Do you have a city you think is UNFRIENDLY that didn't make the list?

@joebarr725

Жыл бұрын

Portland, Oregon. In fact, the entire state of Oregon disdains anyone who was not born there. It's good that the entire country has not adopted their attitude.

@leroyjenkinsss1767

Жыл бұрын

@@joebarr725 It's crazy, I really used to want to move to the Northwest but it seems like it has really turned into a shithole. Wanted to move to Seattle or Portland but the homelessness is a big turn off for me. If I want to deal with that i'll just stay in NYC. Seattle and Portland seem like they are worse off in that respect actually. NYC's homeless are often violent unprovoked though these days which doesn't seem the case for the homeless on the west coast

@graygrumbler4253

Жыл бұрын

Oh my, How did Baltimore fail to make this list?

@trowwzers5057

Жыл бұрын

@@joebarr725 I agree. They are the least courteous drivers and often hog the left lane going 55

@michaelrochester48

Жыл бұрын

I have been talking about Rochester New York and the fact that it is so unfriendly it is unreal. And it is cold! They tend to misunderstand that friendliness and politeness are two completely different things. And like I said before this is a city that you have to have a ton of peripheral “friends” or you considered an odd ball. Very difficult to make friends here unless you went to high school or grade school with the locals. And forget about dating, only an hour away, Buffalo is more down to earth people are friendlier and it is easier to meet people.

I too am very surprised Seattle isn’t on this. Seattleites can be really awful unfriendly. Lived there many years so glad to get away from the rotten people. Live in LA now. Not so unfriendly but people are so self absorbed and judgmental. It’s about what kind of car you drive, what you wear and your social media presence. The stereotype about people being plastic is pretty true.

@feliciasampson8032

Жыл бұрын

Paul, having worked in W. Seattle and lived in LA, I get it!

@christinewatson1989

Жыл бұрын

Seattle is very introverted and people don't go out of their way to interact with strangers but they don't go out of their way to be assholes either. We're known for being passive aggressive but not the type of overt rudeness you see in the north east.

@aaftiyoDkcdicurak

Жыл бұрын

Yep Seattle and I guess the guy on the bus hitting the tin foil wasn't really that rude....or conscious.

@greasesicle

Жыл бұрын

@@christinewatson1989 Seattle is hooked on ranch dressing and Led Zeppelin.

@pendremacherald6758

Жыл бұрын

The one time I went there, I felt like everyone was shooting daggers at me, just for being there.

I live in the Northeast, have been to all the cities that most consider to be very rude (Philly, NY, Boston, etc) and yet I found that the unfriendliest city I have ever been to is Atlanta. Was expecting some southern hospitality but was not quite impressed

@gif24gt60

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. I have lived in the northeast and the Atlanta metro. Although parts of the northeast may come across as rude, there are areas that are genuine friendly. Just don't expect the outward, phoneyness friendly found in hotlanta. People in the northeast try to value respect by not being too nosey because that comes across as being downright rude. Yes, some of them may flip u the bird on the highway but that goes with the territory. If they really got to know u which honestly can be very difficult, u can have a real, true lifelong friend that cares. Hotlanta and the surrounding metro has always been known as backstabbing territory. Yeah, they may be outwardly phoney friendly and very nosey as they treat u as a pin cushion voodoo doll. It all depends what u want and what u prefer many people from the northeast would not step a foot in hotlanta, skipping right down too Florida. Many do. Others from hotlanta would not want to even visit the northeast. As the saying, different strokes for different folks. Does one prefer phoneyness or realism? Personally found hotlanta a favorite among the show me the money crowd but once u max out the credit limit, u could hear crickets all the way to savannah.

@kikiperales95

Жыл бұрын

I have to agree with you, Atlanta is horrible 💀

@sexychocolateable

Жыл бұрын

That's funny I'm from the northeast and I love the people in Atlanta I think they are very friendly

@AGripOBabys

Жыл бұрын

you will never, ever, find southern hospitality in a big ass city, were you born yesterday?

@user-kc8yo9yy7o

Жыл бұрын

People from Philly cool asf

Visited the DC area in the mid-90s TAD. Went to a store to buy some clothes I couldn't get where I was stationed. The woman behind the counter looked at me and said, "You're not from here, are you?" "How can you tell?" i responded. "You're smiling."

@Mick_Ts_Chick

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

I spent 4 years at Tinker AFB, OK near OKC. The people there are among the friendliest I've seen anywhere in the US. I hated the place because of the flatness, that red soil, the summer humidity, Tornado Alley, crap winters. But, the friendliness of people there made my stay much more bearable.

I'm noticing how many of these unfriendly cities are also on the "most expensive places to live" list.

@blankface_

Жыл бұрын

🤔

@gif24gt60

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, rents have skyrocket in many major metro. And Unfortunately, employers don't care to give more than a fifty cent raise, if ur lucky. Get a few of those and a couple years ur breaking the budget, put on the radar and kick out the door. I've seen it happen, many times. There no ethics or morales in corporations. It's an illusion propagated by brainwashing tactics.

@feliciasampson8032

Жыл бұрын

I noticed that Seattle wasn't on the list, given that the "Seattle Freeze" is often mentioned. I found people in Seattle to be a mix. Most were cordial, but it isn't fake-friendly.

@ralphjohnson3202

Жыл бұрын

@@feliciasampson8032 I agree Seattle should have been on this list i think the only reason that it wasn't is because i think Briggs is from the Pacific northwest so there seems to be a little biased. I find that not only are people from Seattle rude but downright ignorant and stupid by choice.

@kerrynight3271

Жыл бұрын

@@ralphjohnson3202 If it wasn't on the list, it was because the people who responded to his survey didn't put it on the list. Not everything is a conspiracy.

You were right Briggs about Orlando, FL. I'm from Melbourne, Australia and took my family to visit the theme parks at Orlando. I was just shocked to see how people over there were so rude and cold - the waitstaff, hotel staff, the clerks at the local pharmacy, even the guys at the souvenir shops. Other Aussies who visited that place had the same experience. I won't recommend visiting Orlando even to my worst mates.

@flyingCoconut.

Жыл бұрын

It's worth noting there's a lot of transplants in Florida. Most "Floridians" were not born here, instead, they are from the Midwest and Northeast.

@onebadapple83

Жыл бұрын

Yea, you have to look no farther than how they drive in the area. We do the snowbird thing for a month or so every year and rarely do you go a day driving anywhere without a close call!

@lindaandrews5468

Жыл бұрын

I was in Melbourne, Australia and the people I encountered were the nicest and friendliest people. Got lost and one lady actually walked me to my destination.

@dr.manhattan6278

Жыл бұрын

Those floridians might have originally been New Yorkers

@davidfraher1292

Жыл бұрын

@@dr.manhattan6278 or Philly and that city should be #1 New York rude they be is nowhere near Philly and Boston

Flight attendant here. I live in NJ and work in Boston. I’ve been to every city featured here. The one thing I can say is people are people everywhere. Some nice. Some A-holes *shrugs*.. also New Yorkers are helpful. They may cuss you out or tease you but they WILL help you if you need it. They’re just in a rush and to the point, not necessarily mean/rude.

"Washington DC is a city that combines Northern hospitality with Southern efficiency." --John F. Kennedy

@stephanvillavicencio5679

Жыл бұрын

i lived there for 30 years, and have been away for 10. it was kind of unfriendly when i was aged 25-35 (some agressive homeless people in and around the subway stations, general snobbiness from govt workers, lawyers, and political staff, a general sense of elitism, based on your job). ive heard from my relatives (who still live there) that it has gotten worse.

@HopalongGinsberg

Жыл бұрын

@@yowsers6475 He was not being complimentary. 😏

@AverageJoe483

Жыл бұрын

@@stephanvillavicencio5679it is horrible still in DC . I just moved , couldn’t stand it anymore .

@floridaredneck

Жыл бұрын

You get he was being sarcastic, right? I lived in D.C. for 15 years. I was done when I realized everyone on the subway was looking forward, miserable and one lady was crying. I didn't realize how unfriendly until I moved to FL and people actually spoke to me when passing! D.C. is dirty, full of snobs, panhandlers and politicians (oh, they're all the same). You can't change them by being friendly either; people will think you are insane (for real). I was 22-37 years old at the time.

