When you said “just know it will go away sooner than you think” I think you saved my mental just now

@chipo-lweendomwiindilila3689

Жыл бұрын

I’m also loosing my mind

@skyrunningislife92

9 ай бұрын

Yep, immediately teared up.

I love how you don’t freak out when she starts choking! I freak out everytime!!

I love your 101 so much. I gave birth during covid and my mom couldn't fly over and my in law does not really wanna help out lol. So I learn a lot with your 101.

@jess_hover

3 жыл бұрын

That makes me really happy to hear! Congratulations on your new baby and Im sorry times are so crazy that your mom couldn’t come. I know how hard that is! ❤️❤️

A top tip someone gave me for when your baby is crying and no matter what you do you can’t console them, as you’re holding them and trying to sooth them, pop some headphone in and listen to some music (you not the baby), something calming but loud enough to block out the crying. It will give you some head space, because sometimes the constant crying can be so hard. If you can get yourself some headspace, you can concentrate on holding and comforting your baba. Your baby will sense you becoming more calm.

I wish I had someone like you as a resource when I had my son 13 years ago.

I’m currently dealing with a baby that I think has minor reflux, and after looking for as much advice as I can get, it just seems like there’s nothing to do other than try to keep them upright as you said. It’d be nice to see that pillow you mentioned. I’ve seen ads online for stomach sleeper pillows, but I’m not sure if that’s worthwhile. I read somewhere that keeping the baby on its left side is slightly better for reflux, but upright is best. Also saw some videos talking about a feeding position on the lap elevated. Need to just be patient. It’ll eventually go away.

The smile after the spit up cracked me up 🤣

Anyone else distracted by the camera-person in the backround swaying back & forth 😂😂😂 I'm 31 weeks today with my 3rd (1st boy)🙌

@marionsunyraindrop8020

3 жыл бұрын

Me tooo.. I think that person is dancing :))))

@rachaelerin1

3 жыл бұрын

Came here to say this!! I don’t remember this the first time I watched this but rewatching with a vomity 3 week old and it’s all I can see haha

@bridgetsmit2059

3 жыл бұрын

I’m pregnant with my 3rd but don’t know the gender yet. I PRAY I get my first boy!

@jennlvsran

3 жыл бұрын

@@bridgetsmit2059 My fingers are crossed for ya!

@bridgetsmit2059

3 жыл бұрын

@@jennlvsran thank you!!!

Thank you for doing these. I’m pregnant with my first and these videos are so informative. Your kindness REALLY shines through and it’s nice to get info without any condescension. ❤️

You make me feel like you have such confidence in me 🥺😭 seriously jess I'm so grateful for all of your videos! I'm grateful for you and your family!!

I don't have babies but this video came up on my feeds and watching how patient and loving you are with your beautiful baby is such an inspiration.. Bless you both

I also had a baby with horrible reflux. It turns out he had a laryngeal cleft and was silently aspirating. I'm sure you are doing everything you've been told by her doctors and you are doing amazing! But, watching her after she was fed reminds me so much of my son, plus the coughing she did and drop in HR after being fed. I just wanted to put that out there because no doctor has mentioned it to me. I had to figure it out on my own. Again, you are an amazing mom and your husband is an amazing dad. I'm not trying to be a keyboard doctor lol just an experienced mom of a baby with extra needs.

@blessing6096

Жыл бұрын

How do you measure the heart rate dropping after feeding

@shannonrising9024

Жыл бұрын

@blessing If you don't have monitors at home which most people don't you can't. You should watch for baby turning blue or not breathing.

I just really love how calm you are. Thanks for the encouragement 🤍

Thank you so much for this video! You’re doing so good. My baby had reflux till she was like 10 month old, she spitted up a lot and as I am a FTM, I worried a lot. I wish I could see a video like this one a year ago. You are doing such a great job reassuring new parents that everything is ok and will be ok. Thank you so much!

I need to binge watch your 101 series. This video was so helpful!! Thanks!

