बेटी की शादी से पहले यह Video देखना ज़रूर | Ankur Mondal
Ankur Mondal, a seasoned professional in the advertising industry for the past 16 years, opens up about his life as a gay man in a society that often demands conformity. In this heartfelt talk, Ankur shares the challenges of living a closeted life and the profound joy that came with embracing his true self.
He delves into the complexities of his first love, a relationship marred by societal pressures. Ankur painfully recounts how his partner, compelled by societal norms, was forced into a marriage with a woman. The emotional turmoil of witnessing his partner marry someone else echoes the broader issue of societal non-acceptance.
Ankur passionately advocates for the acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community, questioning the societal norms that coerce gay individuals into heteronormative marriages. He highlights the often-overlooked impact on both parties involved and emphasizes the importance of creating a more inclusive and understanding society.
Join Ankur Mondal in his compelling narrative as he sheds light on the struggles, sacrifices, and the pressing need for acceptance in the LGBTQ+ community. Let's foster a world where love knows no boundaries, and every individual is free to embrace their true self.
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नमस्कार दोस्तो!
जोश Talks का मानना है कि देश के हर युवा में काबिलियत है कुछ करने कि और कुछ बनने की। लेकिन कुछ Situations हमें इस काबिलियत को बहार निकालने नहीं देती, जिनसे हमारा जोश थोड़ा कम हो जाता है। काफी लोग एक ऐसी Situation या Confusion में होते है कि वो वहां से निकल नहीं पाते और अपनी काबिलियत को दबा देते है और वो Situation होती है हमारी Sexual Orientation या Gender Identity और इस ही situation से हमें लड़ना सिखाना चाहता है जोश talks एक बड़े भाई की तरह !
चाहे वो situations हमारी पढ़ाई को लेकर हो, UPSC Exam को लेकर हो या किसी महिला के लिए domestic violence हो यां किसी के लिए अपनी Sexual Orientation हो ! हमें जिंदगी में आगे बढ़ने के लिए जो भी परेशानियां आती है, जोश Talks एक बड़े भाई की तरह इन problems में हमारे साथ है !
हो सकता है कि हमारे लिए हमारी sexual identity को accept करना एक problem हो, या अकेलापन, harassment, या फिर homophobia, या face कर रहे है Family Problem, या Gender dysphoria ! इन problems को face करने के लिए और लड़ने के लिए जोश talks लाया है जोश talks पतंग । इस channel में आयेंगे ऐसे लोग जो ऐसी ही situations में रहे है और फिर भी आगे बढ़ रहे है ! हम सुनेंगे ऐसी ही लोगो की कहानी जोश talks पतंग में !
जोश Talks पतंग के माध्यम से, हम कहना चाहते हैं - "हम अकेले नहीं हैं!" हर किसी ने कुछ ना कुछ ऐसा Feel किया है और यह बिलकुल Normal है,इस सफर में, हमें अपनी क्षमता को दबाने की जरूरत नहीं है। हम सब अलग हैं, और यही हमारे लिए हमारी ताकत है, हमें हारना नहीं है जीवन में!
अपनी Sexuality की वजह से हम कई ऐसी Situation और Confusion मैं रहते है की हमारे अंदर खुद से लड़ाई चल रही होती है। हम खुद से लड़ाई जीत भी जाए तो दूसरी लड़ाई, दोस्तों से, परिवार से और समाज से शुरू होती है। जोश talks हमे बताना चाहता है कि, इस लड़ाई में हम अकेले नही है !
दोस्तो, ये है जोश Talks पतंग - एक जगह, जहां हमें मिलेंगे LGBTQIA+ साथियों का साथ, समझने वाले लोग, और एक Supportive Community.
अगर हमें लगता है कि हमने अपनी life में अपनी sexuality को लेकर struggle किया है और उस से लड़ आज जीत प्राप्त की है और अगर हमें लगता है कि हमारी कहानी से हम किसी की मदद कर सकते है, तो अपनी कहानी हमें Mail करे at pranaybhowmick@joshtalks.com पर
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I lost my father on 13 Jan...aur mere aankhon se ek boond bhi nahi gira...sabkucch dekha mene unko zindagi aur maut se ladte hue...aankhein nam jarur hui...bhulna bhi chahta hoon...lekin har din woh yaad aa jaate hain....hum jaise logo ko kamjor samjhne wale yaa mazak udaane wale logo ko samjhna chahiye..ki hum alag jarur hain lekin kamjor nahi...may god bless him rest in peace🙏🏻....and plz support people jo alag jarur hain...lekin sabse pehle woh Insaan bhi hain!!
