Being a Perfectionist almost ruined me.
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wanted to share a bit of my journey in being a perfectionist. Now I truly think we should do the best we can but often this holds us back from even doing anything or sharing and if that Is the case. I always say it's better to be in motion and because of that momentum you learn more and reach perfection.
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tags : perfection , content creation , self love , perfectionism , how to be consistent , how to stay constant
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love ya'll 🍵
@care4rami
2 жыл бұрын
likewise fam 💫
@hrathweg
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful start as always
@chrisbaumgardt6965
2 жыл бұрын
love you too my brother
@_Moks
2 жыл бұрын
Love ya too Hindz
@cashflowandy
2 жыл бұрын
Love you hindz
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending💫
@Ihavemadeit999
2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@servantofallah5400
2 жыл бұрын
Ayo Rami
@SuperClau1990
2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@idrineee
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@unknown_chillhuman
2 жыл бұрын
Love that
“When you hold yourself back, you are holding US back from receiving you” I love this!!
Perfection is the enemy of progress. You can't make something better that hasn't been created yet... Great video!
@naiomimariefan
2 жыл бұрын
good point
“My goal isn’t to make things perfect. My goal is to express myself.” Love that. 💜 I held on to my first few videos, edited and edited them, Eventually, I realized that I just had to hit publish, and am working on developing a creative routine now. You inspired me a lot with that!
Fuck man, every single video you create is exactly what I need at that moment. This video has landed for me in so many ways, thank you for the reminder to consistently show up and be seen. Thank you for helping us, me, we be better human beings.
“No single thing is perfect by itself. That’s why we’re born to attract other things to make up what we lack. I think we start walking in the right direction only after we start getting our counterparts beside us.” - Itachi Uchiha
@care4rami
2 жыл бұрын
nahhh Sakura Ackerman said that
I have no regrets in my life. I think that everything happens to you for a reason. The hard times that you go through build character, making you a much stronger person. 😁
This man is literally fixing my soul by just being 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@adrienne3272
2 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking the same thing!
@oliviamartin5944
2 жыл бұрын
Yo same ✨🤟🏾
OMG this really is a gift from the universe, this is EXACTLY what ive been struggling with the past days. THANKYOU 4ever
@raquellashanti5074
2 жыл бұрын
and honestly my whole life
@mabelsmith8040
2 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@ProdByMallDidIt
2 жыл бұрын
oooo i just got the chills reading this....im absolutely in the same boat. it's kinda scary how fast the universe can confirm things!
One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again. 💫
Nothing wrong with doing the best you can but when it harms your mental health you have to reevaluate
@denisecaparn9068
2 жыл бұрын
True
Seriously! I started selling before I had “perfected” my brand. It look about 6months until I was happy about the logo, packaging and all that. The product was solid though! So by the time my brand was perfect and aesthetically pleasing, I already had a bunch of loyal customers. SO I ENCOURAGE YOU TO START TODAY ❤️
I needed this video. I know what im posting has nothing to do with this video but this video brought me some piece. My soul mate of 20 years left me a week ago behind my back he built a new house got a new car, new girlfriend, and a new phone with a new number and while at an appointment he texted me with the old number he was leaving. After he texted me he turned the phone off so I couldn't reach him. Just the week before he left he told me how much he loves me, I'm his favorite person and how I help him. He also said he wanted no contact for 90 days because that's how long it takes to break a habit. He also took out all the money out of the account. He left me with nothing but a house of memories. I'm deeply sad and painful so just seeing this really brought a small drop of piece on a sad day. Thank you for that.
The main reason I haven’t uploaded my first KZread video because I always think it has to be “perfect”. I know I’ll find knowledge through this video as I do with all your other videos!
@nadiarambles
2 жыл бұрын
I feel this! I worked on a video for six months, mostly editing small details and cutting it down because I was nervous it wasn’t “good enough.” Eventually, I just had to let it go, and hit publish. I bet your video is excellent, and that you choose to hit publish. 💕
@ayushmaandureja6943
2 жыл бұрын
I have been going through the same thing, I think I am just gonna publish my first video whether it's perfect or not. Also, I have a fear of being judged by people that I know if I upload a video. I don't know how to deal with that.
Honestly, perfectionism has stopped me from doing many things that I want to do in life. It keeps me stagnant because my fear of something not being good enough, which somehow outweighs everything else. My only regret is not doing things when I knew I should so I could’ve made my mistakes and learned from them. It is only there where I would improve..
its the way i was thinking about this topic literally an hour ago...