@HopalongGinsberg

Жыл бұрын

@@floridaredneck The thought crossed my mind.

I’ve been to Detroit more times than I can remember. Concerts, football games, casinos,baseball games I’ve never had any problems with the locals at all. Even the homeless people were friendly. Not even kidding.

@stephendacey8761

Жыл бұрын

the big house

@kw9859

Жыл бұрын

I think Michigan in general is just a really friendly state

@MichiganUSASingaporeSEAsia

Жыл бұрын

I said the same. They are nice in Detroit. Far better than LA

@What_Makes_Climate_Tick

Жыл бұрын

@@stephendacey8761 You mean the place in Ann Arbor? That's most definitely not Detroit. Detroit's pro sports venues have moved from the suburbs into the city in the last couple of decades.

@Ramblin_Ed

Жыл бұрын

Detroit get's a bad rap it's a cool city and I'm from San Antonio Texas

Absolutely shocked that Seattle didn’t make the list

@joannabowen635

Жыл бұрын

I was born and raised in WA state, but yeah, Seattle is snob city. Hard to make friends. Lived there 8 yrs, and it got too gentrified, stagnant wages, high rents.

@13blackcatzzz

Жыл бұрын

I lived there in the 90's, it was horrible then. And the people whine about EVERYTHING. ESPECIALLY the weather. No matter what it was doing, they were whining.

@hurryandleave9680

Жыл бұрын

The infamous "Seattle freeze".

I found NYC, Brooklyn particularly, to be a very friendly place when I moved there 30 years ago. NYC isn't so much a giant city as it is a vast web of contiguous neighborhoods, each unique in character with wildly colorful citizens. It's the only place I've been where you can have an open, fun chat with a complete stranger in line at the PO, waiting for a bus, in a bodega... knowing you'll probably never see them again.

@elgatofelix8917

Жыл бұрын

This is so easy. If you want to avoid an unfriendly place just avoid the most left leaning places. Simple

@elgatofelix8917

Жыл бұрын

"Wildly colorful citizens" in other words groomers. Everyone knows NYC is not only a frantically bustling megalopolis but is filled to the brim with the most rude, ill-tempered and perverse individuals outside of Hollywood.

@cyndiburns7932

Жыл бұрын

I am that way everywhere I travel or have lived. The last time I was in NY a couple of years ago before cvd., you would have thought I was insulting almost everywhere I went, only one woman even spoke to me.

@IhaytFukkingsocialmedia

Жыл бұрын

nyc in the 90s was a very specific moment in time culturally. it's since changed to a degree.

@sitdowndogbreath

Жыл бұрын

Brooklyn GTFOH!

I used to live in Las Vegas and the locals tend to avoid the strip

@sitdowndogbreath

Жыл бұрын

They don't even hold a Convo except about drugs. GTFOH!

@richardbarry4663

Жыл бұрын

You are correct about locals avoiding the strip. I lived in Las Vegas for about 3 -4 years and I never went to the strip. I just didn’t want to put up with all the idiots.

@treycherie6236

Жыл бұрын

Moved to Vegas sight unseen for a job and my first night there, I stayed on the strip then immediately thought that I had made a massive mistake

@sexychocolateable

Жыл бұрын

@@richardbarry4663 yes I lived in Vegas for 8 years and I would avoid the strip at all costs

@sexychocolateable

Жыл бұрын

@@treycherie6236 yes I moved to Vegas sight unseen and It took a while to get used to it but I did

I vote for Hartford, CT as the rudest. I was born and raised in Texas and took a job with a Hartford law firm. I had a mild accent and thought nothing of it. I had lawyers and staff actually make fun of my accent right in front of me (and of course when I wasn't around). Also, it was just common courtesy for me to say "Good Morning" when I saw my co-workers. They would either walk right by me or just stare at me without saying anything.

@TJ-id6ee

Жыл бұрын

Wow quite the snobby law firm. Sounds like they were miserable people. @jimmydaves

@donnaleblanc3726

Жыл бұрын

I was born in Hartford and grew up in Connecticut. I am so sorry you were not treated well in Connecticut, you didn’t deserve their rudeness.

@Chris_at_Home

Жыл бұрын

That’s funny, I’m from Eastern Ct and I moved to Alaska in the late 70s. I got a job in the oil field and worked with a bunch of Texans and they made fun of my accent. We’d banter back and forth and had fun with it.

@DENVEROUTDOORMAN

Жыл бұрын

Nope Hartford people great they just don't like STUPID PEOPLE like being too lazy to read bus schedules etc

@Dave-zl2ky

Жыл бұрын

Has more to do with that law firm and the people in it.

I visited a friend who lived in Manhattan. People on the street were brusque and in a rush. But when he introduced me to his NYC friends, I was amazed at how friendly they were. They actually wanted to know all about me - something I've never experienced in California.

@ameerbrown4843

Жыл бұрын

You right born and raised in NY. lived in california for 20 years. New Yorkers are the most real genuine people I think in the whole country

@DouradaBambina

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@DouradaBambina

Жыл бұрын

@@ameerbrown4843Totally agree

@juanorozco1971

Жыл бұрын

I had the opposite experience granted I was only visiting NY for a week but never really met any friendly people not all were unfriendly most were just indifferent. I remember trying to ask for directions or where I should go for a good meal & was either completely ignored or told I should've done some research. Which sounds logical but I rather hear from the locals not some travel channel I trust them more. Its like a critic review vs fan reviews on rotten tomato.

@hrussell9677

Жыл бұрын

Californias are quite friendly. Never had a bad experience there. But the Midwest is the friendliest, followed by Colorado.

I find NYC quite friendly. I’ve visited NYC often from the he 60’s to the present. New Yorkers have always been friendly… helpful with directions, holding doors for me etc. From every day people, tourists and city employees. They’re smart accepting not snobby

I lived in Orlando Florida for 27 years and I also hate Disney. I also lived an hour south of Washington DC for five years, agree with this one also. I was an Uber driver in Washington DC those five years and every time someone got into my car they had their earbuds in and never said a word to me. They were in their own little world.

@shopece8807

Жыл бұрын

quiet isn't rude. When i'm in the mood to talk i'm pretty friendly lol.

@deliarealtor

Жыл бұрын

My brother was in Philly once, wearing a Boston bruins jacket. A guy yell from a car, “hay buddy don’t you know where you are?” My brother yelled back, “I’m in the USA!”

I can’t believe Seattle didn’t make the list. 😊

@kyleroy1630

Жыл бұрын

I lived in that area for 15 years. Dealing with those people was pure hell. I have my own motto for the pacific northwest ' beautiful place, ugly people '

@michaelmelling9333

Жыл бұрын

I was there back in '78, and it, like San Francisco, had a bad vibe.

@elena79rus

Жыл бұрын

"Seattle freeze"

I was born and raised in NYC and when people ask for directions, I have always gone out of my way to explain to people how to get where they are going. It was like a sacred trust to help people enjoy our city. I am not the only New Yorker to do so. People from other countries have told me how kind people were to them. Sure, people are busy and there are millions of us, but most New Yorkers care. Maybe the people who were rude were from New Jersey.

@dutchray8880

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it was you who came up to me in the subway and showed me which trains I needed to take. I didn't even have to ask. You're right, there are some New Yorkers who make it their business to accommodate out-of-towners. I've been visiting NYC since the 70s when Times Square was kind of a dump and really unfriendly...a huge contrast to what it's like now. Anyway, thank you.

@Cathy7167

Жыл бұрын

Are used to have to go to New York and not even in the city. I remember going into the grocery store and asking them ““where are the bananas? “I was already uncomfortable because from the south and the nice rude gentleman told me “they are where they always have been, “and I replied if I knew where they were, I wouldn’t have asked you. Fortunately, I had a Yankee friend of mine so we were able to get my grandmother bananas.😂

@Cathy7167

Жыл бұрын

I am not surprised at this list at all and I think every state has good and bad places I truly know that and truly believe that and I tried to avoid cities and there’s no reason for people to be rude. People came together after September 11 but we’re so far gone from that, I’m glad to see the Texas Tennessee the Carolinas Virginia. Yeah those places work on your list although there are people that can be rude everywhere and they’re also people that can be helpful but you do have to be very careful today and why anybody would want to live in any of the places you mentioned is beyond me I do understand people get stuck places, but this is America and most of us are fairly free to move to another state except now I can’t afford it. I think it was overall a good list I don’t go to the city and I’m scared to death when I drive.

