Congrats! It's the attitude you have that has made you successful. No matter what the ups and downs are, you just keep moving forward. So many people shut down with any failure, whether it's a large value return on ebay or something more serious. You just cant quit. I've used Zote for spot cleaning. One thing I learned about making your own laundry soap, there is a difference when it comes to whites. When using Zote or Fels Naptha to make laundry soap it isn't quite as toxic as some commercial detergents but agitation is imperative for the homemade stuff to work well. Anyway, just a little info there. I love my ebay business but the washing and cleaning is a pain sometimes. I hang a lot of stuff outside for several days when it smells like smoke and that really seems to be effective, sunshine is amazing if you can find it.

My husband and I got married at the courthouse super casual. Shorts and flip flops. and then went on an epic honeymoon. I bought and brought my dream wedding dress with us, found a photographer on Instagram. Asked her if she knew a makeup artist on the island and to please bring her. We found the 1 florist on the island to make me a bouquet. And we did our vows just the 2 of us in a pretty spot on the hotel grounds and had an amazing photo shoot with the photographer I found. It was all super casual and easy flowing and worked out perfectly. I totally recommend doing it that way. It was just the 2 of us the entire time. Now we’re coming up on 10 years and will probably have a vow renewal with our family present this time. And about your mole…if it’s skin cancer try not to stress. Ive had skin cancer probably 10 times on my face and body. Needing removal. Surgery. Stitches. It’s totally manageable. Try not to let it stress you out.

Oh Cayley, how exciting! I got married in the backyard of an AirBnB mansion in Malibu overlooking the ocean, and then we drove a couple minutes to the beach and had our pictures done there! We did everything ourselves for about $6k, including my dress and the home rental. This was in 2017 so it would probably be a bit more expensive now but it’s doable! And IMO anything under $10k is pretty cheap for a wedding, even an elopement! lol Congratulations, btw, and I hope all the health stuff is great now. 🩷 Happy Valentine’s Day!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thanks! That's an option I'm looking into. Happy Valentines Day!

Omg congratulations to both of you. You both are the sweetest n cutest couple I love to watch. Congratulations again.

Congrats!! My husband and I just did a courthouse wedding in our formal attire with close family only. We then did a reception and a local wine bar in their cellar (so dark and moody and cool) for 30ish people. It was absolutely amazing! All about us. Gave zeros F's about what everyone else thought. ANDDD the magic part was we spent $300. Total. Plus $600 on my dress. ;). That was 7 years ago and we are still happily married. I know multiple couples that spent $10K+ and they are divorced. DO WHAT YOU WANT!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Love this!

@EmmyandAl

6 ай бұрын

@@cayleyelaine btw, we bought a house with the money we saved on not having a big wedding and got a killer honeymoon!

Organization is my specialty.

I'm in tears! My heart is so happy for you guys. Sending love and positivity! You are starting a new chapter and that's very exciting! Sending prayers and positive vibes for good health and lots of fun wedding planning ahead. Blessings from Hawaii 🌴💞🎉💖

Nikki's sigh when the interviewee did not pick up. I felt that in my soul!

Congrats on the engagement! ❤ We had a destination wedding in 2011 in Jamaica at a resort and it was THE BEST DECISION EVER! Only super close friends and family came and then we were all on vacation together. I’ve also been to a destination wedding in the DR and it was also amazing! So I definitely recommend it! All the best and thank you for your expertise…love the videos. ❤ from VA!

Congratulations! So happy for you. I’m going through one of those hard times too and it’s important to keep going but can be so challenging.

1st 🙏 that you get better 2nd OMG CONGRATULATIONS!!! (If you find it in your heart to take us along on your wedding & shopping journey, I'd love it) 3rd put your smokey item in a bag or bucket with coffee beans, the air it out for a few days. (You can reuse the beans several times) If that doesn't work and your plan is to re-donate it, just wash it & don't dry it. Or list it anyway, disclose the odor ( there's tons of smokers that do not care)

Congratulations! So funny I just am listing a pair of pants that smell like smoke. I washed them, put them in the sun after they dried, and then sprayed odor eliminator from Norwex on them. They do not smell like smoke anymore.

Congratulations! Hawaii is a beautiful place to be married! I'd like to recommend Cherished in Hawaii Weddings as a wedding planner. Disclosure: my daughter works there. They also have a subsidiary called 40 Hammocks. They handle hotel room blocking for you and your guests. Feel free to reach out if you have questions! Again, congratulations on your engagement! My husband & I also eloped, and here we are 35 years later! :)

@cayleyelaine

5 ай бұрын

Appreciate it! Thanks so much!

