Bad B*tch Syndrome (How I'm Going into 2024)
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Just a heads up. I would blur out any businesses or street signs if you are going to walk in these areas often. There are a lot of wierdos in Vegas/KZread. I live here too. Keep up the great content. I really appreciate how Leila talks about her thoughts and how to overcome them. They are definitely chains that can bind us to inaction.
@proyectodereciclaje1566
7 ай бұрын
True
@bananbanan6520
7 ай бұрын
True
@alpineai
7 ай бұрын
there may be security in the background you do see too...
@mattk8810
7 ай бұрын
The cameraman doesnt exist
@TheCountryCouponer
7 ай бұрын
Tru, but she said it’s not her normal routine ❤
I love her relationship with the truth. I need to be more brutally honest with myself. I also love the "I am not afraid of bad feelings". So powerful.
This walk and talk content is going to be HUGE! Insanely smart move here
I probably can’t highlight enough the fact about how lucky we are to be able to partecipate to the thoughts that come up to a person like Leila while she’s on a walk.
Amazing. Leila really thinks about the answers right on the spot, speaking from the heart, its raw, not picture perfect polished footage in a beautiful studio. Just on a walk, not knowing where they are heading, not being dressed up for a photoshoot (although she always looks great) not in a private jet with 5 sell phones to her ear to prove her success .. none of that, but like this, and it is perfect and authentic! And thats why we love you! Thank you, Leila
@lariztheshiz
7 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes!!! She has helped me change my life!
I get what you’re saying about depression Leila. I could’ve been diagnosed and medicated many times. Most of my friends were and several family members. At age 17, I sat in a car with 4 girls, all on Prozac. I looked around and thought, “Depression makes sense in this environment and these circumstances. I’m going to try changing my actual life instead and see if that works.” I left town and did all I could to upgrade my quality of life. It definitely worked. Nowadays, depression theorists posit that depression’s evolutionary function is to slow a human down enough to consider options via rumination, THEN to take the best course of action. The majority of people just stay stuck in the rumination phase. Why? Decisiveness appears to be a rare trait. Families and culture (especially schooling) often don’t develop decisiveness. I suspect a benefit of hands-off and even neglectful parenting is it gives space for young children to develop decisiveness at an early age. In some households decisiveness is necessary for survival. In other households, deferring to adults and authority is the only way to avoid punishment. I guess smart forward-thinking parents could and would explicitly scaffold learning to build decisiveness in children. It’s somewhat comical that the “worst” kind of parenting e.g. parentification (parent-child role reversal) and child neglect often develop the valuable trait of decisiveness by default.
@sun--li
7 ай бұрын
Great points 🙏
@jonahlee1272
7 ай бұрын
Amazingly well said. I have a solution for your question at the end: The biggest thing that I have found in regards to teaching things traditionally thought of as difficult, anecdotally, is expressing intent early on in the process. Decisive action is a result of courage, and courage is born of strict adherence to principles despite extenuating circumstances. Therefore, the way to instill discipline into young minds is by communicating the intention behind hardship, then allowing for them to take responsibility for their own mistakes. This is not a hands off approach, as ensuring that the child does not perish in this somewhat harrowing process can be tricky, and this too requires courage. This approach to teaching also requires a lot of prophetic vision, as in the process of teaching discipline the teacher can often lose sight of the end goal as the student will inevitably become frustrated and agitated with their own lack of progress. This, again, will require strict adherence to principles on the teachers part. This demonstration of both forethought and courage will by osmosis be passed onto the student, as they are literally taking place in a virtuous cycle perpetuated by their teacher. Cheers!
@thaliakate444
6 ай бұрын
@@jonahlee1272 thank you. Saving this in my notes and will return to it. Sounds a lot like individualised planning, setting the learning intention, scaffolding and modelling. I think the crux is also natural consequences, so they would experience the consequence of their "wrong" action or inaction directly and learn that way. Yes, discipline has to have a payoff, otherwise, what's the point? Principles and values are helpful as a guiding light, you're right, make decisions based on a framework. Let the virtuous cycles multiply!