@dazewithin
2 жыл бұрын
We are elevating into a mutual frequency its time for us to tune in, because your comment was my exact thought.
You’re in my head Hindz !! Grateful for the alignment 💯✨
*"My goal isn't to be perfect, my goal is to express myself and through that I reach perfection."* A WORD. I needed to hear this, I am new creator here on KZread and it is so hard to create sometimes because I find myself being hypercritical of my work but this video reminded me it is not about the destination, it is about the journey. Keep sharing your love and light with the world Hindz! :)
I’m learning this now, I’m a perfectionist..shit is depleting & kills your goals in the long run, kills your life too. You start to feel because you’re not perfect that your life isn’t & you start to let doubt creep in..but for me, taking time everyday to be grateful helps me train my mind & lift myself & my spirits. I hope it helps anyone reading this 🍵🙂
This has been so encouraging to hear. As a "recovering" perfectionist, I am learning like you to work with it and around it. Just going to go ahead and keep doing it even though imperfectly.
I needed all of this. I create so many videos that I don’t post on my KZread and I’m stopping my own growth. Thank you my Pisces brother.
The timing of this video is PERFECT!! Thank you Hindz❤️
@bigwavemedia658
2 жыл бұрын
U got this!
@Winis_World
2 жыл бұрын
@@bigwavemedia658 aww thank you so much❤️
I really needed this today. I've been starting my own art business and I'm still figuring out what I want to do for it and I've been making content to start out with but been way to hard on myself to make perfect content which has been preventing me from posting anything. I'm definitely taking your advice and going to post stuff that may not be perfect but is still something. Your videos have been helping me so much this year I'm excited to see what else you do!
@WithCarrinay
2 жыл бұрын
Dont you be hard on yourself, i myself going through the exact same as you, thanks to hindz an you that motivated me today to not give up an keep going.
“Our highest form of nutrition is in our expression.” ✨I love that so much.
I needed this thank you! I struggled with OCD tendencies and it’s difficult to let go of control in life but mindful mornings have been helping me so much. Your videos have guided me in this journey
I went through such a breakthrough regarding perfectionism last semester! I turned in a project I hated with all my guts because I felt like It was a 3/10 job and my uni teacher loved it he put a 100/100 lol. I sat there thinking...well that was unexpected. What is not perfect for me can clearly be for someone else.
I've struggled with the dark side of perfectionism most of my life. Not when I was a little kid. I think then I didn't expect it of myself or didn't even know it was a thing. But I have been paralyzed by perfectionism as an adult. This is such a valuable video for me, thank you! Also, I love how your 2nd photo shoot turned out! You have a great eye!
I feel like I‘m the person holding myself back, so thank you for this sign 🌱
I swear you’re always putting out content that’s exactly what I’m needing on the day it’s released it’s wild thankyou for creating
"You don't know what we are going to love about you." Yes!!! 💖💖💖
Thank you for your words of wisdom. I am that Person, Just this morning, I was telling myself that I need to create something everyday for the next two months with the supplies I have in my home and the ideas within me. To complete my art pieces, work on my books, challenge my illustration capabilities, design on paper, sew with the African fabric my sister sent me, finsh making the jewelry.... I have often thought that I needed to narrow down and perfect one or two creative ideas because it can get overwhelming. We know how that ends. Which ones? Then I think about these gifts God has blessed me with and how they really are to be birthed and shared. Today, I make that commitment. To allow my creativity to flow and to photographing and journal my progress every day. To be kind to myself as I embark on this beautiful journey. I love what you told you brother, "Do everything. Everything that's on your spirit...."
You inspired me to start my own KZread channel.
"sharing my mind in real time & i'm evolving these ideas... i'm going to get better in real time so people can see the growth..." 🤯 these words resonated with me so much ✨ -- it's starting to shift my paradigm from "let me show my most perfect work NOW and with every moment i must perform to meet all of my expectations" to "i'm acknowledging that i'm human and the moment/thoughts/self i have right now is fleeting so let's capture that and transform as we go and do the work each day." thank you for the wisdom and words of affirmation & inspiration!!
Thank you brother 😭😭😭😭😭 I've been crying throughout this video. I created a KZread channel, came up with my plan, video schedule, learnt how to make videos... I have learnt everything possible but still, I haven't launched yet. It's been 4 years. I'm setting myself free, it's been too heavy carrying this and feeling like a failure at the same time. I'm putting it all down and just making videos that I like.
