Im 23 still at home and I was thinking about this . This popped up out if no where ❤️. Thank you for your transparency and authenticity.

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you! ☺️💕

@freedommatters7677

2 жыл бұрын

Zach zach zackery

@alwalkemdown7878

2 жыл бұрын

Same have you turned 24 yet I’ll be 24 in 1 week ?

You summed up my entire life. I’m 26 and I struggle with feeling insecure and that I’m so far behind because I’m at home with family. I’m working on a degree program that I’ve been working on it feels like for 7 years. I look around at those I graduated with who have graduated college and have started families now. I’m going to be in school with 18-19 year olds after returning back to school. I feel like it’s a real struggle out here.

@TheNinjapancake14

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in the same boat, living at home, in college. It was almost intimidating thinking I’ll be the oldest in the class but I realized there were people even older than me in my class. I have one more year to go. Keep pushing and you will get past it soon!

@sagittariusbeauty

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, I'm 24 still at home with my parents, doing a degree program, and yep thought I'd be the oldest one in my class. After figuring out that there were people older than me in the class it eased my mind

@alwalkemdown7878

2 жыл бұрын

@@sagittariusbeauty Same stay with parents I’m turning 24 in 1 week I’m back in school after taking a year off in people in my class in there 30s life hard and depression but we can’t give up

Social media is an issue people judge themselves by others on social media. Have plenty of time!

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely! & you are so right, there's so much time😊

@MaxZero-yz6km

7 ай бұрын

Truth i believe it

I'm a 26 year old guy, and have a similar situation! I have moved in and out several times and seem frequently to come back home. I think also it was harder for me since I didn't go back to college (even then locally) until 23, so I have a hard time relating to people our age 😕. I haven't had any new friends in well over 8 years now. I literally know of so many people who are good "peers" but all of them have their own lives, are busy, don't hangout with me ever, and therefore wouldn't be really "friends". In the time I was in college before COVID started, I also didn't really make friends. It sucks when I can't find similar experiences from others.

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you for sharing! Yeah so I moved out and ended up moving back home recently too haha. & I can relate to that, I know that's it's hard when you aren't able to find connections 😣 I think a lot of people our age are having the same problem but you just don't hear about it!

@jk22222sd

2 жыл бұрын

@@haddyjats I agree! I think it hits you when you can’t find other people to make connections with, date, etc. for a number of years now. 😕

Thank you for this video. I'm struggling at the moment with my current situation and have been so low and depressed which I've never seen myself like this in my life before. But more than anything, my mum constantly comparing me to others and putting me down is the worst part. Like anything little she literally compares me to my cousin which has become so irritating.

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that you keep getting compared & put down 😔 I hope that things have gotten easier for you, sending my love 🤍 Thank you for sharing!

I’m 25 and still living at home with my parents. I really want to move out but it’s really hard to get a mortgage as a single person and especially living in London where I have lived all my life. Age is just a number, everyone has a different clock. Your time will come.

@haddyjats

3 жыл бұрын

Yes feel you, it's so hard financially! It will and so will yours 😌 Thank you for commenting

@krissad2145

2 жыл бұрын

Gosh this hit me.. I'm 22 and I really want to move out , but the truth is.. It's hard financially. I think that I already earn quite a lot, but it's all being allocated to multiple medical tests, procedures and other stuff at the moment. And it makes me feel so insecure because of it, even though it's okay, and I have to just wait for a little bit. So thank you for leaving this comment, it really helped me! Hope you're doing well 😍

@alwalkemdown7878

2 жыл бұрын

How is that going for now year later I’m 24 and I feel the same way

@dornravlin

Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you get an apartment with roommates if you want to move out

I’m turning 26 next month, and it’s crazy to think that more of my 20s are behind me than in front of me 😩

I'm so glad I came across this.. I feel exactly the same, like I'm still 18 when I'm actually 25! Its so good to hear someone feeling the same things as I am :)

@haddyjats

3 жыл бұрын

Ah good, it’s good to know I’m not alone in that too! 😊 thank you for commenting and subscribing!