I absolutely appreciate having someone i can go to. My son was 5 weeks premature and seems to be going through the same issues and I absolutely appreciate you sharing help because I feel like the doctors won't listen

i love this video so much. ive watched it 3 times now. thank you for breaking down each topic and including details. im going to watch the 101s now

Omg. She looks like a doll. 😍✨ So sweet!! Congrats!🎉🍾

I love your videos! I’m not a mom yet but am excited to hopefully be one one day ❤️ i really enjoy all of your tips and tricks and just your personality and the way you are around your kids! So genuine and Kind and Honest ❤️

You are such an inspiration. I’m due in February and scared out of my mind. You always make me feel calm when I watch your videos. I truly believe in myself when I hear how positive and caring you are about all of this. Thank you Jess! Thank you Becka for making these videos with Jess! You ladies really are heavenly. 😇

@jess_hover

3 жыл бұрын

You are going to be so good at this. The fear before the baby comes is way more intense than life with a baby. I was so anxious about having the baby come home but now that she is here we are figuring it out. You’re gonna do great! I wish i could hug you :)

@bintitoufeeq4603

3 жыл бұрын

I’m due in February as well! Praying for both of us ☺️♥️

@jennlvsran

3 жыл бұрын

Having my baby boy tomorrow & nervous yet excited. To all my fellow preggos, we got this! Best of Luck everyone.

@clairehamilton4801

Жыл бұрын

How did u go? Im due April 2023 and looking for advice. Did Jess's video's help? was it like she said?

@RaqLang

Жыл бұрын

@@clairehamilton4801 good morning! Thankfully the birth of my son was successful. That was due to my doctor myself Jessica’s video’s and lots of reading. As long as your doctor is telling you everything is fine then keep that mind set. Get educated on the subject of pregnancy and giving birth. I wish you well.

You just ooze nice. So soothing to watch your videos.

Thank you for being such a calming, honest presence on camera! I’m a first time mom of a reflux/lip tie baby (who also has an intense personality in general...) and seeing you navigate Jules’ needs is inspiring and educational.

25, first time mama, no experience with infants other than holding them and due in a few months. Glad I found this video and channel!! 😭🙏

Congrats on your new baby 🥰 you’re doing great!!

That brings me back to the baby days of spit up and laundry. She’s adorable! Also - thank you for being so nice and warm and non-judgmental. I watched your videos so much when my son was little (almost a year now!). I had no experience with babies so it was a steep learning curve. Your video about sleeping literally changed my life when you described the difference between your oldest daughter and son because my son was like your oldest daughter and it was so reassuring. Thank you!!!

You are sooo lovely! And this was so informative and helpful. Thankyou so much x

I have learned so much just from this video alone. My husband and I are wanting to get pregnant soon so I’m just wanting to learn everything I can about everything lol. I love the way you explain things. Thank you so much.

Thank you for this video. I have a 5 week old with reflux, my first baby did not and hardly spit up so this had been a difficult adjustment for me. I feel insecure and so anxious especially about the gagging and coughing. I appreciate how confident you are and calm. I hope I get there!

This was super helpful as a first time mom. My little baby is 5 weeks-so Helpful. Thank you!!!! Would love to donate to your channel for all this free, and valuable advice!

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

Was so helpful to me too! My son had silent reflux it was horrible!! :( Congratulations on your baby!!

I absolutely love your clothes and just did a second order off Very good mother’s club! My baby boy is due June 6th and I’m so excited to use the jammies they are so soft and I love the colors! So excited for me second order to come! She is just so precious and Thank you for sharing I love your videos 😊

She has so much hair! She's so beautiful! My 7 month old barely has that much hair, lol.

You're an amazing mother.

Love your videos! Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge in a very real way!!

@jess_hover

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️

Loved this video 💕 Your voice is very soothing I have a 1 month old, my first child & there are times that I get so overwhelmed I don’t know how to calm my fussy baby girl Thanks for a wonderful video with such helpful tips 🙏🙏🙏

THank you for this authentic video. I am a new mom living in perú without my mom and family . I’m having a heard time and it appears that my son has this issue . I thought it was a breathing issue but his lungs are clear every time . But I see him struggling .

The lighting is great! Just thought I'd reassure you on that ;)

Love the calm way you talk, makes me relaxed :)

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!!! I watched her giving birth naturally video before I had my first baby and she was so relaxing 😌

I have a baby boy who just turn 5 months and his reflux was bad around 2 months. Changed formula and that's really helped. You have a beautiful baby, so blessed you can show her to the world. Hope she feels better soon X

@chelseacervantes6385

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! What formula if you don’t mind me asking?? My 2 month old is suffering 😩

Beautiful baby! I know the reflux struggle. Here some stuff called Infacol helped a bit. Also a special pillow for underneath the matras to help elevate our daugther. Keeping her upright a lot. 30 minutes did not cut it here. We put her in a sling a lot! It basically got better when she was able to sit nu herself (not put in a sitting position by is) and that was around 8/9 months.