I like the fact how she corrects herself when expressing limiting thoughts. “It has been less helpful for me”
Leila, i really enjoyed this format. I thinknthe original idea of vlogs was to take people along with you, to feel like you're there, but now they are all jump cuts and preframed. I love this. Walking with a friend. Plus, there's no questioning your intelligence when you are being asked questions on the spot, and answering them so thoughtfully. Im thrilled with your willingness to share your opinion and experience with anxiety and depression. I know it will ruffle feathers, but it's spot on. 100% responsibility with honesty that feelings will always be there and they can be uncomfortable. Loved this. Nice job Caleb too.
The video quality just keeps upleveling and upleveling! The raw footage where you are just capturing things in real life STANDS OUT.
I love this video, Leila! Thanks for taking the time to be so real and take us along on your walk.
I loved this format in particular because it feels like going on a walk with you, it's like easier to digest the information. Felt more personal. Thanks!
I love you Leila! You are one the best inspirational person I found in 2023. I Love You Realness ❤ Wishing you the best in 2024 🎉
Loved your “walk n talk” guys! Leila I remember the same pattern of responding to things going well with a thought “something bad must be on its way”! Thank goodness I’ve changed the response 🎉
We love you, Leila!! Keep winning!
I love this so much. No hyper edits, just a nice walk, with little life moments and wonderful insights. Please make more!
The mental health, success mindset talks are truly helpful. I'd like to also see lowering anxieties around relating with people, being on the spot, on camera and being an inspirational leader vs fear mongering.
THANK YOU, PLEASE DO MORE😁😁 this is fantastic, raw content, someone talking about real problems where she very clearly has a ton of experience.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 More Walk and Talks Please!!! My favorite part of this video was seeing your thought process on a question if you don’t have the exact answer off the top of your head. I actually liked that it was in the evening bc I felt like I was having a real conversation with my friend on a neighborhood walk. I personally am a fan of more informal videos. I tend to connect more with the person. I do like other content formats, but I don’t tend to feel like clicking on it as fast as something more informal. I also LOVED the question and answer format. I LOVE LOVE LOVE Q&A’s from real people to leaders. You tend to get more practical information for real-life problems. I’ll have to say this video, so far, FOR ME and where I’m at in life, has been the most helpful. And you have TONNNNSSSS of helpful content. YOU ROCK!!!
I love this walking format, it feels real and more connected (not to mention way easier to edit! 😄). Keep it up!
Thank you for the video, really enjoyed it. Biggest takeaways are learning to accept the bad things and not fear them and using people I look up to to make decisions.
Your content is a fantastic look at the process of change. I really appreciate that you dedicate time to this. Thank you.
“If I do the thing I gain more and loose less. I’ll find myself wanting to do the thing because of the rewards I’ll get.” Leila Hormozi. I loved that. I’ve been not wanting to learn German living in Austria and now I see it as a way to get what I want. Love the content format. Walking and flowing conversation. ❤
I love your realness and honesty. You always have the best insight and wisdom with practical solutions we can implement through simple action. Your vids have really helped me get motivated, knowing things ARE possible even when I feel like 💩. Thanks ❤❤❤🥳
Thank you Leila! Would love these available through your podcast to. I listen to your podcast Build and The Game every morning on my 4mile morning walk! Love walking with you Leila
Phenomenal interview...thank you for sharing all that and given a solution to most people's problems....taking that first step 🙏🏼
Leila thank you for sharing your thoughts while on your walk. Also, welcome to Las Vegas
I just started watching shorts and vids of yours a couple days ago. I really like your ideas about things. Thoughts are wild and mean nothing. It’s taken me 39 years to realize this. 😂❤
These walk and talks are amazing! Keep doing these!
