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@morpheus31903 ай бұрын
No offense but if she leaves, I’m not going to be her rock. She isn’t coming back and the whole being testing thing is pure BS. Why would I want to be with someone who broke up and is “testing” me. The whole premise is flawed.
@FurryLove215
2 ай бұрын
Because MOST women play this game, it's very likely your new woman will test you too. So it's simple, be tested by your ex, that you know, or be tested by a new woman you do not know.
@morpheus3190
2 ай бұрын
@@FurryLove215 true, new woman is trying to test me now but in other ways. It won’t end up like she thinks. 😂
@salvomig2368
2 ай бұрын
Most people do it at the subconscious level. We get too close and pull back a little. Our partner may blow up our phone or respect our time away. Anxious people probably won’t pull away.
@FurryLove215
2 ай бұрын
@@salvomig2368 Avoidant people pull away, or people in general trying to teat their partners. I was anxious, but watching these videos made me secure. I miss my exgf and still love her but she left me for a rebound relationship with a guy she met four weeks ago. They rushed their relationship within a week or two, and already met in person, went on a date and took pictures. She stood close to him but there was no kisses. I literally got sick over this, never had that happen before. Two weeks later she calls me, says she knows I'm mad over being blocked and offered to show me pictures of their date. I didn't bother to look, I already knew, but she doesn't know I know who her "man" is. Now today she's supposed to be seeing him again, for Mother's Day. Smh. I knew her for five years, took my time when we dated, I met her mother at the right pace. Wtf she doing, trying make me jealous, calls me two weeks later. Why? Guilt? Closure? Sadness? I asked if she wanted to move on, she said yes. So been in no contact still, since all this started. Mad she left me. They don't even know each other and yet meeting their parents. They met on Facebook but it's been weeks since they started dating and they still haven't posted anything about it on their Facebook profiles, nor changed their relationship status. They don't even interact with each other on Facebook. She only posted about their relationship on her TikTok which doesn't get alot of attention like her Snapchat.
@nickus512 ай бұрын
At times I seriously wonder where did humanity go wrong that we became such unhealthy, emotionless robot-likes, uncapable of adult communication and conflict resolutions. I want a mature woman who will be my rock as well. Who will support me, just as well as I will support her. I want en equal who will stay by my side when life gets though, not leave just like that.
@designdog13 ай бұрын
She left me seven months ago for a guy and they’re still together. We are together for 10 years. Yep, I’m sure I’ll be her rock when that relationship fails. I’ll get used again.
@Zemohc3 ай бұрын
Be her rock, and she won't be back. That's more realistic.
@joec916602 ай бұрын
How can you be her rock if she doesn't reach out when you go no contact
@777ABC2 ай бұрын
It really, really depends... At the beginning of the relationship - yes, it's true, coming on too strong scares us a bit even if we like the guy. If we're talking leaving a boyfriend for another guy - that usually means "that's it". However, avoidant girls might be different.
@crissfelix952 ай бұрын
I was her rock all along the relationship , what broke us apart was distance I moved to another country with the intentions of following my dreams she flaked on on moving with me she cheated on me broke up with me a couple times , she walked away out of shame
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No offense but if she leaves, I’m not going to be her rock. She isn’t coming back and the whole being testing thing is pure BS. Why would I want to be with someone who broke up and is “testing” me. The whole premise is flawed.
@FurryLove215
2 ай бұрын
Because MOST women play this game, it's very likely your new woman will test you too. So it's simple, be tested by your ex, that you know, or be tested by a new woman you do not know.
@morpheus3190
2 ай бұрын
@@FurryLove215 true, new woman is trying to test me now but in other ways. It won’t end up like she thinks. 😂
@salvomig2368
2 ай бұрын
Most people do it at the subconscious level. We get too close and pull back a little. Our partner may blow up our phone or respect our time away. Anxious people probably won’t pull away.
@FurryLove215
2 ай бұрын
@@salvomig2368 Avoidant people pull away, or people in general trying to teat their partners. I was anxious, but watching these videos made me secure. I miss my exgf and still love her but she left me for a rebound relationship with a guy she met four weeks ago. They rushed their relationship within a week or two, and already met in person, went on a date and took pictures. She stood close to him but there was no kisses. I literally got sick over this, never had that happen before. Two weeks later she calls me, says she knows I'm mad over being blocked and offered to show me pictures of their date. I didn't bother to look, I already knew, but she doesn't know I know who her "man" is. Now today she's supposed to be seeing him again, for Mother's Day. Smh. I knew her for five years, took my time when we dated, I met her mother at the right pace. Wtf she doing, trying make me jealous, calls me two weeks later. Why? Guilt? Closure? Sadness? I asked if she wanted to move on, she said yes. So been in no contact still, since all this started. Mad she left me. They don't even know each other and yet meeting their parents. They met on Facebook but it's been weeks since they started dating and they still haven't posted anything about it on their Facebook profiles, nor changed their relationship status. They don't even interact with each other on Facebook. She only posted about their relationship on her TikTok which doesn't get alot of attention like her Snapchat.
At times I seriously wonder where did humanity go wrong that we became such unhealthy, emotionless robot-likes, uncapable of adult communication and conflict resolutions. I want a mature woman who will be my rock as well. Who will support me, just as well as I will support her. I want en equal who will stay by my side when life gets though, not leave just like that.
She left me seven months ago for a guy and they’re still together. We are together for 10 years. Yep, I’m sure I’ll be her rock when that relationship fails. I’ll get used again.
Be her rock, and she won't be back. That's more realistic.
How can you be her rock if she doesn't reach out when you go no contact
It really, really depends... At the beginning of the relationship - yes, it's true, coming on too strong scares us a bit even if we like the guy. If we're talking leaving a boyfriend for another guy - that usually means "that's it". However, avoidant girls might be different.
I was her rock all along the relationship , what broke us apart was distance I moved to another country with the intentions of following my dreams she flaked on on moving with me she cheated on me broke up with me a couple times , she walked away out of shame
Congrats on 200k
she reached out after 4mnths NC then asked money
Boooo! You erased a good post. Sound advise.
@CoachCraigKenneth
3 ай бұрын
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