I have one son, who is turning 18 on the 25th of this month. He is my one and only child, my little rabbit (aka nick name.) I really enjoy your videos to share anything new to other moms. I think u do a great job, come across very relatable. Keep up the good work and keep content coming. 👏 🍼

Sorry I just need to know about the 5 people who downvoted this..... what kind of hateful malarkey can you even come up with with this beautiful and honest content

@foamyone101

Жыл бұрын

Don’t have much to say other than the word malarkey is epic.

This is so my baby right now 😭 I’m a first time mom and I literally cry watching my baby suffer. I know the acid is burning his little throat and he is very uncomfortable feeding 😭💔 I also noticed his acid reflux is worse at night and so it’s harder to keep him calm and not crying. Anyway, thank you so much for this video 🙏🏼 I’m going to try all your tips!

I love how comfortable and confident you are with her! My baby had reflux and I was not this calm. I wish I had seen this then! I also love how adaptable you are to new solutions. You seem like such a great Mom! Side note: Your skin looks great! :)

@jess_hover

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Honestly if she was my first baby i would be freaked out - i think it helps that she arrived third! You’re doing great ❤️

@kinzahussayn479

2 жыл бұрын

How long did it take your baby to grow of reflux ?

@sarahd9942

2 жыл бұрын

​@@kinzahussayn479 I can't remember exactly, I think around 3 or 4 months old. He started doing it less and less over time, until eventually it stopped. It definitely wasn't sudden. I mentioned it to the doctor, but she didn't seem concerned. I cut out pretty much all dairy in my own diet, but that wasn't very hard and honestly, I don't remember it making that much of a difference for us! I thought it didn't hurt to keep at it though :)

@kinzahussayn479

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarahd9942 thats good. My baby also has reflux n he going to be 2 months old soon. I just hope n pray he grows out of it very soon without any medication. Its so hard to see him in pain

@kinzahussayn479

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarahd9942 im formula feeding my son

Love your videos! Thank you for what you do for clueless young women like myself who want to be pregnant in next 2-3 years 😂

Thank you for sharing this. Having a baby with reflux it’s really hard 🥺

I needed this

I have a 5 week old baby with reflux and he was also early, by 3 weeks. I do feel incredibly discouraged because I see that he is in such pain sometimes, but the words of encouragement helps. I also hear that cutting out dairy when breastfeeding a reflux baby helps, will try that too.

I’ve never seen a baby spit up before so that was really alarming haha! Poor little baby, she’s lucky to have such a wonderful and attentive mom as you 🖤

Wonderful video thank you! What swing do you recommend for reflux babies? Looking for something that keeps them in an upright position

Is it just me who is getting distracted by the person reflecting in the right picture on the wall moving from left to right the whole time 😂😂 Love your Baby 101 content ♥️

Thank you for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

38w2d and loving these. AH!

Your baby is adorable 😍💗💗

I’m so drawn to your channel for your honest and kind approach to life. I’m one that likes to learn, I ain’t got no kiddos yet, Lord willing, one day! But yeah so value your willingness to be vulnerable but in a way that is so valuable to others!

My baby had the exact same issues when she was in the nicu. She was born in March and her due date was April But her reflex is more silent. She doesn’t spit up at all. We suction some out of her mouth and or nose when we hear her being gurgly or she looks super uncomfortable. She also had a TE fistula/Esophageal atresia which she had to have surgery to fix. She is currently being fed through a gtube due to her surgery. She is home now and was not sent home on oxygen/heart rate monitors but still has reflux. Some days are worse then others.

Jessica, I love your videos! I’m a new mom and feeling totally overwhelmed.. This is SO HELPFUL! My baby doesn’t have reflux, but he has gas so badly - can you do a video about gas? If you have any knowledge. Thank you again for this! I love all your videos 😊

@douxhealth-beauty3196

2 жыл бұрын

Find any good videos about the gas? My baby does too but she doesn’t seem bothered by it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Don’t see the protein bar sponsor link on the description:( congratulations on new baby!!

You remind me so much of Beau Garrett! So naturally gorgeous 😊

An IBCLC told me that a tongue tie could cause reflux and even painful gas. Tongue ties can cause issues later on as well, even when they seem so minor and not to be causing problems. An ENT to could clip it or a pediatric dentist can revise with a laser. Both very quick easy procedures!

