Ask Chinese girls "What do you think of Western guys?" Street interview in China🇨🇳

Ойын-сауық

What's up everyone!
My name is Kaho, I'm a Japanese living in Shanghai ,China.
In this video I interviewed Chinese girls "What do you think of Western guys?"
As Shanghai China is becoming more and more international, Chinese girls are becoming more open-minded for foreigners.
If you like my video, please subscribe my channel!
I will make more interview videos!
Love you guys!
My instagram: k.kaho831
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  • @carnifex9360
    @carnifex9360 Жыл бұрын

    I'm honestly impressed you speak Japanese, Chinese, and English! Very cool.

  • @Look.Upward

    @Look.Upward

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi there, If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity. Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods. Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain. Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death. Soon Fulfilled Prophecy: 1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America. 2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws. Helpful websites: 1. www.remnantofGOD.org 2. www.pluckedout.co.uk GOD Bless 💙💙💙

  • @1969mmoldovan

    @1969mmoldovan

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you impressed bacause she can speak Japanese, which is her mother tongue? Or are you surprised that after living 10 years in Shanghai she can speak Chinese? As for English, being able to speak it is no praiseworthy feat...

  • @puga4202

    @puga4202

    Жыл бұрын

    @@1969mmoldovan No shit. How many languages do you speak fluently? The host speaks all 3 at a really high level. That alone is praiseworthy no matter what.

  • @ami4511

    @ami4511

    10 ай бұрын

    @@1969mmoldovan English is very hard to learn for Japanese speakers. The grammar is completely different, there are no words in common, the pronunciation has many sounds that don't exist in English. Basically if you go to Japan, you won't find many people able to speak English. Most of the people with proficient English have studied/worked abroad/have foreign friends. It's not easy to speak Chinese at such a high level and if you go to China you will find many foreigners who cannot speak Chinese. Especially in Shanghai where she lives, because all the expats live there, you can survive with English. It looks like from your profile, you are from Moldova or Romania. Romanian is an Indo-European language like English and English using a lot of vocab from Latin and French. Of course Romanians don't have a big problem with English but even within Europe there are still a lot of people who don't speak English well, especially as soon as you venture outside the tourist areas.

  • @FaZe-StyL

    @FaZe-StyL

    9 ай бұрын

    Majority of Chinese know English actually

  • @simonkormendy849
    @simonkormendy849 Жыл бұрын

    Please keep the videos coming, Kaho....cheers!!!!

  • @jamesanyang2980
    @jamesanyang29802 ай бұрын

    My wife is Chinese and some of the biggest problems she faced was leaving her family, food she was use to and culture differences in ideals. She has now lived with me in Canada for 11 years and she would advise many Chinese to carefully to give thought before dating a westerner.

  • @samsungmicrosoft8254

    @samsungmicrosoft8254

    Ай бұрын

    🤔

  • @thatguy5981
    @thatguy59819 ай бұрын

    I lived in Shanghai for 10 years and loved it. Had 3 serious relationships with Chinese girls and they were new, exciting, and refreshing for both sides. I'm now back in Los Angeles but preparing to head back soon for work. Great vid! Cheers

  • @mmabreakdown7893

    @mmabreakdown7893

    Ай бұрын

    Cuz you can't get any job other than teaching english

  • @zoltanfabiansk5795

    @zoltanfabiansk5795

    10 күн бұрын

    When it was so "refreshing" why was not successful any of it?! And what other job is possible there for foreigners where already are not Chinese people except "teaching English"?!

  • @memoobaba
    @memoobaba Жыл бұрын

    Video just got recommended to me hope this channel blows up

  • @Kahoschannel

    @Kahoschannel

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Aldraz
    @Aldraz Жыл бұрын

    This was very good video, it is nice to see the perspective from the other side.

  • @simonkormendy849
    @simonkormendy849 Жыл бұрын

    My older brother is married to a lady from China, I haven't met her yet, but I have spoken to her on the phone, she is a really nice woman.

  • @bjoardar

    @bjoardar

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish your brother good luck with that. Really. Odds are not in his favor unfortunately, but I do know some who are happy, so I hope for the best.

  • @thejiffinator

    @thejiffinator

    Жыл бұрын

    don't forget to tell your brother that your family needs to give a big wedding dowery gift to her family!

  • @ShawkyJames

    @ShawkyJames

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thejiffinator 哈哈哈 都能嫁给洋大人了 怎敢要彩礼?

  • @alonzocato

    @alonzocato

    3 ай бұрын

    If you don’t have a passport get one then get overseas and meet some Beautiful Asian women and have them make you fall in love. I Did.

  • @acetofresh1
    @acetofresh1 Жыл бұрын

    Funny how perception works. I currently live in NYC one of the fashion meccas on the planet, and work completely in Chinatown. The Chinese men here( who are largely born and predominantly Mandarin speaking ) are by far better dressed than the average population, and usually more so than you find in more fashion forward districts. Also because of nutrition here, very tall Chinese men isn’t that uncommon, I even regularly encounter women well above average height for men.

  • @crnackasmeca

    @crnackasmeca

    Жыл бұрын

    So chinese man from nyc is taller then other chinese because off nutrition?? I didn’t know that. Thanks for info.