Thank you so much for this. I really thought I was alone. We are literally in the same boat.

i know this has nothing to do with the video but OMG YOU ARE EVERYTHING!!! YOU ARE SO GORGEOUS 😍😍😍

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Omg no way, thank you so much! 🤍🥺

I'm 25, just found your channel. I'm really looking forward to your update video ❤️

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Aw thank you, and thank you for subscribing! I will be posting an update soon 💕

I will be 24 in a few months and I just started college last week, I do not have a marketable skill set yet and I go to school from home. I tend to overthink this a lot but I will be good 😊 Thanks for this video ❤

Thank you so much for this♡

Don't feel bad i am in the same situation and a year older I am working on myself everyday and working on my weaknesses. So you not alone and you are beautiful and I love your videos

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to hear it 🤗 I definitely learnt this, working on myself too girl! Thank you so much 🤍

I'm 26 and living at home as well. I used to get upset about it but know I'm just enjoying my life. The economic squeeze of living on my own is tight and its nice to be around family which I appreciate now more than in my early 20s when all I wanted to do was reproduce. It helps knowing that this is become the norm. Life is short and I don't want to worry over such frivolous things.

@lizalaartistka

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I love this comment, good perspective, one I'm holding now! Plus we get to save money and travel or even put those funds towards hobbies and the time towards self reflection and development

Glad i found your video. Interesting. I'm 25, a quite fresh graduate waiting for my calling for my hospital placement so basically ✨️Jobless✨️, have a license but forget (and afraid) how to drive bcs I've been studying abroad where I can't afford to have a car, and living at home with my parents and little brother and sister. Sometimes i feel useless but i guess i just need to enjoy this moment with family and knowing myself more before i actually go into the busy worklife as a doctor later on.

Honestly thank you for this video I'm in the same situation and I didnt move out during university so there is this feeling of being stifled in my adulthood. Similar to you I imagined myself being in the city with my own apartment so it can feel really disappointing. However, I've always tried to maintain a sense of independence through my career and also knowing the amount of money I'm saving. It is a tricky one though and one shaped a lot by culture. But I think one thing that helps is learning as much as I can while home so I build my self sufficiency already and also just living my own life and making my own choices even in a constrained environment. I've dabbled on a little too much but your honesty is refreshing🙂

I didn’t move out until I was 26. So I totally get what it feels like to live at home till you’re in your mid-20’s. It sucks, but I didn’t live as a total dead beat. I did move out and now I currently live alone. It’s hard but it’s worth it.

Good luck to us all.

it’s really fucking hard in this world

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

It really is!

I moved back in with my parents after a failed five year relationship at 25, 6 months ago. They kept our shared apartment because he could afford it alone were I couldn’t afford it alone and I didn’t want to stay in a place with someone who cheated on me. The past year I haven’t been able too drive because of a health condition that relapsed and basically they refused to clear me with my license. I sold my car to pay off some debt. It’s been very hard having all the independence stripped from me (out of no choice of my own) and it feels like I have failed. I have been comparing myself with my friend group because they are all married, engaged and or having kid. I thought I would be in the same position by the end of this year . In other worlds getting the carpet pulled from under you has been fucking hard. Rn I’m focusing on paying off the remainder of the debt it have from school about 4K and then decide try to get cleared and get a new car….although being back with my parents has been hard because I don’t even have my own space. I had to throw away or sell a lot of my possessions and basically I’m living out of a closet and sleep on the couch. Well at least I’m not homeless. 😅 definitely not dating anyone right and I went back to therapy because I’ve been very depressed. I hope it gets better soon.

"I was quite nervous to film this" -- oh I feel the same when I record, still haven't uploaded. Feeling inspired by you though!

I'm 24 and will be 25 soon all I can think about is how I haven't achieved anything. I'm doing my masters, still at home, still shy and introverted and I've been trying to not give up but I just can't do this anymore. I really just want to sleep for a while. But videos like this give me some hope

@jk22222sd

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a 26 year old guy who spends most of my time at home, working on my bachelor’s degree. Everyone has a different journey. I sometimes wish I went away to college, but I feel I was not ready for college at 18-19 and just worked. You got this!