@augth

Жыл бұрын

This was my experience in NYC, the friendliest city I’ve been to

@elgatofelix8917

Жыл бұрын

It's incredible how many PR agents and real estate agents there are in the comments here attempting to change public opinion on what everyone knows is the most unfriendliest city in the United States. Seriously, reading these fake commemts isn't going to change anybody's mind about NYC. It has always been (including it's greater metropolitan region) among the dirtiest and rudest places on Earth and has earned that reputation for good reason with LA and San Francisco being it's only close rivals in this regard. And it's no surprise also that they have very similar politics.

I'm from NY born and raised. There are a lot of assholes, yes but ask most New Yorkers for directions and they stop everything they are doing to help you, even if we are succinct and terse. There's just so many people here and so little time to get where you're going (often we're on foot or at the mercy of public transportation) so it's impossible to be nice to everyone for no reason. Also, just like you said, there are many conmen and sketchy people, anyone who is too nice to you is likely running a scam or trying to rob you so we are way less likely to chat with people we don't know out of self preservation

@elissalipman6600

Жыл бұрын

Trust me New Yorkers are people with heart. I've lived on west coast for 20+ years the people are superficial, flakey, uninteresing and frankly will back stab you in heart beat. NYers tell you to your face if they have a problem which is kind in fact. I've seen people on the west coast be extremely cruel to be honest and they are clueless about what's going on in the world at large NYers have to deal with the real difficulties of life! That's my honest experience I've lived in many many places and traveled world wide as well.

@midnight4109

Жыл бұрын

One great thing about new york and many other larger cities is that there are lots of special interest people. It's not fair to characterize them as unfriendly when there are communities which will welcome you with open arms once you find them whatever interests you may have.

@13blackcatzzz

Жыл бұрын

I visited NYC in the 90's, and it was VERY friendly! Much more than Seattle where I was living at the time. I even went into Gucci wearing my sleeveless flannel and Dr. Martins, and I was treated like gold. Same at Bloomingdales. Plus, I made a guys year when I was lost and late for a rehearsal at Carnegie Hall and asked for directions. He started laughing and said, "I've waited my whole life for this, PRACTICE!" 🤣

@andrewfischer8564

Жыл бұрын

nyers are funny by nature, every one a closet stand up comedian. jack benny how do you get to carnagie hall? practice practice practice. just give us a opening were going to bat at it

My wife and I visited New York several years ago and I was pleasantly surprised by how friendly people were. Yes, the F-bomb was dropped a lot but it wasn’t done to be offensive, it’s just how they talk. We stayed in Manhattan and did a lot of the typical tourist stuff. Most people were happy to give us directions (accurate ones even 😂) and a few even took the time to walk with us to make sure we found the places we were looking for. We also went to see three Yankees vs Red Sox games (been a Yankees fan since I was 8), sat in the bleachers and had the best time ever. The people took us in and made us feel very much a part of the crowd. I’m surprised San Francisco didn’t make the list. My wife was from there and I lived there for 4 years and hated it the whole time. Other than the Irish community (she’s first generation Irish American) everyone was just rude as hell.

@feliciasampson8032

Жыл бұрын

San Francisco can seem like a cold city at times. I worked there for years. I enjoyed my time there, but found people in San Mateo County to be more uppity and not all that friendly when compared to The City. When I first moved to the Bay Area, I found a place in Daly City. My Marin County friends were horrified. I didn't know there was zip code shaming until I moved there! I lived in Tahoe for many years. More and more people from Silicon Valley and East Bay have moved there. The whole vibe has changed...I don't want to say in a bad way, but I remember the small town feeling, and regularly running into people I know. The last few times I was there, I saw perhaps one person I recognized.

@georgegong6813

Жыл бұрын

Have to agree with you. Maybe years ago New York or Manhattan might had been rude. Many seem in a great hurry & will give you directions. Just make sure you understand why they explained or don't ask questions on their response! I was clearly lost on the subway one time...being on the wrong platform to where I wanted to be. Needless to say I appeared lost & got directions with no problem from someone I didn't even bothered to ask.

@georgegong6813

Жыл бұрын

@@feliciasampson8032 Sadly disagree with you. Though there are yes counties that can come on a bit more rude then others, San Francisco for yes being a tourist town aren't as friendly as one might think. Sad to say too I was born & raised in the City. Even if I can afford it wouldn't return unless I have to.

@malcolmr3

Жыл бұрын

@@georgegong6813 I agree. We lived in the Avenues, on Rivera, right beside St. Ignatious (sp?) and would often take walks through the neighborhood. Being from the south I was raised to speak to people, they would almost always act as if you didn’t exist when you said hello. After moving back home, my wife couldn’t believe how friendly people were. I’ve never felt that kind of rude, arrogant behavior anywhere in the south, we’ll excluding Atlanta but then that’s not the south anyway.

@malcolmr3

Жыл бұрын

@@feliciasampson8032 we moved out of the city to Marin county (Corte Madera) and the people were far more friendly there. Even though we rented an apartment and didn’t own a house like most people in Marin.

I know nobody ask for my opinion but Seattle needs to be on this list. That place is cold AF

@kenrossmac

Жыл бұрын

Agreed! Hands down should be #1 and it's not even close!

@ralphjohnson3202

Жыл бұрын

Seattle should definitely be on this list the people and the city itself sucks. Seattle and the Pacific northwest as a region full of soft ass beta male punks.

@donlindeman3873

Жыл бұрын

Yup, cold and wet, makes the old peoples bones hurt. But the air is clean and wonderful to breath in deeply. Oh and the girls are pretty.

@dissonantpulse

Жыл бұрын

@@donlindeman3873 Not really. Girls are meth heads and junkies there.

@krisedward8447

Жыл бұрын

@@donlindeman3873 you ain’t wrong. Man only if the state ending earth quake wasn’t a possibility I’d be there right now and honestly I’ll still probably end up there or around there. I love the whole west coast so much. Ever sense I drove route 1 and a lil bit of interstate in some parts from LA to Seattle I’ve been in love. I mean WOW like WOOOOOOW it’s just fucking incredible and so good for my soul.

I moved from Baltimore, MD to Las Vegas last year and was shocked at how unfriendly people were. Common decency in Baltimore like saying hello on the street when passing someone got me weird looks and silence in Vegas

@GAURAV25855ify

Жыл бұрын

Baltimore is also a rude city along with the crime

Grew up in LA. Just moved back after 33 years in the PNW. Lived in Eugene, Portland, Seattle areas. Conejo Valley is much more friendly. I’m so glad to finally be back in So Cal.

Totally agree with DC. I still remember when a drugstore employee yelled at me because I didn't move up the checkout line fast enough. Totally rude!

@okisoba

Жыл бұрын

The drugstore employee is probably from Maryland.

@georgegong6813

Жыл бұрын

I experienced several cold feelings myself visiting DC. Yes a lot of Security & Law Enforcement around. Maybe it's because after 9/11. Though they don't make tourists feel a bit friendly @ all. Wasn't even involved in any negative police contact involving an investigation either. Would never visit again if I can.

@Sly88Frye

Жыл бұрын

Then just move up faster geez. You never know that employee might have saved you from being yelled at by multiple customers. 😂 But yeah in all seriousness that is pretty unprofessional by the employee. I remember working at a Walgreens in my hometown of Santa Rosa and I'd say in general people in Santa Rosa are pretty neutral. I'm not going to say that they are friendly but I wouldn't say that they are rude either, but there are a fair share of rude people here, but this one guy who I was working with at Walgreens was constantly rude. Not in the way where he would like to yell at people or anything, it's just that you can totally tell he was completely miserable and hated working that job. He complained all the time and just had this tone in his voice of like this extreme hopelessness and attitude. I'd actually take anger and yelling above how he handled things. It was just depressing to be around him. Sometimes he would actually raise his voice at customers but typically he just talked in a very depressing tone and had such a depressing attitude. Sometimes he'd say rude things to me when I'm trying to help a customer and claim that I'm being too slow up my job when something happened that wasn't even my fault because the stupid scanner at the counter is doing a really shity job of actually scanning the item. Or I have to verify the customers age if they're purchasing alcohol and this guy would actually claim I'm too slow at the job even though it wasn't even my fault. He was just such a miserable depressing guy to work with. I'm glad I didn't have to work at that Walgreens for very long before finding a different job

@augiegirl1

5 ай бұрын

@@georgegong6813 5 of my last 6 jobs have been in Security, & one thing that’s emphasized is that GOOD CUSTOMER SERVICE is INTEGRAL to Security work. If a person is acting suspiciously, approaching them by offering to help is MUCH more effective than simply staring at them. Additionally, NOTHING WILL ESCALATE a dangerous situation faster than BEING RUDE!