  • @acetofresh1

    @acetofresh1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@crnackasmeca Actually correction, Chinese men in our generation in general are taller due to nutrition.

  • @MightyCats2011

    @MightyCats2011

    Жыл бұрын

    @@crnackasmeca I live in Australia. Asian men who lived in Australia most of their life is taller due to nutrition and milk.

  • @crnackasmeca

    @crnackasmeca

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MightyCats2011 Oh ok What kind off milk they drink I want to be taller

  • @dakaodo

    @dakaodo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@crnackasmeca It's not necessarily the milk. Cow milk is what many Westerners drink, but it is not the most optimal source of calcium. Dairy products are super high in calcium. Pick what you like, what your stomach will enjoy. Yogurt, goat milk, cheese, whatever is fine. Generally, you find about 300 mg calcium per serving. However, it's only 30% bioavailable, meaning only about 100 mg will be absorbed by the body. It's a large shotgun blast of calcium, but only some of it sticks in the body. Leafy greens (e.g. bok choy) have less total calcium per serving, but it's more readily bioavailable. I think for bok choy it's something like 150 mg calcium per serving, but a whopping 50% bioavailable so you absorb about 75 mg of calcium. However some green vegetables have anti-absorption components (like oxalates) that inhibit/prevent calcium absorption. Spinach is a good example of this, with something like only 5% of calcium absorbed into the body from eating spinach. However, obviously green vegetables have many other good nutrients, so you should definitely eat lots of them for the other nutrients. Just get your calcium elsewhere. Overall, kids (and adults) should eat lots of good protein (fish, nuts, beans, lean white meat), fruits, and vegetables. In early development years (from birth to approximately age 15 years old), having a complete or even surplus diet is very important for growth. That's anywhere from 1500 to 2000 kCal daily for children. Protein, vitamin D, calcium, and other nutrients. For protein, that's something like 70-100 grams per day (whether meat, nuts, or beans). Historically, portion sizes have been much smaller and protein/calcium consumption has been proportionally much lower in Asian diets. This has recently changed in the past few decades, with industrialized and urban Asian diets trending closer towards Western levels of dietary consumption. After roughly age 15, skeletal growth is pretty much done, and a person will see little to no additional increase in height. Height growth generally starts earlier and ends earlier for girls compared to boys. This is true for children in the US, Australia, other developed countries, and increasingly in the past 2 decades for urban Chinese children with above-average privilege and resource access. So if you are older than 15, your height is pretty much done for life. :( However, you should still keep up your calcium intake to protect your bone strength and body height. Deficiency can lead to shrinking and losing the height you have, as you get older (into middle age and old age). None of this constitutes actual medical or nutrition advice! I'm just a random person on the Internet! Please do your own research and consult a health specialist for your serious questions. :P

  • @vme1967
    @vme19672 ай бұрын

    I think you and your content are awesome

  • @slk483
    @slk483 Жыл бұрын

    "Gentleman" "have good manners" Bro these girls watching too much Hollywood movies. We don't have that here in the US

  • @ILikeMyYT123

    @ILikeMyYT123

    Жыл бұрын

    Speak for yourself! There are gentlemen in the US with good manners, although they may not be in the majority. But, that's probably similar in other countries, including China.

  • @jettekko5044

    @jettekko5044

    Жыл бұрын

    LOL,they watch too much captain American and James Bond.

  • @SimonLiu176

    @SimonLiu176

    Жыл бұрын

    No way, too much media propaganda leads to Chinese girls' impression of European and American boys. Although we also know that it is not realistic.😂

  • @1june204

    @1june204

    Жыл бұрын

    In fact, they are talking about the British, and Americans are really not.

  • @user-jh5pc3vv4j

    @user-jh5pc3vv4j

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣 exactly

  • @dianajimenez7955
    @dianajimenez7955 Жыл бұрын

    The one lady that studied in the U.S. was the only one that realized that western men are not that different than Asians men. Also she noted that it was not the difference that makes for a good long term relationship, but what couples have in common. I am from the U.S. of Hispanic background, and I agree with the lady’s opinion. 😊

  • @glous6320

    @glous6320

    Жыл бұрын

    It's probably true Western/Chinese men are more similar than they are different but this lady hasn't dated any western men and I seriously doubt you've dated a man born in China.

  • @Drownedinblood

    @Drownedinblood

    Жыл бұрын

    Almost all these responses show me how people's perceptions can be warped and that Asia isn't racist enough. I didn't hear a single negative thing associated with western guys. It's almost all positive representation it seems. Meanwhile in the west, very different story for anyone non-white yet I bet you the western guys over there complain about "racism" when they don't get their way.

  • @safetydepartment

    @safetydepartment

    11 ай бұрын

    unfortunately for her she has not met this western man, because i am unlike any you could ever meet. you will never meet a man like me

  • @sqnhunter

    @sqnhunter

    9 ай бұрын

    Totally wrong. She is very into men doing all for her and paying her way...she is what western men call a user, and she was probably told that a few times. You forget...there was a girl toward the end that swore by western men and listed so many differences.... and SHE was the only one to actually date a westerner. I am a westerner and married to a Hispanic women...one with a top education...who will tell you there is not comparison between Asian and Hispanic men to western men! I also met more than a few Hispanic women that were users...you been told now, lol!