@Dhiraj-May8
5 ай бұрын
@@deepugautam100 ji... humare circumstances.... Environment.... Jisey hum itna jhel lete hain.... Ki woh humare dil ko itna patthar jaisa majbut bana deta hai... Ki humare pass humare khud k parents ko kho jaane ke baad do aansu bhi nahi bachtey.... Log yeh samjhtey kyun nahi.... Ki shaadi ka matlab duniya ko khush karne k liye nahi.... Balki do logo k beech honewale prem sambandho se juda hai.... Log chhoti si cheez toh compromise nahi kar saktey.... toh dusre ko puri zindagi k liye compromise aur sacrifice karne ki himmat kaise kar lete hain... Plz koi pressure mein apna ya kisi aur ki life kharab naa kare... Agar aapki family supportive nahi hai... toh khud ko support karna kabhi mat chhodiye... First love yourself... Baaki jo aapko support karta hai... Usko dhanyavaad... Aur jo nahi karte... Bhagwaan unko insaan banane ki kripa karein!!... Hum ishwar ki den hain... Insaan ki den hotey toh... Heterosexuality k alawa kisi aur sexuality ka astitva ya existence hi naa hota... So love yourself and proud yourself!!.. Darne ka koi sawaal hi nahi!! 🙏🏻
@adityaahluwalia448
5 ай бұрын
I totally agree with u, i want to make friends with u, bcoz apne khushi ke liye ladne wale log bhut kam h
@adityaahluwalia448
5 ай бұрын
@@deepugautam100aap kha se ho Deepu
@adityaahluwalia448
5 ай бұрын
I m also Dheeraj
@jyotiprakashpalai1792
5 ай бұрын
Me ap logon ka sath hu❤
Some parents have cardiac issues, so coming out of closet may have bad consequences. I am glad that you are moving on with your life. But I wish you can keep up the relationship with him. BTW You are so sweet. I know bullying is so common in school that they are interested in knowing your gender. But I am glad that are stronger than before.
@JajaborDiaries
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for those words. 🤗❤️
इंडिया के" compulsive marrige culture" की वजह से एलजीबीटी लोगो को जबरजस्ती शादी के दलदल में धकेल दिया जाता है। और फिर वो लाइफ टाइम सफर करते है, रूलर एरिया में तो हालत अब भी खराब है।😢
@pankajsainipankajsaini8732
5 ай бұрын
Absultle right 👍 me
@amitgangwar3996
5 ай бұрын
Not only rural areas even in cities also . only metro city guys have guts to accept themselves.
@pankajsainipankajsaini8732
5 ай бұрын
@@amitgangwar3996 ach ji
@itshallpass
5 ай бұрын
@@amitgangwar3996 but there should be atleast choice of being single for such people Most of these people are forced into arrange marriages
@adityaahluwalia448
5 ай бұрын
Bhut khraab h halat, bad to worse
Same sex marriage approved honi chahiye
@patelpraful1564
5 ай бұрын
Hone ka kya fayada tab tak mar jayenge
@pankajsainipankajsaini8732
5 ай бұрын
Right
@happypresented5563
5 ай бұрын
Tumahare liye nhi hai bhai par kuch logo ke liye yeh zaroori hai taki woh bhi apne partner ke saath normally life zee sakhe
@pankajsainipankajsaini8732
5 ай бұрын
@@happypresented5563 right 👍👌🌹
@patelpraful1564
5 ай бұрын
@@happypresented5563 ha but hoga nahi
Very nice story🏳️🌈
Loads of love and strength to you Ankur. I loved the way u were describing ur love... Blushing all the way... N it really broke my heart when I got to know u broke up. It really needs lots courage to about all this. God bless u good health and happiness...
@JajaborDiaries
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Means a lot. 🤗❤
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Ek bada mudaa yeh h ki log nahi samzte khass kar apne log hi unko lagta h saadi karo sab thik h aap kisi girl k sath physical hoge aur suddenly aapki sexuality change ho jayegi but wahi par agr koi apni beti ko bole ki tum karo kisi gay se saadi tab sabko ghussa aajyega . Kyu muskil me dalna hai 3 life ko aur India m to family judti hai sirf person nahi dont know kab ayega wo law jab rights hoga sabko apne manchahe Partner k sath jene ko sach m ab to lagta h rights ka pta nahi kab milega bas yeh saadi wagera na hi pade piche bahut se log har jaate h apno se ladte ladte aur end m kar hi lete h aur fir jio yese hi life ek endless task ko 😶
@Saam-123
5 ай бұрын
Hii
@shivambarik661
5 ай бұрын
@@Saam-123 hi
@Saam-123
5 ай бұрын
@@shivambarik661 how are you dear 🤗
@shivambarik661
5 ай бұрын
@@Saam-123 I'm great what about you
@Saam-123
5 ай бұрын
@@shivambarik661 iam fine,,, listen i want to be your friend ❤️
Mai youtuber hu or meri bhi h story jisse logo ko bahut sikh milegi but abhi nahi share karunga pahle koi well educated apne level ka life partner mil jaye mujhe fir jaldi hi uske sath aaunga josh talks par baki mere 400k subs hobe wale h tab tk or thoda famous ho jaunga...🔥😇🌈
@pankajsainipankajsaini8732
5 ай бұрын
👍👍👌🌹❤️
@happypresented5563
5 ай бұрын
Zaroor bhai kyu nhi ek din bhagwan tumhe tumhare life partner se zaroor milayega ha lekin tumhe bas dhiraj rakhna hai ok god bless you
@AasthaSingh-kx4qo
4 ай бұрын
Zarur aapko prefect life patner milige bas intzaar karna hoga
@pinturaj6860
4 ай бұрын
@@happypresented5563 bahut age ho gai h wait krte krte h or patience rakhte rakhte or kitna dhiraj rakhu 😔
@pinturaj6860
4 ай бұрын
@@AasthaSingh-kx4qo bs wait or patience rakhte rakhte puri life gujar jaegj meri to 😔
Can relate to you brother 🫶🏻🥲
Best of luck Bhai for the future ❤
@JajaborDiaries
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗❤️
@SuzenPalkar
5 ай бұрын
❤👩🎓🤠nice but off u@@JajaborDiaries
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@mahajankudi
5 ай бұрын
❤
Bs thode dino ki khushiyaan mana lo.... Fir muslim ke baad hum lgbtq 🌈👩❤️💋👩👬 valo ka no. Hai
@patelpraful1564
5 ай бұрын
Kyo yar
I can relate to him and i have decided not to marry any girl just for the sake of society .