Thank you Hindz.. ✨ I needed this one!
I LOVE how you started the video off with zooming out of the bushes
I really needed this video! 😭 thank you Hindz
Thank you for this message. Needed 🙏🏽
Right on time as always!!! 🙏🏽🙌🏽
I needed this message today.
we loveeeeee to see the growth !
Many thanks! I appreciate your transparency 💚
Your guidance and wisdom is so inspiring!!!
This was for me! I’m so grateful for you!
I really needed this. Perfect timing.
this was right on time - thank you Hindz!
Very uplifting, definitely needed to hear this!!
Very very relatable! Thank you for this video so much!
i was needing this video, thank u so much, hindz 💛
Love love love your message. So simple but so true
how did you know I needed this??? PREACH
I found your channel a couple days ago, and i love your vibes
Thank you hindzzzzz I needed this 🍃it’s a vibe thing!!!
Your energy is sooo beautiful 💛💛💛
Crazy.. I was just thinking about my issue with perfectionism two days ago and since then I’ve had 3 videos on perfectionism come up in my inbox.. the universe is listening lol
Hindz ur always on time with the messages!
Thank you. I’m so grateful for you.
Great timing! Thank you for this 😌
This here was for me !!! Peace & blessings thank you 💎
Thank you I needed to hear this today 💗
I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS 🥺
This video is SO important ‼️ very motivational - thank you for posting ❤️
this message found me at the perfect time! thank u thank u
This video is for me right now!!! So many thanks 😊
This was beautifully done & said thank you for the encouragement 🙏🏿 Bless
This is very valuable and meaningful. Thx so much for sharing Hindz.
I was the person who needed to watch this. Thank you so much✨
I am thankful for Hindz.🥰♥️
Grateful for you human 💫
You're literally my Guru. Thank you Hindz! 💓
I love this so much 🙏 This is just the reminder I needed to keep expressing myself and sharing my art ❤
Thank you! I think this pushed me further towards creating and sharing my art!❤
I love how you are able to speak out words that I have in my head that I cant seem to let out.
Thank you so much Hindz. This video was for me.🐈
So happy to see you my friend 🙌🏽🙏🏾
those videos are just life changing 🥺✨
Thank you Hindz for showing up! I needed that.
exactly what I'm working through. Thank you Magical Bean!
Hands down this is the best advice for anyone that wants to create. Bless! 🙏
You spoke directly to me brother
This video was exactly what I needed to hear, at the right time. Resonates with me in many ways.
I’ve been holding myself back for the past 11 years in making KZread videos I have TONS of videos just sitting in my laptop that I didn’t feel were “perfect” as well as a pod cast that has been sitting in my mind for 2 years. Thank you for this it’s time for me to start.
"You see, when you hold yourself back because you are insecure or you think everything has to be perfect, you are holding us back from receiving the real you: the growing. You don't know what we are going to love about you. You understand?" Thank you, HINDZ.
Thank you Hindz ✨🙏🏻 I’m glad you are expanding your love 💗
I needed this. The video I watched before this was 😒. You are a breath of fresh air. So relaxing. Thank you.
Thank you for the wisdom today
Your videos come exactly when I need them the most. Thank you Hindz ❤️
I am so grateful that this video came to me, it was just what I need at present. Thank you for sharing this🥰
Thank youuuu ✨✨✨💗💗💗🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🦋🦋🦋 needed this!!!
Wow thank you for sharing. This is my favourite video of yours. Being an artist and perfectionist I can really relate.
It’s a wonderful day whenever Hindz gives us a video🙏❤️
Learnt so much from your video...I love the way you explain things with so much wisdom so effortlessly...thanks for sharing ❤️
Much love and appreciation 🌹. I needed to hear this. So thankful for your channel you are such an great inspiration for the collective. ❤️
Thankyou Thankyou so much for your consistent light within my journey you are appreciated 🤲🏾✨💙
Thank you Love! Appreciate your presence and help :)
First video of you I watch and I cry a river. Feel like a little sister listens to a wise gentle older brother. Need to watch videos, again and again, to understand and have time to think and do reflection. Big thanks from bottom of my heart. I will share this video with some of the people I love.
Thank you Hindz! I need to keep you in my pocket whispering encouragement every time I need to pick up my brushes.
Ouhhh so beautiful and needed once again
I needed this... thank you, sending lots of love