  • @px_gc8

    @px_gc8

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@safetydepartmentthat alone sounds desperate! 😅

  • @oscare.quiros6349
    @oscare.quiros6349 Жыл бұрын

    Ver direct, consistant and to the point. Interesting video.

  • @joeshmooo5327
    @joeshmooo5327 Жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel. Love the content

  • @abbytrapp8258
    @abbytrapp8258 Жыл бұрын

    Kaho! Excellent channel! Shanghai for 4 years from America. Keep up the great work. Hope to see you in Jing’an sometime!

  • @Snarge22
    @Snarge22 Жыл бұрын

    I was surprised at how consistent the Chinese women's answers were to your questions. Honest reality; everyone lives in their own fish bowel so to speak. You are an exception Kaho, but most people have their obligations of school, work, family, etc. So it's quite an effort to travel to a different society, and even more of a challenge to spend more than two weeks there. ...and there is the challenge of language as well. Always difficult. I am from the US and had the opportunity to work in Monterrey Mexico part time for one and a half years. I am also 6"7" tall with blue eyes. You can imagine the curiosity the local residents had in me! It was one of the best experiences in my life. Thanks for your video Kaho!

  • @Alvun416

    @Alvun416

    11 ай бұрын

    You people really love to toot your own horn

  • @derrrickmon9760

    @derrrickmon9760

    10 ай бұрын

    poor people

  • @spartanx169x

    @spartanx169x

    7 ай бұрын

    I've been to Asia 4 times. Asian women treat white guys like Rock stars.

  • @Snarge22

    @Snarge22

    7 ай бұрын

    Interesting@@spartanx169x. I think we all like the unusual and the uncommon. A nice change from our everyday lives.

  • @damienchristian8536
    @damienchristian8536 Жыл бұрын

    I'm living up to how I've always been been expressed, strong but slow, because I paused the video to read each subtitle! But it's great thanks.

  • @marvinlusk7303
    @marvinlusk7303 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this glimpse into Chinese viewpoints. I am impressed with their independent thinking.

  • @danielmeegan6259
    @danielmeegan62594 ай бұрын

    Great Thank you 😘🥰

  • @AngelaPanArt
    @AngelaPanArt Жыл бұрын

    Kaho! I watched your other videos and were surprised at how good your English is and wow you can speak mandarin so well too! :) Trilingual!

  • @alyciawang2892
    @alyciawang289211 ай бұрын

    Always thank you😊😊😊😊😊

  • @nihaomrzhang5286
    @nihaomrzhang5286 Жыл бұрын

    Keep it up! You earned a subscriber!

  • @TheRyno525
    @TheRyno5258 ай бұрын

    Chinese women are beautiful, women of every nationality is beautiful, but Asian women in general are stunning.

  • @andia968
    @andia968 Жыл бұрын

    NEXT,please Ask Chinese girls "What do you think of overseas chinese guys?"

  • @billfarley9167

    @billfarley9167

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice try Andi

  • @1june204

    @1june204

    Жыл бұрын

    Of course, it's jealousy🤣🤣

  • @1june204

    @1june204

    Жыл бұрын

    Of course, it's jealousy🤣🤣

  • @Fredman16

    @Fredman16

    Жыл бұрын

    Good question LOL

  • @Drownedinblood

    @Drownedinblood

    Жыл бұрын

    @@billfarley9167 LOL why are you offended? It's a legitimate question

  • @tameone
    @tameone Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if they change their names or go by nicknames, a lot of the names were very unique. I really liked that they are open to different cultures tho. I have traveled a lot, I lived in Europe for over 15 years before moving back to America and I am always so attracted to people with different cultures than mine. I def have more traveling to do

  • @Kahoschannel

    @Kahoschannel

    Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @chineseinternetmeme9277

    @chineseinternetmeme9277

    Жыл бұрын

    Basically are nicknames in video, Chinese usually do not use their real names on informal occasions.

  • @npcsenpai1185

    @npcsenpai1185

    9 ай бұрын

    I lived in China for some years and a lot of them(mostly young people) have their real Chinese name and an 'English' name.

  • @walterbenicio6408
    @walterbenicio6408 Жыл бұрын

    Good to know that! 😁🤗🙏

  • @Guildofarcanelore
    @Guildofarcanelore8 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed your interviews very much! It’s an excellent opportunity to practice my Chinese. I was a foreigner living in Nanjing but haven’t been back since Covid.

  • @wilkbor
    @wilkbor3 ай бұрын

    I listen to these videos to get a sense of how Chinese is spoken on the streets. I am just getting started, but I do recognize a few words as they speak. The content is also interesting.

