жыл бұрын

fr

Nothing feels worse than getting As all throughout elementary, being exited to tell your parents and them being just as excited, then the reaction slowly fading into ‘well that’s just the expectation’ then the only response you get when you work your ass off in high school to have a 4.0 and they barely blink twice. Then you get another sibling, and the expectation for them is barely Cs because ‘they’re not like you, they’re like I was in high school.’

@user-19jfJd283jdjJ

6 ай бұрын

*The never spoken truth*

@VegetaPrinceofSaiyans1

Ай бұрын

Listen to this: So my entire elementary and middle school life, I gave my parents straight As, except a couple of times in middle school where they were Bs. I'm going to eleventh grade. A couple of months ago, I got a C. My father got the audacity to start calling me a "C Student." I'm still hurt by this bullcrap. And now my youngest brother uses it on me in arguments, knowing it hurts. No one even cares anyway. I'm "just being too sensitive"

this is so accurate. being the oldest also ment you had to pick up the whole house cause your siblings "don't do it as good as you" or some stupid reasons like that.

@Copperxx

Жыл бұрын

No I swear it’s first like: “you have to be a good role model, you should be a good example for your younger sibling” Then it’s like: “you should be like your younger sibling” I just don’t understand parents sometimes

@rafiamir6758

Жыл бұрын

it feels like they are making you do it bexause your the oldest, not because your siblings are young or any other reason

@vk2ig

10 ай бұрын

​@@CopperxxIt's a fundamental fact that some parents are ... well, I don't want to insult anyone so I won't say it. But it would be nice if they stopped and thought of the adverse impact on their kids for once.

@Memeking_Bob

9 ай бұрын

​@@Copperxxtrueee

I’m not even the favorite child and most of this hasn’t even happened to me. And most likely never will.

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

your lucky

@randomgachawithvicky8445

Жыл бұрын

@@libbyglass wow thanks for replying! 💖🥹

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

It’s because you have good parents. Good for you not everyone is that lucky!

@HH56727

11 ай бұрын

Lucky

this so relatable. especially the getting blamed part. people are always like “you’re lucky you’re the oldest.” no, come on. if this is luck, i’ve been lied to lol

@Shadowdragonz13

8 ай бұрын

Ikr, my brother had a broken toy and he blamed me for when I did nothing about it, I am a teenager I don't want anything to do with the toy! Yet I got blamed, but the thing is, now I have been blaming him right back for stuff that I know he never did and now I am the " rude person", sometimes you never win being oldest 😔

As the oldest child with a younger brother everything on here is true. You just described me... 😭

I can relate a lot to the last one, it’s always like my mum doesn’t even care, she always blaming me for everything that my little brother does, when we get in a argument she blames it on me saying I must of done something to annoy him

I am the oldest so i can relate a ton. They always blame me for something my sister did. Like if she made a huge mess. My parents would say it’s my fault. Its not fair 😔

@user-tq9vs6fc9u

Жыл бұрын

I’m a younger sister but an older cousin, so I can at least relate a bit when it comes to that. “You’re older so you should’ve stopped him” but when you act older “You’re not his parent, stop that”. You can’t win.

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

That’s called bad parenting it’s terrible how many people relate to this.

@luffy0562

Жыл бұрын

@@user-tq9vs6fc9u yup thats so true

I am the oldest sibling and I can relate soo much. I also love how you make people understand what problems people around you feel, and what they have to deal with. I will definetly recomend your channel to my friends (even though I have only 1)

Honestly you need an award for being so relatable. As an oldest child myself I definitely can agree.

@Ryleigh_Jade.06

Жыл бұрын

No they don't need a reward

@Stormborn-Rose

Жыл бұрын

@@Ryleigh_Jade.06 why not. If I may ask.

@Ryleigh_Jade.06

Жыл бұрын

@@Stormborn-Rose because it's not relatable to a lot of people

@Stormborn-Rose

Жыл бұрын

@@Ryleigh_Jade.06 I was just going of my experience. Sry if ur offended

As the middle child I basically take care of all my siblings while my parents are gone but my older brother says he’s “the boss”

@niggasgang8784

Жыл бұрын

As the oldest he's sound spoiled asf

@emiliaequestrian

Жыл бұрын

Same

@HealingIsOk

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@Midnight-fy3uj

Жыл бұрын

As the oldest child I have to take care of everyone well everyone screams and complains to me. It just depends on the family really.