Congrats!!! For me the most effective for smells has been ozone spray, it removes cigarette smells. You just have to make sure to use it in a well ventilated area. Ozone machines are what they use to remove smoke smells from hotel rooms and used cars.

Congratulations!!❤ So excited for you!

Huge congratulations! My husband and I didn’t elope but we did a small wedding with 25 people in Las Vegas at the Venetian on one of their bridges on the grand canal. It was perfect. We had a coordinator who took care of the pastor, music, photos, flowers etc. They provided security since we were in a public space. It wasn’t that expensive given it was almost our only cost.

First off: Congrats on your engagement! I also use Fels-Naptha bars and it's awesome. It gets grease stains out of fabrics, which is pretty hard to do with other products. It has saved so many pairs of jeans that were brought home from thrifting, where I would have had to disclose the stain or just trash. So, just based on that, I'd say it's worth it.

Congrats! I am crying happy tears for you and Joe! I sold my wedding cake business to go full time into reselling during COVID shutdowns and I miss that world so much! Prayers for your complete and total healing sweet girl! Jer 30:17 “I will restore health unto thee and heal your wounds declares the Lord…” ❤

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 💕

Congrats Cayley!! Super exciting. My husband and I got married in our early twenties (mid-30s now), so obviously my tastes and such have changed over the years... we did a big wedding (300+ guest list!) but if I had to do it over again, I would totally skip the big wedding and do something smaller instead! Save some $, less stress, and honestly- as long as you have the closest people to you there, that's all that matters. As far as the health stuff goes- heard you on that! I have been dealing with lots of health stuff myself over the past year or so, and it is extremely taxing, and makes it hard to get things done at times. It definitely wears on you- so wishing you healing thoughts, and I hope things get better for you on the health front!

*HUGS* Take care of yourself beautiful. You and Nicki and the professors are amazing and inspiring. Congratulations on your proposal. Im so happy for you guys!!!! Big things are happening Cayley!!! Thanks for always staying true to yourself and the reseller community. See you in the group!

Congratulations, Cayley on your engagement! Best of luck with your medical issues. Prayers for that. Put the desks head to head!

Use your vertical space, coats can go on a pole on the ceiling/ highest point on the wall. Along the back, above your shoes.

Awwwww!!! Congratulations to you & Joe!!! Wishing you many many years of happiness, prosperity and good health! ❤️❤️

I wouldn’t get rid of any open space you have either. Maybe you could make a separate category in your eBay store and call it “Wholesale” and put your excess items in there for resellers to buy maybe at a lesser price. Like a minimum of 20 items each at half price or whatever.

Congratulations to you on your engagement ❤️ and I will pray you continue to heal from your physical challenges.

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

So many things to say. Love Fels-Naptha soap, I have made laundry soap for years and it works great! Congratulations on the engagement! I did a small destination wedding and only had about 10 people I invited. It was the best. We even pulled over and picked wild flowers on the side of the road. Its been 24 years strong. Katy & Vikki's KZread channel they talk about their enzyme clothing cleaner which seemed cool for large clothing sellers. I have a rental unit and if you can't talk on the phone you can't rent my unit. I feel this paralysis is becoming worse. Texting is fine for people but the second you want a phone conversation they freeze or just won't do it. All the best on your health journey just breathe and you will come through everything.

So- I am wondering…. have you heard of Linda’s Stuff? It’s an ebay consignment store. Anyways- I think you could be super successful adopting that model. Where you create a brands list, and then have people send you those items…your team lists the item, and then when the item sells, you split the profit with the person that sent you the item (that’s the business model in a nutshell). 😆 Congrats on the engagement!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

I'm somewhat familiar with that but I'll have to look into it. I'm not big on consignment because it's a lot of numbers to keep track of.

OMG I am so excited for you and Joe. You seem like such a wonderful couple.

Very professional and organized setting for a clothing seller!

OMG CONGRATS CAILEY🎀💖

@cayleyelaine

5 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

Congratulations!! Wishing you two a lifetime of love & laughter!!💗

Wow That is such great amazing news! Congrats to both of you. Beach weddings I have had friends get married in Hawaii a lot and Figi, Thailand and Australia...unfortunately I did not get an invite and I never married there myself LOL - Yet. I would go where you want to honeymoon :-). Don't ever say oh we'll take our honeymoon later...married almost 20 years and nope it never happened for me. Wherever you go I'm sure you will both be very happy for a very long time. I like the RumFish Beach Resort by Tradewinds in St Petersburg Florida if you want to stay in US. The Sand so White The Water was so beautiful.