  • @akiraralling5786
    @akiraralling5786 Жыл бұрын

    I came across your channel today and I'd like to say that you're doing a great videos. It's interesting to watch especially for me who learning English and Chinese at the same time. And also small wish for the next video - can u ask a foreigners what they think about dating with Chinese (advantages and disadvantages?) It'd be cool :)

  • @Look.Upward

    @Look.Upward

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi there, If you do not mind me sharing; a well-planned, organic, unrefined and untempered with vegan diet (consuming edible raw plant foods where possible so as not to denature or destroy the life-forces and enzymatic activities beneficial to the human system. If disagreeing on this matter, please try planting some steamed carrots and see if they will grow; if they fail to, it is because they are 'dead' plant food that cannot benefit one's 'living' cells) consisting of organic fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds and whole grains is the best diet to provide mankind with ultimate health and longevity. Concerned about protein? There are 'high protein' plant food sources e.g nuts and legumes, and from gathered information, too much protein can lead to kidney problems. Please note: processed meats are classified as carcinogenic to humans in Group 1, which is as bad as it can get, where as plant foods are classified as anti-cancer foods. Vegan diets cause anorexia? Although badly planned vegan diets can lead to anorexia, one actually needs plant food sources (starchy carbohydrates e.g organic potatoes) that help with weight gain. Please avoid factory produced meat alternatives whose chief ingredient can be 'soy' and may contain preservatives as well as additives (e.g vinegar, a corrosive agent). Food toxicity and nutrient deficiency (e.g white bread, white rice and white sugar) are a deadly combination as one is hindering the body's building materials needed to action healing whilst at the same time taxing the system with more toxic stuff, thus bringing about disease and possibly even an early death. Soon Fulfilled Prophecy: 1. Food shortage will lead to a civil war in America. 2. Climate change will lead to Sun-day laws. Helpful websites: 1. www.remnantofGOD.org 2. www.pluckedout.co.uk GOD Bless 💙💙💙

  • @kalasend
    @kalasend Жыл бұрын

    Wow Kaho's spoken Mandarin is soooo good

  • @dojocho1894
    @dojocho1894 Жыл бұрын

    In NYC where I work I see lots of asian women....I have dated Japanese girls when I was living there. chinese girls are very pretty and they dress very nice. When we see each other passing on the street many are shy but they smile and look you in the eyes...very sexy...sadly we can never meet for the language barrier.

  • @sara.cbc92
    @sara.cbc92 Жыл бұрын

    Good video. How's the Covid situation in Shanghai now? Hope everything is ok.

  • @epbrewtus1
    @epbrewtus1 Жыл бұрын

    Cool!!!

  • @understand___
    @understand___10 ай бұрын

    your english and chinese are amazing

  • @ashuaalaye
    @ashuaalaye Жыл бұрын

    good video! the intro music is a little loud though it's hard to hear you

  • @thomasangerole8766
    @thomasangerole8766 Жыл бұрын

    Love Aiko!

  • @breakpack
    @breakpack8 ай бұрын

    Cool interviews! People are people wherever you go. Our customs and languages may be different, but we are all humans together!

  • @ciwanechris1428
    @ciwanechris1428 Жыл бұрын

    Good video I watch it from Canada 😃👍

  • @durraaltai2669
    @durraaltai2669 Жыл бұрын

    You are so beautiful. Job well done. Love your attitude and being so natural.

  • @johngomes4278
    @johngomes42787 ай бұрын

    You are beautiful ❤️ and your topics are great 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @MoxieMike66
    @MoxieMike66 Жыл бұрын

    I've always found Asian women attractive. I met Rosalind Chao when I was 18, she was dating my cousin. She was really nice.

  • @alonzocato
    @alonzocato3 ай бұрын

    Black man here with my Amazing Asian Queen (profile picture) just wants to say,the first day we meet my Queen put my Heart on Lockdown as I Did hers and over the last two years now our Love and awesome Marriage has been the greatest thing to ever happen in my life time she makes me Fight back Real Tears due to her beauty and Caring for me everyday and in the same way I feel for her I’m now the Luckiest man on this planet having a Queen Like her in my Heart. Asian women are so Amazing and Awesome.

  • @daemeonation3018
    @daemeonation3018 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks. I am moving to Shanghai in August.

  • @jyde50
    @jyde50 Жыл бұрын

    perception from media VS reality are very different. that is why the one who studied in america was the one least interested in western guy, western people have done a good job promoting themselves on media till you actually live in western countries to see the reality

  • @mrjean9376
    @mrjean9376 Жыл бұрын

    Your channel is great!! But something need to fix, maybe you can turn the music volume down a little bit to make your own voice more clear

  • @Kahoschannel

    @Kahoschannel

    Жыл бұрын

    got it😌👌🏻

  • @maplematoke
    @maplematoke Жыл бұрын

    Chinese people seem nicer and less hostile compare to us Americans and other foreigners -- especially the ones from other Anglosphere countries .

  • @Alroofador
    @Alroofador Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating.

  • @simonkormendy849
    @simonkormendy849 Жыл бұрын

    One of my best friends happens to be from Hong Kong, she is really nice.

  • @Fredman16

    @Fredman16

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you and I was born in HK but Canadian citizen

  • @erb34
    @erb349 ай бұрын

    What a variety of opinions. It's interesting to hear what people have to say. But who knows their past and what they think.