@happypresented5563
4 ай бұрын
What
@user-sn9rg3qz7i
4 ай бұрын
@@happypresented5563 yes
Wow ...true my thought is shadi kharo bilkul but to know your sexuality 1st because hume kisi ki life barbad kharna ka haq kisi ko nhi hai so ..isliye baki bhagvan ji hai , problems to ho ga hi but we have to +ve mila ga koi right match but filhal to wait bhagvan ji !.😊
Almost evry indian Queer people go through this situstion.
Bhai av tk log love marriage ko accept ni kr rhe or aap yha ke society se ye accept krna soch rhe logo ko bs durse ko vasant dene me acha lgta hai or jb khud ke bacche aise ho to emotional blackmail start ho jata hai
Bese kisi ko bhi hak nhi hota kisi bhi girl ki life kharab karane ka 😢
Need a friend. Anyone from odisha?
Mermaid
Kya koi ye bta sakta hai ki ek gay ladka se shadi n karke ladki ke sath shadi karke apna biwi baccha kar sakta hai
@rahulchaudhary6459
5 ай бұрын
Bilkul,but love emotion interest harmons are very different pllz understand
Mere boyfriend ne ladki se shadi kar le 😢 18 saal k reshta tha aaj mujhe pagal kar diya gya
@dharmendravishwkarma2269
Ай бұрын
Kaha se ho AAP
@SSVlog-vr6kv
Ай бұрын
@@dharmendravishwkarma2269 up se
okey with lgbt but bro inka kitna bhia accha relationship hi wo 2 saal baad toot hi jata hai chahye shadi karo ya bf gf bano:)
@JajaborDiaries
5 ай бұрын
Yeah zaruri nahi. Ek saal baad mujhe koi aisa mila jinse nahi mujhe mere past ke saath accept Kiya, balki mujhe sambhala bhi. Aur ab humein 5 saal se zyada ho Gaye hai.
@parthmishra7654
5 ай бұрын
@@JajaborDiaries i start believing with this and start thinking about lgbt relationship i admired one of my fev gay couple preetam and manish they love each other so much unka revelation ship almost 7 saaal purna tha but when they separate one or two months leter one of them found new bf and start posting reels with his new bf and that time i lost interest everything:)
@JajaborDiaries
5 ай бұрын
@@parthmishra7654 why do we need to always focus on the negetive things. It's your life, always think good about it and gradually good will happen. Pritam and Manish dated for around 4 years and decided to call off the relationship. It was a decision that they thought was best for their life. They both are in their happy space now, which they deserve as an individual. Take inspiration from people's lives and learn from mistakes, but never stop yourself because it didn't work out for others. Maybe you will get someone much better that you will eventually get married to.
@parthmishra7654
5 ай бұрын
@@JajaborDiaries who cares LGBT ❌ Chutiyagang ✅
Mujhe bhi kuch kehna hai josh mein ake
@SankarBiswas229
5 ай бұрын
@@deepugautam100 hi
@SankarBiswas229
5 ай бұрын
@@deepugautam100 where are you from
@dharmendravishwkarma2269
Ай бұрын
Kya
Mere sath bhi yhi huwa mera pti gay nikla😢😢😢
@socity_ke_thekedar
2 ай бұрын
To ab aap kya karoge ? Ye rista kaise nibhaoge 😢😢😢 Afsos aapke saath sahi nhi hua.
@rinkle-kn7lm
2 ай бұрын
@@socity_ke_thekedar usk sath nhi rhenge
Kya muze ankur se milna chahta hu muze address kese mile ga ya contact number kaha se mile ga same age ke meri bhi yahi pareshani. He muze ankur se milwa do i love you ankur