If you're here to call me a heterosexual male, my wife is also a trans woman so lol

@kota1998

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤😂

@quack2354

Жыл бұрын

wait you got married?!? Congratulations!!😊

@spectrespartan8140

Жыл бұрын

Sorry,str8 guy here,im confused,how does that work for you?? Im asking respectfully

@Corruptedkiwi

Жыл бұрын

@@spectrespartan8140 simple. They see themselves as a woman. They see their partner as a woman. It may seem silly. And sorry if that’s offensive, but I just look at it as it doesn’t effect me. So whatever they want to be or choose, is their choice and not my issue

@thegaytay4327

Жыл бұрын

​@@Corruptedkiwi You're right, that is offensive and you need to piss off

How can you "trick" someone you're not even trying to be attractive for? The entitlement is ridiculous

@unknown39778

Жыл бұрын

Thats men for ya.. you turn them down and now you're an ugly b*tch!

@missandry2669

Жыл бұрын

Most males are entitled!!

@mastertrey4683

Жыл бұрын

People think everything is supposed to make THEM feel some type of way

@trinidaddy3338

Жыл бұрын

Honestly

@screaming8452

Жыл бұрын

​@@Monkforilla how is not telling someone you're trans actively tricking and decieving them? they're just existing as trans people and shouldn't feel like they have to out themselves all the time.

I was once told I tried to trick a man into thinking I was single. Sir. I led you to tomato sauce at a grocery store. How the hell do they make those connections.

@ArolzStreams

Жыл бұрын

That’s way different than knowing a man is into you and instead of shutting it down, you ask him to borrow money, or fix shit in your house for free, or asking for rides places. As long as you let them know you aren’t interested, they are creeps if they keep going after you.

@flowersforthedead5182

Жыл бұрын

@@ArolzStreams there are many other reasons that a man is a creep my dude. If you are a woman you can just tell. What you are talking about clearly is a you problem.

@helendavis3688

Жыл бұрын

Oh priceless comment. You led him to the tomato sauce 🤣. Shame on you bad girl.🤣😂

@screaming8452

Жыл бұрын

​@@ArolzStreams most women don't do those things before getting harrassed yknow.. actually a lot of women avoid asking random men for rides or inviting them home because of how often women get attacked.

@pinksugarcookies71

Жыл бұрын

Thats practically a proposal! Lol. In a delusional mind lol

this comment section passes the vibe check. and that's rare. the comment sections on trans creators on shorts are... a different breed..

Men: I don't wanna date you😠 Her: Me neither:D Men: B-BUT!!😡😡

Men who can only see women as a sexual interest are disqusting. I'm sadly a hetero cis woman and I still deal with those things, with the difference that they tell me I'm tricking them because I'm being nice to them.

@hypnopompicfool985

Жыл бұрын

It also sucks cause the reason most women are nice in the first place to strange men is to try to avoid excess aggression from the guys who think "no" isn't an answer. It's a doubled sided blade, be an even more polite decent human and get called a "tease" for existing or be assertive and risk them getting aggressive and attempting to attack you.

@IceFoxPlaysActual

Жыл бұрын

@@hypnopompicfool985 or just be honest and say I’m gay and get threatened with sexual violence is a fun one!/s

@CowboyCatRO

Жыл бұрын

uneducated people are everywhere

@justinb3668

Жыл бұрын

To be fair im s8 and when i see a cute girl it makes my dick jump so maybe thats what they meant lol

@L3r4k

Жыл бұрын

Apparently, there's a lot of emotional man. If a woman says hello to them, they already think about the names of the children they will have.

I do voice trolling on a video game I play, doing a girl impression, and there have been guys asking to get my socials, and like… I then have to tell them that I’m a dude, and surprisingly theyre like „oh that’s fine. can I still get ur socials?“ 🙃 f*ck.

Men are wacky. Came out to my ex bf as a lesbian and he told me that I was doing it to spite him :/

@alexnoctum2951

Жыл бұрын

My ex boyfriend had to “cope” with the fact that I’m non binary. This was after years of not talking…

@-.starfilled_galaxy.-

11 ай бұрын

Yikes so self centered jeez. Like… (I’m talking about the ex-bfs you both mentioned)

No matter whether you're cis or trans straight men seem to have this weird obsession with lesbians.