Hello Jessica, congratulations on your sweet new bundle!!! So special! I wanted to mention to you that rice cereal has arsenic in it. I don't know much about reflux you are more the expert on that. just want to fill you in incase there is an alternative to the rice cereal. i am a first time mom at 40, my LO was born in August and I loved watching your videos for much needed information. I wish you and your family all the best!

@dawnpalko3573

3 жыл бұрын

actually just read AAP now recommends oatmeal over rice cereal due to arsenic in rice cereal.

I really enjoyed your tutorial it’s amazing. I have a question please. have a newborn in Florida, it’s really hot here and people suggested for me to put the baby i sleeper too, but actually, i put the baby in a short sleeve onesies only. Is that right? Should the baby wear a pant with onesies even if it’s hot??

Hi. Thank you for your informative video. I just looked up rice cereal for baby reflux but the fda warns against feeding babies rice cereal since it contains arsenic and can cause cancer and other health issues. Have you looked into this ?

I've heard there are special bottles for reflux babies that reduce the amount of air going into their tummies. Might be worth looking into :)

Hi, Can you please share the link or name of the rice cereal you add to your babies milk as I have a refluxy baby and the gaviscon powder I use makes him constipated. Thank you in advance ☺

You’re so calm when your baby cries I go into full on panic mode 😂😂😂

How did you girl do a year after? Did things got worse before getting better?

Wait that actually seems like a sponsored product id like to try!- but I don’t see the link?

Probiotic drops also help ;)

First time mom and I currently have a one month old who don’t just spit up but throws up so much! It’s so exhausting but glad I’m able to figure out a routine. :/ His pediatrician says it’s normal but I know it’s not. He throws up all my breastmilk he eats, ive tried several formulas with no luck. I’m going to try speaking to his pediatrician again. My son pretty much spits up how yours did lol, sometimes even farther out or more...

I needed this so much. My baby is almost 5 weeks old and was 6 weeks premature. I was doing a lot of these things without realizing it, glad to know that I might be doing some things right.

It sounds as though she is having less trouble with the reflux in the earlier part of the day because of the rice cereal that you are mixing with the late and middle-of-the-night feedings. So, her intake has been staying down with the extra food in it. Whereas, during the daytime it is just the breast milk with no formula or cereal. She does still look like a newborn. Better to give her boosted food than to have to give her meds to fix the problem, because it is painful. There are massage videos on KZread people can refer to so they massage the belly in the correct direction to head the gas out of the intestines and not back up into them. It makes sense not to add so much formula or cereal that it makes her constipated, which is painful for them, too. Back and forth movement often helps more than up and down motions to prevent vomiting. At times, bathing them and changing them before feeding can also help relax them and make them comfy rather than their stiffening from the hunger. That has to encourage food retention.

I just brought home my NICU baby and he’s refluxing again. How do you prepare the rice cereal with your milk?

Hello I seriously need your help please! I have a preemie that was born 26 weeks she is almost one month corrected her due date was Christmas Eva is it okay if I give her grip water and cereal in bottle I thought they had to be a curtain age?

What was the machine they sent you home with I like to request it from her doctor because there’s times when she’s spitting up a lot like a choking feeling and I was so panicky had to call 911. Today is day 2 of that happening

What medication were you given for the reflux, my infant is 1 week and I believe she has it badly

Can you baby carry a reflux baby? My LO didn’t have reflux, but she did have so much discomfort from gas! Bicycle legs wasn’t cutting it lol. Those first 3 months I was constantly baby carrying her in a boba wrap or bouncing on an exercise ball. Jules is adorable!

Hi, like How long does your baby sleeps in a day and night ? My baby is also going through colic and sometimes she sleeps only 5 hours in the night. It’s worrisome for me !

I just want to know how is infacol for gas and reflux it did work on my baby

What type of swing or bouncer do you recommend ?

Wish I had seen tis before i got my reflux baby. I think it would have made me calmer and made me feel less insecure about how I was doing. But one year later and I am no longer being spit on :)

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

Same here!

Tongue ties cause reflux because the baby can't swallow properly. I would definitely get her into a pediatric dentist for a proper evaluation and laser revision. Then get her seen by a chiro for cranio sacral. I think you'll see such improvement! :)

How is your baby doing now? With the reflux?

How long did it take for your girl to grow out of it? It’s one thing for her to spit up all the time. I can deal with that. But like your girl, she’s choking and it’s scary. She gets all rigid, turns red, eyes wide and stops breathing for 10-15 seconds sometimes. Then after she can breathe again she lets out a big cry. We’ve been to doctors and GI and it feels like no one can help us.