This is the best framework about anxiety I’ve EVER heard! This is why you’re my role model when I don’t want to do something uncomfortable ❤
I think, this kind of episode are even better than "normal one". Totally honest, imperfect, true. I wrote on this paper a few lessons from you, Leila. Thanks for your content
so true about manifesting -- we cant be scared of our thoughts! it gives them too much power
1 - I like your new look very much, it fits beautifully. 2- About depression, I have would have self-pity and then depressed which leads to self-destructive behavior and has gotten me into lots of trouble. The youtuber Wes Watson said in one of his videos that self-destructive behavior is the epitome of selfishness. That really hit the nail for me. I never realized that selfishness could be manifested in self-destructive or self-pity behavior. So whenever I behave or going to behave like that, I remember his talk and I stop. It is very subtle and happens unconsciously, thus dangerous. And as it was shameful for you to gain from depression, it is shameful for me with self-destructive behavior for me. I'm ashamed to the core for my selfishness that hurts others and only think about myself. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you, Leila, this has really made some things clearer for me i really appreciate your perspective on this! For me, as I am sure with many others who consume your content who do not have personal mentors in their life, you have been a great virtual mentor and thinking what would Leila do always sets me back on the right track, even if it's not the easiest path.
More of this please! Walking in the dark while “talking your way out of it” is as real as life itself.
Very insightful; romanticising the 'pain' and courageously approaching the fight/healing versus cowering in avoidance.
Raw, unfiltered, authentic 🔥🔥🔥 keep shining !!
Keep up the good work, girl!! Your honesty and guidance in self-reflection is powerful. Thank you. (I too was amazed how far you walked in those shoes! haha) Brava.
Leila you so accurately articulated my thought process. I feel like you understood the problem better than I did, thanks.
I love you, Leila. This was very helpful (it felt like talking to a friend), thank you!
I loved the walk and talk. Thanks for keeping it real. My goal is to work with yall. I’m entering my fifth year in business and I’m about to do Alex’s 100 dials a day for 100 days challenge. I’ll tell you how it goes 🙌🏽
My new favorite video from you. Love this style and casual but impactful chat!!
I love this format personally. Feels like you’re talking directly to me! Watching this on the treadmill
Leila talks about uncomfortable feelings with such grace I love it! I love her strength and maturity. Mental health comes from healthy thoughts. A thought “It’s possible to do hard things in order to feel better” is healthy. Depression comes from ignorance, from lack of knowledge on how life works.
Absolute banger, with a lot of hard truths. Hoping for more off the cuff rambling wisdom, ty Leila!
This is so refreshing, Leila. Love the new format. Looking forward to seeing more of this!
I appreciated the camera man's pursuit of greater and greater clarity because it drove even greater critical thinking and better answers from Leila than we otherwise may have gotten. On the other hand, I think there's a difference between needing more advice and needing a new frame. "How" should be a question, not an impulse. At times in life, you will need to be able to make good decision despite incomplete information, i.e. you will need to *become* the "how" as opposed to *ask* for the how. Robert Kiyosaki (hate him or love him) once said "You need to learn to become bigger than your problems," and I think there's a lot of truth to that.
You’re right Leila. Feel them feelings. All of them. ❤ Thank you.
I really liked this walk style - would love to see more of them
Please make videos like this!!! This video is 100% in your top 7 videos to date!
I'm so happy I got to know you & Alex, really appreciate your content. :)
00:02 Acceptance of the bad has taken away fear 02:23 Placing less importance on negative thoughts and focusing on actions for improved mental well-being 06:59 Realizing the gains from accepting a label and its impact on personal growth 09:26 Engineer your environment to create higher consequences for not doing uncomfortable things. 13:59 Use your role model's decisions as a framework. 16:45 Comparing yourself to others for motivation 21:23 Balancing positivity and negativity 23:15 Acceptance of bad feelings is powerful tool 27:42 Trial and error approach to finding what works for you 29:51 Dealing with anxiety in a work setting
You guys are amazing. How sweet your husband values your wisdom to help create content. May the good Lord always protect you and keep you giving love through your content. 💖💖
I loved the video of the Q&A with the black background.. a white background is awesome ❤ And leila you always bring so much value
I absolutely loved this Leila!! Can so relate to everything you talked about…thank you!!! Please keep doing this!!!