@augiegirl1

5 ай бұрын

@@Sly88Frye Since you worked at Walgreens, I think you will appreciate this story; my dad turned 72 in August, & he told me this story when I called him on his birthday. The secretary at my home church (Sherri) also works at Walgreens; just before my dad’s birthday, she was checking out a 92-year-old who was buying alcohol, & the customer said he had run out of Birth-DAY control pills 😂. So, when Sherri made my dad a birthday card, she wrote in it “Be sure to stock up on Birthday control pills!”

I've actually had good experiences in NYC. Lovely people, good customer service. As long as you don't block the sidewalk you're golden. Boston, OTOH - there's a reason the term Masshole exists.

I moved to NYC for two years. The people are not rude, they are in a hurry. Ask for directions and they happy to help you with the 20 seconds of spare time that they have.

I lived in The Dalles, Oregon for a year. The unfriendliest place I have ever lived. I rented a house in a middle-class neighborhood, and none of my neighbors would talk to me. A wave would be greeted by a glare and a back turn. Walking my dog down the sidewalk was met with rude nasty comments by numerous neighbors, even though he didn't even step on their grass. My wife fell in depression and went home to Florida. One of the most beautiful places I've lived, but by far the worst.

@janetr5929

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Oregon, not friendly.

@mj2495

11 ай бұрын

Passed through the Dalles from time to time. Seems like a little city of small consequence.

@ontheside5942

11 ай бұрын

@@mj2495 I worked up in Hood River, which was very nice.

@marcwatt

10 ай бұрын

I am in Portland now 6 years.. Yet to meet an intelligent, sane, engaging adult... Also no chicks at all! Chick desert

In my experience, a lot of the rudest people in NYC are those who aren’t from here and are trying to fit in

@darkwoodmovies

Жыл бұрын

Right? Most New Yorkers are very friendly. But when you're a dumb tourist blocking everyone's way, IMO that's the truly rude people in the city.

@samtrapani1057

Жыл бұрын

100%

@angelgjr1999

Жыл бұрын

I’ve never had a problem in nyc. Most people are pretty friendly and can help you get around.

@eli3568

Жыл бұрын

Never been to NYC but I've known some New Yorkers who are really awesome. Do they curse a lot? Yes. Are they kind wonderful people? Also yes.

@JamminClemmons

Жыл бұрын

@@darkwoodmovies Ya better move, Pilgrim. Kathy Hochul is (becoming) worse than Andrew Cuomo. Your Andy-boy sent your sick and elderly Covid patients to the rest of this state during the plandemic. - Thanks alot.... hold your torch high.

I'm a New Yorker and lived in many cities. I am surprised Miami isn't number 1.

@waverider227

Жыл бұрын

Yep I m a Florida native and while it’s true most New Yorkers get blamed here for rudeness it is definitely true Miami has really rude people it’s like a whole other culture and country within Florida itself .

When tourists go to NYC they expect the residents to be rude and actually get upset when clerks, wait staff, taxi cab drivers, etc. are friendly and out going as they often are. I think New Yorkers put on the rude chadrade to please the visitors.

I lived in Chicago, Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle, Las Vegas. SEATTLE and LAS VEGAS were the most UNFRIENDLY!!!

@kittykat334

Жыл бұрын

Seattle!!! Bingo! (Gotta be the foggy days and congested traffic that breaks those arrogant people.)

@eddieg6436

Жыл бұрын

@@kittykat334 I lived in Seattle for 23 (very long), MISERABLE years, ugh! HORRIBLE weather! As for the people? Well, as long as you’re from Seattle, or Washington state, love the Seahawks, love Washington wines, and EVERYTHING Washington, they’ll like you. But if you’re from out of state, (especially California), or don’t like football, and enjoy FRENCH, or CALIFORNIA wines, we’ll get ready for the wrath, and HATE! Look up “Seattle freeze”, it’s VERY REAL.

In an old movie, Humphrey Bogart gets off a train that's arrived in Philadelphia. He asks the porter, "Is this the City of Brotherly Love?" and the porter replies, "That's what they say in New York. They don't live here."

@deirdre108

Жыл бұрын

LOL Great quip!

@paulis4278

Жыл бұрын

Awesome!!

@bgl9935

11 ай бұрын

I used to live in the city of Brotherly hate . It was the biggest mistake I've ever made and I have mostly bad memories. The locals are proud of being impersonal jerks.

Briggs, I’m sorry but I have to disagree with you on the NYC rudeness thing. I moved to NYC 48 years ago and I have seen some amazing people go out of their way to help people get to where they’re going and answer their questions. Now that I think about it I have never seen anyone not help tourists and people from NJ if the people who are asking help are friendly and not rude out of towners demanding that you to help them. It’s all about their attitudes.

Honestly, NYC, you can find friendly, helpful people. I was in the wrong highway lane and couldn't get over to take the exit I needed. I ended kinda getting pushed over into a different exit lane and was driving around trying to figure out how to get back to where I needed to go. (One way streets weren't helping). I spotted some dudes hanging out on the street. I pulled over, hopped out of my car and asked for directions. They were friendly and super helpful. Handsome too. Of course, this was back in 2005. So, I concede it could have gone down hill since then.

@dinkyboss

Жыл бұрын

Nah I’ve lived in NYC my whole life and it’s the same. People can be rough around the edges but are genuinely nice, especially if you’re lost. A lot of people will actually try and help because they know how tough it can be for outsiders. Just don’t expect the kindness to be delivered in a “polite” way haha.

@Taylormademan900

Жыл бұрын

How much in toll roads did you have to pay driving in New York?

@babs3241

Жыл бұрын

Heck, I was a tourist and I accidentally dropped my watch on the subway. A gentleman picked it up and said, "Excuse me, miss, I think this is yours." I've had occasion to visit fairly regularly, and rudeness has been very rare. (On NYC terms, of course. There is a different behavioral expectation there than in, say, a little town ten counties over.

@macgoldie7771

Жыл бұрын

@babs3241 I was robbed at gunpoint in Queensbridge New York

@andrewfischer8564

Жыл бұрын

@@macgoldie7771 one of the more dangerous parts of town. why were you there? its a public housing complex. no excuse you should be safe every where. i dont live to far and have been there many times. had some friends teach in the elemtary school. its getting better

Yes weather I believe can play a part in someone's state of mind.

I don't dispute these suggestions...however....when I stayed in New York I was greeted by 100% friendly people. Everyone, from the taxi drivers to the Police officers to the people in the street....every single person seemed at pains to be helpful and welcoming. I'm English and several people mentioned my accent. Possibly that helped? Either way, so many people made an effort to be polite I just though I'd write a quick post to make that clear. Okay...thanks for reading :)

@nomorenews

Жыл бұрын

Thats becuz of your english accent

@EmaMalik

Жыл бұрын

I agree! I was there back in the fall and I met some great people. Saw some unfriendly behaviour on the street and in passing, but everyone I interacted with was super nice and helpful when asking for directions.

@johnrichmond.4783

Жыл бұрын

@@EmaMalik Yeah. Me too. Even the 'grumpy' lady at the tube/underground station made an effort to be nice :)

@djack915

Жыл бұрын

We natives ( of ny and usa ) love ❤️ the British accent _ idk why lol

@howellwong11

Жыл бұрын

I always considered NYC to have the rudest people, but I haven't been to NYC in decades. I avoid going there as much as I can. Perhaps all the rude people have moved to Florida. I dunno.

