One of the biggest impedance in fathers being able to develop a relationship with their children is Maternal Gatekeeping.

I'm absolutely loving what I'm hearing here. My audience needs to hear this!! Thank you for doing the work and sharing such and essential message.

Brilliant!

Thankyou.

This needs to be on the every DCF office. needs to watch these videos sadly in today's society. just look at the comments look at the likes . Only seven likes for this video so sad

@EEscoto90

6 ай бұрын

Just found this video and whilst I’m beyond elated to be a new father and wanted to absorb as much knowledge as I can to be the best father for my son. It’s sad to see such few views on such an important topic.

Good talk, but I have a small problem with her portraying evolution like it's a thinking thing. Men became involved in the first place because those that didn't, didn't procreate. Now evolution didn't set out to help us biologically. The ones lucky enough to have got it randomly, were just more successful. She knows this, but it's a better story this way.

@danielmelgar8918

3 жыл бұрын

So evolution is going from walking on all four to walking on two? She said 5% mammals are parents. So if you screwed the wrong guy. That's your fault for not killing the baby of a man that didn't evolve to take care of his child. Next time have a sex with a man that likes kids. Because she said men can become step fathers. In other word choose wisely whom to fuck. She's not making excuses for failures of men.

@bip5395

3 жыл бұрын

You just don't understand her way of portraying it. Yes: successful mechanisms were the ones that were passed on. This is what evolution is. Also: men who do not involve do procreate and I don't believe for a second that it wasn't the case in the past. So as they were needed for child development mechanisms for attachment were created.

@PoussinNoNeko

8 ай бұрын

She made the analogy with the apes. Male apes didn't need to stick around and could just procreate with any female. But as the baby needed more care, the father needed to stick around to protect him. That's why we have monogamy, because fathers wouldn't want to care for someone else's baby, so the couple had to be loyal to each other.