Love the raw cut seeing her take time to think through what she wants to say gives me time to process what she has already said. Most of their Contant is so dense I miss things because I am trying to engage with the next topic. Plus this was a great shower content. Again most other videos are so dense I cannot do two things and glean nuggets
Omg love the format, it's like i'm going with you for a walk ❤️❤️❤️
OMG! I’m going to love these walk and talks. Leila is the best! More Walk and Talks.
This was awesome! Real unique way to connect. Thanks for sharing your view on mental health. 🙌💛It’d be cool if you allowed us to ask you some questions while you’re doing the walk-and-talk.
Thank you so much for talking about this. Great video. This is so honest and awesome.
It was great! Thank you Leila! We need more women like you! 💪💪
Tank you, Leila. Please continue. You are very inspiring. Many greeting from Cologne, Germany 👋
Like this new format, thanks for your content, Leila, you're really inspiring, looking forward to more episodes of this.
I’m so grateful for you. Need more mental health talk for real!!
Thank you for this. Would love to see a walk and talk about your approach to leadership.
Definitely inspirational and great to hear how you think, more of this please! 🔥💪😊
Thank you, this was helpful.. keep up the great work!!
Love you Leila! I think the difference between manifesting and what you do, is that you know you can do something if you just have the truth. How can you know where to go if you are pretending to be somewhere you’re not? Your roadmap will be totally skewed. I heard Lysa TerKeurst say onetime that she heard a new definition of sobriety which was “a commitment to the truth at all cost.” And I hear that in what you are saying.
Awesome and helpful advice! I enjoyed the conversational style and format of the video.
Amazing, so well said. Thank you for being you.
"I've reached a point where I'm the happiest I've ever been. I'm not afraid of negative emotions or things going wrong. Accepting the bad has alleviated so much of my fear. What's been liberating for me is focusing less on my thoughts and more on my actions. I've learned that thoughts don't dictate my fate. This mindset shift has been key to managing the anxious thoughts that used to overwhelm me. I used to get caught in a loop of fear and anxiety, constantly self-monitoring and stressing over my thoughts. But now, I understand that it's not about avoiding negative thoughts; it's about not giving them undue importance. It's about detachment from these thoughts and focusing on actions. I've realized the power of acceptance. Accepting bad feelings and situations has been more helpful than trying to avoid them. This acceptance has taken away so much of the fear I used to have."
The thumbnail looks like Leila is about to shoot a music video
This is so great. You are a true inspiration. Thank you for all you do ❤
Love the walk and talk format - more please🎉
Thanks Leila for what you said at 7.10 about depression and being diagnosed bipolar. I'm taking back my life and it's been difficult for me to put words on how i could help people get out of this praradigm. It's not my fault, i have mental health issues. What do you gain from it is a harsh truth and did change a lot after realising this.
Loved the walk and talk!! So many great gems :)
Leila ilysm ❤🥰 thank you for being born and thank you for existing 🥰🥹❤
Its amazing, the words and lessons gets interesting throughout the video till the end.
I love these moments of just riffing. Im kinda a audio person and the gum chewing kinda had me going crazy but everything else was great
thank you leila, you articulated yourself perfectly :) I am really glad I 'met' you even if it's just online, you are one of those persons for me that I feel lucky to know and showed me how I have the power to do things differently. thank you for this walk and talk I am looking forward to the next one. I know you already do a lot of stuff on your relationship with alex but I would still love to hear more about it and also about your plans for the future and what your vision for yourself looks like. thanks!
@biancarice789
7 ай бұрын
uh uh thanks also to your cool cameraman who had really great questions to ask you!
Leila is such an inspirational woman, so generous with her truths!
Yup love the new content style, it's rockstar 🙌🏾🙌🏾✨
ANGER - you've talked a good amount about anxiety - would love to hear your takes on anger ie: have you "operationalized" it ? what are your thoughts / experiences on harnessing it? love the format - thanks for taking us along - shout out to whoever is asking the great questions - was that Dr. Kashi?
