Taran's insight on how men who have been raised with "traditional" ideas of masculinity end up feeling martyred when they realize that there are other ways to exist is such an important conversation

@jessicalogan1119

9 ай бұрын

Lita's intro to this @29:20?

@Charlotte-nk8mh

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for bringing that up. It's exactly what I was thinking. It was a very valuable point, not often discussed anywhere, unfortunately.

@vanessalore9942

9 ай бұрын

I totally agree it needs to be talked about. I chafe at the idea that all masculinity is toxic. The word misogyny is thrown around way too often.

@RandomOtaku17

9 ай бұрын

I totally agree and not to be this person, but race has a factor here too. Lots of times black men don’t have the space/freedom to express other types of masculinity without EXTREME ostracism. I think that’s where lots of Jared’s rigidity comes from.

@alexandraalbertz1442

9 ай бұрын

​@@RandomOtaku17a potential explanation but not an excuse

Spot-on with the analysis of performative masculinity, Lita!

@Magii_07

9 ай бұрын

Disagree! This isn’t what society now is advocating- it’s time to get with this generation, no longer put expectations that you’re learned when growing up. The point is we know those upbringing thoughts were incorrect and unfair so the more you speak up on that’s how you view them shows ignorance on your part. My advice is to surround yourself with various people and question views that no longer serves us.

@Grav3yardguy01

9 ай бұрын

Just for her to say she assumed Cory was gay at first🥴

I love that big brother is such a silly show, but at the same time is a microcosm for the real would and brings about important conversations such as toxic masculinity, and thank you Lita and Taran for allowing space for these conversations

Love the idea of the houseguests guessing who viewers voted for. Reminds me of the "social" survivor comps!!

@handsoaphandsoap

9 ай бұрын

Also kinda outs who the viewers like and who they don’t, would love to see them do something like this on a future season. Maybe they could do a popularity poll and ask the players to privately compose a list and whoever is closest gets some sort of power.

@KatieMcCarthyHD

9 ай бұрын

@@handsoaphandsoap throw in some oddball questions to stir up drama too. "Who's the messiest person in the house" "who knows the least about the game" and show the results but not who individually voted.... 😎

GREAT GUEST! ESP for this update. Love the distillation of cam and red being two sides of typical reality tv misogyny.

Lita was a great guest. Loved this update!

I love you taran! I really appreciate all the bb updates they are giving me life! Lita is legit would love to see more of her!

Nice to see Lita again, thanks for the update!

I love when Lita comes on the recap ❤

Glad to finally get another Lita podcast!!!!!!!!!

Lita updates are so fun!

OMG if America wins HOH and puts Cirie and Izzie on the block I will get an America tattoo on my heart

I don't like twists. It makes the people in the house scared to play

I really enjoy Lita on the updates!!

Thank you Taran for the Live Feed updates❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Big Brother....No more America's!!!Confusion abound!i voted for Cory....he is my favorite

Lita always brings such a fun energy to the updates! Really enjoyed this one. Also the more serious discussion was well said and important to bring up! Love the idea of the houseguests betting on who they think will win America’s vote as the way to win a power.

I didn’t really notice America that much so far this season but these disgusting men are making me root for her

Best part of todays discussion is the discourse on men performing masculinity and how the patriarchy hurts us all. Loved every bit of.

Every time I click on your video at the end of my long work day, I see it's over an hour and I think, "What shenanigans are these kids up to STILL???"

Love having Lita in the update 😊

It is currently day 29 in the house... for Survivor comparisons In Panama Courtney would be voted out tomorrow In Micronesia Jason would be voted out tomorrow In HvH Cirie was voted out over two weeks ago In Game Changers Zeke was voted out today

Just found you guys! Loved the video! 💙💙💙

So glad I found this !!! Love this and now I am hooked.

I missed Lita!!!! It's like she brings the juicy gossip and womanly wiles everytime!!😍🤩😆

The guest calls out Jared for toxic masculinity and immediately says she assumed Cory was gay for the first few weeks because of the way he expressed his masculinity. I'm sure that Jared assumed that too. Not the best perspective on this but she's trying I guess lol.

@lizbluth

9 ай бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking.

@PirateDuck49

8 ай бұрын

Totally agree. It's like, "We need to teach men they are safe to express themselves differently. Also, if you wear a pink shirt, we will make incorrect assumptions about your sex life."

@lizbluth

8 ай бұрын

@@PirateDuck49 Yessss this exactly.

I love Lita! She has the best takes.

Blu is actually a master strategist. Getting in with Felicia while also making a showmance alliance would allow her to play both sides and get to the end where Jared and her would be in an optimal position. Even after the show Cirie will respect her game and support Jared and her in their future relationship endeavors. Blu Kim for the win!