A little tip: put a hairband/bubble on your wrist, then every time you nurse you move the bubble to the side you just nursed on. In those first newborn months with the frequent feeding it is very helpful to have a easy way to remember which side you last fed on

@LUNAHAPPYFAMILY

3 жыл бұрын

She has it

@clo2583

Жыл бұрын

Love this xx

My son is 2 months old and he was born with clubbed foot on one of his feet. We are doing weekly casts and will switch to boots and bars. I’d never heard of clubfoot and this has been a rough road so far. Poor little guy.

New dad here Well 29 days exactly And man……. Thrown up on. peed on. Pooped on. Sleep deprivation. screamed at me.(by wife and baby) we doing good👍🏽

I used to wear an elastic hairband on my wrist to remember which breast to breastfeed from next. I would wear it on my right hand, when I was supposed to breastfeed from the right and switched after I finished. It helped a lot when my bub was a newborn and would nurse soo much so my breasts wouldn't really get super full or hard.

@courtneymorgan5446

3 жыл бұрын

What an amazing idea! I always have a hair tie on my wrist anyway!

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

GENIUS

I wish even my mother could be like that but I am unlucky I have a strict mother I wish I could die I consider myself unlucky, it's a request to every parent give your child the same love. otherwise the child be in depression like me and be in medication like me I see this video every night. I feel happy and cry

That looks like a massive baby given that it isn’t even full term yet. It’s remarkable how much bigger it got than a new born due to being on formula instead of in the womb.

I have a preemie too. She came 11 weeks early. We are breastfeeding complete since she's home :)

When the burp cloth fell I was like 😶 and then when she spat up all over i was like ahhhh noooo haha... The foreshadowing was so clear 😂 it happens, with a baby you have to get used to so many fluids and so much laundry. Love your videos ❤️

Hello, this my first time watching you. You mentioned your son and your baby girl both have tongue ties. My son does as well. Do you plan on getting a procedure to remove the tongue tie? If so, what age are you thinking?

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

All three of mine had tongue ties!! We revised at 4 weeks old! The sooner the better ♥️

How do you make the rice cereal with formula or breast milk? I’ve tried looking up KZread videos but I can’t get the consistency right or it doesn’t come out of the bottle very well

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

I always mix mine with breast milk! Just make sure it’s really warm and don’t put a bunch of it in the bottle ♥️

She looks just like Wilson did around that age awww

Reflux babies LOVE the boppy lounger!!! My non reflux baby didn’t care for it but it helps my reflux baby. I left her unattended in it once through and she projectile puked cleat across the room

@ellieortmann7180

3 жыл бұрын

So true!!

Juliette is so tiny, she looked like a little doll when you held her up

My son has reflux and it’s so hard😢😢 he has perrie robin and cleft palate. Can someone who has a baby like mine tell me more things about it 😢😢

I don't have babies,, just love you!

How do you handle when baby needs to eat, but won’t lay towards you because of tummy pain/gas? I’m trying football hold but he’s just not taking to it very well... :(

@PasionGirl20

3 жыл бұрын

My daughter had that problem. I pumped my milk and gave her the bottle. Bottle feeding with my breastmilk saved us.

@paperedcreations8

3 жыл бұрын

@@PasionGirl20 ok, that’s what I’ve bern doing the past two days but man-keeping track of pumping, trying to still offer the bb, and remembering to offer a nap every 1-1.5 hours, mom life is no easy task 😅

Thank you for this vedio my baby is 6 weeks is having this since born he doesn’t sleep at all he is always uncomfortable and sleep for 30 minutes and cries he is a lot of gassy and fussy the doctors now told me he is having reflex and i was trying to figure out what going on with this baby who doesn’t sleep at all. Please at what age this will be over m. They gave me some medication for reflex but still the same please at what age this will finish it is a nightmare

@danig8955

Жыл бұрын

I totally feel you!!I'm herewith my 3 week baby ..super fussy and he does not sleep at night only day time.i feel like a zombie!!!! Is your baby doing better???is there hope!?😟😢

@Workfromhome137

Жыл бұрын

@@danig8955 yes mine has reflux there is a hope his sleep is little ajustes he is almost 7 months his sleep is challenging since he is born. He is doing a little better than before and reflux is less than before. I think your baby has day/ night confusion happed to my baby it will take few months for him to adjust to the new life. Hinging there it will pass. It is hard but things will get better with time