@epikorange5983

Жыл бұрын

ever heard of corn? society has rotted the men of this generation with so much corn to where we make those types of correlations even though the situation isn't even sexual

Uh I wear a wedding ring and a lez colored collar... it doesn't matter if you paint it on your face men get so upset feeling "tricked" by someone that's not even interested. 😢

fellow trans lesbian here! Thanks for bringing awareness to this! It’s nice knowing it’s not something that just happens to me!

@redmamba4695

Жыл бұрын

Can you explain to me what a trans lesbian is ?

@Brian-yz8dj

Жыл бұрын

​@redmamba4695 a trans woman who likes woman.

Literally. It makes zero sense. It’s adorable that they think that they would even get a chance if you were straight. My girlfriend is trans and she’s in the same boat as you.

Lmao wow they act like you are tricking them when your not even trying to be attractive. Classic entitlement

@Cwinchk

Жыл бұрын

But she’s obviously stunning

@hypnopompicfool985

Жыл бұрын

*not even trying to attract men, she is probably still wanting to be attractive just wants the attention from women instead lol

@Aisndianeidnawbedja

Жыл бұрын

I'd say she looks pretty

@ferret8103

Жыл бұрын

W opinion

@raunchi2383

Жыл бұрын

Definitely trying to be attractive. NOT trying to attract them.

Amazing comment section guys! Yesss love this ❤️

A lot of guys think that women exist for them. Thats why its common for guys to think that girIs wear make up or dress nice for them. Like sir, if only you knew how littIe most women thought of yaII.

Okay but on the bright side, we don't have to date men. It's a little give and take lol

how did we get to this point, societally. where men think that they deserve the attention or time of any other non-man. smh

@chuni5942

Жыл бұрын

Bro it was always like that. The only difference is that if I say no to a man's proposal i don't get sacrificed to the ancient gods or some shit

@IceFoxPlaysActual

Жыл бұрын

@@chuni5942 but if you say no cause your gay you still might

@beeeeeesbury

Жыл бұрын

​@chuni nah, but you might get murdered all the same. Been like that for centuries now

@themutesiren5542

Жыл бұрын

@@chuni5942 i love your reply.

@unknown39778

Жыл бұрын

Remember women used to be property to men.. nothing has changed just more awareness.

Yeah I get a lot of cis straight men disappointed when I say to them that I’m into girls and that I have a girlfriend already. Then they get confused and ask if I have ever thought about trying being with a guy. My answer is “have you?” It’s nice being able to pass and it’s very euphoric and validating but boi it comes with constant unwanted attention 😅

Preach girlie PREACH. I’m a trans guy and I’m gay but all these girls wanna get with me and try to “change me” like what?

@lllMellll

Жыл бұрын

;-;

@tatiana4050

Жыл бұрын

This is like super convoluted. Because they are trying to make you straight. But by making you straight they are also trying to make you attracted to your biological sex.

@xx_Mags_xx

Жыл бұрын

@@tatiana4050 Ik it’s really weird-

“That sounds like more of a you problem” -girl honestly 😂❤

I hate my gender. I really do. They disgust me in so many different ways and make it SO HARD for us to make any kind of meaningful connection with girls. Having to fight past the ideas of us they have come to expect before anything makes it almost impossible to have any kind of relationship these days. On behalf of douchebag guys everywhere, I apologise.

@bellejour559

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! Just keep calling out their behaviour and be the change you want to see. My man puts misogynistic men in their place regularly. I wish you a lifetime of love, health and happiness. 💕

@forestleger2313

10 ай бұрын

Wow, why aren't there more men like you?!

My grandpa once said he doesn't care what sexually someone is he just doesn't want gay guys hitting on him I said you don't even get straight women hitting on you I don't think you'll have to worry about that 😂

A lot of cishet men dont even take cisgender lesbians seriously so I can only imagine how much more frustrating it might be to be a trans lesbian. You’re valid and you’re slay ✨

What is going on ?!

@vladimirjohnson9948

Жыл бұрын

I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're actually curious. This person was born in a male body but identifies as a woman. She has went through treatment so that her body suits her gender. The medical reason for doing this is a thing called dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is a sort of intense discomfort in one's own body because it doesn't fit their internal identity. She is also attracted to women, making her a lesbian. She is talking in the video about men who tell her that she is being dishonest by not coming out as trans to everyone she meets. Obviously this would be stupid because there is no reason for her to do this since she is not even interested in men.

I didn’t know trans lesbian was a real thing it’s good to know i’m not alone

@jadeeeeee759

10 ай бұрын

Same i thought i was like weird

@memphismickey8598

10 ай бұрын

You are NOT alone. I, also, am a Trans lesbian.