  • @bikeanddogtrips
    @bikeanddogtrips9 ай бұрын

    I lived in China for several years in the very early 2000s in a few cities close to Wuhan. A lot of my students had grown up with the impression the all English guys were gentleman who walked around wearing a suit and hat - looking like Charlie Chaplin

  • @sana-cm7oc
    @sana-cm7oc Жыл бұрын

    The last girl was beautiful. Actually, all of them and the interviewer.

  • @ugurarslan9647
    @ugurarslan9647 Жыл бұрын

    Nice video , greetings from Turkey

  • @405Lenny
    @405Lenny Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting. I enjoyed the video! 👍👍🇺🇸

  • @markdecile213
    @markdecile213 Жыл бұрын

    Could you add Chinese subtitles too? It would help with my Chinese study !

  • @mitchellrainer6901
    @mitchellrainer6901 Жыл бұрын

    enjoyed the vid kaho, u are beautiful

  • @alexandrasmith7682
    @alexandrasmith7682 Жыл бұрын

    Good luck with your channel. I am so impressed - talented with all your languages and a very attractive young lady.

  • @tenpadharsang3414
    @tenpadharsang3414 Жыл бұрын

    I like the your street interviews. If you got time then will go to Tibet . Lhasa city .

  • @georgehorn5359
    @georgehorn53594 ай бұрын

    I am impressed that you are trilingual. I really enjoyed your video. I also think that you are very beautiful.

  • @sk8erboi82
    @sk8erboi822 ай бұрын

    Kaho, nice interview. I am learning Chinese. Any chance you can use Mandarin subtitles?

  • @eliassenpai9541
    @eliassenpai9541 Жыл бұрын

    Hey my name is Lian I am from Brazil I am very interested in this channel how the China have Incredibles people's as Japan, thanks for doing this.

  • @thealchemist9441
    @thealchemist9441 Жыл бұрын

    Aiko is definitely a catch!

  • @tk3828
    @tk3828 Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting video. Your intro and outro music is too loud tho

  • @sparecoochie4598
    @sparecoochie459810 ай бұрын

    2:57 was my favorite clip 👏🏾

  • @MajorCaliber
    @MajorCaliber3 ай бұрын

    Wow, 'Sunny' @2:31 is just supermodel *gorgeous* ... TINY nose, full lips, pronounced chin and jawline, and killer cheekbones!

  • @eileenhathaway1674
    @eileenhathaway16744 ай бұрын

    Very interesting video! If you won't be offended, Please turn down the music in the intro. I could not hear what you were saying very well over it. Good luck with this channel!