Congrats on getting engaged and hope things get better and get well soon 🙏🏽💗

Congratulations on your engagement ❤

Congratulations🎉 my husband and I got married at the courthouse and it was just a short and sweet ceremony and then we went somewhere for a reception with a small group of family and friends. You don’t need a large extravagant expensive wedding to have a happy marriage. we have been married for 11 years now.

Congratulations! We celebrated 36 years Christmas Eve. Praying your health improves!

Back in my day...yeah, I'm old...elopement meant that the couple runs away on their own and gets married in secret. Mostly it was when either or both set of parents did NOT want the two to get married. So this kind of elopement is a new idea to me. BTW, my husband and I saved ALL the money by getting married at city hall in NYC.

@kjtmagician

6 ай бұрын

PS Congratulations on your engagement!

Newspaper closed up with the smokey item will help!

Congrats! Nice Happy Valentines Day surprise! All the best to you and Joe!

What about going higher with shelving? I am not sure how high you can go and be within fire code regulations. Congratulations on your engagement! 😊

Congratulations on your engagement! We just hit our 33 year this month. Time flies. Enjoy each other and make every day count.

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Happy Anniversary!

I will keep you in my prayers, Cayley. Congratulations on your engagement! Sounds like things are pretty full throttle right now, but they'll level out in due time. You asked for recommendations on organizing. I always suggest the "library" method, which it looks like you have done with your boxed clothing. Perhaps the same with the desks? Maybe form "endcaps" with extra shelving? They would increase in length but might save some space. You'd have to find a new hanging space for your inventory sheets. Lastly, if your landlord is ok with it, you may wish to utilize wall space. Even ceiling space with hanging shelving (like what's used in garages). Ikea has some great unique storage ideas. Might be worth a looksie. If you follow Mogi Beth, I like how she actually uses short shelving units for her work area/shipping station. That's all I got today! Keep breathing, lean in on your faith, one foot in front of the other. It's all gonna work out. We appreciate you! :)

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Appreciate it!

Cayley!!!! So happy for you’re wedding news! That’s amazing ❤. Ask for a way to consolidate your inventory, one of the things that I have done, which has worked well is that I use metal rolling racks instead of the plastic racks that you have to hold your inventory. It’s very easy to simply move it out of the way when you’re taking photographs, etc. and then just move it back when you’re grabbing inventory… Hope this helps :-)

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Omg so true. I started with metal rolling racks and have some still that hold my bulk stuff. I switched to using plastic because it was so much cheaper. Now I'm kind of wishing I hadn't lol

Eeeks congratulations!! What a unique ring 💖 I'm getting married in June and i know how hard wedding planning is amid working full time. Wish we could elope honesltly lol. Praying for better health and healing as you move forward ❤

One way to configure the desks would be to arrange them in pairs, head to head. What I mean is, put two desks together, facing each other.

Congratulations on your engagement!! With your desks, you might save room turning them sideways & pairing to face to face.

Congratulations 💍👏🏼

You look amazing! Congratulations!!!!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Congrat's on your engagement! Looking back at my own wedding I would have gone a more simple / personal way and not the big invite everyone. A simple dress and not so much fancy stuff. Allot of money spent just for the show. Wish we put it towards a small honeymoon vacation instead as that is what we cut out for the money we had to spend. Whatever you both choose, make your day special for you! Also I look forward to all your videos as they have given me allot of insight for different brands and have been lucky enough to have come across a few. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!

Congrats on your engagement. I'm sorry you're going through health stuff. You'll be in my thoughts as you continue to navigate those things ❤ Btw that Arcteryx Cerium down puffer is one of the best on the market. It is 850 fill power which is really hard to find because of how expensive it is. The higher the FP the more warmth with less down filling required to achieve that warmth. They retail for like $380. I have one I use for long distance backpacking. It gets patched up whenever it gets damaged.

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Great to know! Thank you!

Congratulations on your engagement! I had a feeling that he was going to be the one! I don’t know what’s going on for you privately but try to hang in there 🌻 I will keep you in my positive thoughts and be hopeful for you 🌸

Back the desks up to each other is just a thought. May create more space

Congratulations on your engagement! I wish you and Joe the best ❤

Beyond excited for you! Congrats! ❤

Congratulations!

Congratulations on your engagement! I got engaged just before Valentine’s Day. I also do not like people lol I would rather have a private ceremony with close family and friends and then have a big backyard party to celebrate.

Congratulations to both of you! My husband and I were the same way especially about attention so we eloped in a small little wedding chapel. By the way he did good with that ring! Very beautiful and unique❤

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Congrats! I don’t know about a wedding package, but Clandestino resort, Costa Rica, period!