Because your visually pleasing to them but your not interested in them so it angers them then finding out your Trans and them getting embarrassed for being interested in a Trans lesbian it really pisses them off and hurts their ego for some reason

I've always wanted to come out as trans lesbian.... but never new I'd find anyone else wanting the same thing I have ❤❤❤❤

LMAO every woman has this, so annoying for the pushy, rude men trying to hit on the girls and you are literally so pretty Robin like what?

My gf is also trans and I sent this to her

the way men center themselves no matter the situation is baffling!

I love how men say that you’re trying to trick them when they said that they’re not even attracted to trans at all in the first place 😂😂

If your dating men and is thinking of doing sexual stuff with him then yes you should tell them your trans but that not even your case, your not trying to date and/or trying to do something sexual with him so you shouldn't have to tell them your trans, how does that not make sense

@nonbinarybastard

11 ай бұрын

She has a wife

How are you tricking them if you aren't having sexual relationship with them? I'd never become a trans because I love myself and being a woman so it's hard for me to understand the changes that happen because I've never tried to understand... but like what are you supposed to do introduce yourself as trans instead of using your name that's just silly business

O.M.G As a lesbian, trans lesbians are one of my favorite humans🔥🔥🔥🔥

i understand expecting it when dating or sleeping with people. then its an issue of consent. but when sex/dating is not on the table its not their business.

Lmao. Im a lesbian (not trans tho) and its real how many guys Will say ‘you tricked me!’ And stuff. P.S i am the most open lesbian ever. I have a girlfriend, i have lesbian pride flag stickers on everything i own, and openly talk about being lesbian-

you say your a trans lesbian and say "men say your tricking them?" as long as they know your a lesbian thats all they "need" to know. Period.

I always have to breakdown to ppl about being translesbian ....it's annoying sometimes

They expect you to walk around with a sticker on your forehead that says “ I’m trans “ or something like damn

You're not doing anything wrong. The problem is them. A lot of men feel insecure if/when they find out a girl they find is trans. Unless you get romantically involved with, or choose to tell someone it's no one's business but your own that you're trans. My biggest problem with being a trans lesbian is I have a problem finding queer women who are open to dating a pre-op trans woman. You are beautiful, you do you girl, be yourself, be happy!

Same here. It's just that I'm not out as a trans, so nobody truly knows. But I always yearn for a time when my wife would ever consider me her woman.

A trans lesbian so you were a guy then changed to a woman and a lesbian,Are you attracted to women,sorry am just curious

@-.starfilled_galaxy.-

11 ай бұрын

Yes they would be attracted to women as a lesbian.

@SepticShockAKAVin

10 ай бұрын

Yup, she is!

I hate when ”friends” and family feel the need to out me. Being trans is difficult. Not so much because of the medical stuff, but because so much hate and stupidity we receive. I get exactly what you mean. The few times I have dated men it was always a countdown to see when they'd fold after being bullied by insecure straight men.

As a lesbian I would be pretty pissed about this.

honestly one of my first interactions with people I try to let them know basic info about myself to avoid situations, or more accurately put the ball in their court as opposed to keeping things vague. I'm a pansexual male, and I make sure to state that means that at any given time I may already have, or gain interest in somebody, no matter who you are. That doesn't mean I'll pursue that interest or ever achieve it at all, just that the fact that is a part of who I am. This sometimes is followed by me telling someone that not to worry I don't think of you like that if I really don't. This immediately gets some people to leave me alone, and yeah been called gay by some brahs at times but I don't take their idiocy personally. Problem is women and men occasionally show interest in a person because of their interactions and maybe the hope of more. The ammount of times I've seen cis guys misread signs from lesbians in general is pretty high, much embarrassment could have been spared by just laying it out there in an initial interaction. The trans part not really, but your sexuality really can affect how some people percieve someone else, as well as help mold their interactions. So yeah, you and every lesbian will always have to deal with the idea that men might be interested in you, and if they don't know you are a lesbian they may do things to try and curry your favor as a possible mate, this leaves them feeling betrayed when they learn from the onset you had a zero percent(or near zero) chance when they did those things to curry favor. Same applies to any gender and any sexuality, if you are attracted to someone, you tend to want to get their attention, because, well, you're attracted to them. So yeah, just my thoughts, but to be fair that's a problem for more than just them, especially if it keeps happening.

A little off topic but your sooo pretty ❤

@robin_urlove

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@themutesiren5542

Жыл бұрын

agreed!