@asuna6541

Жыл бұрын

@@niggasgang8784 I mean he has a PS5 he doesn’t even use that he got for Christmas. I had to return a gift or 2 so I could get a laptop, shoulda returned the PS5.

Bro can’t relate my older sister can do whatever she wants and won’t get in trouble for it, like she stole the rent money once. But I feel bad for every other older sibling they have it rough.❤

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

ahh im so sorry I can't believe she did that how can she get away with that that's crazy! I completely agree with you

@riWeebBee

Жыл бұрын

honestly my brother is the same he is always hitting me and taunting me plus steals mom's money when she isnt here and im too traumatised to tell her

@mirandavillamizar8564

Жыл бұрын

me 2 she get an A they compare every person in the room like you should get an a 2 like she did

@riWeebBee

Жыл бұрын

@@flimedbylia i told her and she just said hit him back and when i did i got a whole lecture about how he is older and my brother and as his sister i should respect him

@Motala_2010

Жыл бұрын

My sisters the same

Can you do life of a youngest child.

As a youngest child, I have been blamed for everything and get compared to others

@MiuMiu_Wony

Жыл бұрын

If you think so you’re lucky you’re not the oldest

@Seungmins_nmbr1

11 ай бұрын

@@MiuMiu_Wony ik every child isn't lucky tbh

@Halt_ichf130

8 ай бұрын

Then see what the oldest people go through

as the oldest child with one other sibling, i relate to this... especially being blamed and having to do all the chores..

This is the opposite of my older sister life. I love being my little sisters role model.

As the oldest child in my family, I can relate to this a lot.

I very honestly and truly can relate. It’s really annoying some times

This is soo true man its so hard being the oldest

as an oldest child and a middle child I can proudly say I love looking after my siblings there so funny, smart and interesting and also I love kids as long as they're not those kids that keep asking for your phone and then your parents force you to give it to them

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

Then you must have good parents.

As the oldest child I'm happy to see finally someone who values the oldest child but Yeah it's pretty accurate we always get blamed for things we didn't do (and the rest is also true

This is so relatable tysm for spreading awareness abt this

This is so true being the oldest is quite hard. I know how this feels and the last one about breaking is the worst one out of all of them.

as an oldest child, I feel this 💗

I’m the oldest child and all of this stuff happens to me. I always get blamed for everything which kinda makes me mad.

The "just revise harder next time" is so real, like I did my very best and you guys said you'd be proud of me but when I do my best I just get hit with a "try harder next time" like what?😭

Could you do one on being a younger sibling? We also share some pain…

no this is called bad parents not oldest child

Have you done youngest yet?

@sharbanibose

Жыл бұрын

Yesss exactly,I wanted one too

@-Summ3r

Жыл бұрын

@@sharbanibose I’m guessing your also a younger sibling

@sharbanibose

Жыл бұрын

@@-Summ3r yup

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

im doing youngest next I promise

@libbyglass

Жыл бұрын

im doing youngest next I promise

As the oldest I can very much relate.

This is why the oldest child always hides their pain…

I can relate to that!

As the oldest child I can confirm this is true It's honestly horrible 😭 you can't get a break no matter which child you are

When a yt short describes you better than you can 💀

This is me fr i love ur vids they r so helpful, especially as an autistic kid with anxiety and bpd and eating disorders/body shame. i have become so much more confident since i subbed so ty

It feels so good to have someone who understands me ❤

As an older child myself thank you for doing this now people can feel what we feel

As a oldest child it made me cry😢

As the oldest girl of 3 I know how this feels, and the worst part is this isn’t where it ends, there’s so much more stuff

The high expectations one is so relatable especially because I am "smarter" than most people so my parents expect me to do really well even though I am bad at tests

Very true I am the oldest and it’s hard bc u try rly hard and shit and you just want to take one break but the u feel like you didn’t do enough or u think u r disappointing ur parents and if u feel like this too just know that ur not the only one out there and it will always get better❤❤❤❤

omg this just breaks my heart

This is so true I’m the oldest of 2 and it gets hard sometimes it’s always so unfair 😭

This is sooo true the oldest child always gets the blame like me but it is not our little sisters falt it feels like that our parents don't even care about us only the youngest child

My day has felt bad cause of my younger siblings I needed this thank

I'm the oldest child and this is honestly so true

I'm the oldest, and some of these things are really accurate. My parents always expect me to be the best and be the role model.