  • @dakaodo
    @dakaodo Жыл бұрын

    Great range of interviews! I found it notable that the one black-dressed woman who mentioned she had studied in the US had an understandably more grounded view of Western/American men. Several of the others seemed to be showing signs of (understandable) perception bias based on their social/news media consumption of Western male impressions. [Most of what I describe below is generalizations based on my own experiences or observations of others, not indicative of the full range and variety of both good and bad people, Western, American, Chinese, or otherwise Asian] Westerners can consider Chinese or Asian men to be less macho, assertive, or manly, but the flipside is that Westerners, women in particular, can sometimes find Asian men to be more considerate or attentive. This can stem from social values where relative to Americans Asians tend to prioritize collectivist action for the sake of their family/community/group, rather than to self-promote at the expense of others or making a noisy scene. Family-wise, Asians can respect their parents, elders, and/or female relatives, and this carries into their own adult personal relationships. Obviously, this is very much a generalization, and individually there are many Asians who do and do not respect others, as well as Westerners who do and do not. In the US at least, women in the dating scene can get jaded and burned out (embittered) by too much exposure to brash, loud men who act and talk big but never follow through. Call those guys players, douchebags, whatever. I realize this is not limited to Americans, of course. That's just what we call them here. There are a LOT of normal, everyday Americans who I would not consider to be particularly open-minded. Perhaps more open-minded than the extreme end of chauvinist Asian/Chinese men (b/c I've heard of some really 1950s-level power tripping and abusive relationships that I hope are more outlier than the norm in Chinese dating culture), but I couldn't say without specific examples to consider. Sinophobia is very much a thing, and a somewhat complex topic in the US. On social media, I feel a lot of the general sinophobia is, as with many other sociopolitical issues, a matter of people with little to no real personal experience projecting the macro political issues between the US govt and the Chinese govt onto individuals undeservingly. The wronged individual then feels the injustice of receiving unwarranted prejudiced behavior, which potentially creates counter ill will. This has been a social/sociopolitical issue regarding Chinese students in the US. Some cases of genuine Chinese political interference and industrial espionage have occurred, and certainly must be addressed in and of themselves -- I'd go as far to say the US has visibly done far less to meaningfully tackle this threat to sovereignty than Australia has. The news has been heavily played up in US news media, causing wider distrust and increased yet ineffectual and pointlessly harmful sinophobia. Similar with the US sinophobic treatment of COVID. China is not innocent, though, with its heavy-handed treatment and coverups of the initial outbreak reporting and investigations, all due to a need to save political face (and I definitely have to admit that I have a Western bias on this since I can only read at best non-US English news, e.g. from Europe, India, and English sources in Asia). This has disillusioned some Chinese students and workers who are caught up in this anti-Chinese US sentiment despite being personally sincere and innocent in their genuine pursuit of work and study abroad. The same characteristics of a person or cultural group can be seen as either good or bad, depending on its extreme expressions, the particular individual in question, etc. Open-mindedness, for example, can go both ways. I'm biased towards being a socially progressive and economically moderate person. Very rarely an outright activist, but sometimes a minor contributor to charitable or activist groups that resonate with me in their stance and methodology. But my Chinese ex-GF (who was more cosmopolitan and artsy than me by a lot) usually considered me to be tiresome if I even briefly mentioned a conversation topic about any related news or current events. She and I similarly had a range of social circles, including various cultural, ethnic, orientation groups. But the larger social issue landscape was actively a turn-off for her, while it interested me enough to at least follow the news occasionally. I didn't mind deprioritizing these topics when I was with her, b/c I had other friends and outlets to indulge my interest. It was interesting to note that I had some friends who were far more invested, and sometimes called me part of the silent, moderate majority that passively condones the status quo. Contrast that with my ex-GF, who thought that I was far too caught up in irrelevant macro social issues. The seemingly tiny yet sometimes surprisingly impactful nuances of this example replayed themselves in many other little differences between Chinese and American culture. The majority of American guys prefer a level of dress that is perhaps far more casual (even unacceptably so) than cosmopolitan Chinese men or women might approve of in public. In the wrong mood, this American/Western preference for natural appearance, comfort, or practicality can be seen by Asians as sloppy, lazy, or rudely ignorant, unmindful of the reputation of the woman you're seen in public with. The language and culture obstacles can be big things, but also many little things. I personally enjoy a very casual, indie, journalistic kind of candid photography if I take pictures of people. I like to capture spontaneous smiles, laughter, motions, and activities. My ex-GF was somewhat aghast at this, and I horrified her when I would catch her in moments where she wasn't prepared to smile a specific way for the camera -- even if she wasn't looking at the camera. She'd insist that I delete the "unflattering" picture and retake it with a staged shot that I, in turn, considered pretty (understandably prettier than the candid shots) but artificial and somewhat lacking in the spirit of the genuine moment. Neither of us were wrong, but our preferences clearly clashed. There were also purely relationship expectations that I failed to grasp initially. I was completely oblivious to Qixi, the double-seven Chinese equivalent of Valentine's Day. And the scope of dating expectations on relationship romantic holidays or anniversaries. A casual night staying in or staycation is sometimes emphatically NOT acceptable for these big days. In the same vein that Western guys might prefer to split the bill on a date, some guys might consider these anniversaries to be arbitrary, socially contrived constructs without personal value -- and that could be taken very badly by a partner who has grown up invested in these anniversaries. Asians and Westerners may also have differences in personal space. With American women I dated, they usually wanted more personal time and space to do their own activities or spend time with other friends. With the one Chinese woman I dated, I found that she generally considered me to not spend enough time with her -- I was usually the one who felt the need to ask for some separate personal time. Personally, as a bicultural non-Chinese Asian-American, I found it hard enough to bridge cultural gaps to a more strongly Chinese partner. I had thought myself to be somewhat cosmopolitan, educated, or open-minded. And I repeatedly learned the lesson that there were many unexpected ways I was not; some I had been aware of peripherally but did not realize the full scale, and others I was completely unaware of previously. I belatedly apologize for this huge text dump. I hadn't thought about these things for years, so thank you for making this video that provoked these thoughts. And thanks to whomever had the patience to endure my combination rant/introspection. :)

  • @maximkretsch7134

    @maximkretsch7134

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't you think that sinophobia as you perceive it in the media has more to do with the fact that their success is the undesired proof that there is no such thing as "racism" which stops ethnic or race minorities from climbing up the ladder? In Germany it is the Turks and Arabs who beat up or kill Vietnamese business owners, in the US it is the Blacks who do the same to East Asians.

  • @Greenforrest7342

    @Greenforrest7342

    Жыл бұрын

    You have written your opinion in detail from your own point of view. That's great, but it's so long-winded that few people will read it.

  • @dakaodo

    @dakaodo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Greenforrest7342 I'm quite aware that I'm long-winded. :) It's the Internet. Everyone is welcome to completely ignore what I say, just as I can write whatever I want. :D There's no obligation one way or another. I mostly write these as a way of processing my own thoughts, so it doesn't matter if anyone else ever reads my comments. I just appreciate that the video provoked these thoughts and gave me a reason to think about something I otherwise would not have! 👍

  • @collinlinebaugh9817

    @collinlinebaugh9817

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro. I want to read it. Your thoughts are like a gateway…. To heaven!

  • @wilsonedwards5016

    @wilsonedwards5016

    Жыл бұрын

    spot on. As a Chinese women i also had similar study abroad experience like her. I just realised when i was younger like under 20 how i was brainwashed by media i consumed since i started date men outside of my race. Men everywhere are the same, good ones and douchebags lol

  • @sumireravenclaw8034
    @sumireravenclaw8034 Жыл бұрын

    The girl with blue hair Chengzi. she's so beautiful omg!