@themutesiren5542

Жыл бұрын

@@robin_urlove robbiiinnnn young trans woman here, preop without hormones, can you give me any advice for makeup for when i move out?

The audacity of some dude just saying that to a woman just living her life.

The entitlement is crazyyy. They really think all fem presenting people only exists to appease them and it's pathetic.

I know LGBT nowadays is hard but don't go the Jeffree Star Blaire White Way. This People don't care about Love and Rights they only care about stretching they Ego!

i see no problem as long as your significant other knows lmao

Fucking this… Especially since they think they had a chance with me to start with 🤣🤣

For Real unless you're dating someone or they're really close friend it's none of their business to know that.

what is a trans lesbian? a guy who changes to a woman and is into women?

@sherry.blossom9866

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@PuppygirlTrans

10 ай бұрын

👍

@SepticShockAKAVin

10 ай бұрын

Pretty much!

I know how that feels it’s so annoying

Yeah, i say you be yourself, dont let others bring you down, and im also trans and i dont tell everyone i meet as soon as i meet them because i see no need to

You should not have to explain yourself to others, just you be you

I FELT THIS THOUGH, IM A TRANS GUY AND NOT A SINGLE CIS GUY LIKES ME

@soju3oy

Жыл бұрын

Hmu I’ll take you down

Lol I'm a dude I came to comments I was like ohh I'll just excuse myself also kinda confused but you do you

Let's remind people same sex attraction exists!!! Being a lesbian means females like other females. Stop the homophobia.

Its like being a lesbian and every straight girl thinks you’re hitting of them. 😂😂

I hate when ppl say “just choose” or “your doing this for attention” LIKE WHAT- I am a lesbian myself and going to school ppl always tell me “you just want attention” “I bet u saw lesbian stuff on youtube and decided to do it for fun” LIKE- I DID NOT CHOOSE THIS- I was 7 and saw a rlly cute girl in my class with awsome personality. I didn’t even know what gay was. Till I searched what it meant to like a girl as a girl. Lets get one thing straight to the homo ppl. WE DIDNT HAVE A CHOICE. I DIDNT HAVE A CHOICE TO BE LESBIAN GAY MEN DIDNT CHOOSE TO BE GAY. TRANS PPL DIDNT CHOOSE TO SWAP GENDERS WE R NOT DOIN IT FOR ATTENTION. We r being ourselves. ❤

@Fybinex

10 ай бұрын

People that say stuff like this don't even really research about stuff like for example, many transphobes barely know anything about transpeople which just makes it worse

this is so true, i absolutly hate it. im not even a lesbian and i get that. im aroace and i get that

Dont feel bad, men do that to all women. If its not being trans, its wearing makeup. Women will just exist wearing makeup and theyll be like "shes trying to trick you" like maybe she just likes how it looks? Also shes not even into on you?

That’s so true and I hate that it is 😭 I wish they could respect women as women (trans being included obviously) and I feel like they should also just be open about their intentions

It’s totally there problem. Like how are you tricking them by not telling. Like you don’t have to tell anyone that.

It's like I need to walk around with a huge sticker on my forehead

I'll be content when we can see each other as humans. Baby steps.

My only interest in you being trans is because I'm trying to figure myself out and your candidness is so awesome (femmy but don't care so much about my looks/lazy?) I fully support if romantic before anything serious a potential partner needs to know, but i don't need to know everyone's everything.

That's why i went for a goth muscle mommy look, the men that want me are either relatively respectful or too timid to whine about that shit.

I WILL PROTECT HER! I AM 5'0", BUT I AM DETERMINED TO EXERCISE FOR HER!

I don't care whether you're straight, homosexual, bisexual, asexual, whatever. There's an easy way to resolve this. Them: "Are you interested in me?" You: "No." Them: "Why not?" You: "Not relevant. 'No' is a complete sentence."

I learn something new everyday

Okay off topic but you’re probably one of the prettiest people I’ve ever seen 😭

I'm trans lesbianism also,men automatically assume I'm into men when I have no interest in them,hurts they're egos

Bisexual Cis Guy Here: She’s right, that’s their problem, not yours.

Being a lesbian has been the only reason why i wont transition and i cry sometimes strongly

I'm gonna be honest, men are desperate, as a male from birth, I have heard all kinds of tales of things men have done that honestly disgust me. From unsolicited pictures to demeaning texts to death threats and everything between. Anything remotely female presenting is preyed upon, and it just seems wrong. I would argue a vast majority of those looking for a girlfriend in around teens up until early 30s aren't looking for a an actual relationship, just whatever sexual thing it is they're after. To the point where I feel like I have anxiety of being one of the few people that haven't spent their teens sleeping around.