NYC is really not as unfriendly as ppl make it out to be. And I say this as someone from upstate

@PSkitt82

Жыл бұрын

Nah. They're just very blunt.

@gif24gt60

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely, I have met some very rude and some very nice people in the city. There seem to be a lot of polar opposites.

@deirdre108

Жыл бұрын

I agree! People often have one unfriendly experience and apply it to everyone they HAVEN'T met.

@mac76311

Жыл бұрын

I've heard upstate is a totally different place than NYC

@DENVEROUTDOORMAN

Жыл бұрын

Exactly I grew up in Hartford CT and Western Mass and Boston is great even of they don't know how to speak and never had a problem with New Yorkers

Surprised Seattle and the Seattle freeze didn't make the list.

I loved living in Boston. I grew up in New England. If you were not born and raised there, you will always be an outsider. I love the accent. But when you make a friend in Boston, they're your friend for life. I've also loved living in NYC. I enjoy the directness. You always know where you stand with folks in NYC. I found people on San Francisco shallow, fake and smug. I lived there for 15 years, would never move back. I'll take the East Coast over the West Coast any day.

@AB-sm1qf

Жыл бұрын

I grew up and was raised in New England, still felt like an outsider and hated it. I found it just like you found San Francisco.

I'm surprised that Seattle is not in this list. I've seen previous videos that say the the People of Seattle are extremely unfiendly to ALL outsiders, especially those who go to live there. BTW, I'm English and have lived in Thailand, Indonesia and China.

@flyingCoconut.

Жыл бұрын

I experienced this when I lived in Seattle for two years. A lot of Seattleites¿ HATE people from California. I moved there from Austin, TX and some folks thought I was from Seattle and hazed me.

@liberalpatriot1504

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I lived in Federal Way (Seattle suburb) for 2 years, and every time I had to go into Seattle, it was AWFUL! The tourist traps suck up to people, but local to local, even in August wear a jacket they're so cold and rude! I live in Bellingham now, where people are mostly friendly and laid-back, and the prevailing attitude is avoid the Seattle cesspool at all costs!

@robertloncto4765

Жыл бұрын

Came here expecting Seattle would be on the list. I live there and it’s the least friendly place I’ve ever been. But it’s also just that people are cold and aloof. You never know where you stand with someone. It’d almost be better if they were even more unfriendly and just get to the point rather than being fake

@tb5124

Жыл бұрын

@@robertloncto4765hat’s what I love about east coast “rude”, you know where you stand. If someone doesn’t like you or are mad at you, they’ll tell you or they just don’t talk to you till they know u better. Out west ppl are more passive aggressive or will smile to your face then talk shit. There’s unfriendly, then there’s unkind, two very different things.

@robertloncto4765

Жыл бұрын

@@tb5124 well said, very true

Detroiters are really cool and Philly people will really help you out a lot. Two cities that get bad raps but actually have cool people, maybe rough and tough but they are awesome

@kerrynight3271

Жыл бұрын

I was stranded in a subway stop in the middle of the night in Philadelphia. The man who was paid to wait on the public refused to give me directions, but a homeless guy walked with me for about fifteen minutes underground to where I needed to board the train.

@bgl9935

11 ай бұрын

​@@kerrynight3271 I used to live in the crap hole(Philly). It was the biggest mistake I've ever made and I have mostly bad memories. The locals are proud of being impersonal jerks.

Briggs! I love your videos! Love your attitude! When I worked in NYC I was always called an 'Out of towner' b/c I was friendly( admittedly I had lived in a lot of places in the South). I appreciated people being out front about if they liked you or not. I saved alot of time on friendships.

Well done, Briggs. Your presentations are very informative and fascinating. People don't realize the hours of research within public domain you have into each of these productions. Your narration is so very elequent.

I visit Detroit a lot for sporting events, concerts, and museums. I've never once feared for my life. I've never been shot at, or attacked. The worst thing that ever happened was a guy who wouldn't take no for an answer and that could happen anywhere.

@DialloMoore503

Жыл бұрын

Not only that, but downtown Detroit is super clean! I couldn’t believe it!

@MichiganUSASingaporeSEAsia

Жыл бұрын

Agree. Detroit is far better than LA and even Chicago now. I feel safe

@MichiganUSASingaporeSEAsia

Жыл бұрын

@@DialloMoore503 actually you are right. No spray painted buildings and streets are not cluttered with trash either. Great point

New Yorkers are real, honest, don't beat around the bush, honor personal space as much as possible, and aren't petty. They're proud of their city and will hold a door open for anyone. You better say "thank you" or else you'll face the proper answer. Nobody is entitled to "You're welcome". I love New Yorkers!

@jonnybanger

Жыл бұрын

Also, I've absolutely found the pompous & entitled "you're lucky to be here" attitudes and self serving pricks heavily in Los Angeles. Not the beach communities as much, but I'd take the reality of NYC over L.A. Ever been to Scottsdale, AZ?

@RG-hf4et

Жыл бұрын

"or else you'll find the proper answer".....🤣🤣🤣. ..I've lived in NJ my whole life so I know what you mean....lolol.

@DialloMoore503

Жыл бұрын

@@jonnybanger I’m not a fan of LA. I can’t stand bougie people.

@ecurewitz

Жыл бұрын

Boston ( or most of Massachusetts in general) is the same way

@Nortongroove

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree, Love New Yorkers♥️

I moved to Seattle in 1975. It was a wonderful place to live. I described it as a big city with a small town atmosphere. I remember that the locals were very concerned that the California culture would migrate up the coast. Their worst fears were realized. Seattle has changed but not for the better. 🥲

@loredanadodson1602

11 ай бұрын

The California culture as you called is always well represented on the west coast !

@mythicfeminine

11 ай бұрын

Looks like they didn't get the good parts of California, but instead the bad attitude of the locals made it worse.

I've lived in LA and other parts of California for much of my life. People in Los Angeles were mostly friendly. On the other side of the country, Tennessee to be exact, people were extremely unfriendly. I was verbally and physically attacked there. Otherwise, I believe the unfriendliness has to do with not tolerating outsiders more than anything. I also have had wonderful times visiting Detroit. But then I'm much different than many of you watching this video.

@MrTitney

Жыл бұрын

I live in Tennessee and I know what you mean. Even though I grew up here I notice people are super protective over what they deem as theirs. Even I feel like an outsider sometimes. It doesn’t help also that a lot of people from other states are moving here and buying property so I think it threatens and scares a lot of the people who have lived here their entire lives. I’m surprised Chicago didn’t make the list. I’ve probably had my worst experiences in that city.

@Gguy061

Жыл бұрын

I lived in Tennesse my whole life and moved to San Diego 6 years ago and had the exact opposite experience. I'm dying to leave California for good

@elgatofelix8917

Жыл бұрын

The "friendly" you get in Los Angeles is the fakest friendly you'll find anywhere. LA is the land of actors where people are quite good at faking friendliness and will talk trash about you behind your back the minute you're out of sight. Having lived in LA my whole life I say this from firsthand experience.

@linnieb6226

Жыл бұрын

@@elgatofelix8917Los Angeles was okay for me. Guess I am fake for enjoying my time there, but I just had a better overall experience in California growing up than in Tennessee. And people are fake, talk trash behind your back in both places.

@juanorozco1971

Жыл бұрын

I'm from L.A & won't lie & say there's no unfriendly people here because there are but from my experience there's more friendly people than unfriendly. For me walking by some1 & greeting each other is normal same goes for people holding the door for each other starting conversations with strangers isnt any outta the ordinary. Just today I was at the market & me & my bro struck up a conversation with a lady behind us because I had moved my stuff out the way so she can put her items on the belt (I normally would've let her cut since she only had maybe 5 items but I was already being rung up when she got on line). Now for 8 years I lived in TX in the Dallas/ Ft Worth area & I ran into more rude people in those 8 years then 30 years here in L.A . Literally the 1st week I moved there I had an incident where I had seen a older Latina lady so I said hola Buenos dias (hello good day in Spanish) the lady in a very condescending way said this is America speak English. Now I get some people don't speak it but she could've just said sorry I don't speak Spanish even tho most probably know Buenos dias. The only reason I said in Spanish is because she looked straight out the boat(in Spanish we say "tenia el nopal en la frente") another time at the same apt complex I was trying to pull into a parking lot & some girl got on front saying that parking was for her bf. I said nicely that there was no assigned parking suddenly her whole family is out there trying to intimidate me into complying even threatening me & my car. Those are just 2 cases in maybe 3 months mind you when I first moved there I didn't know any2 besides by sister & her family so I spent most my times indoors. Now I did run into alotta nice people & had some pretty good friends

The "Rude New Yorker" is just a stereotype mainly reinforced by movies looking for a little chuckle in the script. I grew up in the NYC metro area and have returned many times over the years because it's one of my favorite places to visit. The residents may be a little abrupt at times, but they are generally the least judgemental people you'll encounter. I'd also say that it's more likely that they'll express their pride in being a New Yorker without denigrating people from other places.