Congratulations, Cayley!!! Happy for you guys!

Congratulations, Cayley! Wishing you all the best in life! 🎉

So excited for you, congratulations!! And sending good vibes for the health stuff, I know the struggle. Would it be possible to add more stacking on the top of those shelves and use step stools or a ladder to reach the upper area when needed? Looks like the office has relatively high ceilings? Meanwhile, I need to get my first storage unit. Hahaha I want my house back! Best wishes to all of you there!

Congratulations on the engagement Cayley!!!! Regarding the medical stuff, I hope everything gets better

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you! Appreciate it.

LOL at you: “I think the reason we weren’t getting dudes...” 🤣

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

🤣

Oh! So happy🎉. Congrats!!! I know your feeling.....I wanted to elope also.

Congratulations!! So happy for you two!!!

So happy for you both! Blessed!

Congratulations

You are so real and I love it !

Congrats!! We eloped in Hawaii!! Best decision ever!!! We used Weddings of Hawaii. I have our highlight video posted on my channel.

Congrats! LOVE the ring!! Joe has good taste

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

He does!

Hope you are ok will keep you in my prayers.

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Appreciate you 🙏

Cayley, may I make a suggestion? I remember you saying awhile back that you wanted to have KZread be a bigger income stream for you so you can take step back from reselling a bit. Wouldn't it make more sense to post more videos here that are different/maybe more creative than doing shows on Whatnot? And getting the adsense $$$ to pay for the wedding? Seems like it would scratch your itch to make videos, grow your audience and make you money. Just an idea! You could incorporate your team more in the videos and have it be collaborative. IDK! Just some thoughts!!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Those are great ideas! I am going to incorporate Whatnot no matter what because I want to give it a full effort and see how it goes. But I like the idea of using KZread as well!

I screamed when you said you got engaged!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Great news on the engagement Cayley!

Congrats on your engagement!!!!🥳🥳🥳

Congratulations on the engagement! ❤❤

I tried making the detergent from the Fels bar. It’s a bit funky consistency-wise, and more work than I cared to do 😂.

My partner and I are planning on taking a cruise and doing the destination wedding. Cruise wedding package is $400. We eloped and paid less than $200. Pay marriage license, certificate and then chapel in Las Vegas.

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

That's awesome!!

Congratulations to you both!

Congratulations!!!!! 🎉🎉

I always said if I got married I would just get married in a courthouse or do a very small destination wedding and save all that money to spend on a longer honeymoon traveling for a bit. Big weddings are too much of a hassle just for one day imo

Loved "25 and never had a job"🤣🤣🤣

Congratulations!🎉🎉🎉

Just a curiosity…for the large bundle would it be more cost effective to use a large polymailer? The boxes themselves are around 11oz.

@cayleyelaine

5 ай бұрын

Probably so but we'd also have to double up the polymailers because not very many polymailers will hold 5 lbs of clothing.

I found a Patricia Nash shoulder bag beautiful but cigarette stinky. Washed lining and let it on my patio for a month. Smell went away. Sold. Buyer gave + review.

Congratulations! Also, I would like to know what shelving units you use. Thanks

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Hi! If you go to the linktree in my description there is a supplies list there. I get them from Menards.

Where do you get your inventory boxes? What are the measurements

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Hi! They are from uline. You can find the exact ones on my supplies list here 👇 linktr.ee/cayleyelaine

Congratulations!!

Congrats!!!!

Congrats!❤

Congratulations! 💍🌟

How much are you guys offering for pay? I'm surprised you had an applicant that was previously a general manager

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

We do not share the specifics for privacy reasons but we pay above minimum wage in our area. Trying to stay competitive.

Maybe try pushing the desks up against each other?

OMG Congratulations!!!

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

Thank you!! ☺️

what tablet do you have? im looking to purchase one. :) thank you

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

I have a Microsoft Surface Go 2

@mrandall1986

6 ай бұрын

@@cayleyelaine thanks 😊

I want to apply! This looks like a dream job for me! What state are you located in?

@cayleyelaine

4 ай бұрын

Ohio!

@jade.j5781

4 ай бұрын

@@cayleyelaine Darn! 😭 I'm in Washington, know anyone over here that does similar work?

@cayleyelaine

4 ай бұрын

@jade.j5781 I have no idea. I'm sure there is, you might look it up on job sites for your state.

Do you rent your building? Can you do a video on your overhead please?❤

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

I do. I do not share those numbers.

Could you make your isles a little closer together?

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

That's a good idea, i'll look into that.

What size is your office?

@cayleyelaine

6 ай бұрын

2k Sq ft

congratulation i say small elopement and nice long honeymoon