  • @robertschultz9623

    @robertschultz9623

    Жыл бұрын

    Really? I like Reina

  • @robertoortiz447
    @robertoortiz447 Жыл бұрын

    MexiCan here with a girl from Shanghai, my girl very open minded n kind very feminine

  • @ewlyon
    @ewlyon Жыл бұрын

    Good video but the frequency of the video cuts between question and answer was distracting

  • @voyzorneeden4453
    @voyzorneeden4453 Жыл бұрын

    I love you, Kaho

  • @Fredman16

    @Fredman16

    Жыл бұрын

    Arigato!!!

  • @werthersoriginal
    @werthersoriginal Жыл бұрын

    3:23 "I'm Soda"... BASED AF name! 🤣

  • @petyrsnow9179
    @petyrsnow9179 Жыл бұрын

    tip: You video background music too big😀

  • @Kahoschannel

    @Kahoschannel

    Жыл бұрын

    I will improve that, thank you!

  • @elllllllle939
    @elllllllle939 Жыл бұрын

    You speak really good Chinese language, very impressive! I wish I could speak Japanese too. But it’s just so hard to learn a new language.

  • @user-cb7os8ot9c

    @user-cb7os8ot9c

    Жыл бұрын

    Her accent is just perfect. I guess she's been living in China for a long time. I'm also learning Japanese, it's quite difficult, you need to redouble your efforts.

  • @ralfrumpolt3119
    @ralfrumpolt3119 Жыл бұрын

    我想这些女孩已经看了太多的好莱坞电影。

  • @imliterallycrying

    @imliterallycrying

    Жыл бұрын

    哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈笑死

  • @thomasmatzen7400
    @thomasmatzen74002 ай бұрын

    Witziges Video from Germany Hamburg 😊

  • @adrianfewster8391
    @adrianfewster83916 ай бұрын

    Mix your voice at a higher volume than the background sound.

  • @haroldhprittjr7007
    @haroldhprittjr7007 Жыл бұрын

    I like xixi she’s pretty she seems a little shy but I like that ! They all seem very nice I’ve always liked Chinese food! I think that Japanese women are very beautiful and no I’ve never dated any . It seemed complicated to maybe ask traditions are different I know there are very cultural beliefs they have . I was always afraid they would say they could not talk to me or get close because they were not allowed. I remember getting a Chinese food waitress to ask me if my daughter and her cousin were both my girl friends they were like 16-17 years old. Maybe I should have ask for her number? Idk but maybe one day.

  • @davidcadman4468
    @davidcadman44686 ай бұрын

    Nov 30th 2023: This came in my recommends, and because I have been interested in China for the past 3-4 years, if not longer, I clicked on it. I have been watching videos regarding Filipinas for dating, and to find a channel for Chinese women is wonderful. To be clear the possibility of dating a Chinese woman is as remote as me travelling to Mars. Of the women I found Zicky to be the type I would prefer to have a relationship with. The others appear to be more modern in outlook. A more traditional woman would appeal to me. Knowing a bit about some of your culture, history, my heart would gravitate towards someone from the Suburbs or Rural. She would be more attuned to my background, regardless of the cultural differences. I have met a few over here in Canada, the last one being a Muslim Uyghur girl from Xinjian Province. We spoke for 5-10 minutes, having met quite by accident while out walking. She impressed me with her openness and caring attitudes. Having been in Canada from Feb 14 to Nov 23, she hadn't been spoilt by the contact with modern Western women, even though her English was better than mine 😅

  • @richardmorley4223
    @richardmorley4223 Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @damienwood1414
    @damienwood14147 ай бұрын

    I like what I see here. Never dated a Chinese or Japanese girl but definitely would.

  • @double_joseph327
    @double_joseph3272 күн бұрын

    I met a Chinese girl on vacation in Thailand. She was beautiful. We talked for months but then she told me her family would not approve of me because I was a ‘foreigner’. Pretty sad

  • @unifieddynasty
    @unifieddynasty Жыл бұрын

    It does make sense since the westerners in China today need to have post-secondary professional education in order to remain in China. I think it's a very similar phenomenon as immigrants from China or India to America generally being high income earner professionals, thereby causing the Asian American demographic to be the highest income earners in America. In the same way that Asian Americans are generally stereotyped as being smart and hardworking and law-abiding on account of their careers, it would also make sense for westerners in China today to be stereotyped as professional and outgoing and openminded in China on account of the careers they likely have in China and the fact that they decided to travel to China. Overall, I am a proponent of believing that we are all human, and we are all much more alike than different.

  • @joeblack888
    @joeblack88810 ай бұрын

    没想到Kaho的中文和英文说得都超级棒啊。

  • @randymalispina9110
    @randymalispina911025 күн бұрын

    I met my wife in China 17 years ago, and we are still happily married. With all of the political stuff, it took me 16 months to bring her to America legally. Chinese women are family oriented.

  • @Rkenton48
    @Rkenton484 ай бұрын

    I foresee many men signing up to learn the various Chinese languages.