@johndebate3858

9 ай бұрын

*Blue

Jared and Cirie in Hammock talk. Jared(Or was it Cirie?) said that's the kind of comp I could see Cory doing good at it. So I wonder if HGs got to see the comp?

You make me Laugh 😂 Love you Both makes me not miss my 😴

39:49 first time Bowie f***ing Jane gets mentioned and it’s just in reference to someone talking to her 🤣

really looking forward to cameron’s eviction (hopefully next week) 🙏

hope next week jared goes so I can not hate the twist

Another twist ruins fun gameplay 😢

I don’t want to throw shade but I feel this what’s wrong with Society-Lita stating “I thought Cory was gay at first” is very ignorant. It’s very frustrating especially that we’re in 2023.

@Charlotte-nk8mh

9 ай бұрын

I don't feel that what Lita said was ignorant. It was her initial impression and there is nothing wrong with being thought of as gay.

@benjaminwinicki4298

9 ай бұрын

Yeah I had a problem with it too. Because there are masculine gay men. Just because someone is gay doesn’t mean they have to be feminine presenting. No hate on Lita I just think it came across wrong.

@AndyDuphresne

9 ай бұрын

What’s ignorant about it? There’s nothing ignorant about thinking someone is straight upon first meeting or seeing them, is there?

@melb5359

9 ай бұрын

I asked my gay brother and there is in fact nothing wrong with that. You are allowed to think someone might be gay. It's called your "gaydar" doesn't work too good.

@Magii_07

9 ай бұрын

What’s ignorant about it is categorizing a male if not masculine or acts a certain way they must be “Gay” .. why are we thinking that and who care if they’re bi or gay, straight!?! I am strong believer to call out those biases to make the world a better place. We should allow a male feel his emotions and not have to hide them because they will be seen as weak, all of us are human feel emotions and get upset, some more than others. Being gay, straight or bi has nothing to do with it.

Love Lila !!!!

Queen TayTay!!!

12:07 and bounce that check!

They're playing rock , scissors and cleaning it up with paper

@sighkoticshorty77

9 ай бұрын

Haaa

Women are not a prize! And agree its not the mother's fault for son's problematic behavior. Its a double standard, if you blame mother than blame the other parent (father) But whats more productive besides convos btwn parent/children better yet, stop toxic masculinity in every conversation everywhere. Call it out. Name it.

The Bowie Jane is eepy, she eepy and neeby to sleeby

I wouldn’t mind if America takes out Izzy or Cirie 🤷‍♀️ that would be an amazing game move

@tatersalad8648

9 ай бұрын

I don’t think that’s a hot take right now, i think most of us would like that.

@handsoaphandsoap

9 ай бұрын

She’ll miss if she attempts the shot at Cirie but she should definitely be able to take out Izzy. Put her up against maybe Felicia or Jared and she’s gone. I’m not sure she’ll do it though, I think she’ll get too scared to go against the Fields’ and will just take out Cam or Red or something instead, or put Izzy up against either one of them and Cirie will rally the troops to keep Izzy.

@blueviolets2106

9 ай бұрын

She should have never let Cam win pressure cooker imo

@sarahgerner4801

9 ай бұрын

I was so excited when Cameron won because I was hoping this is what he would do. Everyone is definitely too scared to go against Cirie though.

@Charlotte-nk8mh

9 ай бұрын

@@sarahgerner4801 Whoever does will probably win the game.

I don’t think we should automatically blame Cirie for Jared’s actions but I also don’t think we should automatically exonerate her either. It’s very possible that she’s fully aware of how he is. She hasn’t been the nicest person either.

@saphire2214

9 ай бұрын

Nicest person??? What make her not “nice”? Do tell…

@Jaxsonn-ph4ey

9 ай бұрын

@@saphire2214lets not pretend that she hasnt been harsh on bowie.. besides that shes chill

@okster43

9 ай бұрын

​@@saphire2214her calling bowie Jane out for asking her when she's going to sleep would be a specific example

@sheilajohnson1218

9 ай бұрын

Sooo, these people are judged on not playing the game our way???

@queenrhonnie1000

9 ай бұрын

@@Jaxsonn-ph4ey you mean the person who comforted boy in her arms when she was crying about Corey not going to bed? She thinks Bowie broke her trust and is a traitor. She doesn’t have to like her. But she has not mistreated her.

she 100% made up eepy tho

@johndebate3858

9 ай бұрын

My friends have been saying it for a year

Please stop having lita on

I like this podcast, the only problem is how casually they throw the word misogyny/misogynistic around kinda cringe especially when they don’t use it correctly

@eclecticsteak

9 ай бұрын

Where did they not use it correctly

@saphire2214

9 ай бұрын

The word is being used correctly. You may want to look into why you feel otherwise. A bit of research will clear that right up.