There are some studies that correlate sympathy and population density. The more densely populated an area the more unsympathetic people become. That's why rural people tend to be more polite and friendly than urban people.

@archstanton_live

Жыл бұрын

"Why?" Is it that aggressive, rude folk do better in densely populate areas? Is it that less densely populated areas tend to encourage more empathy? Is it that folks of kind tend to flock together? Or other, just wondering.

@magellanicspaceclouds

Жыл бұрын

@@archstanton_live Good questions. My guess is that overcrowding itself makes people less empathetic, unfriendly, frustrated, angry, etc.

@fitfrog65

Жыл бұрын

Rat studies show the same thing. The rats become aggressive and nasty when crowded.

@magellanicspaceclouds

Жыл бұрын

@@crowhomestead7552 I have a feeling cars and traffic is a huge factor in the frustration and the Netherlands has more of a bicycle culture, which probably alleviates some of the burden.

@skyeshwin

Жыл бұрын

By your logic then Korean and Japanese must be the most rudest people !! And Uruguay Namibia and Mongolia must be the most friendliest folks on earth !! 😂

Another entertaining video from my fave KZreadr! My thoughts: My bf and I were in Washington DC in 2000. We went to Madam's Organ in Adam's Morgan one night and there was no available seating. A couple invited us to sit with them...they could not have been more friendly. We had a blast thanks to the local hospitality! Actually, we met lots of friendly people, but we might have gotten lucky. I lived in the Los Angeles area for several years...mostly the beach towns in the South Bay. It was a mixed bag for sure. I did encounter a lot of snobbishness over area codes, cars, physical attractiveness...the usual superficial stuff. But I also loved my work, riding my bike on the Strand, and having some great friends. Boston and New York...it's a different way of communicating. I'm a hybrid of Boston and California. I "get" Bostonians and New Yorkers...I can drop an f-bomb with the best of 'em! Philly? They crushed the 49ers 40-8 on my wedding day and I never forgave them (SF did come back to win the Super Bowl that season....neener neener neener). The NFC championship last month caused major PTSD, so seeing KC kick that field goal late in the 4th quarter was so validating!

You hit the nail on the head when you mentioned tourism. Cities, especially the seasonal tourism types tend to be either phony to outsiders or outwardly unfriendly. Seasonal places typically don't foster the best lifestyles because of their unstable economies leading to problems which I wont go into.

@parkerbrown-nesbit1747

Жыл бұрын

Charleston, SC, is outwardly friendly, but as soon as your back is turned, the knife goes in.

@midnight4109

Жыл бұрын

@@parkerbrown-nesbit1747 I don't know how else to say this. Southern cities have a tendency to be like that.

@parkerbrown-nesbit1747

Жыл бұрын

@@midnight4109 Charleston is the only really Southern city we've lived close to (we actually live in Summerville). We've lived right outside of Nashville (in Antioch), but the Nashville vibe is totally different than Charleston's.

I've been to Oklahoma City numerous times and have had no negative encounters there. Same with Las Angelas where I have relatives. All of my trips to Las Vegas have been business trips for conventions and all have gone well. On my last trip to Washington D.C. I simply enjoyed visiting the national landmarks and the history associated with them. I've never been to Detroit but have had good relations with people from there. In the late 90s I spent a week in New York City and stayed in a well known hotel between Times Square and Central Park. This was also for a scheduled conference and I was pleasantly surprised by the visit. I enjoyed a musical comedy and walk through Central Park.

Drove through OKC, stopped at a gas station where the facilities were awesome but the customer service was almost non-existent. Didn't know if it was because we were from out of town or they just skipped their meds, but won't ever stop at that chain again.

I figure the reason that Seattle isn’t on this list is because the unfriendliness there is more about ignoring, or maybe even actively shunning people versus many of the places that made the list where people are frequently telling each other to F-off. It’s a lot more passive rather than actively aggressive, so can be less memorable.

@greasesicle

Жыл бұрын

Ban Led Zeppelin reruns and ranch dressing in WA.

@donlindeman3873

Жыл бұрын

I've Lived in the South land Or LaLa land as one radio persoality called it. It's a great and wonderful place. It's known around the world everywhere. Go anywhere on the planet and when the locals hear english being spoken. When they ask where your from you can say LA. and they know you mean a super and famous City located on the planet earth not the land of great sea food and cajin music. Sorry I can't spell google can't spell check either and they charge a lot $$$$ for what we get.

@tk9839

Жыл бұрын

Good perspective...

@firstylasty9417

Жыл бұрын

​@@greasesicle WTH is a "Zeppelin rerun?" ...As an ardent Zep fan, I don't wanna live in ANY place that bans Zep. Sounds straight from the bowels of hell! ...Ranch dressing, however, is just mayonnaise in a chintzy suit.

I've always liked visiting NYC and Boston. I've always found the people very friendly and helpful. (Probably because blunt attitudes don't really bother me.) But that just my experience. I feel like if someone goes to those cities acting entitled, snobby, or whatever, the locals just won't put up with their BS. They put up with enough in general. The only time I've had issues were trying to find a bathroom. Then the locals can get a bit rude.

@Darrylizer1

Жыл бұрын

I found Bostonians and New Yorkers to have a crusty exterior, but once you start talking to people and get past that crust they're friendly..

@GAURAV25855ify

Жыл бұрын

NYC boston are scope places onebway or Nother but they got the rudest natisest people living especially the drivers as well as cab drivers

There's NOTHING as friendly as New York. My mother taught us something when we were moving from Kansas to NY. Just before arriving she turned to us in the car and said "This is their home town. You don't have to put your hometown down but be curious about theirs." It has always served me well. I have never met a friendlier city.

I have lived in the Boston area for 70 years. My neighbors are rude and thoughtless people.

@xoxoxoxoxo7997

Жыл бұрын

Funny boston full of liberals

@skyeshwin

Жыл бұрын

New England itself is a bit rude but Boston is on another level 😅

@stephendacey8761

Жыл бұрын

110,000 residents leaving boston - boston globe

@skyeshwin

Жыл бұрын

@@stephendacey8761 hopefully they leave their rudeness behind 😂

@bennyp7

Жыл бұрын

What’s Boston “area?” I was born and raised in the city and people are absolutely not rude - they just keep to themselves but if you need help, they’ll be happy to give it.

I'm rather surprised that Seattle didn't make the list

@aasim8

Жыл бұрын

Seattle seems stuck up.

@aardvaarkmaark

Жыл бұрын

@@aasim8 yes indeed. Seattle can be a very unfriendly and pretentious place.

A common factor in all these cities seems to be lots of densely packed high rise buildings. Being surrounded by those on all sides with grey skies above would get anyone down.

a man coming to visit me in NJ from Nashville who never traveled to the north, flew into Laguardia and took a cab to Grand central station, only to be told he was in wrong station. he needed Pennsylvania station. He was so suprised to find person after person who stopped to help him find the way. a block from the station he was'nt sure of directions, he asked a guy who walked him to the station and stayed with him till he got to the right track. his comment was he never thought people in NY would be so friendly.

Briggs, Sometimes your sense of humor is hilarious! You stated, "I'm sure there are wonderful people in Los Angeles; I don't know many of them." That made me laugh out loud. Your anecdote about the cocktail waitress in Las Vegas was funny too. Boston is the most unfriendly city that I've been in. If you say hello to a stranger there, they may not answer you at all.