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

You definitely have achieved something, you're doing your masters...that's amazing! What are you doing your masters in? I'm 27 now and I'm still shy and introverted too lol but like that's really okay! Honestly, were still so young, we've got ages to cultivate the life we want ☺️

@alwalkemdown7878

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Thankyou for this video ❤😊

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Thank youu for watching 💕

This was spot on. I'm 25 and I still live with my parents. We definitely should normalize that it's OK to not have it as fast as others. We have our own clock, society has put a time limit on everything and we base our lives off of what society says it should be. You do it on your own timing, not society's timing. Life should never be a rush. I'm so glad I came across your channel. And I don't feel like an adult either lol I can't explain why lol but I completely understand you on that. You just gained you a new subscriber 🙌

@jk22222sd

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I am 26 and am the exact same. Age is just a number and we go on our journey at our own pace! 😊

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Yess! Thank you! 🤗💫

@krissad2145

2 жыл бұрын

Soooo true! I think most of the people who are past 18 feel ashamed of admitting to the fact that they live with their parents because of this stupid society's timing! Thank you for leaving this comment. I wouldn't articulate it better.

As a 25 year old with no driving experience, just working and living at home with my parents kinda gets me upset. Is there a rule book that states at what age you should be independent and move out? I see people that I went to High School with owning BMWs, Mustangs, Mercedes Etc. I went to school with these people, Unlike them I had my own struggles. I got diagnosed with cancer right after high school and that SLOWED MY WHOLE LIFE..I was 17 a the time but ever since then when I went to the dmv they have paper work I didn’t know they had. I have to get clearance from my doctor so I have to go through this WHOLE PROCESS!! It pisses me off. I feel like I wasted time I can’t get back anymore!

You have some model features, If your social media savvy think you could use that to your advantage. Get some gigs from small clothing fashion brands etc

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow you think so? Thank you, idk if that's for me but I'll think about it haha

@GloomySkiez

2 жыл бұрын

@@haddyjats The inner introvert is speaking, I can relate. But yeah you’re definitely good looking

@bibibomba4515

2 жыл бұрын

Yup, you should girl

Thankx 4 the video❤❤

Some people saying just get roommates but to live with complete strangers and all girls just doesn’t sit right with me because most girls don’t get along tbh… and ME PERSONALLY if I move out I want the apartment to myself . Guys are okay having roommates cause they’re dudes but for girls it’s different

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Yes my thoughts exactly! Haha

please post another update, love ur videos

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Hey Isa, thank you for commenting and your support! I am planning to film an update this week 😄 x

I’m 26 and watching this

I go through the same stuff i want to make videos but i cant an i live with my parents

I'm 21 still living with Moms

Yes same, and half the people at my job are a couple of years younger than me and are married with a house and I’m here I am at 24 like 🥴. And no I do not have any friends or a boyfriend so not only am I far behind but I have no life either 😂

@alwalkemdown7878

2 жыл бұрын

Same

I have never left my parents and its obviously eroded me and still. These parents are so controlling and I really don't want to be around them at all. I am male version of repunzel.

@clairetemple1149

2 ай бұрын

Eroded me is such an amazing description. Feel you. Hope your situation improves and you are able to have your boundaries respected.

the struggle is real is bugs me being almost 25 and living at home all my siblings are married or have families.....

Hey I just discovered your channel can you do a 27 year old update I am the same boat as you I am 26 years old and I don’t drive I’m working on changing that my 27 I want to be living in my dream life. This video make me feel so good thank you ❤🎉

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Hey Jasmine! I’m so glad the video made you feel good & thank you for subscribing, I think you were my 600th subscriber haha ❤️ I have filmed an update, just editing it & hoping to upload this week! 🥰

@jasminevictoriaaa2199

Жыл бұрын

@@haddyjats your welcome 💕 and I am looking forward to it

I don’t know how to feel when I see people living the life that I’m stuck in since 2019.. i have my license but I’m not confident about myself to drive it alone, but I keep saying that younger people are driving without any problem, especially those 2003-2005 who are soooo young to me.. And I guess the main problem is the driving thing because it will solve a lot of issues if I start doing it. I am trying to get my own car by this week but I’m still not confident yet, but I’ll force myself. What’s your update about the driving case?