I am the oldest myself, and I feel all this...i wish we were treated a bit better

This is the most relatable thing ever.

The grades one especially hurts when your younger sibling(s) get a higher grade and your parents are all proud of them but say "Its ok. Just try harder next time" to u

Some people forgot we have feelings and heart too 🥺💔

I can relate as a older child im responsible for everything 😅

As an oldest child i relate to this my parents have high expectations on me 😢

As an older child with 4 lil brothers, this is so relatable!!

Watching this as an oldest child made me cry idk why

As a middle child this is describing me so hard rn…

The funny thing is that I actually relate to this it’s my day to day life of the oldest child and I started to talk back but then just decided that it’s not worth my time

As an oldest child,...I can definitely relate to this .....

As the oldest sibling in my family, I can say that this is true. Also my brother takes advantage of him being the youngest to blame everything on me and get in trouble. There's more down sides than positive effects to being the oldest.

I just started tearing up bc it’s sad how this is true- I’m a oldest child to three other kids 😔

As the youngest the looking up to the older sibling part made me cry it was too accurate

As the oldest of 7 kids, this is so true😭

I love and hate being the oldest at the same time. Like the other sibling positions it has it's ups and downs

Finally someone who understands

I'm the middle child and get treated like this. Gotta love being the middle kid.

As the oldest of 8 this is HELLA relatable😭✌️

This is exactly how it is for me it's perfect tysm for making this

This is so relatable 😢

This was painfully accurate

I’m the oldest and I can relate to this my little brother always act like a brat when I’m other here crying myself to sleep

A thousand, percent, relatable ✨✨✨

As an oldest child I'd like to say that this happens alot and it feels bad tbh it lead me into deep depression! SO ALWAYS KEEP UR HEAD HIGH AND NEVER LET SOMEONE MAKE U FEEL SMALL! ❤❤❤

I have been an oldest child of 6 for 12 years, this LITERALLY DESCRIBES MY LIFE

girl that's just so #relatable !

I have never found something more relatable in my life

I also go through this but I’m the youngest and my older sisters get away with everything and than I get yelled at or told I’m lying about something…

Someone who finally understand how, hard it is to be the life of the oldest sibling. Km literally the oldest and some of the things happen ti me🥺😢

As the oldest this really is how it is, not able to go out because of siblings and babysitting, the role model, the blame, and (for me personally) the not being helped for personal issues because no one realizes

As the oldest, the last 2 were very relatable as the first 2 not so much. It’s sad to know people know how it feels :’)

Yes. I'm an oldest child and this is perfectly describing my life

She just explained my whole life

Ikr like when u have plans everything ruins it... Being the oldest literally SUCKS SO MUCH

This is so relatable all of my friends are like your grade is good then why are you being worried. Isn't this thing too much why always it's the elder one but not the younger one. This thing made me almost cry🙂.

As an oldest child i can completely relate everything that happens my mom blames it on me all she also yells a lot

don’t forget we have to do all the chores

This is basically describing me as the oldest..I’ve been dealing with this for 9yrs, I know how this feels

@Miracle12348

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry for you.

Finally someone understands being a role model is a lot of pressure to be perfect and you feel like you have to hide your emotions 😢

As the oldest child all these are true! But I love my mom she’s awesome

Legit the most relatable thing ive ever seen

As an oldest child I know what it feels like being blamed for stuff you didn’t even do….

I rarely see oldest child POVs. It is always middle children. Middle children have it bad, but it always makes my day to see the oldest child ones.

Ok but I found the role model cute it shows the relationship between the siblings and show how much they care about each other

As an oldest child I know how this feels

im an young child and this makes me cry i remember my sister:(

This so so true-😭😭 Minus the role model