@WorldAccordingToBriggs

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate that

@stephendacey8761

Жыл бұрын

people in boston don't have time to be nice

@skyeshwin

Жыл бұрын

Amen to that !! Every word 💯 % facts 😅😂

@joebarr725

Жыл бұрын

The host here acknowledges that when he lived near the beach in LA, he intentionally gave tourists bad directions. So he contributed to LA being on the list.

@KingOFuh

Жыл бұрын

Fishing for a like from Briggs

In addition to snobbishness and unfriendliness, Los Angeles is unbelievably arrogant and standoffish!! I've been living in here since 2012 and I have horrible experiences making friends or even talking to people in LA.

@feliciasampson8032

Жыл бұрын

I think the South Bay is probably more friendly. I was in the fitness industry and moved to Playa del Rey following teaching gig in Japan. People recommended I talk to the owner of one of the most famous fitness studios in LA (which will go unnamed ). The studio owner was one of the coldest, most arrogant people I've ever met. I went to her studio as a paying customer and she treated me like dirt. I never forgot that. I went on to have a great career, thanks to some awesome mentors. While I was group exercise director of a South Bay club, I made sure to be kind and welcoming to every instructor who sought a job.

@regulusaldebaran8401

Жыл бұрын

I say Orange County new money and worst than angelinos

@DialloMoore503

Жыл бұрын

Same here! I’ve come to the conclusion that LA folks have an aversion to genuine people. It’s been said that the more real you are, the less friends you have. People here are not about friendships, but rather business and networking. I find that to be very fake, and I’m looking forward to relocating.

@Riza-uc5ed

Жыл бұрын

@BLACK 🇺🇸 MAN Well said, I totally agree with your words and experiences. 👍🏽

@Riza-uc5ed

Жыл бұрын

@Felicia Sampson good to know that, thank Felicia 😊 and I'm sorry about your experience with some crappy and ignoring folks here in LA. Anyway, I am willing to leave LA for Switzerland in early July this year, therefore I can't wait to leave the state. Overall America is no longer a good nation 😔

After spending a lot of time in SE Asia, It makes it more apparent how unfriendly we are here in the USA. I really think that we are afraid of each other.

New Yorkers are nice people, especially on Long Island. They really go out of their way to help you

Richmond, VA, is the unfriendliest place I've ever lived. Even as a visitor, I found NYC friendlier.

@johnhatchel9681

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Couldn't wait to leave.

@notme123

Жыл бұрын

The mosquitoes don'l like you; either.

@shopece8807

Жыл бұрын

lmfao i feel the same and I'm from effin' D.C.

What no Seattle! We need to work harder at our unfriendliness!

@TJ-id6ee

Жыл бұрын

That's what I was wondering. lol

@JoeD296

Жыл бұрын

No I think you guys are doing a fine job 😁

I knew New York would be number 1. I used to do landscaping work for an older man from Queens and he screamed at me for everything. I thought he hated my guts but he later said I was the best worker he ever had. That’s when I realized that that’s just how people in that area are, but it came as a shock to me, being from Texas where people are much friendlier.

Atlanta and Houston are by FAR, the most unfriendly places I've ever been; and I lived in both Boston AND Detroit.

I've only visited a small number of American cities and of those Seattle wins this contest hands down.

Hey, Briggs - what a cool focus for a video! I'm in rural central Delaware, and what I've been noticing is that every time I go for gas, groceries, wine - name it - people are polite, hold doors for each other, and sometime fall into spontaneous conversations! This is a VERY cool place (Dover, DE not far from the AFB) and I love my adopted state.

@user-kc8yo9yy7o

Жыл бұрын

I’ve been in Dover for a while it’s kind of been falling down lately

@phillygrunt2154

Жыл бұрын

Delaware isn’t rude, first off it doesn’t even have enough people in the state to find to be rude & if you clump Wilmington, a rust belt city that was hit very hard by industrial decline/drugs & violence, it’s because it’s takes a thick skinned person to live there & thick skinned people don’t care about your personal feelings. Delaware isn’t rude, probably tourists or you’re just a Karen.

@unclejj509

Жыл бұрын

@@user-kc8yo9yy7o Don't know if you've noticed but everywhere seems to be falling down lately. I hate to be a doomer but damn, it's depressing!

@stephendacey8761

Жыл бұрын

in boston they hold the door for my 89 year old father who walks w/ a cane

@jessicakeskemety22

Жыл бұрын

Originally from Smyrna, it really is a good place to settle down! Glad you were adopted us, ha ha!

I'm shocked that Seattle wasn't on this list. The Seattle Freeze is a real thing!

@christophergrissom484

Жыл бұрын

It’s not the Seattle freeze it’s the liberal freeze. Almost all the unfriendly cities are liberal ones. Liberal elites feel there better then you and don’t feel the need to grace you with a conversation. There weird as f

@christophergrissom484

Жыл бұрын

Republicans states and cities are very friendly typically unless you start talking about liberalism. Being liberal used to be something to be genuinely proud of now it just means your insane and out of touch with reality. It sucks

I found that the people that let the doors close to my nose are foreigners other than latin americn. Most people that helped me with the wheel chair were from latin american. Mostly Mexicians I think.

I live in Central Florida and find people from New York very friendly maybe it's New York City, they invite me out talkative very welcoming then again they recently moved here from New York.

Seattle by far is the least friendly place I’ve been. New England cities can be snobby but I find them friendlier than Seattle. I’ve never found NYC to be that bad either. I don’t know. Maybe it’s just me.

@kenrossmac

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@DENVEROUTDOORMAN

Жыл бұрын

Yup Except New Englanders not snobby at all

@kittykat334

Жыл бұрын

Arrogant and ultra-liberal clowns in Seattle.

@michelegraham1181

Жыл бұрын

I was really taken aback in Pike Place when I tried to be friendly to one of the employees who ran the cheese shop and he stared at me like I was a moron.

@robertloncto4765

Жыл бұрын

Agree, Seattle sucks. I live there and I almost forget what it’s like to have normal conversational banter with people until I leave. Moving out soon for good

Yep.. that’s DC- I’m born and raised there-from SE🙋🏽‍♀️..

Detroit is a city of contrasts, and while some areas remain very run-down, the central business district has been greatly upgraded. Campus Martius Park, in the center of downtown, was recently named the best public square in the US.

I am born and raised in Los Angeles, and have never like the people from Los Angeles! but love meeting people in Los Angeles from different cultures.

Surprised Seattle didn't make the list. I live there and like it, but I have heard about "the Seattle Freeze" and how hard it is to make friends, and I tend to be a loner, so I'm not the best judge on these things.

@feliciasampson8032

Жыл бұрын

Andyjay, I took a job in W. Seattle. It was mixed as to how nice people were, but some of my coworkers hated me from the moment we met. They went out of their way to make sure my work life was unpleasant.

@furthereast6775

Жыл бұрын

Seattle is by far the unfriendliest city Ive seen. In Seattle, people literally avoid eye contact, I think you have to be in a clique to get some humanity there. In Portland Oregon on the other hand, I had friendly conversations everywhere. Of course, you want to avoid both cities in this post-Floyd era; stick to the suburbs.

@michelegraham1181

Жыл бұрын

I'm surprised, too. I'm from Spokane and whenever I went back to Seattle, the shopkeepers and locals were rude. With one exception, but she turned out to be from Spokane, too. Which is saying something because rudeness is growing in Spokane.

It’s crazy , I’ve always found NYC to be pretty darn friendly ….

@michaelmj1964

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, it’s far from an unfriendly city.

@littlecatfeet9064

Жыл бұрын

Same, although I was there in the 80s. Stayed in Queens with locals and they were amazing.

@SkynetOnline1

Жыл бұрын

Have you been to the Bronx?

@michaelmj1964

Жыл бұрын

The Bronx isn’t unfriendly, just doesn’t look as nice as other parts of NY. I’d rather be social with New Yorkers from any of the boroughs than people from any part of some other cities I have been to.

@timothytikker3834

Жыл бұрын

Same here!

I can attest! I've lived in 1/2 of those cities. I was born in Boston, grew up in DC, visited NYC often, moved to Orlando, then Las Vegas and now the Bay Area (although not on the list, it should be). I sure know how to pick them. Vegas is by far the worst town of all. Anyway, I've given up on American big cities and plan to retire somewhere small, quiet and peaceful. That's where the nicest people reside, imo.