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for commenting! Did you end up getting your car? Wishing you all the best with your journey with driving! I still don't have a license, I've had some bad luck with it but I'll be posting an update about it all soon 😩

Micheal Jackson didn't move out his parents house until he was 28

@explorermike19

2 жыл бұрын

Samanthia, probably you could say that Michael Jackson's parents didn't move out of HIS house until he was 25. Michael Jackson had been a cash cow for his parents since he was seven years old.

I’ve never related to something so much

Can we get another update?

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Yess I am hoping to do an update video soon! 🤗

I'm 26 and I still live at home. Where are you now?

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

I'm still living at home x

Everyone has there own opinion I think 50 to old to live with your parents that's just me everyone night have different opinions

Are you still living home ?

Your beautiful 😍

@haddyjats

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🤗💕

“26 and paYiNg RenT”

So you are 1994, Nov born not 1995. Don't worry life is devastating ikr but at the end everything going to be alright.

What's your update at 29 ?

@haddyjats

2 ай бұрын

I'm still living at home but I am posting an update soon 😊

Go back to school and get a trade.

You are so beautiful

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Aw thank you! 🤗

Hey... what you doing now at 27?

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

Hey! Sorry for the late reply. I'm 28 now, I did move out but then ended up coming back home, so still living at home currently

@Kuroi733

Жыл бұрын

@@haddyjats What job are you working? I'm 25 and failed out of college so I dont have many survival options

Sounds like you need to move ! Out of London

Mama you sleep in a closet?

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

😂😩 yup

Okay I get the living at home part, but 26 and not driving yet? Pure laziness

This is sad.

Stop the excuse of rent it goes by the cost of living I moved out at 20 years old with roommates wow the excuses man this generation needs to toughen up

@MrSandro141

Жыл бұрын

Ok boomer

It really is not all that difficult. You get a job, find an apartment, move out. Get a roommate or some roommates to help pay rent if you need. The rest just falls into place.

@rebeccaprentice3813

3 жыл бұрын

Myself snd my friends have jobs. We’ve searched apartments but our jobs don’t nearly cover the mortgage required. For me personally, my savings are all going towards my degree and I can’t also afford a house. It’s an incredibly difficult thing, especially post pandemic. Don’t judge, be kind.

@explorermike19

3 жыл бұрын

@@rebeccaprentice3813 how about maybe putting school aside for awhile?

@rebeccaprentice3813

3 жыл бұрын

@@explorermike19 why would I do that? My degree is the best way to me getting the job I love (a doctor) and thus be able to pay for a permanent house. Why would I delay that even further? Sure I could work 2 part time jobs that pay less, work overtime and buy a house but then I’d still need so many money to go on school. Not a practical answer. Most people, myself included, are happy to have a few part time jobs, school and focus on getting their dream well paid job first. Take your opinions elsewhere honey bunch

@explorermike19

3 жыл бұрын

@@rebeccaprentice3813 well, you can be rude if that is how you like to respond, but by your own description, it doesn't sound like like you are "making it". Saying you are going to school to be a "doctor" doesn't give you any special credibility. You can start bragging about being a doctor after you finish ALL your schooling and residency and establish a career in medicine AND have some personal wealth. Until then, you are just an adult living at your parents house.

@rebeccaprentice3813

3 жыл бұрын

@@explorermike19 only that’s literally not true. Working on yourself involves pursuing your passions and making a career choice that is most appropriate for you - in this case, I am working 2 jobs, going to school, saving all my salary for my degree so I can buy a house I love when I have a much more stable income. Keep judging babe but I’ll be much happier in 4 years than if I moved out and struggled when I don’t have to right now

All just excuses why you can't handle an adult life.

@haddyjats

Жыл бұрын

How about, if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all?

Was your ig im in the dm’s tonight!