❤ I haven't finished this one yet but it is so true that apart about "what are you gaining with a label". Someone in the space has a saying I like, "the limitations you fight for, you get to keep them".. 4:00 That was hilarious 🤣😆😂 BRB
I believe you guys are sticking to business content going forward, which I also consume, but I really like everything about this video. The walking, the diagnosis and refuting of the depression etc. You guys have beaten a path and I hope to be the "wisest" by learning from y'all.
Love this style video! This should defo be a weekly series. So incredible to have this type of information for free. Saving people thousands of pounds on therapy lol
Cool idea for walking 😅 and working out Great opening scene 😊
Wait, is Alex filming? Also loved this format, I find walking so therapeutic and a good way to think. Sending love from Namibia 🇳🇦 love your content.
I like this setup, seems like a casual impromptu stroll with a friend to chitchat about some deep stuff
Key takeaways from the walk 😛 00:00 Accepting and embracing negative emotions can lead to a decrease in fear and anxiety. 00:24 Look for activities that you already enjoy and find ways to capture content during those activities. 01:39 Recognize that thoughts do not determine your fate and focus more on your actions. 02:59 Understand the benefits or avoidance of negative consequences that you gain from not taking action. 04:49 Consider changing your environment to increase the consequences of not taking action and the benefits of taking action. 09:39 Choose a person you admire and ask yourself if they would do a certain action.
I appreciate the different perspective. I found that I dwell on negative thoughts and suffer from "paralysis of analysis". I started physical training and striving to put 5 more pounds on the bar. For me, taking action in a task improved my mental framework. As the weight got heavier, the mental fortitude had to grow as well. My point is, it's easy to get stuck in a negative state, taking action may be the best path out of it.
I must say, I thoroughly enjoyed the concept and your engaging presence. Your approach to connecting with the audience in a casual, outdoor setting is both refreshing and relatable. However, I'd like to offer some constructive feedback and recommendations that could enhance the experience for both you and your viewers in future events. Camera Positioning and Direction: Consider having the cameraman walk ahead of you. This would allow for a more planned and smoother walking path, helping to avoid any potential mishaps, like damaging your shoes. Walking on well-paved or even surfaces could contribute to a more comfortable experience. Camera Angle for Audience Engagement: To create a more immersive experience for your audience, the camera could film from a position slightly behind the cameraman. This perspective would give the illusion that the audience is walking alongside you, fostering a sense of inclusion and direct engagement as if they were part of the conversation. Engagement and Content Tips: Interactive Segments: Incorporate moments where you address the audience directly, perhaps by answering pre-submitted questions. This would make viewers feel more involved in the conversation. Scenic Variety: Change up the scenery occasionally to keep the visual backdrop interesting. Different locations can add a dynamic element to your discussions. Content Teasers: At the end of each walk, consider giving a teaser about the topic or theme of the next one. This can build anticipation and keep your audience looking forward to more. Overall, I believe these tweaks could significantly enhance the appeal and effectiveness of your walk and talk events. Your approach is innovative and engaging, and with these minor adjustments, I'm confident your future events will be even more successful. Keep up the fantastic work, and I look forward to seeing more of your creative and insightful content.
Thank you for sharing, extreme entrepreneurs are often labeled something that does not belong to us. This world does not understand an entrepreneur mindset.
I appreciate you sharing this so much. You are always inspiring me 😊
I love a walk and talk 🫶🏻this content is great keep it up please 🙏🏼
Ur really inspiring thank you for this video leila💞💞💞💞
Love it thanks loads 🙏🏾✨🎉..... Learnt lots of golden nuggets along the way
Listened to this while on a walk of my own. Found it very insightful. 1 suggestion: There's a lot of asmr chewing. Maybe edit the audio with some AI type thing so that the pauses aren't as loud as the talking?
I love handing out with Leila like this :) Thank you
I've gotten more information that's actually applicable to life in real time than anyone i've ever spoken to in person or therapist i've paid. Unofficially my business and life coach :)
Nice idea Caleb!