Absolutely most unfriendly places I've ever been were Aspen, CO and Telluride, CO. People are incredibly snobbish and don't welcome you into their businesses. Maybe you can do one on smaller cities and towns.

@DENVEROUTDOORMAN

Жыл бұрын

Haven't been there but most of Colorado ski areas and towns even tourists areas very friendly

@ulfthegoon

Жыл бұрын

@@DENVEROUTDOORMAN I agree with you when it comes to Steamboat, Breckenridge/Frisco areas. I also had good vibes around places like Evergreen, Morrison and Manitou Springs. So I definitely am not trashing most of the good people of Colorado. It was just these two towns that gave me a bad vibe with people.

@voidalchemy_stratorusofficial

Жыл бұрын

I live in Colorado. This is true and a lot of us who live outside of those towns can’t stand the people in them. Only rich yuppy snobs live in Aspen and Vail.

@elynselu7202

Жыл бұрын

I lived in Colorado for 2 years and have lived all over the US. I found Colorado to be the most unfriendly of all.

@urbanexplorer260

Жыл бұрын

Their the Karen families, the people who are mentally controlled by the whole blonde housewife complex, a god like view of themselves, per say

I can confirm that we haven't recovered from that SuperBowl loss. Today was being called "let it all out Friday" on Philly sports radio.

@kshenriques

Жыл бұрын

Cheesy cheesy officiating

I absolutely love that stock video clip that's played at the beginning of each number.

The friendliest city in the world that I visited was Rome, Italy. I had Italians telling that Rome was rude and even dangerous. I had the most amazing experience. Everyone was awesome even in poor so called " Dangerous neighborhoods " people were so cool and so friendly. That was my experience.

@Spacebuddy-dm6ps

9 ай бұрын

Maybe they didn’t have good experiences with a few folks.

Los Angeles is up there that’s for sure.

When we went to NYC in 2020, I was a little worried. I had heard they were rude. Fortunately that was not what we experienced. There was this one gentleman who went way out of his way, locating transit staff to unlock elevator to get us to the Amtrax depot. Actually helping us find it too. If it hadn't been for him we would have missed our train back. I am not sure if we didnt get the rudeness because I was in a wheelchair but seems to me they were overall more helpful and kind then rude.

@ecurewitz

Жыл бұрын

I found New Yorkers to be very helpful. Just don’t piss them off. They don’t put up with crap

@lanaj1107

Жыл бұрын

I've been to NYC a few times and found locals to be very friendly and helpful. Just don't be an ass and you'll be fine.

@sonnysantana5454

Жыл бұрын

the only 1's who find ny'ers to be rude are the people who've never been to nyc

@caramel7123

Жыл бұрын

One new yorker and being in a wheelchair is not a good example.

@Rhaspun

Жыл бұрын

@@sonnysantana5454 It's the same with angry people from the South and Midwest. Mention California and they complain about the local California politics. They're reacting to someone else's rant as if they had experienced some interaction in California.

I have travelled a lot and while NYC has a poor rep I found people there to be some of the friendliest. Only time I ever met a rude New Yorker was New Yorkers not in New York. Its like they change when the leave their home ground. As to most unfriendly I would say Miami, Florida. Of course that might be because it was the only place I ever had a gun pointed at me for a parking space. But it was a few days before Christmas and parking at the Mall is crazy. Needless to say I let them have the space. Next day I cleaned my 1911 put my CCW permit in my wallet and finished my Christmas shopping.

@robertlarue2569

Жыл бұрын

New Yorkers don't change outside their natural habitat. They just remain New Yorkers, and apply the standards and habits of their native location to places with very different standards. Reflexively, we're familiar with this in NYC. Such people are known as 'tourists'.

Have missed your vidoes , am glad you made this one ❤

I'm always surprised that Seattle, WA. never seems to show up in these types of videos. Well, actually most of WA.

I LOVE THIS LIST, BRIGGS!!!! I lived in Orlando for 20 years before moving up north a bit. They belong on this list because they don't care unless you are a tourist and are spending lots of money. The drivers in Orlando are something else. I grew up in the Capital District of NY. I moved down to Orlando and everyone was complaining about how bad NY drivers are. I responded, " New Yorkers may drive like they've had 3 pots of double Espresso and 3 hits of Acid, but they still drive better than ANYONE in Orlando. Orlando where you will never see a car without a scratch or ding, and turn signals are optional.

@WorldAccordingToBriggs

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Amy

@paulis4278

Жыл бұрын

When I moved from phoenix to Orlando I was shocked to see how friendly people in Orlando compared with AZ.

@5thdimension625

Жыл бұрын

So true, I HATE driving in Fl but am grateful my hubby is a New Yorker and an excellent precision driver that can take on the best of them

@MadeInNewYork73

Жыл бұрын

@5th Dimension FL full of NYers - why not my cup o'tea - they all think they are superior to those still up North, too. We had imagination, went to Colo Spgs when ppl only knew of Denver. BUSTED 😡 Not the same, but kids & grands all here.

@briank5877

Жыл бұрын

I agree with the driving aspect as you mesh foreigners locals and snow birds into one hell of a traffic dilemma. Away from the traffic and tourist areas people are pretty friendly in actual Orlando. More friendly than south Florida where I grew up.

Totally agree with your list

I've been to most of those cities, I agree with your assessment.

Some of the nicest people on the phone that I spoke with were from, Oklahoma. Some of the nicest people I met, in person were from Ohio. Some of the most socially accepting people were from California and some of the worst backstabbing pin cushion phoney people were from Georgia. I guess u can't have it all.

@beckymigdal3140

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad my state, Ohio, was friendly to you.

@camiller4916

11 ай бұрын

Well, bless yer heart

The friendliest people I’ve met in Los Angeles are usually visiting from back east, or are transplants from back east.

Nice job with the drones! Beautiful...

It’s interesting because when I lived in O-town always felt people were unfriendly or fake social. Felt really isolated and visited a small town in the west. Manners were completely different and decided to move. People in the midwest are just happy…. Much happier than big cities like Orlando.

I love how half of these cities are in the northeast lol Surprised Seattle or Portland didn't make it

@paulis4278

Жыл бұрын

Arizona did not make it either which is a surprise to me 😄

@tomfields3682

Жыл бұрын

None in the Midwest except for the D.

@bluedovepdx

Жыл бұрын

Have you been to Portland? Had a bad Portland experience? I moved here from Norfolk VA almost 23 years ago (early life was SW Michigan but I've also lived quite a few years in NC). The Portland people I've met and had encounters with (such as store employees) have been fine. No unfriendliness. That's my experience as a resident.

@AB-sm1qf

Жыл бұрын

Portland is chaotic but not unfriendly while Seattle they can be very unfriendly especially if you’re moderately normal.

@ralphjohnson3202

Жыл бұрын

​@@paulis4278 People in Arizona are way more friendlier than people in the Pacific Northwest or anywhere in the United States I lived in several other states and to me Arizona was the best.

I’ve been all over the US and found rude people everywhere. As a New Jersey native I find the stereotypes comical when someone asks where I’m from. I travel to some very remote places and find it amusing when people question why you are vacationing “here”.

@jessicakeskemety22

Жыл бұрын

I’ve adopted New Jersey as my state and I honestly love it here! I spend a lot of time telling people that jersey shore is one small area in north jersey 😂 and the taxes may be partially due to having one of the best school systems in the country!

@edzaslow

Жыл бұрын

@@jessicakeskemety22 High taxes in NJ are mostly the product of the power of the public employees labor unions and their allies in the Democratic Party.

@rturney6376

Жыл бұрын

NJ love 💗- born in Summit. I live outside of LA. I never 👎 liked CA.

@RG-hf4et

Жыл бұрын

@@edzaslow And don't forget years of corruption in this state!

@Mick_Ts_Chick

Жыл бұрын

We have some friends who live near Sommerville (sp?) that I've visited twice. It was a pretty place with lots of deer and such. The folks there were quite nice. I think NJ gets a bad rap, maybe due to the big cities? We also went to Basking Ridge which was very nice.

Thank you!