  • @Murph_.
    @Murph_.6 ай бұрын

    From my experience, Shanghai in the north, and Guangzhou, Shenzhen, and Hong Kong have a lot more interaction with foreigners than many other cities, so they are more amenable to dating foreigners. i've been to Zhangjiajie National Forest Park, Lijiang, Jiuzhai National Park, and the Ice Festival in Harbin. All these are not places where many foreigners are seen, and they are often afraid of foreigners. I will admit that many Chinese would come up to me just to practice their English with me, but if they were female and I showed interest they almost ran away.

  • @simonkormendy849
    @simonkormendy849 Жыл бұрын

    I find that Asian girls are pretty cute looking, including Kaho she's very cute looking.

  • @neko-fin

    @neko-fin

    Жыл бұрын

    In my opinion, East Asian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world. I have liked them for as long as I can remember. The most beautiful thing is the eyes, they can be so breathtakingly beautiful, it's hard not to stare at them. They often also have a beautiful nose and attractive lips (thank God they don't stuff their lips unnaturally like some Americans do). Just look at the side of an Asian woman's face, and then see how beautiful their lips already are: no need to fill in the lips with anything. And Asian women are feminine, unlike many Western women. And they have fewer tattoos. As a European, I find so much good in Asian women. I'm most interested in the Japanese, because I've had a relationship with a Japanese woman, and all my admiration was confirmed. And I've studied the Japanese language, the culture, for years. I love Japanese women. But when it comes to looks, Chinese and Korean women are beautiful too (really, for example, Korean and Japanese are hard to tell apart, maybe by the way they dress). There's something about those eyes and the structure of the face 😍

  • @Yangpeiling-de-zhangfu

    @Yangpeiling-de-zhangfu

    Жыл бұрын

    @@neko-fin where are you from? Indonesia?

  • @steviegoy8830

    @steviegoy8830

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Yangpeiling-de-zhangfu where are you from?

  • @filipesugden1982

    @filipesugden1982

    10 ай бұрын

    @@steviegoy8830 where are you from?

  • @daveskelton7101
    @daveskelton7101 Жыл бұрын

    Please make the music louder I can still hear you

  • @achiteivasile3292
    @achiteivasile3292Күн бұрын

    I want to date I Chinese girl but I don’t know which app they use if you can recommend to me something I will appreciate a lot. And this is a great video

  • @lnesland
    @lnesland8 ай бұрын

    Great women in china. They all look beautiful 🙂

  • @rommelb.8070
    @rommelb.8070 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Kaho 😃

  • @rasga6598
    @rasga6598 Жыл бұрын

    Where is this filmed, Shanghai ?

  • @abidiarief9685
    @abidiarief96858 ай бұрын

    Hello nice to meet you i, m from bali

  • @mikeornellas3562
    @mikeornellas3562 Жыл бұрын

    So the moral of the interview is that people are people. The will be open minded to a good person and culture is less important for the most part. The big factor is the language barrier. If you can't communicate, there is not much hope for a long term relationship.

  • @rabbitazteca23

    @rabbitazteca23

    7 ай бұрын

    Also note that Shanghai is a metropolitan. In more rural areas, thoughts and opinions may vary compared to what you see here

  • @PiotrPiotr-ho9lh
    @PiotrPiotr-ho9lhАй бұрын

    Hi Kaho do you maybe be in Poland or you have friends from Poland ?

  • @4855143
    @48551438 ай бұрын

    where did you learn English, Kaho? Your english is perfect

  • @stlouisix3
    @stlouisix39 ай бұрын

    Impressive. I've never heard an ethnically Japanese lady who can speak Putonghua as well as you, Kaho.

  • @frankpfau9054
    @frankpfau9054 Жыл бұрын

    beautiful people with good and smart answers… it’s very impressive how china has changed over the last 40 years… (fashion, style, architecture, technology etc)

  • @marimo66666

    @marimo66666

    Жыл бұрын

    imagine a world where everyone is mixed blood there would be little to no racial difference any two person. i guess it starts from being more open to possibilities/embracing changes

  • @frankpfau9054

    @frankpfau9054

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marimo66666 why should i imagine this? i grow up with 3 different cultures, speaking 5 languages, there exist a certain beauty in local traditions, you understand more about the history and this has nothing to do with racism… this said…i visited china 1997 (my former teacher was there in 1980) the evolution of china is truly remarkable… (similar to dubai but infinite bigger)…

  • @JaggedMercenary

    @JaggedMercenary

    8 ай бұрын

    @@marimo66666 Eeeeeew dude, what??? People are beautiful when they're NOT mixed. Let people preserve their races, thank you.

  • @kahocheung935
    @kahocheung93510 ай бұрын

    Hello Kaho, my name is also Kaho.

  • @nickkrug8157
    @nickkrug8157 Жыл бұрын

    CAN YOU TURN DOW THE MUSIC PLEASE ??

  • @irvinetustin
    @irvinetustin2 ай бұрын

    As a black man who would love to date an Asian woman, it was encouraging hearing the woman at 3:50 say she likes black men :-). I need to take a trip to Asia!

  • @Minceontoast2

    @Minceontoast2

    Ай бұрын

    Yea man Alot of them seem to always talk about “tall pale white blonde blue eyed” men From hollywood but once in a while you will get one who likes tanned or black skin

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