Truuueee!!!

Wouldn't care what you are unless you're trying to hook up with me. No need to include me in your personal life unless you want to.... dunno...

Your a trans lesbian as well? Yay, someone like me

What is a Trans lesbian? Not trying to be rude but I would really like to know.

@bloodsausage6635

Жыл бұрын

Born male, transitioned to female and is attracted to women

So by that logic should cis lesbians have to specify that they're cis?

@IceFoxPlaysActual

Жыл бұрын

No because there are also AFAB NB people who identify as lesbian, because they are a person with a female form attracted to people with a female form, now me, as a lesbian trans woman, I’m a woman attracted to women, same definition of Cis lesbians, now what your referring to is genital preference, some Cis lesbians in relationships with trans women who are pre bottom surgery that don’t mind there partner has a member, my gf and I are in a sapphic relationship, she’s queer, as in doesn’t like to but put under a label she just knows she isn’t straight, she doesn’t mind that I’m a woman who has dick, and her not minding that I have one actually helps lesson my personal dysphoria around having it, I have gender euphoria because it still doesn’t feel right, but i just don’t feel dread and depression about it, so no I tried to include as much information as i could so you can just read what you feel is relevant to your question! Hope you have a good day!

@cfaz6763

Жыл бұрын

Specify.

Wait. So you transitioned to woman and want women? Genuinely asking.

@lisamucci6950

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@georgiap922

Жыл бұрын

is that crazy? having body dysphoria doesn’t correlate to sexuality

power to ya! i'm enby and the reactions i get vary quite a bit, most are nasty. eek

Its not a problem. U do u. Hehe.

As a pan lesbian, y’all are valid👍

Periodttt!!! Well, I don't see any "Man" trying to "correct" HER in the comments section now.....

LOL so true I have even had men tell me I was being greedy bc I did not want to share my.body with them. And that I should get fat so I will not be teasing men I am not trans but it is a long the same principle

Still trying to figure out where men find the audacity. I swear 🙄

It’s because you’re beautiful and some men feel that they’re entitled to your attention bc obviously you only ever decided to be so beautiful just for them /j But no really if you’re an attractive person they feel entitled to you even if they’re bottom of the bucket. Everyone feels they’re entitled to something I just wonder why a lot of men chose for that “thing” to be women. Some will literally ask out an “unattractive” woman for shits n giggles, but the moment she rejects them they lose it bc they think so highly of themselves and think any and all women want them.

Sapphic trans femme here, I so agree.

Idc if your trans would sma- i mean i support trans

@SodaCider641

11 ай бұрын

Get out of her channel. This is not a dating app!

@Fade_NB

10 ай бұрын

@@SodaCider641I’m pretty sure it was joke

@livvxx.0

10 ай бұрын

purple sans when

Being a pan woman who dresses highly feminine, I've been told my entire life from men and women that I'm full of crap, I'm just straight but trying to tease lesbians. I don't think people understand that settling for men does not mean I'm primarily attracted to them. I'm primarily attracted to feminine individuals.

Gosh you're so beautiful! I hope I'll look nearly as pretty.

Lmao I feel you sister

Lol yea that 💯. Like what's it to u I just wanna be pretty for my wife😻. Just into tricking her🤪. Naw she's being a trooper. God you're soo relatable 🥰

It’s not your fault your beautiful

Definetly their problem , xxx

@Ragman312

Жыл бұрын

I think you mean xoxo lol

What is a trans lesbian? I'm confused

@alexnoctum2951

Жыл бұрын

A trans woman that likes women. What’s not to understand?

@badiyahfletcher3552

Жыл бұрын

@@alexnoctum2951 why did it have to specified. Wouldn't that just be a lesbian?? Also don't have an attitude with someone asking a genuine question. Sexuality and Sexually orientation are ever changing so not everyone knows everything.

@SephStuff_

Жыл бұрын

@@badiyahfletcher3552the adjective of trans is just important in this context, which is why is it being specified here

My dad doesn't understand how it works because he thinks that if you were born a man and you transition into being a girl that you have to like men in the reason this topic came up with Caitlyn Jenner Caitlyn Jenner likes women she's a lesbian but he doesn't seem to understand that and it's a topic that's not that hard to understand